GIRL TALK I answer your MOST TMI Questions! ( Vaginal Health, Break ups , S*x talk)

[@redhotchelseapeppers]

“All my friends say I’m missing out, but Alriight well lemme tell ya somethin...I feel like I got a tight butthole” 😂😂

[@APixieNinja]

I LOVE the way Larua words things. Its a serious topic but she makes it so light hearted and easy to talk about.

[@mamadebbeauty4118]

👍👍🤣😂☺️🤪😜

[@melodywashington96]

Same Laura... same 😂

[@mishasamuel]

Honestly same. Plus the ick factor.

[@stefanycastro3912]

Laura is becoming my big sister I never had 😫

[@gillianritchey]

same!

[@Amanda-xr6en]

Same. My sisters nor my moms ever did this for me

[@sierrahauch2107]

Literally same

[@TeacherGymMama]

Same!

[@leannamorgan7930]

same, I’m the youngest of 4 and the only girl

[@katiem7689]

I honestly feel like Laura would be an amazing friend, sister, aunt, boss, mom etc she is one of those people that just is personable and understanding. You could put her with almost any type of person and she would be able to make them feel comfortable.

[@hollygriffin7692]

And with absolutely NO judgement!!!!

[@amyhoover214]

I'm 38 and your talk on "self love" is SPOT ON!!! I think as you get older, your perspective of it changes from materialistic to a more emotional stand point....❤

[@annlatham]

Absolutely! 👌🏼

[@jackiek4159]

Agreed! 🙌🏻

[@PaperFairytales]

Same boat, same truth!!

[@laurastory1853]

I'm much older than Laura, but girl is telling the truth. She sounds like me when I talk to my daughter about life. So to all her subscribers, she is preaching what is right. You go girl 👏. I really was hoping to watch another one of these. I love watching you Laura ❤ ♥ 💕. You have over come a lot of things in your life, yeah I have been watching you for some time. But I have watched you change and grow so much. I really am very PROUD of you and yes change did make you such a AWESOME and a STRONGER WOMAN!!!!! Congratulations 👏 👏 👏. Kisses from Tennessee.

[@tmarie69]

This needs to be a series. I love the Girl Talk videos!

[@jenniferorlandoludwig7145]

I met my husband at 15yrs old&I'm now 46yrs old.We dated for 3yrs&have now been married for 28yrs!!!

[@annajoie700]

Congrats!! 👏🏼💜

[@florianriver_9749]

omygod you found your soulmate at 15 ? 😭🤚🏻 ugh so happy for you

[@jenniferorlandoludwig7145]

@@florianriver_9749 Ty🥰

[@xoxolovechristielynn]

Congratulations!! I met my husband at 12 years old and we got married at 18 because we were already so sure of each other. So many people told us to give it time and “there’s other fish in the sea” but at 18, we knew better. 14 years of marriage and 2 kids later, we are even more sure now! We’ve watched those very same people get married and divorced and we are the ones still standing so I think sometimes you really just know! 💜

[@iselamartine3746]

My husband was almost the one that got away...but we’ve been married for 25 years now ❤️ can imagine having to date now....eek

[@kagey7591]

I'm 63 years old, and all I can say is that I would have *loved* to have had a sister or friend like you back in the day when I had so many of these same questions and no one to ask.

[@Riya-of6wj]

The part on self love almost made me cry. Love your definition of it. Absolutely agree. When you shop or do these materialistic things for yourself, you release dopamine which is only temporary! It won’t do anything for you in the long run!

[@preciousp2287]

I did cry!!! I needed to hear that. Sometimes I feel its selfish not SELF LOVE. Need to change that thought!!

[@lenalombardi841]

I never had a girly mom, and she’s gay so I never was able to learn a lot of these things. Thanks for these Laura. Even as a 22 year old it’s comforting to have someone normalize these topics & I still learn new things!

[@nataliyarakhmanina654]

I feel like what’s happened to me is that when I was healing from my divorce, I focused everything on my career and education. But now I’m too comfortable on my own and I’m so critical when I swipe that 98% are left swipes. I’ve focused for so long on myself that I’m scared to let someone in. I am a recovering people pleaser so I don’t wanna fall into a bad cycle.

[@alexandrawalker9678]

“I know you guys want to be smooth and bald like a baby seal” 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀 I freaking love you Laura lee!!

