Destiny Reacts To Most Popular Redpill YouTube Shorts

[@Rez7z]

The JP comment about the man who can use a sword but knows when to keep it sheathed is a quote from the past that he's using metaphorically. The idea is that a truly strong man isn't violent and uncontrollable, but rather capable but tempered. Someone that can control his emotions but capable of violence when forced to step up or rather be able to de-escalate a situation because he is capable of violence and therefore must be respected by agitators.

[@louxvill6699]

This. I was almost annoyed that Noah overlooked that.

[@ubberJakerz]

@@louxvill6699 *almost* annoyed?

[@adamdalgleish8769]

​@@ubberJakerz The?

[@shavedata5436]

@@adamdalgleish8769 e?

[@xx-jk1iq]

@@shavedata5436 ?

[@emimon2351]

Keep in mind that feminists also used income statistics selectively to come up with the wage gap retoric.

[@opensocietyenjoyer]

and it exists. 6% is not nothing

[@inframatic]

Wage gap is a myth

[@enlightenednormie242]

A Man is a person who chews his cabbage with their mouth being cartoonishly open&wide

[@coimbralaw]

Put the drugs down, dullard

[@REALmills]

You're just wrong. A man has a dick and knows how to use it well when with your mom. End of debate.

[@sirnonapplicable]

Yes.

[@shedshitley]

a man is a person who wears a barrel with suspenders as clothing and is always chewing on a big piece of straw and whose eyes turn into big hearts and fly out of his head every time he sees a smokin dame

[@TroubleinVermont]

A man is a guy who can spit nails into horse shoes and suplex a stallion onto said shoes

[@salokin3087]

Noah looks like a uni student in a midlife crisis at 23.

[@CB-ys5gk]

Kinda looks like Lance from Portlandia

[@paulogaspar8295]

the dude is so dumb and a liar. He showed two articles one where you can only see the introductory summary and the second that you can see some lines. Many studies on trans people have shown that the overwhelming majority of trans people still have suicidal thoughts, depression and anxiety. The thing is studies that want to defend the idea of transitioning from being usually subsidized by institutions that profit from doing so will argue that those people are still depressed because of society transphobia. If you look at the evidence logically we cannot come to a conclusion because it's very difficult what specifically is making people still depressed after. This dude claims peterson is either dumb or has made no research even though the only research he has done is a summary from one study and 2 articles. I've read dozens of articles on this and the data is super contradictory. You can find samples of people that improved their life after transitioning and samples where people got worst and committed suicide. The reasons can be varied. If you transition to a women you can became happier not because you are now in the "correct" body but because people tend to be nicer to women and pay more attention to them and that may be the thing that you needed to be happier. Or you may have became more depressed because you feel the same feelings and transitioning didn't solved anything. We don't know this answers, but this dudes cherry pick one sentence of one study and claims others don't do research...

[@Catokawaii]

He looks like me tbh

[@QMS9224]

he looks like he is a TA in a gender studies class that harasses both the male and female students lol

[@quietman208]

He looks like catokawaii tbh

[@owensmith699]

Destiny getting hyped about watching Michael Jordan’s old clips is the best part of this entire video

[@trax72]

Any linkers?

[@isaackvasager9957]

I need the link to this video, come on

[@johnsalmons4724]

People asking for links, just search for any Jordan highlight. Jordan is quite clearly one of the most extraordinary athletes of all time.

[@endaohalloran6649]

@@johnsalmons4724 we don't want any clip, we want the specific clip Destiny watched lmao

[@perspicasity]

@@endaohalloran6649 Yes. I need the clip

[@k1xnt]

Destiny watching the entire ad. *by a youtuber he doesn't like*. AND shitting on the chatter who told him to skip it. This is Chad behavior

[@marcsman07]

What doesn't he like about the youtuber? I actually haven't even heard of the dude till today.

[@k1xnt]

@@marcsman07 last time destiny watched one of his videos, on debate bros but mostly vaushxPro Flowers, he kinda went in hard on him. He's just very, 'progessive'. Which is fine, but he does it in a way that feels excessive and for show.

[@marcsman07]

@@k1xnt I kinda got those vibes from him. I'll probably check him out one of these days if I remember. Thanks for taking the time to repsond btw.

[@adrianbrodin1319]

*He used to not like He has recently stated that he thinks Noah is perfectly fine. Probably because he's willing to interact and create discussion in a good faith manner.

[@k1xnt]

@@adrianbrodin1319 guess I missed that part of the lore

[@ItsJustMe0585]

Andrew Tate "the most dangerous men in the world are those that don't have control of their emotions" Also Andrew Tate "I am the most dangerous man in the world"

[@jjQlLlLq]

😂 The sheer irony

[@aguspuig6615]

Honestly, even if Tate is dumb af, wich he is, youre just being the peak definition of bad faith here, yeah its a poor choice of words but hte message is clear. A strong but controlled guy is technically dangerous because he could inflict plenty of harm, but a weak guy is more dangerous because he might snap at any point, you can disagree but dont act like you dont understand

[@srachar]

@@aguspuig6615 tate himself is emotionally weak guy, he lashes out randomly, has problem thinking through his emotions, and is in jail for multiple sex crimes

[@SliverHell]

GOOD POINT!!!

[@shezyam460]

@@aguspuig6615 exactly. Tate is a boaster with an ego, but his point about weak men was totally reasonable

[@traveel9409]

Noah Samsen somehow manages to be more cringe than the content he's watching

[@noahsamsen]

nice video!

[@cia3242]

To be fair the dude in the first clip is a navy seal so it makes sense his terminology

[@Nightknight1992]

is his son too?

[@cia3242]

@@Nightknight1992 he’d probably try to harp on a teach his son some basic cqp and marksmanship and probably is more paranoid than your average father considering he shot people in the face for a living so I don’t think it would be irrational for him to act and talk like this when referring to this stuff

[@Nightknight1992]

@@cia3242 ye from his pov true, but also really fucked up if the son is some office dude.

[@OMC-WILDCAT]

Plus the stairs are the literal definition of a choke point in the situation being discussed.

[@cia3242]

@@Nightknight1992 it could be beneficial if he was in the 0.001 percentile that will get burglarized by John wick

[@Biglex524]

My Muay Thai coach always repeats this Bruce lee quote “It’s better to be a warrior in a garden, than to be a gardener at war”

[@michalis75]

Reminds of my favorite Roosevelt quote, "Talk softly and carry a big stick"

[@srachar]

It's better to fucking put gasoline and light a match on the invader than try to do hand to hand combat

[@bennymountain1]

Let me guess. He either never fought outside of his gym or died on a knife?

[@sidhardhs5427]

Bruce lee's another quote which goes with what JP says " Learn to fight so you never have to fight".

[@wren4077]

Bro none of you are getting mugged fucking relax. Work out and be normal around women.

[@secondengineer9814]

It'd be interesting if there was a way for youtube streamers to watch other videos in a way that gave that video views based on how many people are on their stream.

[@Loengrinn]

I always feel bad about not counting towards a video's view count when it's a good one. But it balances out by not counting for the awful ones, so... 🤷‍♂️

[@2wings1bird31]

They're getting exposure one way or the another.

[@michaelh878]

@@2wings1bird31 Who needs money when you can have exposure. Big Hassan fan by any chance?

[@2wings1bird31]

@@michaelh878 lol not even a little Hassan fan. Money isn't everything and while I'm not going to go subscribe to this guy I'm sure there's a couple of people who never heard of this guy will go and watch some of his videos because Steven introduced him to them.

