I was never a no person to anyone.but people starts insulting me.they thought iam always available for them.but they think they can say anything to me.anytime insult me.thank u very much.u make u feel that even we are human n even we have self respect
@rose452011 ай бұрын
Believe me I'm the same I thought I'm helping people being very kind but that destroyed me😢
@MR-pe9pv Жыл бұрын
Sharing your life experiences helps in empowering others. Feel so good to listen to you ❤️
@samreenrabbi5940 Жыл бұрын
Bilkul sahi kaha AP n Kash pehly mil jati ye tips sahi k Rahi h AP APNA Kam kra k log bhol jaty h k hm n samny waly ko APNA Kitna qeemti time dia h amazing tips
@saminas11 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely right actually few months ago i started being absent for few people in my family and that helped me lot ... i have destroyed my so many years but not now .. now i don't bother for this my husband is not so supportive for this nature but i dont care now...i enjoy my life with my 4 kids.....❤
@dimpyrose Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right. I learnt this very late through many bitter experiences in life. ❤
@usmanmian-6564 Жыл бұрын
Mam mery pass alfaz nai hain ap ki tareef k liye main kl sy ap ko dekhna start kiya pehly nai janti thi ap ko wo hota hai na k koi ap ki zindagi ko bdl dy wesy ho ap boht achi batyn krti ho himat wali main boht pareshan thi pr ap ki videos sy boht himat mili boht shukriya ap ka Allah ap ko khush rakhy abaad rakhy ameen
@Umihaleema Жыл бұрын
Zaberdast mujy us velog se bohat motivation mili hai mujy b log bohat buri tarah use ker lety haen even un k problem solve kerty kerty mera kubara ho jata hai i have no time for my children n me Thank you so much
@27shahidajamil Жыл бұрын
Very well said , lm also sufferer of that courtesy shit, where ppl disrespect you , hate you , manipulate you, it took decades to to stand for myself.
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
True
@eshalmalik9432 Жыл бұрын
Erum ap ki story bht maze ki thi acha bolti hyn aap bht useful bate hyn aap ki
@moonkhan12345 Жыл бұрын
Bilkulllll sahi kaha irum mery sath ye bohttttttt ho raha hai sooooo amazing tips . Allahpak ap ko bohtttttt khushyia atha farmaye love you irum sister ❤❤❤
@tahiramoughal5288 Жыл бұрын
I can never say no to anyone i put my self i in pressure and get stressed . You are wright nice vlog . I will learn to say no it's first time I seen your vlog .jazakallah khairan love from UK 🇬🇧
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙂
@haseenarashid8231 Жыл бұрын
Kuch din se AP k vlogs dekhny LGe hn..Masha Allah so positive volgs hty hn apk...Masha Allah❤
@VloggerSyedaFatima Жыл бұрын
Meri be kuch yehe khani h life ke Jo bateen Ami NY nhe btai wo aj ap sy seekh li jzak Allah Allah pak ap ko bht bht ajr dy ameen❤
@rose452011 ай бұрын
Indeed a very important topic to talk about
@maliknoman3768 Жыл бұрын
Salam. Masha Allah so nice.apki batain hmaray liay bht motivational hoty hain.Ap khud bht achi hain R apki batain to bht e zbrdst
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thx
@hanieilaf5261 Жыл бұрын
JazakAllah , very helpful topic , bilkul thek Apne Liya khud hi stand lyna parta hy ❤
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thx
@manahainoorwalipartySG123 Жыл бұрын
Der zabardast.ammi ta dua salam zama khpla moor neshta.Allah di ammi LA sehet wali ogad jund warki ameen
@achiibachii7546 Жыл бұрын
Sahi bat hai log boht behis hotey hain achey logon pr apni chalakiyan azamtey hain, "No" bolna seekh lena chahiye mene bhi apni life mein boht suffer kiya hai sirf 'No' na bolne ki waja se😢
@AMANpk795 Жыл бұрын
