Ladies... RUN!!! These Men are INSANE!!! | The Ultimatum on Netflix

[@musicsoullove12]

The way JRs tone changes from when he talks to Zaina vs Sandy is very telling. And he was defending Sandy like she was his girl for years but doesn’t defend Zaina? Lol what a cornball

[@bria2885]

His voice is so annoying

[@KarmVer]

Self hating black men go crazy for even average looking white women. It’s like they can’t help themselves. He was smitten😂

[@addisbarge]

@@bria2885INCREDIBLY ANNOYING

[@UniquementVanessa]

Yesss sis, I have said this so many times like JR your tone with Sandy vs Zaina is different. Even when Zaina did the surprise for his birthday dude wasn't happy as I expected. I feel like JR is using Zaina. She needs a better man :)

[@yaasupreme8080]

Zaina is the weirdo to witness this and still want him to be her husband.

[@naimamorgan6209]

These shows just verify why I am ok with being single until i meet an emotionally stable man. These men are not ok.

[@zataniagooden]

Same!

[@desmawalker556]

FACTS 😒

[@kayl11688]

just a great reminder

[@marryaugustine5748]

Same here oooo

[@You_Know_Shes_Right]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@desmawalker556]

Zaina... NEVER let a man have to tell you TWICE that HE DOESN'T WANT YOU !!!!!! 😖🤦😒

[@kia.203]

Bingo!! She is annoying me. This man is clearly displaying signs that he doesn't want her.

[@desmawalker556]

@kia.203 He did everything but hold up a neon sign. 😕

[@soulRegal08]

This is it!

[@musicsoullove12]

Yup! Also notice that he never asks her questions on their dates, she’s the one checking in and asking. But during his trial marriage with Sandy, that man was asking all the questions, checking in with her. He basically told her he’s not into her the way she’s into him and she’s asking follow up questions to further clarify?? Oh dear

[@e8fl3b]

Many more times than twice in a variety of ways, in direct, indirect and body language ways.

[@nickoletcampbell4657]

Jr. w/ *Sandy* : 😄😁☺🥰 Jr. w/ *Zaina* :😒😐😶🙃

[@veesmith9737]

😂😂😂

[@TinoMiller]

😂😂😂

[@ladichap]

👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾😅😂😂😂

[@mrsgigi8862]

Scotty talks to Aria like he’s her dad. Does he even like women? He’s so condescending when he speaks to them.

[@ericabelcher8760]

Omgggg yessssss! I cannot stand how he talks to her!!!

[@D_A_Marv]

I believe her brother said that Scotty reminded him of her father and he, the brother, does not like Scotty

[@TheCRYSTALLURE]

And I wonder if he speaks to Women this way in particular because of his dad; like he mentioned how his dad was speaking to him the day before he passed & he was so upset he didn’t talk to his dad. So I wonder if his dad would speak like this to either Scotty the scootie’s mom bc where does it stem from.

[@kia.203]

We, as women, need to do a better job at learning to walk away.

[@IamTracieLynn]

This! We make every excuse in the world🤦🏽‍♀️

[@nikkyshamz2696]

This

[@selfishgirlsgofirst]

Happy Black Women's black Santa month to all my Sesteeers🎉😊😊.

[@unapologeticallyme4507]

@@selfishgirlsgofirst same to you sesteeeeeer

[@jamaicajohnson2689]

Happy black women’s black santa month to you too sissssssteerrrrr🫶🏾🫶🏾💕

[@AshantiHobbs3]

🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@Nephu.]

It’s how I read that in Jessie’s voice lol

[@thebreezerunner]

Aria got yelled at a lot as a child and choose a partner who continued to yell at her

[@ericabelcher8760]

Hmmmmmm.....great observation!!! Lawwwwd!!! I couldn't put my finger on it! Smh 🤦‍♀️

[@joannasaadati8810]

And until she heals that childhood wound she won't be able to attract a better partner 😢

[@issababy2]

@@thebreezerunner yes, that’s how trauma works.

[@DominiqueVictoriaa]

@@thebreezerunner everyone on this cast is attracting their trauma or becoming their trauma. Some people attempt to hide it better then others

[@guidedtime]

I won’t be surprised if Aria is still with Scotty. She’s young and has been posting things about not passing judgement. May God help her bc Scotty is scary!

[@WilliamsPinch]

Her brother will end up in jail because this goofy girl keeps choosing Scotty.

[@amberpalmer3708]

@@WilliamsPinchoop

[@Ashleynavyy]

They got back together but she said at the reunion she broke up with him

[@angieb822]

Yep- Scotty gives stalkerish behaviour, if and when she breaks up with him.....Somebody call Aria's brother!!!