[@Peacock__]

​@@2wings1bird31exposure means little when you don't get the ad revenue lol

[@nfrankiksa4596]

Noah is so cringe bro

[@Bowamaketona]

Especially since everything he says is done so in hopes of getting him laid. It’s so painfully obvious

[@Olivetree80]

He's not, not everything is cringe dude. The redpill community on the other hand...

[@Bowamaketona]

@@Olivetree80 lol you must say the same crap as Noah hoping it’ll get you laid too lmao

[@Fm83473]

He is male version of Chad chad

[@somesoup94]

No he isn't, you're just negative IQ.

[@johnsalmons4724]

Peterson's comment at 3:52 is valid and not a false dichotomy. He is referring to the left's and main stream opinion that basically any behavioral difference (gender) between men and women is socially constucted (discrimination, upbringing etc.) and biology is ignored. But when the same group is asked about gender in transgender persons, they'll state that this is biologically determined. Even though the biological underpinnings of gender are much stronger than that of being transgender. Peterson is quite right in pointing out the hypocrisy.

[@Ebb0Productions]

Thank you, well said.

[@Earthad23]

Nah anyone who wears a dress and cooks is a woman according to them. Your logic is useless against their emotions

[@Earthad23]

@redxpen I never thought about it like that, I guess if he says he’s a liar then it must be Peterson is lying and it’s not a misunderstanding on the uneducated KZbinrs part.

[@johnsalmons4724]

@@Earthad23 How is this answer marked? It's so stupid you can't even react to it.

[@note4note804]

The hypocrisy of going "lol so some gender is socially constructed and some is biological" while, as a psychologist mind you, ignoring the mental disorder that drives people to want to be the other gender makes JP come off as a bit of a hack. Like yeah, deciding whether or not pink = feminine is not the same thing as "my brain chemistry is so fucked up that I'd happily go through all of the downsides of HRT and surgery to be able to feel normal in my body".

[@deagle2yadome696]

i like watching Destiny but it gets really weird watching someone who thinks they’re always right. If anything Destiny makes me more self aware about how NO one is always right.

[@anegron3285]

So true.. I can say he is right on the social issues But when it comes to politics he is so brainwashed for the mainstream media

[@billsherman1565]

Most people think that theyre probably correct until shown otherwise lol

[@moonknight4053]

What takes did u disagree with him on in this?

[@usucdik]

@@anegron3285 you saying that doesn't make me consider he may be wrong, it makes me think you're the brainwashed one who views everything in binary and sets up enemies like "the MSM" to attack in some fantastical ideological war.

[@pepelechad536]

But I AM always right

[@Borrelaas]

5:00 We need a word for that level of arrogance displaied here when a youtuber says that a person who have a PhD in the field needs to read "the litterature" (ofcoure the youtuber never specifies what the litterature he or she is so familiar with is)

[@marekb1556]

He did specify it, flashed some of them studies on screen and even said he put the them in the description, he also said that JP might be familiar with them and is just lying. Have you even watched the same video?

[@andrewbradley3305]

@@marekb1556 some ssshhhhhtudies lol

[@marekb1556]

@@andrewbradley3305 is this some kind of referrence or your rebuttal is just "studieees shhhtudies hehe"

[@qrup333]

@@marekb1556 He flashed one study from 2015 that only included trans people that got gender affirming surgeries at least 2 years prior, so in 2013 and before. Since then there has been an explosion in the number of surgeries carried out and the demographic of patients is quite different as well, which is clearly due to social contagion after the topic took over parts of public discourse and promoted it far beyond what it was in 2013. Even assuming the same findings are correct today, or that they were even correct at the time, since you should always raise some doubt about studies based on self-reporting alone, and in general about studies tbh, does the fact that a treatment is somewhat effective at diminishing the effects of a mental illness, prove that it is the best treatment for said mental illness? Or does it justify us somehow in promoting and advertising the actual mental illness itself as a normal healthy thing which everyone can take upon themselves? 'Look, a study that shows this treatment makes people with anorexia want to kill themselves less. It means it's morally right for us to spread anorexia as far and wide as we can, let's never stop talking about it, let's paint the school walls with flags dedicated to anorexia, let's try to abolish not having anorexia! After all, anorexic people are stigmatized, so we're fighting for minority rights really. Why don't you want to accept some people are anorexic and that's a good thing, not everyone has to be cis-digestive, you bigot.'

[@boggeshzahim3713]

My favourite genre of KZbin shorts is the sigma channels that take any clip of a man talking and put stupid music over it. Also Noah's mustache is a crime against humanity. I'll never understand why young people would grow one like that

[@Yfrith]

mf could just trim it a bit to look better but he choose not to

[@DangerErin]

boomer moment

[@GameSquad306]

mad because no cool moustache smh

[@MandosCulture]

this is such a vague low IQ ocomment. why do i say this, insert woman where you said man. see how general and unintelligible that is

[@dackeryman]

*Sahara - Hensonn intensifies*

[@3rdHalf1]

Quoting a wise man: “To be a man you must have honor - honor and a peeeenis! uwhuuu~”

[@drearmouse9510]

Indeed. Good to see another member of The Manly Brotherhood of Men. The trust dance will have to wait for now though, unfortunately.

[@angelperezmonarrez9892]

Shin Chan was a gift to humanity

[@drearmouse9510]

@@angelperezmonarrez9892 A masterful display, no doubt. And I'm just over here waiting for the next hottee cunvinshun.

[@Loengrinn]

I thought you had be to strong as a coursing river, as something as a great typhoon, and as mysterious as the dark side of the moon...

[@ArciaI]

This guy sounds EXACTLY likr Hassan wtf

[@Section8dc]

Wow he actually does I never noticed that

[@HAHAd2]

Lil bro said “deep voice” then changed his mind when he heard his own voice 😂

[@user-uq4gr5nl5o]

I know lol I'm surprised nobody pointed that out in the chat

[@jeevandhillon00]

I don't think it's bad that he changed his mind after he heard his own voice, because we know that not all men have deep voices

[@HazeLmao]

I think Noahs worst take by far was the “embrace masculinity” lifting tiktok. he was acting like the person who made it is some psychopath thinks being fat is some governmental policy. not every problem is from a “facist” origin. there is objectively an obesity problem in America. Encouraging people to “embrace masculinity” by taking care of their body is so nontoxic and inoffensive but it didn’t stop Noah from throwing a fit.

[@paulogaspar8295]

all the dude says is either dumb or just a lie. He has actually low rational.

[@MoxyHQ]

He’s a male feminist. He has to try his best to pander for female approval and call everything from that side of the internet fascist

[@devaxionrl8189]

He is so ideological that he thinks political concepts leaps to everyday categories

[@MetroidPurples]

@@MoxyHQ So true. I was losing brain cells with those takes holy. Tbh JustPearlyThings is just as bad and has some awful takes but he takes the cake.

[@MrRangersfan123]

@@MoxyHQ Internet grifters on both sides have got so annoying it's why I watch destiny even though I'm further right than he is. At least he isn't constantly trying to sell me shit.

[@crushinnihilism]

What the hell is up with the red herring about alamony when Perl is just talking about the reasons why men don't want to get married. Noone said anything about anyone stealing money

[@fifiadan]

Most of destiny’s arguments are strawmans

[@missinterpretation4984]

When it comes to the wage gap they completely understand the concept of finding out the reasons behind the stat but with divorce stats they don’t need any further info.

[@milksteak553]

Child support is a joke sometimes... my gf gets 90 bucks a week for 2 kids. And sometimes he just doesn't pay. He's got like 2k in backpay that he just doesn't bother with. Meanwhile he's sending money to a tate scheme camgirl he refers to as his gf

[@Threelegs94]

why would she have 2 kids with that type of guy tho?????????

[@swnidh]

@@Threelegs94because he didn’t act like that when they were having babies OBVIOUSLY jesus christ

[@usucdik]

@@swnidh that's not obvious in the least. Hell, she could just be ugly.

