LADIES, DO NOT BE DESPERATE! (2020 ENERGY)

[@likklec2]

Girl you just helped me block this dude that’s been giving me less than I deserve. Thank you, next

[@funnygirlever]

💝

[@Fromdarknessintothelight]

You go Dom. 👍👍💪💪

[@likklec2]

KaribadariLove Yang 💜

[@likklec2]

Edwina Barry hehe thanks!!💜

[@AuthorJanaeMarie]

Yes. I am tired of being treated less than I deserve.

[@sweetsavory4172]

"We settle because we fear that nothing better will come along" That spoke to me.

[@florencemouitynzamba7939]

Same, here -_-

[@florencemouitynzamba7939]

@Doven Ro Galus I was actually answering the previous comment...

[@florencemouitynzamba7939]

@Doven Ro Galus taking oneself more seriously, I guess... Still thinking about it..

[@amasion2882]

My thoughts: 1). ALL relationships involve some level of negotiation and compromise. We all have our imagined ideal mate. A real life person can’t match our idealization. In brief, we ALL “settle” for someone who is a good match but still not our illusory ideal. 2). Fearing “nothing better will come along:” No matter how much you and your spouse love and respect each other, or how great a life you build together, there’s ALWAYS “someone better” SOMEWHERE. Handsomer, healthier, richer, better career or social connections, better body, better in bed, smarter, higher intelligence...Think of any quality or attribute you value in a man. Someone somewhere has more or is better in some way. Same applies to you. No matter how young, beautiful, talented, educated, creative, professionally successful or domestically accomplished you are, there’s “better” out there. Somewhere. No point in fearing that. 3). There’s a huge difference between “settling well” and “settling poorly.” Settling well involves thorough soul searching and honesty with oneself. Is a suitor a close match for your most essential relationship needs WITHOUT being a deficit in any of them? Do you honestly believe you could “do better” without sacrificing some of his good qualities? Is he attractive to you intellectually, emotionally and physically? Is he equally or more attracted to you? “Settling poorly” involves accepting a suitor you objectively see as “good” but you don’t know and understand your own needs well enough to determine if you’re “good together.” You might believe you want/expect “too much” so you settle with someone who brings little or nothing to your life OR possibly brings negativity or harm (abuse, exploitation), calling yourself “being realistic.” “Settling poorly” could also mean accepting a suitor who offers little or nothing good or beneficial into your life. These are relationships where people really DON’T want what’s offered, but they accept under duress (fear of not finding a good match, fear of growing old and alone, guilt or obligation related to friends or family pressure, etc.). The settler accepts, hopes for the best, and is usually dissatisfied. NOONE wants or deserves this kind of relationship. 4). Being “well settled” has a different definition and criteria for everyone. Be unflinchingly honest to yourself about where you will compromise and where you won’t.

[@belovedlovedbyall7735]

Indeed! Sis indeed. 🙋🏻🕊🙏🏻💎

[@iSketchRandom]

Don't know if you've addressed this in the video but don't be desperate when it comes to friends either! learned that the hard way.

[@ashinzevictoria5939]

Thanks

[@StephJ0seph]

When it comes to the people that you let in your life, be choosy of the people you decide to give your energy to.

[@jas2beinspired146]

Learning this!!!

[@sineshabalala6249]

Learning this!

[@meusepierre8501]

Facts, I am learning that I am 37 thanks for putting that out there

[@MatildaZuria]

*KNOW YOUR WORTH, THEN ADD TAX!!!*

[@mchelseanicholeu]

That statement made me subscribe to beeny.. I love her words

[@nekia2much]

#breenysaidit I love that quote from her.

[@clubgel]

this is based on the premise you have worth, not just because you're a woman. If you had so much worth, do you think you'd be worrying about settling for less, you'd have the top 10% of males locking you down already. People ego makes them think they entitled to top 10%, when nothing about them is top 10%. Complete lack of self-awareness.

[@aortatm6971]

Quote of the week yes

[@s.fumbanksjr5066]

LOL!!!!

[@erikaa1111]

people are making Permanent decisions based on temporary emotions

[@Kescy.]

Good one

[@chocolategoddess4056]

Erika Altamirano love this

[@hotjupiter6445]

This spoke to me. Thanks.

[@koka5077]

Indeed

[@monicasyoutubechannel3225]

yes truth

[@lukegenesis]

"Dating = Data Collection" I VIBE WITH THIS!

[@itsesmy2629]

"Asking for what you want and refusing what you don't want is not rude, it is your right" Wow, I needed to hear that sis

[@thandithevlogger794]

Jessie a lot of us put up with a lot of shit because we’re afraid of coming across as rude and hurting someone else’s feelings but in the end, we get hurt.

