SECRETS OF THE BACHELOR - YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED *We will get in trouble for this*

We can finally share some Bachelor secrets that you all have been asking us! I know many of you are missing The Bachelor but hopefully this video gets you though another Bachelor-less week. Quarantine is tough amirite? So we are hangin' in our sweats giving you all the tea. Share and like and let us know what video you guys want to see next! -Lauren and Arie

[@Silexize]

I must say, Lauren has tons more personality here then she ever had on the show. Lauren, do you think they edited you to make you look dull, or were you just really withdrawn and introverted while filming?

[@Nallisn]

Mary Tinney 😂 back handed compliment...in all honesty, I just thought she was reserved and was protecting her heart. Now she has her man and can be more free

[@benk.3704]

Mary Tinney I think she feels more comfortable now than she did on the show.

[@Potter3570]

She had personality on the show she was just shy. Every person doesn't have to be bubbly all the time. Her dinner date with Arie when she told him she's in love with him was the most poignant moment of that season, that whole encounter had so much depth. So much, in fact, that Arie started getting a panic attack. She was my favorite from that season and they make an awesome couple!

[@kcc-karenschroniccorner9432]

It was a few years ago, to be fair.

[@nene3857]

Rude. Smh...Don't expect a reply from her.

[@LilPigLover403]

I would love to see a video of Lauren talking about everything that was going through her head with the finale when she wasn't picked all the way to her and Arie getting back together. Was she trying to move on? Did she know he would come back to her? I would love to hear her story from her perspective.

[@LifeinYellowknife]

this is great!

[@fseedat4128]

She actually did speak about it in an interview. Something along the lines of she felt like it would be a dream if he would still reach out to her as she felt he made a mistake. She felt like he was definitely her person

[@Call.Me.Brianna]

Question I’ve never heard answered: Does the lead genuinely get to pick who they take on a 1-on-1? Is it producer-fed? A group discussion of sorts?

[@allymilton6058]

bri nichole colton says that the dates are picked by producers based on a “ranked list” of contestants by the bachelor so production tries to even the playing field by giving lower ranked girls the dates

[@NappyLove41]

What’s the deal with the “falling in love” vs “in love” announcement. Do the producers encourage you to say that you are falling at some point?

[@briannarivera4206]

Please do a part 2! Love this kind of video. My question is: Arie, throughout the majority of your season it felt like we didn’t see a ton of Lauren. She even had the last one on one. Was it edited that way or did you and Lauren truly discover how strong your connection was later on. Love you guys!

[@jeannehipke2385]

Question: When giving out roses at a rose ceremony are you told how long to pause before saying a name? Do the producers tell you to pick up the next rose then count one-Mississippi, two-mississippi, three-mississippi....

[@nunu772]

good question lol

[@karencollins5322]

Madi Noel ...

[@frecklesandwine]

No haha, it takes them a while to set up these angles and shots anyway, so you're kind of giving three or four names at a time with a break in between. (Which, if you think about it, in early episodes when there's still more than a dozen women, IS a lot of time. Ends up being 3 hours at the very least, and thats not even including ITMs and exits.) You're told to take a breath before saying each name, but that's about it. If there were to be longer pauses than there already are, with how long the ceremony is, while all the contestants just stand around, it would be interminable. And I think all the girls would just leave from frustration, lol. They're supposed to take a breath before each name, but that's about it. Not a 3/4 Mississippi system, lol. So all those looooong shots of girls looking around, that you think are of the lead making the girls wait, are actually just the close up angles of them that are set up for reactions. So it makes it look like the lead is pausing longer than he is, especially with the dramatic music. But really, on its own, without any long pausing, the ceremony is edited to look like it's only a couple of minutes, when its actually hours. So I'd say editing department does a damn good job of making it look intense but short, when it's actually really tedious and boring. So as I said, if on top of how long it already is, the producers made the lead pause for a long time before giving a rose --- when he's already taking breaks every couple of names to set up for shots (and to get the next names if he's forgotten the order) -- I think the girls would kill someone. Bc the rose ceremony is already so taxing as it is, and many leads/contestants have said it's the most annoying part of the show bc of how grueling it is, so to add on even more time would drive everyone nuts, lol.

