Lady chats by the sea with Mrs Mops

Hi my lovelies! Today is for the ladies, well, anyone, but mostly the ladies. I'm talking about keeping your circle small, making sure you surround yourself with people who will support you and build you up rather than praying for your downfall. There is such a thing as having too many friends. Check the video out!
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[@Tinky19]

It’s also very important to be the friend you want. We tend to expect so much from our friends but fail to even be half that person to them .

[@londyhadebe6957]

This is not always true because I recently learnt that I have been a people pleaser which means I have been kind and loving but still never got any kindness or love back

[@Liveandletlive0101]

I, at 28 decided exercising the cutting-phenomenon. It's refreshing to hear that someone feels like i do re: bridesmaids. I do not even desire a baby shower. My mom & my sis are my mains. The other 3 ladies in my life are my friends but i hold no expectations of them. I have been through the FIRE with friends. Jealousy, envy, two-facedness & competition. I'm grateful i am naturally an introvert and obsessed with my self-development. It's been 10yrs now. I'm a successful lawyer & entrepreneur. I do solo-vacation which i love. I paint, i do brunches with the girls now and them. My life is full. God never left even for a second!

[@nwabisasodladla70]

I immediately got drawn to your comment. A mirror of my life. A lawyer too, few friends and just living my life. ❤️🌸

[@blackpearl7389]

Thank you Mpums❤

[@zee4458]

I thought I was weird for not having a lot of friends but from today I will continue doing me , thanks Mrs Mops ❤

[@lethu6413]

Felt like I was getting solid advice and wisdom from a big sister. The things you mentioned cannot be stressed enough. I think sometimes as women we know these things but vaguely understand them until it happens to you. May we always be reminded 🌸

[@Lerato_M]

Don’t announce moves, confirm results ❤

[@hrh_sagittarius8700]

Oh Mrs Mops thank you so much for this video... I also found out that I didn't really have friends ... they laughed with me but said horrible things about me behind my back... I have been so sad that I never leave the house because I didn't think I could have fun on my own... but now I know that this is the time for me to find myself ❤

[@mrsmpumimops]

It's painful in the moment, but the sooner you realise your friends aren't who they said they were, the better! 🤍

[@outthebox5690]

Thank you for being a virtual friend, I'm in a season of being a lone right now and I feel like everything has come late for me in life, I mean I'm 32 and I'm still in Varsity when I should be working with a husband and a warm home to go home to at the end of the day. But I don't have non of those things but I know God is working behind the scenes. Thank you for being human enough not to flaunt your luxury life to us all the time... Understandable it's part of your brand which is motivating but thank you for the advice and girl talks, women like myself need those the most especially coming from a woman I look up to. God bless you Mrs Mops ❤️

[@MissMotaung]

TAKING DOWN NOTES😭. THANK YOU for the advice . I am in my early 20's and l need an independent , ambitious woman who reminds me what life is about . Taking it from the person who has experienced this life means alot . Thank you once again Mam'❤

[@kedimogale595]

sometimes when God isolates you to prepare for your lifting, I'm definitely sharing this with my friend who is getting married in 5 weeks and she is currently facing a this trauma with a group of girls. Not everyone is around you with good intentions indeed!

[@kedimogale595]

Also people should be willing to unlearn and relearn certain things in order to grow.

[@asemahlemagaya1190]

this is a very powerful talk, i wouldn’t ask for a better role model❤️🥺

[@sinethembalondiwe2611]

I can't believe I just found out today about this channel. We need women like you !!!!!!!!!!!!

[@blackpearl7389]

Hey Lebo

[@zohramathebula4113]

Currently in isolation and I am equipping myself. I love the peace 🙏

[@lullu_anderson]

The truth in this. I can totally relate. Sadly we never see some behaviours coming. So sorry for the baby shower ordeal of “friends” not showing up. Amongst the people we surround ourselves with, you even wonder who would even attend your funeral when you’re no more.

[@msj7593]

God gives the BEST FRIENDS!!!

[@kutlo_baruti]

Mrs Mops looking stunning as usual 🥰

[@mrsmpumimops]

You are stunning honey! 🤍

[@millisentmcetwa7404]

I'm really loving this channel. It's so clean, elegant, fun with a touch of wisdom. I love it here

[@paballogwele8698]

I needed this ❤️ felt so much better after watching this and you are right not everybody is your friend. I guess we learn the hard way

[@sibahlem2829]

Yoh! Thank you for this. It's like I was listening to a big sister. I'm always the big sister so hearing another big sister is tear dropping 🥺❤

[@zinhlengobese6730]

Love this, thank you for your words of wisdom

[@Vincentia432]

So much wisdom, needed to hear this ❤️❤️❤️

[@sibahlem2829]

Thank you for sharing this. I've been struggling with friendships and trying to understand why I'm so isolated. I felt bad about that and struggled to see the bright side of isolation. ❤

[@pontshomaduna4571]

Such an important topic. Thank you for putting it so eloquently ❤

[@micarlalazarus_TBOB]

I needed this, thank you ❤️

[@uhm.anna.a]

words of wisdom❤!

