how to have more compassion for yourself 💓

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@lavendaire Жыл бұрын

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@DemetriPanici 3 жыл бұрын

*“To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.”- Oscar Wilde*

@ELIZABETH-hf9he 3 жыл бұрын

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@nandaalfasya5740 3 жыл бұрын

Gotchuu

@nandaalfasya5740 3 жыл бұрын

Would u like to talk abt self love in your youtube channel?

@silverroxen2954 3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing this quote it resonates!

@s.jyotimajhi 3 жыл бұрын

I have always been shy .But this year I have successfully turned into a person whom I wanted to be ,not fully but ya have started taking mini steps .I'm grateful for everything I have .Thank u for inspiring us Aileen . It means a lot what u do .Love from INDIA 🇮🇳 NAMASTE

@elizabethsebastian6045 3 жыл бұрын

Hi wr are u from India am from Kerala

@s.jyotimajhi 3 жыл бұрын

@@elizabethsebastian6045 yes I'm from Odisha

@ishikaxglam 3 жыл бұрын

I'm so proud of you. I know it isn't easy

@s.jyotimajhi 3 жыл бұрын

@@ishikaxglam Thank u 🤍

@ashleysandino9949 2 жыл бұрын

I'm in the same boat. I believe this year is a year of transformation. I also thank Aileen's videos and i learn so much from her. Good luck on your journey towards what you're trying to achieve! ❤️

@brishtisarkar7613 3 жыл бұрын

Compassion and unconditional love for me is like being a healthy and loving parent to yourself. Being kind and understanding to ourselves and when making mistakes, sitting and making myself understand it is OK to make mistakes. And when I am being lazy for no reason, being a bit more stern, but not abusing myself or being too harsh on myself.

@kimsang8055 3 жыл бұрын

This was helpful, thank you very much

@TilikaVispute 2 жыл бұрын

THISSSSS!!!

@purvithakkar7900 3 жыл бұрын

My eyes filled with tears of happiness when I thought that you are making your life valuable by putting out your wonderful thoughts into the world and we are able to heal so much. Lysm Alieen💞 keep up!

@samruddhiingale3666 3 жыл бұрын

I have recently established a new definition of unconditional self-love. It means that I love myself for TRYING. Trying to get through tough times, trying to be me every day, trying my best to understand myself. Just trying and making consistent efforts is what matters in the end. 💯

@haleyzo13 3 жыл бұрын

I think it’s beautiful that you’ve approached the backlash from an empathetic viewpoint and that you’ve used it as an opportunity to help others grow. I personally struggle to have patience with people who react harshly, and it’s something I want to work on, so thank you for the example and mindset 🙏

@vennelaalluri8094 3 жыл бұрын

6:56 Unconditional love for me is to be able to believe in myself and trust in my self soo deeply that even if the entire world is against you, you still have faith. Nd being soo accepting of myself to be able to be my biggest cheerleader to always believe that " I can do it, nd i should keep going ". It is going to be a lonngg journey to get there. But we can start by practicing to love ourselves. Sometimes you will have times where you blame yourselves, it is Ok, we will get there eventually. We just have to keep going. And to the person reading this - You are Good enough !! Keep going.

@cheiastarr4955 3 жыл бұрын

Having unconditional love means I love myself no matter what. I am confident not only in my strength but also in my weakness because I accept them and know that I would improve them through time. I no longer seek love from others, I have all the love I need for myself from myself. I no longer care about others perceptions of me, I do only things that make me happy.

@mystique1701 Ай бұрын

The mirror aspect of humanity is true. It's our way of protecting ourselves. That's why it's important to approach things from a positive/caring mindset and try our best to articulate our concerns and beliefs in a way that will build bridges, not burn them.

@adalgisatejada8488 3 жыл бұрын

You not only look but also sound like and angel. Is like you are speaking to me. I can cry watching your videos because you remind me that I'm important and valuable and that I am so hard on myself instead of loving myself as I am. thank you for your videos please know they make a difference.

@jerrymeo1137 3 жыл бұрын

It’s amazing that I just decided the theme of 2022 for me is “self compassion” and here you are with this brave video! I just want to let you know that, Aileen, you are such a role model for speaking up your feelings and your belief in a difficult context. Seeing this video makes me more adamant with my goal of becoming less judgmental and more compassionate to myself. You are truly sending out the positive energy that this world needs more, just like you said!

