READING YOUR ASSUMPTIONS ABOUT US... INSECURITIES? RICH? AGAINST THE BACHELOR? DO WE HAVE JOBS?

The assumptions about us! We reached out to our IG followers and these were some off the top assumptions about of. We were kind of shocked at some of them, check it out!
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[@wendyedwards4664]

I use to work with Lauren years ago. I would always say I have never met someone that was as beautiful in the inside as the outside. Lauren was always so sweet and caring!!

[@LaurenAndArie]

Aw Wendy!!! You’re so sweet! Miss seeing your face!❤️

[@maryjotyner9345]

I have to say, Arie does not appear controlling. Arie is a man who loves his wife, it is obvious. I don’t see Lauren as a Karen and you can tell she loves Arie and her family.

[@joshm8015]

Yeah Arie is like the most chill dude ever

[@taelynnulakovic9690]

People just like to assume the worst without getting to know somebody for who they truly are. We love L&A❤️

[@iheartmydogs1870]

I think those negative assumptions are people projecting. I've never picked up on any of that negative BS. They seem to have a loving relationship.

[@jyn88]

I don't understand how someone thought Lauren is a Karen. They obviously don't know how to judge personalities.

[@lorrayna20]

jyn88 exactly!! people are jealous beyond reason.

[@Nuuhnn_ya]

“maybe like 3 kid we’ll think about a nanny.” That came way faster than you thought.

[@crystalxoxos2]

The body language with you two is so adorable. Constantly touching and so close to eachother and you can tell it’s not forced. I love you two together! Doesn’t matter how you got together if it ended up being perfect x

[@koelghosh4013]

I just love the way Lauren keeps looking at Arie while he speaks. Now, that is pure love ..

[@BirdTricks]

Love how down to Earth you guys are. I'd be terrified to do a video like this.

[@brendachaves6375]

I can’t wait for Lauren’s Clothing Line to launch!!! I love her style. 💜

[@chickennquaffles1322]

Just please tell me my broke booty can afford it 😂

[@sarahkelly3234]

My assumption: Arie is one of the nicest guys I've seen on BN.

[@tiafel9185]

I agree

[@lorrayna20]

I also agree, I love you two!! and you have a beautiful daughter.. ❤️ 😘 ❤️

[@carmen5358]

I agree!

[@kimberlybowers6547]

Yes!!!

[@kathryncowley510]

What I like about both of you (and the reason I continue watching) is that you are respectful to each other and your love is genuine. This world needs good role models for husband and wife relationships.

[@livinnparadise]

You two belong together! I watched Aries season and, now looking back, he and “she who will remain nameless” just didn’t fit. Arie didn’t really seem happy. Now you’re giddy happy in love with your sweet family. I’m very happy for you both.

[@TradingWithNatcha]

Totally agreed. Lauren is so so sweet and more loving. I'm so glad Lauren and Arie are together.

[@sierrah3428]

I’m literally so obsessed with y’all. So happy y’all ended up together and with alessi!!

[@madinatuleshova6292]

They both seem to be more introverted, calm type of people. I am glad they are together, they seem to have the same lifestyle and really enjoy being a family.

[@gloriaa0214]

You two are completely different than what was portrayed on the show, in a good way, can anyone else agree?

[@LisaGallegos]

100%!

[@brendaobrien5273]

Agreed 100%

[@paulina228]

"She SHOULD be in charge" haha, what a guy!!!!

[@michaelakeenan7437]

My husband & I are bachelor fans through & through but have ALWAYS been team Arie & Lauren ! We were so sad when Arie chose Becca at first but so happy once we saw the official ending of you two getting back together 😭😍

[@kaayjane]

The way you two interact with each other is refreshing - so happy you ended up together :)

[@tatumspowehn6994]

I love how even with the question about you guys not feeding alessi enough you just laughed as if it were a joke like you’re so calm and didn’t get defensive at all. Just genuinely explaining. Love you guys!

[@danitapenn-green2347]

Arie does not appear to be controlling. On the show, he seemed to be such a nice guy. Also, Lauren appears to be a very nice lady.

[@alid0228]

Lauren is one of the prettiest women I've ever seen and she probably doesn't realize how gorgeous she is. She's my fav bachelorette aside from Jojo and I didn't even watch her season

[@aliciarodriguez6251]

That's because Lauren didn't have a bachelorette season...

[@alid0228]

@@aliciarodriguez6251 I mean I didn't watch her on aeries season lol

[@aliciarodriguez6251]

@@alid0228 That makes sense then😆 I always forget they are bachelor/ette's when they come on the show. I remember watching Lauren and remembering how chill she was. The Lauren's normally all are😆

[@lucbordage7291]

She is WAY OUT OF HIS LEAGUE.

