how to: STOP attracting LOSERS!

WHAT IS YOUR TYPE?
WHY DO WE LIKE BAD BOYS?
HOW DOES OUR FATHERS AFFECT OUR TYPE?
HOW TO RAISE OUR STANDARDS?
HOW TO ATTRACT THE MAN YOU WANT
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[@Avalon1316]

You’re the older sister I’ve always wanted

[@patricegrant5962]

Right😉😉😙I thought the same thing

[@yasminxc1995]

Younger sister for me but she’s still wise!

[@tanealiawizzard6291]

Sabrina Szasz sem

[@AI-rm4ej]

Omg I was saying this out loud lool

[@alexbrogan1023]

Fr !!

[@beigelover95]

shes the older sister we all wish we had.

[@4220E]

Younger sister in my case I'm 34 yes were out here looking 2 find the right one as well

[@beigelover95]

Elita Johnson I hope you do sweetheart ❤️

[@LeeC375]

Look, she actually complicating this. Men, they're simple... and that's what so wonderful about them!

[@wowso4]

Iqra Qaali she sure is love all her advice!

[@Anisha..Alayna]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@sabrinanicoara4797]

You can tell a person’s true character during hard times (i.e., arguments, major disappointments in his life, and in strenuous conditions) Everyone shows who they really are when under pressure

[@fizahaque]

i am honestly so glad i saw your comment rn cuz wtf. he said it is his bad side and how he would prove he is better. so fucking glad i dropped his ass sis cuz damnnnnnn!

[@klddere3734]

@Jennifer G the problem with this is that people usually don’t show you who they are the first time. An abuser will not punch you in the face the first time they meet you.

[@jaotv939]

Very true

[@Mia-ei4mh]

And that's the time they left

[@seekwisdom7254]

Right that’s why we gotta wait….about 2 years a lot happens within

[@sailormoon6240]

I attract toxic and lost men . I’ve been thinking Why I attract these men so I’m glad I found you and your channel

[@m.w.5411]

That happens when you have a healing nurturing energy

[@blossom6235]

SAMR HERE, IM FED UP WITH THE SAME PEOPLE IN DIFFERENT BODIES, THAT IS WHY I HAVE DECIDED TO STAY SINGLE FOR EVER AND JUST WORK ON MYSELF TO BE THE BEST ME.

[@naledi0017]

yeah i use to do the same until...

[@TokyoBlue587]

@Sta Sea you still did the right thing, getting toxic people out of your life.

[@Sariine436]

I keep attracting Indian guys 💀

[@3coeli]

YOU 👏🏼NEED👏🏼A👏🏼PODCAST

[@SobeaRey]

YES

[@JadaJerai]

Agree to the podcast

[@Mrs.T305]

She sure does!!

[@cupcakebuttercup3]

Nina definitely

[@trentrobinson3041]

Yass, please make a Podcast hun, itd be a gift to the world!

[@dianasj]

I feel attacked 😩😩😂😂 you described me! Its a never ending cycle of feeling like i won when he comes back, and when he leaves, feeling desperate and broken, until hen returns.

[@cherrytung]

the exact same thing happened to me. you need to cut your losses soon, fast, quick! your youth doesn't last forever. something so valuable should not be wasted so easily!

[@saranox7319]

Same. I can‘t live like this, I kick him to the curb. But let him feel he won. :P

[@iamtheonlyaura]

Girl! Ok! 😩😂😂😂😂 This was a WORD! If I wasn’t in my office, I probably would have done a church shout!!

[@audreym.f9077]

you're high value! never forget that!

[@electricred91]

@@audreym.f9077 amen !

[@0Demiyah0]

Ladies, lean back, be present, let him come to you, let him show up for you, and keep it light and positive. Until he's said he wants commitment, keep dating other guys, or you might get too invested with all your eggs in one basket. Create a bit of mystery and tension. You're the prize!

[@robertolsen2236]

uhh no you are not the prize a working relationship is other than that its a kid who has the best aspects pf both the parents

[@VegasD702]

@@robertolsen2236 thank you... What prize? 🤣

[@dior6390]

@@robertolsen2236 we’re talking about dating tho, not exclusive relationships

[@Yaajennifer_]

It’s so hard to find a good guy these days. Cause there a some men they pretend to be this “good guy” in the beginning until he gets what he wants than he turn out to be the bad guy ...

