Self Love Shifts that Changed My Life 💕

[@lavendaire]

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[@ICEcoldJT]

“When you start taking care of yourself you start feeling better, you start looking better, and you start to attract better. It starts within you.”🙏🏽

[@TrinityGrowthYouTube]

So true!

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@bellemartin3105]

I thought that I have enough self love that's why I'm confused as to why things did not turn out well as I expected it to be; as this quote says you start to attract better. Does this mean that my self love is still not enough?

[@josiebarkey3628]

Well said!! 💯

[@Georgi343]

God bless praise

“Self love is not selfish; you cannot love another until you know how to love yourself” ❤️ THANK YOU Lavendaire!!!

[@naturereels3177]

Ya you r right. These r actually my words in my mind, i was searching for last long time. Thank u for this post....

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@selenophile6688]

I agree!❤️

[@HIXHAM]

"Be yourself. An original is so much better than a copy." Sending much love to y'all ❤️ 🙏

Yessss much love

[@jamiebelmont5597]

Absolutely I agree 👍

[@TrinityGrowthYouTube]

Sending love back to you my friend ♥️

[@himanshijain619]

Can someone please suggest me a book on how to know ourselves and love and own ourselves?

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@Liv.Erpool]

1, Listening to your heart and inner voice 2, Disovering and nurturing gifts and strengths, skills, talents 3, Being gentle with yourself 4, Learning to find self worth within 5, Embracing emotions & allowing yourself to feel 6, Finding gratitude in all situations "Trade your expectations for appreciation. That makes all the difference."

[@HuongNguyen-sg3jc]

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[@theolivianicolestories]

To the person reading this: You are who you are. You are a gorgeous and beautiful creation. You are a masterpiece. You are who you are. You are strong and courageous. You can absolutely do it. You are powerful. Remind yourself that you are who you are. Move forward with your determination, and conviction. You can absolutely do it. Have a great day ahead, Remember you are who you are. ❤️❤️❤️

[@shana3443]

❤️🤗

[@theolivianicolestories]

@@shana3443 ❤️❤️❤️

[@souma3861]

Thank uu❤

[@theolivianicolestories]

@@souma3861 You are very welcome. I am happy to be here with you

[@pumaaniki]

❤️💗❤️

[@jonathangubisch-createyour2666]

The person you are going to be with for the rest of your life is YOU. Selflove is everything.❤️

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@priscillajimenez27]

Amen 🙏💗

[@yamini436]

Yasss

[@lindymahlangu4941]

If you live your life trying to please other people, you end up living THEIR life instead of your own and it's exhausting

[@TrinityGrowthYouTube]

Yes I agree

[@ameliabalfour3127]

Yess! And im guilty on doing tht

[@lindymahlangu4941]

@@ameliabalfour3127 Same here

[@EbzJay1]

Something massive that helped me shifted my mindset is to stop comparing myself to others! Reiterating to myself that its my life, so its my timing and my journey, helped so much to love my experiences and journey.

[@lavendaire]

Amazing!! 👏🏻👏🏻

[@TrinityGrowthYouTube]

What a great insight!

[@itsfaithtime]

Yes!! Amen to that 🙌🙌🙌💕

[@alannahlee1705]

@@TrinityGrowthKZbin That reallllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllly good

[@DeYaa]

These last 2 days I've been struggling with overthinking and negative thoughts, I became so hopless.. didn't know what to do with my life or where to go.. I was really lost... no matter how many acheivments I'll have, they don't fulfill me.. my high expectations made me hopless, I felt like no matter what I do, how much I try.. I won't feel fulfilled anyways.. I was just so tired that I didn't want to live any longer... many insecurities.. many fears.. many negative thoughts.. I couldn't take them anymore.. I hated myself, looked down on myself and felt like I'm useless being here in this world... I've been staying in my room locking the door for 2 days... the only thing I did was crying, sleeping..... idk why it was so hard but I just couldn't control my thoughts anymore, I truly just wanted to die... and till now.. I'm still on my bed lying down here and my door is locked... I just woke up opened youtube and saw this video on the top so I opened and watched till the end... This video made me remember all those times when I felt worthy, when I felt comfortable being on my own, when I told myself how beautiful I was and how I loved myself.... I can start again.. It's not the end.. I've been watching both of your channels for years and it truly helped me in many ways but I can say this video could stop me from commiting sucide.. reminded me of how to love myself again and keep going... Thank you