[@deeky1239]

@@swnidh cope

[@stbsole]

@@Threelegs94 probably was not that way until the woman had to devote her time to raising their kids. Not unusual for a man to be jealous of their kids if the mother is devoting more time to kids.

[@JHorvathCinema]

Correct on the home defense posturing. If it’s important to you then sort out the details and move on with your life. Gunfighter as a personality is pretty lame if you think about it for 20 seconds

[@matt_9112]

My first twenty seconds of thinking about following this guys "protocol" will lead me to die if the robber has a firearm. He just needs to aim up the stairs (rather narrow space) as soon as he hears something, while he could be standing anywhere downstairs with a vantage point to exactly where I'll be. Split-second its rather unlikely I will pull a Lucky Luke on them... Edit: Read below he is/was a Navy Seal, so he might do it. Still bad advice to any rando.

[@Nightknight1992]

@@matt_9112 if i learned one thing from cod and csgo is that nobody checks weird corners, just sit there like a little goblin and get the free kill

[@whenpigsfly8178]

It's certainly true that boasting about your home defense is cringe af. Just keep it under wraps and get it done. Less talk..

[@aguspuig6615]

Tbh, to be charitable to the guy, we are assuming his whole personality is just that, but thats just a clip.

[@JHorvathCinema]

@@aguspuig6615 maybe true, but he seems so excited about it

[@terrootti]

He was being so disingenuous with the last Jordan Peterson clip because he was basically saying to not be a push-over metaphorically. An advice equally valuable for men and women.

[@Earthad23]

98% of the criticisms of Peterson are disingenuous or outright stupid. People don’t like to think

[@ayoiawe]

True. Unfortunately the idea that the “other” believe this so u must combat it agree is way too prevalent in discourse. u can always learn a thing or two from even people we. The emotionally weak men that lash out violently statement isn’t something to really dispute either.

[@areliablesource7733]

It bugs me that Peterson is placed in the red pill category. Destiny putting him in the thumbnail with that title rubs me the wrong way.

[@Earthad23]

@@areliablesource7733Agreed, it’s moronic to claim Peterson is some “red pill content creator” nobody is more based than Jordan they just don’t like to confront their shadow or even acknowledge it’s existence.

[@usucdik]

@@areliablesource7733 hey dude, he was in another "red pill" category before this lame manosphere "red pill" thing came about, so it kinda applies both ways, especially since a lot of the people in that current iteration cite JP as one of their heroes.

[@watchtowergaming5285]

Give me a break, JP was obviously giving a metaphor to support his ideals on emotional control

[@jjjjaja]

With respect I don't fully agree with your take on the first one. I get my situation is specific to me, but I am South African. What they discussed in the first video is something I need to consider.

[@nello611]

The most hilarious thing is JP isnt redpill or mamosphere He is distinctly his own thing. He got lunped in with the right because he didnt want to be compelled by law how to talk to someone, so they said he did and would deliberatly misgender someone, and his point boiled down to compelling speech by law is a slippery slope and the road to hell is paved with good intentions Also im getting major "no guys, im playing both sides against the middle, so i always win" vibes from destiny He seems to agree with a lot of the dumb shit people like fresh and fit say, but then he calls them out and a few of his own videos are people calling him out on red pill stuff, i dunno

[@limitedhangoutlive]

JuSt ReAd ThE StUdIeS bRo Also, her passive aggressive tick is also a little annoying, but so is it when you extrapolate into some massively racist example acting as if she has ever said anything even remotely as offensive.

[@dylanstack8710]

There is 100% a home bugulary idealization where a guy can use his weapon to kill someone while also being heroic, masculine and completely justified. It would be like a certification against a lot of deep insecurities we have as men. Also kind of feels like when you have a hammer everything is a nail type thing like I have guns the best person to shoot would be some malevolent criminal coming to harm you. That being said if someone broke into my house I'd be so beside myself that my wife was at risk I'd want to shoot the person. For some reason even just thinking about family or close friends being put in harm's way always brought up some primal rage. It's like peace and love but when you violate that space you become the enemy and I think people can become irrational behind ruminating on that idea. I definitely know people that would dig the idea of securing choke points in their house like someone is gonna cap the flag.

[@inframatic]

The hypocrisy in your comment is delightful

[@dylanstack8710]

@@inframatic Please elaborate insightful KZbin commenter.

[@sassycaterpillar6631]

"I know this is gonna upset somebody, but men and women are different." - modern day Red Pill. Lol

[@Stable_Genius]

Yeah, he's going to cut himself on all that edge.

[@SimpleReally]

you make it sound like its so obvious to everyone even though half of europe would fire teachers for suggesting it

[@rexqt5337]

If u live in california people gets upset about this

[@sassycaterpillar6631]

@@SimpleReally I'm not complaining. I just find it funny that it's gotten to that point. The gatekeepers of tradition did such a shit job at arguing in its favor that we've gotten to a point where anyone stating the "obvious" can make a career of it online.

[@sassycaterpillar6631]

@Rex QT I'm not disagreeing with you. I just find it funny we've gone full circle and the "obvious" is now the stunning and brave stand to take.

[@hellshakeyano7686]

Noah is painfully unfunny

[@Sgtvenom4598]

Destiny fails to realize there are actually thousands of encounters with burglars, robbers and muggers every year in America. Many of these cases end in the victim Turing the tables and shooting the criminal or overpowering them and beating them up. It’s a man’s job to be at least somewhat prepared for a situation like that to protect himself or his women and children.

[@room9podcast]

I do have to say that I feel like the vast majority of people commenting here have not been in a situation where they have had no option but to use violence in order to get out of it. People have gotten too use to being able to say whatever they want sitting behind a keyboard.

[@jayloncollins9681]

@@room9podcast dude what does that have to do with being a man

[@sidhardhs5427]

@@jayloncollins9681 That a man should be protecting himself and the people he loves , even strangers. Wouldn't you protect your dear ones if a man came up with violence and there is no chance of escape but to fight.

[@jackcarver5412]

Destiny is a sissy thats online most of the week, his conflicts are loud voices.

[@room9podcast]

@@jayloncollins9681 I am not saying a man should not learn to be vulnerable and to cry when needed. But there are times when you are put in a position, albeit rarely, where you have to punch a mother fucker in face. When that time comes you better be up for the challenge.

[@robmarley420]

I don’t see what’s wrong with preparing for worst case scenarios and wanting to be trained and prepared.

[@joeymac4302]

The problem is fantasizing about being macho, when in all likelihood you will just end up leaving your child fatherless because you're not as good at mixed martial arts or dodging bullets as you imagined. When you know the stats for trained marksmen missing, like cops in a shootout, you appreciate how much worse a home defender likely is. And furthermore, people will get caught up in the fantasy, and get shot through a door, because MAN! It's just a childish perspective, like growing up and becoming a rockstar, doing drugs, and getting tail. Most people grow out of it. That is the point.

[@jackthehat1093]

People like Destiny have never had to deal with conflict. That's not a criticism it's just how he is. He thinks he's entitled to safety but owes no gratitude to the people who protect him or the people who fought wars to establish the freedom he takes for granted.

[@ggrogan]

that’s not the issue, you can be prepared and have self defense training, the difference is the fixation on it and seeing it as the entire point of your existence.

[@bobered4911]

@@jackthehat1093 destiny, as a streamer who is hated, probably deals with much more conflict, especially violence, than a fat youtube commenter like you who sits in his room all day and watches sjw and home defense videos and pretends to be in them

[@bobered4911]

rightoids try to use shower thought worst case scenario home defense situations as a replacement to masculinity and it's cringe as fuck. Instead of thinking of masculinity as positive traits that can help you and others around you, these dorks fetishize and coom over "REEE if a home burglar or rapist enters my house im gonna blow them to bits" it's cringe and lazy

[@ek5273]

Noah Samson is still trying to bring the rotting corpse of breadtube back to life.