[@sasjaparsons5400]

Yes

[@thanamesny7807]

Don't give him what he wants if what he wants is sex. But yeah I feel you. I say pray about it. Don't get into a relationship unless you get an Ok from God

[@Mother_Earth777]

Jennifer true

[@shakur2567]

We are not good guys no more. Shut your goofy as up... you like bad boys go for dam. There is no good guys no more

[@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou]

Jennifer always look out for the red flags they give out lowkey. They always do.

[@mrsropaxo]

It's not a coincidence that her videos are always in sync with the season we are in... because Breeny only moves when God tells her to move.. and it so clearly shows in everything she does! and it also just goes to show that God is never late, he is just in time every time, gives her a new message and she delivers so effortlessly... Stay blessed

[@BreenyLee]

Thank you girll for recognising

[@876tisha]

I don’t think what you attract is the point but what you entertain. When your a good looking person you will good and bad people. Also if you have great energy you will attract everyone as well. If you don’t know yourself you will push healthy people away and entertain people who are toxic.

[@lalasings21]

Latisha Williams yesss !!! Preach

[@876tisha]

leiafoote If we keep telling people that you attract what you are. People will start believe they are no good. Also what about people who their whole life been rape did they attract the rape to them. Sometimes people get unwanted attention. I met an awful guy once and someone had the nerve to ask me what I was wearing that night I met him. I was sis if you don’t get the hell out of here. 🤦‍♀️

[@Sav.Age.]

Right

[@dfromtheblock1537]

What a great point!

[@HabitualLover]

Good point!

[@JayBird227]

“Will you raise your standards to make sure you get what you deserve” WOW sis 🤭🙏🏻

[@zamaqueinspired]

you are so spot on girl. I'm in that boat where I've been on a cycle of being with f*boys and I decided to give that up, I stayed single for a while to find myself and redirect my life. Just when I wasn't prepared to date I met this great guy who is so good to me its insane, he makes me feel valued to a point where I literary doubt everything he says in my head because I see now that I've been used to being the perfect one in all those relationships....and now that I've found someone better my eyes have been open to all my flaws and I'm lucky that we both teach each other how to live with one another. I'm just hoping that I won't self-sabotage

[@lsjt8924]

That story really gives me hope, thank you

[@Sheldon1411]

I'm just proud of the content that you're creating, it's not mediocre stuff, it's real and hardhitting and so glad that you're getting more recognition because it's about time and God knows you have a lot to offer!!!

[@Officialbolanle]

It's so refreshing honestly!

[@BreenyLee]

thank you sweetheart xx

[@Nadiahope7]

Yes to this.

[@joannewatson8063]

@@BreenyLee you are so beautiful! I love the message you send that is honest and positive. Breeny could you please consider getting Stephan Labossiere on your show. You both would make a dynamic duo! I can see it already! Your viewing and rating would skyrocket. He is a Relationship Coach, Author etc. The best part is that he is Black and is in demand So, please consider contacting him and then bring him on your show. You won't regret it.

[@minimalassembly7893]

I’m immediately turned off by guys that have that fake “machismo.” When they have to raise their chin or not smile at the camera or try to give off a bedroom eyes glare, lol. That is when I know they are guarded and want a woman to dig to discover who they really are. That is the opposite of the way a man should be pursuing a woman. Basically, those types of men like to be pursued like they are the woman in the relationship, adored, yet respected like a man, with no reciprocation to the woman. Nope. As I’ve matured, I am starting to be more attracted to guys that give off a big, genuine, confident smile because I know they are secure, OPEN, enjoying their life, not depressed and also want a happy and secure woman without drama. With men who are open, they know exactly what they want and we as women don’t have to dig to find out. They also want a woman who knows what she wants.

[@Natalia-lk7hw]

👌 I agree. I like the open hearted guys who have a personality.

[@victoriamukunga6483]

Minimal Assembly Wow...so true

[@khadijaahmed7902]

PREACH!!