[@livinnparadise]

Good question! The rose ceremonies are very confusing to me. So choppy and seems highly edited especially when it comes down to last two contestants...hero v villain

[@xgerrimae]

Who else knew that “my person” came from Grey’s Anatomy and not The Bachelor?! #greysanatomyfan #goodjoblauren

[@heartfelthomes3460]

Yes! Meredith & Christina!!!

[@chicagogirl4everanda]

@@kianaagreen Uhh it did come from Grey's. they didn't start saying "my person" on the bachelor in 2002 LOL.

[@kathrynesparaco5184]

I did!!

[@Allisonlikescats]

Absolutely 💕

[@katyyyylf]

I've never watched an ounce of Grey's Anatomy and I knew that lol

[@narvasa4915]

Does Chris Harrison just nap around while everything is happening, and then when something dramatic comes he’s called? Lol. I always think he’s a superhero because I’m like wow, “he came out of nowhere.” 😂

[@jadamcelroy300]

Kristina Narvasa exactly the question I have too

[@MaelaAmor]

😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ingvildxo8230]

Hahaha yes, just like doctors at nightshift🤣

[@MsLLL111]

I’ve ALWAYS wanted to know this!! What the heck does Chris do all day??

[@rachealfaucher4520]

chris lives very close to the mansion and he travels with them from country to country

[@Nm10244]

I can't see what Arie is wearing. All I see is his head and a Lauren mug.

[@LaurenAndArie]

Nur Mahmoud Ali 🤣

[@HappyOne2017]

Weird his head is floating...

[@kimberlyschwartz5299]

What do u mean?Why cant u see his body?

[@amandasorvillo8277]

@@kimberlyschwartz5299 he's wearing camouflage pajamas.

[@najmafarah6696]

Are you serious ?you need to check ur eyes maybe 🤣

[@sarahgumball8597]

1st you guys are the cutest couple from the show 2nd i want to put socks on Lauren's feet 3rd I love the camo pjs 3rd love your couples mugs! 4th stay happy and safe 5th I love your content, happy quarantine!

[@maddyhinkle327]

When a contestant is eliminated and sent home, where do they go right after they leave? Are they pushed on a plane right then and there?

[@holtfamilyrokz7777]

Maddy Hinkle if it’s anything like America’s next top model they have to stay in a hotel until it’s over to preserve the secrecy. I don’t know if it is or not but that’s how they do it on ANTM

[@lackawannacountysvolunteer137]

Is Chris Harrison actually a close friend of the bachelor during the season? Or is he just an on camera representation of the producers?

[@sofiarose2809]

Lauren and arie are my favorite couple from the bachelor franchise. They actually got married which is rare now days in the franchise. And they make an effort to connect to their audience without being clout chasers. I’ve been loving their youtube vids 💕 Ps- I’m a small youtuber

[@sarzbeth]

So...being a contestant on bachelor should really prepare you for this quarentine!

[@LaurenAndArie]

Sarz Beth haha totally!

[@skyyyhildenbrand5219]

yesss

[@alliejmeniak5358]

Do they interrupt dates to do ITMs? During dates, where does everyone get ready before the night portion? Does the bachelor have any say in what the dates are? When traveling, do all the girls go on one flight or do they separate you to prevent spoilers? Do producers tell you what you should wear for a date (if it’ll be sporty, etc.)? Who gets groceries in the house? What do you eat when you’re traveling internationally and staying in hotels?

[@koalapillars]

I second all of these questions 🙋‍♀️

[@shaunessystuart3320]

Yes, they interrupt dates. No, the bachelor doesn’t plan any of the dates. The girls go on one flight and they try to get away with it by saying they’re a dance team or other things. Read some Reality Steve, he talks about this stuff.