[@LaylaMariposa]

"Fear believes in scarcity, faith believes in abundance" DAAAYYYUUUMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

[@VeganintheMatrix]

""Young choices become adults problems. The devil's plan every day is for you to sell your future to buy your present." That was fire.

[@tenacious-e3o]

I read that as it happened.

[@halimaa2627]

wow.

[@nikkinikki3001]

What you ALLOW, will always continue. Love yourself first.

[@cherryberry6006]

Yes, be a typical self absorbed.......

[@tshiamomoahloli9991]

Damn sis. You just literally changed my life. I needed to hear this.... Similar to the quote that says 'be as picky with your men as you are with your selfies'

[@sadeo4690]

Tshiamo Moahloli I love this!!!

[@randomviews59]

I’m here for the advice but her cheekbones are😍😍😍

[@Driveright698]

Right 😍😍😍😍😍

[@thesocialintrovertchronicles]

💯🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@summerdior459]

Yours can be too just use make up like she did Its👏🏾that👏🏾 simple👏🏾💄

[@briannabogans4608]

Yeah.. those are natural.. her makeup just accentuates them. She’s gorgeous

[@meeppeep4113]

Everything about her is fake

[@olivehiggo]

"you will get in life, what you accept in life" "never settle for less because you refuse to ask for more" I think a lot of people need this. Thank you for a great video!

[@AnaMaria-jl8cw]

"Mind your business,I'm doing interviews" HAHAHAHA

[@dajuanad6807]

MOOD lmaoo

[@thexxit]

THIS NEEDS TO BE TAUGHT IN SCHOOLS!

[@Iamkeramone]

I think young women (myself included) shy away from "rocking the boat" because of the messages we've received about what it means to be a "desirable" woman. All women want to feel wanted, it's natural. But out of fear of being unwanted we conform and compromise more than our male counterparts (and I willing to argue more than any other species of female). I asked for a salary raise for the first time before accepting a job, and I was so shocked at how easy it was and how willing my company was to give me what I asked for. PEOPLE WILL NEVER GIVE YOU MORE THAN WHAT YOU DEMAND!

[@Machelle3200]

Congrats! If people can get away with getting more out of you for less, they will..Especially us black women!Happy New Year!

[@hollygamble15]

Ask, and you shall receive 🙌

[@elibaretta]

I will listen to this everyday ;)

[@starsighting7167]

you made me feel comfortable being single

[@lyriccamacho1212]

Whenever I feel like I’m not living my best I know it’s Breeny time.☕️

[@favourm7298]

That's me right there.When I feel a bit off I just want to hear her speak

[@irynazaporozhets4702]

Exactly 😂

[@coolskunk6186]

Sameeee

[@TM-se5jf]

People especially women have a misconception about dating. As you rightly state dating is about data collection!!! It's about deciding if this person will enhance your life, compliment it or it's not right but these days dating is about having sex and hoping for the best!! We have to get it right!! God makes no mistake!!

[@Atlanta718]

I agree with you Tracey. Dating is data collection to determine if we can make a lifetime commitment while enhance each others life.

[@naimalee1046]

VERY TRUE😑💯

[@juneplease3648]

My standards for 2019 and futur in a man: - he has to be faithful and loyal - ambitious - a responsible human being -financially stable - emotionally stable, -Intelligent and well spoken, - Committed to our relationship, - Respectable and respectful - and there has to be some type of chemistry between us. I will not settle for anything less, I am ready to be as patient as needed. If I had to settle for something, it would be looks. Btw I will also cleanse my friendships for 2019, some people got to go. Thank you very much Breeny, I am not a Christian but your faith in God is very refreshing and inspiring.

[@markwhittaker6866]

Stephen Henesian PREACH BROTHER. You beat me to the punch. Let's see if the list is as long.

[@marymulanhull7135]

Expect nothing that way u won’t be disappointed

[@boo-rv8zu]

Mary Mulan Hull Not wise

[@boo-rv8zu]

Stephen Henesian Not your damn Business

[@DecentxR]

"if I settle I will settle for looks" There goes everything in Da ditch

[@japeriawilliams4470]

FEAR believes in SCARCITY, FAITH in ABUNDANCE. ISSA WORDDDD!!!!!