[@93londongirl]

Wow yes !!! U said a mouth Full thanks for your input 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@allthingzhairbyro2787]

The accuracy

[@sonia8577]

I love how cool and intimate it feels when you record in a car; actually makes me feel like a kiki with a friend, not like an 'inspired wisdom' some ytubers make, like if they're superior to you

[@kittymac9804]

Oh my gosh, had me laughing when you said ‘looking for marriage, then you go with bozo the clown’! Theme park great analogy! Wish my younger self had seen this :) I’m so glad women have more resources these days to keep them strong for a high value relationship and maintain standards. Thank you xx

[@NYCBJP]

Yep I only attract quality men since I’ve raised my standards

[@mariannimoh9514]

Only been with one guy my entire life and unfortunately lost my virginity to him. But being with him has showed me what I don't want in a man. I want a very God fearing man. A man of honesty and integrity. A man of good character. I love the best:-) quality stuff

[@Claudee911]

Marian Nimoh same here, dated my one guy since 2013 unfortunately i left him today. He is no longer interested and I could tell he has no way to tell me, so i made it easier fr him today. Sad but it shall pass💔

[@mariannimoh9514]

Clau. dee stay strong. You will get past it.

[@Claudee911]

Marian Nimoh thank you 🤎

[@LaGalletaLibrosyModa]

"The right boy will make u a better person, but not in a romantic kindda way we assume" Totally True. Te admiro. Eres sabia Breeny🌸

[@raishawty6281]

Omggg you explained “your type” so well! When you said “I’m attractive to aura ... idk” I felt that!!! I was thinking that for min now. That shits real and I’m just lit cause I’m not crazyyyy. Thank you!!! -Rai

[@BeatzByMK]

I don’t even want a relationship right now lol, but I still watch all your videos 😂😂😂 speak the truth, sis!!! Also, I feel like in order to be in a healthy relationship, we need to be healthy ourselves and be the partner we want to ourselves.

[@colleen192]

Yasss girl same.. although I'm 19 .I really don't see it necessary at my age😊.

[@Tiffrain]

Tinder is NOT a great idea lol!🤣 I don’t know what it’s offering in the UK but in the states it’s filled with dudes that just want to have sex.

[@Tan-ns2hr]

It's offering the same in the UK girl 🙄 Can't even get through to the first date stage. Men on there seem to think women are commodities smh

[@mya4947]

Samd story sis x

[@Tan-ns2hr]

@Gina Schnickschnack Nah breeny definately doesn't mean that, she's a practising Christian so she wouldn't recommend that is kind of behaviour. It's destructive to our soul

[@BreenyLee]

Both my friends have met their boyfriends and potential future husband's on there. And I've heard many more stories like this. There's a way to use it and also a way to present yourself that wards off those type of people. (One tip: put the age metre up lol)

[@Tiffrain]

Breeny Lee That’s great to hear and I hope those relationships do lead to marriage. My girl, My pics were rated G and my conversations were never about anything sexual. Some men are just disgusting. One guy asked if I was a Christian I said yes. We talked about Jesus for a little and then he started to tell me all the sexual things he wanted to do to me. I did up the age before I deleted it tho but quickly learned the older men were just as dutty lol. Not my ting, but congrats to your friends tho 🤗

[@jas2beinspired146]

After dating a narcissist, a genuine loving character is what I would love to put a commitment into. 🥰

[@TeamAwesomese]

I am a man and I agree with this woman. I am about to become a husband to the love of my life. The only thing I disagree with is that a man can change. I am so much more mature and different now at 27 than at 18. I learned how to respect women. I am still learning how to improve my respect. There is no such thing as perfect but strive for perfection.

[@janellek7960]

I realized something that's key the other day when one of my friends asked me what I look for in a guy and I named a few things and realized the guys I go for aren't even anything that I mentioned. And alot of the guys didn't even make up for the qualities they lacked. The only things they had was looks and they were "nice" but "nice" didn't make up for the lack of communication, lack of effort, and lack of honesty. From then on, I realized my standards really needed to be raised cause I look for certain things then put up with stuff that I really should have walled away from. This video was like another confirmation that I need to fix uppppp.

[@BreenyLee]

!!!!

[@Vibesbypeach]

Sissss! “Nice” has been my weakness lately. When you’re used to bad boys that “nice” attitude may trick you.

[@janellek7960]

@@Vibesbypeach yessssss!! It really does!!

[@michelledavison2533]

Nice guy = Porn addiction 🙄

[@phugh3878]

@@michelledavison2533 that’s all guys though ..

[@D33caying]

I attract straight bums and it’s not okay😭

[@TUFAAX411]

Keep rejecting them, and it will pass.

[@bratzzii7474]

Lmaooooo girl same😭❗️❗️ this nigga ask me to take him out like excuse me😭

[@arandaholley1719]

I am texting this reply as the same thing is happening to me ans he showes me a pic of his 7 kids.