@anokyeandrews9434 2 жыл бұрын

Awesome

@EvolvingChaos 3 жыл бұрын

My form of being compassionate to myself is understanding that sometimes my mental health issues and my ADHD will win and it is fine that I will need to take days off. I am healing myself and that means opening up some wounds so I can drain out the pus ( toxic beliefs and behaviors) so it can heal properly. Doing my best at the moment day to day is enough.

@user-hq6gt6wr9k 3 жыл бұрын

I love that in this video you give a wonderful example of what it means to be self-compassionate in walking us through your thought process about that last video. It's funny because in self-compassion I find that it's so much easier for me to not be so emotionally invested in any negative energy aimed at me from the outside; we're all just doing what we think is best, but often we can be so misguided even in doing so. Either way, keep doing what you do- I hope more of us embrace this mindset that you're so beautifully exemplifying!

@samruddhighodake223 3 жыл бұрын

Listening to you is complete therapy. You are full of wisdom, love, kindness and so much more!!!! You are my inspiration and I want to be a person like you - kind, humble, honest, gentle, smart, lovable! Sending you so much love.🥰

@nak2288 3 жыл бұрын

I've kept watching your videos for many years. I love your attitude, what you tell us in the videos, your vibes, all of the things. I'm one of your big fans. I feel you so much because I'm also a believer and lover not a warier at all. Thank you for sharing your authentic thoughts. Let's make the world better together. I'm looking forward to your next video, too. With love from Japan.

@MsHermyGranger 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this reminder. I'm at the beginning of a new part of my life and it's very stressful, I feel so many fears towards my new job, my new flat. I really don't know what to do, I feel the need to relax. I know I messed up on work but I hope for the best and I should not judge myself so harshly

@rosiereesie 3 жыл бұрын

i'm so sorry people attacked you and judged you. i personally found that video to just be overall informative and helped me understand more about a topic i didn't know much about, like you're other financial videos. i appreciate your videos sm, thank you for continuing to try and help your viewers with such a positive light, i've learned so much from you and i'm sure i'll continue learning 🤍

@absolutelyanisa Жыл бұрын

13:12 I absolutely agree with you. Like yesterday my mom had a massive fight with my dad and they were yelling and cursing at each other in front of my baby sister (she’s only 3 months old). Which was so unhealthy for her. But later I tried to talk to my dad and tried to tell him the same message that mom was trying to give him but the only difference is that I tried it the calm way and wanted to kinda talk through the issues (for 2 hours) and there was no cursing no yelling just a discussion. and I realised that he wasn’t gonna change and it uncovered some of his inner beliefs but I believe that if mom had this conversation instead of me and they were patient and calm enough to understand each other and solve it, it would fix everything. I saw it. But also the main point here is that I saw that if you treat anything with love and calmness and compassion it would eventually bring out the inner problems for us to work with and solve ❤

@ZuhratulOktiANA 2 ай бұрын

@eusou.lian. 3 жыл бұрын

This video is very timely for me. Thank you so much for reminding us about compassion. "Come from a place of love with the energy of love." 💖

@anokyeandrews9434 2 жыл бұрын

Really

@hautehustle 3 жыл бұрын

It's so important to be nice to yourself and use love as your compass. So many people don't take that breathe to be present and really SEE themselves and others.

@supritimahajan 3 жыл бұрын

Self-compassion for me is that I should accept myself fully, love myself and trust myself.💜 A special tip I got from the video : "Following your curiosity", thanks Aileen. Though I've heard this sentence before in your videos but today it just sparked a light in me. ✨

@lavendaire 3 жыл бұрын

Love that

@riyarkay2613 3 жыл бұрын

Loved this video Aileen! I would love to see a "plan with me for the new year" video from you because 2021 is coming to an end and we all wanted to make 2022 our best year ❤✨

@megolson9888 3 жыл бұрын

honestly, I needed to see this... there are so many people in my life that are so MEAN to themselves. One of those people is me... I know it's a constant work in progress but being compassionate to yourself is so important and I'm getting better and I'm trying to mirror that love to people who need it the most.