[@bolu101]

@@Ashleynavyy Who asked you 😩

[@CharisMaggieTV]

I think Caleb and Aria went about their trial marriage the correct way cuz it shows they didn’t need to be sexual to have a connection. If they decide to explore their connection outside the experiment, they can do so without that extra guilt, regardless of the format of the show

[@Bonita153]

Facts. I know they are technically broken up in the first trial marriage but if you genuinely think you can make it work with your partner you will respect them and not cross certain boundaries. It really was a hall pass situation for JR

[@CharisMaggieTV]

@ exactly. I have more respect for couples. The ones who move on too fast with a stranger on the show usually tells me they were checked out and used the opportunity as a hall pass. None of the other couples crossed the line because they actually wanted to work it out with their original partners and so crossing the line wouldn’t help with doing that. Sandy and JR came to the experience already checked out

[@nickoletcampbell4657]

yes. I commend Caleb for how he carried himself during this experiment. He did it the right way. Every woman should want their partner to behave the way he did. He showed both women the respect they should have been shown.

[@CharisMaggieTV]

@@nickoletcampbell4657 definitely! He was respectful

[@e8fl3b]

If Scotty is this scary before marriage, imagine what he could be like in a divorce situation

[@creesworld]

Clock tea 🤏🏾

[@ericabelcher8760]

OMGGGGGGGG!!!!! Say this again for the ppl in the back please!!!!! This comment needs to be pinned!!! He is freaking EXHAUSTING!!!!!!🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@ariamonsoon7510]

Caleb is actually half black lol. He confirmed on his IG stories a few days ago. I knew he looked a little seasoned

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

I thought it was like a 1/4, isn't like his granddad black. Could be wrong. :D

[@mpro9446]

A little seasoned 😭

[@BayBunny415]

We can spot black in anybody lol I knew it!

[@BadAshChick]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@missdwilli]

😂😂 "a little seasoned"

[@jacquelinepean8100]

A part of me feels that Aria and Caleb did so well is because they are similar in the way they express themselves, demeanor, and the way they express physical touch. He isn’t over grabby and she isn’t either and their partners both say they need more physical touch.

[@LoveLeneish]

Scotty being the evil spawn of Jafar from Aladdin that he is...I will never understand how he even bagged Aria to begin with..

[@bwashenaqadhafi9054]

I agree 😂😂

[@stacyb-r6931]

He probably makes sense on paper

[@fin4008]

😂😂

[@skyehap]

Factsss

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

They weren’t in the same city sooo, long distance prob helped

[@myssmajesty9567]

This show should be called “A way out” because it’s giving everyone a way out of their current relationship.

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

I'm not advocating Nick's behavior what so ever. I agree he needs major help. However, Sandy is the type of woman to get SOMEONE in trouble and end up on Dateline. JR doesn't realize that HE is becoming the other man in their relationship. Funny how ironic it is that his wife cheated, and JR is now playing the role of the other man. Side note, I also hated how he expects Zaina to "not hold his kisses over his head", yet is holding his ex wife cheating over Zaina's head????? okay JR lol.

[@CharisMaggieTV]

Agreed

[@Kelema86]

NAH. JR knows and loves being the other man. If anything JR is pushing for it more than Sandy is.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

All facts, only thing is Zaina has the power to leave. She's not a tree.

[@LLansnnslsmsk]

Clock that

[@ericabelcher8760]

THANK YOU!!!!!! BINGO!!!!🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@LaShawnDenise]

I got second hand embarrassment from the tattoo scene 😭😭 I could not stop cringing lmfao.

[@beewest5704]

Single whyt female vibes! No mistake.

[@edwardsstephanie30]

Right, he knew exactly what he was doing. That was so scary, I'm surprised they just glossed over it so easy

[@WilliamsPinch]

Jr is banking on Sandy breaking up with Nick so they can be together. But I think Sandy is holding out for a baller. Can’t wait for the reunion 💅🏽

[@PerpetuaChomba-Therapist]

Reunion is out

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

Agree, JR was entertaining for the moment but she was like totally over it before he was. But also over Nick and looking for the next big thing exposure would get her.

[@beewest5704]

Nah Sandy will play blk but she knows where her bread is buttered.

[@___.blessed.beauty.___b9446]

Sandy knows she’s not for the struggle life that’s why she picked Nick anyways he was providing for her in ways no other man was but he isn’t her dream guy. She seems like she stays where money is

[@TheCRYSTALLURE]

⁠@@___.blessed.beauty.___b9446bingo! When Sondra/Sandy & J.R. Talked about kids she said “if the finances are there, the more the merrier”. Lowkey it was a hinting jab at how J.R. shared his upbringing. And she needs security all the way around to feel comfortable.