bilkul sahi baat ki hy apny family ko kesay control kerain yh bhe btain. like susrali relative
@memonagull408 Жыл бұрын
Your topics are always practical n interesting...may ALLAH PAK bless you alot...lots of love❤
@jyotikhichi1493 ай бұрын
Daily nasta time me apki video dekhti hu dil se....not down karti hu main points.. thank you
@herfablife3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙂
@SarahMirBaloch Жыл бұрын
The topic is worth watching really learned a lot from you. You are really a decent person and teach how to keep yourself safe from toxic people saying no in a decent way and yes have noticed the point of body language ❤ stay blessed
@cookwithme8085 Жыл бұрын
V.true... I noticed Ur bedroom furniture looks nice . MashaAllah
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@hayatkhan4046 Жыл бұрын
Thanks mam you are such a good person and so Pure
@akifshazia1968 Жыл бұрын
UR ABSOLUTELY RIGHT VERY NICE , KEEP IT UP
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Many many thanks
@Farhanatenginkeri Жыл бұрын
Wow so beautiful lines kya baat h mam❤❤ apki to fan hogai mai❤ log mrea bhut mis use kiya h❤❤ shukriya 🙏🙏
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Welcome
@sarahsachedina1555 Жыл бұрын
It's worthy to watch this video. Great lesson for lifetime. You do good work 💯
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@muhammadehsan7440 Жыл бұрын
Savour Food, I Think on ur table. Nice Sharing. apky bed ka print nice lagra ha summer print. apni ammi ko b layen vlog ma. mujy dakhny ka shook ha. Allah unko sehat vali zindgi dy, ameen
@junaidanwer3516 Жыл бұрын
Jee aapi me b asi hi the log hmari courtesy se najaiz faida uthate hen or hume carpet bna lete hen yes u r right k ap firmly no bolen or koi explanation b mat den i agree with u nice words Masha Allah Allah bless you amin
@asifahsohail79887 ай бұрын
1-Learn to say No to friends and family first 2-Be direct and firm 3-Avoid asking questions . Don't give leverage 4-Check your body language. It gives message to others 5-Keep it simple. No need to explain anything 6- Remind yourselves of your own importance
@ShumailaNaaz-k9x Жыл бұрын
Api main ap ki taqlif samjh sakti hun mere Sath be is tarh ke masle hote Hain 😂 main apki buht bari fan hun ❤❤🎉🎉🎉 big thanks 👍
@mariamazu8214 Жыл бұрын
Same like u I also couldn't say no...but after watching this I will do it next time
@ahmedshuja2866 Жыл бұрын
Bht h aala aapne mere dil ke bat khe kal se mei kehna chahte thi aap kch aisa sekhai mujhe mere made ne bht pareshan kia tha mei bhi usko kch bol nh skte thi magar mene bhi apne husband se share je bat usne bhi mujhe yahi kha no kehna sekho age uske marzi h kaam kri ya nh aaj mei bht relex feel kr rhe ho aaj moh phala ke kaam kr ke gye nh toh itna pareshan krte 2 ghnte tak bethi rehte ac ke samne.
@shafaqzia2568 Жыл бұрын
Bohut sarrrrriiiii dua,main is qadar hopeless,depress her waqt ghussa,sugar patient bun gye.laikin aap ki videos daikh kr khuch motivate hoye hun.atleast ub apney aap ko change krney ka soch rhi hun
@lubihassan-y6k Жыл бұрын
It's my first time given my comment iam watching your channel past few months really like your personality,as house wife see many good things as I like for myself balance life style
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙂
@handembroiderybysam Жыл бұрын
MashaAllah very nice sharing ❤
@rehanakhan9007 Жыл бұрын
You are right my sister ap k bolny ka Andaz is very nice
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@Minemaster1122 Жыл бұрын
First time i saw your vlog .the topic was so interesting and helpful.❤❤❤❤
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it!!
