Learning To Heal After Loss ✨🤍 | Important Lessons From Grief

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@ugotGod1 3 ай бұрын

I’ve been giving secretly all of my life now when PpL see me alone it’s as if they feel sorry for me. Lol😊 not understanding that it’s the alone time that’s the greatest gift given back to me of all. It’s because daily I remember how much I gave, I smile celebrating my life in silence and solitude, gracefully thanking God for the Air, the Nature, Space and the gift of Time to reminisce it all. It’s Magical. It’s Cost me nothing to help others but my Kindness and as a young person I somehow knew it’s Free to Give

@crystaltharrell 3 ай бұрын

@@ugotGod1 this is beautiful and you are so right! ✨ Often times we must fill up our own cup to be a more gracious giver to those in our life. For me, it became easier to give once I established boundaries and let go of my people pleasing tenancies. Now when I give, it’s from a place of overflow, understanding that God is the Infinite Source of it all 🤍

@StevenCodeCraft 4 ай бұрын

I’ve lost my dog, Grandma, and aunt. But thankfully I still have my parents. It’s hard to think that they aren’t here and their conscious experience has ended. It makes me realize how silly it is for me to have social anxiety and constant anxiousness when I’m still alive and full of possibilities I only have social anxiety because I’m a programmer and entrepreneur and work every single day and only talk to my family. Once I’m social for 20 minutes it goes away though I think a part of my anxiety and fear is that I’ll die without becoming successful and achieving my goal. So I constantly feel the need to work Anyway… Losing a parent is so much more grief because they are integral to our survival and guidance. You are a strong and beautiful person and full of light. KZbin is so competitive now but keep going and your message will continue to impact others.

@crystaltharrell 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this. I recently came to a similar realization. I realized that it made no since for me to feel anxious or insecure in public because no one really cares as much as we think they do. People are so consumed with their own lives that we project and think others obsess over our lives as much as we do. It's freeing to realize this, really. It gives you permission to be more of yourself and recognize when you are projecting in public. I used to feel the same way, but after I achieved the goals that I thought would bring me success, I realized quickly that those achievements were not the source of my happiness and well-being. I started to redefine what success meant for me (e.g., a calm mind, a peaceful spirit, autonomy, etc.), and everything changed. I started to find joy on my way to achieving my goals, which reduced my anxiety about reaching those goals. Yes, losing a parent at such a young age was beyond difficult and painful. But I found new strength to keep going once I started to focus on the gift of what my father left behind. I only want to create in this space. Competing with others for truly abundant space is tiresome. My goal is to be a source of hope and inspiration for others who may need to see that they are not alone and know that there is always a path toward authentic self-expression. The more people who shine their light in this space, the better for the collective. Thank you again for stopping by! 🙏

@bellobidemi8068 3 ай бұрын

@@AHMEDKONEMALI She's got her faith and I hope you respect that. Peace and Love 💕

@jimjeffrey832 3 ай бұрын

Thank you Crystal for your kind empathy. In 2021, I lost my 14- year-old daughter to Covid. My grief is boundless -- every day -- and night😢💔

@crystaltharrell 3 ай бұрын

@@jimjeffrey832 my deepest condolences to you and your family 🙏🥺 Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share this.

@jimjeffrey832 3 ай бұрын

@@crystaltharrell Thank you ever so much for your kindness 💔💓💗🙏🏽🌌

@dominiquethomas3060 2 ай бұрын

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@tyeshaglam8907 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing this video. We all experience grief and often times don’t have the tools to process it.

@crystaltharrell 4 ай бұрын

@@tyeshaglam8907 I am truly grateful that I finally gained the confidence to talk more about this 🥺🤍 I agree. I wish I had them sooner, it would have saved me from so much suffering but at least I can share what I learned now.