LANY - 'Cause You Have To (Official Lyric Video)

Lyrics:
chasing a heart is like chasing a ghost
you can’t make somebody you love feel the same if they don’t
it doesn’t matter the words that you say
‘cause just like the seasons you can’t stop the way people change
i’d drive thru the night, walk a thousand miles
to feel your head on my chest
i’d give anything, that’s what’s killing me,
‘cause you won’t even reach across the bed
the silence is getting too cold
we stopped fighting ‘cause deep down inside we both know
just for once, what do you want, baby, tell me the truth
do you only love me ‘cause you have to
all of your friends now were all of mine first
your mom and your dad they were both there for me when mine weren’t
i can’t see tomorrow without you today
i’d rather let you go than make you feel like you’ve gotta stay
i’d drive thru the night, walk a thousand miles
to feel your head on my chest
i’d give anything, that’s what’s killing me,
‘cause you won’t even reach across the bed
the silence is getting too cold
we stopped fighting ‘cause deep down inside we both know
just for once, what do you want baby, tell me the truth
do you only love me ‘cause you have to
so come on, don’t be afraid to break my heart
it only gets worse if you wait
just for once, what do you want, baby tell me the truth
do you only love me ‘cause you have to
i’m so sorry, i wish i could be the one to love you more
i hope you find somebody who’s got everything you’re searching for
the silence is getting too cold
we stopped fighting ‘cause deep down inside we both know
just for once, what do you want, baby, tell me the truth
do you only love me ‘cause you have to
#LANY #abeautifulblur

[@kheicee]

2:37-3:49 - I cant even describe how beautiful this part is.. Its just... WHY IS THIS SO PERFECT??!! I CAN'T

[@tnzuw]

real

[@1962m-q6y]

True

[@sh0ryualfa393]

That part is why I still listen to LANY. PJK knows how to put into songs every heartbreak. T_T

[@Greninj999]

THIS

[@tintinbeldua11]

like a movie soundtrack🥹

[@clouddrakefynx1416]

This is probably the most painful song on your new album. Yes, nothing hurts more if you see the person you love only forcing himself/herself to love you, 'cause she/he have to.

[@reyswift5779]

"i'm so sorry, i wish i could be the one to love you more. I hope you find somebody who's got everything your searching for" THIS HITS SO HARD

[@jenielyncanadalla2773]

🥹🥹😭

[@Fae-qu3wl]

😭😭😭😭

[@sugarskull289]

I cry everytime I hear it 😢

[@janellegarcia6219]

☹️☹️☹️

[@mueliodas]

frfr

[@ericwertz9448]

this is the best song since the malibu era imo. the honest and vulnerable lyrics, the certain maturity it takes to reach these feelings towards someone you think the world of, the gradual buildup to the bridge and the emotions induced from the guitar. so many insane elements, i’m blown away, absolute masterpiece

[@asyaandat_]

U should listen to mama's boy album....

[@abnerbuch]

For real

[@weebssimps-xoxo]

you should also listen to ggbbxx and don't only focus on lyrics! but try to listen to the instrument and emotions!

[@_SemestaTualangCahaya]

that's it... this song is the closure. Goodluck for her and hope she got anything she wanted.

[@vicly7446]

going through a separation, and was going through everything described in this song. thank you for this, lany.

[@andrewn621_2]

This what hit the most out of the entire album. Lany you never disappoint me and you always relate to me.

[@ericramirez4963]

Thank you LANY. 😊.. your songs help me make it through tough times. This one hits different. The art of letting someone you love go because you know it's not you who they love anymore, no matter how much it hurts you just have to. Wish her all the best. Still love her with all my heart but it's time to let go. I love you so much Donna. ❤😊

[@arnelbryanmerin9623]

*I Hope You Find Somebody Who's Got Everything You're Searching For* truth hurts but these words hits me very hard

[@sptymm7175]

this song gives you the courage to move on and let go of something you love so much

[@เก็บผ้า]

T T รักมากแต่กลับไปไม่ได้

[@ohmykimchaewon]

what a transition, he gave us love song and a broken song. NO will melt your heart, Cause you have to will melt your soul. i love this band sm

[@princess014438]

This is one of the ignored songs in “a beautiful blur” album. I thought XXL was the best song, then I went to their concert and man the feeling of this song just hits different live. Reminds me of the times I was so inlove, flew across the world and the person wouldn’t even take a step for me. Honestly I don’t even know why I’m crying, It’s been 4 years, we both moved on. Lany was my sanctuary at that time, I remember sneaking to drive my mom’s car in the middle of the night just so I can cry out loud without being heard, I played Lany’s songs out so loud in the car and sobbed so hard. That was the time I lost myself. It took a year to recover me again, it was hard and such a painful process. While playing this song at lany’s concert they had a background of driving at night and that just reminded me of that time.