[@strh2]

How clear does JR have to be boo. He literally said he doesn’t love you like that. At that point you have to scoot your chair back and leave. ✌🏾

[@carolinekamya2339]

yes!

[@humletfred9767]

true!!!!!!

[@IamTracieLynn]

🎯

[@shortyp1000]

Caleb likes Aria BUT he didn't pursue her romantically imo.

[@tamcar04]

I had the same reaction to Nick learning about the second kiss.....I was crackin up! 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I just KNOW JR and Sandy was knockin boots all over that apartment in the safe spots!!

[@kdramasweregood]

Omg 😂

[@danielkhan2032]

For real. If he’s crazy about that kiss what’ll happen when he find out JR was tearing that up. Lol

[@kb5552]

wheres the other black guy

[@TinoMiller]

​@@kb5552 they all left the show

[@TinoMiller]

​@@danielkhan2032 it's why she said she had fears marrying him ...Her own mother was rooting for her to stay with J.R

[@jessicanoelle2012jp]

Ok, look, 7:31 I think we as women are experiencing horrible men like JR or Scotty or Nick, that when one GOOD man shows us any kind of decency, (Caleb), we fall in love quick! We may mistake it for "he likes me". such as when a man opens a door for us, or pulls out a chair for us, we may go to the "he's pursuing me". when in reality, he may just be a gentleman. Did we want Caleb to ignore aria or something? He acted as if she was his wife, and that's the whole point of the experiment; to show Aria that a husband doesn't have to be degrading. That's just my thought.

[@_alycia]

🎯

[@anotherchance-rc9pw]

I agree.

[@brittanygoodwin4041]

💯

[@martikanara4940]

My thoughts exactly. He was simply considerate and empathetic. I saw no romantic chemistry on Caleb’s end.

[@nickoletcampbell4657]

yes. Aria is so deprived of everything Caleb was giving her that just getting a taste of it made her think too much into it.....

[@amberforbes5348]

He has so many great things to say about Sandy and he didn't even try to hold it back just a little

[@TheCRYSTALLURE]

Like come on! Sondras 3 weeks vs Zaina’s 3 years?! He’s over there hopping like a lamb across a gate. Something wasn’t adding up. It’s not right.

[@kwanzadixon4722]

I don't think that J.R's ex-wife just up and cheated on him. I'm not giving her an excuse, but maybe she didn't feel emotionally safe with him. He's disgusting and she picked up on it.

[@joannasaadati8810]

I watched an interview with Zaina and she said that she thinks JR didn't want her to know he kissed Sandy because she would get revenge by kissing Scottie. That just speaks to his mentality and I bet he cheated then his ex wife cheated back.

[@TheCRYSTALLURE]

@@joannasaadati8810Truthfully it also heavily speaks to his misogyny. He shared it in the convo with Sondra/Sandy: “she can’t post on IG but I can” like bih what?!?!?!??? Why would you think like that. He showed us who he was. It’s always him, his way, male first mentality. Edit: & why tf would he agree to go on the show w/out a thought that Zaina could’ve kissed Scottie whether it was for revenge or not, AFTER he just said he wouldn’t go on the show to begin w/ if there were boundaries. Like make it make sense! Gives ‘I can do this but you can’t’, he’s the male who wants to have his cake & eat it too but the woman could never do the same in his eyes.

[@varbahflumoku9273]

Zaina acts like a lot of women, she just wants what she wants, and is not really listening to her man. He does not like or want her.

[@leeleegrace9015]

💯 true. Listen to what your man is telling you ladies! It'll save you a lot of time lol

[@angelmushahf]

Right, he literally told her how he felt.

[@nikkyshamz2696]

This!!!! Cos he spoke and acted jt

[@sosweet310]

In the same breath he could’ve just manned up and walked away 😶

[@varbahflumoku9273]

@sosweet310 of course, but she can make the decision for herself, she gave the ultimatum, don't waste your time on no one that doesn't want you.

[@ziharrison2151]

J.R talks about Sandy as if she moved mountains for him 😴

[@laurencameron3150]

Exactly! However, I noticed that a lot of black men (a lot of black ppl in general) see the bare minimum as something extravagant when it comes from a woman that isn’t black or mixed with it. I knew a guy that damn near fell in love with this white woman because she fixed one of his twists! Mind you, I’m the one that did his entire head! 😂 A lot of black men view labor from a black woman or a woman mixed with black as mandatory do they don’t appreciate it. They don’t expect the same from other races so when they do the bare minimum it’s seems as something extraordinary. 😂

[@ziharrison2151]

@ now points were made 🎯

[@nathaniahenry141]

I don't believe it's about JR being black, it's about what JR represents. And you said it yourself, Big, tall, muscular man. NO ONE would trust that around their woman. And it's also paired with he knows that Sandy is a tease. So, of course he feels threatened by him.