[@valentinaguerriero4262]

I used to never vibe with Laura (not for any reason) but over the past few years I just can’t get enough of her - esp now 🥰! One of the most down to earth KZbinrs ever and she makes me feel so calm 🥺🤍🕊 also, thank you Laura for showing your history and your story with your family, that’s another thing that really ties me to you and I can really see your heart now through every single video🥰 it feels really good to support someone who truly deserves all of the support! May God bless you 1 million times a day!

[@alexaxroseo]

I’m going through a breakup and all I have to say is that I f-ing needed this thank you Laura 🥺

[@hannagrimes9048]

Same girl

[@crissia3358]

I’m sorry girl, all I can tell you is to never go back, keep moving forward, been through so many breakups myself and believe me they made me stronger and wiser, they also make you more resilient. Go out with your friends and focus on yourself.... I know you probably already heard all this but trust me it works.... sending you very positive vibes your way and you got this girl ♥️♥️♥️

[@paigealbanese2455]

“Alright let me tell y’all something about period poop” i died

[@katstrutt]

I feel like we are having a girlfriends slumber party when you share these videos !! Thank you and ps to the haters on your ig story about working out... it helps me get motivated to get into shape or at least try 💕 you Laura Lee

[@PrincessAudi]

My thoughts exactly!!

[@MissChristineMichelle]

Girl talk needs to be series because we all go through similar things in life that we all can relate to and i love those videos!❤️

[@lauradevito6618]

Can you and Ty do a video about your relationship? When and how you met, how he asked you to be his gf and when? Proposal and wedding things? Love to get to hear that!

[@TheAcoop70]

I’ve never thought about “self love” from that perspective. I love it

[@Homeg0rl]

I love how you share your independent thoughts with respect. You’re easily one of the only females I’ve watched thus far that keeps it OG! Love you 🥰

[@susanspann427]

Your definition of self love was absolutely amazing, thank you. That was some of the best advice I've ever gotten!!

[@sierramiller5226]

girl whatever you choose with kids or no kids is totally up to you, you’re amazing and your life will be amazing no matter what

[@hollygriffin7692]

My FAVORITE backhanded compliment is “you’ve changed”. I say thanks so much EVERY👏🏻SINGLE👏🏻TIME!👏🏻💯

[@PrincessAudi]

I really needed this girl moment. I miss my family and this just reminded me of chilling with my cousins.

[@MissyMoo711]

“Remember how they made you feel” I really needed to hear that. 💕

[@mishasamuel]

It’s such a great advice!

[@SarahhLouise16]

That is literally the best definition of self love ❤❤❤ I never hear influencers say that and I am finally learning at 27 what REAL self love is.. it's not going shopping or getting your nails done.

[@jennaxhairstylist]

The part about self love.. words of wisdom. Gotta protect your energy and focus on what will help your future self. It’s so much more than a shopping spree.

[@lifewithsky3541]

This !

[@christamarie3512]

Big blood clots are usually just old period blood coming out or old lining that didn’t come out before. At least that’s what I’ve always been told. If it happens a lot I would definitely see the gynecologist! It’s better to be safe than sorry!

[@Hannah-ny5uq]

This is true! It’s more common to have big clots when you have irregular periods too :)

[@christamarie3512]

@@Hannah-ny5uq yep absolutely!

[@caitx1248]

Omg I’ve been telling the doctors for over a year about this and there saying there’s no explanation. I don’t have PCOS or any cancerous cells. Women’s health needs to be more prioritised and talked about!

[@MissDory90]

Ok but Laura explaining what REAL SELF LOVE is. 💜

[@hildiane21]

I never had these kind of relationships when I was younger. I didn't have a close relationship with my mother and no bigger sister. Now that I'm a mother, I have these talks with her. I appreciate you being so blunt and honest and reminding me of the important self love things! *I don't mind the nipple show either* hahaha

[@1karinamorales]

thank you for normalizing talks like this! 💖

[@gracechadi]

THAT SELF-LOVE IS ON POINT LAURA 🔥🔥🔥

[@rebeccamcdowell4818]

Open and real convos like this impact the world in such a positive way! I’m so glad you’re doing these and helping people feel comfortable asking about and talking about everyday things. Loving the positivity and acceptance you’re putting out there!

[@kathrynbranton556]

I love these videos! My mom was always too uncomfortable to have girl talks with me so I had to do a lot of exploring and figuring things out on my own. It's so nice for you to be so open!