[@Somewherreonearth]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@PHDinMeTV]

“You get in life what you accept!” Good stuff! Thanks for sharing 🌸

[@PHDinMeTV]

Simone B. Right 😁. Be well beautiful 🌸

[@MerabZukhbaia]

Ya, or nothing

[@isabella7814]

I just broke up with my boyfriend and he doesn‘t care at all while i‘m suffering and crying like a Baby for days because I honestly miss him. Now I watched three videos of you and even if I don‘t know if you‘re gonna read this, I‘m speechless because of you. I‘m feeling so much better since I started believing I deserve better - and that‘s because of you. You already helped me so much to get over my teenie love relationship. Thank you!😭❤️ (and sorry if my english is bad - I‘m from Germany)

[@nekia2much]

Isabella 781 I am so proud of you. Continue to put you first. And don’t go back. I can’t say don’t look back because I look back sometimes and I’ve been separated from my ex for 6 months. I can guarantee you that he hasn’t changed.

[@BreenyLee]

Lots of love girl! Stay strong xx

[@isabella7814]

@Tangie S i‘m crying !! 😭 thank you.. It‘s just hard to accept that a person can end everything and go on living their life while you are there still crying about them.. But I guess time heals our wounds..

[@isabella7814]

Breeny Lee omg !!😭 thank you so much !❤️

[@ms.camillewarrenempress31]

Congrats

[@IK-ei3nu]

To all my ladies in the comments, may this year be the year where things turn around for you! ♥️ Confidence! 💕💕

[@calliamilliner5793]

Thank you & likewise queen 👑

[@wifeyruntings]

Thank you! I receive it God! God bless you 🙏!

[@yourstrulydenise7272]

Amen

[@Melly16yr10]

Thanks 😄

[@HistoryHighwithLisaMarrie]

I shared with my daughters. Sadly, I have been a poor example for them but I'm fixing that now.

[@leilani5717]

thelmarrie was never too late to improve ❤️

[@Mm-jv4el]

they are lucky to have you ♥️

[@seashell1865]

Me too girl

[@marleneguest934]

Lisa Forbes ❤️

[@TheSweetdst]

My daughter just sat me down and reveled some things and I too feel the same. Helped me immediately end a 10 year off and on again situation. New beginnings.

[@AriaPringle9053]

I'm levelling up for 2019, hun!!!!!!

[@kobe88us]

Aria Pringle lol

[@clubgel]

just like you did in 2018

[@lorinmack2481]

So many gems 💎 “Young choices become adult problems” “Selling your future to buy your present.” Such wisdom! You are stunning.

[@Diamond9ice]

Never had a bf before, and I’m still not gonna lower my standards or settle for less until I get what I need/want from a man. My man is out there, I just haven’t met him yet. Patience is 🔑.

[@digthewarmth]

*Patience. but yea, thumbs up.

[@Diamond9ice]

digthewarmth lol thanks I didn’t even notice I spelt it wrong😅

[@earthangel6858]

It requires a balance..can't be too strict or too lax...

[@Hhej927]

Love seeing black confident celibates coming forward on youtube

[@sophisticatedmm3632]

2 years of celibacy for me

[@andreablassingame5415]

Fear believes in scarcity...faith believes in abundance. Thank you for this.

Omg you should do podcasts!!! I would listen to them all day everyday!!

[@m4y4r4]

Totally

[@isnotarat]

i agree!!

[@heatherillo]

Agreed!!

[@adelolaadebo5868]

yes to this!

[@mahecrochet]

yess!!

[@ragazzasolare77]

Crazy timing on this video. I've been celibate and not dating for over two years. I'm starting to feel ready to date again. I know my single season isn't for life. I don't want to settle. I also don't want to be alone at 80 years old. I know God has a greater plan for me. I just need to take the step of faith.

[@oalatishe]

Your Solar Girl yes continue to wait on him. He NEVER disappointments. The journey isn’t easy and you will definitely be tested but continue to trust in God.

[@SendyHer]

Your Solar Girl Good Luck on your journey because if you have faith God will deliver!

[@stephaniestephanie4545]

What is wrong with being alone at 80......

[@suziandchopstix]

2024 and I’m still here coming back every so often. This video is TIMELESS. This is the stuff some of ladies don’t know until we go through pain and have to hear this out loud. Thank you Breeny, you help out more than you think. ❤

[@evadalouchie]

Men who say don’t date multiple men are afraid that they are not good enough, and not fit to compete, it is a mans inherit desire to compete and show.....’show’ he is the best contender. Even in nature the men compete google male compete for female.

[@clubgel]

no, nobody wants someone whose been around the block

[@mmaeyen]

So true.

[@tiaraaiken7994]

Brandon Reynolds Although I personally don’t see myself dating multiple people at the same time, dating multiple people doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve “been around the block”. Dating doesn’t always imply having sex.

