Learn The MOST IMPORTANT Skills To Be SUCCESSFUL In The 21st Century | Ray Dalio & Jay Shetty

Today, I am talking to a returning guest and good friend, Ray Dalio. Ray is the founder and co-chairman of Bridgewater Associates, which, over the last forty years, has become the largest and best performing hedge fund in the world. He is the author of #1 New York Times Bestseller and #1 Amazon Business Book of the Year, Principles. Dalio has appeared on the Time 100 list of the most influential people in the world as well as the Bloomberg Markets list of the 50 most influential people. He lives with his family in Connecticut.
Ray genuinely shares the deepness of thoughts and what is his views on passing on your principles to others and picking up theirs and learn from it, the unappreciated value of journaling, knowing the right approach to having better relationships through thoughtful disagreements, the lessons we can learn from history, and the three things that mainly influence us and our society. We also exchange thoughts on asking approval and validation from others, how we react to others out of our emotional state, and how we can be of service to the world.
What We Discuss:
00:00:00 Intro
00:03:00 The first time you fear meeting someone
00:04:17 How did you develop clarity?
00:08:13 The smartness of your move determines the outcome
00:10:55 When did you start journaling?
00:18:19 The arc of life
00:21:08 The three people you must have in your life
00:25:12 The biggest problem of our society
00:29:50 How to win the debate of life
00:32:20 Looking at the sequence of discovering the truth
00:38:03 Three big things that influence us
00:47:00 The typical cycle for a new system
00:49:16 It’s more human nature than the system
00:57:26 Producing a reaction that becomes instinctual
01:03:36 Four important decisions we make in life
01:10:25 How do you approach money?
01:14:27 Don’t worry so much about the approval of others
01:20:27 Three practices of successful relationships
01:25:08 How do we serve the world?
01:27:56 What’s your view of love?

[@LoretoEsTorres]

12:56 One of the keys of Ray Dalio’s success: A culture dedicated to having “meaningful work and meaningful relationships through radical truthfulness and radical transparency.”

[@youngandprofitingpodcast]

49:36 "If you worry, you will take care not to do what you're worrying about. If you don't worry about it, you'll probably going do it." This is a powerful reminder to everyone! 💯

[@michelemarch2562]

Definitely Need this

[@vaibhavvjoshii]

00:00:00 Intro 00:03:00 The first time you fear meeting someone 00:04:17 How did you develop clarity? 00:08:13 The smartness of your move determines the outcome 00:10:55 When did you start journaling? 00:18:19 The arc of life 00:21:08 The three people you must have in your life 00:25:12 The biggest problem of our society 00:29:50 How to win the debate of life 00:32:20 Looking at the sequence of discovering the truth 00:38:03 Three big things that influence us 00:47:00 The typical cycle for a new system 00:49:16 It's more human nature than the system 00:57:26 Producing a reaction that becomes instinctual 01:03:36 Four important decisions we make in life 01:10:25 How do you approach money? 01:14:27 Don't worry so much about the approval of others 01:20:27 Three practices of successful relationships 01:25:08 How do we serve the world? 01:27:56 What's your view of love?

[@dingling2645]

Wow, you really index it well. It's like a pause in between so that I can really have a moment checking myself on how well I know the topic. Thank you so much. Love it.

[@rekt1v1]

thankyouu!

[@rishisharma7106]

1:06:30, really loved this part. About how the lack of purpose create envy.

[@kharyhopffervarela2970]

Wow, what a great podcast! I just love you Jay. I love what you do for all of us. It is simply beautiful and everything I want to do with my life as well. May your mind and heart always be blessed with an abundance of love and wisdom.

[@bishalpaul79701]

Day by day this conversations are making me fell good and I am learning a lot of thinks. Thanks you Shetty Sir! for making such kind of podcasts for us it this conversations and understanding others life's experience means a lot.

[@nivita9830]

Major love and respect for Ray Dalio - one of the OGs in the world of investing and comes off as such a lovely, genuine human being.

[@mabisgarcia3087]

❤ great conversation. So thankful for this episode 🎉

[@alishainc]

every podcast episode is amazing but something abou this one is extra special

[@organizer14]

Fabulous contributions!!!

[@hobessie9232]

I decide how do I feel about myself Thank you for this fantastic conversation. It is very encouraging and inspriring.

[@evelynramos445]

Approvals concepts is amazing! "Who you pick as life-partner?" Major!

[@90cdills]

Phenomenal show! The flow was inspiring, as are both of you. Beyond excited for this new development of "principles dictionary." Please keep going Jay! You've been my arrow to my bullseye.

