Hello Mpumi, what you said about that lady at the salon reminded me of something of when i became disabled, there were people who said when I became disabled , “ yho if it was me who became disabled I would have killed myself “ Mpumi that triggered me so bad. It’s like I got shot, on a wheelchair now and that’s all you got to say to me, I was like wow, people are insensitive. But the very same people are uneducated today with nothing, I persevered, I’m educated with an honors degree, I’m married, have my own house in the burbs, and I have a great job, that pays relatively well. So I look back and I say I made it. Being paraplegic is not easy but I’m determined and intentional about my life, goals and achievements.
@LadyT062 жыл бұрын
*That was nasty and appalling for people to utter such like you are not human.Askies hle,Bearhug!*
@zenz362 жыл бұрын
It's nothing but lack of education.
@rosedamane23282 жыл бұрын
Hi Pamela. Your comment gave me so much perspective, to push through to your goals and conquer through the noise is astounding. Thank you so much for sharing you really touched me
@cathymagwenzi93782 жыл бұрын
This is so sad . What happened to ubuntu . I remember growing up we were taught never to shame or speak I'll to others now the world is mean . My sister you are beautiful the way you are
@ItsMegaMbalz2 жыл бұрын
Sorry❤
@cloudettasono69282 жыл бұрын
This woman embodies everything I aspire to be and have. She has always been my favourite.
@LuzukoRalarala-gi4fv7 ай бұрын
Aesh Fact,
@zee44582 жыл бұрын
Yhoo Mina I took time off from abo instagram and FB coz they give me anxiety sometimes. I enjoy KZbin for now . Sorry Mrs Mops losisi bekakujwayela awunonanga , umuhle❤
@nonhlanhlagxubane46792 жыл бұрын
The same thing happened to me yesterday Mrs Mpos….. a lady who knew me when I was 18 says nginonile at a store full of people….. weee I dealt with her. I mean now I’m a mother, a wife, I’m a full grown woman. Honestly woman need to stop body shaming other woman.
@sinethembaxaba75812 жыл бұрын
Mrs Mops my goodness thank you for voicing the weight comments, you dealt with it accordingly
@DimaMolefe2 жыл бұрын
Do enter Mrs SA, you will definitely take the crown😊. I think you’ve planted a seed in my mind, I’m also considering it 🤔😅
@nowmine2 жыл бұрын
It's hard to control our emotions in a world where people think it's OK to be rude.
@Being_Ayanda2 жыл бұрын
Mrs Mops is the woman she thinks she is and more❤️😍
@dimphomaponyane2 жыл бұрын
I can definitely see you as a Mrs SA😍😍. The matching Xhosa outfits with hubby😍👌.
@kokuwatjivikua3805 Жыл бұрын
This channel is a gem!!!
@Liveandletlive01012 жыл бұрын
The weight thing is so tricky because at times it's said as a compliment (well, in my case since i've been as XS all my life). So, when you say it to others, your intentions are good but rarely land well. I have learnt the hard way and now literally just focus on complimenting everything but the body size.
@sindimazibuko85532 жыл бұрын
oh, I went to mrp home & the cashier who wasn't even servicing me called me to the side, made finger gestures while whispering to me how my vagina was positioned in my Jeans (ikalekile). I try brushing it off & she carries on & laughs. I felt so uncomfortable during my entire stay at the mall omw. I felt so bad reporting her coz that could cost her her job but I definitely sent the email because people need to have discipline & not be over familiar with clientele. the area manager called asap & condemned her actions. geez it's so annoying.
@Kim_Ngumbela2 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh! Why did she think that was ok!
@samanthareuning91062 жыл бұрын
Wow! Such an important message! Love that you spoke about body shaming and that you were able to be so vulnerable. Just the confidence boost I needed, friend and such great affirmation that you can overcome and achieve anything if you put your mind to it! I love you, future, Mrs. SA! ❤
@charlenesouthafrica846310 ай бұрын
You such a breath of fresh air !❤
@hrh_sagittarius87002 жыл бұрын
Gorgeous Gorgeous Girl... ❤❤❤❤ nothing as exciting as getting a notification of your videos.... I love you so much ma'am .... 10k SUBBIES 💃 🕺 💃 🕺 💃 🕺 💃 🕺 💃
@karabomasufi3042 жыл бұрын
You mos def would win the crown#Beautiful Mrs Mops#True ride or die😘😘😘💓💓💓💓
@tshiamomoima2 жыл бұрын
🥹❤️i just discovered your channel , Ugg i love your vibe … definitely see you winning the mrs South Africa crown 🔥
@siscaliciousentertainment2 жыл бұрын
One thing about Ms Mops: she'll drink a good bottle of champagne!🥂
@malanderetyu2 жыл бұрын
Welcome back and congratulations on the Forbes feature!👏🏽🔥
@nompumelelomntambo58042 жыл бұрын
Hello Mrs Mops, it's always a pleasure watching you. People go overboard with body shaming and we are tired !!!!!! Congratulations on both your shoots.!!!!