@khalilahd. 3 жыл бұрын

I used to be my biggest critic and while that can help you strive to be better it can also harm you mentally. Love your transparency and vulnerability in this video 💜 and on a lighter note your puppy is ADORABLE 🥰

@ELIZABETH-hf9he 3 жыл бұрын

@kimberly8742 3 жыл бұрын

My beautiful Lavendaire, you are so courageous for putting yourself out there and posting that video. I personally enjoyed the video and my partner who is getting me into Crypto approved of your video because he said you explained yourself so well. I agree that I as a woman I have moved away from financial topics but that will be changing. A part of personal empowerment is learning how to become financially free. The world is changing and learning about these resources is the first step. Thank you for always putting out informational and life changing content ♥️

@junyueyang6378 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Aileen .I have been watching your channel for 3 years and I changed a lot.I gradually think ,speak and act things with more love like you do.

@jpinedam Жыл бұрын

In an age of twisted values, people have lost sight of what is true love and kindness. I am glad you were able to get in touch with your inner wisdom and that love that comes within.

@samikingsley2258 3 жыл бұрын

I thought "well that makes sense people mirror each other "as soon as you said "...people are mirrors and it made me smile ✨ also the "everything is okay energy" energy segment was beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing and entering into such a vulnerable space with us.

@kailadavis7665 3 жыл бұрын

Being so young yet wise well beyond your age is truly incredible! You are a fantastic influencer and I do appreciate your videos. You are so helpful. You put things into perspective. And like I said before, I just love you. Thanks for inspiring me. ❤

@melania9946 11 ай бұрын

Hello lovely, I want to come on here to say that every time that I come to your videos, I feel such a sense of peace and calm and I feel like I am centred by just listening to you. Thank you for doing what you do and know that it is always appreciated.

@bigdreamwithliz 3 жыл бұрын

Well said! Self awareness is so important. The more we understand ourselves, the more we will understand others. We are in this together & can agree to disagree based on our own personal life experiences. Spread love…not hate or fear! ☁️🤩☁️❤️☁️

@paperNINJAA 3 жыл бұрын

Aileen, I love your content and I’m sorry you were attacked in your previous video. It’s sad to see how negative and mean people can be but it’s great how you overcame it. ❤️ Do you think you could possibly create a video on outgrowing relationships while being on your self love journey? Specifically becoming a better, happier individual while the ones you love remain negative and aren’t happy for your growth. Thank you. Wishing you the best. 💕

@ilinzrh 3 жыл бұрын

I always feel like I can never understand the mirror think, because i am my worst critic, to a point that I have anxiety & depression but I would never have the same negative energy towards someone else. I feel like I have enough negativity on myself that I literally have none left for other people. I always wish I have the same love I have for other people, for myself. Still learning x

@hayley7300 3 жыл бұрын

You are absolutely right. I have been using positive energy to approach a negative person. And he has become a lot more positive than before. Like a mirror. I used to stress out with his negativity, but things have gotten a lot better and easier now.

@ruchika.1201 3 жыл бұрын

*_"Your self worth is determined by YOU. You don't have to depend on someone telling you who you are."_ -Beyonce... Don't let other people define who you are.*

@ckushner510 2 жыл бұрын

I have low self esteem so I'm glad you make these selfLove videos

@rachelspoon4741 3 жыл бұрын

Aww you are so strong :) Aileen - i do love your videos so much, tbh i didn't see the whole situation on ur prev video because as soon as i saw it on my sub feed i didnt click onto it, its just not what i am into but i love your other content and you so much that i am always going to support you. I would rather skip something that just does not interest me or go with my vibes than to comment negative energy. I am sorry you have had this energy towards you but your compassion is so inspiring and u do have a loving Community. Keep being your authentic self :) xx

@nileshandhale6285 3 жыл бұрын

I have been watching your videos from last year and I've learned a lot of things from that. Thank You so much ! for Your love about the people and your thought are really helping to daily life.