[@jessicashomo4398]

I think the best way to get over someone is to get rid of everything that reminds you of that person, and change your environment

[@hildiane21]

Just burn it all!(that's what I did) lol

[@jessicashomo4398]

@@hildiane21 I can be heartless but I wouldn’t burn everybody’s last little bit of life they have I could’ve done that along time ago….😂😂

[@hildiane21]

@@jessicashomo4398 if it's at your house though...lol sweatshirts, clothes they gave you etc I'm not THAT mean lol

[@jessicashomo4398]

@@hildiane21 Unfortunately I live with somebody that didn’t give me shit that’s why I had a sugar daddy at one point😂😂

[@emilyscott2066]

Talking about self-love... my therapist was talking to me the other day about self-love / self-care vs. self-comfort. Self-love is doing things that can be hard but make us grow, that brings peace to us later even when we don't want the uncomfortableness for a moment. Self-comfort is getting nails done, watching movies all day, etc. Neither is better than the other but it is important to recognize when you are self-caring vs comforting.

[@sw8945]

Can I just tell you how refreshing it is to hear someone else my age say they don’t know if they want kids or not? I get pressure all the time to either have a baby or decide that I’m going to be forever child-free, but I change my mind constantly! I love this series so much.

[@christinawilliams2855]

YESSSSSS ON THE SELF LOVE!!!!!! Taking a hot bath and buying a new outfit is self soothing. Self love and care is doing what is best for you and proves better in the long run. Preach!

[@shagov8910]

I love Laura's self love definitions because yes that is self love it's not just pampering yourself. It's reflection and inner conversation ❤️

[@riverab1089]

why am i crying when she’s talking about self-love 😭 i completely agree, you’re so inspirational Laura. we love you 💖

[@lalae2023]

Preaching about SELF LOVE. Girl👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 this is what maturity and confidence is in your 30s. I hope young girls are watching this and hearing you snd it resonates!!! Much love from a 30 something 🤪💕

[@shannaaparkk]

i havent had girl friends in so long to have girl talk its always my guy friends so it feels so nice to have someone be so honest and talk about thi stuff

[@jenitzairizarry9767]

Self-love speech really made me cry..

[@lizxjoanne]

Girl, preach! I love you Laura, you are the realest, kindest, most down to earth person. & No wonder why I'm obsessed with your channel. Never change girl! ❤️

[@sarahz6917]

Self-Help with Laura Lee!! 💗💗 Do a part 3, Keep them coming! These videos are so interesting. I love hearing about other women/girls experiences. It’s helpful and a beautiful thing.

[@being_human_]

You know what Laura, I really completely agree on your opinion of self-love. In fact, when you said that materialistic things are temporary self-care, it really blew my mind bcoz I have tried so much in the past to make people understand that money can't buy you happiness but to no avail.

[@autumnweldon7314]

I haven't watched the video yet but my question is: Laura how are you really doing since the passing of your mom? I am so deeply sorry for your loss, words can't explain.

[@heatherknight1480]

There is a huge difference between self care and self love. Thank you for explaining the meaning of self love!!!!

[@cortneydavis5130]

Omg Laura, when you were talking about self love I felt like you were speaking directly to me. You're so right

[@danielllleX]

Love your sensitivity about asking someone when they’re going to have kids. Was happy to see your video😊

[@daniellemeier3025]

THANK YOU for that self love speech! So many people have messed up views of what actual self care is and I appreciate your honesty.

[@mairaromero6142]

There is a book called “The 5 Love Language” it is sooo helpful to know what language your partner is receptive too. loooove the book

[@rachelgessner816]

Your version of self love is why your so successful and a good influence

[@Lasvegassss702]

Hearing Laura talk about self love, motivates me. Thank you Laura 🤍

[@katealoguedit]

You’re so right about self-love. Self love is going to therapy and doing the hard work to make yourself the best you can be.

[@gssllll]

I love her definition of self love🥺🥺💗

[@ericaschannel2599]

Literally I just needed to hear all this I’m a 34 year old women with 3 kids and I don’t have many friends these days but some days you just wish u had someone to talk to about everything so thankyou for this video Laura we love you 😘 💕

[@Amanda-qt6lc]

I can't tell you how much I appreciate you reminding people that asking about children can be a really painful question.