[@ashleymarie5500]

@@bratzzii7474 IM DEAADD girl thats meee

[@daphneepaul3737]

Sometimes where you live only have bums. Do you live in the hood? Downtown? Don’t worry I live close to the university so I meet and date a lot of university students and they’re all bums too. sheraseven say if it’s the location we should move. But I’m not gonna move for a guy. The good guy will find y wherever you are if it’s meant to be.

[@duchthegoddess]

Breeny I can so relate to this video!!!! My husband is literally “bae correcting me all the time showing me where I’m wrong” it’s like I hate it and love it all at the same time because I know it’s ultimately helping me to grow!!!! Keep making video beautiful!!! ❤️🙌🏽❤️

[@XYZ-ln2qk]

I see men always try target women much above them on all levels: looks+money. But, women never DARE target men way above her financial level.

[@shykellawilliams6528]

I noticed that.... Crazy

[@karamm1054]

Have you heard og the term gold diggers ? 😂

[@XYZ-ln2qk]

@@karamm1054 I guess it depends how piggy the human is.

[@SiegfriedLextr]

@@XYZ-ln2qk What? wtf are you talking about? Women ALWAYS go for men who have more money than them; is this your first day on this world or something?

[@illybdlkdr4200]

@Eliza B. A lot of women do sis it’s called hypergamy. In some cultures that’s the normal standard.

[@enadine6405]

There are a lot of guys that are confident and not bad. Confident doesn't have to mean cocky.

[@silver_0447]

E Nadine yeah that’s what she’s saying.. quiet confidence is good

[@enadine6405]

@@silver_0447 Yeah I know :) I meant like I feel like a lot go girls (not all) get it confused and think its just Assholes that have confidence.

[@francesca4192]

You're officially my KZbin pastor. Love ya, Breeny!

[@octavia5265]

Tired of bad boys ready for a Good Man 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️❤️❤️

[@shakur2567]

Good guys need virgin

[@xoxo_s2903]

Hey girl, thank you so so much. Please read this comment. Ive never had a healthy relationship with my parents. My dad never maked me feel wanted, he never was emotionally available. But he was for my cousins, but not for me. He was available towards othe children, but again.. not for me. When i needed him, he said youre weak. So I always tried to stay strong. I grew up without a father, my father moved to another country when i was 2years old, I only saw him 1 week per year. He never ever was proud of me. My mom was always talkin about my dad, how toxic he was for her. And now, im 21 and I'm struggling with myself, I realised I lost my self. I realised I never had the childhood that I wanted or needed. I was a child, who had to be mature. I keep attracting narcissist. Im in a relationship with one now. I feel so much pain and rage. I really dont like to feel this way. I was just a kid that needed her parents. And now I am searching for help, cause I know i have some internal issues within me. Im always good for people, help them, nurture them, everything. But when I need something or someone, there is nobody. So yeah, im getting tired to be available everytime someone needs me. What about me? But when I think that, I feel guilty its like I need to help them, because no one is helping me. Thank you so much darling for this beautiful video, It made me realise so much. GODD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!! with lots of love, From the Netherlands.

[@roselinastar5225]

Hello! It has been a year since this comment. I hope you're doing better💜 I think I've been in kind of a similar situation and my suggestion to you would be to try to meet up with a therapist. My first meeting with mine was really calming😊 All the best!

[@kimberlyjefferson882]

The way you broke that down was phenomenal. You are just GIFTED! Ive never heard this talk from another woman, folks give no details. You just have to figure it all out and suffer. Good God is answering and helping some folks tuh-day!

[@realvesselgem6527]

Guys act like I’m wrong for having standards. Bye boo! 😘

[@youyadiary]

True, i started thinking maybe my standards are high so i dropped most of them & dated this dude and it was hell he was so controlling and abusive,now im so afraid of dating lol

[@macaroons5360]

@@youyadiary raise your standards again sis, but make the standards higher. you’ll find the right man.

[@youyadiary]

@@macaroons5360 i hope so thank you 💛💛

[@macaroons5360]

@@youyadiary don’t hope so, KNOW SO! 💕 i love you!