[@leonodonoghueburke4276]

Are we just doing the SunnyV2 thing of "everything I don't like is dead"?

[@slumberingpierrot2967]

whats breadtube?

[@ek5273]

@@leonodonoghueburke4276 no, it's just that the movement collapsed in on itself the moment trump was no longer president

[@leonodonoghueburke4276]

@@ek5273 So again, what does this actually mean? Because lot of those breadtube channels still seem to be going strong.

[@note4note804]

@@leonodonoghueburke4276 Nah, breadtune was this specific type of youtuber that would explain how everything that is bad now is because of capitalism, or at least it'd be better under a Marxist framework. It'd be like, "kayne west is a nazi? Allow me to explain how the exploitation of workers under capitalism is responsible!" Now there's just socialists that remember to occasionally say that capitalism is bad to keep their brand.

[@fastenbulbous]

If a can is labelled "tomato soup" in the supermarket, you buy it based on the assumption that it contains tomato soup because of what it says on the label. That doesn't mean the label on the can determines if it's a can of tomato soup or not. The contents of the can does. The label is an imperfect signifier of the contents of the can. A tomato soup can with a cream of mushroom label is still a can of tomato soup.

[@ghevisartor6005]

If you assume wrongly and when you start eating that soup you realize they are mushrooms instead of tomato are you allowed to stop eating them or should you continue based on the fact that you enjoyed the idea of the soup being of tomato when you first saw the can?

[@ItsMe-cp8xc]

Are you saying that trans people aren’t the gender they say they are or that you expect them to be the sex they say they are and are justified in not wanting to be with them anymore?

[@quietman208]

Cans aren’t people you dummy.

[@quietman208]

Cans don’t feel gender dysphoria so your metaphor is literal DOG SHIT. Try again.

[@JewTube001]

what if im really hungry and dont care

[@djbillybool8173]

this is true, my shorts are filled with redpill shit

[@Ematched]

Yep, no matter how many times I downvote or skip.

[@SkilledTadpole]

Is it a consistent problem, the redpill shit in your shorts? This is the first I've heard of this side effect.

[@aClownBaby-]

That’s weird

[@gjgr7772]

@womenshouldcookandcleanunp6159it’s pretty cringe

[@bunchofletters9250]

@Women should cook And clean unprompted dont get to excited about these shorts that you have to pee yourself. make sure you have an adult with you when you watch, okay?

[@patrickmacvane5725]

I don't think there's anything wrong with having a plan for something like that. If it happens you can die, and especially if you have children you need to have a plan to protect them .

[@mark7736]

Redpill stuff bores me to tears. It's men in their 30s (and Pearl) promoting a caricature of masculinity to make money off teenagers. Can't imagine many adults listening to these them and not thinking they are a joke. I also fully expect that most of their audience will cycle out as they grow up. I work at a university and regularly interact with college age students. For the past few years, have seen a consistent pattern where a decent chunk of freshmen guys are all about people like Rogan, Peterson, and now the red pill crowd (though I will say none of these people come close to Rogan at his peak in terms of popularity). But when you interact with folks about to graduate, see an obvious shift in thinking where folks are more interested in stable relationships and figuring out how to settle into working life.

[@pumpUdotcom]

Since you seem pretty critical and above that content, who do you personally feel inspired by as a man?

[@mark7736]

@@pumpUdotcom That's not something I've ever worried about or looked for. I've had various mentors over the course of my life, but they include men and women and nothing I got from them was male specific. In terms of finding contentment, mostly just focused on living life and figuring out/pursuing what's important to me. In my opinion, the red pill grift comes down to convincing young men they need some figure to give them all the answers and teach them how to be men. Folks getting pulled into it would probably be better off focusing on gaining their own life experiences and drawing their own conclusions. Fortunately, I think most realize that eventually and move on from the nonsense.

[@mikezero7422]

Huh.. it’s almost like you see a blue pill indoctrination before your eyes and yet you still mock red pill talking points.. you really think teenagers and kids are paying super chats for sometimes hundreds of dollars? Lol ok

[@paulogaspar8295]

they have many viewers that are older men in their 40's that lost houses, family and all their life's work to wifes that did barely anything. Those are the type of people that watch red pill stuff. Just read the comments. I've seen some people that are war veterans and their wifes where cheating on them while they where at war and after they found out those wifes divorced them and stole most their assets leaving them without almost anything to live. Do you think those dudes will be happy with women? use your brain and talk to people. Try to see from other perspectives, that's how we learn.

[@mark7736]

@@paulogaspar8295 cool. Will add vulnerable men next to teenagers on the list of people getting grifted. I question the assertion they are a huge part of the audience though, but yes...vulnerable adults susceptible to this stuff exists. And really not trying to be callous to men who are down on their luck. But it's worth noting there are ways to move beyond betrayals and being cheated on that don't involve giving your money and time to redpill influencers.

[@MB-ul5me]

Destiny, a 'man' who wouldn't be able to defend his house from a 3rd grader invading with a hot wheels set: "So CriNgE tO TaLk AboUT DeFEndiNG uR ProPeRtY tHerE arE OthER TesTs oF MaNhOoD"

[@blungus9574]

It'd be just as true coming from an athletic, experienced fighter. In fact I've heard it from many.

[@MB-ul5me]

@@blungus9574 You heard what from who?

[@blungus9574]

@@MB-ul5me Fantasizing about home defence situations as a test of manhood excessively is silly? Hmm, I've heard it from bouncers, ex law enforcement, fighters. Lots of folks I've trained with. And I agree with the opinion. It is silly. It's one thing to be prepared for a home invasion or self defence situation. I'm a big proponent of learning to fight. It's another thing to fetishize it and talk about it as some ultimate duty of manhood.

[@MB-ul5me]

@blungus9574 Yeah, I can agree with that. I've personally never heard the topic be brought up anywhere outside of internet/media, it's not the kind of topic I'd ever imagine bringing up myself anywhere. That being said, there is a small chance anyone could be in that home defence situation and Destiny writing it off is funny because, obviously he would

[@blungus9574]

@@MB-ul5me It's not a topic that's brought up often in normal conversation, but it does come up every so often if you hang around certain crowds (in my cause just martial arts gyms). I just don't get how Destiny voicing this pretty common sense opinion is funnier. Cause he's a skinny blue haired nerd?

[@Threelegs94]

bro there were so many L's on this video but hey I'm starting to get how Destiny thinks LOL and tha't such a let down, I thought he was more insightful smh

[@nowhre]

Instead of being vague actually explain your problems or you really can't huh?

[@Born2Ready]

One example. just one. Give it

[@Threelegs94]

sure, why are women divorcing men? apparently, the causes are "cheating" and not willing to take care of the children, when stats show that women and men cheat at similar rates then you are going to tell me women will divorce men that don't take care of their children, to have the kids even less time because of work, earning less money and receiving child support with enough money to get by LOL

[@Born2Ready]

@@Threelegs94 I think there are may potential reasons but the redpill position is "they're just hypergamous bad people" which is stupid af.

[@Born2Ready]

@@Threelegs94 also every stat I've seen says men cheat more. They also say that even when men and women in the household make exactly the same wage men will do less household chores and child care. No redpiller can answer why. They are all too stupid to address these points.

[@TheScreamingMime]

Art happens in the space between your ears, artwork exists in the world.

[@NightDenizen0]

True, the sky creates art everyday at sunset.

