Godly Relationship Q&A | How to express interest, long distance dating advice, setting boundaries

In today's video Cory and I are chatting all about Godly relationships! We discuss how to express interest without pursuing, long distance dating advice, how to prepare for your next relationship and more! If you enjoy this content please be sure to like, comment & subscribe!
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[@LindsayAmelia]

My church offers pre-marital counseling. It wasn’t only about preparing you for marriage. It was to help you decide if you should even get married; if you’re evenly yoked. It saved me from getting engaged to the wrong man a couple of years ago. 10/10 highly recommend.

[@_RandomAsmr]

That's awesome! My church does the same thing. We also have spiritual mentors that we can get advice from in this area. Dating is really the time to see if this is someone that you can see as your husband.Marriage counselling allows for us to talk through those deeper things to really get to the heart of compatibility and just really exposes our heart.

[@unbelaneablebeautyy]

Wow! You just taught me something. I thought a prerequisite to pre-marital counseling was that the couple IS engaged. Now I see that it’s not. Glad that worked out for you. What a blessing

[@charismaable725]

This is awesome.... Where can i get this pre-marital counseling on you tube channel...... Thanks

[@godsgirl7201]

❤❤❤

[@lelamaciolek1166]

I’m think it’s a good idea too. I told my daughter that I wanted her to do that if she got engaged. Her and her boyfriend didn’t think they had any use for it, but ended up going and she is glad they did. There are all kinds of weird or just different expectations people can have.

[@aleciavasquez3677]

“Instead of worrying about what people will think of you, worry about what GOD will think of you.” Of that was real.

[@chinazoucheaga4825]

"You can attract the right guy in the wrong type of way" That statement nearly took my edges out 😄😄😄😄😄. You two always bring it with the godly advice on dating. Never gets old! Love it!

[@TheParentCounselor]

Oh my my. When he said what nature you appeal to is the nature you'll receive and even went so far to say if his wife had appealed in a different way he MiGHT have moved differently... 😳We need this kind of honest preparatory counsel in the kingdom!! Thank you. Great Content and Truthful Share.

[@freshiamurungi7708]

Am 20 and I always pray for a Godly relationship ,,this video has made me to keep praying and not to settle for less

[@Berily123]

😂😂I'm 20 too and I'm waiting too At the right time our FATHER WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN..

[@rejoycesuniverse7009]

@@Berily123 20 here too, waiting, preparing and praying for same th😂❤

[@Berily123]

@@rejoycesuniverse7009 😂😂

[@akinmoladunoluwanifemi8622]

20 too and praying and waiting

[@luvv_amaka]

Almost 20 here (in less than 2 months), also praying and waiting ❤

[@calebkisakye3003]

I never knew that long distance relationships had that advantage of focusing on yourself and God . Many people told me it's risky, you can start seeing other people and falling for them, very easy to get heart broken. Like basically, they were only talking about the cons and not the pros. I didn't know there was a pro/pros to it

[@melaniefuentes7429]

There's a lot of pros to long distance!

[@jayoncummings3419]

Thank you for this!

[@conolivia]

Out here being 18 and listening to this lovely couple’s advice😭 glad your video came up to my recommendations

[@SilentPotato1234]

Im 16 ❤️ 🙌 great video

[@jusdoinmari]

I’m 19 lol

[@Jasmyne444]

There was so much wisdom in this…too much really! I really appreciate that you guys did not “romanticize” dating, but shared real honest biblical advice. It kind of makes me take the rose-colored glasses off of the process of dating and meeting the “one”. So much wisdom!

[@LeahsEssence]

Thanks for stopping by!🖤🖤🖤

[@Prophetessrina1]

Your so welcome sis!!

[@jordartb.3571]

Hey sis 👋🏽 thanks so much for this video. God really inspired this, I NEEDED THIS TALK, He has been revealing a lot of these things to me in my current journey. I appreciate you both and the light you bring to this world.

