Leaving a cheating husband only to become a side chick to a married man. Why did you do that?

[@rebotilemogadime4169]

The minute we wives stop being triggered by side chicks and deal with those ones we took vows with, the more we will have peace. Also we need to understand that if we stay with cheaters then it's our problem not the side chick's she is not obligated to protect your marriage but your husband is.

[@Globwlone12]

Wisdom right there

[@Queendollar83]

Well said 👏👏

[@PstGrace0707]

Girl you are amazing

[@loratomoalosi7560]

Well said

[@Wasa35]

@@rebotilemogadime4169 I saw somebody who was advised to take the hubby to Kruger National Park because of a typo on the word cheater!😂😂😂

[@LM-he7eb]

Guys, let's put our brains together here. "Single men are not established, married men established". Married men are using the wife's resources to appear established. As soon as he leaves his wife, you'll see that these men are not established (My sister learnt this the hard way).

[@nontokozod3826]

Babybaby knows her worth and boundaries. Whether or not we agree with her attitude and views. She is behaving the way men behave. Putting herself first as we all should.

[@pphumii]

Very important ☝🏽

[@Hlangothi25]

😂😂😂😂Baby-Baby for president of women's league. Living her truth❤

[@boitshepokekana2039]

Baby Baby has unlocked a new fear in me; being a wife💀

[@Globwlone12]

Yohh

[@Wasa35]

@@boitshepokekana2039 I am a divorcee and still wanna get married, I am not going to paint all men with a black paint, I don’t believe I am meant to be an empty nester, my kids are over 21 and I do not want to be alone, I need a companion to travel the world with, after paying private school fees all this time, all I can do is to reward myself with the good life! I want that SUV, I need those quarterly vacations abroad, that should be a norm for me, so if you can’t work together with me on this vision, then, you’re not a member! Ka gopola LeJoy ko Ultimate Girls Trip! I am so looking forward to my 50th birthday in 2 years time, kuyoshuba!🥂🍾🍷😂🎂💃🏽

[@SagwieRabs]

😂

[@Zozotyi]

But the topic was about women who were married

[@shanduhappinessmukwevho3456]

Baby Baby is the girl she thinks she is 😂😂😂I love her so much😂❤

[@kgothatsomogoane9181]

I did not sleep because of this episode,this is the best I have ever watched

[@thebemphahlele4773]

When coming to men. We all lose 😢

[@LadyLe-z7o]

Men don't give a fuck 😂 just love yourself and invest in yourself

[@kayhiway9867]

They will never care about us. We're just helpers nje...we must stop taking ourselves too seriously emjolweni😂

[@Cresentmoon649]

True

[@mpoomzadube1429]

This video made my day😂😂😂😂 Also a factor that people forgot is that Baby baby sees how her sister is suffering in her marriage which eventually became 1 of the reasons why she feels like marriage is not worth her time

[@sthabilengubane8370]

but the sister is suffering because of women like her

[@missk7126]

​@@sthabilengubane8370Exactly... That's the irony!

[@ThandiKhalaki]

Why is it always broke women, who interpret “treating nice “ as materialistic things, who always wants to share men? 🤔 Self made women, from rich families, who never had to suffer in life, seldom wants to “share a man”?🤔

[@narwellbanda7443]

Who told you that 😂😂😂😂😂wait to you see whose sponsoring ur broke bf 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ZeeInterpretationz]

Spirit of poverty

[@ThandiKhalaki]

@@narwellbanda7443I want to engage with you further, but now personalising this topic to “your broke boyfriend” is an indication that this won’t end well🤔🤦🏽‍♀️.

[@ThandiKhalaki]

@@KurantaD I’m taking this advice 🤣🤣

[@MpumiDlamini-ft5de]

​@@ThandiKhalaki Your response.. 🤣🤣🤣👌🏾 100% on point my Love..

[@ellahnokane4536]

This topic is giving me anxiety my heart is vibrating out of my chest 😣

[@Ntuthu28_M]

Lol I'm telling you😂😢

[@silindilenxumalo9541]

😂😂

[@mapulalucia9712]

😂😂😂😂

[@khethiwemethula4977]

Breathe. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@nnyadzeniramese2944]

😂😂😂😂

[@mazwideamahle4091]

If you leave your marriage because he cheated, and still go on to covert with another's husband, then cheating had nothing to do with your departure, but the general status of your marriage was the triĝger....PERIOD!

