Why I Will Never Work A 9-5 Again As A YALE Educated Behavioral Scientist

[@crystaltharrell]

There's nothing wrong with working a 9-to-5 if that suits you or if it's the path you feel is best. But it's important to prioritize our emotional and spiritual health as well. I've chosen to explore new ways to use my education in this world, believing that nothing is ever wasted. As they say, "Education is something that no one can take away from you." Life is finite, and when my time comes to an end, I don't want to look back with regrets, wondering who I could have become if I hadn't let fear hold me back from creating a life that is aligned with the true essence of who I am. Thank you so much for your supportive and sincere comments 🥺🙏 It's truly a blessing to be reminded that we're never alone in this life journey.

[@hosannabivuvu5793]

Thank you for sharing, dear. I needed this! ❤

[@YvonnePatiñoOrdaz]

Absolutely ❤️ " Education is something that no one can take away from you ".

[@YvonnePatiñoOrdaz]

@@crystaltharrell thank you so much!. This woman is really smart!. Yale is Yale. And to be smart is not because of the degree is also about how you afford your own life!. Thank you for this sharing!😁😁🫡. Positive attitude ever!❤️

[@YvonnePatiñoOrdaz]

@@crystaltharrell thank you ma'am 💕!. You are positive attitude!. I love this video. I will keep it on!.

[@Briii.]

GO GORL!!!!🥹🥹 Be the absolute very best and the most joyful you can be🥹😁

[@gwen6217]

What you said about you wanting to be an artist and someone saying “you won’t make a lot of money” also happened to me. I wonder how many of us have buried dreams that need to be reawakened. I can say, the Lord is opening my eyes to one of my dreams and I’m excited about the future. This is the first video of yours I’m watching and it’s refreshing. All the best to you!

[@crystaltharrell]

@@gwen6217 thank you so much for your comment. I always felt alone in that experience, but it’s refreshing to see that the inner artist of so many others are starting to awaken again too! ✨ I had to understand that what that person told me was only a projection of their limiting beliefs. Making money wasn’t the goal as a child, it was about the act of creating to bring others joy. This world could always use more art 🤍✨It’s good that your dreams are being reawakened. Wishing you all the very best as well!

[@ksnjos001]

There is more money in coloring artist-free drawing than even talking on KZbin if you have an inner/inert gift...

[@maverickbull1909]

Me too

[@asage5801]

@@crystaltharrellyou’re def not alone but you might be dreaming when say, i plan on being very very wealthy” but have no plan. It’s a contradiction.

[@makaila8860]

I'm 15. I get this too. "You need to do something productive" or "you won't make alot of money" shows how much they somt care about us as long as we're in the rat race and were a doctor or something. I have 1 life Ima live my dreams

[@HexaBoxabl]

Every family has that one person who will break the family financial struggle, I hope you become the one

[@MagarethWoods]

I am so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed forever. I'm a single mother living in Vancouver Canada, bought my first house in October and hoping to retire soon if things keep going smoothly for me

[@claresmithy4667]

You’re correct I make a lot of money without relying on the government. Investing in stocks and digital currencies is beneficial at the moment.

[@mbalimaka6393]

Can you show me how to trade profitably, I honestly need another source of steady income

[@MagarethWoods]

I employ the expertise of a professional for that, Kate Mellon Bruce because it isn’t as easy as it seems

[@MagarethWoods]

She's active on face book @

[@JustPlayMusic6891]

When I was growing up, I wanted to be a chef. I was obsessed with watching cooking shows and I absorbed everything I could through TV (bc YT didn’t exist yet) and I was sure I was going to go to culinary school, host dinner parties, feed the masses, maybe open a restaurant. Literally 8 year old me would rather watch chefs on PBS than cartoons early on Saturday mornings! But someone I loved and trusted basically did not support that idea and pointed me in the direction of college and “doctor/lawyer/etc” bc there are scholarships for people who study science and math but not culinary arts. I ended up getting my undergrad degree in Chemistry which significantly improved my flavor profiles in my cooking, but I hated lab and did not apply for medical school. I was done with that. I became a teacher, because explaining complicated things in a simple manner was another natural talent I had. Then 13 years later, I changed careers to Finance because I got tired of not earning a high income. But even this is irritating. I want to express myself through food, music, writing - the arts - and I have yet to reconcile how earn a living and be an artist. I am almost 40. I will figure this out. The next 40 years of my life will be full of doing things that I love.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@JustPlayMusic6891 I truly feel your authenticity in this comment and I wish you well as you find your way back to your true self. You are still here so there is still time to reconnect with your inner artist (chef). You expressing yourself through cooking is art. Nothing is ever wasted, so use every skillset that your obtained to direct that energy into doing what brings your joy. I would suggest making a list of every job you have had ver the years and then writing down skills from each job that can support your dreams. Start where you are now with what you have and go for it! 🙏 There is still so much for you to give to this world

[@travelingthediaspora7996]

Start a KZbin cooking show.

[@haitupaul5182]

Believe me, you are not alone in this dilemma.

[@victorcallender7724]

You can also open a food truck as a start. Here in NYC, the trucks are usually better than restaurants. The experience, the people and food.

