Van Life | 5 Things I Don't Tell You and Why

[@janet8146]

As a fan of your channel, I don't have to know everything about your life. You're entitled to your privacy and safety. Just share what you feel comfortable sharing.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for your undersranding ☺️

[@ShelbyVanGone]

This!❤

[@ForKnFifties]

She has to come up with videos, she's a KZbinr

[@hildebertocarreiro9232]

Get Viper alarm on ur van....

[@robertblair2035]

Privacy, diplomacy , friendliness , sincerity, helpfulness, balance Just some of the ingredients in your life that we appreciate Dee.

[@LadyBugout]

🥹 thank you, Robert.

[@rebekahfrye7934]

I am thankful for your Dad and his expertise. Give him our thanks for keeping one of our favorite tiny van people safe and happy. ❤❤❤❤

[@LadyBugout]

I’m thankful for him too. You be safe too!

[@SheridansSojourn]

I was stalked 30+ years ago. Even though that terrifying chapter of my life is long over, I can easily recall the paralyzing fear and paranoia it caused within me. I felt it a little again watching this video. I'm so glad you are taking your safety seriously. One of the many things I appreciate about your channel is that eschews controversy. Everyone needs a refuge from that. Thanks for sharing your journeys.

[@LadyBugout]

I’m so sorry to hear that-also one of the reasons I didn’t want to say something. I didn’t want it to be triggering. Thank you for your understanding and encouragement🥰

[@angelinasouren]

​@@LadyBugoutdon't worry about it being triggering because it's also such an extremely lonely situation for many and it's connecting, the sharing of the experience

[@naelyneurkopfen9741]

​@@LadyBugoutStop with the "triggering" nonsense! Life is real, wassup stuff happens and if people can't handle the mere discussion of such topics, they need to grow th up!

[@E.R.Schnaben]

Reading the comments here, I see so many people who are well aware, understanding, and supportive of how you present your lovely self, and that spectacular van interior. Yours is a master class in the subject of, not only life on the road, but compassion itself. Thank you.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much! That is so kind of you to take the time to say. It means a lot to me 🥰

[@MOTrav]

You must be an Interior Decorator! Your van interior is always organized and coordinated perfectly. I don’t know if this was a past occupation, but you’ve got the knack for it. Roll on!

[@LadyBugout]

Aww thanks. It has always been a hobby for sure. I used to love designing and decorating every place I have lived. My van is no different 😝

[@blugnu1]

I love your content, no politics, no constant drama, just directions to take or leave. Ways to improve your comfort , safety, & peace of mind. Ideas that may have not been thought of, mistakes that you’ve corrected & share so we can avoid the same! I’m glad that things worked out for you & very happy to see you back on your channel! Thank you. Btw you show how to be comfy without spending $100,000 on those comforts.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for that feedback and encouragement. It helps me to see that I am doing what I set out to do with this channel. 🥰

[@MHM-Nautilus]

Dee, sorry to hear of your safety concern. Please continue to share but keep yourself safe first. Good rules to live by on the road. Bless you every mile and minute.

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, it is good for all of us to be aware of! Thank you for the many blessings 🙌🏼

[@cathieperezreyes]

Safety comes first, and you should always trust your gut! Also, that pita looks delicious 😋 Sending love my friend ❤

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, safety first!!! Mmmm yes I rarely get to eat pita-so when I find some that I can eat I enjoy them in every way possible 😝

[@StevenTee-o1r]

New fan from Australia. I'm a young guy living with a disability, and I enjoy watching your channel as a form of escape for me. I love your easy-going nature and your lifestyle. Be safe and keep making great content, big fan from Australia.

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate your encouragement ☺️

[@deborahknoll4676]

You've set boundaries & your keeping them. Good for you! Not an easy task & you do it with such class & compassion. Love your channel exactly how it is. Stay safe & happy. Thank you for your content. I truly enjoy & benefit from it.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much! I appreciate it 🥰

[@marthabradas8873]

Dee, I think you are smart to follow some guidelines for your safety. I have learned so much from you and the things you share on your channel. I enjoy the fact that you are such a pleasant you tuber, please keep doing what you are doing and keep sharing, I like a non confrontational channel, and you definitely fill that for me ! Have an awesome week, and I definitely feel your van decor is the most classy of any I have ever seen!🥰🥰 Go Dee!!!