@siirifani4ever 3 жыл бұрын

In my life the most influential moments have been either highly positive or highly negative. I think it is in a way nonsensical to aim for a ”more positive” world, because everything is a balancing act. The world would literally fall apart if there was no balance of these polarizing energies; atoms have protons and electrons that are equally important. Some really negative and painful experiences have actually made me wiser and brought me closer to myself in a way that no positive experience could have. On the other hand some positive experiences have affected me in a way no negative experience could have. They’re not comparable, they have a different tone of influence. It seems to me that as a society we are so afraid of conflict, disappointments, anger, sorrow, aggression etc that we have evolved to rather avoid them, when in fact the avoidance is the real issue. It stems from fear. And it takes up a lot of courage to face that fear, now that’s love. Those negative feelings are a natural occurance, hence why we constantly see them around us or feel them ourselves. I don’t think it was ever about making the world a more positive place, but rather how to accept that it will, by laws of nature, never be that, and that is still very much ok, and we can thrive. We can grow resilient, and still have a lot of love around us. It’s a crazy magnificent place and that’s cool.

@mjtc2856 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Aileen for bringing this topic up. This video just comes at the right time for me. I am the person who is immersed in negative thoughts and beliefs. And I projected to people around me just like you said. I feel sad about what I did. It hurts people. Thanks for this video I know the reason why I did it. It's because of fear, exhausting feelings, criticism, judging in my mind. You are like a flashlight to me. I know where I am now and I want to be/have/do more positive. Thank you again. I really appreciate that I met this clip.

@worrendina 3 жыл бұрын

Binging self improvement videos for my self growth journey is the best thing ever! I love your videos so much, Lavendaire! You are a sweet soul

@canpy143 3 жыл бұрын

Ah, im late this time but anyways here's what I think what self love means to me: For me, loving myself means to find, accept and correct my flaws and drawbacks. Self-love is an unusual journey from perfection to acceptance. Loving oneself doesn't mean to accept the bad things in you but to correct, adopt the qualities that you want in yourself, making you truly gorgeous. Our actions reflect a lot about us. Therefore I strive to be a better human everyday and finding something unique in my deep self. Discovering oneself from inside out is the definition of self compassion for me. For standing out, i need to be me, and not exactly someone i adore. Your videos always make my day!! ❤

@snow9310 3 жыл бұрын

Aileen! I love your videos, you taught me self-love and creating my dream life. I appreciate all of these so so much! I trust you, and I love how you face judges and chaos. Your video is like a conversation with you. I enjoy every time learning from you and communicating with you. You are the best Aileen forever!

@jak_019 3 жыл бұрын

You're an amazing personality, you just lift ma day up , so beautiful. The positive energy you spread is infinite. Whenever I feel low I come to your videos and it just makes me feel good and more confident. Lots of love.❤️

@caykeface 3 жыл бұрын

we love our authentic Aileen. from your podcast you talked with quite a lot of techy people, so you talking about crypto isn't a surprise. I love your astrology video and year cycles video too. I feel like you are my sister giving me all this wisdom and knowledge. And I'm SO grateful that the knowledge is on different topics, cause I respect you and I want to soak up all this info you downloaded on life. thank you for being real girlfriend

@benevolencebybria2434 3 жыл бұрын

I have watched Aileen for years, and I can genuinely say that seeing her grow from sweet and gentle, to this woman who will politely tell you to check yourself on camera is EVERYTHANG!! She just Michell Obama'd her haters and I am HERE FOR IT!! Love ya girl!

@lavendaire 3 жыл бұрын

😂 ty for making me smile today!

@fortune_roses 3 жыл бұрын

This is something I've struggled with periodically... thank you ♡__♡ the puppy is so fuzzy & lovable. I find that animals bring out *compassion*

@matcha6029 3 жыл бұрын

We need more energy like this on the internet. It’s normalized to be aggressive, mean, and being hateful on the Internet but I don’t think it should. I hear many arguments that if people can’t handle hate/mean comments, they shouldn’t be on social media. I disagree, instead of people logging off, people’s attitude towards social media should be changed. It shouldn’t be normalized to bully strangers online because at the end of the day it’s still bullying.

@chiaverse 3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad you found the light in that dark situation ♡ you’ve grown so much!