[@supermommy2717]

Best of luck to you! Please go after the desires of your heart! So you can be fully fulfilled in your next 40 years! Best of luck! Your comment was inspiring to me :)

[@ReubenFilipeZavala-q9x]

Allowing African children to travel freely within the 54 countries of the continent would open up a world of opportunities for them. It would mean access to better education, healthcare, and cultural experiences without the fear of resorting to illegal means. This freedom would empower the next generation, fostering unity, innovation, and a shared sense of identity across borders. It would truly be a step toward a more prosperous and interconnected Africa, where every child can dream and achieve their fullest potential.🇿🇦🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@WomaningInc]

Some are invested in making sure this never happens.

[@ReubenFilipeZavala-q9x]

@@WomaningInc 🌹❤️ Africa Phoenix has Risen and is unstoppable ❤️🌹, the fact that you and I share the same vision is evidence enough that the Impossible dream is possible 💞💞💞🇿🇦🌹🌷💐🌹🙏🌈

[@crystaltharrell]

@@ReubenFilipeZavala-q9x it is always possible!! ✨🙌🏾 We have to start where we are with what we have. That means, those of us who have had the experience of travel and how it expands your world must speak more freely and openly about our experiences. This would at least help to inspire those who are able to travel to at least try it. We can move closer and closer to a reality that is more unified by just taking the first step. Thank you for sharing this!

[@del1111]

The current system satisfy corruption and thier narcissist abuse strategies. They got no ears. Do you know how long they talk about this and take no action?? 🤔

[@Faith_Johnson]

Be careful. This interconnection is part of the pre beast system set up and programming. God Yah says to His.people be set apart from the world. Also, this interconnection makes countries and systems more collapsible. Look at the supply issues in America with food shortages, then gasoline, then power outages and water shut offs coming soon. It also makes trafficking easier. Take the pros with the cons so you can really understand what it is your asking for and why such the push and is there a hidden agenda?

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

I don't think working a 9 to 5 is the problem. It's the investment in a 9 to 5, that's the problem. We know corporations see you as a number, yet people put more into the corporation than they do themselves. That will always and forever be a bad deal, but if you use corporations in the right way, you will have no problem getting in and getting out. As a grown man, if I had to go and work at McDonald's for whatever the reason, I'd do it with no question, but there are many people who think they are above this, and I wish those people well.

[@tonyroan75]

Working at McDonald's as an adult with the responsibility of supporting a family, and being responsible for a mortgage/rent along with other all other bills, I'm sure the wages at McDonald's wouldn't cover all of those expenses.

[@fooled4less854]

@@tonyroan75with all due respect, you missed OP’s point. He basically said you need to treat these corporate “jobs” as a transaction and not a family or a warm place to care for you. Just like in any transaction, capture value (money) with the least amount of work (time + attention + energy + skills) for higher personal yield. This is precisely how investors and businesses think, objectively. To your point, McDonald’s is a horrendous transaction for someone with marketable skills. Aside from owning the franchise, there is virtually no way you could cover your overhead with a family and household expenses.

[@jadapinkett1656]

I am above this, blud.

[@ajwillustratorauthor]

I don’t know how anyone spends 8 hours a day somewhere without caring. It’s draining. I don’t give my self to my 9-5 they steal pieces of me every time I clock in. There’s hardly any energy left for me at the end of the day.

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

@ajwillustratorauthor well they say if you hate something, you are giving it more energy than if you loved it. How do you care about something that drains you? Overcome the feelings, and you could be free.

[@spoildmuffin]

There was a new story recently where a 60 year old woman died at the bank she worked at. She passed away on the job and no one realized until 4 days later when they found her at her desk. That haunts me. It’s a reminder that your job is not worth sacrificing your time, health and wellbeing, especially for creatives. We have much more to offer than the labor we unfairly exchange to make a rich man richer.

[@TammiMorrison]

I can understand this. I wanted to be a writer growing up and my parental units told me the same about being a starving artist. Well now I’m in my 50s I have written and published 3 books and stepping away from my 30 year safe career in nursing. Thank you for sharing this and I am so happy you decided to bet on you especially so young❤I’m rooting for you love💙💙

[@extrashotofespresso_]

How the heck did you do it? I went to school for English and always loved writing and researching. I can’t get a writing gig to save my life and I’m starting to hate it because I’m so anxious to make an income from writing

[@TammiMorrison]

@@extrashotofespresso_ I self published. I just started thinking outside the box and write for medium’s partner program.

[@tonyroan75]

Congratulations!

[@riquittamoore4874]

I am 14 years into nursing and severely unhappy. I am currently pursuing my graduate studies in public health. I was invited to a vision board party and I didn’t put nursing on there is my 4 to 5 year plan. It’s scary stepping out of my comfort zone. I just turned 40 in July I feel fearless and ready..

[@TammiMorrison]

@@riquittamoore4874 its time. The light seems to come on at about 40. Sending you love and success in clarifying where you want to go post nursing.

[@theSSHITT]

I enjoyed your story. I went through something similar. I did a Ph.D. in Social Work at Columbia University and landed a dream job only to suffer burnout, depression, and multiple layoffs during the pandemic. I retired early at age 38 and moved to Europe.