[@restoredbyfaith]

Your self love definition was spot on!! Pampering urself is nice and we deserve to spoil ourselves once in a while. But it’s so important to do hard things as u said...in other words creating boundaries and sticking to them! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@rutamahatre2854]

That selflove talk got me in tears😭 best way someone can put. Nobody ever would have even taught to explain this in such a way that it literally got me in tears

[@brevepausa.podcast]

what you said about self-love and self-care was SO ON POINT! i recently learned about the concept “self-indulgence” which refers to all of these materialistic actions that we often confuse with self-care or self-love, but it’s pretty important to know the difference and i’m glad you talked about it in the way you did❣️

[@hospitalfood6621]

I would love a part 3! These videos are so wonderful and I love your openness in discussing these topics. I love them so much I have my teen daughter watch them too . The way you talk about each topic is down to earth and relaxing. Keep up the good work and keep the girl talk going!!!

[@thia8426]

Wow, your definition of self love is what I needed to hear. I always thought of treating yourself as self love but it only gave me instant gratification, not long term. I will definitely keep this in mind from now on. I am a hardcore procrastinator because of the anxiety certain tasks cause me but I'll push myself to do them because I do love myself :)

[@_yeimishaa]

Laura It’s 7:00am and I’m in my lunch break crying in my car because everything you said about what self love is . You are sooo right and made me realize so many things . Thank you so much 💗🥺

[@KenziiThaBaddest]

I truly agree with the self love talk. People get self CARE and self LOVE very confused. Perfect explanation! ❤️

[@SJ-ng2rj]

Make this a series!!!!!!! Normalize the things that women go through, give the girls with little guidance a place to feel comfortable talking about things that are socially recognized as “uncomfortable” topics. Love these videos, Laura!!!

[@lulick9]

Your explanation of self-love 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@cassiepoorman268]

I think it’s WAY HARDER to break up with someone than them breaking up with you. You have to be the one to cut them off and set the boundaries and just knowing you hurt someone is awful. But you have to be true to yourself. I’m about to be 35, never got married and I’ve been single for 2 years. I’m not settling for anything anymore. I’m listening to myself and if that means I’ll be alone for a while, so be it. My last relationship was terrible for years and I’m so thankful I listened to myself and finally left and cut him off! I loooovvveee these videos. I’m so happy you’re open to talk about these things. ❤️

[@powersproject2100]

Love your opinions on self love! I agree, I think self love gets completely confused with vanity. Self love is growing as a person, and perseverance through challenges 🙌🙌🙌

[@APixieNinja]

Laura out here giving life-saving advice, and I'm here for it. We need more conversations like this. Let's make it a norm to talk about things like this. Also as woman let's help each other. Her definition of self love brought tears to my eyes because I realized all that in 2016 and made a major move towards true happiness.

[@joannahelmer5637]

I appreciate your girl talk videos because you actually are giving real answers. I've seen a few others and they just skirt around the question but don't really say anything. So I would like to say thank you for actually being honest and raw with your answers. I think you should make this a monthly series real talk with Laura Lee. Love ya girl Peace and love to you and your family 💚🧡💚🧡💚

[@caelabumgarner5575]

We definitely need a part 3 PLEASE.. LoVe you Laura 💟🤍💙💜💟🤍💙💜💟🤍💙💜💟🤍💙💜💟🤍💙💜🤍💟💙💜💟🤍💙💜💟🤍💙💜💟🤍💙💜💟🤍💙💜💟🤍💙💜💟🤍💙#LAURALEE #BEAUTIFUL #SMART #STRONG #TALENTED #MYFAVKZbinR

[@brittanykimberland9075]

This is my assumption but I feel like for a minute you got lost in the crazy world and you just truly learned and grew from everything and found yourself either again or for the first time. Your outlooks are just so clear, and you seem so so sure of yourself. It’s so beautiful to see you comfortable here on your channel again. The self love part just hit different. Much love

[@megs3019]

I love that your doing these…. I’m 30 and it has helped me hearing stuff from you and feeling like I’m not alone. Your amazing! ❤️❤️❤️

[@mymagicemily]

I do want to add on the whole topic of relationships: I am single, and I love it. I've never really had a relationship and have realized it's not for me. At 31, I'm honestly the happiest I've ever been with my two dogs and my kitten. I love that I have my own schedule and my own space. If I were ever in a long-term relationship, I can almost guarantee I'd need my own bedroom still just because I need focused alone time.