[@natalietremblay5102]

Great questions! I would also ask, why do they never seem to be eating their suppers during the dates? Seems like the food stays untouched. Aren't you guys hungry? :)

[@olivias1382]

Apparently the when they eat, it messes up the mic quality, so they film for a bit with all the fancy food, scarf it down, and then film itm’s. (via hannah brown)

[@melissafankhauser9184]

@@natalietremblay5102 I read it's for consistency. If they need to reshoot a shot for lighting or something like that, and they have taken a bite, that food can't go back on the plate. I think they eat ahead of time or after, but never during the date.

[@ediebates4662]

I understand that “villains” tend to stay on the show longer because the bachelor is unaware of the drama they’re starting, but do the producers make the bachelor pick the “villain” last in the rose ceremonies for more drama? It always seems to go down like that haha

[@pamelajaeger7199]

When you go on a date, after the day portion do you go back to the hotel to get ready for supper? Or do you have to bring a change of clothes? Idk I guess I’m just confused how that works.

[@LaurenAndArie]

Pamela Jaeger so they will pause the date and each of you go to a separate hotel with your producers. You do an interview then eat/change. That’s why you don’t see many of the contestants or Bachelor eat during the night time portion of the date.

[@mrscourtjam]

Lauren and Arie omg I always wondered why they never actually ate 😂

[@lovely_muse89]

Lauren and Arie I thought they weren’t allowed to eat because it’s so loud on the mics?

[@carolyntyler2854]

lovely89 they eat prior to the filmed portion of the dinner

[@jamieringgold2094]

Lauren and Arie do you eat together then or separate?

[@paigec5017]

I'd love for you guys to do this for your season specifically(: like talk about the behind the scenes of certain dates and drama points. I know Bekah plans on recapping your season on her podcast some time

[@chanelhamilton4840]

They prob wouldn’t do that because of Becca k. and it would just be awkward reliving everything else too

[@ms.prairies.fitness]

“I’m sure they’re all listening in and they’re like “CALL THE CAR” “ Dead laughing!!! You guys are hilarious thanks for making this video. I’m a huge fan of the bachelor/bachelorette. I used to watch with my mom as a kid and I flipped the channel one day and started watching your season Arie. I haven’t missed since then. Hi Lauren! Sending love from Canada

[@peggymoose]

I’ve been a fan of Arie’s since Emily’s season. She made the wrong choice in picking Jed. But it all works out in the end because you both seen genuinely happy. Congratulations.

[@mckennaw.8657]

If you cant eat at the dinner portion, when do they feed you? When traveling from location to location on each date are you in the same car? Do the women typically try to figure out is the man is right for them too or are they blinded by infatuation? Is it just edited out? Do you get to notify your family you are traveling abroad for safety purposes? Do the producers plan certain dates depending on the girls? (ex. if someone is scared of flying do they purposely put them on a flying date?) Are the contestants and lead on the same plane together when flying? Do they book your flight tickets in advance before knowing who is going to be travelling?

[@pandabear4640]

McKenna W. I heard they have open tickets that they add names to later.

[@AngelAshleyMarie7179]

My questions would be, 1) how soon do you start to develop real feelings on the show? & 2) Do producers make you speak to certain family members during hometowns or have the family ask certain questions?

[@celsgalacticgarden7162]

Omg what...so Lauren is FUNNY? This is the first time I’m seeing her outside of Arie’s season and GIRL you have PERSONALITY wtf she cool as hell I feel like this is not how I remember her!

[@kelleygall3644]

I remember her being really quiet/shy. She’s so likable!!

[@BirdTricks]

You guys are soooo lovable. This is my fav! 💖

[@seagulsmokah5219]

i can ? key

[@kennedyj1007]

wondering if you guys can do a part 2. but my question is, does the bachelor/bachelorette get to pick who they want for that specific date. also when there’s a two on one, do u get to pick the two you wanna choose between?