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome, Martha. Thank you for your kind words. It encourages me so much🥹

[@Lawrence.L]

Bonjour Dee, C'est la raison pour laquelle je vous suit. Vous êtes une personne discrète, et ne parlez pas pour ne rien dire ! J'apprécie beaucoup vos conseils sur la Van Life. De plus, Lady Bug est une très belle mini maison. Je me doutais qu'il s'était produit quelque chose de "pas beau", votre regard a changé depuis plusieurs mois. Voir vos vidéos 1 x / semaine est rassurant pour votre communauté. Merci et surtout, ne changez rien. En ce qui me concerne, votre discrétion et le format de vos vidéos me vont très bien ! 😊

[@LadyBugout]

That is very kind of you to say. I appreciate the feedback. It lets me know that I am achieving what I set out to with the channel and this wonderful community. 🥹

[@maddygvanlifer435]

I'm 71 with a little dog. I hv a 1997 astro van I am slowly converting and you mentioned several of my concerns as I venture out. Thanks for sharing. God bless you and protect you as you venture out

[@LadyBugout]

Glad to help. I hope you have great adventures🙌🏼💪🏼💃🏻

[@ljones5203]

You are a very wise person! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and ideas about your youtube channel. Ive seen a lot of van conversions and I just want you to know that your van has the asthetics as well as the needed essentials for life on the road which I really appreciate because if it ain't pretty its much harder to enjoy your space! Thank you again for every post and idea you bring us. STAY SAFE! My prayers are with you.

[@LadyBugout]

I agree that having a space that feels homey and pleasing helps make it easier! I think that’s why I like sharing what has worked for me so much-in hopes it’ll help someone else be able to dream about how to make their own space more comfortable wherever they are.

[@timmusician5060]

I appreciate that you don’t get into controversial topics on your channel 😅🙏🏽 I watch exactly because you’re doing what you do. Not that I don’t also spend time on controversial topics. But I go differently places for different things. They don’t always need to bleed into one another 😅🤷🏽‍♂️

[@LadyBugout]

Agreed! 😀

[@maitildamcintyre9344]

All very great reasons and tips. I’ve learned a great deal from you. I’ll never be a full timer and definitely won’t have a KZbin channel, I appreciate tagging along on the adventures of others. My beautiful van was destroyed in a fire and I think I’ll likely grieve for that van forever. Life goes on and I’ll figure something out. Happy and safe travels always

[@LadyBugout]

Oh no. That is so sad to hear. Yes, I believe you will figure something out. Where there’s a will there’s always a way-even if it doesn’t look like we thought it would. 🥰

[@JennyLeiviska]

I’m so sorry for your fears you had to go through🥺💔. It surely is a fear even when a person is not on social media as a creator. Staying safe is our only goals in Vanlife Thank you for sharing your story 🫶🏼🫶🏼🚐

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, everyone needs to be aware and careful these days! Thank you for listening 🥹🫶🏼🐞

[@rrhopewell]

These tips make so much sense. So glad your safe. I love my space and privacy and totally understand. I love watching your channel no matter what you share, because it’s always informative and fun.

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that so much. Thank you🙌🏼

[@coralieofjumpwithnofear]

I’m glad you do what you have to, to feel safe and secure. I’m sad that you had a stalker situation going on, and I truly hope you’re feeling okay about it now and safe again. ❤

[@LadyBugout]

I am. It took awhile. But I’m good now 🤗

[@s-c..]

All of this is perfectly sensible & understandable. People give out more information than they realise. I have a passionate curiosity for maps & geography and I’m a bit of a compulsive geolocator - nothing sinister, just a bit aspy, & I was frankly incredibly disturbed that I was able to find one creator’s home address with barely any effort. I found out waaay more than I was wanting to know - this young woman’s bedroom faces onto a street and she ought to be horrified that she’s inadvertently advertised which one it is. I’m a harmless middle aged woman in Australia, but if I can find people, anyone can. All this to say, yes, please be vigilant! Your safety always has to be your top priority. And whatever you do, NEVER show a screenshot of Google maps (etc) taken while you were at home if you have location enabled!! ❤❤ Take care Dee.

