Lawyer Warns Men To Avoid THIS Type of Woman

Expert family lawyer warns men, that stay at home moms, are the most difficult divorce cases she deals with.
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[@BorderGuards]

You posted this a few months ago

[@captainsisko7629]

Rich can you do a video on which state has the best laws for men

[@DerekGustardMAGIC]

Upper arms looking good and chunking out nicely, dude!

[@xcelibatescorpiongoingherownw]

I would take what she said with a GRAIN OF SALT. I GUARANTEE with 99.9% SURETY that this Feminist lawyer who spends all day working at divorcing people has slept with her male clients who were getting divorced.NOTICE she claims that stay at home moms are "too exhausted to give their husbands attention cause they focus too much on their children." Really??SO she wants to IMPLY then that a woman who spends the day working at a job DOESn'T get stressed,you know a BUSY LAYWER profession like HERS will SURELY have ALL THE TIME IN THE WORLD to dedicate to her husband...she's so full of BS!!! SHe was obviously COMPETING with a stay at home mom for a male client she was trying to get divorced.NOTICE she didnt say stay at home moms INITIATE the divorces, she said they STALL the divorce process and that it takes longer.I agree it would be more costly cause ofcourse if she was raising your kids and gave up a career and you then go cheat on her with some lawyer friend of yours which leads to a divorce,its only FAIR that you then support her financially.Makes sense.

[@bboyStuntZ]

How do you make sure a woman has a low notch count? Unless you hook her up to a 100% accurate lie detector? Or you were there? You will never know.

[@johnnytate69]

1) Marriage is IPO for women 2) Divorce is cashing out. 3) Children produces passive income for women enforced by the government

[@threethrushes]

4) Negative ROI. 5) Contract rewards one party to break it. 6) 99 per cent of men have no due diligence process.

[@guinthehouse]

liking these business terms. May we all do proper due diligence in picking our business partners aka life-long partners.

[@voiceofunreason5153]

Underrated analogy!

[@R00RAL]

Should learn this grade 5 & up.

[@timothwc2]

This statement is endorsed by me, an expert on this, just like many others who served time for failing to pay alimoney

[@ibosley]

My ex wife is a nurse. You want to avoid healthcare workers at all cost. They engage in infidelity without batting an eye and without shame. In some cases they justify it because they were stressed or bummed out at the time. They are married to the profession generally speaking and you’ll be their third or fourth priority.

[@sergiogonzalesYT]

Agreed. Healthcare workers may be very cynical.

[@paulcoleman5512]

As a radiology technician I can def confirm this. You'd be surprised (not really) at what goes on during our lunch breaks and after work.

[@austinfrazier7325]

Yep dated a few nurses and engaged to one. Entitled and/or bitchy is pretty common. They can be pretty cold as well. Hypergamy seems to be higher than normal with this group.

[@blockaderunner]

My parents always advised me against nurses cause “they can kill you and make it look like an accident...”

[@timothyrobinson2387]

@@austinfrazier7325 Yeah, trying ta lock down a Dr., no doubt.🤣

[@MrMerzforthewin]

Just got divorced to a stay at home mom. Even before having our 2 kids she had no direction. Then the kids became her life while simultaneously becoming withdrawn, disaffected and bored. Monkey branched to another married man who's daughter was my child's classmate... an unemployed, out of work, stay at home dad losing everything in his own divorce that he is still drawing out with no real end in sight. I mean.... meanwhile im self employed making 6 figures and my company is growing. Our kids are (were) happy and things were going well before she went 180° and imploded everyone's lives. These dummies will tank their own lives, ruin theirs kid's lives, ruin everything you've worked decads to build all just out of a sense of fomo or being "unhappy", whatever that is. STAY SINGLE, GUYS. We are all looked at as collateral damage in the end.

[@realrogers890]

Hi sir, I am young and I will never marry, my dream now is to travel 🪂 all my life meeting women for a short time, that makes me more happy...wishing you the best for your kids

[@jnordne2]

I don't think women have the ability to be happy. My ex and I divorced because she was a serial cheater, and she told people she cheated "because she was unhappy." She grew up in a mobile home to coke-head, alcoholic parents, I went back to school after dropping out to get an engineering degree, got a good paying job, bought a house, etc., we never argued, started traveling, had a kid, but it still wasn't fucking good enough. She even gave me the typical "I love but I'm not in love with you" speech a day after we got back from a cruise... They cannot be pleased. If Jason fucking Momoa can't make his woman happy, what can us average douchebags do?

[@musicaccount8349]

@@jnordne2 here’s the problem: you got it on with a chick who came from a broken family that didn’t tend to her emotional needs and dissuadement of certain types of friendships to build positive relationships. As children, even more-so on girls, we absolutely need emotional support from both parents with direction in order to properly mature as we grow because there comes a certain point in life where it’s too late to change what we were sowed. Yours never trailed the top of that mountain. You can blame women of all the problems you have because of one, just remember you were well aware of the problems that persisted even before you put your wealth and seed on and in her.

[@MD-fe5zq]

Crazy woman. That is so sad. I can’t believe how women act. I feel bad for you and the kids. Thanks for the comment and letting us know the truth.

[@randomuserame]

She won't realize what she has until she thinks there's a serious possibility of it going away. I *WISH* there was another way. But you ABSOLUTELY MUST at least PRETEND like you're going after other girls. That's the only way to occupy her mind so that she doesn't go after other men, and take half of your stuff with her. You're not in a healthy relationship for you and your finances unless she's asking you if there are "other women". Don't cheat, because that's some bull. Just make her think you are going to. Hate the game. And hope your children get to play a different one.

[@Firerose101]

My wife works in family law as a paralegal and says that the point when a man brings another woman into the mix when they are getting divorced, is when the ex goes crazy. Men, do not openly get into another relationship until the papers are signed and the divorce is settled.

[@katemiller7874]

It was the same for my ex. After our divorce when I started dating he went nuts. Then when I got married. He got crazier. It took him probably 5 years to calm down. Now he’s fine we are both older now that could be why

[@ralpherl5657]

Even when a chick dumps you, she'll still want you to be alone, either so she can feel better about herself, hope you suffer, or so she can come back if needed

[@igbokwenu4934]

​@@ralpherl5657Bingo 🎉

[@your.dark.lord.]

That looks like really good advice

[@ResisterCIO]

@@ralpherl5657 yes, women want you to either be in reserve, or be so broken by "The Best you ever had". It's not even having another chick. They get mad if you prosper personally, lose weight, build up your finances. They might win big in divorce, but almost no divorced woman has a dollar to show for it (house sale proceeds, etc.) a year or so later. I've seen 40-something divorced women sell off the entire $80k of a 401k and blow it on clothes, chotskies, and "Yay Divorce Girl" trips, only to cry about the Tax Penalty for early withdrawal and claim it's the exes' fault she's broke.

[@sonyamoste]

Notch counts are important. I'm 55 and my high school girlfriends that are still married after 30 years were good girls in their youth and the guy they married was either their first or second love. I'm not aware of any infidelity. And they all came from homes where the father lived in the home.

[@1949coupe]

100% agree. I have been married for almost 25 years, together for 28 years. We married in our late 20s. I was her 4th. To me sex is an intimate act on the end of the scale of interactions with a stranger, colleague, friend, good friend and a lover. I don't let just anyone into my life, let alone my bedroom. Not only would I not want a woman who has been with 40+ guys raising my kids, I doubt she would be faithful. It goes the same for me. Would I be happy sleeping with the same woman for 28 years if I had 40 women before her. Personally, I doubt it. You make sacrifices when choosing a mate for life. If she is wild, fun, and f&cks like a porn star everywhere and anywhere, its probably not her first rodeo. I would rather have shy and a bit inexperienced any day.