[@rachelcarey6995]

I wish Lauren had been able to do the entrance she had planned lol

[@vnessaw]

Rachel Carey I think a fake big butt would have been a really dicey move. People could say she’s making fun of curvy people or something. Not a bridge ABC would want to cross

[@tamarahplummer8413]

I just love the way Lauren looks at Arie and the way Arie touches her, so so sweet . I adore you guys xxxx

[@lifeisbeautiful6066]

Not bachelor related but, I AM IN LOVE with that blue couch!!!!!

[@darpanmangwanitekwani9810]

Anyone know where the couch is from? LOL

[@elizabethnewell1923]

Thinking the same thing

[@djr6876]

No wonder bachelors and bachelorettes get so bummed when they dont get a date card. They just want to get out.

[@frecklesandwine]

Yep.

[@shaylaburman9119]

I always think it's so funny when Arie uses that mug 😂

[@sarahmchan7805]

I love seeing y’all like this! You both seem so happy, casual and really different from how I perceived you on the show :)

[@queenhannahbrown]

Here's a question: If there were a "Celebrity Bachelor/ette" who would be your ideal leads and contestants?

[@brittanydinis2069]

Shailene Woodley

[@taylorwilder2234]

Mug game on point! Thank you for making us smile during this strange time in our world! Side note: I am a first time mama to be - Lauren I would love a video on your advice for pregnancy and babies! Arie - my husband would love your input from a dad's perspective too.

[@nikki83581]

Do the girls get to pick what they do on their hometown dates? And do they stay in a hotel in their hometown after the date?

[@carolcampolo8733]

So much drama

[@rebeccan9862]

I literally went back to their season just to watch Lauren! Love her even more after this video ❤️

[@EmilyLxxxx]

I actually love hearing these answers!!! It’s something we all wonder honestly! Thanks for doing this guys!

[@Just-wiggling-thru-life]

Totally get the parted hair. That moment when your hair starts getting flat on THE side so you switch and man is it awkward as heck feeling if you can even make it through Lol! I appreciate the extra sharing Lol!

[@racharmian3449]

Thanks Arie and Lauren! Really enjoyed watching this - a little escape from what’s going on in the world right now ♥️ Would love to see more Q&A’s!

[@fallonheckel]

Lauren, you are lovely. This is there first video I’ve seen from you both, and the first I’ve really seen of you since Arie’s season. This video was so enjoyable to watch. Thank you.

[@fienvervoort]

Love your hair this way Lauren!! And thank you both for keeping the show going....much appreciated x

[@nicohode]

Thanks so much for explaining the 2 suitcase Dilemma. Your secret is safe with me. Wink 😉

[@nofear6435]

I love your love! Arie, I'm so glad you followed your heart. You guys were made for each other!

[@helenefreland5694]

Loved this video! Hope you do a part two. I have a question: It seems like you don’t talk about anything real during the dates - like where you live, what you do for work, believes etc. Is this the case or are these conversations edited out? And also: do the producers encourage you to tell a “sad story”? It seems so forced when I am watching.

[@Naforbe]

I'd love to see real conversations. I feel like I don't know anything about the contestants except for whatever drama is going on with the group.

[@SamanthaLHO]

I'm pretty sure they have those conversations but they get edited out. When Ben Flajnik was the Bachelor he was talking to his date Nikki about her being a hygienist working 9-6pm. So I think they'll edit out whatever they think is boring.

[@kendraatkins]

Loved watching this!

[@rrraaaachel19]

I know you can't go out alone, but do you ever go out as a group or have anyone come in, to do hair or anything? If not, I wonder why they wouldn't let people just come inside to do everyone's hair and stuff. Peters girls were all out at lunch when Peter showed up, so that's why I'm curious

[@Swiftyin3rd]

I don't think the contestants have stylists or makeup/hair people. I remember reading secrets somewhere else that they have to get ready alone except for the proposal (and maybe night one?)