@fumanibaloyi27022 жыл бұрын
The family is growing!!! Congratulations on 10k subbies Mrs Mops🥳💕 . I absolutely love your content and can tell the amount of work and dedication put into it. Love the quality as well , top tier. Also that was very rude of the employee and unprofessional and I'm sorry that it happened when you weren't having the best of days . ❤❤I hope this week is better
@Miss_kaytt2 жыл бұрын
so profound what you said here Mrs Mops, I also like how you handled the situation at the salon. we really just have to set boundaries for ourselves. it's always mind blowing that it's ladies who often pass these negative comments without considering how the next person is going to take it. I'm also very calm but watch how you talk to me. stay kind & graceful💓
@lauratlale68462 жыл бұрын
I think when you're ready you should enter Mrs SA, you'd make such an amazing Queen!
@boujee_bridget Жыл бұрын
Doesn’t it have an age limit?
@aziziphontsenge8067 Жыл бұрын
Mrs SA not Miss SA. Mrs SA goes up to 50 years
@ogonebasiamang2163 Жыл бұрын
I love that you are honest to yourself and those arround you
@asie_dudula2 жыл бұрын
You are so pleasant to watch Mrs Mops❤
@cathymagwenzi93782 жыл бұрын
For me the most important thing is people need to be educated on body shaming because I think people have no idea how mean and terrible . Our sisters especially need to STOP this .
@zenz362 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that Mpumi. I once experienced that at a salon in Randburg. My response was '"Yes, I am aware" I decided long ago to shut out comments about my weight even if they are paying a compliment. Keep to yourself nalo complement.
@prudoschannel50382 жыл бұрын
Yes Mem enter Mrs South Africa, you already have a fan here :)
@rubymilan98242 жыл бұрын
big fan!!! mrs Mops yho we need a whole video on women commenting on each other's weight,skin and all ther other sensitive spots ...then they gaslight you and say you have drama when you react...women feel like they have the right to comment on anything they want and that's unnacceptable but most times, it happens in situations when you cannot address it where you need to restrain...women hate other women I swear...A man would never say that .nxa!!
@kedimogale5952 жыл бұрын
11k😳wow the community is growing real quick, love this for you❤️👏
@NELSONVANSCHALKWYK2 жыл бұрын
Social Media breaks are so important sis! For mental health wellness most especially 😭❤❤
@jessicamahape81502 жыл бұрын
Ppl are annoying honestly... I totally get your outburst... people who don't even know why they commenting on something that doesn't affect them... can we get a skin care routine?
@lullu_anderson2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ ohh and YES for Mrs SA
@Oku_dem2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being real and sincere - sidenote, you look and are amazing!
@ntandoynksss2 жыл бұрын
glad to see you back my love. congrats on 1ok subbies #roadto15k 🥳
@gomolemodikgetsi3 ай бұрын
You will definitely win it. You such an elegant woman with such a positive vibe
@KamogeloMaponya2 жыл бұрын
A channel I never knew I needed
@jennykweyo2 жыл бұрын
You’re absolutely everything and more🫶🏾❤️
@millisentmcetwa74042 жыл бұрын
Loved this video. I totally understand the salon situation, sometimes people just want to make comments that are unnecessary. Can we please get a body care, skin care routine ☺️
@Safirlady Жыл бұрын
Seriously hun, every time something has to be opened with a cork I literally have to brace myself, lol, 😆😆😆😅. Also, nothing wrong with taking a social media break or some self-care time as needed! Looking Gorgeous, bright, et shining per usual; stay blessed love! 💕💕💗💗🥰🥰🥰
@itumelengmbonani78032 жыл бұрын
Oksalayo Chomi umuhle, you beautiful from inside and out ❤️ lots of love 💕
@nthabisengtsotetsi8242 жыл бұрын
Love you Queen Mpumi ❤
@kundimasakona15392 жыл бұрын
My favourite notification 😻✨🎉 #roadto15k subbies let’s gooooo!!!
@mongalix8 Жыл бұрын
So chuffed to find your Channel. I follow you on insta, but didn't know you had a YT channel. You are the real bosslady for sure. The soft life becomes you darling.
@nhlanhlakhwiyane2 жыл бұрын
I wish people knew the impact their words had hey, trust guys we do see our bodies when we stand in front of a mirror we are aware of our body changes there’s no need to point it out.. I hate it when people talk about how much weight I’ve lost , I am aware and when they point it out , it reminds me that I suffer from an eating disorder and I don’t want to be thinking about that😤😭
@fufu73012 жыл бұрын
Our Mrs South Africa😄💕
@mohalesebongile90852 жыл бұрын
Am sorry for that hunny. No one deserves such. . And you're a beautiful person with a smart personality. And yes you deserve to go to miss sa shows
@lizmaseko54282 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you handled this because it's not okay to talk about another person 's body
@lesegolegoale25222 жыл бұрын
You would definitely win the crown 👑. You're so elegant 💕
@mfundomangale2 жыл бұрын
Loved this so much, you give us so much and I personally filled up my cup, thank you❤️❤️❤️
@SheIsAmile8 ай бұрын
Aibo Mrs Mops how come you’ve never mentioned you have a channel?? I’m so happy I stumbled upon it I’m definitely gonna binge 😍
@mrsmpumimops8 ай бұрын
Thank you Amile. ❤️❤️
@dineosibiya21232 жыл бұрын
You are gorgoues , classy and well mannered , you are goals,Sis omuhle.