[@zax8961]

I think traditionally, parented mentored and supported their kids. Taught them a profession or got them to help out on the farm, in the businesss, etc. and got them ready for marriage and matured them. They got married early and most often for the better made it work. Society and the family unit is being destroyed by attacking the minds and hearts of people worldwide: The sexual revolution (Coach Red Pill explains it well); the laws changed by the Rockefellers for marriages, working, etc. In the US (Search for interviews with Aaron Russo who was befriended by a Rockefeller); TV propaganda and entertainment are nothing more than escapist, psychological, and social engineering, now real-time social media; Probably a ton of other things as well.

[@ResisterCIO]

@@1949coupeMost guys would, but even in the mid 90s, 18-21 virgins were pretty rare and even body counts under a half dozen by college graduation/age 22 in women was rare. And I lived both Yankee and Dixie. In fact, the most precocious gals were from Evangelical Youth Group retreat, they were more froward than the Goth Girls, I guess don't judge book by cover.

[@manonthemoog]

When a woman's body count goes over 10, the chances of a successful marriage plummet alarmingly. They are biologically incapable of falling in love after being with too many men.

[@johnprim]

Similar observation here. I'm 43 and was astounded to learn through social media that some of the couples from the junior prom are still together! These people are not included in my scathing remarks about society!

[@Last_one_before_I_go]

And...my ex was a stay-at-home mom, 25 of the 27 years we were married. I willingly carried the financial load and was called a martyr by her for doing everything I could to keep her happy, providing her and the kids a wonderful environment and making personal sacrifices (within reason) to ensure the family unit moved forward as one. She was bored, found facebook and it went downhill from there. Then came divorce hell and poverty. FUCK IT.

[@Margriet101]

😮The one how supposed to love you the most turnt you life up side down. Hope you still have good relationships with your children and your career is not lost. 😟

[@maxwellspeedwell2585]

“nothing is worse than a barn witch.” Got THAT right!!! She’s got a horse? “NO” of course!

[@Zeus-dw1cx]

You can never make them happy.

[@CR67]

Yep. In Illinois alimony is figured as 30% of the high earner minus 20% of the low earner. My ex was uncompelled to work, so, 30% of my income plus child support with a paid for house and vehicle covered her new nice lifestyle. The courts don't care if the man lives out of his car, so long as the woman "maintains the lifestyle to which she has become accustomed. "

[@Last_one_before_I_go]

@@CR67 You have presented some truths. Divorce laws will become irrelevant once marriage has been rendered obsolete. I'm doing my part nowadays.

[@MrSmith-on1qz]

My ex wife stayed at home for 11 years. My attorney said that she was the most “caustic” person he has ever seen in family court. It cost me 500k. So basically the system in West is that you will be severely punished for being charitable to a woman. The longer that you are charitable, the more you will be punished.

[@Steamerbeen]

How da hell do you just find half a mil!

[@stevepoythress4678]

@@Steamerbeen "punished for being charitable" My situation exactly - I was told by attorneys and judge the court assumes you are complicit in their bad behavior if you DON'T divorce, like it's a man's duty to initiate divorce in conflict marriages rather than attempt to work things out.

[@Steamerbeen]

@@stevepoythress4678 isn’t the point of having a juridical process not to “assume” 🤦🏽

[@joecee6862]

There are certain people who would "convince" her to drop the suit for much, much less money than that. Build your network sir.

[@badgirlhollywood9741]

@@joecee6862 Murder!!!

[@SmartestDumbGuy]

Me and my bro both had divorces. Both wives were stay at home not working wives. We both experienced horrible greedy divorces. This actually makes a ton of sense. Never considered this angle. It's totally true now that I think about it. They become paralyzed with fear and go for every penny from survival instinct. They don't know how to live in the real world so they aren't going away that easy.

[@itypethetruthnobshere8975]

Did those stay at home wives at least look good? Like 8,9,10s? If not why?

[@mattyghost3409]

My bro got divorced too...I just use my passport now...No divorce no Ailmony in the Philippines low Divorce rates in Thailand...I'll choose southeast Asia and keep them there...I'll be in Thailand for the month of September...

[@mrwilliamwonder]

@@mattyghost3409 ya, they just get to keep your house you buy there

[@rajsel8761]

@@mrwilliamwonder no I know only a few (4) men who are divorced in Thailand, and they didn't lose anything. Only one left the country and lives in Prague now. But I know personally 54 men majority American, Canadian and few eastern Europeans who live thier with thier wives. Some have kids! They living happily. The thing is not to bring them back to the West! And find women who have father and come from good families. Most guys make the mistake of wiring up hoez in Thailand that they had fun with. That is a big No! There are plenty of good moral girls who don't work as escort and u can wife them up!

[@musicaccount8349]

@@mattyghost3409 mans gets ruined by a girl in his home country so he choses to plan to ruin some random foreign girl’s life as well lmaooo

[@InvestgoldUK]

Absolutely the way my relationship went. After being the ATM for years, she found a job (nursing degree funded by me) and turned condescending. The main takeaway for young men though is don’t ever do it in the first place

[@joecee6862]

Noooooooo! Not another NURSE. 99% chance that the woman is out to screw you in some way if she's a nurse or a hairdresser. Unofficial facts of life my friend.

[@vnh2567]

I was out on a weekend getaway as a single man and ended up having lengthy conversations with a married woman who was away from her husband for the weekend. She lives in a seven figure home, drives a six-figure car, has a $30,000 tennis bracelet on her wrist and her wedding ring is at least three carats. All I heard about was how much she “hated her husband“. She admitted that she quit working to raise the kids who are now both in university. Oh by the way, when she did work she used to be an OR nurse. Last I heard through a mutual friend, she is actively plotting her divorce unbeknownst to her husband.

[@joecee6862]

Proof that even when you "do everything right", you can still wind up losing the battle.

[@KrazyArrows]

Did you tell the husband or did they tell the husband bc dam

[@jamiemiller1448]

You should warn her husband.

[@johnmitchell2269]

Money can't buy you happiness.

[@PayNoTaxes0GetNoVote]

@@johnmitchell2269 - Or loyalty. Only the threat of death or torture does that....most of the time.

[@BobPruett]

My ex was a stay at home mom and it worked pretty well for some time, I gave her as many of the things that she wanted to make her happy but in time she believed herself to be entitled. Fast forward to the divorce: She wanted spousal support, child support and ANIMAL support for her horses and other animals! Of course I won after proving her severe substance abuse and got sole custody of the kids. Now she is living in some hole who knows where.

[@joecee6862]

Ooh, I hadn't thought of that. Promote her alcoholism and drug use, then keep records of it for family court later on. Genius dude! Thanks for the idea.

[@Zglavo]

​@Rod Walker Lucky you if you didn't marry her! My future ex-wife has a horse, working part time so that she can go horse riding at least twice during the week, once or twice during the week-end, each time for a duration of half a day. It is very hard to have any family activities under such condition and when she was there, she always had the good role of initiating activities, neglecting the fact that I was playing with my kids and feeding them during her absence. One of my friends has the same problem, every week-end, he has to take care of his kids alone as his wife has horse activities and competitions. And the budget is huge in the long term, more than a good sport car. 200k to 500k during the 15 years of life of the horse.

[@iamthewizardwhoknocks2845]

Did she file for divorce?

[@sirennoir258]

I'm sorry that happened to you.

[@BobPruett]

@@sirennoir258 it's all for that best. My kids are much better off now and so am I.

[@almontepaolilli7531]

That female attorney had a lot of courage to say what she did about stay at home moms. Hope she does not lose her practice.

[@MrBirgerB]

She will gain some male clients, and maybe loose som female. She will be fine.

[@vaniad555]

It is bothersome how her story is one-sided like men are angels and those women exist to get them and 'their' money. What happened to be in a union and whatever one partner earns is partial because it gets the support of the other. If you want kids, never mind a woman or a man, it will be at a cost. Maybe in a future society when humans evolve to the point that we are all important, this problem will be resolved. Blaming and pointing a finger at others does nothing, good for this woman she will gain some male attention. Children pay the highest price, in the end, so think of the future generations and the emotional damages they will carry on just because the family law was wrong, or two people decided to have babies.

[@MrBirgerB]

@@vaniad555 children don't need to suffer if the split is amicable, on the contrary.