[@anabelacasimiro1034]

I LOVED THIS!!!! THE ANSWERS TO ALL OF BACHELOR NATION'S QUESTIONS. YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME

[@priscillacarneiro5724]

As a Brazilian living here in USA I’m so happy to getting to know you guys have a video volt from your trip 🇧🇷 🥰👏🏻

[@YouTips4U]

This was really fun! Thanks for sharing! You answered a lot of questions I was always curious about. You’re a lovely couple. So glad the show worked for you guys.😊

[@christencanova9885]

It’s funny that Lauren Bushnell’s ring was her favorite since it’s known for being the most expensive from the show 🤣

[@clairemorris5586]

how do they do interviews during the rose ceremony? do they just stop it to get how they are feeling.

[@clementine1827]

claire morris yes!! I wondered about this

[@t.ashleyyy4853]

Also wondering! Because they don’t talk in past tense

[@jennachartrand373]

Omg I’ve wondered this for so long!

[@isabelsavv]

reality Steve said they do ITMs before, during and after dates so I imagine it’s the same for rose ceremonies

[@jellybelly273]

probably while he’s going to the back to get more names

[@joshbinder3273]

I loved this!!! Would love a part two! -Does the Batchelor have to pay anything for the ring? (Because I’ve heard if you don’t last 2 years you have to give it back which makes no sense if you do have to pay) -when someone gets eliminated do they actually leave right away do they just book them a flight home or have them stay in a hotel for awhile (how long) -does the bachelor get to pick who he goes on dates with and in what order? Sometimes you notice a connection with him and someone else and wonder why it takes them so long to get another date is there a set rule on how long you have to wait for a second date? -does the bachelor actually have any say in any of the dates or does production plan the whole thing for them -usually they show a day time date then a late dinner what goes on between that time? Do they continue the date off camera or go separate ways and meet back up? -does the bachelor ever get un filmed time with the women other then the fantasy suite, example when Hanna and peter windmill thing happen how the heck did they get alone time LOL -Are there no 24/7 camera in the mansion? I feel like so much drama gets missed and filled in by the girls do they just have set times for filming? -Do contestants and bachelor themselves get paid for the time they are on the show to make up for leaving their jobs to go there? -does the batchelor get any of the girls phone numbers while filming and pursue texting relationships? -how much communication do you get with the outside world while filming Ps love you guys thanks for sharing the secrets, love following your story as much as I’m sure it hurt Lauren when she wasn’t originally chosen we could all see Aries love for her on each date and it seemed he was influenced to choose Becca but you could tell it didn’t come from the heart until he pursued Lauren. You guys have a beautiful family and I’m glad love won in this instance. Best wishes to your beautiful family ♥️

[@chasejones2972]

Loved this so much! It was genuinely so interesting. Thanks for making this guys!!!! So fun ☺️☺️☺️✨❤️

[@alexandrabellville4179]

I loved this! You guys are so cute and it was nice to get some insight into the show. I'm curious how difficult it was for you two to make it out of the show through all the media and make it out a strong healthy family since it doesn't seem to work out for so many others.if it is too personal of a question I understand 😘

[@kavitagopal7099]

WOOOOOOOO I LOVE YOU BOTH ! Thanks for giving me this content- I REALLY needed it! Okay question : 1) Lauren- why didn't you tell arie about the "villan" in the house- I always wondered that because he always trusted your opinion, i mean for obvious reasons I get why you wouldnt, but what is your reason? 2) Is Alessi taking up your time in quarantine, how are you spending these days? 3) what are your real thoughts about the aftermath of peter's season? He 'broke up' with Madi mere days after ATFR 4) For Lauren's engagement ring, did you have to purchase it yourself or was it courtesy of bachelor franchise? - I know thats a personal one, but I thought I'd give it a shot. Also could you explain how the process was proposing to her from picking out a ring that you knew she'd like, ring size and nerves and all? I actually watched your season- the ending again, i know I'm weird, but I wanted to see how Lauren and you got together to see how you are sooo in love now, because I feel like that storyline was just edited out of your season.