[@TheScreamingMime]

@@NightDenizen0 you perceive art, the sky is just the inspiration.

[@chickenandksivideoreviewer9739]

Ah yes indubitlebly

[@Manusmusic]

I once had a relationship where gf was earning a lot and i was still in school. I think it actually depressed me especially as I wasnt able to self reflect as well back then. There's probably something there about the lack of prospects because of internalized gender roles

[@harold926]

i might be talking out of my ass or misremembering but i think you are right on why women out earning men can be an issue in relationships, i believe it was notsoerudite that brought this up about when she either did couples counceling or when she was reading about it. When a women out earns the men its not the women that has an issue with it and having it causing friction in the relationship, its the men that have an issue with it. Which kinda makes sense with feminism pushing women into the workforce and being more encouraged to get a succesfull career it makes sense that for them that its no issue or even a good thing when they are earning the same or more than a man. But with men (especially in these manosphere spaces) they are still being encouraged to be the breadwinner, the provider the "man of the house" so if the women is earning more it can make a man feel like they are failing, like they are less of a man even if the man is already working his ass off 40+ hours every week and with the combined income the financials are sorted of even great, they still can feel that pressure like they are supposed to do more financially when there is no need to.

[@ghevisartor6005]

@@harold926 this feels so much as the god of the gaps. Men have issues with their gf earning more because of what "society" tells them. How is exactly society telling men to be bread winners? And how do you explain the lots of men who don't give a shit about common morality/normie opinions? Maybe it's a different culture there but here most guys my age dont give a single fuck of what the boomers told them to do. We dont consume tv and dont watch Tate or other manosphere content. So who exatcly is telling us to be bread winners? Erudite said that, and not a single cases has the woman earning more being a bitch and constantly remind the guy about it or implying he was less of a man even tho she proclaimed to be for equality? Not a single one?

[@RachelDee]

Insert evolutionary biologist response about women providing a secure environment being what men are wired to provide, but completely irrelevant to the real benefits men are wired to seek from women.

[@Bowamaketona]

@@harold926 you’re wildly wrong that women out earning men is an issue that only insecure little men have. As you know 4 out of 5 divorces are initiated by women. The number 1 reason women are divorcing men is because they got promotions and are now out earning their man leading them to believe that they can upgrade. So no this isn’t just an issue of the insecure little man. This is an issue of women. At least we can measure women’s issue with it by looking at how many divorces were due to the woman out earning the man but we can’t measure how many dudes feel emasculated. So stop knob slobbing destiny and believing every word he says

[@alilaguchouri2644]

@@harold926 goes both ways

[@toxiconflict]

I... really don't understand the problem with the first one. What's controversial about saying you'd protect your family and home from Invaders?

[@Nightknight1992]

its just the way that he describes it, i mean even that he brings it up at all just feels odd. nobody normal thinks about this stuff on the regular, yet most people would probably not just roll over and die if ever put in that situation. he kinda feels way too eager to prove how manly he is, screams desperation and insecurity about his purpose in life.

[@user-uq4gr5nl5o]

It's performative

[@toxiconflict]

@@Nightknight1992 You would be surprised. Watch Tates debate with XqC about it, XqC would send his woman in to deal with the intruders.

[@Nightknight1992]

@@toxiconflict ive seen that whole shitshow, and im pretty sure his statement was he would send neither, but rather hide and call the police. honestly way better advice than all these wannabe tates with their desk jobs going downstairs to get killed by career criminals.

[@toxiconflict]

@@Nightknight1992 it's really not. Anyone who knows how to fire a gun even semi competently would be better off taking out the criminal or scaring them with gunfire to make them scram then waiting 30 minutes for the cops to show up. What's the point of having a weapon to protect your home if you're not going to use it?

[@ddawg3230]

Given that no one I know ever dealt with a home invasion, I'd be more than happy to volunteer for the frontlines during a home invasion, in exchange for someone who is gonna cook for me every single day for life. lol

[@jackjohnson1255]

Thats cause you privileged yt boy

[@100ballster]

@@jackjohnson1255 Haha.... I'd really love for you to expand on that point in an honest way! You brought race into it... so please, elaborate 🤣!

[@100ballster]

@@jackjohnson1255 Are yt boys home invading your underprivileged self?

[@ddawg3230]

@@jackjohnson1255 Im a 'brown' girl in a developing country, you American jackass 😁 Also funny that the home invasion fantasizer you are simping for is literally a priviliged huwite bouy, lol

[@zenbozic6184]

@@100ballster race?

[@Igelme]

"in marriages where the woman out-earns and divorces the man, the woman is usually doing most of the housework too". Destiny, I would doubt any information like this which would 100% have to come from a self report of either party of a DIVORCED MARRIAGE lmao.

[@missinterpretation4984]

There are studies on this though, it’s true. And I know this because I thought it was a stupid thing to study.

[@marekb1556]

Why? If its like years after the divorce and the report is anonymous, what would be your inccentive to lie? Also, is it that hard to believe? Like, if you believe women are supposed to do chores, you wont start doing dishes just because your wife brings more money right? Especially if you are both working shifts or smthng

[@inframatic]

Feminists like to pretend like housework is the only way you can contribute to a partnership.

[@ILovinGunz]

"The long-term outcome studies don't show that." Liar, here's a short-term outcome study showing that."

[@matthewgalicia1101]

LOL

[@LIQUIDSNAKEz28]

25:30 *YESSSS,* Destiny and that's usually the fcking case. 😑 That is *EXACTLY* the main reason marriages fall apart, because of "financial reasons."

[@hughmogus7137]

Source?

[@DominoRenzo]

That’s not the main reason. I looked it up and it was like the 5th most common reason.

[@AlejandroCastilloRapper]

“Women that you own in your life” lol

[@renight3605]

Why men who share these view look so femining

[@lilmovieperp3599]

Let’s see how you look…this is the part you runaway from showing your scrawny lil body.

[@limitedhangoutlive]

Protecting your family is super cringe. What’s based is spending 12 hours on a PC with your son in the chat while reacting to Nassan videos.

[@powmoe4424]

So true lol.

[@leobaron9417]

How about some fucking balance and not being the braindead dude picking one extreme over another ?

[@iraqlobster1980]

Hes not saying that there is anything wrong with defending your home. Destiny owns a gun for home defense he has a problem with the fetishization of defending your home.

[@limitedhangoutlive]

@@iraqlobster1980 No sh!t. I’m also being hyperbolic. Destiny isn’t perfect and while his rants are funny, and he’s affable, beneath the rhetoric is an equally cringe take. As for what’s being referenced; there are people who fantasize and “I can’t wait to defend myself today, on KZbin, and it makes me wince every time. But, those dudes were talking about being a protector for your family and what it means to provide as a man. They weren’t really fitting the mold of Destiny’s hyperbole. You know, like when he also criticizes a red piller’s take on marriage statistics by using bl. people and the warrior gene as an analogy, obviously eluding to particular arguments the 5 fringe righties make, that these particular righties, or Pearl for that matter, have never made or will never make. Her cohost is literally a black woman.

[@inframatic]

Based is being against traditional masculinity and femininity roles, and then choosing a traditionally feminine wife who needs to boink other men because destiny isnt traditionally masculine enough 🔥 🖐️ 🎤

[@__-vu8io]

Oh good, I get to watch a video of Noah Samsen condescendingly admonish a ex-military guy for thinking in terms of military tactics and using military terms while insulting him for being in shape and then tell a psychologist he knows more than him because he read one study that supports his position.

[@kbyoungblood6948]

I lose my brain cells everything I listen to these guys

[@kbyoungblood6948]

I even mispeled everytime

[@weppingtonhardcastle8199]

Know what’s more cringe than fantasizing about defending your family against an intruder? Being the dude that fantasizes about the dude that fantasizes about defunding his family against an intruder. And making vlogs about him.