[@LM-he7eb]

No, it just means people don't care of you're a hurtful person. As long as you don't hurt them

[@Queendollar83]

Typical women, trying to shame Baby Baby by interrogating her. I am glad she stood on business 😂😂

[@AOHSConsulting]

Baby baby for president of us, side chicks of married men. Lead us president, we are your nation 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rebirthed4674]

Now I understand what people mean when they say we live in an upside down world. People like baby baby are upheld like some kind of heros while the wives who are doing what is right in the eyes of the Lord are made to look stupid. Wrong is wrong bakwethu, if you are a believer, you need to be honest about what is wrong and what is right. I may lie sometimes to save my own ass, but I won’t start claiming that lying is right just because I know that I am a liar, it is still wrong even if I partake in it.

[@tshebetsoletlema2979]

"wrong is wrong even if I partake in it"📍📍📍Thank you

[@kholofelomathibela]

Who said the wives are doing right did you ask most of them how did this men married them did they tell you they went to sangomas to force this men to marry them 😮

[@rebirthed4674]

@@kholofelomathibela ay eyezangoma sisi angiyazi. All I know is that marriage is God ordained.

[@jabulilemlaka6253]

​@kholofelomathibela the truth in this statement.

[@EvaTumza]

So true,it’s sad

[@MmeChuene]

Your facial expression when the professional sidechick was standing on business 😂😂😂

[@bhekiwemkhaliphi115]

What guilt?? The one who should be guilty is the married man

[@celinamokoena9551]

Married women are so emotional because some can relate😅😅😅

[@yaneliswakhoza5901]

Baby is sprinkle sprinkling very well 😂😂😂

[@missk7126]

I like Mulalo's reasoning skills. She's objective and smart - great capacity to look at a situation from all angles without being emotional.

[@nothandomyeni1359]

"For the love of money is the root of all evil." "Woe unto those who call evil good." "Whatever God has joined, let no one put in asunder." "Adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God." "In the last days people will be lovers of self, proud, boastful, shameless and lovers of pleasure"

[@tribleennnn4143]

Amen..

[@nenemahlangu5539]

Coming from the same book where Lot wanted to give his daughters to a crazy mob of men. Haha. Continue with your ‘long suffering’ in marriage

[@Zozotyi]

But the topic. was about women who were married and left their cheating and they themslves became side chicks

[@maritawanazw]

​@@nenemahlangu5539 you proved the last point. What does Lot have to do with what Paul said? READ this Bible to UNDERSTAND not just for the sake of it. But maybe you're an atheist or into African Spirituality.

[@khanyisileshabalala1170]

No one is saying anything about Madam Speaker's facial expressions. Two minutes two minutes is this 😳😳 and then 🤔🤔and then clap once 🤣🤣🤣. I love you Madam🤣🤣🤣

[@khethiwemethula4977]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@oneseipato6485]

😂😂Baby baby doesn't care bathong leave her alone 😂😂😂

[@fordesire9546]

nyani. I thought it was ridiculous how they kept bringing up situations to have her try to swallow her words. That lady has found her pot of gold and she won't have strangers on the internet trying to turn her head

[@khethiwemethula4977]

​@@fordesire9546 yea and it was supposed to be a conversation and they caught feelings and started attacking her standing, hence she had to defend herself. We all live by the choices we make.

[@SibsM93]

If roles were changed and the platform was given to men to ask questions to the cheating married man or to a man who's a side piece, this conversation would be very different. Basadi mara

[@oneseipato6485]

Very true

[@asienqinana]

Jonga😭😭😭😂😂😂😂

[@sifisosithole9631]

If that husband was not married I don't think Baby baby would be dating him.I blame him in this situation,you cant give a whole house to a side chick now she feels entitled to this man

[@fordesire9546]

@@sifisosithole9631 it also didn't make sense to me how a car and a home were bought for her but when she mentioned they have a child things got clearer: he's taking care of the child

[@portiazulu8352]

​@@fordesire9546 it is called the power of love 😊

[@LethoHali]

Yoooo today’s topic is hot! My days 😂I haven’t heard so much emotion in one episode hahah. Thatha Babybaby! You will give the women a heart attack 😅.