[@drebugsita]

out of curiosity what was your job?

[@ellied618]

Very similar story here.. got my undergrad degree and went to work in my field right away. Full scholarships for undergrad, so do debt, but my family was pissed I didn’t go right into grad school…because “who’s gonna hire you with just an undergrad degree”🙄 I hated working in my field so I quit and went back to my first love, golf, was able to travel and make a good living doing what I loved.. then found my dream job coaching in college and absolutely freaking HATED it after 2 years. 3rd year suffered burnout, toxic workplace, depression and a mental break. Said Eff it all, quit, sold all my stuff and never looked back. Just completed one month traveling Europe. Halfway thru a month in Asia and on to the next continent next month. Family is still not happy about it, but I’ve never been happier to be out of the matrix 🙏🏾😭 You gotta live YOUR dreams, not let other peoples dreams control your life.

[@KeepingUpWithAdine]

I don’t have any attachment as well. currently on a journey to pay off all my debt and literally travel full time. I want to have an eat pray love moment to discover myself without the everyday stresses of working and paying bills! We definitely were put in this earth do more than just work a 9-5 and wait for retirement to “enjoy” life.

[@solomongrundy1467]

The system needs a total redesign.

[@kool9174]

lol I’m not seeing anything towards finding a good man and raising a great family. Without that you literally have nothing.

[@KeepingUpWithAdine]

@@kool9174 a good man will have to find me. I’m not going out my way looking for one. 😅 plus not everyone desires marriage and family.

[@EscapingBroke]

You’re living my dream life❤❤

[@BriW444]

@@solomongrundy1467I agree

[@iamyaslynn]

I completely understand. I am an empath as well and it feels really heavy when I’m not authentic and when I’m around people that are inauthentic. It’s extremely draining and exhaustive. We can feel inauthenticity very strongly and anything that contradicts our values feels very wrong for us.

[@candiceh6211]

Beautifully explained 🎯

[@Nirosha101]

@@iamyaslynn truth!

[@nevaehs.r5380]

Yessss! The burn out at the end of the day is awful and the repetition doesn’t make it better

[@candiceh6211]

@@nevaehs.r5380 also 🎯

[@hudaa3264]

Very well said!

[@sonyawalkercreations5991]

You’re on the right path because only you know what road that you should be traveling.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@sonyawalkercreations5991 I wish more people thought like this 🥺

[@mymycb]

My creative side was braiding hair and doing make up. I remember my mother told me that I shouldn’t do hair because she didn’t make a lot of money doing it and neither will I. When I tell you I still struggle with that until this day. I also loved music and they used to catch me getting pots and pans out of the kitchen and creating beats. My brother who is 8 years older than I am used to tell me that he knew I had a good ear for music bc I could hear things he couldn’t. My children love music, art and science. I homeschool them and let them do what speaks to their soul. I will not change them or make them feel like they have to go to college to feel fulfilled or that there is something wrong with them. Never!! I encourage my babies and love on them each day.

[@BriW444]

Girl you can make bank doing what you want to do. I’ve seen people make more and have more freedom doing hair! You should go for it ❤

[@royaltroot1014]

It’s wild because our generation is charging 250+ for braids when we use to pay $100. There is still money to be made in a private braiding studio 😃

[@BreAnaDeezy]

My breaking point recently was when my doctor put me back on anti depressants and mood stabilizers just to deal with my office job. I took a leap of faith and got a temp position with my CNA certificate that allows me to work unlimited overtime and I make more money and work the same hours as my office job. I LOVE working with patients and creating the bonds with them. I LOVE their various quirks and personalities. I know I have many opportunities and blessings in store. I’m glad a left. I’m at peace.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@BreAnaDeezy this is a beautiful journey and I’m so grateful you were able to get in a better position. No job is worth our health and it took me until now to realize that for myself ✨ Your story is inspiring as well!

[@MissFaevyn]

I too, got sick with the same thing when I became stressed at work. Your immune system is weakened when you are stressed so that makes sense. Im so glad I am seeing more peopleleaving corporate world. Im going part time because I have experienced burn out. I am ready to tune into me now. I give these jobs too much.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@MissFaevyn this is so true! I studied the effects of perceived stress on health and it isn’t good. I still believe that we can create better systems that truly prioritize the health and well-being of the individual ✨ I wish you all the very best as you go down the path of discovering who you are. It gets so much better!

[@who_is_dis]

😂 “I decided it wasn’t for me” wish I could just decide that and not have to do it. Financially bound to this bullshit.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@who_is_dis the financial obligation definitely was a driving factor that kept me in a place that didn’t align with my values or morals longer than I should have stayed. I definitely understand. We live in a world where money is a very important factor, but I couldn’t allow myself to be in a situation (only because of money) that exploited me. I desire to have a more healthy relationship with money so I had to set that boundary and it worked out. We have more freedom than we are led to believe ✨

[@CMM82]

The fit, the hair, the vulnerability and confidence!! Slay, girl! Your growth will be immense! I'm 41 and you are an inspiration to revisit my dreams!