[@elizabethmorris8824]

You guys shouldn’t have to explain yourselfs when I see you guys I just feel the love between love you both

[@kong7535]

This guy is way head over heels for Lauren ♥️

[@christinescorner8368]

What makes me the happiest about your relationships is the fact that you guys stuck through with each other through it all. It also shows with the way you interact with each other, and it is really admirable to see how both of you respect each other so highly. That shows a healthy, well-balanced relationship and I am very happy that you created this channel to be a model of that and show the world the amazing people that you guys are.

[@brookessurfer1380]

Any one notice Lauren’s highlighter poppin (her make up looks so good)

[@meganpanek7180]

That’s like all I could look at! I’m like dang that’s a good highlight!👏🏼😂

[@johannacollins4721]

What is the highlighter she used?

[@crystalb976]

@@meganpanek7180 me too. I kept noticing it and her makeup.

[@kellysemaquille]

Oh my god sameeee

[@gazelle3635]

I love how you guys are very honest and open and willing to share with your viewers. Glad you found each other.

[@Winningheadlines]

Have to be honest hated you as the bachelor but damn love you now as “you” so in love with both of you !! So happy for you both !

[@aubreystewart2396]

You guys are so cute. I was smiling the whole video. I feel bad you guys sometimes get such a bad rep in bachelor nation. Because you literally compliment each other so well. I’ve loved following along with your KZbin channel.

[@jyn88]

Their videos always make me smile too!

[@elsiethomas2210]

i was one of the viewers who was soo mad at Arie for the may the show ended, looking at you two now, i am glad you followed your heart. i moved from the Netherlands to US in 2003

[@jyn88]

I actually wasn't upset with him because I knew he made the wrong choice picking Becca.

[@lorrayna20]

jyn88 yes!! I was so disappointed when he chose B. she thinks she is above everyone. 🤮

[@lindadavis5447]

@@lorrayna20 The apple and starfish comment Becca made when comparing herself to Lauren. Look who's the starfish in reality in 2020. That's why you don't make tacky comments about people as it always finds a way of biting you in the ass.

[@carolmcandrews2533]

@@jyn88 u

[@KaylaPatrickmusic]

You guys seem like genuine best friends who laugh a lot, which is the best kind of relationship :)

[@realitygaming6536]

I think Arie is a protector. Becca was never the type to allow anyone to protect her. SO not a fit for Arie. I love to watch his protectiveness over Lauren and Alessi! If Arie we’re still with Becca right now they would probably still be engaged with no wedding date in sight and no little Alessies coming until he was 50. Lauren was definitely the right choice!

[@belindaochoa2743]

I found that Becca was too ghetto for Arie. Lauren is more of his class.

[@DELLAVLOGS]

Can’t wait for your clothing line!! Love you guys ❤️❤️

[@LaurenAndArie]

Soon!!!!!!

[@brookessurfer1380]

I’m so excited

[@hyager5552]

You guys are both so cute together

[@Rivermama3]

HI BELLA AND DALLIN, I LOVE YOU GUYS!! ❤️ ♥️ 💜

[@Rivermama3]

I LOVE YOUR NEW MUSIC VIDEO!! I LOVE YOU BELLA AND DALLIN

[@StellaShakti]

I just love so much how much Lauren loves Arie, such an inspiration to see you guys! Many blessings

[@desireejohnson4947]

I love you guys! Your so real! I'm so happy you two came back together from the show. Your doing a FANTASTIC job on love, parenting and your showing the world that love isn't defined by how you met, but by how your love as prevailed. Hi Alessi, your a beautiful little girl and your parents are so inspiring. Keep up the real you, you guys! ❤

[@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933]

What I love is that Arie is SO loving, supportive and tender. He is so demonstrative and sweet-LOVE that charastistic!! When you have those those twins and may want a nanny. You are allowed!!

[@kaseyasimba4658]

I just like how Arie answered the quesion about the age gap. That was a brillant and helpful answer.

[@bricheese473]

Lauren you come off as very secure in yourself & relationship to me !! Also, no shame if you ever had to have a nanny you guys work hard and it’s perfectly normal !

[@ashtoncooke4130]

Lauren, you’ve always come off as the most lovely and down to earth woman! And you seem like such an amazing wife and mom all while striving to achieve your own personal dreams too! You are a definite inspiration to me 💛

[@angelawilkey4712]

My opinion. Arie is sweet, loving, caring and loves his family. Lauren, great mom, loving, driven, fun, the girl next door. Lauren and Arie are perfect for each other. My thing is, if people have negative comments about your life, then don't watch this channel. This channel should be for those who support you guys. No one is perfect, we all have issues, its how you handle it. You guys do a good job handling everything. Your loved and supported.