[@BokangMphohla-yw7xr]

Baby baby 😂😂😂😂😂 I love her Keep it up

[@PortiaLethoba-lx4gh]

Hands off she is telling the honest truth is here is not going anywhere 🤞🤞🤞🤞

[@asienqinana]

The pressure creases in wives as soon as baby baby says something 🤞🏾😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😂

[@Carol11724]

😂

[@mathapelomohlabeng2682]

I know someone who is married and is a side chick to another married man. Mjolo GA ona manual😅

[@nnyadzeniramese2944]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@pphumii]

I need lessons from her😂

[@yaneliswakhoza5901]

😂😂😂😂

[@itumahlaba9518]

BABY BABY MY PRESIDENT!!!!

[@lebohangmokeretla4639]

As for "relax" 😂😂😂

[@thandompm5ex]

😂😂😂

[@hannahnkatha765]

We are waiting for part 2 😢 this was too good 😂😂

[@Deliathobejane-qo6ys]

Baby baby lena🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣This woman knows her worth shem aaaah

[@missk7126]

Baby Baby ke starring shem. She's not here for any body's judgment 😂😂😂🙆🏾‍♀️

[@mmatetemoeketsi7409]

This is the best episode I’ve ever watched 😂😂🎉🎉

[@mathapelomohlabeng2682]

I like how people quote the bibble wen it suits dem.

[@khethiwemethula4977]

True, yet it requires faithfulness from both the husbands and wives. It also teaches us single people. No one is holier than the other just because they're committing a different act.

[@chantellemodisane]

As a child of an affair, I’m wholeheartedly against this arrangement. BabyBaby is wrong and morally corrupt. Not all single men are stingy/broke or starting for the bottom, and are adaptive to her detached soft lifestyle.

[@Zozotyi]

She has never been married what is she talking about in this topic

[@LadyLe-z7o]

I can confirm, Swati men are very romantic, they know how to love a woman and they have respect for a woman.

[@zeemali4369]

Am Swati and I concur. Most of our men are loving. I mean, those who are amazing are amazing and the bad ones🙆🏾‍♀️

[@Wasa35]

You find that after cooking ka that drie voet, the side chick is amongst the guests and Wena ga o itse, Wena o mosetlha from all the cooking and she has make up on fleek! Morena re hauhele!😢

[@SibsM93]

Some ex-wives even become a side chick to the very man she divorced. Now that he's with a new partner or officially the one who was the side chick during your marriage, wena you go back to him as a side chick in that situation. 😅

[@docusndebelee2028]

Im dating a married man guys...l used to be emotional but not anymore....now l put myself first and l respect the main...we dont even know each other.

[@Wasa35]

Hi Perseverance, I tried to make myself a Bob The Builder to a guy with five kids, staying in a family home in some area I could not afford to be seen at, yoh! I got my first experience of being used through being with him! I dumped him so quickly, kante neh, he’s a professional hustler with only a high school qualification dating successful young women! Yoh!!!😢

[@pphumii]

May we wemen learn to be selfish 🙏🏾

[@Wasa35]

@@pphumii I do not think we are built like that, we once went somewhere with his son and the son called me a Sponsor, did I run at the sound of that? No! The dicxxxc was dicxxing…

[@pfulu]

Baby Baby, Only when the Divil is given platform to shine , and you will never understand😅

[@boitshepokekana2039]

Baby baby’s man hates his wife because how on earth can he go 50/50 with the wife and do everything for Baby baby?! I would maybe understand if the wife was getting the same treatment but him treating his sidechick better than his wife is a character flaw

[@hlonidee6924]

It's rough out these some cheating men are not even doing the 50, the wife is burdened with all the responsibilities while the husband spends on the side chick. I'm a teacher and the things learners tell us about the situations at home is really sad they don't even want to pay school fees.

[@boitshepokekana2039]

Oh my goodness that is so heartbreaking 💔 I feel for the kids having to witness such💔

[@LM-he7eb]

MOST MEN DO THIS. Men marry women who are safe (incase things go wrong), women who will split bills, women who will cook ka drievoot

[@Prisca_BossLady]

Baby baby is talking for most of us who don't have the guts to talk about it but we are here and happy 😊

[@cece_pride]

As long baby baby is not dating my husband 😂 let her eat

[@missk7126]

😂😂😂 Haibo

[@RKK617]

She’s disrespecting married women, I wish the wife to find out about the husband infidelity

[@sweetrose362]

Gore i could not contain myself as she was proudly speaking about her so called relationship with the married guy women we are our own enemy😢

[@pfulu]

@@sweetrose362But she didn’t know he’s married and that the reason she leave him 😅

[@NewLifeJourney24]

​@@pfuluimagine me not knowing and having 4 children with the man and just finding as an American wife. The betrayal...