[@victoriarusk5948]

❤ yes the fit!! So cute!

[@deniskimani1666]

"As someone who puts their heart into everything that they do, it was very hard for me to show up in the work environment and just do the bare minimum, and it was almost as if that was expected and that's what everyone was doing."........I can totally relate with this statement 💯💯

[@mirabela1344]

Same

[@happydays199]

I am 41 and I have been miserable in my 9-5. I have been working in Federal Agencies since I left the military and I regret it. I am tired of dealing with discriminationand racism. I am just exhausted. I am planning to move into a cheaper aparment and pay my debt down and quit my job so I can go back to college full time. I hope its not too late for me.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@happydays199 it’s never too late for you to become the person you’ve always felt possible for you to be in your heart. Please do not give up on yourself. What you are experiencing is very real. I only dealt with it for a short time and it caused me my mental and physical health that I’m still restoring. However, they won’t remind you of your own power. You were created for so much more and as long as you’re here, you can do something else. So many people that you can read about have created the life of their dreams after 50. Give yourself a chance and go for it. Those institutions will still be there if you ever decide to go back. But this life is too precious to live with regrets. Wishing you well on your journey 🙏✨

[@njay4361]

It is never too late. Those are more than just empty words, internet friend. I'm 45 and walking away from a stable but miserable life to find my purpose. It won't be easy. But nothing worth having is. The more emotional baggage I learn to put down, the easier the journey becomes. Each bagful of past hurts and regrets released feels like another layer peeled back. Eventually I will find my core. Wishing you peace, resilience, and persistence along your journey 🙏

[@predestinated9248]

It's never late

[@lisajackson3743]

Nothing you have done will be wasted. Either you have used it personally, professionally, or to help someone else. Even the tango helped you find community, that’s amazing!

[@prizepictures1]

“…sometimes nature reflects … to show me that who I am is enough…” That is HUGE! Everyone wants to be wealthy but true wealth comes from within. Yes, agreed, most no one understands how important attitude is. So happy you’ve found authenticity and alignment. Love your video sweetheart. Good vibes. 😎

[@crystaltharrell]

@@prizepictures1 thank you so much for your comment ✨ I agree! I used to think that going to school and getting a good job was wealth, but now I see that the most valuable assets I own are my clarity in thinking and peace of mind. I’ll never jeopardize those things again, no matter what the price tag is. I’ll keep doing the work and asking questions until I’m walking in alignment each day and doing something that actually brings Light to this world. Thank you again 🥹🙏

[@BriW444]

🙏🏾

[@cassandracrawleymayo]

I am so proud of you. I took you on my walk this morning. Being you is so refreshing. My plans are to go with you on this journey. Interviewing you on my podcast, Is Your Way In Your Way? gives me a point of reference in your life. Blessings

[@crystaltharrell]

@@cassandracrawleymayo it was such an honor meeting with you and I thoroughly enjoyed our interview! 🥺🙏🤍 I am still figuring this out but I know I have to be honest about my journey along the way. Thank you again for your continued encouragement! ✨

[@encyclopediabee]

This definitely resonates with me. Thank you for sharing this. It’s encouraging to see someone who looks like me talk about similar feelings and experiences. Rooting for you! ✨

[@crystaltharrell]

@@encyclopediabee I am so grateful that this message was helpful 🥺🤍 I look forward to staying connected and sharing more about this experience! With Gratitude, Crystal ✨

[@StevenCodeCraft]

I just found your KZbin channel as it showed up in my recommended. Your accomplishments are amazing! Also NeroKnowledge is soo good! That guy helped me change my belief system and solve questions that I've struggled with for years about religion and goal setting. Anyway, I subscribed and keep being you and creating content I'm a Software Developer and dedicated my whole life basically to landing a good job. Once I landed my "dream job" I was burnt out and sad. I quit that job that now pursuing my dream and have two software companies that I own and am trying to make successful.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@StevenCodeCraft NeroKnowledge also helped me understand my spiritual evolution journey a lot better as well! His teachings are so clean and he is very generous in what he shares. He’s the reason I started sharing more about my journey and what I learned on this path for the past 6-7 years as well. We are all connected and I didn’t realize that until I started sharing more ✨ I would also recommend searching for “William Donahue” on KZbin as well. He shares a lot of wisdom on the true teachings of Christ that religion has perverted for many years. It only confirms what I’ve felt since childhood. Wishing you all the best on your new endeavor! In a way, maybe it’s a good thing that we went down the path of landing our “dream job” so we could see that there was something more to be created. We will always have our education and we can create many things from what we know. I don’t think we were created to be miserable 5 days a week building someone’s dream that we are not aligned with. Freedom is always the goal and our work can be aligned with our gifts and talents. To me, that’s true freedom: soul alignment ✨

[@ChildofGod98765]

Losing hope. As a single mom things are hard on me both of my sons are special needs. Jesus give me strength I’m constantly struggling to provide for them. It’s overwhelming. Lord please help me as I constantly struggle to pay bills and constantly struggle to buy groceries for my children. The devil wants me to give up. BUT no matter what I face I KEEP FAITH in GOD!💕❤️

[@Beta_Programmar]

May God give you eternal strength, you're not alone.