[@evadalouchie]

His reply is exactly what I’m talking about fear wrapped in different words, everyone you deal with has been around the block, including yourself, unless you are or they are a virgin. This is the tactics used by men who have no compete, and typically nothing to offer, to a real man they could care less who you have been with in the past again using common sense unless both are virgins you have had another sex partner. The key is to leave those who feel like mr Brandon alone. Walk away there is no need to convince them, they need no convincing they desire control. GOOD BY. Dating is great, you need to know who you are dealing with with no expectations and I say no sex at all do not have sex while dating because sex is a mind things, you do not have to know ‘how he is or she is down there’ because love and sex being perceived as amazing is all in your mind. Good day lovely people.

[@jalh1197]

Even tho this is sooo true. im a girl who vant keep up with multiple men 😂😂

[@wanbanedilette350]

Thank you girl I am leveling up and adding tax, I am loving me, I am knowing my worth, I am knowing my value, I am being choosy and picky, That is the new 2019 me.

[@Anna-fi9ex]

I was crying over a guy i like not answering my texts and then i remembered your videos, watched this, cleaned my room, wrote some good qualities about myself and deleted him on my snapchat. Thank you so much for making people feel empowered, i just wanna hug you, you are so wonderful❤️

[@nallelysantiago2839]

Same here..😞😞😥

[@Anna-fi9ex]

Nallely Santiago hope things are good for you💞

[@pusanggala1901]

Breeny's videos helped me recover.

[@user-fr1nv6nz8u]

I feel like I have to pause every two seconds bc everything she says is so meaningful and thought-provoking. PREACH!

[@sassysid100]

Spot on! I stayed with a covert narcissist for 2yrs out of fear i wouldn’t meet anyone else. Oh lord! I paid the price, that man almost killed me. I lost so much weight and all my hair fell out. The guy was beyond crazy and demonic. Ladies peace of mind is worth so much, don’t part with it for a crap relationship it’s not worth it.

[@BlessedByHisGrace7]

sassysid100 same here girl, same here. Y’all better listen !

[@suzecruze8053]

i had the exact same issue... nevermind my hair falling out he ripped it out for me and acted like he aint did nothing.... narcissism is serious and if you think hell change you’re kidding yourself. they also have their eyes out for women who are empathetic and loving in nature usually those who are looking to fill that Godly void with a boyfriend... if that description fits you the narcissist can spot you from a mile away and will come for you just to ruin your life and have you second guessing everything. i wasted 3.5 years ill never get back and the deception was so real 2 years later it still has me second guessing myself.

[@suzecruze8053]

funny thing is i bumped into my ex and his new girl two weeks ago while fasting and he nearly punched me in the face in public..... i was like ok. on to Jesus now. 👋

[@BlessedByHisGrace7]

😳😳😳

[@sassysid100]

SUZE CRUZE you must be a very strong woman, because the more of a fighter you are the more severe the abuse. I’m glad you’re free👏🏾 it took a year and half to get over the first narc then I walk straight into the arms of another. Only I was prepared and started to love and value myself. After four months he started to let his mask slip and when I questioned it he went on this long silent treatment😂that was my chance to run, never looked back. It’s been two months and he’s still driving by my place of work, hopefully he go away soon. Love yourselves ladies! It’s the only to beat them at their insidious demonic games.

[@ahjortegaard]

"Never settle for less because you refused to ask for more". That one hit me! Thank you for another great pepp talk! 🙏 So happy I found your channel 😊

[@wrightljac]

The level up video changed my life. Thank you, it’s like those words were anointed by God. I subscribed & shared it w/ my sisters, friends, NIECES, & Facebook. This is your calling sister. Oh & I’ve been married for 20 years. Thank you thank you thank you. You should write a book.

[@yasminjaime9092]

Estella Grace yes I agree I’d be the first person to buy it

[@wrightljac]

Princess Virtue I’ve been sharing it w/ EVERYONE. Especially my teenage & college age nieces.

[@_opoku_]

Estella Grace No fr, Idk what it was but she put me in my place and changed my life at the same time. 😩

[@marcusgarvey7695]

@ Estelle Grace : You sound exited like one of R. Kelly ladies trapped in his dictatorial lifestyle but now after listening to this lady you've finally kind of gotten an antidote to motivate yourself to file for your innevitable oncoming divorce. Good luck and success ! 👌☝👇

[@baldinki]

As a boy becoming a man, (I am watching this video for the 3rd time) learning your value as a person is critical to what we need for our youth today. The culture of masculinity in my community is toxic and males are always are looking for ways to validate ourselves. Ladies often are placed in the middle of this mental battlefield and get hit in the crossfire. I cannot express enough, how grateful I am as a male, that you are teaching ladies to avoid guys who aren't ready for a woman or even a relationship. I would like to say, a huge problem we have as males is that most of us have overprotective homeboys, who constantly give biased advice from their own personal experiences with the women they were hurt by (this plants a seed of distrust with women). When women recognize how to identify men who don't respect them and learn their worth plus tax, I can convince more boys to push themselves to become Men, because as of now I preach to deaf ears within my community. May God Bless you!