[@mishasamuel]

I think we need to normalize being single by choice and content 💕

[@ashg2895]

Videos like this are so so important! It may help someone who doesn't feel comfortable discussing these topics with someone or someone who doesn't have a person in their life to provide this information for them. Thank you Laura 🙏 💜

[@SueRanStyle]

Omg girl! On point on self-love!! I love you for saying that. It redefined self love for me! Thank you ❤️

[@StarBudgets]

Great video!! Favorite advice/info was Self Love........self love = doing whatever you have to do to better yourself, your life, and whatever makes you happy ❤️. Great great great advice!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@Mejia_181]

I feel like I love Laura’s content more and more each time now. Also, how open she is now talking about these topics!

[@brileyc.9463]

These videos are the reason why I’ve been watching you for YEARS. You are such an awesome person. We appreciate you so much 💙

[@fariyalbhatti1828]

The best thing you said in this video and I 100% agree with is the topic about self love. You hit the nail on the head with that one. I needed that reminder myself and you said everything I needed to hear. Completely agree, self love is not materialistic. It's an inner happiness and strength thing. ❤️

[@alexamandes8872]

I absolutely agree with you about your stance on self love! So many people see it as getting your nails done and that’s just not what it is. That’s an excuse to get your nails done. The only time I see doing something like that as self love is for someone like my mom who actually neglects her self care entirely due to finances and stress. She deserves those things so of course that’s apart of self love but it’s far from the main point of it

[@PerfectPinkiePants]

Thank you for normalizing these topics. We can all learn so much from each other just by talking about these things without any fear or judgement.

[@ericahenderson7262]

Communication is key and with that, tone, listening(not hearing) and tuning into how you respond to your partner. You have to learn how to “fight”. My husband and have a saying, “Don’t talk or treat your partner in a way that you wouldn’t allow someone else do.”

[@naomimcguire3650]

I honestly WISH more people were this open!💕💕💕

[@trenae.]

i know everyone might have their own definition but to me i always say SELF LOVE is doing the harder things - things you might not necessarily want to do but you do them anyways to better yourself and your future . SELF CARE to me is taking time for yourself to do smaller things to make yourself feel better in the moment . getting your nails done , your hair , buying a new outfit , taking some extra time to pamper yourself ... any small thing you can do to boost your mood/confidence when you’re feeling sad/stressed . ❤️

[@carissaraeee7947]

Look at Laura becoming a motivational speaker! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 I love these types of videos where you just sit down and talk with us! We see such a different, more raw side of you! I really hope you do these more often!!

[@ambergreen6764]

Bucket List: Hanging out with LUARA LEE. You are the epitome of perfection. Thank you for opening up on so many topics that majority are scared to talk about, it means everything 💜

[@tracisikkes7916]

I love the advice you give. I am an old lady (57) and I think your advice to others who are your age ish and younger is so wise beyond your years. You are a great role model.

[@izznutella1473]

Legit the best advice and I am here for normalizing all the topics you talked about!! I am so here for it! Need more girls like you

[@hannahbloomlifestyle]

Self love is stopping the self-deprecating humor Laura!! YOU are NOT an idiot ❣️❣️❣️

[@daniellelee6863]

About remembering the reason you broke up. Yessss. I was in an extremely toxic situation, he was hospitalized while in psychosis, and he was diagnosed bipolar. I made sure every time I felt the lowest, I made a note in my phone of it. Every time I prayed for him to go to sleep so it would end, and start over tomorrow, I wrote it down. Or took a picture to remind me. The smartest thing I've ever done

[@MeganAnneMusic]

The speech in the middle about self love is so beautiful 💕💕💕 thank you Laura

[@Von.xdee123]

I’m really glad you said what you did about self love. A lot of people needed to hear that

[@kikirav4541]

Love how open and honest you are Laura ♥️♥️♥️

[@alissheadavis]

That self love answer was exactly what I needed to hear 🤍

[@kayleabuglioli7252]

This video made me love Laura 10x more.

[@madalinadelia]

Wow! Thank you! This video could not come at a more better time. Just got dumped by a toxic man after 2 years because I keep my house clean and neat (and 5 previous dumps from him) and I fight my brain so much to remember the bad and not dwell on the "good" (I think my brain is making up the "good" because there was none). Thank you so so much! I really needed to hear this!🤗🤗🤗🤗😚

[@xTville1]

Yeees Laura! I love these videos! For the pre teens who are already or about to be struggling, for the teens and the barely growns who have to function on their own for the first time - and for those of us around 30 who’re still struggling a bit. Thank you Laura ❤️

[@enbrightened]

I love your take on self-love. That materialistic outward stuff can be self-care, but self-love (to me) works on the inside. ❤