[@lebohangmokeretla4639]

I don't blame baby baby She's also building herself

[@portiazulu8352]

Babe babe to the world. You represented us well 😊

[@QueenDee1207]

😂😂😂its hard to hate baby baby ..i deeply wanna be mad at her 4comfortably dating a married man but i just love her unsers shame .she says the dangerous prayer t u oray 4her just turn it to yiur husbant to stop cheating !!! Finish n klaar 😢

[@kelebogilemfolwe4076]

My first seeing u Madam speaker running short of words😅😅😂

[@nthabisengmakume-e6b]

Why are we judging baby baby . We all have choices and this is a choice she has made and it is working for her . The man is the one who should be held accountable to his wife and loyal to his wife. Baby baby doesn’t owe any loyalty to the wife. Choices guys . Some of us are sides and we don’t even know because it is done behind our backs , because banna babang cheat like pros 😂😂😂😂

[@NkatekoTinghitsi]

As long as u are happy n u are not taking the man.

[@victorianethanani8578]

im here for baby baby. This woman knows her worth. i dont care who says what....Baby Baby is the woman she think she is...I Love her👌

[@bhekiwemkhaliphi115]

I'm a Swazi girl , I like my position as the other woman from 2013 up to now and I have never been happier. I love My Swazi man, polite and gentle not forgetting that he's tall dark and handsome. Marriage is not a priority for me now. Dangerous prayers my foot ! You think God will only listen to you co's you are unhappily Marriage?

[@rendanimusetsho7546]

M loving u akere😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@portiazulu8352]

My kinda gal...married women think God belongs to them

[@happyGirlChauke]

All in all relationships or situationships are sophisticated. At the end of the day, it all rests on one's individual "moral values" Our experiences also speak volumes.

[@mmathapelokhoza4662]

All I'm asking is to not twist the Word of God to make it fit into our standards. ❤❤❤

[@NkatekoTinghitsi]

As long as he is treating u well n u are happy n u don't want to take the man.

[@KurantaD]

Kunini ngithi yooo😂😂😂

[@Mase_DeeKay]

Baby baby the wife is here listening 😂😂😂 you just blew the cover…

[@ellahnokane4536]

It’s been almost a week, I’m not even halfway this video I’m getting chest pains.😣

[@LadyLe-z7o]

Men get bored very fast that is why he is with baby baby, he's bored of his wife and when he get bored of baby baby he will move to another woman that's men for you. All married men have side chicks like it or not.

[@mirenke2014]

Even some married women have boyfriends

[@silindilenxumalo9541]

Baby baby iskhokho shame😂😂. I wish there was a way to send voice note and share my view on this topic. I don't believe in dating married men but baby baby is not wrong, indoda le eshadile e busy naye who is on the wrong. Because he approached u baby baby knowing very well ukuthi ishadile. I wish we can see as women that our husbands or partners are the ones on the wrong and stop bashing side chicks. I wish there was a way to send a voice note so that I was going to share what I'm thinking and ngiyichaze kahle.😂😂

[@Mase_DeeKay]

Married women are not in denial, they are just holding their partners accountable to the promises made and vows taken…

[@dineoledwaba8936]

Baby baby is giving her own POV as this is a discussion and her POV wont favour all of us in this platform. re tlo kwata until this 2 hours is done let's respect her POV

[@nthabisengmataboge582]

Madame Speaker looks like u are defeated

[@leratomosiane2740]

I've never seen her so shocked 😂

[@lindynkosi]

Baby baby for president ✊✊✊😂😂😂

[@bhekiwemkhaliphi115]

Chest pains you are causing the wife's baby baby😂😂😂😂 busy asking what if what if ? Hands off baby baby

[@nenemahlangu5539]

I love baby baby. She’s realistic. Putting herself first and not living in a fairytale. Most women are existing in fairytales which leads to them giving WAY TOO much esp in marriage

[@florahgaboipofemokgaotsi4543]

I love Baby baby😂

[@sweetrose362]

Proffessional side chick your confidence will be the death of you one day dont play with a broken woman wait till she realises you are there, they say "hell hath no fury like a scorned woman"

[@perseverencemoyo2464]

Someone died in zim with this bragging,the lady was shouting the wife and disrespecting her,she is late as we speak

[@chachan2583]

The ladies are trying so hard to shame her when in reality, many women and wives got to be in their relationships by not confirming to being a good girl. Leave Baby alone!