[@aaliyahjackson9734]

Very well said!

[@raheemcamal998]

Don't be a simp

[@nurarich4945]

raheem camal you’re the simp ,I can’t believe you got 2 likes probably from other simp like you

[@raheemcamal998]

@@nurarich4945 how so?

[@snowflakesfall6891]

I don’t get why you’re bagging on men so much, women do the exact same thing. Everyone’s friends are biased, as a person can only give advice based on their experience. And also, it’s not like women aren’t searching for validation because let me tell you of course we are! Every person looks to be validated in some way or another. I think the problem today isn’t that men are toxic, it’s most people are toxic. Remember, masculinity is a trait that women possess too.

[@ceciliapimentel2441]

I will watch this like a affirmation everyday until I’m stronger .. thank you for your words and knowledge!

[@NoName-mm6gh]

cecy pimentel stay strong 💪🏾

[@Melexdra]

Been crying all night and this really helped calm me down. Thanks Breeny.

[@AmandaVitt]

Hope you’re okay! 💗

[@Melexdra]

@@AmandaVitt Much better now thank you :)

[@Melexdra]

@Claudia Vlahović 💕

[@lisaaaa437]

💓💓💓😘

[@gbeverly0002]

much love. i've been there many times

[@christina2322]

Girl not only are you helping me with relationships but you’re making me want to sit down and read the Bible Bc I’m a Christian, or used to be, idk anymore my relationship with God has been strained for years but you make me want to fix it

[@sunshinesarah4746]

D. Va, I know this has been 4 months but yes! Take time to learn about God and read His word. He loves you and wants a relationship with you. This will be the most important relationship in your life. I would advise when you read the Bible, you do SOAP( Scripture, Observation, Apply, Pray)! I wish you the very best God bless! Praying for you!

[@lalayatem3758]

God Bless truly

[@NoName-mm6gh]

Christina amen sis

[@sadeo4690]

Christina please fix it 💜

[@OnlyKingdomandCovenant]

Fix it girl ... it's really the 1st step to fixing ourselves, discovering ourselves and BEING who God Himself purposefully created us to be! Praying for your journey and mine, the world meets us!

[@chinaaokoli9632]

I got ghosted for the second time by the same guy about a month ago and I’ve been a mess. I wake up with hope that he’ll come back and with the pain of knowing that I want someone who doesn’t treat me right. Few days ago I got tired of it all. I was emotionally exhausted and tired and I asked God for a miracle. I told God to bypass my emotions and bring back my sanity and trust in Him. I’ve been watching your video since yesterday(a day after I asked God for this miracle) and I feel sooooooooo much better. I don’t mourn the failed relationship anymore. I just thank God for separating me from someone like that. My boundaries of what I will accept and what I will NOT accept are so clear. God has used your videos to strengthen me and remind me who’s I am.😊 I thank God for you Breeny🤍

[@godjesus1st718]

Damn I was just asking god for something good this year and then u post 🤯

[@wendyswintona.juma.4949]

"You teach people how to treat you by what you accept" Standards sis..... this was gorgeous!

[@fizahaque]

"you teach people how to treat you, by what you accept." preachhh 🙌🏽♥️

[@estheronala]

Come onnnnnn loving these videos Breeny no settling for less in 2019. What i took away from this video ... 1. Young choices become adult problems - this is so true living in this right now 2. Do not sell you future to buy your present 3. Don't make permanent decisions based on temporary emotions 4. Learn patience and delayed gratification 5. Have faith in God, don't accept everything that first comes to you 6. Learn to say NO, i deserve better than this

[@LamboLady27]

I know right!!!! I wrote some of these down....good stuff...

[@strongertogetherfitness193]

This is the best content I’ve heard in a long time.. and I am super picky... the best advice !!! On point !!!! I will have my friends listening to this !!!!! All starts within yourself !!!

[@lizzybraxtontv]

Sis!!!! You give me LIFE! You don’t know how much you have helped me in my personal life. I’m 32 just walked out of my abusive marriage finding myself, my sexiness, my joy and MY PEACE again! Thank you for sharing your videos ❤️🙏🏾

[@Donan95]

When you said “I know you want to be loved bby grl” I was like YOU GET IT 😭💔❤️ I love you’re videos!