[@VeraCasaca]

Dear Deya, I'm sorry you feel that way. I beg you to please, take a deep breath, take a shower, go for a walk, call a friend or a family member. Please do look for help. Depression can be very hard to deal with. Don't do it alone, although everything seems so dark and lonely. Please gather your strength and look for help. Much light.

[@Bunsenburner697]

Im struggling with the same thing right now, and i want you that it will be okay. We will get through this together

[@senakoc425]

Deya, God bless you. I am sending the whole of my positive energy you. I hope you're doing well right now. 😍🌼

[@Misbaaa123]

Omg😭

[@leahsfieldnotes]

Self love kweeeeen ❤️❤️❤️

[@salikook1393]

Queen

[@maddiehildebrand686]

@@salikook1393 shut up

[@juanpedro4083]

@@salikook1393 I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. Do you know something about marijuana? What to do? Can you help me?

[@h4z3l_nut]

Pedro cardozo whattttt💀

[@juanpedro4083]

@@h4z3l_nut you understood. Can you help me?

[@JasmineLipska]

Love you Aileen! You are amazing and truly Queen of glow ups 🥰 love all these tips you shared, it’s going to be so valuable for all of us! ❤️

[@itsfaithtime]

The collab I didn't know I needed in my life 😍😍😍💖💖✨✨ love you both!

[@Dearprishila2024]

Hi Jasmine! I m following your videos for two years. I want to say I m grateful to you.

[@ikrammaizi8678]

you both are my inspiration ilsm!

[@mungao9306]

@@itsfaithtime ppppp

[@helpmeget20kwithnovideos29]

Fact: u can't breath out of ur nose when ur smiling. U actually can just made u try it so u would smile.😊

[@helpmeget20kwithnovideos29]

@ thx everybody needs a smile on their face 😊

[@hakunamatata9425]

@ Oh! Are you ok? Don't worry everything will be fine.☺️💜

[@hakunamatata9425]

@ Oh! I don't know what you saw , but believe me you can get out of that trauma dear. Just be strong and take care of yourself.(✿^‿^)

[@hannahkurton1016]

AWW THANK YOU

[@juanpedro4083]

I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. Do you know something about marijuana? What to do? Can you help me?

[@SamElle]

I struggle with listening to my inner voice and gut. I have only recently learned to go with my gut and trust myself. I literally have been living life on autopilot, listening to what my parents, peers, and adults tell me but I have realized i have to make my own decisions. This is super hard since my entire life, I literally never made a decision on my own so it's hard to trust myself. However, I'm really hopeful to finally get to a point where I can listen to my gut.

[@ravenel2]

One thing I do is to write down everything I desire, everything I prefer from a car to a job. It helps me hone who I am, what I want out of life, etc. So when my mom or someone else says something that doesn’t match up with that, I just chuckle to myself. And I’m not a teenager. I’m old.

[@SamElle]

@@ravenel2 Oooo yes, I have been journaling more and doing more self reflection to figure out what exactly I want. This has been super helpful!!!

[@somecoolhandle]

Recently very depressed and stressed with all career choices and social anxiety is eating me out. And seeing this when i need the most is just... Thank you so much

[@daniellenormand7200]

you got this one step at a time

[@rhiannalopez3805]

Me right now. I hope things got better for you love.

[@wrestlingwithdisney]

“The princess of self-love” now that’s an epic title!!

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@dorisw2507]

I am going through this right now and I’m 39. I wish I made this shift before but was in survival mode that entire time. For anyone else reading this that can relate, it’s never too late!