[@LadyBugout]

Great advice! Yes, even with all the precautions, it is disturbing how easy it is to do. Thank you for your words of caution. Be safe ☺️

[@mtaylor2901]

Oh gosh Dee, I’m so very sorry you had that experience. I enjoy your videos and was very glad when you decided to keep your channel going. I’m often in my van for months and months, I never share my whereabouts on social media, I only share with my significant other, sister, and close nomad friends. Partly to keep my sticks and bricks home safe, and partly to keep myself safe 🤩. And yes, folks on the road do really look out for each other, it’s quite lovely! I have to say your lunch looked delicious and your food related videos are some of my faves, but I actually love all your videos 😃 As always, safe and happy travels to you! 🚐

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. That is very wise of you. I’m glad you like the food sharing. Although I realized it’s hard for me to talk and prepare food at the same time lol 😂

[@jefft1651]

Thanks being open and honest about your self and channel. I do hope best in any and all your endeavors. Peace

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you! I appreciate that ☺️

[@bellasvanlife]

Seven years ago, a guy stalked me in a store and even by way of vehicle. Thank God I was able to shake him off, but I was so scared I didn't leave my apartment for three days. I moved back to where I was more familiar too. I'm so happy you were able to kinda sort that out but I know it must still be a bit debilitating. This made me go back to your video from a year ago entitled "Can I Keep Doing This?" The end with the tears and what you said makes me think that's when it started or you were struggling. I am so sorry you had to and maybe still have to deal with that. Be safe, and yes... we don't need to know "everything". I know when I get more videos and start traveling, I will be very careful with what I share. ❤

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for you understanding and support😊

[@dream2be611]

I love your channel for the advise, and your adventure. I do love the hiking, scenery. The van build is so beautiful too. Keep doing what you do.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you! Will do!🥰💃🏻🙌🏼

[@RollingTortugaPaquita]

Stay safe and follow your dreams Dee. Thank you for all the great suggestions. I truly appreciate it.

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome🥰

[@carmendarlinseattle]

Dee! I so appreciate you as a person of integrity and passion! And I for sure identify a lot! In the same life phase. LOL! For sure intrigued with the VanLifeStyle. 🚗Loving all your recent and most honest content❤. - Carmen 🦋

[@LadyBugout]

Awww Carmen…you are the sweetest. Thank you so much for all your continued support and heartfelt kind words 🥰

[@annekejanissen7761]

you’re doing great in so many ways. Thanks for all your effort to give us so much helpful information and inspiration with all your videos. It’s awful when you want to trust, feel the freedom, respect and enjoy nature, you also experience the other side of life and not feeling safe and disappointed in other people. We can’t understand everything but we do know we have to keep the faith to spread the good . I am so happy and thankful for your ideas. Trying now your homemade products!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much for the encouragement! 🥰

[@pammicakes41]

Dee, you're such a kind and authentic person. I'm glad you rebounded and are safe and sound! ❤

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much 🥹

[@pammicakes41]

You're very welcome! I am on the fence about heading out one day when I can save enough to outfit a van as exquisitely as yours. Thank you for the great content I tune in when I can.❤

[@gschmeidler7134]

It is so good to see your smile. Thank you for sharing your joy and wisdom. 😊

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome🥰

[@tomcaldwell5750]

Dee, thank you for sharing another video with us! I wish you many blessings and safe travels.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much, Tom ☺️

[@lunchymunchy2984]

Sorry to hear about the troubles you had... I think it’s good that you pass on advice on this topic... your tiny van is still one of my favourite conversions of all time and you are living proof that itworks! Keep on keeping on🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💕💕💕

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much. Thanks for the encouragement 😊

[@lunchymunchy2984]

@@LadyBugout you’re welcome! thanks for the inspirational content🙏🙏🙏

[@sandrasandoval8111]

I understand completely and respect your privacy. I've been watching your KZbin videos for a while, and I am never disappointed. Take care and safe travels 😊❤✌️

[@LadyBugout]

Than you, Sandra. I am encouraged by that feedback 🥰🥰🥰

[@jonathanhansen3709]

I totally respect your privacy. And you have no need to reveal anything you want to keep private. I was amazed when you revealed your age. I literally thought you were 15 years younger than you stated. I always like the tips you share. Which as you said, is what your channel is about. We have the exact same van, and I’m still in awe how much room you’ve squeezed out of your transit connect!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Jonathan. How fun that you have a FTC too. They’re good little vans🐞💃🏻🚗