[@leratolegae1846]

This is such great advice! Very profound words ❤

[@BK-lf1nw]

This was a great video particularly for young women who are reaching certain personal and financial milestones and are learning to navigate changing friendship dynamics. There is so much guilt that comes with reaching certain milestones - sometimes you feel its important to suppress your achievements to not alienate others. Thank you for sharing this advice.

[@thandotsengiwe8268]

Thank you for these pearls of wisdom and timeless encouragement on choosing friends wisely and friends that want to level up and not bring us down

[@liyemachinenyerungqu38]

The power and poise in your words is immaculate. You are a gem to learn from. May your cup continue to overflow. ❤️

[@ladiesuniversity9650]

Wow! Thank you so much for sharing this message. I have been encouraged by your word. I pray God continues to bless you.

[@unana.__]

Needed to hear this 😭 thank you 🙏🤍

[@surayamgobozi3620]

Thank you so much for this Mrs Mops

[@nomhlembatha3719]

LOVING THIS !!!!!!

[@PatriciaNeeCreations]

I watch this video around four times because… This is exactly what I’m doing for my self now ✊🏾💕✊🏾💕✊🏾💕✊🏾

[@Randy__S]

How I enjoyed watching this 🦋🦋🦋

[@PatriciaNeeCreations]

Powerful words of wisdom and encouragement ✊🏾💕✊🏾💕✊🏾

[@Mantoa_R91]

Speak on it!!! Love this

[@nompumelelomntambo5804]

Hi Mpumi,this is very true about some friends.I have had to let go of friends because now I was the was always maintaining the relationships and I felt more like I was desperate to have that person in my life yet that's not true.Frienships are a two way streak.However,I still have my friends from varsity in my circle and it's a good feeling to grow together.

[@penny_parkies]

Couldn't have said it better 👏🏽❤ thank you.

[@materenemolaoa1752]

So true. ❤️ “know your people.”

[@lisasibali3253]

That was so real, thanks Mpumi💛

[@materenemolaoa1752]

Love your accent. Love your aesthetic. Love the maturity in your voice. Love everything about you. Elegance.

[@rubydikgang6862]

Miss mops hunnnyy...love you from Botswana swerrie 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼

[@kgaugelondala7604]

Thanks Mpoomy. I am going thru exactly that with my friends right now and what you said about God isolating you, wow, i just want to sob.... But it's true and i thank papa God for busing you as a vessel. Stay blessed.

[@primmyntuli]

Ohhh mommy, so good to have see you were around my home town 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Thank you for these advice, Queen! 🏆😍❤️🐝

[@Lebo_11]

I wish you could give us more advice Mrs Mops I'm also going through isolation I thought kukhona into e off ngam thank so so much for your wise words mahn I know you are a busy woman but we real need your advices

[@ashiakhoza8449]

Need more girl talk thank you so much for this ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@mandisamondise3613]

Love this sit down Mrs Mops❤ navigating friendships can be an extreme sport yoh!

[@Missrorisang]

Love this, Mrs Mops.

[@asandaprecious6709]

Loved this conversation ❤️

[@dineosibiya2123]

Taking notes, great advice pretty Lady

[@shabephago9881]

9 months later and I keep coming back to this video🥺🤍

[@PrincessVelaryon]

I loved this girl chat ❤️

[@dineosibiya2123]

Classy, your skin, great topic Mrs Mops. Ngimthandani

[@mbaliscott6209]

Wise words Mrs Mops thank you. I love you Too ♥️💯😘

[@yangancata8277]

Needed to hear this.

[@Bbrentia_Skosana]

You are very good at motivating people wow😍😍😍I really enjoyed this chat❤

[@noni6337]

This is absolutely amazing I love this 💝

[@noni6337]

😭😭I know the Hood topic is hurting cs it's experienced that .

[@tivamilemasilela3963]

Oh my God I just came across this video mama😍😍😍, I’m so excited to have you in the streets of KZbin😋, I love you so much❤️ and I can’t wait for more lit content 😭😍🥂.