[@jonathangubisch-createyour2666]

A lesson I learned is that you have to put yourself first, because how are you going serve / love on somebody else if you yourself are in a dark place. If you are happy and healthy, you will be a better person for everybody else. You can't give what you don't have. ❤️😊

[@F0reverblessed]

Confidence, which boils down to self esteem is built on self trust. Trusting yourself and listening to your inner voice is key! We all deserve the same love we, willingly, give others! ❤️ From a self love content creator to another- great video Aileen! 💕

[@itsfaithtime]

Yes!! Self love is such an inner battle 💖🙏 it takes continual practice to love and trust and value ourselves ✨

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@malenafabillar1966]

Whatever you pause on is something you need to hear right now kzbin.info/www/bejne/pKnXZH6Xpqupfck ❤❤❤

[@MamaMentality]

Sending so much love to anyone watching this and struggling with self-love. It’s a long journey full of lots of moments of growth ❤️ you are doing amazing!

[@seemranhoro]

❤

[@itsfaithtime]

🙏🙏💖 thank you! You are so sweet :)

[@daniellenormand7200]

love this

[@homebody9765]

" Being gentle with myself " ❤❤❤Thank you lavendaire 😇

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@nicoleonfeels]

Love yourself so much that it overflows and touches all other aspects of your life.

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@honk8683]

"To fall in love with yourself is the first key to happiness"-Robert Morley. Thank you Lavendaire I haven't felt the best this past week but your videos always spark motivation. 💕

[@daniellenormand7200]

beautiful quote! all about going within & understanding yourself

[@Thefitty]

Oh my gosh, Jasmine's *voice is just so [self] LOVING; it's like a jasmine flower. It's so sweet. I'm so following her :)*

[@daniellenormand7200]

she is so sweet so much value in the video

[@Thefitty]

@@daniellenormand7200 are you subscribed to her? :-)

[@32방탄소년단]

I really want to listen to my heart and go where it wants me to go but there are people in my life who control it, make me question it which ultimately makes me afraid of what if I’d fail at it and at last those people would criticise me or give unnecessary taunts for following my heart which would otherwise break me as a person too.

[@Miishachan]

Your advices are so difficult to do with depression... looking in is already painful, but seeing nothing, , even if people say it's not true, it seems so hard to practice self love. I hope everyone with and without depression will find their path in life. Accepting who we are with our sickness is a challenge that really seem impossible to do.

[@marisadaniela6]

Currently I'm coming out of denial that my relationship is indeed toxic. I love this man so much but i have lost myself and am desperate to get back to the woman I was. I need this, because I have just felt so hard on myself. Thank you, beautiful Aileen ❤

[@david.walters]

Emotional trauma can win over you...ONLY IF YOU LET IT! The heart is where your truest and eternal self resides. It is the absolute and complete foundation of your core being. Let it guide you. The heart has always been beside you. 🙏🏽🌿💚❤️

[@aivieferrera]

I'm 24 and you are so right! I only started listening to my own inner voice and stopped letting society, family and other people dictate my life. It's tough because there will be a lot of criticisms. I'm only trying to understand who I am, what my gifts are and my quirks that I love about me. It's time ,I guess ,to start focusing on myself and reach for my dreams! I might lose a lot of people along the way but that's what it takes for self growth, healing and choosing your own path. the quotes "change your expectations to appreciation" and "What I see in others, I also see my self" are my favourite takes in the video! Thank you! I wish I had you as my older sister, life would've been much better.

[@JennLinsi]

Hi there. Thank you so much for sharing about your individual journey! I have a new YT channel with mindset coaching content for 20-somethings who want to learn how to LOVE THEIR LIVES no matter when kind of challenges they might be experiencing. I hope it might be helpful for you!