[@amaraiheanacho7179]

You are so fine

[@QueenZsWorld]

this popped up on my recommended today, first video I'm seeing from y'all. the best advice I can give is, ask God! how do you show interest? ask God and He'll instruct you. how do you maintain a God honouring relationship, ask God! in ALL YOUR WAYS ACKNOWLEDGE HIM and HE WILL direct your path ❤ thanks for sharing! God bless

[@aliceriley1173]

I'm a 65 year old great grand mother, I'm so proud of the content I see on your channel. Thank you for shing the light for Jesus. I just stumbled upon you today and I subscribed right away. God bless you!❤️🇹🇹

[@anikasamuel3945]

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[@elioracoker7446]

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[@50shadesofshazy24]

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[@Cc2971]

I'm glad that Cory said that a man has a sinful nature and a Godly nature. The nature that you appeal to will be the nature you get. So, that is why it is so important to dress modest and discipline yourself as a Christian (woman) and to stay in your lane when it comes to temptation. It is so real and it will mess up a potential relationship because then the man will get what he wants from you and flee and you (as the woman) will end up hurt. Unfortunately said but so true. We still deal with flesh and blood at the end of the day and we have to guard our hearts until marriage. I'm glad a man such as Cory touched on this topic so well. Thank you for this.

[@iammilorex]

20:38 "If you aren't living a live that needs the Holy Spirit to empower you, you're not living a Godly life. You're living a Christian-themed life at best." POWERFUL! 😅 Whew. What a blessing you guys are. "God needs to be invited into the relationship." Wow. Needed this ❤

[@ZoeysMusings]

Singleness is a gift that not many possess and I'm one of those who do not possess this gift 😂Yessss let men pursue us as women and lead. "The bait you use will impact the fish you catch." Preach Brother Cory for the ones in the back 🔊🗣️🙋🏽‍♀️Boundaries are so important for a long-term relationship to flourish. Amen, Leah to inviting God into your relationship. You need to intentionally do so to benefit from His goodness. So true about speaking about being a Christian during the first conversation because it's supposed to be a part of your identity. Thank you for this sage advice, Leah and Cory!

[@LeahsEssence]

You’re welcome! & Thank YOU for always tuning in & watching!🙏🏾🫶🏾

[@angelinahoyos9926]

Love how Leah mentioned how the being super forward in the past was not always fruitful (I felt that!) and her journey on how it changed how she reacted to similar situations later on. I really enjoyed being able to hear both perspectives on the same topics too!

[@torriclark6860]

I’m proud of you two. Keep providing Godly advice!

[@LeahsEssence]

Thanks mama!☺️🫶🏾

[@michellegreen4230]

Thank you for sharing man & woman of God! This is truly full of knowledge, understanding & wisdom. May your ministry continue to be blessed. Amen!

[@blandinea2501]

I love you both. Please keep sharing and spreading Gods love. Most of us singles wanting Godly marriages need this. I turn 29 October 1st and I am still a virgin because my body is the temple of the Holy Spirit and I am waiting for marriage( Gods yes for for my life). I used to believe that once a guy is a Christian I don’t have to spell it out to you the reason we have to wait until marriage to have sex but I was shocked. As Corey said, it’s sad. But I came to realize that setting boundaries at the beginning helps a lot. The beauty about God is that His plans are always the best. And His timing is perfect. So patience is key.

[@ForMySoulSistas]

@11:40 You can catch the right man in the wrong version @20:20 it's not because you're both Christians that you are in a godly relationship it gotta be intentional and Spirit lead Those were deep 💯 I'm 31 and been celibate since 2016 I tell that right away so as I don't waste any body's time and I defo wanna do premarital counseling Very good questions and video 👍🏾

[@Mamo_Modise]

It's the fact that I sent that 1st question on your ig and thank you so much for answering it and the advice !! Love you guys ❤❤😍

[@lolla2710]

"Missing the purpose of the current season " Y'know Adam was out doing his job and not begging God for his SO🤣He was busy doing the job God gave him. GOD was the one to say "Hey, you're a little lonely, you need someone." My goal is to focus on doing the jobs God gives me and be so focused that God has to be the one who tells me "Hey! It's time! Here is someone I meant for you!"

[@tonettewilkes13]

It’s so refreshing to see a true man of God of our generation. It is a blessing to hear him speak with so much wisdom and clarity. You can tell that his words come from a place of spiritual maturity, confidence and passion to seek God first in every single thing he does. God bless!! Please continue to share content. I appreciated the wisdom here!

[@nderituVc111]

I am grateful for a Godly relationship. I am grateful for my marriage. I am grateful that I got married to my best friend. I am grateful that I have three health beautiful and handsome kids while still in my twenties. I wish happiness and contentment on every marriage.

[@toplobster1040]

"If you're living a life that doesn't need God's holy spirit to empower you, then you're not living a godly life." Wow! What a truth bomb. I thought this would be basic but you guys truly care about honoring God. ❤

[@shescultivating]

I really like the advice about the long distance dating. The other questions were good too. Gets me thinking about potential stumbling blocks I haven't thought about.