[@pfan06]

Dude! Lauren, this is the BEST TIME for TRYING NEW THINGS! My skin is super sensitive, so I'm using this time to find a new skin routine! So freaking relateable!

[@mutinywxgirl]

This was fantastic! Hope you get more questions. Watching you two together is a highlight of the day.

[@juliannasmith1542]

Thanks guys! This was so much fun to watch! Question: Would the producers ever tell the lead if one of the contestants was really mean/awful to the group? Or would they hold back that information for more drama?

[@lianataylor1067]

What were your impressions of each other when you first met before the Bachelor?

[@elisashields2349]

Loved it !!! Yes, more would be fun. You answered my questions, and it's just fun to see the comfort you have with each other, proving agan how important it is to follow our heart

[@shellienewago2945]

Yes please do a part 2! :) I appreciate the content while cooped up at home.

[@iluvaustin25]

Yay!! Love your all’s videos!! Also, I NEED a couch like that in my life 😄😄

[@jamiepettis3848]

Was just thinking that! Where did they buy that coach??? It’s gorgeous

[@avarose9738]

Do contestants actually have their entire belongings packed up before every single date?

[@Allisonlikescats]

Just for the One on Ones and the Two on Ones. Because you are at risk of not receiving a rose and have to leave after the date.

[@JaclynHarper-HD]

This video was AMAZING!!!! Thanks for being so real and honest with us. LOVED IT!

[@anipel6608]

Thanks so much for this! You guys are keeping us entertained and sane during these crazy times :) Stay safe!

[@TessaYouTube]

Kelsey on Peter's season actually had her hometown in a rented house. “That was not her mom & step dads house last night. It was a house production rented for the night. Happens often on hometowns,” tweeted Reality Steve of Kelsey’s hometown dinner. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@dinafried4512]

omg i remember texting my friend that it looked creepily like a showroom. like way to perfect.

[@LaurenAndArie]

Liz Oakley reality Steve is a pretty unreliable source. The guy a cancer when it comes to media covering the bachelor.

[@kristinem9390]

Nick Viall has also publicly stated that his was not his home, it was not even in the same city.

[@jonathanthomas9677]

And Maddison’s hometown wasn’t at her house either, it was Bruce Pearl’s

[@jesss6703]

How come? Are they embarrassed of their actual homes?

[@erinl5606]

Lauren I love that you put it out there that "my person" is Grey's Anatomy! I'm actually watching it now as I'm watching you guys. :)

[@Doreana48501]

The first person I heard say 'my person' was bachelor Ben Higgin's girl Lauren. I laughed then and laugh now too lol..my person.

[@unkn0wnr0ckstar]

You two are so perfect together. I am so happy that Arie found love. Everything fell in to place as it should be!

[@mehnazadritasarwar2836]

Lauren is stunnnnning! I literally wait for these videos to see her loll! And her personality and the way she talks 👌

[@mikaylasmith4631]

I actually just started watching starting with Colton’s season so my question is based from the seasons I’ve seen. At a certain point did you know who you wanted to pick? Like Colton ended it and chased Cassie, but had she stayed he may not have jumped the fence like he did and ended earlier than planned. So if you decided, I’m done! I pick this person, but there’s still 4,5 or maybe 6 people left. Can you do that? Or do you have to finish out to the last two?

[@morganlarge6632]

MiKayla Smith i want to know this too!!!

[@LindsayPuggleGirl]

MiKayla Smith I would guess they probably make them finish out to the last 2 because otherwise they’re cutting short on the amount of episodes

[@melaniesnyder6068]

On peters season Hannah said that it was always gonna be Jedd at the end, so I do believe their heart chooses for them early on in the show...I respected Colton for chasing Cassie because he knew she was the only one for him!