[@itsfaithtime]

One mindset that has really helped me in my self love journey is to remember that self love is an every growing journey and not something to "complete" or "perfect"! 💖🙏✨

[@daniellenormand7200]

its all in the daily work

[@itsfaithtime]

@@daniellenormand7200 100%!

[@darkreckoning9596]

I can't stop watching videos like this, they never get boring

[@jasminesierra8169]

Can you please make a video about healing & Spiritual books or advice, I really need it and I know your really patient & nice, I don't want to seem irrational. I just really want to talk to you, so I can have more clarity, and I feel like you can really help me and make me realized different things

I release my sadness by watching sad movies and cry a lot. It makes me feel better when I wake up ❤

[@itsfaithtime]

Ahh sammee 💖🙏 allowing ourselves to feel our feelings is all part of loving and respecting ourselves!

[@christinanatad643]

Sameee.. Can you recommend some movies

[@thenmozhiayyanar4698]

The act being grateful to our body parts is really amazing..

[@daniellenormand7200]

i agree so easy to forget to thank our bodies for the hard work they do each day

[@josephinebelliveau8488]

I told myself that I was good at self love, and that it wasn't that hard to grasp. But now I see I was telling myself that when really I was constantly pushing myself over the edge and self destructing... It's time for me to actually love myself.

[@ExploreYourPossibilities]

"I see that I'm worthy regardless of my achievements" I love that!💜

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@jagodabuach5344]

The fact that I follow you only from today makes me surprised, you are such a lovely person. I believe that you will change my life completely, even though I started watching you today my life already changed. Thank you for making me myself, and be productive and organized even for this one day.

[@sarav.9388]

It is beautiful to see gentle, motivated young women. I think we should understand we are all on the same boat and we should be kind to each other: male and female. We all make the difference with the smallest action to ourselves and to other people. Major strenghts are kindness, love, understanding and compassion we give to ourselves and others. 💪

[@CherylMuir]

To the beautiful soul reading this: You are valued. You are loved. You are so, so worthy 💗

[@nicholelontiong5102]

I’m going through a break up, i keep begging a guy to stay at me even he told me he doesn’t want me anymore. I figured out what i need is self love, so I woulndt look for the love to another person anymore. Thank you for this!

[@JennLinsi]

Hi Nichole. Thank you for sharing and for your openness. I have two videos on my YT channel called, “How to love yourself (when you don’t know how)” and “Can’t let go of the past?” I hope they might be helpful for you.☺️

[@blueclouds8198]

2. Discovering and Naurtuong quirks and strengths, what i am good at 1. LISTENING TO HERT AND INNER VOICE 3. Being gentle on myself 4.learning to find self love worth for within 5.embrqcing my emotions and allowing myself to feel 6. Finding gratitude in all situations 7. Trade expecting for appreciation

[@LoBrookeMusic]

To any one reading this: I want you to know you are loved and you deserve to enjoy the good life has to offer ✨❤️

[@sanchita-tu4fj]

Hey! It's 16.11 and I have finally turned 18 today!! I was so unsure of how to start this very new adult life journey. I thought about it and I said, "yep! Everything starts with loving yourself." So, this is the video I needed. I'm so excited and I want to know myself more and more. I want to love myself and others, help them and contribute something good and pure to this society. Thank you so much. It's gonna be a great day!!

[@casandratanare5470]

"Trade your expectations to appreciations." I really needed this today.

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@casandratanare5470]

@@keekeelove1032 thank you for replying back with this link. Something that I need to constantly remind myself

[@keekeelove1032]

@@casandratanare5470 You're welcome girl❤

[@daniellenormand7200]

right loved that point ! i like to see every "problem" as an opportunity of growth!