[@melindamckechnie7042]

I just found you and started following as of today. I love all the tips and ideas I’ve heard thus far. Stay Safe out there and enjoy each and every day ❤

[@LadyBugout]

Thanks and welcome to the channel💃🏻🐞🚗

[@ktharris318]

Appreciate all your points! Thanks for your videos. Enjoy your travels 🌻

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you☺️

[@ShelbyVanGone]

And these are all reasons why I follow you. Your channel is so refreshing and I feel we have a lot of parallels. I’m largely private so wonder if I should start/keep going with a little channel. This is very inspirational, thank you and keep safe! ❤

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that, Shelby. You are doing great!!!💃🏻🙌🏼💪🏼

[@scottsladeadventures1102]

Great information. Continue to stay safe and keep creating... 🙏 Thank you for what you do..😊

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. Yes, I will stay safe. You too.

[@vickifisher8933]

Dear Dee so much good advice..I can appreciate everything you said because I too am a very private person ..am so glad of all information you do share…and hurray for dads! So glad you were able to have your situation taken care of ..as always be safe and careful on your journeys ..would love to maybe one day meet you! Have a great weekend!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Vicki. Yes, hurray for dads. It would be wonderful to meet you one day!

[@jennymcguire1558]

Dee, your talks and topics are so timely. I'm talking about this video but also your most recent videos on sleep, how we can save money, etc. These are relevant topics that we rarely think about. The content is interesting and helpful and you have such a simple and pleasant way of presenting it to us. Your way of seeing things makes me ask myself questions, the right questions. You are so refreshing. Continue this beautiful mission which is to inspire us to become a better person. keep on going.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. I’m so glad they are helpful to you in your journey. That’s what I love to hear 🥰🥰🥰

[@sandrasomewhere]

That sandwich looks amazing. Thank you sharing these parts of your life. Love your content. ❤🐞

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome. It was a really good sandwich ☺️

[@lilliantittle944]

I am very happy that you are safe and very cautious. Sorry it's been so long since I tuned in 🐶💕

[@LadyBugout]

No worries. Glad you stopped by for this one☺️

[@kathyc6698]

You are such a classy lady!! I love your “5” things videos… stay safe and enjoy your Van life!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you! You too!☺️

[@deeoh3708]

Well said Dee. Your privacy is just that, yours. Thanks for sharing so many tips and ideas with us.

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome!☺️

[@jjanson50]

Excellent video. Your boundaries are smart and practical. Good tips for all of us. Be safe and be happy!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much! 🥰

[@RicardoSicks]

Your videos and your smile always make my day.. travel safe, live free, and happy!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you! You too!☺️

[@debraturner9433]

Glad your dad and the police were able to help you with a stalker and give you advice. Please stay safe!!!

[@LadyBugout]

Me too. Yes, I will 😊

[@doubled5037]

So sorry you had to go through that. Always take care of you first, no body does it better! Thanks for sharing!

[@LadyBugout]

Always! 🥰

[@doubled5037]

@@LadyBugout 👍❤️

[@alexanderweaver7066]

I'm glad you made it safely through that stalker situation. That's creepy. You have to put safety as a number one priority. That stuffed pita with veggies, avocado and Tajin season is a favorite meal of mine. Either Tajin or Bleu cheese dressing. Stay safe, Dee.

[@LadyBugout]

So delicious! 😋

[@MikeEss1000]

Glad you are safe, thanks for the great videos. Keep it up.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you! ☺️

[@leanne7306]

I enjoyed this video and very much agree with everything you said. You cannot be too safe these days. I wish you safe travels always! Thanks for sharing.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you! You too!😊💪🏼🙌🏼

[@HettyHartpreneur]

Tnx for your weekly positivity video ❤

[@LadyBugout]

My pleasure, Hetty 😊 Thank you so much🥰

[@hopehope938]

I can totally understand Dee where you’re coming from and I also under your need safety and protection. For about the last four years I have been wanting to get a box truck and build it out for both to living in and for work! I am a very people person but there are times when I need time for my self, I am a reader and a part time college student. I wish you the best and be safe. I wanted to create a you tube channel but I do not my photo all over the internet! I wanted to go places and do research and not be interrupted when doing research!