[@anitakay257]

She said it right after I read this 😍🤗

[@jessalyson9306]

Thank you for posting all of your videos. My boyfriend of over a year broke up with me by packing my stuff up and putting it outside his door without even giving me a conversation ALL two days before Christmas. We had been living together and before this, he had never ever treated me less than amazing and always treated me like a queen. . . so to say that I was and am devastated would be an understatement. I am in the process so of healing and of course, I still love him and miss him and think of him every day....but if he is going to treat me like that then that is all the closure I need. So now, I'm applying to new jobs, starting school in a few weeks and putting all of my energy into myself. It's really hard right now, but I can only hope that Ill walk away from this relationship as a better person.

[@vanessatj4860]

Jess Alyson, He's a jerk,forget him, you'll get someone better, focus on yourself, goodluck with school and work, You're beautiful and amazing 🙂❤😍

[@lecoco7071]

Being sad is temporary remember that, and he just did you a favor now it’s time to level up for 2019. Trust me I can relate, something similar has happened to me . You’re beautiful..

[@jessalyson9306]

Vanessa TJ thanks boo ❤️

[@jessalyson9306]

Le Coco thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@jaydee8866]

Sorry to hear your experiences but i wish you all the best moving forward. Something was going on that you just didn't see and he sounds like was not only a coward but a real diligent and experienced scammer lethario. Believe your not the first or last. You will heal in time.🤗

[@VeeBo1200]

Breeny, im a dude and I watch your videos for encouragement and guidance. You not only speaking to women, u speaking to the human soul.

[@noemijoan6119]

‚Learn the beautiful virtue of patience.‘great advice! I have to add: You choose your man first, after he has proofed he is up to your standards! Don’t be his choice. Love your energy! Thank you.

[@uniebeauty]

Not only is her message great, I am also digging her makeup and hair ♥. Ladies - love yourself, be confident and we are stronger when we support each other. Happy New Year!

[@JamieHunterLive]

GIRL YOU BETTA PREACH! I love how you break it down and use the Bible as your reference!! I love your vids keep it up gorgeous!!

[@NubineQueen]

I really needed this 😫❣️. Just went thru a recent break-up and the guy literally switched up over night and became careless but HE was cheating ... so this really just gave me more confidence!

[@CoCoMoVitt]

Aww hunny, I'm sorry that happened. Try praying to God and ask for healing. If you don't know how to pray just go on your knees put your hands together and just talk to him...and if you don't know what to say just cry to him. I promise you it will help. Do it every day... you will see things start to change in your life. God Bless

[@NubineQueen]

CoCoMoandChris thank you 😭💖 I have been praying and reading my word more consistently lately and it def helps make my days go by wayyyy better

[@nicolebotelho1398]

NubineQueen ! Awe angel! Same happened to me and one thing that I can say is that things do get better, focus on yourself self again cuz the worst thing you can do is blame yourself and lose your worthiness because of a douchebag

[@brokewithexpensivetaste1222]

You are like a big sister full of good words and wisdom

[@fairyventures4293]

“Faith in the other hand speaks in abundance” damn I had to pause the video cause I felt that in my spirit!!! Preach queen! 👸🏾

[@yankahami6813]

Ladies Breeny Lee is right. Don't be afraid to say NO and you will see how man starts to react... Yesterday I have been celebrating the new year in "friend " house everything was cool chilling later he was ok we can go to sleep and I just looked at him - I am not sleeping here i go to my friends house. In that moment he calls the taxi, ok i am going out, I was like ok cool enjoy :D . A few days ago I told my ex good bye. He been telling me - oh neyt year we need to make babe because of ur age (30+)bla bla I almost agreed, silly me. Ladies, it is better to wait or be alone than settle down with idiot who doesn't deserve you. Sending too much self love :)

[@hotkouturetv]

Yes I agree with the fact that guys rarely accept the first offer. I worked as a recruiter for 2 years but here’s the thing, while that was generally expected and accepted from male candidates the same wasn’t tolerated for female candidates and usually if they tried to negotiate, the clients (companies) were directly choosing the next candidates that would accept the first offer and that’s something that just made me realize the double standards even more in the working force...

[@Veratheprettiest]

"where is our standards??" I legit slammed my fist on the table like YEA 🤣🤣 PREACH SIS

[@lovingme1011]

"BELIEVE IN YOUR PATIENCE" AMENNNNNNNNN

[@deloveakra]

It’s weird that the topics you choose to talk about, coincidentally are the advices I needed to hear ♥️💯

[@leafmealoynederpydeu85]

Made me cry when u say i know you want to be loved baby girl. Its so true. That's what we all want.

[@StyleliveswithinmeBlogspot]

2019 aka the year of NO. I said yes a lot in 2018 but no no ain’t nobody got time for that !!