@jyotivingale6075 Жыл бұрын
Yes no bolana lesson for me Thankful i know already about it but Ecspariment karana ye sahi me bataya easy ho gaya mere liye🎉😊
@DishWish Жыл бұрын
Very good and helpful vlog, cause it’s so hard for me to say no 😊I need so much courage to apply these tips but I will definitely try thanks for sharing dear 😊💕
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@funchock--fz Жыл бұрын
Thanks aap Aap Ki bate mujhe bht achi lagi Isi chiz Ki Mai v shikar hu
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Change yourself
@romisart Жыл бұрын
No words no comments just alot of respect and love
@umasharma3693 Жыл бұрын
A few days back i got a chance to watch your video.I watched many videos of you one by one. I really liked your views which you share through your videos. Love from India ❤
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thanks and welcome
@farkhandasaeed206811 ай бұрын
Plz green dress Ka bta dn Kahan sy lia mjy bht Pasand Aya.....
@atikam-qt8kz Жыл бұрын
W.salam!Yes👍say no!is need some reason! But Impressive your speak!!love from india 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@malihanaz8288 Жыл бұрын
Asslamu alaikum api ..I am first..same things happened to me...I can't say no from long time
@iramshamsi2983 Жыл бұрын
Nice points bari achi bateye hai
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thx
@Mylovelyworld-x9u Жыл бұрын
Ek ek baat sachi h apki.. Muje lg rh h mere liye hi bnai h...
@ismatabbas3681 Жыл бұрын
Sahi kaha ap ny shadi k start mai ksi ko no Bolna boht mushkil lagta hy but after sometimes we can say easily No
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Yeah
@rodriguesfamilylifestyle1183 Жыл бұрын
Dear u have explained very well , I also suffered lot when I was teaching in school, love from India
@lifewithsabahat Жыл бұрын
Yes schools mei jb tak bolain nai ap pistay hain unfortunately
@x.x3513 Жыл бұрын
Mujay apka samjanay ka andaz achaa lagta h
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thanks a ton
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thx
@qaariazaheer6681 Жыл бұрын
U are amazing mam.... I started watching your videos few weeks ago... and I am in love... u r so energetic... motivated... mashallah...mashallah.... may Allah bless u always....
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙂
@maniigujjar9483 Жыл бұрын
Mashallaha nice sharing
@azkashahbaz7679 Жыл бұрын
Plz newly married girls k liye b videos bnain wo kesy adjust hon susral me r unwanted situation ko kesy handle karain....
@cookingtips2908 Жыл бұрын
وعلــــیکم اســـلام ورحمـتہ اللہ وبرکاتہ ماشاءاللہ ہمیشہ خوش رہیں ڈئیر سس اللہ پاک ہم سب کے لیے آسانیاں پیدا کریں آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین بہت اچھا ٹاپک تھا آج کا بھی
Veri good aapka jawab Nahin yahi sari problems mein face karti thi lekin aapse bahut kuchh sikha ab main aise hi karungi na bolna mere Liye bhi bahut mushki tha Meri sabse Badi mushkil HAL ho gai Allah Tala aapko bahut khush ra
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙂
@mehreenzafar-il7vy Жыл бұрын
Assalamoalaikum me and shadi forun bad SGD hi gui thi uni k ander hum log rehtay thay ,,, Kher me 3 sail huay new gher me shift Hui Hun, ap believe kren meri nebour me hain unk 4 bchay hain wo ek din me 12 ya 13 bar door knock krtay thay air baqaeda andr bedroom me aajatin,,,, me ne 3 bar unhe mnna kia but in vain,,, last time phir me ne much skhti se mna kia,,,, a believe kren mjhay lgta tha k me door or hi hun like a guard
@VloggerSyedaFatima Жыл бұрын
Ma Sha Allah sister ap ka Khana bht bht zbrdst lag rha h Allah ap ko or sab ko brqt dy.
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
jazakallah
@AFRIDI_GAMING302 Жыл бұрын
well done apne meri ankhain kuli ha thanks for sharing this topic
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Welcome
@MAplays-si8td Жыл бұрын
Excellent job sister. I have learn a lot from you ❤Thanks
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@muhtashim0823 Жыл бұрын
Thank u so much ap ne bht incarag kia main b ap ki trha no ni kar sakti.