@annakayrhule 3 жыл бұрын

This month is a year since I discovered your youtube channel. I was in a dark place very uncertain,filled with fear , doubt , and saddness but because of your videos and the workbook i was able to gain more self awareness and peace. Its OKAY TO RELAX and not know what will happen to take it one day at a time. Most importantly loving me and all of me. I see the positive change in myself and I LOVE IT!! THANK YOU SO MUCH

@lavendaire 3 жыл бұрын

So happy for you!! 👏🏻💓💓

@SamElle 3 жыл бұрын

I have definitely acted upon my negative energy in the past and I have to check in with myself very very often to stop it. I am constantly making myself super anxious and friends have told me that I have an anxious energy. I'm definitely working on it now!!!

@violazulian2301 3 жыл бұрын

Completely agree with you Aileen, we can see that in this moment about vaccinations, when the thoughts are yelling even if is for the good reason it comes from a place of fear. That said, you can treat the others with your self-compassion 💞 other-compassion. 🙏🏻

@ashleysandino9949 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you Aileen for being so authentic and not letting negative comments get in the way of that!!! Your self confidence is so inspiring! ❤️💯

@manuelenetee1109 3 жыл бұрын

I love your personality. I love your vibe and energy. I love your mindset and how you deal with unpleasant situations. Thank you for being such an inspiration!! ❤❤❤

@clauquinterof 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your vulnerability, you bring light to this world

@NeseretBemient 3 жыл бұрын

The vibration of compassion and LOVE are one and the same. Compassion towards self and others is the ultimate expression of love. Ask: What would love do? What would love say? How would love act? Compassion is also the antidote to judgment. Mother Theresa said "If you judge people, you have no time to love them." Likewise, if you judge yourself you don't have time to practice love towards yourself. Accepting and loving ourselves is the beginning of learning to accept and love others. One cannot happen without the other. Thank you for a beautiful reminder!

@trololilli 3 жыл бұрын

Aileen, thank you so much for making this video! I too have always had a huge passion for astrology and love to talk about it, but I always feared that others will view me differently, and I didn't want to expend my energy talking to others who view astrology in a negative light. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences with that video! This has definitely pushed me to live more authentically in sharing my passion with others.

@reena0123 3 жыл бұрын

Sending u too much love Aileen 💓💓💓..... Focusing on positivity is what's needed in these times... Love n light ✨✨

@aidanamer555 3 жыл бұрын

Always so much wisdom. I’m so happy to know you❤️ Thank you for being the light.

@Nuggett-irl 3 жыл бұрын

Your videos have been so in tune with the messages I need to hear lately. Thanks so much for sharing 💕💕

@sagieaesir13 3 жыл бұрын

It's interesting because I've always not just thought of love as a way to have compassion, but hope as well! I find that when you combine the two, you realize that hope is not just something that comes from the outside world, but also comes from the inner world. I believe you can have hope and love for yourself and others, and that's what makes compassion so powerful :)

@mr2001 3 жыл бұрын

Your words inspired me so much that I nearly cried.💐"Whatever your passion is, keep doing it. Don't waste time chasing after success or comparing yourself to others. Every flower blooms at a different pace. Excel at doing what your passion is and only focus on perfecting it. Eventually people will see what you are great at doing, and if you are truly great, success will come chasing after you." Suzy Kassem, Rise Up and Salute the Sun: The Writings of Suzy Kassem Ever so grateful for your words. Hope these lines will show my gratitude towards you.💐

@EXENED 3 жыл бұрын

beautifully said! 🤍

@jeanshelbybooks 3 жыл бұрын

This is one thing I’ve been working on. I write in my books about women being stronger and loving themselves, but don’t always direct that towards myself. 💕

@lavendaire 3 жыл бұрын

My ultimate tool for journaling & self love throughout the year is no doubt the Artist of Life Workbook - right now is the perfect time to start! → lavendaire.com/workbook

@vlogbyalice4928 3 жыл бұрын

@Docsofjoe 3 жыл бұрын

I wanna cry for all this messages

@anokyeandrews9434 2 жыл бұрын

Lovely 🥰

@anganan7349 3 жыл бұрын

I feel u actually. I used to be in your shoes. I'm the one who try making a difference and interested in things that most of my peers aren't crazy about. I did think I was weird why I didn't jump on the bandwagon on popular things like others did. However, when I saw this video, I felt like I don't need to follow popular ones and keep doing something I love most. I'm so glad that u have a positive mindset and u can put out your true thoughts onto our community :333 in a nutshell, thank u for sharing your experiences and pointing out how self compassion is really vital

@tatianaant9974 3 жыл бұрын

Aileen thank you for your compassion for yourself firstly. It’s great how far you’ve come in developing your inner wisdom so no one can crush your inner world 🤍

@dianadmello3478 2 жыл бұрын

Thank so much for doing all your videos.