[@TheDawnofVanlife]

Agree, Black or Not I think JR is the thing Nick WANTS to be. Which is this fit tattoo physically prime man (skipping the fact JR is gross for now and just focusing on the physical thing). A white man with the same "physical specs" as JR that Sandy was into would have cause the same reaction. Caleb is fit but mostly soft spoken and really when his shirt was off I got shocked by his body more than once and I'm not even into him and that's cause he doesn't show it off like JR. JR is all about his "male cleavage" and wearing clothes that enhance it. I think that's why Nick wouldn't have been threatened by Caleb, is energy is understated and so respectful of Mariah even while having moments of physical touch with Aria. Micah, also black, carried the same energy as Caleb, a little more reserved and Nick wouldn't have likely feared Sandy straying with him. Dave would have been no threat at all. But the big, tall, muscular, tattoo man...that Sandy is clearly physically responding too. HUGE threat. This is the man he fears his much-younger-than-him partner meeting at the club. And while he probably imagined the Ultimatum having Calebs and Micahs and Daves, he did NOT imagine JR or that his woman would attach herself so fully to him so quickly.

[@nathaniahenry141]

​@@TheDawnofVanlife exactly that!!!

[@Kelema86]

It is def about what he represents. I don’t think Nick would have felt the same way about Micah.

[@addisbarge]

Hmmm, I disagree. I think you’re right about Nick being threatened by what he feels is a Macho representation of what a masculinity is, which is opposite of him- but I think JR being black adds insult to injury for him. Which is why he’s always saying weird things about JR that hints towards him being black. Like the “playa, swaggy” comments. It’s passive aggressive but it’s there. Even Sandy said some sus things like thinking JRs name, which is Jon, was spelled “jawn” 😵‍💫

[@loovej]

I agree, I never felt it was him being black. The sec. she told Nick that she noticed JR, it went left for him. Unless she has shared with Nick that she has a fetish for black guys(which would be wrong), I really think he would have reacted the same, had she said anyone else (could be wrong tho)🤷🏾‍♀️.

[@CarlissaFashona]

When Scotty speaks he’s literally talking about himself. That’s real deflection.

[@ericabelcher8760]

💯💯

[@BagLadyy_]

And projection, facts

[@1hunitGRAND]

JR gives nothing at all omg and Zaina is just so swooned 😂😭

[@ochukoinabowa1371]

Scottie is giving me The Weekend energy. All of The Weekend’s relationship songs sound like Scottie could have sang them.

[@AntoniaG1991]

All The Weeknd's songs sound like he's never had sex once in his entire life

[@gimmeprivacy]

​@@AntoniaG1991😂😂😂😂

[@melianen6613]

🤣🤣🤣 well said!!!!

[@ericabelcher8760]

Omg yess!! Smh

[@TheCRYSTALLURE]

@@AntoniaG1991bc he’s been “high for this” every single time 🤣🤣 he don’t even know what’s going on.

[@Nunofyabizzzzz]

24:48 I’m glad someone’s saying it! I’m tired of people acting like those two only kissed and Nick is crazy for being hurt and heart broken about it. Y’all can’t be against cheating but attack men for spiraling because he’s being cheated on (cause come on obviously Nick knows)

[@shortyp1000]

Aria, for the love of gawd, move TF on! Scotty is draining.

[@desmawalker556]

AMEN 👏👏👏👏

[@rikkithebeast5538]

Lmaoooooooo idk why this comment has me cracking up 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 But you’re speaking facts!

[@mariahash50990]

I cant wait to see your reunion reaction, cause it was the best reunion that i've seen from this netflix show, no one held back

[@jocelynlincoln2330]

I’m waiting for it because that reunion was….WOW!!!!!! JR showed his whole, full man-boy self!

[@zataniagooden]

The reunion was EVERYTHING!!!!

[@daughterofyah6209]

Really? I feel like Zaina made it honestly. Like there was nothing on Scotty and Sandy

[@Nita_Key]

That reunion was goodt!