[@dreamchaser5758]

I keep seeing this similar story on multiple videos even ones that are completely unrelated.

[@onyedikachukwumiracle]

As an aspiring writer i don't regret quitting college in pursuit of my dreams and natural talent of writing

[@SanctifiedLady]

I was told I was an artist on a college test. I was disappointed because I didn’t want to be put in a “box” took me years to get my science degree and after all of that… other than God, the only thing comforts my spirit is being artistic and creative. It pours over into dance, my flower gardens, my sewing is amazing, ppl can’t believe my bedding, curtains, pillows and a simple sketch I made and left on a table became a big deal… they won’t to know who did it…. I was at a low point… drawing whilst on a phone call. I admitted I did the sketch and the woman wanted to know the motivation behind it and what made me come up with it… lol. It was of a lady in a pineapple looking outfit and a top hat with a flower in it. The lady posted it on her cubicle wall to this day. I was at the unemployment office 😂 I felt seen and appreciated for a talent that I buried long ago. I’ve won awards and scholarships in the past but wasn’t interested due to childhood trauma neglect. I’m still a creative drawing is the last thing I would do but one day I will. Glory to God. ❤

[@mayday4900]

I just listened to first sentence and subscribed and liked the video. Same enlightments after big depressions and dark nights of the soul

[@crystaltharrell]

@@mayday4900 thank you for subscribing and commenting! 😭🙏✨ You are so right. I always wonder if enlightenment can come from high vibrational experiences as well or must the suffering come first 🤔

[@mayday4900]

Hehe for my case is definetely the former. Can you talk about your thoughts on Joe dispenza’s and other teachers’ teachings? I would like to hear your own understanding

[@PolyglotParadise]

I come from a completely different background and I have no idea how I found this video, but I wanted to let you know that I resonated SOOOOOO MUCH with this video. Please continue to make content, you are so relatable ❤

[@crystaltharrell]

@@PolyglotParadise thank you so much for your beautiful comment! 😭🤍 It took me so long to finally gain the self-belief and confidence to speak on camera but I really do believe in the power of storytelling to help others. I’m so glad to have you here and can’t wait to share more about my journey of self-discovery ✨

[@Crocus1979]

I also hate corporate culture, I have quit and have opened my own small company in my professional field. At 44. Although I work a lot, also on weekends and late evenings, I feel free, and that matters. I can take vacations, work from anywhere (although it's technically not comfortable), or plan my days how I like without asking my boss (and hearing no). I have to work to earn money but on my own term and I love all my clients and they love me (which I couldn't say about my boss).

[@aisnow5788]

What company did you open?

[@predestinated9248]

Corporate world is an abyss where the hardworkers earn less and the unserious ones are getting promotions my contract ended I believe it's time to do my own things enough is enough

[@rasberries566]

Love this trend. Also love your outfit a lot☺️

[@Danny-fs1hk]

She mentioned Dr Bruce Lipton within the first minute, so I’m all ears. Very happy that this video showed up on my feed.

[@tbroan]

Learned this at 26. A year later glad I did. “Fuck it, why NOT you?”💐

[@TiatheDreamer4ever]

I can relate to your journey. I double majored in art and science, but stuck with science, and been a scientist for most of my career. Switched journeys during my PhD. But as I got older I started incorporating my first love of art and creating ❤

[@WarmthofTheSun.95]

“How deep into myself can I go?” YES. This is exactly what it’s about. We learn so much about ourselves and the world around us. Thank you for sharing, I moved to Portugal from Texas last year and I’ll be going to Germany next month! Lovely to see that nature 😍it’s got me looking forward to exploring and learning

[@glazyy_]

i quit my job recently idc anymore now im going to pursue my dreams and still work hard but not be bounded by expectations from myself and others & utilize my creativity ♥️✨

[@crystaltharrell]

@@glazyy_ yes! I feel the same way! Why can’t we create work that is also aligned with our natural talents and gifts? I don’t mind working hard at something I care about but I can’t spend my life working a 9-5 where my soul was being drained. Wishing you well on your new journey and congratulations on your freedom!! 🙌

[@glazyy_]

@@crystaltharrell thank you so much it means a lot truly 💫♥️✨

[@pauliannali]

Thank you for sharing your experience with us. I became a self-taught & employed Cosmetologist before the pandemic and I unfortunately went back to a 9-5 for many different reasons. But this has been in the back of my head. So many voices try to dim my light and you remind me that I have the power to change my life, rather than allowing outside dust cloud my judgment about myself and my life.

[@tosinedele]

There's something you said that put into words my feelings, too. As someone who throws myself completely into anything I do and feels everything so deeply, I found working in corporate America harsh on my soul. I was burnt out consistently and while I performed quite well (and love my career path), I knew deep down that I didn't like the form it took in corporate settings. I made the bold and scary decision to return to school to begin a PhD program. I like the change in pace, and I'm just trying to listen to God/my inner voice to guide me on this journey and always surround me with people like me who seek to build others up and not stress one another. I'm new to your channel, but every word you spoke in this video resonated with me. (I'm also 29 heh :)) Cheers!