[@LadyBugout]

That sounds ideal. Yes, if you want to be more private I suggest not doing YT 😝

[@EfficientRVer]

Perfectly sensible and perfectly explained. Sadly, having had a problem was not shocking, considering how you're beautiful and lovable, though creeps probably don't have high standards for that, anyway. I'm of course glad to know you had good support, got through it, and have some reassuring safeguards in place.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. Yes, it can happen to anyone. I hope others hear it as a word of caution for themselves too☺️

[@jasonjones5213]

I've always liked your channel for the information.It's why I started saving for a van.

[@LadyBugout]

That is awesome! Yay 💃🏻

[@piperreilly97]

I am in "your season" of life. My partner and I have been planning on van life for over a decade, then he left me for a multi millionaires from his high school years. I'm not giving up on life nor my dream, and part of it is because of you and your channel. THANK YOU.

[@LadyBugout]

🥹 that makes my heart glad 💃🏻

[@annriley4534]

It can be tough being a woman, no matter what...thanks for your honesty glad you have awesome support(living in situational awareness and not fear, others say)💖

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much for the encouragement, Ann☺️

[@TGIFunday]

Lunch looks great! Safety first always! 😘👋

[@LadyBugout]

It was delicious 😝

[@BuzzConnection]

Great video, thanks for sharing, and keep doing what you do!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. 😊

[@jerroddooley374]

You don’t owe anybody any explanation’s little lady. Always take your safety seriously. I believe like you, 99% of people are genuinely good people. But that still leaves 1% who are bad and 1% of our population is a lot of people. I’m a retired police officer, and also have a daughter. I’m sure your dad would’ve loved to have tracked the stalker down and relieved him of his stalking tendencies lol. If anybody ever tried to hurt my daughter, I’d have no problem smiling in my mugshot. Your channel has been one of my favorites since I started the vanlife dreaming and it’s because you’re real, and your videos are very informative. I saw you a while back on I-80 but I didn’t want to approach you because I didn’t want to make you feel uneasy or anything. You just talked about keeping some of your favorite places a secret, that’s a great idea because if you let everyone know, others might trash the place. There’s just people out there that ruin it for everyone. You just enjoy your travels and don’t worry about keeping your private life private. We’re here for the vanlife content and ideas. I’m a private person myself, so I get it. Happy trails ma’am.

[@LadyBugout]

You sound just like my dad, lol. Thank you for your sensitivity…although, I would have gladly said hello. I will keep enjoying vanlife and am happy to know there are good people like you out there too☺️

[@supersonicdevin3212]

Your van space is cozy I like to see it. It is fun to imagine myself with a little van someday. I like your tips and tricks. Thanks for sharing!

[@LadyBugout]

I’m glad you like to see it. I am also glad that it helps you imagine what your own space might be like someday! Yay💃🏻🙌🏼💪🏼

[@SuperJimid]

Thank God you're safe. We like you and look forward to the Videos.😊

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that☺️

[@wyrdadventures]

Thank you for your honesty, as always! ❤

[@LadyBugout]

You are so welcome!☺️

[@chrisp7652]

Very prudent (and sad). You are such a beautiful soul to have to worry about such nonsense. You are always in my prayers!

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that more than you know. ☺️

[@martykong3592]

:) GO Dee! Just always great to see you, and what you do share! :) ALL the BEST and THANK YOU! Cheers! :)

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you, Marty! Cheers!🙌🏼

[@herlindahuskey]

Been a subbie for a while. Really enjoying your videos and I respectfully wish you much health, happiness and prosperity, but mostly your safety… Please continue to be safe…

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that. Thank you for your kindness🥰

[@Crazy-s8s]

A very well thought out and spoken video Ms Dee👍🏻 Please do not ever feel like you need to explain the how’s and why’s of your life and adventures, that’s no ones business but yours. Sadly, the way humanity has gone, you absolutely always first and foremost keep your safety and well being first. Period. I always enjoy learning from your tips, hints and ideas. By the way, those pita veggie Sammie’s looked delicious 😃 A lot of other creators I’ve seen will give specific dates, locales and times of when and where. Then post about negative situations happening. One cannot be to careful anymore. I don’t blame you a bit on the big meets and greets, just not my wife and myself thing. We had tried, but didn’t enjoy the seemingly endless prying questions. So we just avoid those situations. For the folks that enjoy that atmosphere, go mingle and enjoy to hearts content. In my opinion your channel is tops. No drama, no whining, no complaining, no hinting about wanting donations, etc. Please always just be you Ms Dee, that’s why we all enjoy your videos so much❤️ Take care, safe travels, keep safe and see you next video👍🏻🙏🏻😃☺️