[@skyehap]

Oath

[@lesliebee29]

“IS IT THE BRAIDS?” 😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣 I screamed every single time seester

[@alexa2044]

When I tell you the way I’ve been refreshing your page waiting for this everyday since the last one to the point I paid for a membership thinking I missed something

[@destinyd2210]

😂😂😂😂

[@prettysmallz]

19:19 another difference is Caleb kept things respectful for Mariah but JR and Sandy did not

[@savvyness1]

EXACTLY. Caleb and Aria were considerate of their former partners. JR and Sandy were AWFUL

[@Bonita153]

@@savvyness1but they only kissed twice and it was just a peck! cue Netflix replaying at least 3 😂

[@fin4008]

!!!

[@MadamPrissyPantsTV]

Caleb is tired of Mariah, but he comfortable with her just being around

[@journeyofher5623]

Girl, I just finished watching the reunion and I look forward to your next video!!!! When I saw Dave all I heard was you talkin about his hairline 😂🤣😂

[@ashleymaingi7026]

and JR!!! whew!!!! girl

[@journeyofher5623]

‼️‼️‼️

[@zataniagooden]

Me too!! Dave and Vanessa annoyed me and should have stayed home!

[@addisbarge]

@@zataniagoodenliterally like we don’t care about nothing yall have to say. Taking up the couch room and for what? 😂

[@BagLadyy_]

When u called Caleb a black king😂😂😂😂i really felt that

[@hillarydougherty1840]

Jessie! The reunion is crazy. We need you!

[@angel.lately]

I can hear the ewooooooooooooo already! 😂😅

[@nokibin9676]

Sandy and jr s continents definitely met

[@BaiTheGirl]

“Continents”😅😅

[@kia.203]

I'm going to use that 😂

[@koo_lee_lay]

Oh hell yes!

[@zachslattery8501]

One thing Jessie gone do is inquire about a check. How she gonna call that man a bih and then ask to be on the soundtrack lmfao

[@stacyb-r6931]

I had to rewind that part!! She is too much😅😅😂

[@melianen6613]

The way I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂😂 like business is business 😂😂😂

[@ellarh_h]

Did ya’ll hear that Jr is charging 10k to appear on podcasts or do press? Like JR is unhinged

[@Bonita153]

Good luck with that in 2 weeks time we would have all forgotten and moved on from this show 😂

[@timeme03]

I wanna what show will pay him 10k!

[@boitumelodibetso8719]

And this is the reason he came on the show. 🙄

[@ericabelcher8760]

​@@boitumelodibetso8719 Yup!! Smdh

[@epilew172]

Mr Man is trying to make a quick buck

[@BlackXSunlight]

Note how when Scotty is shit-talking Zaina, JR jumps in unsolicited to dogpile Zaina, and Scotty's like hold up now like even Scotty was like that's out of line. And then when JR is piling in Nick, when Caleb points out that JR was being disrespectful JR jumps on Caleb and tells him it's not his business...

[@melianen6613]

I think Scotty did that cuz he always wants to be seen in a positive light, cuz the way Scotty acted in the trial marriage, nope don’t defend me

[@ericabelcher8760]

Omg!! I caught the same thing! It's literally like they're both DIVA, NARCISSISTIC, Gaslighters who are mad when they're not in control of the verbal abuse. When one or the other cuts each other off, they get irritated with each other because they're both exactly alike but fighting for the spotlight of the evil menace! Scotty and JR needs some serious help! Just throw the whole cast into therapy! Smdh

[@BlackXSunlight]

@ I’ve been watching with my brother and I’ve been saying the same thing. I think Sandy and JR are copy-paste the same person and are both bullies, but are getting away with it because the behavior of those around them are so much more extreme. JR angrily shouting about his “wife” and how’s being disrespected… in front of his girlfriend-of-3-years whom he refuses to marry. Sandy crying at the table about how Nick “terrorized” her and she was in the apartment covering her mouth, holding back laughter when JR answered the door.

[@ericabelcher8760]

@@BlackXSunlight Pretty much!!! I cringed every single time parts with Scotty or JR was shown! Just hearing how they were talking was sending me thru the roof! Smh

[@mercedes.nashay]

54:04 JR talks like an airhead valley girl 😂😂

[@ericabelcher8760]

Omg! Thank you! I knew it wasn't just me!

[@ismaellev3788]

He is an airhead, just with muscles. 😂

[@itsasia_]

Its so unattractive

[@kinikiacooper3862]

Finally! I been checking for this update every few hours.