[@ms.ashley52]

so true!

[@KayleaAlyssa]

Amen!!!

[@sairathealchemist]

I’ve always called dating interviews. Dating has so many definition to different people. Dating to me means dating with intention and being exclusive.

[@Vdekort11]

I’m gonna watch this every day until I’m over him. I deserve better🥰 thank you

[@dedrasensei]

So much truth in 15 minutes. Preach sis!

[@mikafrancisco5804]

I just came out of a relationship that I thought he would be "the one". But mid December last year I was proved wrong. Now I'm in the process of healing and omg Breeny ur videos saved my life and helped me a lot to regain my confidence!!! U r my inspo right now and I thank God for your life and testimonies!!!! 😭❤

[@kendraandthebunnies]

"young problems become adult problems" -- 10 years of partying & now, I am walking the path of sobriety. I wish I would have known how great sobriety would have been when I was younger! Thanks for an awesome video. Dig it.

[@ronkea5218]

Have you thought about doing a podcast? You should

[@amelie4625]

Rf Natural please🙏🏻

[@aliceaartistry7875]

I agree I would listen ... boss women talk radio ‼️ bring it love

[@DeeTheMusee]

Yes breeny I would most definitely watch

[@unicekeepgoing6727]

Yeeeeees need this in my life

[@massieldejesus958]

Pleeeeeeease! I need this ASAP

[@RababAlhunaidi]

Preaaach sister❤️🙏🏼

[@imiko7189]

wow rabab u r here ♥

[@noonelikesmycomment3891]

I finally got rid of his contact. I also feel more confident after watching few of your videos about self confidence and uncaring about people's opinion. Thank you so much Bree. I love you so much for that. You're my Godmother.

[@starsighting7167]

Yoo the end of the video had me shook, like younger choices become adult problems

[@randomdude4212]

It is VERY true that there is something better for you comming in literally 5 minutes. The other day i got Up to late ( school starts at 8 am & i was at the Bus Station at 7.50 ; w Bus i need 10 minutes ) and I Run after the Bus but the Bus was so crowded that literally Nobody fitted in anymore but Still the 5 other ppl that waited w me at the Bus Stop Tried to get Into the Bus & it worked. I could have still fitted into it but it would end Up as very stressfull & Shit so i waited for the next Bus. Usually my Bus come every 15 minutes and i would have been too late for real but I was Just Like " yeah fuck it its alright" . So I was Sitting there actually forgetting that i was getting to Class too late & at 7.52 am another Bus dropped and in there was literally Nobody. Maybe 5 people. Its insane + I ended Up being in Class at the right time!

[@bettina5755]

"asking for what you want and refusing what you dont want is your right as a human being" i needed this. thank you love

[@lucyluz1651]

This is EXACTLY what I needed at THIS very moment ...GOD speaks through you mama!! Thank YOU!! 🙏🏼

[@GraceAnastasia]

OMG Hun you speak my language!! love you! Subscribed! :)

[@ravenantoinette1325]

Coming from working in the food industry and dealing with complaints and basically babying grown people's ego, there is a way you ask and talk to people serving you. Respect those who serve you just as much as you feel you deserve to be respected. Because the person you chew out may not even be responsible the problems.

[@HaHaLooLoo]

ok HOLD ON AND CATCH THESE COINS 12:15: "young choices become adult problems" "the devil's plan is to sell your future to buy your present" "permanent decisions based on temporary emotion"

[@vanessanyirenda4658]

watching this video really moved me. I was with a guy that i was madly in love with and he had been lieing to me through the entire relationship.first of all he had a child with his ex ( who he later discovered wasn't even his) which he didn't tell me about but anyway he named the child and was part of its life. He cheated on me with women he never even knew well , sending them personal naked pictures and meeting them when i thought he was "working".It was all so much and i broke into pieces and felt i couldn't live with the pain to the point i was going through depression. I've now come to understand, still healing from it all that Breeny is right. It is important , especially as a woman to love yourself! keep your standards high sis!. Loving yourself will help you understand that even when people disappoint you, you must stay true to who you really are on the inside and because of being aware of that i have chosen not to take him back(even though he swears he will change) but to channel all my energy on becoming the woman i am meant to be and discovering my purpose. Thank you Breeny, woman like you give me hope that their is more to life than settling for less than what we truly deserve because we are worried about being alone. The bible says the lord has plans to prosper us and not to harm us therefore all that causes you harm is not from the lord.

[@Nosh_sibiya]

Aman thank you well said

[@queenofhope2536]

Yes young ladies...listen to what is being said. I am now 49 years of age and i am only learning this now. Do not get to my age thinking that there is nothing better out there. It all comes down to self esteem issues. I am not bitter but i am relieved that i have come to my senses..I am at the stage now that enough is enough and i am walking my own path..