[@missdannygokeyfan]

new drinking game: take a shot everytime Arie taps his ring on his mug

[@JeffWrede]

How about when she plays with her hair? Drove me crazy!

[@trenarichardson690]

Or every time Lauren flips her hair

[@malakahbishara4859]

Ok honestly though, you guys are so cute together. You seem to be one of the few genuine couples to come out of the show lol 💗

[@aloinastephens1116]

I Just love how down to earth and normal u guys are, love watching your posts!

[@ivygas]

I’ve heard that the food that is served on the date isn’t eaten, if this is true what happens to the food or do you actually eat the food on the dates? Also who makes the food?

[@VictoriaMarieWatts]

Jesada Sanders I’ve read they eat before they go on dates so they only drink & talk during

[@neerasinha-frazer2094]

Do the girls share accessories on the show. There was a pair of earrings or some type of jewelry that was seen on 3 different girls. What about the lead? Do they have a stylist? I saw a link on Facebook where you can buy the clothes you’ve seen the girls wear for rose ceremonies Also, how is it that a surprise guest just shows up? Is that produced. Becca’s ex showed up on your season. Cassies dad on the next season. None of these places are a short plane ride away. They’re usually expensive places to get too. Then the guest is there for a couple hours. It’s hard to believe this is not produced. Also, how would any of these people know where filming is taking place?

[@bethers1377]

This was so great to watch :) answer more questions I loved this!!

[@valerie8607]

Thank you for this dose of normalcy in these hard times! Love you guys :)

[@rrraaaachel19]

When your casted, are you told who the bachelor is, or is it a surprise? Seems like it would suck to show up and not like who they picked.

[@ideapolice3074]

Rach K they must know because many of them pull up with gimmicks related to the bachelors career/interests like the paper airplane on peters season

[@J-B-P]

Good question- I want to know this too, because I’ve seen some contestants show up and be disappointed, at least in past seasons- I remember one guy was a jerk to Ashley because he was hoping that Emily would be the bachelorette that season

[@clg6373]

They usually don't know at first, but when they go to the hotel, they're told. They have an option to back out then. I can't remember who, but I know that a couple of people backed out when they found out who one of the bachelors was.

[@babs40]

They apply. Then they are accepted. Before the thing starts they tell you the bachelor so if you dont want them then you can take out your application

[@Saharmzd]

I think they have some ideas.

[@be-nice7511]

Love watching you two! Keep it going.... you guys are so cute together!!!💕

[@danitapenn-green2347]

Guys, I am so glad that you all have a youtube channel. I was wondering if I could be able to see your journey. Your little daughter is so adorable.

[@shmuelrosenberg6139]

Perfect example of producers being your friend was the clip they showed (after rose ceremony in episode 7) Lauren expressing to a producer how hard it became and trying to get emotional support. "I know I should be exited that we're going to Tuscany and we're like traveling the world and it's so cool and fun and like new places and blahblahblah, etc etc". The producers must've been rooting for you, and giving you encouragement and support throughout the whole show. I would love to see you guys make more videos like this.

[@julieannr3623]

Okay first, I need that blue couch!!! Okay back to watching.... Lol.

[@LaurenAndArie]

Julieann R haha it’s Lauren’s pride and joy haha -Arie

[@julieannr3623]

@@LaurenAndArie Looks so comfortable. Such a great nap couch!

[@sicafineart]

Where's it from?! 🥰

[@SuperSnette]

SAME! It looks sooooo comfy😍

[@tamathasnead4341]

Yes I was thinking the same thing love that couch 💙

[@rrraaaachel19]

When you are broken up with, internationally, what is the next step? Like how long do you have to wait before you can actually go home, because I'm sure they don't just have tickets ready right away.