[@SalandDao]

As someone who is about to move abroad next Monday, I appreciate you and this video so much. Thank you. I feel seen and relate whole heartly.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@SalandDao thank you for your sincere comment! 🥺🙏 Congratulations on your new move!! Give yourself some grace as you adjust to the new way of life as well. When you live in one place for so long, you become accustomed to the norms there. It takes time to adjust to a new culture but I wouldn’t trade the experience for anything. You learn so much about yourself in the process ✨

[@tarralu]

What you said about wanting to be an artist and someone saying you can’t make money as an artist happens to a lot of us. It takes a lot of courage to take that leap. I left corporate almost 10 years ago to become an artist and never looked back. I’m so glad you decided to get out of your shell and make videos. I enjoyed listening to your story and subscribed to watch more ❤

[@ashleygrayduncan]

Have to say, love how you hopped right into it your explanation without a bunch of preamble. 🙌🏼

[@frankieslight]

This is the one , i ironically experienced everything you has said but instead as the successful content creator. Im now in Thailand and doing the same things you said in this video. Happy i came across your video and will be watching your journey onfold.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@frankieslight Thailand is beautiful and we visit there each year in Chiang Mai! ✨ Enjoy your new path. While in Southeast Asia, I find it easier to stay centered and the people are mostly very kind. Thank you so much for stopping by!

[@canissiat]

I love this chat. Living abroad and becoming financially sovereign has changed my perspective on life. I often go outside and marvel at how abundant this world truly is!

[@what200883]

Thank you for posting this. I am a doctor and have been so conflicted about walking away from this career because I have dedicated my life to it since Jr High and it has exhausted me to say the least. I really resonate with this as I am at the crossroads of continuing down this path or stepping into an unknown path of exploration and trusting it is the right choice.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@what200883 trust your intuition. No matter what path you choose, you will be okay but if you make a decision out of love and not fear, then you can’t go wrong. Besides, if you start on your new path and decide it isn’t for you, then you can always go back or try something else. I recommend the book The Pathless Path if you haven’t had the chance to check it out. I look forward to hearing more about your journey ✨

[@mikeaman2008]

People may rain on your parade; but the sun will always come out tomorrow. Never give up on your dreams.

[@gorgeousadriel2424]

Hello Beautiful you blended in so beautifully with the scenery you've always been a breath of fresh air I remember you always drawing so glad to see you be free and just be looking forward to your next video I wanted to point out how the tree limbs would move when you smiled you've always had such great energy cheers to you love you girlie

[@crystaltharrell]

@@gorgeousadriel2424 Hi gorgeous!! 🥺✨🤍 I wanted to cry while reading this because I forgot all about how I would draw while in classes too! 😭 Your comment is truly a gift and I cannot thank you enough for saying this. I love you too and cannot wait to reconnect again!

[@Mo.Is.Queendom774]

Girl you got freed!!! Yessssssss 🎉 Believing the same for ME & MY LIFE❤❤❤

[@adammorra3813]

I believe in you girl, you can do it! I am glad you learned this so early and had these experiences. I am 39 and miserable in corporate and trying to find a way out.

[@khadhrikhan1549]

Same here looking for a way out. I am so miserable in my corporate job.

[@scottjackson163]

You and I have a few things in common: Alabama (I grew up there), double Masters (Johns Hopkins, MS, Stanford, MA, a brief education at Yale - Summer & Special Programs for Fiction Writing) artist, stuck in a high-paying corporate job that I no longer want.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@scottjackson163 what do you really want to do with this one wild and precious life? 🥺🙏

[@scottjackson163]

@@crystaltharrell Oh wow. So much to say. I’ll go for a simple, direct response: (1) published the the novel that I’m writing, and to excellent reviews; (2) Paint/sketch and get art pieces of mine displayed in famous galleries.

[@Moonflower458]

I can’t wait to see what you do in the future ❤ new subscriber 💕🫶🏾

[@elorahunt7629]

Thank you so much for posting this video. This is my first time seeing you. And I just want to say you have inspired me. I just started my channel and I feel so good being able to share my wisdom from my life to help others. Continue to enjoy life and be yourself. You remind me so much of my daughter who is a senior at Howard and has truly come out of her shell. God bless you.

[@lovetowatchitnow]

This is a lovely mindset!

[@sonjaistheone4614]

I am so grateful I watched your video! It is inspiring. I almost cried tears of joy when you stated you were free and smiled while saying it. She is evidently a brilliant young lady who is also wise and spiritual!

[@Bluejay-zo7mb]

Amen!! I cannot believe this video!!! Speechless!! God is moving and answering such specific prayers and questions and giving me advice through others i.e you at this moment in time. 🎉 Praise God and Best of luck to you x

[@ronapounds3730]

I'm happy for you! I wish you the best on your journey to dive deep within you. I myself am going on the same journey and I'm located in Portugal. If you find yourself in these parts, definitely drop a line. I'll be happy to share some tips to explore

[@audrabella]

I absolutely resonate with this video, especially growing up in government housing and appreciating the abundance of nature! Slowing down is def the key to aligning and being in harmony. It's all becoming "crystal clear" 💖😊Wishing you blessings each step of the way ✨

[@moderncontemplative]

Bravo. I support your freedom and happiness. Sounds like you’ve been fully living, as well as transcending through embracing uncertainty and fear which, entails seeing through their insubstantiality. Keep marching onward!