[@facekoo]

You never see them get this mad about fire escape plans.

[@danielgadomski5129]

Know what's more cringe than a dude fantasizing about defending your family against an intruder or another dude fantasizing about the defending his family against an intruder and making vlogs about him? Being a dude writing a comment on a dude fantasizing about defending your family against an intruder or another dude fantasizing about the defending his family against an intruder and making vlogs about him on a channel of a dude talking about it.

[@toxiconflict]

@@danielgadomski5129 Know whats more cringe than all of that? This post right here.

[@thunderboltvintage2084]

@Daniel Gadomski lol you are too cringe bro.

[@danielgadomski5129]

Thanks guys

[@ogslowdragon]

Is this a class on how to remove your brain out and sit on it? All this projection is cringe. She didn't mention stealing money from men. She said out earned men.

[@Bartebodil]

I actually had some people trying to break in my house one night. My husband work at sea and he’s away every other month. So it’s me, my kids and our dog. Well, a long story short, me my bat and my 120 lbs Rottweiler kicked som serious ass. Three grown men had no chance. You might be a manly man “protecting your house” but don’t fuck with a mom protecting her kids either. I would have beaten those morons to a pulp if they hadn’t ran away. And yes I am a woman. And no I don’t depend on my husband fixing everything. When you are married to a sailor like I am you have to fix a lot yourself. Same goes for army wifes, police wifes etc. Strong men needs strong woman. A little make up doll would have been raped and killed in the situation I was in. I’m not big, but I work out, I am a kick boxer and I know what to do when shit hits the fan. They were just lucky my husband wasn’t home. He would have killed them.

[@mathemagicianog]

Self-defense is fine and wanting to protect your stuff is fine.

[@SmartDave60]

Sometimes it’s just performance. Edit

[@usucdik]

Why say this? Such grand virtue signalling. So brave. Really defending your space here.

[@inframatic]

Only those like destiny who are capable of neither would be against this. Then again destiny is a hypocrite who has a rifle mounted on his wall

[@inframatic]

@@usucdikwhy say this? Ooh look how brave you are for calling out someone who wants to protect stuff. You totally come off as a brave man and not a lonely inc3l 😂

[@usucdik]

@@inframatic what? You thought this made sense? Typical stuff from a hater.

[@watchtowergaming5285]

Well part of the joke is how sensitive people are so it’s not SUPPOSED to be a “brave” take lol

[@tino5735]

Destiny: "This idea of what a man is is so CRINGE bro!" Someone: "OK, then what do *you* think a man is?" Destiny: *Weasels his way out of answering the question *

[@franciscorojas8294]

A man is being whatever and doing whatever you want feel or makes you happy and not caring what other people think so its like this for example if a man wants to wear a dress its ok I'm not bother by it or think its somehow wrong not my life so more power to you but these so called alpha males say that without laughing lol somehow think no its wrong a man shouldn't wear a dress if you ask me its not very alpha to be offended or care or criticize plus shame other men who are free to do whatever makes them happy

[@krisortega2874]

@@franciscorojas8294 well in that case what’s the distinction between man and woman? Wouldn’t that make them the same

[@societylost4344]

@@franciscorojas8294 you are born what you are. You can pretend whatever you want but it doesn’t change reality

[@zXDaishiXz]

Why does youtube hate it when I post real fucking information, but is chill with me jsut shit posting and memeing all over the place like wtf.

[@jesterbob828]

A man tries to take responsibility and make his small corner of the world a better place.

[@morgangreen2601]

BASED

[@rexxraul]

And women can't do that because................................................. I mean, I kind of agree but I think that's just being a good person, doesn't define a gender.

[@doodoo4981]

@@rexxraul women don’t take any other responsibility besides taking care of the kids. Men actually have to build the world lol

[@godly04]

@@rexxraul A woman can't do that because if a scary black man breaks into your apartment, you're gonna get savaged. End of story.

[@rexxraul]

@@godly04 So women can't try to make their part of the world because of black people? Doubling down on racism AND sexism I see. Jesus Christ.

[@meteorwalkergg]

Glad Dr. Jordan B Peterson was an influence in my life before lefties drove him into literal brainrot; the open arms of the right-wing Just so you know, centrists like me won't get gaslit into having a memory span shorter than 8yrs; how important Peterson was for the foundational liberal ideas that prevent us from ping-ponging between Fuentes & Keffals like you lot do

[@meteorwalkergg]

@4:27 - @5:03 hey Noah, 'do not cite the old magic to me witch, I was there when it was written' aka in my own free time I have read research Peterson has contributed to that you haven't, because you're a partisan video essayist & didn't bother to research if Peterson knows clinical psychological research (he does, quite a bit) He is correct, that there's multivariate data to keep combing through for decades in order to be sure or not whether cosmetic transitioning is sufficient for treating gender/body dysphoria Even brain damaged, he probably still has those neurological network firing up from his decades of clinical psychological researching, practicing, & lesson-planning And you don't, Noah. You're a leftie with no benzo excuses for YOUR brain rot my friend Peterson can be a crazy old braindead right-winger & spout nonsense same as you and same as any doctor who doesn't believe in COVID vaccines & guess what? You're still the least knowledgeable person in the room, even if they're wrong, Noah. That's why Peterson can be wrong and draw more ppl to his side than Noah can: because Noah is more smug while knowing less than what he's talking about than even brain-damaged-from-Benzo-popping Jordan Peterson No wonder Vaush absolutely bent you over, Noah

[@meteorwalkergg]

^ btw the relevant papers I've read were first cited to me from Aydin Paladin videos. Aydin Paladin is better at both citing her sources & picking them than Destiny ever has been, is, or will be. That must be why his own lawyers 🤨'd at him when he said he didn't care about what outcome came from him suing her, he just wanted to ruin her life as much as possible It's an interesting strategy: gaslight & bully centrists into becoming right-wingers & then act like no centrists exist, only right-wingers Quite a large bunch of fake "liberals" we got, over here on the left side of the center. Not a spine to be found, though.

[@pedrob7374]

Dude my father in law had to beat a man down who attempted to kidnap my wife (when she was a kid) in front of him... The entire family still tells the story, he stepped up to defend his family. Just because you live in South Beach where there are cops on every other corner does not mean that life is the same. My boy had to walk into his house with his shot gun out down in homestead because people were in his house.

[@jonathanleclerc2788]

Well said

[@Diegosanchez-qu3ip]

Not sure how this has any correlation to the video maybe you could be referring to the begining of the video where the guy explains a man protects his family.. dude those are two very different situations of course you protect yourself when danger arises the thing is the guy in the beginning is cringe because he fantasizes about home intruders and him prepping this weird tactical power fantasy

[@Diegosanchez-qu3ip]

Your situation is entirely different although it's horrific that happened I'm sorry but, consuming this red pill content is dangerous it has somehow brainwashed you into believing that a entirely made up scenario made by the dude in the beginning has any actual correlation to your situation and it somehow reaffirmed your red pill beliefs

[@pedrob7374]

@@Diegosanchez-qu3ip no they are not, being able to protect you family is a responsibility every place you go. Shit down at a new place, know where the exits are, look around to see if anything is out of place, and if shit happens be ready to act. That includes defending your home and your loved ones in it Btw there are several witnesses, my wife's sisters for example who where there. But ya random guy makes something up because it didn't fit your narrative.