[@lavenderflowers1075]

@@youyadiary I'm really sorry

[@insideoutwithjaz4741]

Your videos are literally helping me get through a really rough time & break up. You recharge my soul girl! Your videos remind me of my worth and that Im going to be just fine. Thank you

[@EmmPee1]

Definitely needed to hear this. Been settling for the wrong guys for so long smh. Ladies we not settling for emotionally unavailable men who don’t meet our standards anymore 🌻✨💓

[@eugeniyah8078]

I ain’t got the time to be “letting visitors in my amusement park for free” 💁🏾‍♀️ The guy that pays to get in will be a man “whose words make my spirit sizzle” 😁 Yes girl, thanks for the pep talk 😘

[@sammyjames1234]

I’m meeting the man God has for me in February 2019! In Jesus Name

[@daniellausoro284]

me too..

[@BreenyLee]

Amen!!!!

[@nickbry7357]

Me to sis

[@favouro6344]

Amen

[@kaheaisaac1]

Amen! Me too!

[@womanonamission8677]

Your analogies are everythinggggg! 🙌🏾

[@mansiduqbwbhrkciduq]

2:30 i felt so much better after breeny said that she was anxious attachment because that is mine as well, and it makes me feel better that it isn't too late for me to fix my attachment just like breeny has or at the very least made a lot of improvement

[@sunvavachi]

Topic idea: how to move forward after multiple failures and heartbreak. I'm very independent and self acheiving but in both aspects of love and career it's been a failure and it's slowly getting to me now after a decade of suffering.

[@jenflores34]

Sunethra you move on by forgiving them and yourself. Remembering who you are as a woman. Set expectations for yourself and your potential mate. STOP IGNORING THE RED FLAG SIS (we all do it). Recognize and change your own toxic behaviors (we all have them nothing personal). I recommend this app called SelfishBabe you’ll thank me later ✌🏽and blessings

[@Metaphysicalmindspace777]

Elevate your way of thinking about relationships. Yourself. Determine who you are at your core. Value yourself. I’m speaking from experience. Finally at 47! I get it. You are not your achievements. You are young. Beautiful. Get in touch with your feminine side and energy. We teach people how to treat us. Blessings.

[@sunvavachi]

Thanks for the love ladies. I'm working towards my dream of becoming an emergency pediatric doctor. It's been so stagnant past 4 years especially. I guess love wise yes I need to level up and cut as soon as I see red flags too. I am sad with way things are going but I do value myself. I just need to believe more. 🥰...thank you.

[@sunvavachi]

@@jenflores34 I'll check the app :)

[@clubgel]

you don't need emotional enablement or victim blaming. Need to soak yourself in objective rationality and look your ego in the mirror for all its flaws that is the only way out. But if it always a case of someone else messed me over etc. then you're in a victim mindset. Need to do Carl Jung shadow work.

[@CforChiTwo]

You are brain and Beauty ❤😍 Spot on Sis!

[@lovegrace3719]

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[@MaxxsMom]

I love that theme park analogy!

[@JesusFreak141110]

"God is the author of relationships. God is the author of marriage. And in the beginning He brought 1 man and 1 woman together. NOT 3, NOT 4!!!!" 🙌

[@metrini]

I dont think you can stop attracting losers to be honest. Most losers have inflated egos and dont fear rejection so they go after the chick way out of their level. And Ive never been attracted to the bad boy ( My Dad is still very present in my life) That might be why

[@BarbieDawl.__]

Right I just ignore them , I say I’m beautiful I say thank you and keep it moving I don’t need a man to validate my beauty because I know I’m beautiful 2020 has been an eye-opener I really wish most women will see how beautiful they are and not fall for these men stupid tricks because men will really try to gaslight women into them thinking they’re not beautiful

[@DianaGarcia-lb9dl]

You will always attract the loser but as long as you put boundaries and dont allow or entertain them, little by little you will see them because you can see them coming from a mile away.

[@trippylong8580]

Well it does depend on a persons location, demographics, economic situation,educational background etc,as to whom you will be able to meet in life..well at least that's what Ive discovered..not only just attraction with men,but everyone that comes into your circle will be toxic if the majority of your environment is toxic.

[@yasmines.k.n9058]

@@trippylong8580 Couldn't agree more

[@oftenunsaid2175]

Just watched your video about being desperate and I promise you that video popped up in my feed and It's a sign from God himself and the universe. My mother died when I was 12 so I didn't really have a connection of a mother besides my grandmother or my aunt but they weren't MY mother. I've been dating around no sex I'm still a virgin at 24 and I can say that It's a blessing. I do get insecure and beat myself up a lot about it. I'm virgin because I haven't found a man that I'm 100% comfortable around and that I trust. I've dated guys I almost had sex with but felt horrible that I dated them. You're truly an inspiration and I'm subscribing! Faith over fear and thank you for being empowering!