[@ar.janani]

*8 SELF LOVE SHIFTS* 💖 , as mentioned in this video, 1. Listen to your heart and inner voice 2. Discover and nurture your gifts and strengths 3. Be gentle with yourself 4. Learn to find self-worth within rather than from external validation 5. Embrace your emotions and allow yourself to feel 6. Find gratitude in all situations 7. Know that "What we see in others is a reflection of ourselves" 8. Practice gratitude towards all parts of your body to develop self acceptance

[@SteAndRach]

Thanks for the summary, all her points were so spot on!! 💛🙏One thing that really made us happier was to change our negative self talk to a more positive internal language! We just posted a video about it on our KZbin channel, would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a kind and likeminded person ☺️💛

[@theartisticpurr2430]

She is so beautiful, inside and out!

[@daniellenormand7200]

as are you ;)

[@seemranhoro]

You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.

[@daniellenormand7200]

100% well put

[@amiteefrostvlog4354]

Creating boundaries,respecting yourself and love is my key

[@astridxio3282]

U have always been a light in my life and made me realise that I am a light too! Hearty thanks Lavi!❤️

[@TheSimpleBrunette]

Self love is the best gift we can ever give ourselves and others. Most people give love to others but rarely to themselves. But the truth is before we can give love to others we must first have love for ourselves because you can’t give something you don’t have within yourselves.

[@Patricia-fi9zo]

Self love is so important to also be able to radiate love to the world. This video is really such a treasure trove of great tips. Enjoyed it so much ❤️

[@daniellenormand7200]

all about creating the energy within & being an example of it

[@Dayanar_skincaretips]

i have seen my lifestyle shift through gratitude

[@yuvraj206]

You are a Angle too and you are a LIFE teacher and light to wisdom to many of the people around the world like me You really make a difference in my life you are one of the best people I have ever come across You teach me to look at the world in a different light I really love you and I love it when you post videos like this which truly help us

[@universe9049]

" Trade your expectations for appreciation " yes!!❤❤

[@eriageranta6201]

I wish all people know Ms. Aileen. She's a great and amazing mentor.❤️🕊️

[@miniravi1670]

When I started to love myself . My life had changed dramatically but slowly .I am loving myself and my goals . thank you Aileen ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍😘😘😘😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️❤️💖 ❤️❤️❤️

[@daniellenormand7200]

consistency is key!

[@LaurenVacula]

sending you and whoever reads this lots of love today! 💕

[@jaspreetkaur8912]

Your channel has taught me actual reasons to love myself 😘❤️ Love you Aileen💜❤️

[@meherjanurmee9566]

Ms. Aileen is the kind of woman the world needs more and more. The tips she shares with us have actual truth in them. Let's be inspired by her and create our dream life. Keep this in your mind, You Must Take Action!

[@vashtijosias4821]

My two favourite KZbinrs collabing! A dream come true. You guys will never know the immense impact that you have on people's lives ;when you grow, we grow and I am so so very thankful for the work that you do💕💕

[@jackiek4159]

Absolutely can relate to all of these shifts! Self love is definitely not selfish! Spot on girl! You cannot pour from an empty cup to help others if you have not poured into yourself! 🙌🏻💞

[@antoniarashida]

Nothing better than a mind that is filled with self love ❤️ it’s when you truly find happiness & joy

[@yuvraj206]

AILEEN ! please make a video on how can we enjoy our life to our fullest ! cause lot of people like us feel shy to express our weird smile and loud laugh cause we want to appear as a good person to others but at the end it's us who feel bad if we don't do it , we do those things and we feel shy and when we don't do it we regret ! I hope you are able to understand what I want to say ! What does enjoying our life to it's fullest means actually ! we have one life how can we enjoy each moments 100% and not regret anything *

[@jyt99jt]

Hits different when someone who is very much into self-love and self-worth has your name.

[@cherry-xz6ei]

I love how you are glowing. I can feel the self love you have through the computer. Sending you love and peace.

[@daniellenormand7200]

you glow different when you know who you are !

[@gaganam8201]

I just finished all the episodes of your podcast. I've been listening to it for months now and the one episode that's always stuck with me is; rewrite your stories through the eyes of love. Maybe every one who watches her videos should also listen to that particular episode. It was LIFE CHANGING!!