[@_RandomAsmr]

I had two long distance relationships and it had its ups and downs. One pro was that we had the opportunity to just focus on each others' heart.We weren't distracted by the looks, or if his breath smelled that day or all the superficial things we can focus on.The con was that we didn't get to see each other in our natural elements as much so when we did see each other it was always full of revelations and not all were encouraging. :>

[@hope-bg4wh]

I am 21 and this yt channel is a blessing. New subscriber here I love ur channel honestly it brought me closer to God 😭

[@lelamaciolek1166]

I love how you shared about drawing back and leaving room for him to take initiative and how he took it!

[@hopeolivia590]

yyesss this is sooo good thanks for sharing xx - you can tell people will honour people in your relationship if they honour God in their life this is KEY they should be walking it out long before you come along🙌🏽❤❤

[@taiyeowu3361]

I love you guys! Not everyone who identify as a Christian lives as one. Christianity is not lived on ones terms, but on the terms of the one who purchased us with His blood. Your Christian life should be evident.

[@ceevi1]

Thank you for this video. I agree with discussing boundaries on day 1. It's something I'm doing and sometimes guys think when I say I'm a Christian it just means I go to church. I have to break it down for them so they can run for the hills or stay.

[@christabelkuokorkotey7407]

Please let's have Cory more times on the channel . So much Wisdom from you two. God bless you . Much love 🥰

[@KheperMAAT]

Your husband is very spiritually mature. Continue to follow his lead remaining grounded in bibical principles.

[@catherineidenyi783]

And he's so handsome. Thank God for men like him.

[@tusiimegift]

Hallelujah 🎉🎉🎉 Glory to God.

[@zariahpatience3486]

loveee everything about this video PTMH for your godly union 🙌🏽

[@Leah_spears]

This video is super interesting. Great advice and y’all did a great job explaining everything .

[@ndiamartin7274]

So real and so raw. Great advice, thank you for letting God use you and your marriage for his glory. God bless your union.

[@markita.hardenhome]

"Christian themed life"😅😂...... that's sooooooo good! There's a difference when we're intentional😊

[@ariari1641]

Thank you!! God led me here today. He reeled me in with your fashion and hair videos lol, but this is what I truly need. This was so refreshing and insightful. This wisdom is helping to lead me in the right direction as far as getting back out there and choosing to date in a way that honors God and me. This gave me hope. "Relying on God to help you maintain your standards" was a MAJOR 🔑 🗝!! Blessings to you two. You have a new sub here!🙋🏾‍♀️💓

[@stephanieofoegbu]

As usual, loved the truly godly perspectives and counsel, thank you Cory and Leah♥

[@LeahsEssence]

You're so welcome! Thank you for watching🖤

[@candacedawn357]

I love the cozy background. As a woman who was born and raised in The Catholic Church, there are people who are and have been called to the "religious life" or a religious vocation which meant they stayed single, whether they felt called to become a priest, brother or religious sister (nun). I found a life of serving others as a nun to be attractive, but I didn't go that route because I knew that I couldn't be a nun and be married and I've always wanted to be a wife and have a husband.

[@ceeinuc]

this did not even feel like almost 30 minutes it was just so good 😦😦 like … i very much needed this to remind me why i even want to be in a relationship, a God-honoring one !!!!

[@Ivylaismusic]

Your husband is very handsome and you are beautiful and you believe in Jesus, gosh, you are blessed!

[@aliciagarcia9379]

I really needed to hear this! Thank you so much. I will keep waiting for that godly man. I know that’s what God wants for me. Stay blessed

[@luyandahlatshwako]

You restore my faith in Godly relationships..I love you! God bless you ❤

[@temiloluwafolayan33]

Wow! You guys did justice to those questions. Thank God for you both, and God keeps upholding you.

[@araellaverse]

"you can attract the right guy but the wrong version" now thaaaat hit

[@cherishu]

I just love you both. Thank you so much for these types of videos. Much needed. ❤

[@comfort_nelson]

You guys have landed a new addict/fan! The way I will binge watch your contents ehn... like, I would watch and watch on repeat. If you are ever looking for your videos on KZbin, I'm the one who watched it excessively until it deleted itself, sorry in advance. This is absolute goals! You guys just stirred my faith up a notch higher, it's godly relationship or nothing else will do honestly!