[@xcelibatescorpiongoingherownw]

I dont think she was scared at all.I think she is BITTER cause she's been sleeping around with her male clients and JEALOUS of the women that were married to them.

[@johnmitchell2269]

@@vaniad555 If I've earned it by working for it, then it's very much my money.

[@jacobm1001]

It is certainly interesting she calls stay at home mom a career . I suppose divorce is the retirement plan for that career. 🤔

[@darrinelford1473]

Stay at home mum is NOT a career - it is a lifestyle choice. A woman who does not have a solid career and is not university educated is a waste of space.

[@ennuiblue4295]

@@darrinelford1473 have you seen some of the winners that are 'university educated' lately?

[@celestecelestial90]

😂

[@MrMGR1986]

@@darrinelford1473are you 12? A good woman at home taking care of her kids is not a waste of space.

[@yuanth]

No matter what profession woman is in, they’re all the same. Some are less crazy. Other are more crazy. At the end, they’re all CRAZY

[@NickRedstar]

That’s a catch 22. If she stays at home she’ll run you through the ringer in court. But if she’s successful in business she’ll hook up with Kevin in sales.

[@TheZooBrooksAB]

Take her, and this issue of yours out of the equation. Women use sperm donors, so why can men just use her eggs? Then get a nanny to help raise your kids. No hypergamy, no cheating. Just a nanny who wants to work for money, raising your kids the way you want. You want sex? That's easy to get outside the home and way less baggage and grief. Plus no divorce lawyers, custody, or support orders.

[@YaBetterCallBabu07]

@@TheZooBrooksAB a kid usually needs both a mother and father figure to be at their best.

[@TheZooBrooksAB]

@@YaBetterCallBabu07 a nanny will provide a much better mother figure than any modern woman.

[@casperr8349]

@@TheZooBrooksAB The why not date the nanny. What if you are attracted to the nanny. We shouldn't be resorting to this weird complicated dynamic. There are women out there that aren't abysmal.

[@TheZooBrooksAB]

@@casperr8349 that would defeat the entire purpose of creating a safe zone. Dating the nanny would mean common law. Then you're back to risking everything you have, including the children. If a guy did that, i would consider him a complete idiot. Why would a complete idiot go through this effort in the first place, just to ruin it?

[@aaronbrutus2654]

My family is filled with nurses, they are very mentally poor. Most people might not understand what I mean by this...

[@EC-ol8nz]

I love the work nurses do but it is very emotional and physically draining. I dated 2 nurses and broke up with them very quickly. They would let their day out on u. It was repetitive. I like dating teachers very fun, but they were very very “let’s stay together forever” 😳 I tried to tell my ex-wife not to go into nursing do something else. She was dead set on it 😒

[@Zanatos9]

@@EC-ol8nz I agree, the nurses I dated were cut throat I found. Very caring at work, cut throat at home. Not a fan of teachers because they all have the same Liberal mentality.

[@Shinobishin04]

I’m a male critical care RN. I am working in a sea of estrogen. I am very aware of never sh__ting where I eat. There are many feminists and feminine females. I’m married but have been hit on by both types. Glad to not be thirsty…. If I had to date nowadays….. very very careful and challenging. Lots of single Moms …. Beware!!

[@nightmind919]

@@EC-ol8nz whats wrong with “lets stay together.” Isn’t that how it’s supposed to be? Do they get attached too quickly?

[@nightmind919]

@@Shinobishin04 facts

[@Zanatos9]

My cousin had one of those stay at home moms divorce him. What he owed in support/alimony was about 75% of his monthly income. He told the court, how am I going to live on 25%? Here's what's more "reasonable". Their response "that's a you problem". So he quit his job, sat on welfare and did cash jobs on the side. They couldn't garnish him because of being unemployed. Welfare pushed him to work, he said why? To have my pay garnished? Forget it. He still buys the kids stuff every visit but wouldn't give the mom any $.

[@aaronbrutus2654]

I'm so proud of him. Gave the system a big "fuck you."

[@brianct7801]

Damn, what a move. Respect!

[@Ja50nkAt]

He didn't go to prison for not paying? Thought that was the norm.

[@leonelorozco2514]

Where is he located? In califronia you go to jail for that even if you are unemployed.

[@realrogers890]

Thats so satisfying

[@Umdringside]

One part of my extended family are all female nurses, all of them are divorced/single moms 🤯

[@stevec3892]

I separated after 28 years in 2013 . For some reason dated a lot of nurses and couldn’t believe how wild they were

[@chrisryan9277]

My wife is a stay at home mom, but she works on the farm with me every day and we are happy. But she is under my frame and guidance. These women are a dying breed. We are in our 30’s and don’t have social media accounts and we’re probably the happiest in our circle of friends

[@xxx-kl3rl]

Lacking social media accounts. Her helping you at the farm. Being in my early 20's I fucking envy you Man. Girls my age have like 20 dudes they talk to while they date you on Instagram and who the fuck knows where else. It's just pointless. Anyways, you're doing your job well. Keep it up.

[@SlowJoe76]

Social media Is VERY TOXIC . It portrays that the grass is always greener on the other side

[@okipo3443]

This,my parents have a small business they ve built together,they go everywhere together,I honestly think the recipe to a good relationship is codependence

[@gerardolazo3333]

You got it made brother!

[@andrewcarlson2178]

Farming is hard work. I wouldn't consider it astay at hom3 scenario

[@arreng2364]

If you don't want to deal with lawyers stay away from marriage. simple logic

[@TheZooBrooksAB]

And what about bastard children? Or living common law? They're both tools she can use to get exactly what she wants. What you say is not simple logic. There's more to it.

[@ApexGaming100]

Best advice ive heard so far, good job buddy!

[@jackflash8567]

@@TheZooBrooksAB how though? Genuinely curious.

[@arreng2364]

@@jackflash8567 Plugged in beta he doesn't get it. He still likes to overthink and over complicate things.

[@johnsmith-kt7ef]

No woman is living with me, did it in the past, won’t do it again.

[@lukeskywalkerlucasfilm]

Victim of Narcissist Entitled Stay-at-home-Mom here! They don't want the struggle just the finish-line. Lawyer is on 100% 👍

[@jsts22]

Man, dealing with these modern women is just depressing. It's tempting to just check out and not care anymore.

[@teddychalgren]

Spin plates, so to speak.

[@PH-ih1pn]

Society has handed them a golden ticket... divorce!

[@theclown2393]

Thats the key.....the less f**KS you have to give while staying single is the key to survival

[@goodtalker]

My ex figured out a way to become a stay-at-home mom after we married even though I knew, in my gut, it was not in anyone's best interest. Twenty years later, she got the house, 3 years of child support, and 25 percent of my pension. We have a beautiful 32 year old daughter who is one of my best friends, and luckily, that daughter, does not want to be anything like her mom....thank God! Thanks for reading.

[@kindredspiritzz66]

My ex alienated all 3 of my kids from me, ain't seen em in years since she married hubby #4

[@callanc3925]

if you dont mind me asking, how did she manage to become a stay-at-home? Im pretty young and have it in my mind that if i ever marry a woman no matter how much i earn she will have to have a job while the kids are at school. Id quite like to avoid her finessing a way into being a stay at home if possible.