[@nicolea1149]

Ria yeah agreed, I remember peter saying that about Hannah’s season but he stayed in Paris

[@ZaZuProductions]

Great questions and very open and honest answers! You've answered questions that I've had for years. Please do another segment of questions! I don't think you'll get in trouble...it was very benign. Please stay safe!!! ps. Ari--love your outfit!

[@stephanialuna7464]

this video was sooo good! it’s so sweet to see this couple so happy and normal after the fact! happy for y’all stay healthy :)

[@wrossano]

Who writes the date cards? Do they tell you to say "Can I walk you out?" when you run out of things to say?

[@LifeinYellowknife]

yeah I want to know about the can I walk you out too!

[@Anthemlightsgirl]

loved this video I learned a lot about the show that I never knew before.

[@jodymccluskey4420]

First of all thank you guys for taking the time to share y’all’s experience on the show. Y’all seem very down to earth and nice to get along with. After all y’all are normal people that got a rare opportunity at love ❤️ congratulations. Couple questions I have are 1. What is Chris Harrison like and how often is he on set. 2. In a full day of tapping how long our cameras rolling. 3. What was a normal day/week of taping like. Thx 🙏

[@melodyholt1922]

This was really cool! You guys answered so many of the questions I've always wondered about. Just discovered your channel. Glad I did.

[@usaroblox9336]

How does the finale Rose ceremony happen, does like, when you make a decision, do you tell Chris Harrison, your result, do you get the whole say in that, to create the order of the final two arrival?

[@NicoleAriellee]

When/how did you guys meet before the show? I can’t really remember, but was this big on your season? They made Kelly and Peter meeting each other huge.

[@mzj384]

I love that.. Lol I really love this! I've been watching since the very first Bachelor and this was so cool to hear. Thanks. Love you both so much and so happy every time I see you two together it gives me hope for true love aww💕 P.S. Yes! Do More! Part II

[@hillhope1013]

I am so happy to see you guys happy, proves everything happens for a reason.:)

[@mckenziewright6775]

When the audience sees two group dates and one or two one-on-one dates in a given episode, do these take place over on week? Or are they more spaced out? Or are they back to back to back?

[@amerling1229]

Thank you!! Where does Chris Harrison stay through everything? It seems like he's always right there! So is he working 24/7 for the months of filming taking place?

[@elizabeththorson5184]

Fun to see the you two! You are obviously so happy and compatible and adore each other!

[@majalyaparson-castillo6351]

yall are so cute!! seeing you interact just makes me happy

[@suannereynolds5602]

What about the part where Peter was like “who knows maybe he’ll perform at our wedding” when referring to Victoria F’s ex... seemed pretty scripted 😂😂

[@elenacontis7106]

Claudia Reynolds that’s probably a producer asking “Wouldn’t it be cool if it was Victoria at the end of this and then you could have Chase preform at your wedding.” And then they just air what Peter answered and not what the produce said.

[@joanlynch5271]

I think that he really liked Victoria F but they just didn't click on the show.

[@albataliephillips4271]

No Peter is just a goof

[@frecklesandwine]

@@elenacontis7106 That's exactly what happened, lol.

[@Sweetlove322]

Do you wanna know anything about the shows I would definitely go follow reality Steve on Twitter and read his columns plus listen to his podcast he did a whole breakdown about Peter season the day after the finale

[@nofear6435]

You can answer all, some or none of these questions: Lauren, what was it like for you to see Arie dating/kissing/developing feelings for the other women? Did either of you have a feeling you'd be together after just meeting on the first night? Can you tell us the deets on how Arie came to contact Lauren after the show ended and what happened afterwards? Lauren, did you have any trust issues with Arie? Love you guys!

[@robinlewis3958]

I just finished watching you guys season on the bachelor. I am thrilled to know you guys are married and so very happy. You are my favorite couple. Please keep the videos coming. I love your chemistry 💖 you both seem so at ease and comfortable with each other. You were meant to be together.

[@mrp2030]

So glad you two are working out after the season!!!❤️❤️❤️