[@HabitualLover]

Keep your standards. Wait for the one who values who you really are at your worst and takes your best as icing on the cake. He's out there, I promise. I found mine. Sadly, he passed away after 8 years of seriously grateful heaven.

[@Mother_Earth777]

Often Unsaid i wish i was matured as you coz i lost my virginity to someone i was not comfortable with... u very mature❤❤

[@lilmonstahh23]

I needed to hear this. A guy who I really don't level up to really has shown me that I haven't been living right. That I need to focus on my goals and getting what I want.

[@user-ne4bu7qg2r]

I've got many issues with men. I attract many old creeps, and it scares me every time one if them stares at me in the bus or whatever because I had a lousy childhood and this triggers me I dont know how to handle this tbh, because I've always got a feeling that they could think I look like a child or sth since I am a bit smaller than others and I get very scared. Even tho I know I probably look full grown it's just my low self confidence and intrusive thoughts speaking up to me

[@ForeverShavante]

I just love to hear you talk💕

[@cherrytung]

the feels!! exactly what i needed to hear. my standards were sooo low with all the f-boys in my life, who expect everything and offers nothing.. time to stop!!!

[@user-mj4or8sh3g]

In order to make a beautiful cake you need the right ingredients. not only the right ingredients, you have to follow the instructions.

[@roziestubbz]

you just confirmed a major thing for me, I literally said out of my mouth and yesterday I found a guy who is everything I want but nothing I need. Thank you sis I'm just listening to all your videos while I do my hw to let your words resonate with me.

[@lizgonzalez2665]

its true you can have the right person but you will self sabotage if you are not ready either.

[@teodoravujicic7956]

I don't want a relationship now at all thank you

[@LeeC375]

See you just scared the bleep outta Mad Hatter. Nevermind her, she complicating stuff boys are fun :)

[@SR77736]

@@LeeC375 maybe she's fed up not scared.

[@LeeC375]

Yes, let's says is "fed up" what can she do. JUS GIVE UP ON MEN and look for love in a another women's arms. Surely, that's not what you're implying Krystina, is it! What I'm saying is your " your Overlord Breeny is complicating it! Men are simply and that's what makes us Wonderful.☺️

[@teodoravujicic7956]

@Lee Cortez tf is wrong with u ¿

[@LeeC375]

@@teodoravujicic7956"tf wrong with me?" I'm not happy Mad Hatter! Women have it so easy. All they have to do is show up ...in something pretty ( and look confident ). Good luck Mad Hatter maybe you'll definitely see thing differently when you get outta high school .. cheers!

[@xhesisfav]

U're such a gold coin girlll!U're rockin every singe video of yours.Respect from a muslim girl from Albania!🙌❤

[@monstacat242]

I have BPD and its so hard to find youtubers content that hits the right note and my confused head understands, but trust me you are it! I love you so much, you have helped me so much!!

[@vivi3522]

I'm liiiving for these car talks.

[@quietecstasy8054]

It's okay not to be ready... It's not forever. Agree so much about standards. "Hotness" is nothing without those important inside ingredients.

[@maymay-gw4vz]

This is so inspirational! You can’t tolerate just about anything. RAISE 👏🏾 YOUR 👏🏾 STANDARDS 👏🏾. Once you become the boss you are, then you will attract like minded people.

[@TheScorp1000]

I’m a social worker and the attachment styles - Girl preach!!🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@Saywhatchaknow]

You should discuss what women should be doing to be ready for the right relationship. Love your content!

[@Ptah1130]

That would be a good topic

[@x0kida]

Living to please God. He will take care of all your needs and wants. ❤️

[@thanamesny7807]

@@x0kida Amen!

[@gracewaithera7683]

Honestly Breeny I just feel like God brought you to my life at a very crucial point in my life. I am all the way in Kenya but for the last two months I have to say God has really changed my life through your videos. I love you and thank you.

[@nikkis.3680]

The unpredictable , mysterious bad boy is intriguing , however when he becomes Predictably Bad its not so appealing anymore.