[@kindredspiritzz66]

@@callanc3925 you vet them thoroughly before you marry them and make it crystal clear you expect them to work after kids come but still you can't be sure. One they have a marriage certificate and kids they hold all the cards in most instances. My advice, stay single, play the field and enjoy life and keep what's yours

[@goodtalker]

@@callanc3925 Good afternoon. I do not mind answering your question at all. The above mentioned wife had one child when I married her and I had two. We were both in very short, previous marriages. Mine was actually a "shot gun" marriage where I married the woman because she got off birth control and trapped me, but at least I was able to get my girls out of a quickly decaying neighborhood in east San Diego. In marriage number 2, both my wife and I were employed, but we were not "married" to our careers. When I decided to marry a second time, I flipped a switch in my head from "career man" to "family man," but I still, obviously, had to work--and my wife was on board the same way....at least I thought. One of the first things she wanted to do, after we married, was quit her job and start an accounting business from home. She was very good at this, and like a dummy, I went along with it. THE FIRST WEEK WE WERE MARRIED, she called up my ex-wife and offered to baby sit my two girls as she was no longer working and would be supervising her own daughter as well. I came home from work one day and discovered my two girls and her daughter playing in the front yard and asked her what was going on. She told me what she had done, including her previous conversation with my ex-wife. I remember walking away telling myself, "How in the hell is she going to run a business from home with three small children to take care of?" Obviously, she had no plans to work, and about 5 minutes after that, wife number 2 was pregnant. I thought about divorcing her, but my dad convinced me that if I did, those two wives would work together and take as much money from me as they could, and I would be living in a tent. MY DAD WAS RIGHT! He said to me one day, "Son, the first time you got probation....but this second time, you're gonna have to do 20 years." I did the 20 years, and finally got out. The only good part about the whole thing is that I discovered that I just loved being a dad, and now today at 60, being a grandfather.

[@katemiller7874]

Yet your ex made your daughter into everything she is. She sounds ungrateful

[@GoFaster77]

Top female occupations in the online dating scene: 1) Nurses - by far. 2) Hairstylists. 3) Biz owners aka boss bitches. 3) Teachers. There's a reason... Stay at home mom's, IMO, if vetted and handled right, can be a great thing. If they do turn on you...then absolutely they are a disaster.

[@AUSTIN-ss2zd]

You mean top occupations as in most common? Sluttiest? Most likely to cheat? Or a high quality partner cuz nurses are the worst first responders they break more human rights violations than police officers do.

[@AUSTIN-ss2zd]

Also teachers are awful they feel entitled by being right about everything because they're a teacher.

[@edkennedy7952]

Boss bitches.....lol.

[@STScott-qo4pw]

Biz owner usually means runs a nail shop.

[@jax2428]

I've dated 2 school teachers in my time and they were both a little squirrelly.

[@Nowheretorun7]

My list (sample size of about 50) 1: Any sort of Law Enforcement/Security etc 2: Nurses (control freaks, lots of infidelity in that profession) 3: Court Services (they know the system well and how to utilize it) 4: Lawyers (same as above) 5: Influencers I would argue that any "career oriented" type woman is a no-go. The thing is, with "stay at home mom's" 70-80% of divorces are female initiated. As we all know; the system is gynocentric so they actually probably end up gaining the most in the system compared to other women; in some cases, they gain more divorcing than they would staying in the marriage (monetary wise) So that would have some correlation. So which women would you then select? I would argue none for marriage or living together would be the best choice.

[@EzenwegbuKingsleyTV]

So who do you advice to get married to?, which conditions describes the best woman for marriage..

[@TheZooBrooksAB]

@@EzenwegbuKingsleyTV don't marry them. Get a woman to sign over parental rights and let her have your children. Then let her go away forever. Then, get a nanny. She can never sue for custody or support. You'll save so much money in the long run. Plus, you'll actually get along with the nanny much better than a wife throughout the entire arrangement. You won't care if your nanny has sexual relationships. You won't care what the fuck she does outside of your children's lives, you just make sure she's a good nanny. Your kids will grow up under your tutelage, not some stupid, unintegral excuse for a wife's. It's the only safe way.

[@Nowheretorun7]

@@EzenwegbuKingsleyTV I would argue there are no conditions feasible in the west as marriage is a contract that is actively detrimental to men; this goes for "living" with a woman as well unless you have some prenuptial agreements that are updated regularly; however, even then it's a gigantic risk and probably best not. So the conditions for marriage would then be 1: Non-western country 2: Country must have a legal system that is neutral or beneficial to your interests 3: She must be traditional

[@stans5270]

I need to see the DATA that supports this statement: The thing is, with "stay at home mom's" 70-80% of divorces are female initiated.

[@leonelorozco2514]

On point bro. I have experienced a few chicks of these profesions. Gotta say about the nurse type you hit right on the nail. 304s.

[@jcnlaw]

Great video! Stay at home moms can be brutal to divorce, especially if you are a successful, ambitious guy. Interestingly, older women who did not go back to work, even after the kids are launched (kids in college, reach the age of majority in your jurisdiction, etc.) are just as bad as stay at home moms in divorce. These older women are usually “gray divorces” where the parties are in their 40’s, 50’s, 60’s and beyond. My oldest divorce client was in his 80’s. Stay safe! Stay single!

[@leonelorozco2514]

Fck. These women are crazy ignorant evil. They think they can go back to the CC at age 50.

[@MVProfits]

She tells real answers, but the fact she is scared to do so, and likely have been attacked since, tells a lot about our stupid ideological driven society. It's her opinion, not irrefutable facts, but she is a divorce lawyer, yet she will blasted for stating such a simple thing!

[@katemiller7874]

She should be afraid. Sounds like a conflict of interest to me. Can you imagine if her clients see this. I would shit can her immediately.

[@ceciliaabdalla4954]

A wise man once said don't trust women or lawyers. She's both

[@contemposuits1983]

I don't think getting married is a good idea for any men. The majority of women are raised on scheming. You may be able to find that only 10% or less are okay for marriage. Even then, it is more than likely to fail.

[@rogerward3390]

58% marriages work..no?

[@Doxansq]

No, did you see the data correctly? Ppl are still getting married more than divorces. I mean your almost saying it’s a lost cause and doing other men a “favour” by telling this “truth”. Truth is men should be more confident, stop thinking and/watching these vids were “we know how women work”

[@garybulwinkle82]

@@Doxansq You're a doofus!!! More than 50% of first marriages end in divorce, and the women usually cash out better than the man especially if there are kids! She keeps the house, car, dog, gets alimony and child support! The man gets to keep his job, but doesn't get to keep the money!! It's a terrible risk!!

[@Doxansq]

@Kaluga the change of more equality between genders is fantastic unless you mean something else and focus on those few extreme feminists and horror wives. You’re talking as if women are investments as if they’re assets 😂 no wonder you would get treated the same way

[@Doxansq]

@@garybulwinkle82 44.6 to be exact and decreasing trend according to US data. #1 reason is financial issues: multiple negative effects come out of that and no it’s not because women want more in life than men and men have toprovide more and….that narrative is wrong You can’t just take data out of context.

[@ronpearson2698]

Boom, Rich hit the nail on the head here!!! Unfortunately, this type of woman is exactly what I had to deal with 5 years ago with my divorce. She's a nightmare who cant hold a job and still expects me to take care of her!!

[@mestallbaumer]

This was 100% my situation in my divorce. Completely accurate.

[@Fee-Nix]

Women. STOP trying to live like a man. Live like a woman.

[@selohcin]

Do you seriously think any women are on here to hear you? Men outnumber women 100:1 in channels like these. The women who actually need to hear such a message won't get anywhere near this channel.

[@doctorartphd6463]

I was ALWAYS taught, that the best thing a father and mother can do for their children, is for the parents to LOVE one another, FIRST. Then the children. And if one thinks about it, you will realize how correct and logical this is. If you make the children more important than your spouse, the marriage will die. It's a pretty simple relationship concept to understand.

[@JayJay-gr5rg]

This is True. When the Husband and Wife are a team they will fall inlove worth each other in different stages of their lives. Most don’t make it to the end but the few who does talk about their journey with fondness and love as they go to family gatherings with their kids and grandchildren

[@sarahrobertson634]

Wrong. Children always come first. Mature spouses understand how to make sacrifices.

[@doctorartphd6463]

@@sarahrobertson634 No, I'm not wrong. Putting children first, is putting the "cart before the horse". Loving one's spouse first, is not only emotionally mature, but basic psychology and common sense. Children learn what they live. A strong, happy marriage is what they learn...love, communication, sharing, emotional stability, etc... Your statement is one of the very reasons why intelligent, loving Alpha men stay away from women like you. The women who choose children over their spouse, end up destroying the marriage (due to lack of intimacy, lack of attentiveness, lack of communication, etc) . A lack of understanding in this regard is the cause of many failed marriages and single parent homes. Wake up my Dunning-Kruger friend.