@anokyeandrews9434 2 жыл бұрын

🥰🥰

@LoveisArt_Firefly Жыл бұрын

I really appreciate your video. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on communication and challenging us to strive towards being mindful on our communication skills with each other. You are good enough. Keep Going and Just be you . Thank you again. Namaste

@lavendaire Жыл бұрын

thank you!!

@J_KC305 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you aileen for this beautiful video, this is everything that I was meant to hear today, I really appreciate people like you in this world trying to keep us aware and reminded on staying true to our authentic paths and selves and encouraging us to always give love towards one another no matter the different things we all may believe from one another. Bless your soul, and have a great and wonderful day💝

@claudamnn 2 жыл бұрын

thank you so much for your videos and messages. I've been binging your content for the last couple of days and I find them so helpful.

@anagabrielamoralesona2579 3 жыл бұрын

You always bring me new perspectives to see things. ‘act from love’ Thanks ❤️

@bhsprinkle 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for turning your life into one of meaning and encouragement for yourself and for others. You're really helping me on my slow journey and in making transitions.

@VeraCasaca 3 жыл бұрын

No way. You did a GREAT job for someone with your knowledge! Keep those financial videos coming girl. For more in depth videos people can search other's channels. We're here for you!!!! ♀️♥️👸

@pariswithsaimhai8050 2 жыл бұрын

I just had a tough day but after watching your video it's just a good positive energy . Thank you so much

@theunscriptedsuccessstory8898 3 жыл бұрын

I love your videos. I am not into astrology and I won't ever watch those videos of yours but I watch all the others and they're great. In life, we all need to learn how to agree to disagree gracefully. Much love!

@Jieunnie. 2 жыл бұрын

Girl, you are so strong no matter what life throws at you, you are literally my role model. This video has changed my life, thank you for everything, love you!! ❤️❤️❤️

@nurinizzdhinie2407 3 жыл бұрын

I am your people. I love when you only share what you believed in. Thank you so much for the reminder to love myself ❤❤

@nhungdo9987 3 жыл бұрын

I truly thank you to you, your voices is so sweet and romance. Love your messages about loving ourselves

@g8282 2 жыл бұрын

Hey Lavendaire! Love your video. My takeaways is you mentioned the words “unconditional” and “compassion”. I grew up in a “conditional” environment where if there was criteria that you didn’t satisfy that you weren’t good enough. I am starting on my personal development journey to love and accept myself and be more aware. I know I made tons of mistakes, but I know that’s ok. Its a fresh start with God, cause I know He loves and values me and it starts there. I’ll be vulnerable as I am a male writing this. I’ll be viewing your videos more often moving forward. 😊😇🙏 Thank you Lavendaire!

@bouchrahoumeur6742 2 жыл бұрын

You are so inspiring Aileen wish you the best always

@idk_streaming7464 2 жыл бұрын

I am going to watch your NFT and Crypto video, not to see and understand the comments but because I don’t know anything about NFT or Crypto. I was actually excited to hear you made a video like that. Girl, the light you shine for those looking for guidance and an introduction to certain subjects will always outweigh those haters. Please don’t stop what you’re doing. Although you may not be giving what is expected, you give what is needed for many others such as myself. I appreciate your thoughtfulness always.