[@user-pg2iu7dg9g]

Yes, time can relieve any pain.

[@jxvnghst]

"kapag napatunayan ko sa'yong hindi kita niloko, wala ka ng babalikan pa"

[@angelresus330]

Eyyyy ka muna Aria🤙🏼

[@lovecodm7564]

lupit kasi ni aria..

[@binibininganj]

au ba to? anong title please and saan mababasa 😭🙏

[@Asher-fm8sy]

@@binibininganj tadhana yan

[@joanaosting1392]

grabi .pati dito umabot ang pighati ni Aria at heather 😅😅

[@auyiyya]

on repeat, naro org di lagu ini HAHAHA tiap dgrin inj bengong2 nangis tp yaudalaaahh most painful song eveeeeer. thankyou lany its so perfect i swear 🤍

[@hmonenathar444]

Just like the seasons you can’t stop the way people change

[@jozehidalgo4518]

Yes. Change is constant and necessary 🙂

[@triogobs]

😢

[@jameschriscanape267]

i agree with you

[@CarmelKazadi-kn4oz]

@@jozehidalgo4518 gg

[@DudeMan-xs3db]

Yes those are the lyrics of the song

[@huzzah....6831]

"do u only love me 'cause you have to." My heart hurts so good but I love this song so bad .

[@Ynx.kxnthr]

Does the song love you back?

[@tabtimthong4884]

This song takes me back when I broke up with my ex. I love him but I have got to let him go because I wanted the best for him 🥹❤️ Love you Lany! You're my true love!!!!

[@terduuuuuuu]

anyone in 2025?😊

[@daniahfilms]

I'm getting tired of him, forgetting me when everybody, or literally anyone is around. We were in a long distance, so we seldom had time. I noticed the difference in how we treat each other. The many times I have voiced out my concerns, he promises to change but still does the same thing I was concerned about. I got tired and slowly tried to live like a single person even when I was tied to him. If he wants distance so much, I'll give it. Even when I don't go out much often, I'll pretend we never exist. One of my friends commented he doesn't look like he's committed. We had plans but it will be changing soon unannounced by me. This song passed my feeds, and it hit me. Hence I am here. I hope everyone finds the person who reciprocates their love too. ❤ Edit: I wrote this comment 2 months ago, fast forward as I type this he cheated on me and broke up with me on April 8, 2024. I'm glad. I'm doing fine. May everyone have a happy year!

[@CaseyCampbell17]

Damn. I'm glad you're fine, but it's still horrible he cheated on you.

[@daniahfilms]

@@CaseyCampbell17 oh damn, I forgot about this comment. I'm doing better now. Hahaha. Tears ain't worth dropping for one worthless person.

[@Biie176]

Damn i feel this way 😢

[@daisbrigati]

songs like this makes me wonder if i have really moved on or i am just not thinking about it

[@mykasobrevilla8537]

Same

[@KennS124]

ga kebayang seberapa seru dan enaknya lagu ini walaupun gua dengerin ulang terus tiap hari kayak enak aja apalagi kalo lagi sendirian biar tenang atau ga lagi galau tapi bingung galauin siapa HAHAHAHA

[@adiconcepts]

This reminds of old LANY. I love it

[@DudeMan-xs3db]

They have literally written the same song since 2015

[@nicolasramirez9944]

Goosebumps ! 🥺 LANY YOURE SO TENDERLY MY FAVE BAND FOR ETERNITY ❤️❤️

[@AntediluvianDream35]

This song makes me remember and realise how beautiful we were with my greatest love. We passed so many challenges together and reached the end but somehow, one didn't feel the same anymore. Despite everything, "I really wish I could be the one to love you more, I hope you find somebody who's got everything you're searching for". I still love you the same way like I promised, farewell..

[@bumzxd]

This is the best song from the album. Related to this one on a personal level.