[@user-mv3pb8ng8h]

I actually just got off the phone with my gf..... I'm just so upset at myself and have been crying. I keep attracting losers and didnt know why. After watching your video I feel much better. Having standards can be very lonely sometimes. But I know God is preparing my blessing, he is on the way. Thanks Breeny 🧡

[@dianasj]

Never thought of it like that, need, wants. Making my list tonight 🙏🏾🙏🏾 this video came at the right time

[@iamaudrihanna6274]

Me toooo 😊😊😊😍😍😍

[@kelechianyikwa1865]

I'm inspired. Thank you

[@AboveRubiesTV]

Dawggg! Don’t ever call me out like that again! This is so me! (But we have the same birthday lol ) Like, I have a lot of internal work to do, that’s why I cannot be in a relationship right now. Admittedly, they’re too much work for me and I got other stuff that NEEDS to be taken care of immediately. Thanks, Breeny ✨

[@industryliaison]

You so right. I’ve heard so many women in “good” relationships say that it really helps them become a better person.

[@sunlit_autumn]

please make a podcast. You have so much quality content. You can just strip the audio from your already uploaded videos and put it on your podcast! It would be so good to listen to when I am in the car or on a run!

[@vickyv3908]

I felt convicted ! That message was so real. I actually have to re-evaluate myself because you are so right. If the right guy comes along right now all my insecurities will come to surface 😟

[@hellonurseash1276]

I had a great guy! he was supportive, a great communicator, but when he started to focus on his business i felt that "anxious attachment" feeling and self-sabotaged the entire relationship. I learned that damn! I have ALOT to improve about myself which was never the conversation I had with myself until i was in that relationship. Great learning experience but it crushed my heart like no other bc i had that GOOD GUY...just wasnt ready for all of that

[@zhulqarnayn1634]

@@hellonurseash1276now I am pretty that you haven't found another great guy because your standards are high and that you stick to compare the guys that you've dating with this great guy

[@citrises]

That theme park analogy is so good. So concrete > really put things in perspective.

[@youtubeyoungestgrandmastor4523]

I don't know how the pricing works for KZbin but I support I've been sharing and splitting up comments 😂😂🤦 you go girl.

[@panandacorn7378]

I’m dead “you’re not a theme park btw”

[@jasminelockhart2111]

Preaching mama!! Coming here is like getting my word of wisdom for the day. I hope you're happy and healthy mama ❤

[@lucy-bf6sw]

Laganja gurl is this you mama??

[@rainbowblack4463]

You're so inspiring sist, this video is just about me

[@SummerBaby728]

As I’ve gotten older, I realize there are guys out there who have an air of “bad boy” in them, as in they have grit, they’ve gone through some rough times, they have street smarts, confidence, and a sense of chill - AND they still can have integrity, a good heart, decency, kindness, and a desire to wife up a good woman. It’s not all black and white. I’m looking for my king who has a bad-boy’ness about him, but at his core, he’s good good good, in his heart and soul.

[@just_cococococlub2741]

I can't believe there are people who actually dislike your videos...you give me life

[@nkycrystal]

This video is just making me check myself 😩....

[@tenacious-e3o]

You’re gorgeous

[@nkycrystal]

Tenacity In Full thanks 😊

[@briannajbrown]

Breeny, my bestie did me a solid by guiding me to you. I'm slowly detoxing my soul of an on/off fling I've lusted after for a little more than 3 years. Ironically, this new good guy is the ex-flame's friend and the ex-flame is the one that gave the good guy my number. The good guy is sweet and takes rhe initiative to talk to me and ask about my day and wants to go out with me and I'm not used to a guy expressing his romantic intentions without being sexual and I'm forcing myself to give this guy a chance because he took the time to actually get my number from ex-flame and work up the courage to contact me, I feel like the least he deserves from me is a chance. I keep telling myself that wanting better isn't enough to actually enough to get/do better, I have to do the work and now I'm trying to change my apetite but its a slow process....

[@Titimuhammad]

Was literally clutching my pearls yesterday 🥴 he is definitely showing me, myself. But don’t think it’ll recover, no man will tolerate the stank roses boo! #livinNLearnin

[@Y.HAJ.]

“If a dude can make me laugh I’ll be like have meeee take meee” 😂 omg laughed so hard. So true

[@aidamanuel10]

"Level up this year".... You gat me!!!! Thank you for this amazing video😘😘😘

[@RealwithAida]

Aida Manuel I love your name 💕

[@aidamanuel10]

Thank you 💖

[@usherofsoulsxx212]

You are a real one ☝🏽 glad I found you...thank you eternally for empowering self love, accountability& growth!!!