[@jyn88]

I don't think I ever had a favorite Bachelor/Bachelorette couple until now. I love you both as a couple! Your videos are always so chill and has this "feel-good" vibe. You guys don't talk over one another or fight for camera time as some people. You take equal turns and it just shows so much love and respect between you two. I don't find you guys awkward. Well, ok, you guys can be awkward in interviews but on your own channel you aren't. I think that's normal because interviews can be uncomfortable!

[@renecates9871]

Awww how cute was this. I am a true believer God has the path of our lives planned out. I met my husband in a bar in Houston Texas and here we are 3 kids and 32 years later and now one beautiful Granddaughter named Averi Lynn and 7 rescued dogs during this time. You guys keep doing you. Love you and your awkwardness.

[@aflowergrowswild]

Thank you for being so transparent! My assumption: You guys seem like you have a lot of fun together. My baby girl is a similar age to yours so I love seeing your relationship with her. Also, I remember watching your season of The Bachelor & thought it was sweet that Arie said (something like), "Every day that goes by that I don't reach out to Lauren is every day that I'm missing out on the opportunity to make it right with her." 💕

[@rain3743]

Arie seems super chill. They are well suited. Absolutely darling, together. My husband and I are the same way. We usually like the same things.

[@miriamO212]

Your Scorpio and Virgo vibes really complement each other ❤️

[@frenchvanilla7480]

Who is a Scorpio among them.2?

[@1pfennig]

It is very refreshing spending time with you in these videos. It is wisdom to let Alessi decide when finished eating; for she alone knows when her body is full of food and she is satisfied. She appears to be a very happy and well balanced child. I think y'all are genuinely doing well in your parenting. I do believe that you all are soul mates, and I pray for your family. Shalom.

[@krisd3516]

Awe, so glad you all did this video. Arie was my favorite contestant on Emily’s season and I only started watching the bachelor again because he was the bachelor. (No crush, I’m happily married ☺️✌🏼). Anyways, I now totally feel like Lauren is a girl’s girl and know why Arie was my favorite on the show. ☺️ 💛

[@kellymcsherry]

It’s crazy how far you guys have come since the bachelor. Everything happens for a reason 💕

[@dancersingerlover]

When Lauren said, "Oh, my boyfriend wants to propose but he wants to be financial stable". Man, that hit me hard since that is my situation. I loved that they then talked about how the women can help.

[@bargainswithbritt8397]

I wanted so bad to not like y'all after the way the bachelor ended but I am genuinely loving seeing y'all so happy together and following along with your lives. You both seem super happy and like you are soulmates! Love it! 💕

[@brookessurfer1380]

And alessi needs to make a vlog channel cuz she is so cute!

[@aliciaphillips519]

Agreed she is cute but she should be at an age where she can decide on her own she wants that 😊

[@TradingWithNatcha]

You guys are so sweet. The show made Arie looked indecisive and unstable but since I follow your KZbin channel, Arie is super sweet, content and stable. I love how it ended now that you two are together and become a lovely family with beautiful sweet daughter. Love you guys ❤️

[@ceceilamurcia9578]

I had to pause the video to say what everyone else in the comments are saying: Arie and Lauren are sooo cute! They're ultimate goals and I get sad just at the prospect that I don't have my own Arie in my life. Hopefully he's livin life and we find our way to each other sometime soon. Just the way he comforts her with body language and his tone of voice! Ugh you guys are 100% relationship goals

[@tonibrooks9719]

My assumption is that Arie and Lauren are my favorite couple from bachelor nation. Their love is real and authentic. I enjoy every video. I can’t believe some of the assumptions people have about them. People can be so rude. Arie and Lauren, don’t allow negativity affect you. You are the cutest couple.

[@sarahfarrell8214]

I don't always watch every season of the Bachelor, but I watched your season and I always loved Lauren for you Arie, there was always a quiet kindness about her. I'm so happy the two of you are together. You truly did get your happily ever after. Always hold on to that love and cherish it forever!

[@allisonsherry1104]

Lauren I hope you see this! You and Arie’s videos seem so authentic and genuine, and although you felt nervous to do this video, your personality shines through so brightly! Don’t feel like you can’t be raw and real about your story, or like you need to defend yourself. I am a newer watcher, but I’ve seen so many comments from people in the past few months who say that they’d never have known how great the two of you are for one another if it weren’t for KZbin. Sending my love!!! ❤️

[@margotdsouza1189]

You guys are great-real, down to earth, relatable and I really enjoy watching both of you!