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate your feedback and commentary. I think the meet ups and events are good when starting out to possibly find people to caravan with, etc. But especially now, I feel the same way. I’d much rather be with a small group of friends doing things we enjoy together!

[@catherinelauda6948]

Great subject to share, wisdom good for all of us! Mmmm pita bread, usually I can’t find them in US grocery stores. I’m testing some flat bread recipes at home for my next van adventure. They are stovetop baked. Happy that the heavyweight is lifted of your shoulders. I’m grateful that you still keep on with helpful contents.

[@LadyBugout]

Ooohhh that sounds good. Yes, I rarely find pita that I can eat. So, when I do, it’s fun for a while 😝

[@t.k3025]

Pita bread is usually by the deli counters in grocery stores.

[@jentommyontheroad8089]

Great safety tips! I feel that is one of the reasons that I have hesitated to post videos on my YT channel and stick mostly to IG. Love the content you choose to share with no expectations! Thanks Dee!

[@LadyBugout]

It was actually through IG that the person was able to get information. So please be careful there too. I know you probably are, but I have doubled down on every platform.

[@jentommyontheroad8089]

@@LadyBugout Good to know! I’ll do that!

[@lynnef3297]

Thanks for sharing this. Excellent video.❤

[@LadyBugout]

Glad you enjoyed it🥰

[@patriciazn8471]

Totally logical, I would do the same. Keep on safety. You already give us a lot. 🤗

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you 🥰

[@maryhight6030]

Love and enjoy watching you on your journey. You always stay safe that's top priority. 🙏❤

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you so much! Yes, it is more so now 🥰

[@carmenmartinez2882]

I don’t have a KZbin channel yet I don’t ever disclose where my camping spots are because a friend tells a friend and so on and pretty soon I can’t camp there. Glad the issue got resolved. Happy trails girl.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you Carmen!☺️ That is very wise…

[@serenityjewel]

Thanks for creating this video. I didn’t think about some of the safety issues you brought up, especially vanlife gatherings. A woman youtuber I follow posts her videos weeks behind but she was in a lot of other people’s videos who posts days behind so we knew exactly where she was in real time. That’s scary. Someone said one of the problems with being on KZbin is people can gain the notoriety of a famous person but they don’t have the security of a famous person. That’s a real problem for KZbinrs, especially women KZbinrs, and something we all need to think about. Glad that situation has been handled and that you’re safe. Take care. ❤

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate your thoughtful feedback. Most of the time, people don’t even realize it… until it is too late unfortunately 😔

[@ManWander]

personal means personal... got it! i agree with you; most folks are good-natured but unfortunately there are those who wish to do harm to others so being cautious is super important (as you well know). keep the vids comin' and above all stay safe!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. Yes, will do 🤗

[@mysimplevanlife]

Hi Dee, yes it is very important not to let people know where you are at any given time, except some close friends or relatives that need to know your exact location for safety sake. Except if you have a family like mine that does not know how to be quiet. But I do let 2 of my close friends know where I am as I am traveling. I am only part time on the road but sincerely would love to be full time. I have learned a lot from your channel and quite a few others. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. Safe Travels and be blessed.

[@LadyBugout]

I’m glad the channel has been a good source for you. Hahaha, yes I’ve had friends inadvertently give away my whereabouts without intending to or realizing it 😝

[@JaneCurtis-vk7fq]

You just say and do what you feel safe about reviling. I enjoy your videos ❤❤❤

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that☺️

[@robynshore7942]

Thats me! I want more information about van life. Thank you for sharing your experience with us!