[@alicebryant6014]

Starting to realise my worth so much more after watching your videos. I realised my ex didn’t deserve me after being so horrible to me while my father goes through treatment for Cancer 😢 Sorry for the sob story but you are getting me through all of this and have really had a positive impact on my life. I can’t thank you enough for that, even my mum asks if I’ve watched ‘Breeny’ today. Please keep doing what you’re doing!!💗

[@meryem9664]

Oh my God. Literally, watching her videos made me realize why I have so much problems in my life. That's the first step, realizing. Thank you !!!!

[@kulaea1992]

Legit I’m so heartbroken. Heart in a million pieces from my bf leaving me unexpectedly 😪 literally hurts so much! But 2 weeks post breakup and watching your videos, my eyes are opening and actually realising how much I settled for the last 3 and half years! It’s so encouraging even though I’ve on excruciating pain 😞! You’re fricken amazing ❤️🙌🏽 and THANK YOU!

[@lindyvi7209]

You got this! Never forget you're a queen! 🤪🤪😌☝🏾 If a relationship didn't bring what you want it taught you what you didn't want! Head up high! 💛

[@msprayerwarrior6904]

Yesss never walk in fear. Knowing ur worth is very important. Not normal situation is becoming normal . Alot of people who knows me said my standards/ expectations are to high but I refuse to settle. I'm on my self love journey an it teaches me how to love on God an myself an family lot it also teach me patient. Great video may God continue to use u.

[@clubgel]

this is based on the premise you have worth, not just because you're a woman. If you had so much worth, do you think you'd be worrying about settling for less, you'd have the top 10% of males locking you down already. People ego makes them think they entitled to top 10%, when nothing about them is top 10%. Complete lack of self-awareness.

[@JC-ce8uw]

This video gives me hope for 2019 .The new me will be assertive and I will speak my mind and demand respect.Im so glad I found your channel you are such a inspiration and role model to woman thankyou so much ,your videos will change peoples lives.

[@valeriel7544]

Thats a word girl! “The devil wants you to sell your future to buy your present!” Instant satisfaction is usually bad, That’s the truth!!

[@sophiagermano6626]

you are just EVERYTHING!!! You need to do a motivational speaking tour focused on woman, seriously

[@lecoco7071]

My big brother just told me last night, DO NOT SETTLE and make sure I date different kind of men before making a choice and BOOM here you go. What a sign, what a sign, NOTED !! ..

[@giammybear7561]

You have guided me to leave a relationship that did not deserve me, thank you!!!

[@KamyCraze]

I like this video. Not cocky and rude or have the vibe of “entitlement”... and simply saying respect yourself and don’t settle for half ass stuff...

[@stefaniafor-sure3698]

Your advice to young girls specifically in their teens and early twenties was spot on💯💯💯💯I was shooketh by that bit of advice specifically...im not even lying that message really hit me strong

[@TrellWest]

Girl, I dare you to find a hip hop beat to drop behind this audio and drop a motivational mixtape..

[@auderedeci557]

DAMN.

[@ThebigGLRams]

Lol

[@zarawillow6594]

Literally!!! Please that would fokin pump me up for my days 🙌🏽💛🔥

[@shakiraromero4564]

We need her to make her own podcast

[@ioanachira5202]

Watched it twice. I usually don't have patience for videos longer than 10 min but for yours I make an effort :))

[@jessmallinson5146]

I follow your Insta 🤗🤗🤗

[@PrettyLovex3]

I usually speed the longer videos to 1.5. :)

[@aliyahlarose6152]

Asking for what you want & refusing what you don’t want is not rude! Preach Breeny! Love you x

[@wonton28]

I'm a male but I'm taking your advice lol 🤣🤣 its that good!

[@GreaterThanSolomon]

Juan Hernandez it’s good advice for men, not so much for women

[@tchaney3777]

Exactly-accept no pills-just always being authentic and having your standards

[@ThebigGLRams]

And it's not wrong. Alot of us women are also silent in men advice videos. We take what we can and call it a day😊

[@wonton28]

I also feel like you can almost always find better... but if you drop one for another you might get dropped because they found better... its tricky. If you have 80 percent i say keep it and slowing make it to at least 85% no one is perfect including ourselves. Love and acceptance is what the majority of us want. Good luck out there. Times been hard but its gotten harder

[@zoeysarona1303]

Yes it is

[@sunnydaze80]

yes!!! a new mindset is key and that's what I'm doing this year. I using all the tools at my disposal to stay motivated and reminded that I'm just as deserving as the next.