[@sarahrobertson634]

@@doctorartphd6463 Sorry, but you're incorrect. Your spouse is an adult and can fend for themselves. Children always come first, and if the spouse doesn't like that, they can kick rocks. Parenting is all about self sacrifice. Parents that can't understand that are too immature to have children.

[@sarahrobertson634]

@@doctorartphd6463 I realize that you're resentful because wifey poo doesn't prioritize you, but men don't come first. Men come last. Go ahead and throw a temper tantrum if you think it would make you feel better.

[@xxx-kl3rl]

I'm a 21yo male from Eastern Europe. Unfortunately, with Social Media and all that stuff, all these western problems get transferred incredibly quick to other cultures. I feel like moral corruption is the fastest spreading disease in the world. Too bad Pfizer didn't come up with a solution for that... Anyways. What Rich is teaching us is not only eye opening. I can see my fellow friends get into shit, deep, and they think it's their own will. The world is changing like crazy. Right now I'm working on my finance, so I can afford joining the community 100% as it's quite expensive being from where I am from. But I will get there, because it's worth it. Thank You from the bottom of my heart Rich, you are saving young men, and you care about us like no one else does these days. I won't even mention so many young men being raised by single feminist mothers. Rich is really the voice of reason a lot of us don't even have an opportunity to hear. I pray for you at times Man. Thank You. PS. It's a grim and sad reality, but I really don't believe in love anymore, as much as I would like to keep fooling myself.

[@wshyangify]

Pfizer did come up with a solution, just be sure not to take the v@xine!

[@xxx-kl3rl]

@@wshyangify I never did bro, it was irony on my part. ;)

[@coloradomark2159]

I think there was a time when women were more traditional, but no more. The idea of getting divorced rhaped has taken the motivation out of men.

[@vincentthemasterofshadows5743]

@@xxx-kl3rl Your statement is the same for South America. There's lots of channels that recommend going to that part of the world in order to find a wife. Women here are aware most tourist have money, and your currency is stronger than ours. The sugar baby thing exploded these years with women, in their early 20s, who are looking for men who can provide them all types of luxuries without having to give back anything.

[@j.p.5373]

Are you in Ukraine or Russia or another part? I imagine Ukraine is the worst from what other women have told me but what’s your opinion?

[@georgvonsauer2618]

Stay at home moms with children at school watch soaps...think about their scrips and all the bad behavior pumped into their heads...I noticed the difference in attitude...after a lightning strike on our antenna preamp...decided not to fix it...her behavior improved!

[@xxx-kl3rl]

😂 there actually is something to it. Soap operas give women delusions they later believe and screw their (and everyone around's) lives upon.

[@emptysoul2757]

Lol nice

[@villesanti1]

When I divorced my first wife, she was a stay home mom and it truly devastated me emotionally and financially. After the divorce, she drained me financially for years. So yeah.

[@robertveeneman9229]

Gawd damn.... did both of you study my life?! Her analysis was exactly what happened to me. Rich, your assessment is and continues to be the story of my life. Guys, it frickin sucks, take this video incredibly seriously.

[@Bobo-de3il]

Haha. Spot on for me as well with my stay at home ex-wife. I gave her everything in exchange for not having to pay her alimony for the rest of her life (just 4 years). She ended up living with her monkey branch guy so I lawyered up (for the 3rd time) and won citing that she was living with the new guy with intent to marry. She milked it for all she could though. Sucked for a while having to fork out over half my paycheck. Been over 10 years and just finally getting back to a good financial point. Frick’n financially devastating s**t.

[@bennybronco76]

I am. Taking it very seriously

[@scratch57]

The proper takeaway is that a person who invests the most in you also has the most to lose. Home wives aren’t the most likely to divorce you, just the most vicious when they do, because they’re fighting for all the marbles a career woman doesn’t have to.

[@GracelessTarnished]

I had a buddy who was getting divorced a few years ago and it blew my mind how much money she was asking for. Since she was a stay at home mom, her lawyer actually asked for a 'donation' from my buddy to cover his fees. Just disgustingly greedy.

[@ceciliaabdalla4954]

Lawyers are going to get a nice place in eternal hell. Hope the good life was worth it

[@wojScibor]

Great analogy regarding vetting women vs researching cars. Most low value men settle for the first wench that smiles at them, yet have a detailed vision of a dream Porsche 911 mapped out to a titanium lug bolt.

[@leonelorozco2514]

She also said that when the woman knows she is not going to "win" the way she wants in court she will throw in the "grape" or "s3x abuse" and bit the crap out of the man. Stay safe gents.

[@EC-ol8nz]

That really depends on the moral fiber of the woman. My X tells the truth, but out of context it works to her favor. Especially with her photo graphic memory 🤣 I give her that. Yet she sticks to the deal we made, even I don’t like it 🤣👍🏿 My advice to men, test the women then u know their moral fiber. Then most importantly... Force them to deal with past trauma and problems with friends and family. If they just go along and not OK with dealing by avoiding. Get them therapy if u love em or leave them QUICK👍🏿

[@mandymasters6610]

It’s sickening. I watched two men I love dearly & deeply go thru that exact thing and it’s heartbreaking from the sidelines, cannot imagine what it must be like to actually live it. She gets what she wants, puts her child/children thru varying degrees of Hell, and turns out Dad is safe after all, kids can go to Dad’s, sleepover there, all the things- as it suits her. Which always stood out to me bc you better believe if I had the slightest suspicion my children were in some way not safe w someone, whoever that may be - um I WOULDN’T HAVE THEM AROUND. Period. Full stop. My friend’s ex put him thru hell in court w those accusations, put their daughter thru it too- but once she got what she wanted, what do you know? Daddy is safe after all. Truly sick. The worst part is watching this bitch lead him around by the nose still today. That’s why she had to win being the custodial parent instead of agreeing to co-patenting 50/50. So she could get off on making him dance to her tune whenever she feels like it for the rest of his life. It’s sad. There are children who are being abused who could benefit from the court’s resources but they can’t bc these women STEAL that too. That they make a bad name for all of us pales in comparison to that. I will say that there’s part of me that thinks way down deep there is some kind of payoff my friend must get from the way she treats him bc I cannot figure out why else he would put up w it. In his case I suspect it’s some twisted version of white knight. I think that’s how she tricked him into falling for her in the first place. He watched her put her son’s dad (her ex, his new step-son) thru the wringer while they were married & young man was growing up. I’m sure his psyche forced denial as a survival strategy. Very sad.

[@EMichaelBall]

@Mandy Masters “there’s part of me that thinks way down deep there is some kind of payoff my friend must get from the way she treats him bc I cannot figure out why else he would put up w it” - it’s called trying to maximize ability to influence his children. Either he plays the game or fully abandons them by proxy.

[@andrewcarlson2178]

Yup, throw in accusations of child abuse and you're 100% correct.

[@andrewcarlson2178]

@@mandymasters6610 that's why i put myeelf in debt and shlled out over $75k in legal fees, just to get 50/50. I wasn't going to let her dictate my life or my children's life.

[@davidcawrowl3865]

My friend's wife was a stay-at-home mom who started working part-time in the evenings/waitressing and some on the weekends to contribute to the family income. That was the beginning of the end. She would go out with co-workers after work (her age/fellow mothers) but then started going out with younger , single, co-workers who had a completely different agenda. Party-goers. Then the lies to her husband.

[@raymonddrake3675]

This is ringing very, very true to me Rich. Thanks for posting.

[@SubcideWebzine]

Her claim about stay at home mums is 100% to my experience. My ex pretty much asserted her entitled right to be stay at home though. I had no say in it. Hence why now, she is my ex and I am redpill.

[@Doxansq]

Bluepill

[@SubcideWebzine]

@@Doxansq ???