[@heatherslifestyle85]

Hahaha me too!!! I was getting upset 😅😅

[@Sololysha]

@@heatherslifestyle85we are way too spoiled acting like crack fiends for a KZbin video☠️😂

[@lilyxo6914]

@@heatherslifestyle85LOOL same 😂😂😂

[@Heather-dw3ym]

Me too 😅

[@issababy2]

I don’t think Nick describing JR as a player and saying he’s “swaggy” is racist. JR comes across as a player period. He has shown his true colors since the beginning and all the comments he kept making, not only with Sandy. So in my opinion, seeing the chemistry between her and JR, would have made any men jealous. Feelings are involved there. The real problem with Nick, is that he is an emotional wreck and at his big age and that was embarrassing to watch! Go to therapy!

[@chelaclova8680]

Agreed. It’s not always about the BBD lol I think Jessie is a little off on that part. JR was a dick to the guys and anyone that loves someone wouldn’t want them to fall for JR. Bc he literally said multiple times (they show it on the reunion) that he’s just trying to fuck all the girls.

[@ericabelcher8760]

Exactly! I will call out racism when it applies! However, here JR fit the description that Nick stated! I already knew what type JR was since day 1! He comes across as arrogant, condescending, selective, hypocritical, definitely a player, time waster, code switching, and a manipulator for sure!! Smdh

[@joannasaadati8810]

Have you watched the reunion? Nick gives more context into his mental state.

[@issababy2]

@@joannasaadati8810 Did you read my comment, before replying to it? I clearly just stated how he’s emotionally unstable. Even if he didn’t give any context at the reunion, it’s clear as day.

[@lachell257]

Educate yourself on racial microaggressions.

[@CharisMaggieTV]

JR choosing to throw shade at Zaina in that moment told me everything I needed to know about how he feels about her. Also, dog piling is on brand for JR it seems. He did it with Nick after he apologized and then here he is doing it for Zaina

[@ericabelcher8760]

THIS!!!!💯💯💯💯

[@danielleh7680]

Caleb is suddenly becoming more and more attractive because of his maturity and personality

[@dboyedoe]

TAX. THE. RICH. plain and simple. We've seen waaayyyy too many good people work waaaayyyy too hard to stay poor. End tax loopholes.

[@user-yk6nj7lp8j]

It’s written all over JR‘s face that he don’t fuck with that girl that I’ve never seen a faker smile.

[@HUeducator2011]

2:19 thank you Jessie for breakdown! Trumps tax law, messed me all the way up. Even as a first time home buyer , no breaks for the middle class smh

[@essencepierce273]

I hate that Sandy said “you’re right” because he’s not right. He’s only giving her so much attention because he is afraid of her leaving. This is what toxic men do.

[@ImAntiConformity]

29:00 😂😂😂 I watch wayyyyy to much Jessie Woo. When you said “whats the problem?” And paused I said “Is the problem here in the room with us “ 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jaejae444]

u keep calling Zaina, "Zanab" 😂

[@biancaneves3346]

Poor Zaina 😅

[@serenestorm4306]

It's annoying.. Lol..

[@sandrapierce8817]

It’s the way Nick cried, boo hoo cried after he went to JR apartment , made me cringe…..he has no self esteem and feels no women that looks like Sandy would ever date him….

[@wild3812]

Yeah, 💯, this level of desperation creates inequality in the relationship. Cause no matter how much she will f up - he will forgive her cause he’s dating a woman outside of his league - looks wise at least.

[@ericabelcher8760]

​@wild3812 Yup! And unfortunately, women who look like Sandy are fully aware of what they're doing & move exactly like her, all while crying her fake tears! Smh

[@joannasaadati8810]

If you watch the reunion he explains more about why he acted like that.

[@thecortneyb.8486]

It was sad to watch the Black men treat the Black women so terribly.

[@BagLadyy_]

Yet again in these shows

[@melianen6613]

Love how Zaina stood her ground vocally with both Scotty and jr, cuz they really tired to disrespect and intimidate her

[@traumaqueeen]

I really enjoyed the Ultimatum South Africa, because the couples were real and no one came on seeking celebrity. It was really good!

[@yeahandthensome]

Girl it was MESSSS-AAAAH and I loved every fatty bum bum minute of it 😂

[@AiahVarh]

Sis, I can’t wait to hear your opinion following the reunion because JR definitely gave off “player type” from how he behaved throughout the show and the reunion reveals unseen clips to prove it. Nick was off his rocker no doubt, but his insecurities were valid given the things JR said during the vetting process

[@ashleymaingi7026]

Girl wait til the reunion!! and we here for the commentary!!!

[@sarasarfraz691]

Yes, I think Jessie will change her mind on the JR swag-player take with that compilation they air. I think that's what Nick was privy to, behind the scenes.

[@danferraro3598]

If at this point, Aria stays with Scotty, it may have to be one of those 'Lie-ler and Ashley' type scenarios where you just gotta say, "ok, if this is what you want, best of luck, so sorry to see your life turn out this way."