[@victoriabaker444]

Good at CREATING our lives, that’s NOT controlling our lives ✨ You can’t be hijacked by your emotions!!! Wow, Wow, Wow! I so ♥️ that! Absolutely Beautiful!! Journaling, favourite daily ritual!! Freeing the constant chatter from my mind. Completely “180” changed my life!!! Yessssss!💫🌟💫 Thank-you ❣️

[@hrudairoshan]

Every statement gave me a deep insight that I had to pause and watch it slowly.

[@organizer14]

Awesome interview!!! Very helpful insights!❤

[@dac8939]

Smart guy to market his products. Ray is a king and a billionaire

[@evelynramos445]

Great jazzing, bringing up thought process and bridging.

[@laylurh]

This was definitely one of my favs. Thank you for this Jay & Ray!

[@JackDaws0n]

Mr dalio is that guy when it comes to the truth. reading his books rn

[@edgarsuaste8076]

Muchas gracias por el gran contenido

[@johnstahrstartcleanfitwell1051]

Lol Jay, I was JUST watching your interview on Lewis Howe's show& this popped up on my FB thank you brother... 👍🏻🙏🏻 I think u will help me turn this chapter a the last several months man 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@Dineshbudhakalikot]

i am from nepal 🙌 your great man👌i love you bro❤❤

[@organizer14]

Jazz conversation !!!

[@ryanmuriithi6114]

The knowledge is invaluable !!!

[@pulockshilspeaks4664]

I am from Bangladesh but love u sir

[@francetamilponnou8898]

Thanks I like this great he has so many things to share

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[@lucaswilliam6452]

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[@Vedulce]

Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom!!! 💜💜💜 I am so grateful and inspired by both of your work!! 💚💚💚🌱🌈💗

[@kiefpief]

I truly enjoyed the humanity and humility in this interview. #RayAndJay

[@ramthian]

I still learning IT. Thanks 🙏

[@mukhitkazi]

Fantastic conversation

[@aminadavud]

I really like Ray's principles, especially having thoughtful disagreements. Ray is an inspiration and very generous to share his principles with wider world. Jay, thanks for the great interview.

[@mafeb]

Amazing, Love it , Thanks from Colombia :)

[@vusiluthuli406]

Thank you

[@tygerabdully6250]

Very insightful conversation that u can feel connected with in a very deeper level, thank u so much ray and jay for this, we really appreciate

[@jaybamaniya6571]

Amazing podcast 🔥

[@ayoubzzeghari6425]

Amazing thanks

[@missiourinevladimir6443]

Gob bless you Jay

[@evelynramos445]

Acts of love

[@nhorkansi270]

Thanks for this show channel

[@ramthian]

Now I have learned. 🙏

[@lorazick7966]

I don’t have to prove you wrong, to prove me right! Question: What does every home have? Answer: Foundation, ( spirit) everything else is walls, doors, ext. is a tool ( religion). We all have tools in our mental tool box, put we need have the foundation to use them.

[@michelemarch2562]

Meaning? Foundation, A higher power, " good roots" support, family, friends, significant other, etc? B/c all above BROKE down 4 me, along w/ my thriving Career & I was (am) a highly sought after, & respected pediatric nurse. Along w/ my only son far away in college,+ doesn't communicate with me, all this happened after my husband died, & I found him, and tried 2 CPR, & he just kept vomiting, Nothing worked! & Had 2 go back to work 5 days after the day I found him dead so that included you know burying him and making all the arrangements and getting everything ready and you know I was working like 7 days a week rarely six but and three of those days were double so it was just so hard and I think the fact that I didn't get to grieve the right way you know or with any help basically that it just messed me up and I can't now I have like 00 support is that what you mean or I'm just looking for help I'm so bad I just want to be better I just want to be better so bad guys what can I do??? Is that what u mean?m

[@lorazick7966]

@@michelemarch2562 Foundation is your gut feeling. It can be different for everyone. Mine is god whispers. I understand you are hanging on by a thread. Have you called phone number 988? It’s for mental health crisis. They can talk to you, come to you or give you you a safe place to regulate, ground yourself, or process. Giving you mental health first aide . Remind yourself, you are strong resilient. This moment is temporary and This too Shall Pass! You are not alone! I hear you, and see your Call For Help. If 988 doesn’t help let me know what city your in an I will help find you a group that will give you the support you need.

[@melissalopez3794]

@@michelemarch2562 Hey honey...you need to know that none of what's happening is within your control..okay You need to take control of your life from this moment forward..yep..no one can do anything for you except you Taking it before God and act in your best interests...listen to Dr.Joseph Murphy on KZbin You will be at ease...God is with you 🙏

[@alrah99]

Nice jumper Jay

[@kevindsigner]

I’ve searched for this book outside USA and people comment that the app doesn’t work out USA this is true? And why?