[@debrabarycki8819]

You two are definitely soulmates❤️ So happy you guys ended up together! Your channel always lifts me up Love you guys 🥰🥰

[@kaitlangreen5329]

Your guys videos always put a smile on my face. Thank you for that. Hope your doing well.

[@krystlejade9126]

You guys seem like genuinely kind people, and your happiness is contagious. Always love watching your vlogs.

[@suheleneguerrero8282]

You guys are truly the best. You need a reality show. Couples like you are rare to come by! ❤️

[@jyn88]

Reality tv show will ruin their relationship. This channel is close to a reality show, but they have control over it at least.

[@meganpanek7180]

Y’all are absolutely amazing for facing the uncomfortableness of these assumptions and addressing them! At the end of the day, no ones opinion of your relationship matters, but being so public with it I know it’s bound to be hard. Love y’all!

[@cal5358]

They have a partnership in their relationship, not one dominating the other. Such a breath of fresh air to see how corporating they both are with eachother!

[@kcoy7988]

Just when I think I could not love you guys more...donning a "Spiritual Gangster" shirt. So cool. Arie~have to say, you were often awkward on the show and I never considered the aspect you talked about. You are a good man, great husband and father. And, you got the best girl. Thanks for sharing all the goodness with us. So needed during this time of unrest. Such precious bright spots!

[@sandrarogers7941]

I watched your entire episode of the bachelor and I am so pleased that you two are together ❤ I love your videos and think you two are perfect together. My son lives in New River, so I hope someday when I am in the valley I will run into you two. I really admire both of you. Just keep true to yourselves and your little one. I personally love watching you two being parents as well as a couple!!!

[@natalieperre]

absolutely love your guys' channel! such a sweet, genuine, kind hearted family! Xo 💗

[@heathermorizzo6100]

You do not need to defend yourself girl. Of course you are sweet! I see that and feel it and you are so beautiful inside and out. Actually just happy you let us in by sharing with us!

[@courtneyfiler5026]

You two are the cutest. And Arie has the most joyful laugh.

[@jerusalemsousa4263]

What an interview, I love you two so much. The affection you two have for each other warms my ♥️

[@debleigh1249]

I love you two together, l see friendship, respect & love. I think with the two seasons Arie was on Bachelor/eye we got to know him more. I have been happy to see more sides of Lauren since the show. She was pretty quiet and shy on tv and do I have enjoyed seeing her as a wife and mother.

[@brookewood2010]

I actually admire how you always have a plate for Alessi that is exactly what you guys are eating!

[@morganlarge6632]

love you all and love seeing you two finally yourselves infront of camera’s instead of someone else’s perception! you are so cute together 💜💜

[@Sayj14]

Loving your content lately! Such a fun life. I adore living bicuriously through your family. So much inspiration on what I desire my home and family life to look like in my future. I see how God is pouring his blessings out on you 3. Wonderful you’re letting us be apart of that. KZbin is a great platform for the intimacy your content naturally brings. Love to watch you 2 grow, build, and upgrade. Peace be with you.

[@marissamurdock4031]

You two are so good together. Lauren you're one of the prettiest people i've ever seen

[@mollyem2468]

Arie, I’ve been following you for years! I’m so happy for you...Lauren and Alessi was always meant to happen for you! So glad, they were both the wait!! :)

[@ze89674]

I really like how you parent and feed Alessi. It's great that you two share whatever food you're having with her, that way she'll develop a taste for all sorts of food and not be super picky about vegetables and nutritious things.

[@chloenicole4745]

My favorite couple ever! And I love Lauren from the first episode I just feel like we could be friends if we knew each other in real life! Arie is a sweetie and what every man needs to take some SERIOUS NOTES FROM!!📝 and Lauren deserves the best and I believe she found the best!!!! They seem like just two really cool down to earth people that would be easy to hang around! Lol I just watched Aries season of the bachelor so I found yall on here because I’m invested 😂❤️

[@sherribuss6374]

You two together are adorable! I can see you are both in that marriage for the long haul. The icing on the cake is your beautiful sweet Alessi. Be happy, you deserve it!

[@reelbiz890]

You two are a breath of fresh air. Thanks for sharing your experiences with us. My only suggestion would be to reconsider a nanny, even if it’s just for a few hours a week. It would be good for you two as well as Alesi.

[@prettykitty6162]

You guys deserve each other a lot and everything you have so far and this includes your precious Alessi. I sure love 💕 that little girl!