@kamranslifestyle1286 Жыл бұрын
Assalam O Alaikum bhen mashallah may Allah bless you and your ✨️
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Jazakallah
@HamzaAbbas-b6r7 ай бұрын
Jazak Allah khier ❤
@mariashahzadi2565 Жыл бұрын
Jazakillah hu khaira Dear
@Hammadkhan-qp9si Жыл бұрын
Thanx AP se boht acha sekha q k mujy no kehna bilkul nhe Ata jis ki waja se Mera boht nuqsan hota rehta hai
@fatmakhan2927 Жыл бұрын
Such a wonderful topic and you explain so nicely thank you so much
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
My pleasure 😊
@maryamirfan8021 Жыл бұрын
Assalam o Alaikom irum m NY ap sy buhut Kuch seekha hy thnx for this topic I appreciate your videos topics thnx a lot and lot of prayers for you thnx
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
It's my pleasure
@shumamemon883 Жыл бұрын
Yes yes yes Meray hubby ke gaaree bht buray treekay say use hoe kuk hum no nh boltay thay😊
@samrina4322 Жыл бұрын
Assalmulakum dear ! Again one of beautiful topic “ NO” in briefly mentioned. ❤❤❤ say my Salam to your Mom 💖
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
W salam and jazakallah
@homefoodfunliving1092 Жыл бұрын
V.nice I watch first time ur vlog Good suggestions
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thanks and welcome
@sairabukhari2234 Жыл бұрын
Worth watching ❤
@RabiaJadoon-f7e Жыл бұрын
Aoa madam aap ney yeh bed sheet kahan se li hai?
@HamzaT537 Жыл бұрын
U are best queen for the women I really learn from u through this video❤❤
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Honoured
@ayeshaasad8169 Жыл бұрын
What a sweet relaxing start of another informative vlog
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Hope you enjoyed it!
@zoyaali9846 Жыл бұрын
Asalmoalikum erum api plz btahe k ap ne small cushion kis brand se buy kiye a❤
@auntiejamilla Жыл бұрын
Masha Allah beautiful sharing as always great vlog 🇬🇧💞💞
@littleangelkitchenvlogs1530 Жыл бұрын
I have this problem, i can't say no to any one but I will trying ❤❤thanks aapi I am from India
@Pro-game1234 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely right 👍
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thx
@goldensparrow8977 Жыл бұрын
I loved todays vlog please share more such a type of life experiences video we as a girl need to know because we have some toxic people around which disturb our routine
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
ive shared
@sobiaqureshi7278 Жыл бұрын
Good points
@arshia464 Жыл бұрын
Wow zbrdast❤
@MuhammadIbrahim-md6bt Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Ap ki tips ki sakht zarurat thi ...❤❤❤❤
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 🙂
@naziathakur1474 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much for explaining easy ways lots of love from🇮🇳
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
My pleasure 😊
@khanscontenthub4566 Жыл бұрын
I am new at you're channel and I watch your vlogs mostly.I learn alot
@Discover487 Жыл бұрын
Ap bedsheets kdr SA buy krtyn hn
@sheheryarshery Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing 😊
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
My pleasure 😊
@khanscontenthub4566 Жыл бұрын
I am from Sargodha..beautiful memories I have
@zikranaeem8416 Жыл бұрын
I am from Quetta abhi do teen vlogs dekhe he but this contant was amazing 🤩 best wishes for you
@waqasgul45383 ай бұрын
Apk dress ka colour bht pyara hy
@tabassumrazzaq7171 Жыл бұрын
Love u love u my power my confidence my strength all of u
@nishapmala3770 Жыл бұрын
I am so so happy that i got you thanks a lot maam.....
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Most welcome 😊
@Ashley-v9g7z Жыл бұрын
Well explained. Relating many points
@herfablife Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@Ashley-v9g7z Жыл бұрын
@@herfablife I was just thinking that u should make a vedio about kids aur app ki vedio aa gai.