[@crazygorillagirl111]

Your analogies are on point! One guy recently told me ''If I miss a new, refurbished bus, I won't be sad, because I know theres another one, granted, an older model, coming in a few minutes, and wouldn't you take the earlier bus, rather than wait for a newer one again?''. I had nothing to say to that, because in his own logic it makes sense. Then I found your channel, and this is exactly what I was thinking of but was having a hard time translating into words... I was feeling a bit down and not in my usual vibe, but this got me right back up, thanks a lot!

[@jakenyajones7268]

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS! One WOMAN, one MAN! We were created beautifully! There's no changing that dynamic. Super encouraged by your experience and words.

[@xjgd967]

This is what I needed right now

[@Midnightstar567]

I gave the nice guy a chance and I thought cuz I didn't think about how he looked and focused on his character that it would be amazing and It was in the beginning but turns out he was just good at covering up his cold heart he was just like my ex but worse lol no one is getting a chance till I have your kind of confidence Brenny 🙂

[@BreenyLee]

Hahaha ❤️

[@sasjaparsons5400]

Good guys play games too

[@annamayyy9771]

I did the same girl. Worst mistake ever 😂 I'm never compromising again

[@annettejohn6829]

Oh my god..SAME.

[@sallydames5867]

I feel this :(

[@eliz8294]

Your so wise. Are we ready for the real man to check us. No, but get ready if you want a real man. Love it girl. Thsnks.

[@ladylorp5436]

It’s not a coincidence that I ran across your channel, I swear this is all God’s doing because I broke up wit my boyfriend, went to church and the message hit a spot, I’m on KZbin watching videos of killers n stuff and all of a sudden your video pops up, like I’ve never heard of you or seen anything of u and just like that all your videos are in my face and I’ve subscribe bcuz these videos are what I need in this moment and season I’m embarking on 🙏🏾🙏🏾 thank you Lord

[@lawe859]

I agree with everything, also this may shock most women but Good men have standards and most women don't reach it, and they don't know that they don't..

[@kaliapatrice]

I clicked so fast.

[@876tisha]

Kalia Dumas girl ok 😂😂😂😂

[@daphneepaul3737]

Me too sis

[@snsl28500]

Bruuh I'm just 3 minutes in and I'm sitting here with my mouth wide open absolutely mind blown. What you said about how our father forms our attachment style blew my mind. It all makes so much sense now.

[@marijkatilton3054]

These videos are gold and precious gems, I don't see many ladies out here spitting facts and truth like you are and not only is it refreshing, it's VITAL. Keep it up breeny, love youuu ❤

[@na8959]

Hi Breeny, This was a great video. Just wanted to share my two cents on a few things you said. RE standards: a good, lasting relationship will always be founded on a love for God and will be approved by Him. The right man will be one who wants you to grow with Him and do what is right by God, both for himself and by you. This really only happens when both people have a strong relationship with God and allow Him to change their character and make them secure in their own identity. Without having that, you tolerate a lot of poor behaviour and on top of that, try and change your partner to become more Christ-like and meet expectations they just can't meet. You can certainly have a good relationship without God in the picture, but will it be satisfying? Probably not. I think a lot of relationships leading up to the one that is meant to last are designed to refine your character and humble you so that you are able to give the best of yourself to your God-ordained partner. Love the series!

[@ambernicole8786]

Based off the true definition of a friend, I’d say you’re a friend and a good one at that. Thank you for being a role model to me and supporting the truth.

[@BeartoeConCarne]

I dont agree with alot of things that you put on this video but you are spot on with your solution. Youre a real help. We have different values and ways of seeing the world but your energy and advice is exactly what the word needs more of

[@vague9194]

I'm in LOVE with this channel it really puts things in perspective and makes you think about sum stuff you might not want to 😳

[@She_So_Solo]

Dude in the ad video is fine.

[@kobe88us]

LabelMe 4C wow you already slipping

[@amina-janine7447]

Every time I watch your videos I feel so motivated and confident thank you

[@dfromtheblock1537]

You are heaven sent! It’s so therapeutic just listening to you.

[@KimiJoy]

Yes!! Been waiting for another Breeny video!! 😍🙏🏻

[@michelesacks2168]

Kimi Joy same here . I just got so excited when I saw this 🤗..