@simpliciteebytshidimampuru77052 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂I like how your like “ hey am mrs SA” . I like how your all about women empowerment
@boipelotheexplorer2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you addressed the weight comment ,so that they know going forward ,that they do not cross those lines with anyone else
@zee44582 жыл бұрын
We are within ❤
@earningelegance2 жыл бұрын
Mrs Mops, you are such a beautiful soul. Keep shining mam. Yes do enter🎉.
@futtyngubane56652 жыл бұрын
I love you Mrs Mops, but this was a bit funny...yaz uyaphapha loyo unone kuphi coz that's your everyday glow. That lady is mistaking ukuchachamba(glow) nokunona(fat). love and light to you.
@asiphejohnson65432 жыл бұрын
Guys please invest in Automatic home backup generators. They range from R18 500 and up with installation. You can find them at Game stores or order online. They automatically switch on when the electricity goes off.
@nhlanhlakhwiyane2 жыл бұрын
That pop ma’am🤣🤣😭😭😭 glad it wasn’t directly on your face ❤
@MphoPhatswa4 ай бұрын
Love you mpumi
@jesss80602 жыл бұрын
Mrs Mops could we please see a closet tour. That would make for such an interesting video 🥰
@khanyisilemathebula2858 Жыл бұрын
Stand your ground Mrs Mops love u
@PrincessVelaryon2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful and elegant as always ✨️
@bridgetsebolai62072 жыл бұрын
Good to see you beautiful sis, stay beautiful and blessed 💖💖💖😘😘😘🥰🥰
@sinazoventfol68392 жыл бұрын
Haven't watched but pls I love this🥺💕
@Bbrentia_Skosana Жыл бұрын
I can't stop watching your videos😍😍😍you are amazing to watch🤞🔥😘
@ScottMaq2 жыл бұрын
I was expecting a vlog but I really enjoyed the format of this Life Update 🥰 I can't wait for the next video!
@thebaddie391 Жыл бұрын
Mrs Mops, I didn't know that you had a channel. Wow watching this episode it's like I am watching top billing. Everything so clean and so beautiful, how refreshing. You know i love your vulnerability that you understand women's struggles. But watching from where I am i'm wondering why you'd be conscious about certain stuff because you are so perfect. Beautiful, great body, clear skin and bright complexion and to top it all of you are wealthy. You are an epitome of what a woman strives to be. Do enter the competition i think you have a great chance.
@mamellomphahlele69652 жыл бұрын
We love you Mrs Mops Honey! 🔥 😍❤️
@Makoena_2 жыл бұрын
Notification gang❤️🤭
@busisiwekosi67582 жыл бұрын
Congrats on the Forbes feature🥂👑
@happym35852 жыл бұрын
You are everything beautiful and more 👑♥️ thank you for sharing this video with us.
@patiencethulare91682 жыл бұрын
We growing mama ❤
@kamohelomoloi89482 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@nontanda75402 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love your content Mrs Mops 🫶
@LuzukoRalarala-gi4fv7 ай бұрын
This Queen 👑 Rocks My World,
@angelic...49852 жыл бұрын
I don't approve the body comments. But I've realized lot of people don't see/ understand how it's inappropriate. Especially emakhaya. To them it's a positive compliment which is supposed to lift you up or make you feel appreciated. Charity begins at home let's explain to our aunts, mothers etc ask them to stop it.
@princessskosana13722 жыл бұрын
You are such a beautiful Mpumi ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ingridratananglaka2 жыл бұрын
Gosh I love you so much. 😍❤️
@thabisomavundla55112 жыл бұрын
I have done the same, being friendly is one thing but keep it professional.
@Lerato_M2 жыл бұрын
Haha Miss SA❤ go hun, you have what it takes 🎉
@nhlanhlakhwiyane2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on your Forbes feature, the cover is definitely coming😍😍
@itumelengmotsoene43642 жыл бұрын
love your videos Mpumi..and love you!!
@Bringbeautyzulu2 жыл бұрын
lol we have the same champagne flutes 😍
@Snack_172 жыл бұрын
Yes silaaa💃
@thimna_kulati2 жыл бұрын
Mrs Mops for Mrs SA🔥🔥
@TrulyAngieM2 жыл бұрын
Wow, congrats on the Forbes feature ❤
@gigilove48082 жыл бұрын
Yes you should definitely join Mrs South Africa ❤️
@refiloelekalakala64602 жыл бұрын
Such a lady ❤
@sibahlengcobo83652 жыл бұрын
Haaaa gal!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣talk about popping bottles
@ayandamokwana2 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you had that experience at that salon. ❤ You responded well to it.
@lesh19862 жыл бұрын
looking good mrs Mops. who won perfume voucher guys
@tulie47596 ай бұрын
You'd definitely win
@JohnUirab Жыл бұрын
New subbie here. Love all the way from Namibia. 🇳🇦