[@firmenramadhani]

thank u my J. for now, u have somebody who's got everything u're searching for. congrats

[@jazzlegendtv8103]

we will be fine... eventually we will be. 😊

[@mrzkiee3e]

listening to this song will never be the same again, MEKAYA KA BA?!?!?!? HSWSHSKSK

[@agonyplaysCODM]

OO! MEKAYA AKO kahit masakit nang basahin

[@mrzkiee3e]

@@agonyplaysCODM sabay² tayong masaktan HSWSKSKSWS

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Hindi totoo sila Heather at Aria, panaginip lang yon ni Heaven

[@NinaSherlynneGallegos]

HAHHAHA UMABOT NA DITO MEKAYA!!!

[@x-ghost_is_host-x]

tadhana ba talaga

[@yinghou2427]

发现了个小秘密，she's out of my league的前奏和这首cause‘ u have to几乎一样，不一样的节奏 全然不同的的感受～ 太爱了🫶🏽💙🖤

[@prakashperera77]

This reminds me of the mistakes I had made in the past, and I can not bear the pain of losing a loved one forever .....

[@user-x1233]

Same bruh but keeep moving forwardddddd!!!!!!!!!!

[@jamaicamacalalad2011]

Here kasi ito yung song sa wattpad story that I recently finished reading. Ang ganda ng song 🥺 ❤

[@esanoot-noot2439]

"Mahal, uusad na ako ha?" IYAQ

[@agonyplaysCODM]

Alam mo ba na may Season 2 yan? Basahin mo na

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Hindi totoo sila Heather at Aria, panaginip lang yon ni Heaven

[@oldwornjacket]

43 year old mostly into punk rock shit. XXL sucked me in while eating lunch one day at a restaurant a couple months ago. Not this huge fan, but holy fuck, this track...someone's cutting onions.

[@fluffy_valencia]

GONNA LOVE LANY FOR ETERNITY!!

[@akicakes]

This hits different if you really love the person and you’re not in good terms.

[@genichiro77]

I so relate to the chorus. In our last days she felt so cold, we didn’t talk much, and it only felt like she was with me cause she had to. In the end we didn’t talk for a week, and then finally said our pieces and part ways. Thank you for this song LANY.

[@denisjonathan9991]

i hope you find somebody who's got everything you're searching for.

[@LemuelChua]

This part really hits me differently 3:12 , really the most painful part of this song

[@RonnTorrente]

🖤💙 for every person who's hurt today, i wish for your healing

[@SibylLeiMarapao]

the art of letting someone go because they have to :(

[@ratnadyah9874]

If u find somebody who's got everything you're searching for, i hope she was me.

[@doctoleroandrea]

It feels like I have heard this song before 2018, it sounds so nostalgic.

[@JayrylTiamson]

SINO BA KASI HUMINGI NG S2 NG TADHANA YAN TULOY ANDITO NANAMAN AKO😢😢

[@jasmienjeweldavid2737]

okay na sana yung ending kung hindi sila nanghingi ng s2 😢

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Hindi totoo sila Heather at Aria

[@JayrylTiamson]

@@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG bat mo pa pinaalala kinakalimutan ko na nga e😭😭😭😭😭

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

@@JayrylTiamson Ang mahalaga, naka-move on na tayo kay Heather at Aria. Sila Ara, Chin, Lae, at Heaven naman ang pag-uusapan natin

[@Dom_Nikki]

Chinese pepper steak..iykyk HAHHAHAA waiting for the next part. Update: May season 2 na aguy🫠

[@senpaikg_]

Been here bcoz of it 😂😂

[@ikang.]

umabot na dto Chinese pepper steak ni Heather😭

[@agonyplaysCODM]

Tadhana (MikhAiahAU), ang sakit basahin

[@jxvnghst]

etong comment na talagang to hinanap ko agad after pakinggan tong song

[@agonyplaysCODM]

May season 2 na, basahin mo na

[@ae2773]

can't imagine how much this song hurts when they perform this on live

[@vanessaeusebio552]

My new favorite song from LANY. I truly love your songs, Paul. Your voice is so amazing :)

[@marknoeldaras446]

"Do you only love me cause you have to" Damn I felt that 😭

[@pudsyes3697]

kung di ka lang talaga gumawa ng katarantaduhan sana ikaw lagi pang 10pm ko

[@alfonsbarcelon]

why this song hits diff and hard af rn

[@amilanafilah1688]