[@adam84657]

You won't believe it. I broke up with my ex who is a health worker and she indicated to me during our relationship that she wants to be a housewife. Lol. A recipe for disaster

[@PH-ih1pn]

Yeah. Win win for her in that lifestyle

[@spiralofhope]

If you are a hard working man who divorces a homebody, you have no time and she has the time, court sympathy and crocodile tears..

[@wshyangify]

Then she will pull an amber on you, a TRO and a bruise kit and some Op Ed

[@CanoeToNewOrleans]

It makes total sense - they have all day to sit around and brood about insignificant details. I've worked in countries where there are still many housewives and they caused us the most problems for exactly that reason - they had nothing better to do. This is well known and understood in countries where people can speak honestly about gender.

[@rossleone7010]

Ex wife was a stay at hone mom and I was very open to her getting a job and career but she didn't try until after iniating the divorce. Her dream is now to be a nurse which is quite fitting.

[@Abelius]

Because "stay at home moms" are not homemakers or housewives. To find a female that wanted to be a housewife all along, and survived the Feminism propaganda on how housewives are losers, you'd need to find one in the middle of Antarctica, or build yourself a time machine. They simply don't exist anymore in the West. And I'm starting to have my doubts about the East as well.

[@xxx-kl3rl]

You are super right about the East. I'm from Eastern Europe and I can promise you the fastest spreading virus, the thing they learn first is Feminism and apart from Eastern Looks, our women aren't as different from Western ones as you would think.

[@Optimistas777]

@@xxx-kl3rl eastern europe is still west-ish, he probable meant asia/china

[@joecee6862]

@@xxx-kl3rl fuck it, let's go for Mongolia, Vietnam, and Colombia. I had high hopes for Eastern Europe, but it seems they're being corrupted as well.

[@Jenda-ld8dj]

They DO exist in the West-just few and far between.

[@edwardsanchez3708]

What I would give to be a stay at home person spending time with teaching and raising my own children

[@edwardsanchez3708]

@@Redouku what have you done in life and what do you have to offer?

[@Frankierios22]

So glad for this channel saving men from all the unfairness within marriage laws in the US

[@homeacres9454]

I live in Malaysia. My wife is a stay home mom. She irons my clothes, do the laundry, keep my house clean, cook meals + dessert ready when i come back home from work at 6.30 pm, buys the groceries, run my errands outside (bcos i can't - i'm at work), weeds the house compound in the afternoon, prays 5 times a day and recite the Quran every night. Ohhh.....she gives me head on the bed b4 i sleep at night too. In other words.....what u have is a western world problem.....not in my part of the world.

[@nahiyan4564]

MashaAllah. I was thinking of getting an indonesian or Malaysian woman myself. My friend is currently dating an indonesian, and he already slept with her...so idk if they're reliable. Only places with good women that I currently know are Yemen, Syria, and Malaysia I'd say. Sucks.

[@homeacres9454]

@@nahiyan4564 The problem that the western world men has is that their women are influenced by feminism and so called equal rights. I have news......God didn't created men and women equal (for those who believe in God). Here in my country we are being attacked by the same negative influences as the western world so u need to sort out the women first. Indonesian women are more obidient than Malaysian women. I have friends that marry Indonesian women.

[@gold707786]

All western men should print a copy what ''Home Acres '' said word for word and place a photocopy of it on their marital bed headboard.

[@wadewishloff870]

😳😳😳👍👍👍

[@stallonegodinho6296]

Becoz eastern divorce laws are not the same as western divorce laws.

[@Chty-rice]

Thank you Rich, Your words of wisdom are gold.

[@johnstephens6052]

Thanks for cheering me up, Rich!!!

[@adamselene5957]

The judge presiding in my DIVORCE simply said: (quote) "When you as a man get married and divorced in America, THIS is what you can expect. If you don't want to get 'divorce-raped' - simply don't get married. This is just how it goes." Yes, that is a quote from a presiding MALE judge. This is how MEN rape men. WHO do you ultimately blame then? MEN.

[@webersteve1547]

Judges aply laws, they don't make them. So don't blame him. Blame yourself that you are not actively support policy changes

[@adamselene5957]

@@webersteve1547 Well, you are incorrect. I DO SUPPORT POLICY CHANGES that activate men's legal rights. But it is up to the Judges to APPLY the laws as they INTERPRET them. I actually AGREE with the judge presiding over my divorce: MEN ARE STUPID if they believe they can marry a female and walk away unscathed. What he was essentially saying was: DON'T BE STUPID and DON'T DO IT AGAIN!! In this country, men have few to no legal rights in a divorce and false allegation cases.. The sign reads: SHARKS IN WATER - DO NOT SWIM. So, who's to blame if you swim? YOU ARE!! Don't be stupid and expect mythical animals to exist in the REAL WORLD!

[@Alex462047]

That judge is not a very far-thinking man. Or perhaps the divorce laws are designed to make marriage a huge risk fewer men are willing to take (and something more women are prepared to take legal and financial advantage of), thus fewer marriages, the further degradation of the institution of the family unit, and the further destruction of society. One thing I'm curious about is just how much discretion judges have within this divorce law. Never forgetting that truth, in the legal system, is directly proportionate to the amount of money one can dispose to his legal defense. But if the judges are a voluntary party to this "divorce rape", then they, in fact, have rather a lot to answer for. The last thing I'll say is something I learnt the hard way when I was a kid. Women are not these helpless little things that popular consciousness (and, frankly, the law) considers in need of our chivalry and our financial support in detail. Let me put it this way, if they want to take the traditional path, like everything in life, they must the good with the bad, become a part of the man's world, his dearly beloved rib (for those of you who have read Holy Writ). If she wants to be modern, then, again, that comes with it's own conditions. The arrangement of modern women with traditional man is as incompatible as oil and water, and marriage is about as far from an emulsifier as you can get. It all comes back to the old saying, you cannot have your cake and eat it too. Thinking one can is a major delusion.

[@adamselene5957]

@@webersteve1547 No, judges DON'T make laws - but they do decide whether or not to follow them. They can decide otherwise. For example, a 5-:50 custody divorce is suppose to be just that... 50:50. So, WHY is the man often still paying the woman? Why does she get awarded custody more than men? Obviously, judges are rarely impartial and USUALLY (though not always - things DO change over time)side with the female.

[@adamselene5957]

@@Alex462047 Let's be clear: Judges do not make the laws, but they are allowed to interpret them and in application of how they are applied to specific situations. Judges are beholden to their constituents, political alliances, etc. They are allowed complete autonomy where the application of the law is concerned. No, they DO TO WRITE the laws, but few people hold the judges feet to the fire when it comes to application of said law.

[@1949coupe]

Her assessment of single moms is bang on. Still married, but we went through some rough times in 2021 and almost got divorced. Been married for almost 25 years, and she has not worked in almost 20. Before the kids it was her education, which cost me $40K. Long story short, we had very different opinions on COVID and this lead to heated debates with the entire family. Me and my boys, retreated, them to their friends and activities and me to my work, to avoid the fights. Through her groups she met another guy, twice divorced, textbook narcissist who loved bombed and played her.....infidelity of course followed. Anyway, it would been a brutal divorce for me since I work two jobs, own 2 companies etc. and have been the sole bread winner for almost two decades. The level of entitlement and delusion just shocked me. She of course blamed the affair on me; I worked too much, made work a priority, didn't help the kids with their homework or around the house enough, attend their soccer games, was grumpy when I had to do the dishes, I didn't respect her opinions, etc. etc. She's right about not spending enough time with the family, but did she think I could afford a 2500 sqft bungalow in the country on an acre, her Mercedes SUV, the private school tuition, vacations, her spending habit, etc. working 9-5 and being home every night for dinner? Apparently so....which would leave me to take care of household chores on top of looking after an acre and the house. So what was she doing all day again? Oops, can't say that. Had she worked herself, I think she would have understood the value of making $$. Spending $$ is easy, making it is another issue. In hindsight, agreeing for her to be a stay at home mom was a huge red flag. Another thing Rich said is also very true...women get bored. Don't be boring. The whole experience has refocused my life from wife, family to work.