[@LadyBugout]

I’m glad to hear that 🙌🏼💃🏻💪🏼

[@alanclarkson1921]

First time seeing your channel. Think I'll subscribe and check it out. I like the tip of "I don't tell you where I am". I'm just a camper, not a van lifer. I have one Park that I love to stay at often. Quiet, not many people. Not well known. I was talking to the Park Director about that one day. I mentioned that to her. She replied, "Don't tell anyone, so we can keep this peaceful place as our little secret place". I thought of that when you mentioned it. When people ask me where I go, I tell then, "Oh, it's just a little place in the Southern part of the State (Ohio)".

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you and welcome to the channel. Hahaha yes, I have many little places over the years that I keep to myself as much as is up to me 😝

[@TheSmdl]

That’s what I love about your channel. I know you will stick to van life. It’s to the point. It’s predictable. It’s relaxing because you stay on topic. I have other channels to go to for “controversial” topics when I want to watch that type of content.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for that feedback. It is very helpful and encouraging to me☺️

[@galesipple407]

Your channel is one of the most informative that I have found about all things van life. It doesn't need to include personal details or locations. It's pretty perfect just as you choose to present it! I am SO glad someone finally stated the obvious...if we find a place we love as it is, don't give details about where it is. It really is true, a place can be loved to death. 35 years ago, I found a most amazing place. So many people loved this place and told others, "you have to go there", today, it does not even remotely resemble the place I once treasured. Once it was "discovered" what was so very special about it changed completely. The same can be said about van life in general, but that genie is out of the botte now and we can't put her back. LOL!

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. Awww that is a shame. I have seen it happen as well. It’s hard to keep things pristine. But, yes I’m more careful these days 🤫

[@stevenshircliff393]

Thanks for great content! Your safety first.

[@LadyBugout]

You’re welcome! Thank you☺️

[@stevenshircliff393]

@@LadyBugout Hope you're not offended when I say your hair looks great. Just stating the truth! Keep safe and keep the great content coming!

[@dianastoevelaar9548]

Thank you, Dee, for another great video. ✨🤩✨You do EVERYTHING with such class, elegance and professionalism, which I admire immensely. 😊🥰 Thank ❤you for sharing so eloquently why you don’t share certain aspects of your life, with that signature, gorgeous smile 😀 of yours that can’t help, but convey your love, friendliness, and sincerity. I’m very grateful for you and the high standard you set in the van life community. 👍🏻 You have raised the bar very high 📈and given me a wonderful template for how to create not a beautifully organized, and aesthetically pleasing 🚙 van, but also how to create a very successful KZbin channel. ✨🤩✨ I admire ❤you and I’m happy to hear that you survived your stalking ordeal with the protection of your father and the police 👮🏼‍♂️ force, as well as your cautious, private nature. Wishing you safety and continued adventures finding new favourite places.🤗🥰❤ I’m enjoying your channel from Canada.😊 🇨🇦

[@LadyBugout]

What a thoughtful and encouraging comment. Thank you for taking the time to be so positive and uplifting. It means so much to me. I keep messages like this for times I need a reminder that there is kindness in this world. Thank you for being you 🥰

[@Labratworks]

thanks for this video !

[@LadyBugout]

You’re welcome ☺️

[@ndnboy1843]

Love your videos & tips.

[@LadyBugout]

I’m so glad that you enjoy the channel💃🏻🐞🙌🏼

[@melissam9326]

Hi Dee, I watch your channel sometimes. I now will actually subscribe. This is part of van life, but also more importantly life in general. I grew up and lived in the US until I was 38 years old. Almost every man I broke up with stalked me. I had to get a restraining order a couple of times. I thought it was me I was not seeing signs. Then I moved to Europe and while it isn't perfect here, I never had that problem again. It made me feel better knowing there was nothing wrong with me. This video can be triggering, and yes some women will hear it and be afraid. But ladies I wasn't doing van life when I was stalked. Think about it, if you are being stalked and live in a van you can move the van. In a house if the stalker knows where you live you feel trapped and scared, I know. The sad part is Dee not feeling safe or able to go to events. Good informative video Dee, stay safe.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for your support of the channel and for subscribing. I’m sorry you had to go through that too. You stay safe as well please 🥰

[@gypsy698]

You need to be safe, so I completely understand why you don't tell people online where you are at any given moment. PLUS, it's not necessary for anyone to know where you are. I'm from NYC (originally), I'm very private and I'm very aware of my surroundings.