Chasin' a heart is like chasin' a ghost You can't make somebody you love feel the same If they don't It doesn't matter the words that you say Cause just like the seasons, you can't stop the way People change [Pre-Chorus] I'd drive through the night Walk a thousand miles To feel your head on my chest I'd give anythin' That's what's killin' me Cause you won't even reach across the bed [Chorus] The silence is gettin' too cold We stop fightin' Cause deep down inside, we both know Just for once, what do you want, baby, tell me the truth Do you only love me 'cause you have to? [Verse 2] All of your friends now were all of mine first Your mom and your dad, they were both there for me when mine weren't I can't see tomorrow without you today But I'd rather let you go than make you feel like you've gotta stay [Pre-Chorus] I'd drive through the night Walk a thousand miles To feel your head on my chest I'd give anythin' That's what's killin' me Cause you won't even reach across the bed [Chorus] The silence is gettin' too cold We stop fightin' Cause deep down inside, we both know Just for once, what do you want, baby, tell me the truth Do you only love me 'cause you have to? So come on, don't be afraid to break my heart It only gets worse if you wait Just for once, what do you want, baby, tell me the truth Do you only love me 'cause you have to? [Bridge] I'm so sorry, I wish I could be The one to love you more I hope you find somebody Who's got everythin' you're searchin' for

[@fyanabi]

❤

[@FahrisMubinah]

Up

[@nenkonixxx3276]

Thank you for the almost 4 years of happiness, Nicole. I hope you found the one to love you more. I still miss you.

[@prakashperera77]

beautiful melody and stunning lyrics ....⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@kennethgojar]

sarap pakinggan lasang "i would eat this chinese pepper steak forever, basta si heather ang nagluto"

[@ThirdyManarang]

tite

[@agonyplaysCODM]

Tadhana, MikhAiah AU

[@agonyplaysCODM]

May season 2 na, basahin mo na

[@drakepool_senpai9789]

Hahahahaha same nadiscover ko din to dahil sa tadhana au, buti nalang talaga happy ending

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Hindi totoo sila Heather at Aria, panaginip lang yon ni Heaven

[@joshuaarraz1979]

Andito ako kasi nabingi ako dun sa Tadhana T_T MEKAYA KA BA?

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Hindi totoo sila Heather at Aria

[@Blaireofficialacclol]

😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@princessashlypanco5164]

sakit nila

[@asecbnyu12]

i’m so sorry, i wish i could be the one to love you more i hope you find somebody who’s got everything you’re searching for beautiful melody. This part killing me

[@imissher444]

i hope u find somebody who's got evrything u searching for

[@beloved_giselle]

this album is going to rip me up and I love it 🩵🩵🩵

[@Ynx.kxnthr]

Mas love ko siya

[@beloved_giselle]

@@Ynx.kxnthr haha nahh I love him much more and his music

[@mahub5602]

LANY didn't fail us, Great Music!, I wish they make a music video of this, this song makes me cry asf❤

[@nameyyy9423]

Malungkot ako ngayon eh, pero mas nalungkot ako nung narinig ko 'tong kantang 'to. I miss my brother so much, I miss you kuya. It's been 4 months yet the pain still aches the same. Even if I know that you're in heaven now, I still miss your presence, your face, and especially your voice. Your friend story-ed you with this song and I can't help my tears from falling down. The moment I heared this song and saw your face, I can't kuya, para akong nanghihina. I miss you so so much. I know this kind of pain will never go away that easily, I will always rememer you. I love and miss you so much kuya.

[@jamgementiza7426]

"i hope you find somebody who's got everything you're searching for." and yep, you found her.

[@gracedag-um6516]

Thank you LANY, your songs comfort me.

[@kinder-h7j]

Sino nandito dahil kay shanelle? HAHAHAHAHQHQ chinese pepper steak unang kagat mahal uusad na ako ha?

[@earl0330]

eyy

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Lasang "Mahal ko na si Kenzo"

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Hindi totoo sila Heather at Aria, panaginip lang yon ni Heaven

[@Blaireofficialacclol]

At sisig

[@manuelramirez8853]

present

[@tan_a006]

You can't make somebody you love feel the same if they don't . HITS HARD

[@intanshazwa]

Never knew that one day i could relate to this song sm ;)

[@angelicaresurreccion1677]

me acting like a broken hearted whenever i listen to lany song even tho I've never in a relationship

[@zenitsukun4987]

Lany's songs hit different at night❤

[@LIndcieDhaneRola-y3i]

I hope you find somebody Who's got everything you're searching for

[@usernamemisy_qAa]

“i’d give anything, that’s what’s killing me” damn, that was personal

[@grssdyl]

Maybe God knows how much you love that person and you’re willing to give your all-and in order to protect you from the pain He allowed the obstacles in your life so you wouldn’t end up with that person.