[@aylex1974]

Is good to see young people with this mindset

[@Karlisa]

I love everything about this! It was so insightful. Thank you for being a couple willing to stand boldly on your beliefs and helping others to pursue relationships that honor God!

[@12Messenger]

How to express interest as guy- just say something to her. For me, seeing my gf for the first time was on a Thursday out walking i got nervous but i went over talked to her and we flowed. After 30 mins talking with her i told her i would like for her to be my gf etc said i would take care of her do her right and afterwards i got her some food(i took the chance) she said yes. 2 strangers who had less than hour conversation are still together 1 year and 3 months later and her interest in me is the same as the first week we were together, i still love her. How much more for you the reader? I'm not saying it'll happen the same way but take a chance. 💍 👸 🤴

[@12Messenger]

To elaborate on woman pursuing man. If she's your gf this is normal thing especially she's interested in you and want to spend more time. My job requires a lot of detail and time so it shifts the dynamic. I pursued my gf and when she found out how much time my job takes up she understands. She comes to my job sometimes and will go out for my lunch break

[@catherineidenyi783]

You guys are really great. I like it when a guy speaks out.

[@eyethumfazwe]

Thank you for sharing such wisdom. The advice will come handy especially as I wait for the man God has for me. God bless you

[@sarfycrave4760]

You two are both so beautiful. Thank you for blessing us with this. I really needed this. Waiting till marriage and it is not easy. Now I'm encouraged to continue on course as the King prepares to bless me with my king. Shalom🙏🏾

[@sabinefrancois9709]

That was great! I’m glad you brought Cory on to offer the perspective of a godly man, as well.

[@daughteroftheking3220]

My favorite Godly couple. May God bless you even more!

[@AshleyT716]

Great video! Beautiful couple. May God bless continue to bless everyone reading this.

[@nolwazimnguni4429]

Thank you so much for this video Leah, learnt so much 🙏🏽💗

[@winniewawira]

Completely blessed by this. We all need such solid truth.

[@Prophetessrina1]

This is an absolutely amazing message that your sharing on today and so true about Godly relationships, you must have the holy spirit to lead in every area your life, so guys this is great keep letting God use you in this way, and how ever he wants to use you!! Blessings to you both!!

[@LeahsEssence]

Thank you so much! 🙏🏾

[@theparttimehomemaker]

This is GREAT advice for single and engaged Christians. I wish I found this years back!

[@lakiascott5349]

Thank y’all for this! I really appreciate it guys! I’m going to rewatch this 😅

[@FernGray]

This hit the nail on the head.. thank you! 🙏

[@ibukunoyinloye194]

i love what you said about being intentional about honoring God in the relationship and not just identifying as Christians thinking that is the definition of a Godly relationship but choosing to be intentional about God being at the center, also setting boundaries and mentioning it on the first day.

[@kawiekumda2272]

❤thank you both for taking the time to do this video!! May His blessings continue to overflow in y’all’s marriage!!

[@Shardsade]

Loved this! God bless I nearly settled

[@KimsCreations12]

Ya, correct. Easy to make decisions on what to do but difficult to maintain it when you meet someone you love. Thank you.

[@just__nimo]

this was so good! i wish you guys had a podcast. *hint! hint!

[@MariahCampbell]

Thank yall so much for this video! So inspiring and definitely needed. Love you guys!

[@shawnaguthrie9552]

I like how the two of you talk amen

[@augustinaogbodo2886]

You both inspire me...#Godly relationship all the way#

[@poppymatheus3403]

“ God honoring relationship “ wow ! ❤️

[@Mehggiee]

Thank you sweet HOLYSPIRIT for bringing this my way.🥺 God bless and keep you Cory and Leah❤️

[@fraysboateng7563]

Loved this. Y'all should have a podcast!

[@LeahsEssence]

Ooh that’s a good suggestion!

[@daughteroftheking3220]

Yes to this

[@nathaliavlogs]

Amazing video! Thank you for sharing this awesome tips and life experiences

[@toplobster1040]

Both of you are so well spoken! I need to work on my speech so that I can attract a smart man like you did

[@ShermekaG]

Thank you both for this amazing advice. Amen

[@IdaraJoy]

This encouraged me 100% 💓 I love how much value there is in this discussion based on scripture. And the balance of directness and grace is beautiful!

[@ladyt8631]

Thank you for sharing! Deff needed this message. God bless y'all !