@yogary88 Жыл бұрын

“You Can Heal Your Life “ by Louse Hay helped me in the self love and acceptance Journey! She also recommended changing the words ‘but’ to ‘and’ and ‘should ‘ to ‘could ‘ as well as so many positive affirmations! Thanks you for continuing and confirming my journey into self love and acceptance! Namaste

@kukkie7345 3 жыл бұрын

Your channel is so warm, cozy, peaceful and full of love 💕💕💕

@discovertamparealestate 3 жыл бұрын

I really love everything you said in this video! More power to you Aileen 💕💖

@ayeshasohail8300 3 жыл бұрын

No matter what those neg ppl say Abt you, true ppl know how much true you are. You r best girl`, you helped ppl in ways more than yourself knew just keep being yourself ❤️ we love you

@SB-mt5mp 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. I come to your channel for openness and honesty. Keep it up. 💓

@sanliy 3 жыл бұрын

Yaay.. Love these advices. Aileen always make me feel confident about myself. I got to know who I am in this year by your kind words. Even I'm not fluent in English, your every word went deeper in my heart. Actually, Aileen was a English teacher to me. That's not a joke. Thank you so much for the inspiration!❤️🥰

@ELIZABETH-hf9he 3 жыл бұрын

@happycucumber4822 10 ай бұрын

This video helped me so so much it also motivate me to work on myslef✨️🎀 Thank you so much for all the things you are doing🫶🏻🫶🏻 Love you💕✨️🫶🏻

@sunkissedcoco4083 3 жыл бұрын

Awww Lavendaire, I mostly watch your videos. You’re such a strong person!!! You’re always so helpful and inspirational in my life :) I’m also into crypto and when I watched your video about it, it made feel happy, secure and hopeful because more and more people are getting into the new technology and system!!! I also have unique thoughts and interest from the norm too that sometimes made me doubt of my decisions and I find comfort when my psychologist said that, “Just because you’re different, doesn’t mean you’re wrong.” I hope this also helps you too. 💕

@lameneses-david4241 2 жыл бұрын

I hope you can upload more videos daily. A very timely, motivating. Thank your for reaching out to people in ur own creative way. From Philippines..

@AliceYKwon-nh1rc 3 жыл бұрын

It is said constantly that there are no coincidences and things happen for a reason. Today I tried to cheer up one of my best friends, who is in a vicious state of guilt-trap and is everything, but kind to herself. But I was not sure how to stop her doing this for her own good. And boom: you upload this video just on time, so I could be like "there, listen to Aileen! She can explain it so much better than me! Everything about self-love, mirrors, energies! She knows the dumpplace you're stuck in and she is evidence, that you can find a way out (as am I myself, but I am not great at emotional talk XD)". So, thank you for helping me and hopefully my friend. And please continue your beautiful authentic journey with all its ups and downs, for you have given me a lot of new insights and perspectives to think about in the past few months. ^-^ ♡

@lavendaire 3 жыл бұрын

ty for being so kind & helpful to your friend ❤️

@hkm2228 3 жыл бұрын

the part when you can come from a harsh attacking mode is an eye opener. I can be like that sometimes without realizing it. You are amazing!

@shrutibhatt16 3 жыл бұрын

Loved your comment where u said, I invite u to check yourself Within coz it might be coz of environment or fear or coz we might have less reasearch based knowledge does not mean That person has right to speak up to us in anyway they want. Even I practiced same as yours along with your channel journey that I no more get angry on those people. We share what we have inside us and how we present it shows how is Our personality, not theirs. Keep up your confidence Aileen! In some topics, you are the leader in the market and if u r trying to learn something new, in starting u might not have all the knowledge but doesn't mean u don't know anything. Loved your advice overall, thanks for the video dear 🥰

@sieunpark3436 2 жыл бұрын

Simply, unconditional love does not judge whether somebody is doing good

@vivian4768 3 жыл бұрын

Aileen's voice is rly comforting

@me-zs7tr 2 жыл бұрын

you're one of my fav people overall

@gere9033 2 жыл бұрын

You’re the best girl!!! One of the best energies I’ve heard… my top 5 for sure 🤩

@rafaelatakami8019 2 жыл бұрын

Don't be scared to make content about the things you like, this is your channel. It sucks that people judged you, but that's on them, not your business. Thanks for all the great content x

@sweetcelleligas6789 3 жыл бұрын

I support you with all of your content girl. :) I'm so proud of you for believing in yourself in the midst of negativity. You really spread good vibes, peace and love. 🥰💞