[@Diegosanchez-qu3ip]

@@pedrob7374 sorry for the misunderstanding I never doubted your story I believed you. What I said was the guy in the beginning of the video his story is a fantasy not yours. My point was his "tactical fantasies" reinforce the red pill ideology with people who have actually experienced those situations. For example you your family experienced a scenario where it sadly did happen. But your scenario is REAL his is conjured up in his mind and he spews his bull shit that reinforces the "red pill"

[@niko7890]

A real man doesn’t protect his home. Got it

[@inframatic]

Destiny said as his pew pew is mounted in the background of a lot of his streams

[@meditationasmovement]

That mustache guy is completely unwatchable.

[@nathantripathy]

I tend to try to engage with what people mean by the meaning the imbue words and concepts with. In my experience, people rarely have that engagement with what they, and especially others, are saying. It makes having conversations with people really difficult since they are not often interested in that level of interaction. For me, it makes lefty conversations and content incredibly difficult because they refuse to have those interactions with others and I know they are intelligent enough to. Often a lefty will ascribe wrongness to you because you are not having a conversation in the conceptual frame they choose to. The awkward mocking tone many assume seems to come from deliberately interpreting things in one context while criticizing in the opposite.

[@adrianbrodin1319]

Speaking as a lefty Swede Noah fan, I think your approach is cool.

[@Nobody-lx8uq]

True, I agree with many left and right takes, however, I will always disagree with giving a bitchy, mocking, awkward, "I'm better than you", "you're objectively wrong", "awwww honey!", infantilizing, frustrating, non-opinion changing tone. You're giving the person to who you should be trying to explain the truth a mental hurdle to jump over that requires enough strength to see past bitchiness just for the small, Mean Girls-type satisfaction that being a cunt gives. Because this is a YT video, he could say it's for the sake of comedy, but again, that type of comedy can only be supported by people who already agree with you or people who can't find the same takes from someone who isn't being a bitch

[@robinsonc5]

Its really funny when red pillers cry about how women get custody if children WAAAAY more often then men do, but don't realize that is reinforced by jokes and beliefs similar to the comedian at @18:45

[@sidhardhs5427]

Back in the days in our country dissing each other for being fat or being any skin colour was normal and funny. If someone called me black crow , I called him white crokroach( ironic slang in the south indian language). Nowadays because western society is so influential that it has infiltrated here as well. Now people have to choose words carefully not to offend anyone , and in today's anything could be offensive if you were being living under a rock with internet for 7 years because things started like this only recently.

[@aaronmontgomery2055]

Literally in my culture, we are supposed to call people ugly (if we know them), especially kids.

[@thecoolannishatk.]

Colorism is still rife there I would say.

[@inframatic]

This is why Americans can’t be honest or direct like people in other countries like india and germany. Everyone is too afraid of reputation, offending someone, or getting cancelled.

[@inframatic]

@@thecoolannishatk.colorism exists everywhere bud

[@U4ia28]

It’s not the fact that women intentionally divorce men to take their resources is something that happens often, it’s the fact THAT SHE CAN DO IT AT ALL! Divorce will destroy median income earners. Also there’s NOTHING that can justify the ridiculous divorce rates and the fact that the overwhelming majority of divorces are initiated by women.

[@Damnahh]

“Men can get pregnant “ the west is absolutely finished

[@genesis4k]

Destiny thinking protecting your property and woman is cringe is cringe itself!

[@drewbac]

Good one

[@rubyblue7119]

That's not what he's saying lol

[@Lanosplaylist]

I don’t mind destiny’s comments but the dude with the messed up facial hair just has the most generic over analyzing commentary I’ve ever heard

[@RGS578]

I feel like you can explain housework differences between men and women with two things. Difference in expectations. Poor communication. As a guy, comparing myself to my sister/mother, I just have a difference in standard when it comes to, "What is clean, or what is orderly." I do a full clean once a month around my house, and a quick wipe down of the kitchen after I cook. And that's perfectly acceptable in my mind. But I'm "gross" compared to my sister/mother. So when I hear these relationship studies of, "Women are doing more of the household work compared to men", I rationalize it as seeing a woman cleaning something, that a dude doesn't think is dirty. Of course he's not going to clean it, to him, it's clean. And then those differences in values are not adequately communicated between the two. If you want to then call Men gross, or Women nit-picky, so be it, but it's a different conversation. The core of this issue, is that they're not effectively communicating their differences. I will certainly do chores around my house. I live alone. I need to. But I'm not going to clean to *someone else's* standards. It doesn't make any sense.

[@lilliebobson3146]

Sounds like your gross. Just say you like the smell of funk.

[@missinterpretation4984]

Is it ok then if she just lays there during sex or cooks bland meals because she’s not going to perform to your standards? Honest question because to me you have a fair point if you’re only focused on yourself but successful relationships usually mean partners are willing to compromise to make each other happy on things that really matter to their partner. To me, your reasoning would apply more to a roommate than a romantic relationship.

[@RGS578]

@@missinterpretation4984 I'll rephrase this back into my comment. "Is it okay if she cooks bland meals, if she thinks her meals are not bland, but I think they are bland." - I would have a conversation with her, and tell her that I personally don't like her cooking. And I would compromise by either cooking myself, or help her cook meals we could both enjoy. "Is it okay if she lays there during sex like a dead fish, but she really enjoys laying there without much engagement." - Personally I'm not sure if I would be sexually compatible with this person, so it's hard to imagine being married to them. Ultimately, I would probably have talked about it early in the relationship, and then broken it off if we weren't compatible in that way. I think compromise is very important in relationships. But I think it's equally important to understand that people have different tolerances for situations. Like for example, this is something I see happen in relationships a lot. One parent will end up bearing most of the brunt of disciplining the child. One parent will usually say, "I'm always the one disciplining the child, and you're not... You need to step in more often." But then if you pull back from the situation, and look at the two parents. Let's say parent 1 will discipline their child after 10 seconds of them misbehaving, and parent 2 will discipline their child after 50 seconds of them misbehaving. Of course parent 1 will discipline more often, because they have a shorter fuse to deal with the problem. And it only turns into a problem, when they don't talk about their differences, and blow up at each other for some perceived unfairness.

[@missinterpretation4984]

@@RGS578 How about if I’m that 40 second difference the child is drawing on the walls with crayons. It’s cool because my fuse is longer. That creates a lot of resentment in relationship because one person just doesn’t have to do as much because they’re just more chill on things that don’t bother them. I think at the end of the day if someone is a neat freak and that’s just not compatible for you that’s totally your choice. But I see a lot of situations where men don’t contribute to the chores because they just don’t care but then expect her to be at a certain level in things that matter to them. You don’t seem that way, tbh you seem pretty reasonable so I’m not saying that’s you at all.

[@RGS578]

@@missinterpretation4984 It does create a lot of resentment. Which is why it needs to be communicated. Hell, it basically ruined one of my relationships, because my GF at the time would text me everyday, probably once every 8 hour or so, so I never "initiated conversations". And it took me years to realize that my threshold for starting conversation was more on the timeline of 1-2 days. It built up resentment, and ultimately blew up with her saying I don't care about her. I rectify it now by acknowledging it, and doing better to meet the threshold of whatever my partner needs. Could have been resolved if we talked about it. But fact of the matter, I had no idea that I was doing anything wrong, and we never spoke about it until it was too late. It's a failure of expectations, and then communication. She expected me to "care", but I was under the impression that I was, "caring".

[@b1gbird001]

Well, I know who's house ima break into now.