[@ap3008]

The most important thing to be succesful: have a healthy ego...

[@zane0292]

False

[@ap3008]

@@zane0292 How is it false?

[@zane0292]

It can help but not needed. In fact the best way to become successful is to transcend your ego

[@ap3008]

@@zane0292 I disagree with you...What i experienced is that, yes, in theory...trying to transcend an ego might benefit you, but in the rough reality, it does not work because the whole world functions based on ego...maybe you don't believe me. But have you experienced living constantly for a long period of time with someone who belittles and humiliates you? Your ego will be wounded no matter how much you say you can transcend it. The only way to escape that situation is to accept your ego and try to build a healthy one that sticks up for you, without hurting the other person - that is the healthy ego. Also, I think that as long as you have the awareness that you are a separate being from others - you have an ego - and an ego is a neutral thing. I think I may have avoidant personality disorder...denying my ego has hurt me in so many ways...personally and professionally. If you may believe me, I have had a hard time expressing myself because I denied and felt guilty that I even marked my existence (had an ego or a persona) I still find it hard if it's a live interaction.

[@zane0292]

@@ap3008 first transcend the ego, and then you can speak on if it works or not.

[@sainaceesay9282]

❤❤❤❤

[@cathyjennings5580]

Interesting Self-control. Self-control one's own EMOTIONS. SELF- Discipline, being RESPONSIBILE for self. Be accountable. Be mature REASONABLE, BE ADULT. BE INDUSTRIOUS. BE COURAGEOUS: FEARLESS, PANICLESS. BE DISCERNING. BE SHREWD, KEEN, SENSIBLE. BE INQUISITIVE, BE INQUISITIVE. Etc. Ask questions. Gather facts. Facts. Communicate better. 👍👍👍👍👍👍 ETC. Interesting information 🤔

[@niza_nizaya6303]

Top most interesting episode, very inspiring. I believe there should be more of these conversations around society, philosophy, politics on the podcast. It seems while mental health has become a very important topic of conversation we are not discussing enough about the future of our culture and how the two of them are kinda codependent. Because while culture is destiny we don't often reflect on what we are actively doing or not doing to forge a healthy or unhealthy culture.

[@YasinNabi]

Any business that can create value in the market will grow in any situation. a fellow creator

[@annevettestad8210]

I am not agere that is not about the Journey. To be able to learn from Journey is important

[@asmimaskey6921]

❣

[@pamelawoodsum8608]

So funny I watched your Podcast without my glasses on. I thought you had Tattoos all over your Arms Don't get me wrong I like tattoos. Thanks for your wonderful Podcast.

[@nathanleung5592]

Truly appreciate for sharing your wisdom! Truly grateful & inspired by both of your work! What’s in store on this podcast in 2023!?

[@chrissolugc]

32:36

[@yourvisiondraws746]

Bring J. Cole to the podcast

[@elizabethivy1337]

Does anyone know where the show notes are with the links to the different resources that were mentioned in the video? I'm not sure if I missed them somehow or if they simply haven't been posted yet.

[@michelemarch2562]

Did u Ever get an answer?

[@Elin-Esteem84]

At first I thought u got new sleeve tattoos, then I realized it was ur sweater, lmao.

[@user-vt7dw2ms9o]

going to the "school of Emology" sir, for solving the sources of death?

[@evelynramos445]

Major

[@yahyaqasem5639]

balling

[@evelynramos445]

2 + l can Jaz!

[@mirandaoliver5480]

It is real life oh ok then

[@ramthian]

🥰🙏

[@jihyelee7140]

Sounds like Reddit what ray Dalio is launching lol

[@pcellix]

Jay is always like 'we live in the society that... and I'm like this but the world is like this' come on dude there's a lot of amazing people in the current society, stop criticizing and maybe reflect on yourself, Ray has much more wisdom and believe in people than you, hopefully you have changed

[@neogeo8267]

Ikigai

[@ramthian]

Someone hacker in my phone 🙏😭

[@evelynramos445]

Improv

[@dewrimsirine]

you talk a lot and doesn't let your guess. I had to pause the video

[@jentorninos.ballen9269]

Hd ko pinag laruan Buhay ninyo hd ko sinira Buhay ninyo

[@acapulcoscebu449]

Come on Jay this is not a health and wellness podcast. All you do is push people's books. It's a joke.

[@ramdasshetty2856]

Galio is sharing so many important points helpful for better mental health. You have to educate yourself to understand both of them. Work on your immaturity

[@acapulcoscebu449]

@@ramdasshetty2856 oh a scathing reply from a Shetty. I am sure your comment will be good for my and others mental health. Who dare do make a valid educated comment against a family member of yours. Must be a family Buisness is it.