[@Bonita153]

Scotty was so scary with Zaina I can’t imagine what goes on behind closed doors with Aria. I think she will eventually leave, well I’m hoping so anyway 🙏🏿

[@kendraj7435]

Aria don’t like that man she don’t feel safe at all that’s a hostile environment girl RUN. Her body is rejecting him.

[@ZelAB1]

these dating shows should require therapy sessions or psych evaluation😂😂😂😂bc WTF

[@Dear9812]

Vanessa said they had one! And that Nick hid parts of his issues during the eval 😭

[@ZelAB1]

@@Dear9812 omgggg😭that’s actually so scary

[@Bonita153]

I think Caleb was trying to be as respectful to Mariah as possible but in the game ‘never have I ever’, Caleb did say if he had to pick one person to spend the night with it would be Aria

[@DominiqueVictoriaa]

This season is exhausting AF!!! I have never been more proud to be single

[@IamTracieLynn]

Zaina, girl you can’t be this naive🤦🏽‍♀️

[@harrylederman1679]

JR at the table complaining about Nick incessantly while he is having a full-on relationship with Nick's 3 yr relationship partner... He's acting like this is a real marriage with Sandy even calling her'' his wifey ''....IN CONCLUSION :..JR is just an fF-boy using the experiment as a '' Hall Pass ''

[@ericabelcher8760]

SAY THAT AGAIN PLEASE!!!! 💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯

[@paulettesalomon2520]

That “no boundaries” means hall pass! It was definitely said!

[@Sheiswavy2]

Sandy is not leaving with him 🤣

[@Electra9797]

Shows like this make me VERY happy that I’m single! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@leeleegrace9015]

Period sis! Lol

[@Electra9797]

@@leeleegrace9015okay because these folks are all miserable and I wouldn’t trade places with any of them!

[@laurenthomas3748]

True! 😂

[@ZelAB1]

10:33 I feel like despite what caleb is saying he rly did catch feelings for aria but he’s afraid to hurt mariah bc he knows how co dependent and emotionally unstable she is. I also think he’s not confident in himself either…aria seems to be the first person to help him see the good qualities in himself unlike mariah who’s constantly looking for an issue.

[@janine3664]

Scotty is constantly chastising Aria like a disappointed parent scolds a wayward child. No wonder she never smiles around him.

[@ivannarandall2102]

Oh I can’t wait for you to see the reunion. Also hot take I could tell Nick has BEEN like that in his relationship with Sandy and I’m glad she got out of that. I’m happy Zaina got away too.

[@eugeniemonique]

The way I’ve been waiting for this! If Jessie doesn’t post I have nothing to watch 😂

[@ZelAB1]

i been binging old videos waiting for new ones😂😂😂

[@calychagardiner2768]

Jr gives me the ick! I mean the double standard….how can you hold something that has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with Zanai not to mentioned it happened YEARSSSSS ago but feel a way about her holding a kiss that literally just happened…Though you may have had a “pass” she still can feel away about… ugh I think everyone should just leave alone..none of these couples makes sense and a lot them need therapy. Side note I would have loved to see Caleb and Aria together though. Scotty is insecure, unable to see where he’s wrong, just a victim playing gaslighter! 😩😩

[@ericabelcher8760]

You said nothing but the damn TRUTH! And the kicker is men like J.R esp, he will be the one who would leave Zaina with a quickness, if her and Scarface kissed each other! These men are unhinged! Ijs! Smdh 🤦‍♀️

[@allelitememesaem3916]

15:22 😂😂😂 "Scotty stfu, ain't nobody ask you"

[@lindalindak3153]

JR is pure trash. He needs to go home alone. Zaina is too good for him and she deserves a man who will be a good husband

[@laurenthomas3748]

Jessie, you’re nicknames are top tier! I’ve been calling Scotty “elf on a shelf” this entire time! 😂

[@camalcina]

Why do these people torture themselves for our entertainment!? 😂 These people are insane. If you even think about bringing your significant other on this show you just have to call it quits.

[@FlyingDutchman2693]

The only reason I watch these shows, is just to hear what Jessie has to say afterwards 😂😂 I'm not a woman, but I'm hoping soon I'll be an honorary sisteeeeerrr

[@ericabelcher8760]

😂😂

[@tjortaraja]

From looking at a post on TikTok of Jr’s it looks like he’s very insecure because in his head he’s still chubby. He only beefed up in the last two years. Which means Zania was with him before his glow up and now that he’s feel’n himself he want to be out chasing.