[@charityzinyuku6923]

Loved this you guys! Stay blessed and may the Lord continue keeping you😊

[@PeninaMukora2097]

I just bumped on you guyz,and I love how you saying it,

[@bilenmusic]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us ❤

[@Bukunmi.]

Leah! I decided to rewatch some of your financial advice videos this morning, only to find out that we've reached 80k subscribers! 🥳 I'm super pumped for you! Congratulations Leah! ❤️

[@LeahsEssence]

Thank you!! I noticed this morning too and was also excited! God is so good🖤🖤🖤

[@samanthagraciam]

such a blessed sharing full of wisdom! Randomly found your channel (this is the first video I watch) & I already love you guys’ hearts for the Lord and His godly people! Truly appreciate your encouragements for our family in Christ!😊🌻

[@_RandomAsmr]

It's great to see someone date righteously and then make it to marriage the right way.

[@rodlynehope]

Thanks so much for the wisdom, this was extremely helpful in allowing me to be a bit more open with God about seeking a holy relationship with a man. Again, thanks so much 😊.

[@leonardowor110]

Madame you are really blessed to have a good godly man as your husband.

[@tonettewilkes13]

His first answer alone 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@AshleyMadalyn]

Just found you on KZbin, such great content!

[@LeahsEssence]

Thanks so much! I really try to put out quality over quantity💗

[@AshleyMadalyn]

@@LeahsEssence I love that, especially in a world where we have so many “ christian influencers” who pour out a plethora of trendy inorganic, main stream media nonsense just to be relatable, it’s great to see you putting the time & effort to make meaningful life changing content 🤞🏾🫶🏾💗

[@jrareising5344]

Proverbs 3:5-6 Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight. Setting standards, being bold and unapologetic to the world man. Great advice!!

[@pre-EngineersAssemble]

This was so good!

[@kasiahayden7967]

Wish there was a way to like this video 100 times

[@slaywithspea5037]

Instead of saying I’m a Christian I say I’m a born again Christian or believer because most people are Christians but only few are Christ like There are some Christians who believes that God hate sin but don’t believe premarital sex is a sin 🤷🏾‍♀️ As for the last question I completely agree with you both 💯%, as we’re getting to know each other on that first date I’m telling you straight up I AM A BORN AGAIN BELIEVER and I do not indulge in premarital sex Period. Love your content ❤ well done 👍

[@jakedraper9101]

Thank God finally u guys talking about the Lord cus most of the people thinking about the lust god bless you

[@dorcaso1619]

1 Cor 6:18-20 Flee from sexual immorality I agree with all said. Very encouraging to hear

[@leonnaemeka1795]

Wow, I just bumped into you guys from nowhere, and I know it was God leading me to this amazing advices and tips from you guys on dating and relationship. As a single guy who honours God and waiting on God for the right one (spouse) and who desires a Godly relationship, this was all I needed. ♥️🙏🏽 Thank you Corey and Leah, you guys are so handsome and beautiful 😘❤️ God bless you guys for dropping this jewels. I really resonate with it on a 💯. Going to follow you guys page right away. Much Love ❤️❤️❤️

[@robertamedia1232]

You guys look exactly alike 😮 like siblings. Thank you for this ♥️

[@susankimani4490]

I just love you guys! Thank you for teaching us about Godly relationship s.

[@LeahsEssence]

We love you too! Thank you for being open to hearing our perspectives🫶🏾

[@mybeautylife3]

Thank you for this video, it was very helpful and encouraging. Glad to see you uploading again. God bless.

[@LeahsEssence]

I am glad you found this video to be encouraging and helpful! Thanks for tuning in🖤

[@sinothandosirunu]

New here😊 I enjoyed this. I absolutely love hearing from Christian couples❤️

[@Bee_351]

I love you guys!❤ such a Godly couple ❤❤❤

[@LeahsEssence]

we love you too girlie🖤

[@anyaanderson1473]

This is sooo good 👏

[@karina.celestine]

So many good nuggets from this video. Thanks, guys! 😌

[@LeahsEssence]

Yay! I’m glad you enjoyed the video Karina☺️

[@glorymwangi77]

This was soooooo helpful. I could relate to quite a lot of what you were talking about. I feel so encouraged and this has given me some tips to apply and answers to some of the things I've been struggling with. God bless you Leah and Cory and may He continue to use you for His glory more and more 🙌🏼 Definitely sharing this widely

[@imblessedstone4849]

Hi I miss seeing you It has been a while thank you for sharing this video have a blessed day