[@thermalrain_yt9725]

We as men have spent millions of years standing up and fighting off foes. What's the problem with people who want to stand up for themselves and family?? This is one of the dumbest things to take offense to. Yeah sure nothing is gonna happen but if it actually does youre gonna want one of these people around. Its so stupid to be upset with that

[@inframatic]

Destiny, a man who can’t satisfy his wife completely so she boinks other men, thinks masculinity is bad 😂

[@WickedIndigo]

I genuinely can’t tell if destiny was kidding when he said “Jake Paul is one of the best boxers of all time”. Because that’s one of the cringiest takes I’ve ever heard in my life

[@metinmetin1246]

The nerve of a random YT guy with a moustache to accuse a professor of clinical psychology of lying and making up things about his specialized field. Thats only possible in todays world and only on the Internet LMAO

[@doublestarships646]

Smooth brain: "What do you think it means to be a man?" Me: "Ooga booga just living and breathing with a penis."

[@gleebybooer]

that could be a gorilla but who cares

[@inframatic]

Dictionary: “a man is an adult human male” Dictionary: 🎤 🖐️

[@mrosskne]

peterson is right about everything

[@samanator19]

This is rich. Woke people saying someone is lying but providing no evidence whatsoever

[@SoftChroma]

His wife is on the brink of a mental breakdown, but at least he is prepared for the unlikely scenario of a home invasion! It’s ok if he’s not emotionally present for his kids because shit might go down one day, and he will be seen as a heroic defender 💪

[@cuneyt3830]

He puts bread on the table and feeds her 😂 what more you want life isn’t a Disney movie. The minute he shows emotion with his wife she will leave him. 😢 women are only good for moms and sex. Just facts sorry

[@fawzialnazer2465]

man gotta work

[@bennymountain1]

One day... Any minute now lmao

[@Regeor]

Wow, first point and Destiny is already so wrong. Since the beginning of time, men have been strong protectors of their family, it’s literally biological. How is it “cringe” to be able to protect your family, what’s cringe is that if someone dangerous came in and was a threat to your family, your would not do everything you can to protect them.

[@Blaze-go8bu]

ok but the comedian stuff made me laugh

[@unhombrelibre_11]

This was the worst take I’ve ever heard by both destiny and the mustache guy

[@Red88Rex]

What is a man!?!? A miserable little pile of secrets!!! 🧛‍♀️

[@MrSelecta32]

its funny how he says "But Why?" when Just Pearly raises the point about "Women initiating Most Breakups!" but destiny never looks into "Why?" She raised it at that moment of her clip She responds with this fact when the context is about incentives for women who already earn more than before to continue dating up or marrying up! and how that is affecting society in terms of families in the gynocentric social structs we are in now. She never gets into who's fault it is when it comes to break ups nor is it relevant at that point in time. But I love pearly for pointing out the flaws in the social services system, when ABSOLUTELY NO CROSS EXAMINATION is done against a woman and they are automatically believed when they use the word ABUSE, and how often its "ABUSE" that is both ways and easily inflicted by the woman's provocation, narcissism, lack of respect and loyalty because she has an agenda .... but NEVER seen that way by default! but oh I forgot, you have to accept all this because you are masculine. what UTTER rubbish these simps talk.

[@xihe211]

There are times I am astounded by Destiny's intelligence and debate prowess. How he will loudly claim a rule that needs to be followed when done by his opposition but ignore it when his side does it. But then there are times he doesn't understand a simple joke. "The child will probably fall out of the balcony" D: "WhAt dOeS tHaT eVeN mEaN?"

[@seannanoon9635]

Cause the joke wasn't really funny?

[@jaybrown8807]

​@@seannanoon9635 not finding a joke funny and not getting it are two separate things

[@inframatic]

Destiny also made the delusional take that golddiggers aren’t a thing (LOL) and that art is subjective so man and woman are subjective too. Destiny just wants to argue. His opinion on women changes depending on who he sees he can argue with

[@bb-3653]

As a man, I don't really care what makes a man a man, I just am what I am. At least that's how I view myself . No added complicated "moral" or prescriptive strings. I just exist . And that's what I'm okay with. My personality and my wants and personal proclivities matter more to me than tapering myself to the classical idea of what makes " a man, a man, beyond his features etc" .

[@inframatic]

As a dictionary, a man is an adult human male

[@dougmasters4561]

Defending yourself if your attacked is cringe.... Ok.... glad im not this boob. But youre making this man question too complicated. A man is an adult human male, who does the right thing, when its the right thing to do, because its the right thing to do.

[@noxszerofoxs2769]

old warrior because he a Special Forces guy... hes ACTUALLY been in war...

[@coimbralaw]

Nobody knows what you’re talking about

[@MortimusGorgon]

Who asked?

[@apoloniusz5202]

@@coimbralaw you could watch the video you smug weirdo

[@thegaslightneverends]

so? who asked if he has been to war?

[@noxszerofoxs2769]

@@coimbralaw except 22 people...

[@jonathananaya]

I feel like you guys are looking at this wrong. Stop calling everything heroic and masculine “right wing”. Women don’t want to see what that noise was. They don’t want to go toward potential danger while you cower under the bed. Yes, the man should protect the house from an intruder. And it’s to think of that as a rush. We’re normal guys. We need the adrenaline to rise to the occasion. It’s like slapping yourself to work up the nerves to go on stage.

[@lindboknifeandtool]

You ought to be able to defend your family. Not really cringe, just overly prepared. Idk why he’s discouraging this..😂

[@_basedperry]

Because he knows he’ll call the “fascist” (aka the police) the second he hears any level of disturbance in his home.

[@Earthad23]

I know why, because they have never been in a situation where these realities become crystal clear, these are luxury beliefs from naive people in a peaceful society.

[@Heroglyphics]

I thought it was real strange to start off the video like that too. He wants to defend his home from an invasion?? “Toxic man!!” Have we all not thought about it at least once?

[@KCAssassin98]

@@_basedperry destiny is borderline blue lives matter so this doesn't really work.

[@ichivue]

@@Heroglyphics Nice strawman you got here.

[@omegalink314]

3:30 is Destiny known that the internet is global? right? people can podcast from anywhere. I'm from a country were we had 3 terrorists attacks in the last month (1 of them was stopped by a civilian with an handgun), and I can theoretically podcast if I want to.

[@average6457]

A man is whatever Destiny is not

[@crazyguy9513]

This is kinda sad that Destiny doesn't understand theoretical psychology. Most of the arguments stated here are theoretical ideals that are fought over as ideas that are handed to another generation. The kid in the video took them as face value arguments. He's basically answering a rhetorical question. I believed that Destiny being someone who questions things logically would at least understand the point from which the arguments are made from. Really sad stuff man, kinda disappointed but you do great content so Ill leave it at that.

[@camdude6670]

I HATE when Destiny himself, or through other ppls content, analyzes what a stand-up comic says in a bit. That guys babysitter bit was pretty good. Not some George Carlin level material but the bit was fine. It doesn't need to be an accurate representation of..well..anything!

[@maxwellsdemon10]

Nah, it was a shit joke. The observation wasn't interesting or clever in any way, it wasn't unexpected where he would take this and the "I'm going to be so brave now" posturing is cringe af, if you have the mildest take ever....

[@camdude6670]

@Maxwells Demon it doesn't need to necessarily be clever or interesting or original. I'm not trying to say that guys a comedy genius. Just that he's up there telling jokes that, whether amazing or not, are obviously crafted. The punch works exactly how it was meant to. He's not making statements on gender roles

[@srsbsns946]

Some westerners really are clueless when it comes to a simple analogy on swords and sheaths. English is not my first language and I perfectly understand what JP tried to say. Be competent and capable of violence, but control your emotion so that you will only use your capability when needed. If you are excited to use that skill, then you are not applying the swords and sheath philosophy

[@Kappatalism]

A man is someone that rejects being player 2

[@shodanart]

27:20 Yea…anyone who watched several minutes of Michael Jordan’s highlights will come away agreeing he’s probably the best basketball player of all time. There’s other reasons, but the major point? it’s like watching a super human.