[@theinsivibleman5309]

nice so that guy who piped her down, got from her for free what you had to pay years and thousands of dollars for and she never got punished for it to this day. then guys wonder why hypergamy runs wild. the dissonance is frightening.

[@1949coupe]

@@theinsivibleman5309 Worse....after two divorces and three kids and being a solo-preneur, I am virtually certain he was looking for my settlement, alimony and child support to build his "new"family. Best all Worlds. His new ride more than pays for itself. If he was young, good looking and wealthy, it would have been easier to take. But an older, twice divorced, balding, overweight and not particularly well off guy. Nuts.

[@theinsivibleman5309]

@@1949coupe ah got a bigger picture of the entire scenario. i see. well played then. but really and truly....HE lost...she didnt. The state or whoever else, be it u, her kids or whoever....will pick up the tab. Which was always my point in the first comment. Women have everyone picking up the tab for them no matter how bad they fck up, wether its their fault or not is irrelevant.

[@mrjon75]

A real man can work 40 hours a week, cook 5 course meals, charm her after wining and dining with brilliant conversation, and afford all the finer things she deserves as well. You abused her!

[@1949coupe]

@@mrjon75 Absolutely. I should also have had my mom come over to look after the kids and sent her to the UK for 8 months to a private and exclusive Finishing School, on lady etiquette training and given her $100K to start her own yoga school. My bad...

[@Kenziepuff]

Plenty of stay-at-home moms are just as feminist to the core as career women. You'll see these types talking about "unpaid labor" despite having a roof over their head and being able to take care of their children all because of their husband's career. If a woman is not in YOUR frame, there is no career or situation you can put her in that will make for a stable relationship where you aren't in danger of her deciding to up and go. I am sure those cases were still mostly women initiating. Great advice here, Rich. Too many tradcon types just think it'll all work out just because and send men into bad situations- nope, men need to be vigilant and keep frame.

[@jsocials]

Stay at home moms spend time watching daytime TV which is geared to women's ideologies

[@Markpaul9]

One of the best videos you’ve made, short sharp and to the point. And all true

[@PastTime777]

My mom and dad passed away. Working with 2 family lawyers. Passing down money to my daughter who is married. They advise to create a trust in my daughters name to guard the money from divorce or lawsuits. I also have a trust in my name.

[@betteryoubetter]

This was my case.....it was brutal! Having to maintain two home vs one with the same income was not and is not sustainable! At least it was not for me! My kids were young, and I wanted to also provide them the best childhood experience I could (sports, travel, tech stuff etc). I pleaded with my ex, explaining it was not sustainable.....long story short, it drained me of all my finances; made me close to homeless a few times; created mental health stresses.....she got the mine, I got the shaft! It was horrible, and the system shows ZERO mercy!

[@deathmetalmaniac9647]

The "trad wife" you see a lot of people trying to bring back now days is mostly a facade that these women use as an excuse to sit on their ass all day, I used to know a woman in particular constantly always saying she wanted to get married get a green card and be a stay at home wife, when her last job was a simple work from home computer job that she was too lazy to do half the time and would sit on her ass playing video games a majority of the time. She is currently 30 now and still lives with her mother unemployed.

[@Shyhalu]

Just because they believe in bathing doesn't mean they aren't just as hypergamous.

[@zero1188]

Only like 30 percent of women are stay at home. Majority relationship are 50/50

[@kitenoticing]

Deport.

[@samsmusichub]

Great points made.

[@muttleycrew]

She didn't say that stay-at-home mothers were the most frequent divorcées, she implied those were teachers and nurses. She said they were the worst.

[@TheZooBrooksAB]

Although this isn't air tight, if you're going to be foolish enough to get married (or even common law, since most jurisdictions now don't see a difference), you need to get a pre-nup. In that pre-nup you need a clause that says "whomever initiates divorce gives up custody".

[@jimcole6423]

Pre-nups are too easily not accepted in court. Good try though.

[@TheZooBrooksAB]

@@jimcole6423 which is why I included the conditioner "Although this isn't air tight".....

[@joecee6862]

@@jimcole6423 I reject the authority of the kangaroo court. Two can play the game. Walk right out, flip the judge the finger, and go on unemployment. Worst case scenario, get thrown in jail for contempt of court or not paying...where I enjoy free food, housing, medical, gym, and even Bachelor's level schooling. 50% of zero is still zero. Whatcha gonna do?

[@coasteyscoasteys4150]

@@joecee6862 Check mate

[@ottomusprime5028]

My mother was a doctor, directly told me to never date a nurse unless I would be a doctor.

[@TheDoctornaut]

Smart

[@jorge_casso]

Holy sh*T ‼️ . .

[@turbo1997hsm]

If I had to be have a specific profession for a woman to not cheat, I'd rather stay to myself.

[@ZMG77]

Thank for sharing this video Rich, I'm sure it will help plenty of men. On a side note, nice choice of area to drive on in the video. 👍🏾

[@bodazaphfa]

Great video Rich!

[@mojojeinxs9960]

Yup very true. I was a stay at home mom. It scared the shit out of me. But I was pretty cool with a divorce I didn't touch any of his assets signed away any right to his social security or pension. All I asked for was half of the equity in our home which he kept I parlayed that into a business to support myself and my children. I spent 20 years cleaning painting cutting the grass landscaping the front yard all myself I sanding the hardwood floors myself raise two kids now successful adults. I told my daughter get an education make your own money don't depend on anybody only get married to someone you want to share your life with and build success don't look for a man to save you or support you it's rare and it hardly ever happens and have a nice little nest egg when things go south. My son told him make sure she has a college degree doesn't live with her parents and she signs a prenuptial agreement to protect your assets.

[@jameskrobar7814]

Man, how’d did that lawyer lady get a hold of my file! 🤣 yup, that was my situation. Had kids and she fought to be a stay at home mom. 10 years later I left her because my quality of life was absolute crap. As the lawyer said, I was a slave to my ex and nothing more. Leaving her cost me both of my homes, $25k in lawyer fees, my bank account, child support, and alimony for life. In spite of all that, it was worth every penny. Many years later I married a kickass conservative gal who’s about to retire from a killer gov job, I will get her benefits, she was totally in support of getting a prenup, and she’s hot too.

[@MLBERBERKING1063]

Awesome video brother

[@linuxrules95]

Good work. Thanks for sharing

[@Last_one_before_I_go]

And you know, getting involved with a woman lawyer in a romantic relationship is also an extremely dangerous situation. Not only are most of them continually in their masculine from dealing in a high pressure environment, they are skilled in arguing and in employing tried and true duplicitous techniques to apply pressure. I know because I almost went there...

[@jbar85jb22]

Social media is a massive reason many LTRs don't last anymore. Modern dating for an LTR should just be avoided and plate spinning and staying on your purpose as a Man should just be the new norm.

[@allenleigh5201]

Great and informative video Rich!

[@erugila]

Solid content. You’re on another level brother

[@derekmerkel6605]

Speaking from experience, never,never, ever let your wife stay home in any capacity!!! Even to run a small business that you both are 50/50 share holders. The women will still make the same argument that she was a stay at home mom. This was a good Christian girl as well that turned into the most evil lying person I’ve ever met. We’re on year 7 of fighting and you can imagine the lawyer bills. Again gentlemen Don’t, I mean DON’T!!! let your wife or common law spouse stay at home in any capacity!!!!!! You’re only asking for trouble.

[@SimpleMinded221]

No offense to women, but most are incapable of being true Christians.

[@SmartestDumbGuy]

Same. Those Christian girls and Christian families turn on you real quick when their is something for their perfect little angel to gain.

[@icm65]

Amen

[@derekmerkel6605]

@@sksubterrain3424 Just to be clear, I’m not trying to single out Christian women, as I’m a follower of Christ as well. I just wanted to let the men know of the risk, regardless of the woman’s current morals and beliefs. I don’t think I need to elaborate any further, I’m just confirming what the lawyer said from my experience. Just know the risk.