[@lavendaire]

❤️❤️ thank you, that one is a great one

[@kusumshibaranjanibohidar5996]

I'm just really really happy that you're posting regularly now🥺♥️

[@keekeelove1032]

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[@anamikamaruthara]

I am still obsessed with your voice. What's your new plans for 2021? Can you do Christmas related videos. Ilysm😍😍😘

[@nordicli546]

Absolutely right ! Its also a mindset since I was small always feel am not good enough, and was always too hard on myself, always want to get approval from people around me. Now all has been changed, because my mindset has been changed.

[@naturereels3177]

I used to listen ur every video very Carefully, and these really changed my life. And most important change i found in self is self- dependent through self- love. Self- love is better than fall in love for others. Thanks for these videos. Keep going on in your life. And have bright future ahead. People who will see ur videos will have bright future ahead.

[@BeOutstanding]

Great Content Thank You Aileen 1. Listen to your heart. Don't worry what other thinks. 2. Find who you are. Be courageous. Do more things. 3. Forgive self. Bounce back, work hard. 4. Find your self worth from within 5. How u manage ur emo. Emo comes and go. Accept. Act. Dance. Don't identity urself with ur emo. 6. Gratitude

[@vaishnaviv7676]

Aileen you're someone who has introduced me to this world of self love and self care. I have so much to thank you for .stumbling upon your channel and podcast was a blessing in disguise ❤ love you ××

[@lavendaire]

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[@tehilash7292]

Thank you for this uplifting video💖 I'd love to watch a video 3 years after. That is now: how it affected you? Were you able to maintain this state of mind?

[@jemimaorakwue3450]

Really needed this as UK is currently in lockdown and losing hope at school. Thank you very much!!!

[@alannahlee1705]

Jemina I am in Australia Melbourne and we have had 0 case for 23 days!!!!! and I am back to school and I am having a party next week. But Melbourne use to have 600 case in Oct but we push though it we were in stage 4 now were in STAGE 2!!! I hope the UK case go down!

[@alannahlee1705]

@Juliet Maxwell nice to know

[@jemimaorakwue3450]

@@alannahlee1705 ahahah that's great! We were doing great.... But then it increased again :/ so now we are tying to decrease it.

[@alannahlee1705]

​@@jemimaorakwue3450 I hope someone finds vaccine

[@Basiieee_Artist]

This is the best video, especially when I couldn't shift my head from negative voices. Took much time with your voice to calm myself down.

[@432hzcentral9]

Your advice about not being hard on ourselves made me cry... your words are so gentle, and they made me happy... Praying for you

[@Hopee36]

1listening to inner voice 2 discovering 3be gentle with yourself because when you loved somone you will be gentle with him .

[@TrinityGrowthYouTube]

Self love is probably the most important thing in life, but so underestimated. Learning and focusing on self love was one of the biggest game changer in my life.

[@Dearprishila2024]

I really happy to see collaboration of Jasmine , Girl in the World and you for a long time. Jasmine is give me life saving idea. I m really grateful to her.

[@zoybaparihan3627]

How much u give yourself is how much u learn to give others❤️

[@rosediana4524]

What I am grateful for this morning : this video, because it makes me realize that again, I am not my emotion, thoughts are clouds. Just watching, recognize them and let them go. Thank you for your amazing work all the time. Hope you have a wonderful day today💕💕💕

[@32방탄소년단]

I honestly love your videos so much! Can you make self love, self esteem, confidence etc affirmations series to meditate to? 🥺💕 You are honestly so motivating and inspiring ❤️

[@love_anneliese]

Jasmine & Lavendaire collaboration is the most beautiful thing in the world ❤️❤️❤️ I love both of them 🥰 also, I really appreciate and cherish a more frequent and regular upload from Aileen~ thank you

[@siya0233]

Your videos have such a calming effect which is what most of us need right now..😌😌❤❤ Love u Aileen!!...

[@moralesclara]

The sweetest and genuine smiles exudes when one eventually accepted the worth within him/herself. That smile radiated brightly, Kween!