[@justSymiah]

The difference is Caleb considered Mariah’s feelings throughout - Sandy was moving like she didn’t care about Nick at all . He was definitely out of line & overboard, but you can tell she wanted her complete 101 time with J.R. undisturbed and w/o boundaries. She acted like a parent wanting a break from her children and i get it 100% given how nick acts , but it’s not the same as how Caleb considered Mariah . Even Aria talked about how Caleb would go to the bathroom and speak to Mariah for 2+ hours every night , Caleb considered Mariah by holding back physically with Aria … unlike Sandy . Also , the whole cast still had some type of interaction with their original partners while in their trial marriages .

[@BlackNella]

I believe Caleb wasn’t trying to pursue Aria. They just had really good natural chemistry

[@salomefrancis5332]

The whole time I was watching all i could think was: I CANNOT WAIT TILL JESSIE WOO SEES THIS 😂😅

[@livewell-xt5xr]

Everyone isnt ready to commit to the process

[@KyeyuneBatuma]

I truly pray that we get to see Jessie woo on a big budget big block buster movie 🍿🎥 soon she is tooo talented ly goodness

[@KyeyuneBatuma]

You are sooo right Jess , the fact that Nick is an actual 🎨🎭 aritst there is no way he got the wrong tattoo ..wow that was nasty 🤢 work lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@KyeyuneBatuma]

J.R IS a petty instigating Scorpio 🦂♏ hahaha 🤣 he has the darkness in his eyes 👀 not him tagging at Nick till he got a reaction lol 😂

[@bugsymalone3330]

Alright, Alright, Alright....let the shenanigans and scallywaging begin😂😂😂😂

[@mizkayzee]

I was watching the reunion and calling your name like, "Where is my Sistah?!! Jessie Woo, Where are you?!"

[@mango7966]

I didn’t watch the show but every clip I saw of Zaina and JR separately it has me thinking, wth does she see in that man ?

[@ClaireHaire]

*Award for Most Toxic Male: Scotty. This is what we call a covert narcissist, slowly destroy you from the inside out, so he can build your confidence.* After watching these couples, I see why everyone is together. (Zaina & Jr.), Jr. has money & wants Zaina to "play" her role, so she can cash in on it. (Sandy & Nick), Sandy thinks of Nick as Toyota Corolla(Haitians know) reliable but, she's really shooting for a luxury car but, is too insecure to try & get 1. (Johnny & Aria), Aria is susceptible to his love-bombing & Johnny doesn't want any push back so he identifies & attacks insecurities. ( Caleb & Mariah), Caleb is comfortable with Mariah but, Mariah isn't comfortable w/Mariah because, she's never been alone. *Bonus, the Latch-keys(Nick & Vanessa), Vanessa wants to continue to prove that Jessica was a mistake & Nick's ego is fed by this.*

[@2320nikki]

I was waiting for someone to point out my suspicions of Scotty being a covert narcissist…he is so toxic. Aria finally left him but she should have done it a long time time ago.

[@ericabelcher8760]

I was thinking all of this! And woah!!!, are you talking about the hosts in your last paragraph?

[@ClaireHaire]

@@ericabelcher8760 *lol yes no one is safe. I don't ever seeing them get a divorce because, Vanessa will never let Jessica win, women do this all the time when they're insecure & Nick's ego loves it.*

[@ClaireHaire]

@@2320nikki *yes ma'am, covert is the real demon. I remember when I first got my psych degree, their mindset is terrifying, they break you down from the inside out.*

[@mercedes.nashay]

Nick is so obsessive. It’s really not healthy. I think it’s called anxious attachment.

[@prettysmallz]

29:15 he’s not going to be drawn to her until the problem is fixed but he’s telling her he doesn’t want to talk about it so how tf will it get solved 🙄

[@ericabelcher8760]

Omg!!! Glad somebody else said it!!! That just blew my mind while watching it!!! Smdh

[@angieb822]

Phrase of the year is 'You did not directly ask me.....'

[@kevinortegarojas]

Girl the way I was WAITING on this upload!!!!

[@cheriepomba]

Gurrl watch the ultimatum France I was laughing so hard "why you're walking topless in front of my girlfriend" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Bonita153]

The ultimatum France was sooo good!

[@CocoaBananas23]

Nick wasn’t being racist when he said that 🤣🤣 JR looks like the player type meaning he can get women and he does have more “swag” than nick. Plus he’s a good looking black man Nick knew what he was up against and he was being real.

[@jesssjourneys5722]

You really be having me cracking up at my desk .. I mean, I work from home but still 😂😂😂😂😂 thoroughly entertained