[@christopher-b3x]

Maybe god doesn't want you to love that person and give your all to that person?

[@potatohead2920]

this is so MEKAYA!!

[@lejeandenarvaez6824]

"I'd rather let you go than make you feel like you've gotta stay" 😩💔💔

[@GGplays3156]

I will add this to my favorite songs ❤, there's so much meaning on it💕

[@earl0330]

grabe na tlga ang tadhana au sikat na talaga

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Hindi totoo sila Heather at Aria, panaginip lang yon ni Heaven

[@sooxwon]

Idk how much I spend my time to listen this song

[@sugarskull289]

Same, guaranteed it will be my most played song on Spotify this year, its made me cry so many times but I cant stop listening because I just describes all the feelings of one sided love too perfectly 💔

[@AnessaAlvarez]

"Do you only love me cause you have to?" THAT HITS DIFF

[@catme.7]

We need this kind of honesty

[@AhuatLee]

Such a masterpiece, gave me chills!

[@Judaisy22]

sa wakas hindi na 'to ang maririnig sa s3 HAHHAHAHA sakit sakit na nito.

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Heather and Aria? They do not exist - Heaven Sullivan

[@Judaisy22]

@@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG love triangle na ang happenings nila HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

​@@Judaisy22 Yup, kasi si Lae may gusto rin kay Ara

[@jiancarlorodriguez555]

​@@Judaisy22 'di mo sure....

[@lovecodm7564]

pero maririnig na natin yung.. di na posible 😭

[@JamaeMwah]

“Do you only love me ‘cause you have to.” 😮‍💨 Ooooffff

[@khristinecarisseantonio]

I love the album. I love you lany. You remind me of her. She loves your songs

[@alexzakatereyes7408]

this the song probably my main comfort for this problem again

[@edee1637]

''I hope you find somebody who's got everything you're searching for''

[@BaijhienAkis]

Nandito talaga Ako dahil SA Tadhana , The one mikhaaiah au

[@ssifaily]

the most beautiful song with painful lyrics in this album

[@pepper_min8814]

❤ LANY never fails me..

[@Jaycruz-t3h]

KAKABASA KO NG AU TOHHH😢

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Hindi totoo sila Heather at Aria

[@bigygzstunna]

take care always,ihope u will catch ur dreams ,also goodluck to ur next journey iloveyousomuchh lablab

[@Jecil-ui2se]

The song is very painful but i can listen to it thousand times ❤

[@kithhechanova1146]

I'm here 'cause I wanna reassure you bbi. I hope you'll read this. I loved you, I love you, and I will continue to love you. Not because I have to. But because I want you in my life. Hindi mo man marerealize yun ngayon pero soon, I'll show you how worthy all the wait is. Ipaglalaban kita

[@Elle.x446]

"kung may papakasalan man ako, si Yves yun"

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Heather and Aria doesn't exist

[@marcusbravo1212]

My favorite song of the album

[@kbnegretti]

this is a masterpiece ♥

[@boygodofwar1516]

3:12 - 3.48 feels like you're heartbroken, you're crying and you're running outside in heavy rain on a road, and then at 3:48 to 4.10 you slow down and stop running and then camera zooms out.

[@bankyoshi9512]

Thanks you for your songs. They really help me for healing my mind.

[@amescotes]

Sarap ng chinese pepper steak lasang "mahal uusad nako" "mahal ko na si kenzo"

[@agonyplaysCODM]

May season 2 yan, abang ka lang

[@agonyplaysCODM]

May season 2 na, basahin mo na

[@Athena_Ashi_Alcaria]

sakit nyan... "the silence is getting to cold"..😢

[@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG]

Hindi totoo sila Heather at Aria, panaginip lang yon ni Heaven

[@Athena_Ashi_Alcaria]

@@ItsAgonyPlaysSSRG true, sakit mo shanelle

[@mandieestinor3666]

Iba ka talaga lany!🥰🤫🫥

[@darioduarte3115]

2:49 sounds and vibes like Malibu Nights

[@shyk1605]

“you can't make somebody you love feel the same if they don't” hits so hard

[@gabvardeleon8457]

Cruel love isn't it? But that's how love is, Love is By a Chance and By a Change❤

[@Lyricandlevi]

This is my favorite on the album

[@VahrusNurilAlbi]

3:10 tough to breathe in this part !!!!

[@gwen_6969]

real

[@shoujopuff]

fr

[@leanamarie1017]

This song is such a closure.. Darling I hope you're having a great day and whoever you may love next treat you better than how I treated you