[@naleditshehla917]

Whatever we do today determines our children 's future. I'm not married not by choice though but i believe you can't build by someone 's tears. Personally i believe that most of the horrible things i experience today is the consequences of those who lived(bloodline) before me. As much as is extremely difficult, i pray everyday not to make my fellow women cry because I'm with their husbands. Some wives are going through a lot including the kids because of this.

[@portiazulu8352]

Married women you are even judging Babe & that a sin. You are judging her for sinning differently 😂

[@littlemisssunshine917]

I don't think baby baby needed a spokesperson, why does she keep trying to break the other women who are asking baby baby questions. Especially after baby baby said they should feel free and ask questions. Edit: I finished watching the video. She stood up for herself.

[@Itss_your_girl_bk]

I like baby baby's honesty.Many of us women we are in this kind of relationships but we want to be holy holy

[@khethiwemethula4977]

Guilty as charged, it's been 3yrs. I just don't have the courage baby baby has, it's not a crown I wear.

[@khethiwemethula4977]

Hebrews 13:4 says that marriage is to be honoured by all. Husbands and wives must be faithful to each other. It's amazing how most people expect the other woman to respect the marriage of another woman. Meanwhile, it's the honourable husband who has disrespected the wife, the marriage. I don't owe the wife loyalty. These husbands are single in public, some don't even declare that they're married. Guy approaches me, acts right, I fall in love. Nothing wrong there. I found out he's married when I'm already deep in.

[@Mase_DeeKay]

😂😂😂 Bathong professional side chick 😅

[@laniaquaccoo1214]

The more the side chick describes her situation and how their relationship developed, the more scary her situation sounds. The situation sounds nerve recking and insecure. Side chick sounds powerful but it is not a very stable situation for her and the kids.

[@maritawanazw]

People might come at me for saying this but this "Baby Baby" ane Jezebel Spirit😂

[@busisiwemichelle5391]

Now l see why divorce women will date a married man listening to Madam speaker at the beginning she made sence it clicked

[@lutendomalwela3847]

This is the best show ever,.....baby baby ndia mufuna

[@Mo-tp1to]

I dated a Swati guy I met n made a rebound. 2 3 mnths later he actually told me I was pregnant by my ex obvious coz we never did the deed He stayed until I gave birth everything everyday I still long for him...never touched me

[@Mase_DeeKay]

Baby baby the wife is here listening 😂😂😂 you just blew the cover. Baby baby told you guys she is gonna answer all your questions…

[@sibongisenisakhele3114]

Gums, you cannot predict tomorrow about the heart.

[@thembileluthuli1154]

😮😂😂😂😂 to this I’m silent for the first time in these lives

[@maletsatsimalebye319]

Baby baby values money more than anything

[@missk7126]

She doesn't want stress 😂

[@moratouamolefe8677]

My story wena madam speaker dated for 4yrs without knowing, mojolo wa nyesa

[@lataninemukula4815]

😂😂wooow, I'm out of words

[@TheHumanInMe]

You are 😂causing trouble in our street my lady

[@tinyikonyikos3680]

Ooh my God this child 😅😅😅 bitter truth she killed me

[@nthabisengrawu706]

Lol I love her. She's not dating a married with a heart. Yes that how you do it. We eat the money

[@innocentiangobeni9136]

Yes😂

[@okuhlengubo9359]

I am here for BabyBaby's answers!!

[@itumahlaba9518]

CAN MEET BABYBAY. WE WANT SELF LOVE CLASSES WITH BABY BABY.

[@CoachThirdhope]

Baby❤❤,😂😂😂😂 wife’s are sitting with one bum

[@Carol11724]

😂😂

[@tsakanindzeru2311]

Baby baby for president

[@mphoseitlheko]

😂😂😂 am shocked

[@PebetseCarvedForGreatness]

Sbu Noah makes me Cry too 🥹🥹🥹😩😩😂😊

[@mathapelomohlabeng2682]

Baby baby ke boss. Ke kopa go mmona tuu😂

[@ThembisoMhlauli]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the liver of the professional side chick

[@fusiflorence8123]

Baby baby for the country,woman who knows what she wants,and you very smart hey,I admire you❤❤❤❤