[@mampoiapathiamopeli5500]

That's always been my Mantra having just a small circle of friends and that's that cos not everyone who sits at my table is for me some could be very much against me,be strategic with your life as Mrs Mops Say,not everybody is your friend,not everybody is happy for you.its okay to evolve.

[@abongilebata7555]

Wow!This was powerful.

[@Lerato_M]

Thanks, I’m going through this phase❤

[@pheliwemashiyi8835]

You are right Mpumz,Ive joned a book club that got me confused as to do I make these new ladies my friends Ive since learned they r not they r just wonderful ladies that I see once a month...

[@cathymagwenzi9378]

I can relate to this video so much ...the stone that the builders rejected has now become the cornerstone .

[@Neli_Nof]

Amazing 🙏🏾❤️

[@nqobilemhlanga5142]

Oh yes girl, say it again '' someone who will not gossip when i leave the room'' thank you Mrs Mops

[@happym3585]

You hit the nail in the head 👌🏼

[@brandtestandtaste9717]

Productive chat I really like Mrs Mops and everything work too good for her cos she’s absolutely doing herself like nobody’s business. That’s why u could tell from far that her home is warm.

[@israeli_flava]

FACTS! Kisses from America

[@SiphesihleNameng1]

You such a bubbly and happy girl, love you for that ❤

[@PalesaPheeha]

Thank you

[@nthabimabuza1031]

Mpumi thank you for the words of advice and encouragement 🙏 im a new subscriber love you babes im here to stay and learn too.✋💖🥳💞👌

[@megansaaise74]

i think i found my new favourite youtube channel , thank you ♥♥♥

[@TheBAHUBSA]

Me too 🥹 just discovered the channel today

[@nontanda7540]

You are such a lady , oozes elegance 🫶🥰

[@tebogokabudi8245]

We need people like you serious

[@sinazoventfol6839]

Pls! I'm here for the content. Thank you sis

[@mrsmpumimops]

[@mmabathotseladimitloa586]

“Confirm your arrival.” 😍😊

[@winniendlovu1492]

Baby shower story!! 😂😂 Waze wangiqeda

[@princessskosana1372]

Well said❤

[@tanyamv]

This is for me...I thought I had cut off enough friends seems like they all need to go

[@nonqabagxothiwe2166]

I love you Mrs Mops❤

[@babxaba]

Spot on Mrs Mops! Tah

[@leratomogotsi5620]

I thought I have a problem bcos I am too sensitive and I always respect people I thought they are my friends but when they undermine me and disrespect me and when they see other ppl they want to outshine you and make fun of you so I decided to protect my space to avoid toxic environments.

[@alizwaavuyiswa1548]

I reall had to hear this

[@MCSdatsme]

Well said

[@ntombikayisembangcolo362]

WEL SAID HAYI ZINYANI ZODWA ENKOSI ENKOSI❤️❤️❤️❤️ SUCH A LAVLY HUN YOU ARE💕💕💕

[@BabalwaMusekwa-bm8oq]

Mrs Mops - aw of attraction is our source of survival. It is good to have a good heart - good intentions - wishing well for others - doing good, even when no one sees you ❤❤❤God thwarts the plans of the ungodly and their hands bear no success - that is scientifically tested. There is no light in darkness, and light consumes darkness...

[@nomthimalunga7880]

These words😭🙌🙏

[@nomhlembatha3719]

You are right.i have like 2 friends 3 when you are my friend.

[@olwethunomvete4353]

Yup❤

[@glendambhele8078]

I am grateful for this episode because I was going through some emotional turmoil due to the friend of mine.She just rocked up unexpectedly and trust me I was happy to see her but the problem with this friend of mine is that she has this negative energy and whenever I am with her I get emotionally drained and I don't know how to end the friendship because she was there for me in times of trouble.I really love her but I have grown and evolved as a woman and I can't still be friends with negative people but I still don't know how to terminate the friendship.How do I do it dear?

[@diysense]

Ministress of Enjoyment

[@SimilesihleMngomezulu]

♥️♥️♥️

[@mrs_bey_brkovic1777]

Nomsa will start calling u fake! 😂😂 story of my life

[@simplysocial8485]

Preach Mrs. Mops

[@missmg888]

Feel you

[@ntokozo.maps_]

Yaaas Notification Gang❤️

[@mrsmpumimops]

💕

[@andisiwepikisa3038]

"let's play chess" love that 😭🙌🔥🔥🔥❤️

[@tumanintombimodimo1911]

❤️

[@unathidabula3513]

💓💓💓

[@mrsmpumimops]

💕

[@madammomy]

Do not announce moves, confirm arrivals 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