[@CherylG]

I really enjoyed watching you tell your story and express your authentic self! Journey on dear one.#beautiful soul💕💕

[@crystaltharrell]

@@CherylG 🥺🙏🤍

[@sandi6818]

I support this lifestyle. This is just based off of the title alone without even watching the video yet. So many of us are questioning everything!

[@Patricia-zd5lq]

I'm a INFJ as well and I'm so thankful you shared your experience. I appreciate so much.

[@jessicacollins8412]

This really resonates with me! Thanks for sharing your testimony!

[@IloveyouthankyouMultumesc]

I resonate with you. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Many blessings dear sister 😀

[@FlopCouture]

❤❤❤ I love that you panned to nature and said this is abundance. This is an amazing outlook on life and thank you for sharing your knowledge. I've been very scared of losing my 9-5 that's been draining me, but hearing you say that you were happy that you were free from something that wasn't working, really helped me shift my perspective on being let go from my job.

[@christyesmee]

Thank you Chrystal 🙏🙏 I’m sure you’ll be very happy healthy and wealthy very soon

[@ANIMALWITHART]

God definitely sent you as confirmation to my journey. I relate to feeling fake at 9-5s. Thanks for speaking up ✨

[@malikcovington4908]

Keep going ! I started a podcast last week and I love talking and getting things off my chest just live for you until the clock runs out! How many of us are truly living for others ?

[@justgiaa]

Wow this was so wholesome and I respect you don’t know where your path is going, but you seem to be in the right direction for sure. Thank you so much sis

[@NaturallyWit]

Oh my goodness ... So much of what you're saying resonates with me and is similar to what I'm going through as well! Seeing you be so calm about this is very reassuring. Thank you for posting ❤

[@crystaltharrell]

@@NaturallyWit I honestly just have so much faith in God’s plans for my life that I couldn’t stress about it even if I wanted to. I’ve been through a lot in life and it still didn’t kill me. I know that better will come if I make space in my heart to receive it 🤍 Wishing you all the very best on your journey!

[@pendulumdistinction2494]

Gift! Thank you for following your heart, your soul, and inner vision. Keep shining and continuing to inspire beyond human comprehension.

[@jaydaonajourney]

I relate to this so much! Thank you for being so vulnerable and authentic. I’m stepping away from the “security” of the 9-5 life recently too and it’s so exciting, yet scary sometimes. We got this! 💕

[@crystaltharrell]

@@jaydaonajourney it’s definitely scary but what was even more terrifying to me was living each day miserable in a place that didn’t support my well-being 😞 We can use our education, talents, and creativity to create a career that aligns with the truth of who we are. Maybe that’s a bit risky and uncertain for some but no job (even a 9-5) is secure. I’m glad you highlighted that as well. Wishing you well on your journey, Jayda! 🤍✨

[@gennie01]

Refreshing to hear this perspective from someone else, as we are on the same type of journey and sometimes it does feel lonely when everyone around me doesn’t share the same sentiments. ❤

[@AnbessaStudios]

the nature analogy was excellent. It really resonated with me. You are awesome at expressing your thoughts and feelings.

[@Newseason392]

Girl, you have 5K congratulations!

[@crystaltharrell]

@@Newseason392 thank you!! 😭🙏🤍 It’s interesting because this is the only time I stopped paying attention to analytics and just uploaded what was on my heart 🥺

[@sanaabhatti7894]

'Nature holds that mirror to show me that who I am is enough".. I love this

[@mickeycohen5653]

“Clarity is power” 🎯

[@del-c6i]

currently going through the process of getting in touch with my truest self and everything that aligns with me. Thank you so much for sharing your story, it gives me hope ❤

[@yasyas1]

Thank you for this video. At this time in my life I appreciate being reminded to ask the questions and God answers ❤

[@ebbyknights1820]

I'm laughing cause you wanted to be mad but started laughing. Totally get that. I think alot of us put our all into work until we realize we no longer want to do that 9 to 5 for various reasons.So happy you feel free. You prayed, didn't quit but got your confirmation to move forward. Live a life in harmony. You are in your truth. Good questions to your own self. Thanks for sharing.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@ebbyknights1820 It was so hard to be angry when I knew that God had answered my prayer 😅 It was just a fast turnaround lol Thank you so much for watching and commenting! 🤍 I really am grateful to be able to share my story in this way.