[@itsfaithtime]

Yess!! Love both you and jasmine 🙏💕💕✨ Gratitude has completely changed my life! 🥰 "Tell myself, I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU I LOVE YOU"!! ✨

[@gamu_official]

I've just started watching and relate so much to your first point. It really is important to listen to your own voice, but it's not always easy 😫 please make a video on how you made that leap, if you can ❤

[@tbh9456]

To the one who’s reading this: *You* *are* *awesome!!* yeah!!!! you🙂 You can change... but it’s not compulsory !! *Be you* ! *be free!* listen to your heart ..yaay!! that’s it !!🙂

[@daniellenormand7200]

youre awesome toooo

[@Jangmi.]

Wow! What a gem!! Going to put it into practice. Great self love actions. Excited to find myself and be more loving to myself. I’m ready to rid myself of the need to get approval from others and think of me. So grateful I found your channel. 🥰🥰

[@tinyrose456]

every little thing about her feels so safe to me. it’s always so soothing when i watch your videos🥺

[@lavendaire]

❤️❤️

[@itsfaithtime]

I agree 😭😭 just hearing her voice brings peace! 💕

[@my12amthoughts64]

Self love is the most important thing to give yourself this 2021. No one will love you more than you love yourself. When you understand this, you will definitely have inner peace ❤❤❤❤❤

[@gracielaglows]

You are my new favorite KZbinr, these are all REAL ways to get to self love and I’m so thankful!!!!!! Especially the idea feelings fluctuate, we are not our feelings (: thank u!

[@rappa____]

I’m very self-critical and harsh on myself, that freezes me lot of times and I can’t function on my everyday life (collage, relationships etc) so I’m searching through your videos to find the courage and change for better❤️

[@SteAndRach]

Love the honesty in this comment and we can totally relate! One thing that really made me (Rach) happier was changing my internal dialogue with myself! We just posted a video about it on our KZbin channel, would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a kind and likeminded person ☺️💛Really hope it helps!!!

[@rappa____]

@@SteAndRach wow, ok I checked it out , yes it’s food for thought and very well made! thank you!

[@AnniesBookNook]

The biggest one for me is to trust yourself and not look for validation from outside sources. I was sexually assaulted this summer and I really struggled when my “friends” didn’t react the way I thought they should. It made me doubt myself and actually doubt the entire situation. But I know what happened. I have a right to feel however I feel about it and looking for other people to tell me my feelings are correct doesn’t solve anything. It’s made me stronger to shift my mindset like this.

[@anissawijayanti9834]

your sweet words never fails to warming my heart, thanks aileen💕

[@aslgurcan741]

Hi dear Aileen. It has been about 2-3 years since I last listened to you. Those days, you were amazing too that is undeniable but the moment I opened this video I thought, wow she really changed. Your hair looks so good here sure but I mean I can hear the confidence in your voice and seeing how much you improved over these years, you gave me inspiration and many others as well. I am so proud of you as you are proud of yourself💞

[@lavendaire]

Thank you love!

[@ankitasardar5900]

Gratitude is really the key. Ever since I have started practicing gratitude I feel a lot more content and happy. And you are looking really pretty 🖤

[@SteAndRach]

Totally agree, gratitude is one of the most transformational habits that we have adopted recently! Another thing that really made us happier was to change our negative self talk to a more positive internal language! We just posted a video about it on our KZbin channel, would love for you to check it out since you seem like such a likeminded person ☺️💛

[@inspiredbyou]

You really healped me to have a life!! Because before you, i was just living without a porpuse!! I don't have word to tell how much i changed and learn by you!!!

[@leslys1727]

Check this video out. Where will you be in 2 years? kzbin.info/www/bejne/jpqbkKuOnJV0o5I

[@pm-ne2vt]

this video feels like a virtual hug

[@kawai1919]

Alivia and Aileen are the two KZbinrs who motivate me to start working for a desired life