[@dac8939]

Hire a hitman.. Joke

[@piotrz6872]

Rich, I'm so glad I've found your channel and your community. You taught me a lot and I still come back to watch more, learn and remind stuff to have the right mindset on things. Hope you have a great day! PS. Your beard is looking better and better each time ;)

[@francisonyeike5622]

Great advice brother, very true

[@dommarcuscoyne]

good advice one again, appreciate you man!

[@whereismymind2795]

Hair Dressers. If you are married or dating one, you are in trouble.

[@Cyrus992]

How?

[@charlespurcell1865]

Ya not that bright

[@oemj7147]

Yup, hair dressers, nurses, flight attendants, teachers.

[@emptysoul2757]

@@oemj7147 flight attendants would easily be the #1 to avoid

[@guinthehouse]

@@Cyrus992 because they are constantly socializing and meeting new clients. A lot of them can be chad ballers at some of these high-end shops. The idea is the same as a female who have access to dozens of guys on social media. If she is working at a relatively busy hair salon, she is meeting a lot of dudes in person and chatting them up as it's her job to build connections, whatever that means. In addition, they already have probably broken physical barrier as she is cutting his hair, so it's a natural progression to the next step, which is kissing & fucking to keep it straight honest with you. It's basically a bit milder version of working at a massage place or a bar as a bartender...

[@anonymousnearseattle2788]

There's no correlation between occupation and severity of divorce. And let's not mislead anyone. The divorce laws are roughly the same across the US. They're all no-fault laws, and the subtleties between states are practically meaningless. Additionally, it really doesn't matter how many partners your wife previously had. Even if she was a virgin at 18 when you met her, you may still have the world's nastiest divorce a decade later when she decides to leave you for no fault of yours. Because that is the key: it is the awful laws that allow (and encourage) any woman, for any reason (i.e. no reason), to leave you. Laws in the US reward women for destroying their families.

[@Doxansq]

Exactly, I mean so many stuff is taken out of context

[@your.dark.lord.]

And that, gentlemen, is the bottom line. Incentives . That's how you run a herd.

[@SeattlePioneer]

If you can get a divorce at any time, for any reason or no reason at all, hasn't marriage been effectively abolished? Personally, I made a decision against marriage and children in 1969, at age 19. Just not worth the risk of social and financial disaster.

[@lucmalafarina1807]

That is they key takeaway. If the party that files for divorce had a penalty to pay, you can be sure women would not divorce for frivolous reasons. Feminism's accomplishments: right to vote for women, no-fault divorce, sexual revolution, equity, etc. The result is the total breakdown of families and society. All that was done with the consent from cowardly men who did not have the courage to oppose it with all their might.

[@Cahluvca]

💯

[@4SmackDab]

Thanks for the excellent information. You gave some great info that is new to me.

[@anthonysmith7913]

God Bless you, Richard, for you helpful tips.

[@Mattracine_1611]

The boredom of being a stay at home mom can be fixed by homeschooling her kids. You shouldn’t be sending your kids up to the government to be brainwashed for eight hours a day.

[@davepazz580]

Exactly... a stay-at-home mom *should* be educating her kids and not sending them to school.

[@northernrebel1402]

And if they really wanna make money while staying home, then they can maybe start a catering business or a knitting business. Anything that doesn’t require interaction with other men.

[@jamesblum7420]

True! But it doesn't change the fact that stay at home moms initiate divorce. Trust me. I know!

[@twsd]

Homeschooling a child isn’t as easy as one might think. It takes two highly motivated individuals to be successful. Bored individuals usually aren’t highly motivated.

[@Mattracine_1611]

@@twsd my wife does it just fine

[@johnward4310]

You are so right about line 3. My neighbor and his son were raked over the hot coals by one. The Judge even refused to recuse himself because they worked for the same law firm. Six lawyers later he is finally getting his fair shake and his ex is now getting her just comeuppances' and may now finally back off, giving him full custody and child support.

[@derekaldrich2853]

Exactly what happened to me and I couldn't agree more with this video!

[@robertsquared2916]

I’m married to a nurse 9 years… so far so good. I also work in a school as a security guard, lots of teachers getting divorced.. I don’t know why.

[@dac8939]

Surprised a nurse marry a security guard

[@randolphtolbert3825]

@@dac8939 He’s got a big nightstick

[@ShelmireJ]

9 years lol... You just getting started. Come back at 20 when the honeymoon goes away.

[@dac8939]

@@ShelmireJ he will be broke then as she works out how much she can get from him.

[@ShelmireJ]

@@dac8939 Don't get me wrong I wish him the best. I have learned in life people change over time . So will he, I'm just his future self talking focus on yourself put God in your life and hang with people you want to be like. And that have have good relationship you would like to have. Much love...

[@reality-always-wins.9014]

Avoid Nurses Gentlemen.

[@drip369]

For dating, yes. I like opening up my shower for them if they wanna unwind and have fun before going home 🤣

[@reality-always-wins.9014]

@@drip369 lol i get you. they cheat alot in hospital with different doctors and most of them became nurses simply because they wanna trap beta doctors.

[@oemj7147]

Second that.

[@townbythetown]

Why? Genuine question

[@oemj7147]

@@townbythetown Just scroll trough the comment section and you will get your answers. If you are married to a healthcare worker be vigilant.

[@nightmind919]

God bless this man. Exposing these selfish family-killers with the loyalty of a female fox.

[@david.diaz.r]

Thank you for your content, please dont stop. Good day sir

[@haksaw76]

Good video. So true. Thanks

[@MrSweetaz]

I don't think it's the stay-at-home mom per se. Talking to both my doctor and my lawyer about my situation (who both had it happen to them), they both reinforced the hypergamy theory. In effect, ALL women are like hand grenades with the pin drawn, and it's only a matter of time before it drops out of their hands and explodes. They ALL seem to lose their friggin minds at some stage and almost all of them end up regretting it. My advice is to not get married, don't become co-dependent on a woman, and enjoy your life doing every kind of shit you ever dreamed about be it surfing, sailing, scuba diving, or spinning plates. At the end of the day, you wouldn't buy a cow when you need some milk so apply the same theory to women and sex.

[@vaniad555]

Let's apply the same to women, the happiest days of my life when I can do what I love and don't have to take care of another. The perfect scenario for a lifetime, isn't it? How long it will take for humans to cease to exist?

[@andrewcarlson2178]

My female divorce lawyer told me that in her experience if a woman is going to flip out and go crazy on you it's between 30 and 36

[@user-qb7ms6vs7s]

@@andrewcarlson2178 mine went nuts at 36

[@steveredstone1711]

@@andrewcarlson2178 Keeping them very busy seems a must.

[@oliverjodi9108]

Dude youre almost at 1m SUBS as a local toronto dude thats hella impressive, rich. Been watching your content for years and you keep it real as it gets. Keep going, btw youre looking massive Gigachad.

[@gold707786]

bigger audience than the Toronto Argonauts attendance over the last 15 years combined

[@CFChristian]

I appreciate you offering solutions instead of just memes or ridicule.

[@jef9688]

Great info for the younger guys out there. Wish you were around when I was in my 20s.

[@blakecheboygan]

My lawyer said nurses because they don’t do anything for hours and just sit around and bitch about their average to great husbands. She went further and said she has had several groups of female nurses come in for a consult on divorce. They came in like a divorce groupon 🤣

[@mrjon75]

The hive-mind.

[@JoyofBooking]

No, they do everything at work, while their coworkers sit around doing nothing, that's what they all say 😂

[@Tamar-sz8ox]

I don’t know any nurses sitting around ? Where do they work ?

[@map218]

Nurses sitting around for hours? Whatever

[@Tuturro7]

THIS GUY SAVING GENERATIONS 🔥🔥🔥

[@xxx-kl3rl]

Not only that, he has a cool beard too!

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

Thx for coaching , never stop learning , as daily basis , right mentors always on internet ! Live one life entrepreneur lifestyle

[@Chris-um3se]

THANKS for this SEGMENT its ABSOLUTELY insightful.