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate the understanding. My sister lives in New York. ☺️

[@Swimdeep]

More good insights you’ve shared with your viewers Dee. Thanks for being vulnerable enough to set your absolutely reasonable boundaries. Sorry about your stalker-super glad it was handled easily and timely. That you provide such great info and solutions to road life from your own experiences is more than enough reason to watch and keep building your channel. You’re one of the good ones. Thanks. 😊 🌿💜 #SoloFemaleRoadLife

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate the support. Thank you☺️

[@lynnerussell1440]

I'm so sorry you went through a situation like that. Stay safe.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. I will ☺️

[@DannyB-cs9vx]

I was trying to stay focused on the topic, but the thought that you are such a gifted interior designer, that you could do it as a living.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you for the compliment. I have always loved designing the interiors of my homes. This one is no different. 🥰

[@cj57]

I find your content interesting and helpful 👍You absolutely deserve privacy regardless of the public platform. I think your home on wheels is awesome! But I've wondered to myself if the Ladybug spots make you too visible, that's just how I'd feel, but then I thought it's such an adorable feature and you're probably comfortable with it! 🐞😊 Thanks for sharing!

[@LadyBugout]

Yes, it definitely makes me stand out. I didn’t think of it at the time. Now it’s a little late. But, I’m figuring things out as I go 😝

[@cj57]

@@LadyBugout That's the best way to do it, and I think you're doing an excellent job of it 👌😊

[@pattyweiland4882]

Dee, I've always wondered about your spots, also. Since each year of our lives brings different 'adventures', maybe painting the spots back to red would give you & your van ' a new boost of courage' for this yeatJust an idea. Lots of love & peace to you ALWAYS!😘 -p

[@naytawalker9705]

Hello, I understand you perfectly, watching other content creators on KZbin, I have been able to see that some of them have had harassment situations, that must be very scary. It is very important to be as discreet as possible with where you are in real time, unfortunately these days there are too many people with poor mental health. continue to take all necessary precautions to keep yourself safe. Saludos🤗🙋🏾‍♀️

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. Yes, it is so important. Thank you for your understanding ☺️

[@kensmith2839]

Thanks for another excellent video. Great looking food.

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you! It tasted great too😊

[@SuperClare]

Sorry to hear about the stalker situation. :/. I love your content and I’m glad that you didn’t let that situation hinder you in any way. Please stay safe. We ❤ you!

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate that🥰🥰🥰

[@donaldround160]

Totally understandable, your personal security is paramount.

[@LadyBugout]

I appreciate the understanding ☺️

[@smoofollowingqalroundthewo206]

I was stalked in college in 90s from someone waiting in line for U2 tickets. Found out where I lived just from knowing my college (car sticker) and my name (on the queue list). Took getting police involved as well (although no laws then like like to help them preventatively protect you). And this was before social media! To this day I don’t let friends post me on their social media (rarely if so, never with a location and only after I’ve left that location). Thx for sharing your learning and journey. 😊❤ So, you’re doing it right. ❤ Listen to your intuition. Stay smart. No one’s biz where you are. 😀 Meetups are fine for patreon members (can trace them through card if need be). Or, part of a larger event.

[@LadyBugout]

So sorry to hear that. Sounds like you are wiser for it too. The person was actually a Patreon member and that is what helped police. Makes it challenging, but I do not want that deter me. I just have to be more aware and, like you, learn how to be more careful. 🥰

[@evamaria644]

I'm so glad you have resolved your stalker situation. It only takes one to spoil it for the 99. Traveling in a group is an excellent idea for solo women. However, I suggest you get a Deloris. My aunt doesn't play this BS with stalkers. Every girl needs an Aunt Deloris by her side. Never allow a man to get close enough to touch you. Even a small man can easily overpower a woman. You must even score, especially if you are always traveling alone.

[@LadyBugout]

Sounds like a great idea!!!💃🏻🙌🏼💪🏼

[@Bernimv]

That's very understandable. 🙏🏼 keep safe

[@LadyBugout]

Thank you. I will ☺️

[@ChooChooVanlife]

Stay safe out there😊

[@LadyBugout]

I will. 💃🏻🙌🏼💪🏼

[@jelkhorncamper6062]

Well, you’ve succeeded in making me hungry! And it’s bedtime as I watch this.

[@LadyBugout]

Lol… sorry about that 😂