[@_rachde]

Love you guys more and more. So down to earth and sweet and kind. Also, what Lauren said about her parents with money always being a stressor - I felt that. That’s really hard to feel and experience.

[@princesslollypop7764]

You guys are so cute. You shouldn’t have to defend yourself. Is it me or is Arie looking younger?

[@lucbordage7291]

He still looks 50.

[@lorrieriddle4079]

You two are a match made in heaven!!! Your love and admiration for each other is so apparent! Keep doing you and don't worry about what others think.

[@maritzatorres7148]

Throughout the whole show i thought you guys were gonna end up together i was not shocked with the ending. You guys were made for each other💕

[@janpresley3804]

I have to say allow her to enjoy the time with her Grandmother that is so important, no Nanny! Good for you for teaching her to enjoy healthy foods. You guys are a wonderful couple!! Keep up the good work!!! 🌻🌻

[@camillecabrera5875]

I love how real you are and a super cool parents to alessi. Even Lauren’s voice is so angelic, I can’t even imagine when she shouts? Or do you even shout? Hahaha. Because when you have a voice like lauren, You will never get mad. It’s so calm, full of kind words. Also, I miss alessi. How’s her swimming lesson/s going? Stay safe and Love you three! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@brindusanegritoiu]

You guys are such a sweet couple and so vulnerable. I love watching and following you. Arie, you say "I feel like" a lot but you're not expressing how you feel after it, you're just stating something you think :)

[@bellacella2444]

I’ve been watching The Bachelor since it first aired, because I’m a hopeless romantic. I knew Lauren and Arie were perfect for each other. There was something so genuine and sincere about their connection. I loved that Arie was brave enough to follow his heart! Watching your videos just makes my day 💕

[@ambersparks1320]

Can’t wait for this clothing line, i’ll be ready with my laptop & debit card 🥰 It’s not an assumption to say there’s a lot of love between the two of you, it’s obvious!

[@lesettluna9807]

Lol love the, “. 6 feet away with a mask on”. On point!

[@sarahgumball8597]

“If you see us come see hey, Six feet away with a mask on, thank you.” Hahaha 😂💖

[@Terri_Hopkins]

Arie has always been my fave on the bachelor. My husband loved him too (yes he watched with me) we were so happy when they announced he would be the bachelor and I love that you both ended up together. (My mother in law is also Dutch) also fun fact we almost named our son Arie! (Actually Ari). Love you guys and love your channel! Right Lauren! you were meant to find each other. No such thing as coincidences! Only synchronicities ;)

[@christiec1449]

Your relationship is truly inspirational and I love how open you both are! Beautiful couple, beautiful family, beautiful life! Wishing you so much happiness!

[@paulajames6149]

Lauren, you laugh a lot. Not sure if it is nervousness or just your personality? For two people who do not like the spot light but are making videos...thanks for allowing us to journey with you. You both are very special!!!

[@1Road2Success]

I remember at the end of Arie’s season, people were saying, “He picked Lauren because he wanted to take the easy way”. What?!!! Lol If this is what easy looks like... sign me up!! You guys are such a great match for each other! Happy for you bro 🙏🏾

[@cathylloyd9225]

You two are the ONLY 'celebs' that I follow...i really enjoy the insight to you both...little Alessi is DARLING!!

[@irmarfrank1005]

I love you Guys and i appreciate you addressing some of this... However, please do not be too hang up on what people think of you, if you do you will go crazy. You can NEVER please everyone. You guys have something really special and i wish you the very best.

[@brittanyannhaantjes540]

I absolutely love opening up KZbin and seeing an upload by the two of you!! 💛 With love from Amsterdam xx

[@cruella6822]

Please never have insecurities about your relationship because the way the show ended because clearly it was meant to be and look at all the subscribers/followers y'all have .. not every bachelor nation star keeps a following or progresses and the fact that y'all don't have big agurments or fights means you both love and respect each other so much .. And I love yall!!!

[@taelynnulakovic9690]

You guys literally are so perfect and we all know it. I love your little family and watching your life updates ❤️

[@courtneyvenezia3147]

Seeing all of your videos and an inside peak at your lives, you two seriously are perfect for eachother and have easily become one of my favorite couples from the show! So glad you allow us all to follow along and wish you nothing but the best!

[@thatascrivani]

You two are definitely soulmates❤️❤️❤️!!! I love watching your videos

[@mellowrose427]

Ok I officially stan this couple when she said she likes the facial hair. I love facial hair. Love me a lumberjack 🤣🤣🤣