[@ebbyknights1820]

@@crystaltharrell It was great cause you got your confirmation. 😆

[@cutinafrancis8674]

❤I don’t know what it is about you or the way I’ve been feeling today and the thoughts I’ve had but I came to KZbin to see if I could find someone talking about something worth listening to. My soul was in need. Lo and behold the first image and video that resonated in my soul was yours. My dear……… smh…………. Let me just say …. That you are my twin … my heart and mind and spirit was filled. My eyes were leaking the entire way home listening to you.❤❤❤ … Look me up please. Connect with me, cosmic sistar. Wow🔥🙌🏾❤. This was timely and phenomenal. Thank you for your courage, your leadership, your authenticity, your perspective, your personality, your heart, your transparency and your self-curated peace. ………. THANK YOU. 🙏🏽

[@alohagirrl]

I’m here for this journey! Make your dreams come true girl!! ❤

[@AlwaysSeekPeace]

Truly inspiring. Thank you for sharing. 😊

[@LilianaLines]

I'm on a Nero Knowledge journey too--you got this girl keep it up!

[@danielnyirendaofficial]

As someone who has gone through something similar, I can totally relate. Well done for choosing yourself and what you want! Some people are able to endure the pain of the 9-5 grind, while others are not willing to tolerate it. To each their own. Do you!

[@crystaltharrell]

@@danielnyirendaofficial I agree 110%! I realized that I valued my creativity, authenticity, and sensitivity more than anything and those things can be used to build a life and career that I actually love 🤍 thank you for sharing!

[@ivanacosta5780]

That was so refreshing 💕. Thank you 💕

[@adridelarosaj]

So beautiful and inspiring. Thank you for sharing so openly and genuinely. I am in a very similar place and was so encouraged by your peace, and faith in the goodness of the heavens. SO blessed by you. I look forward to other videos. ❤🎉🎉

[@Avanistar_444]

I don't usually just click on any video and watch it to the end. But, for some reason, I was drawn to yours and I know in ways it's aligned with my walk and I am glad it found me💚🌳 I love nature as well

[@crystaltharrell]

@@Avanistar_444 🥺🍀✨

[@jailau365]

Thank you!I needed this confirmation today!❤

[@madamcjwalker67]

Great job! 👏

[@najmah.4244]

I am waching your video just 1 week before starting with my first job on Germay as a resident doctor. I am scared to death..but your video helped calm me down and made me realize there isn't anything to worry about

[@crystaltharrell]

@@najmah.4244 Congratulations on your new experience!! 🙏✨ I am not sure where you are living from, but there is so much to look forward to here in Germany (especially the food and nature). Wishing you well on your journey!

[@athomewithrosa]

This was absolutely refreshing to hear! As an older woman, I ALWAYS wanted to be in the art community but, like many, was steered towards a traditional career. I am now moving towards doing what I want in the last half of my life. While I wish I would've done it as a young woman, my life is not over and I refuse to have any regrets. I hope more young women hear your message. OAN, I absolutely LOVE Germany as well. I came into myself while there. Perhaps it is because they actually encourage creatives.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@athomewithrosa this is a beautiful story to read 🥹🤍Thank you so much for sharing a part of your journey as well. I feel like Now is the best time to begin the journey of self-discovery. Think of the many that never got to that point before they left this earth. You are brave and did what was best for your soul. That’s why your story is inspiring to me ✨

[@applejackzo]

Oh you went to Auburn?! So did I! War Eagle. The algorithm kept sending me your video. Had to indulge today. Thank you for sharing. My entire time at a Auburn felt like a slow hell, and graduating didn’t make it any better 😭 life’s strange

[@classicgreg412]

Thanks for this, I needed this so badly. 🇿🇲

[@makingmoveswithmariano]

Thank You so much for this video and your TRUTH beloved. Had I listened to those lies in the past I wouldn't have built my Dance business, nor would have I Empowerment thousands of youth. Cheers to FREEDOM

[@crystaltharrell]

@@makingmoveswithmariano cheers to freedom my friend! ✨🥹 Congratulations on choosing authentic soul expression over conformity!!

[@cerisue15]

Glad I’m on this side of KZbin! Will definitely be following your journey. I’m so happy you feel free❤

[@crystaltharrell]

@@cerisue15 I’m really glad to have you here! It’s a blessing to finally connect with people who don’t mind exploring these topics with me!

[@themalawiandiner180]

You are a good speaker, well-spoken with a beautiful aura.

[@crystaltharrell]

@@themalawiandiner180 thank you so much! 🥺🤍✨ I am still getting used to speaking on camera but my messages are from the heart. Thank you again for your kind words.

[@philippine5832]

I hope (and wish it to everyone) that one day I could say "It is me". Thank you for sharing it with us 🌻💛

[@Esscapades]

I loved the message in this video and could relate to so many things. I especially loved hearing about all the dancing, I just posted a YT video that included using dancing as a means of self-care. I’ve always pushed my kids to lean into their art and creative pursuits so that they can enjoy their lives as they are working, rather than following the traditional plan. I will share this video with my daughter. Thanks for posting

[@crystaltharrell]

@@Esscapades that is absolutely beautiful! My dad was the same way with us before he passed 🤍 I never forgot how exciting life felt when my creativity was being nurtured as well. Your kids will carry that with them as they continue to grow ✨ Thank you so much for sharing it as well 🙏🥹That truly means a lot!

[@JK-ek5jv]

Exactly! How deep can I go....how far can I expand...what is my truest, fullest expression...

[@keilahcole4413]

Thank you for this video. We need people like you.

[@TheJasmineProof817]

You are such a beautiful soul!! Good luck on your journey! 💚