Leaving Behind Those Who Disrespect You

[@InfernoSetfire]

“Every person must make a stand for their own dignity, self worth and self respect when it is consistently violated by those who insist on keeping us small. It is not your job or responsibility to make others feel comfortable with the real you. Other peoples opinions of you are none of your business. True friends and lovers embrace, accept and encourage the real you. Those who do not must be left behind. There is no other way. You’ll never be happy or reach your full potential by trying to live up to the opinions or unreasonable expectations of others.” -Coach Corey Wayne

[@jennycruz8341]

Every person must make a stand for their own dignity, self worth and self respect when it is consistently violated by those who insist on keeping us small. It is not your job or responsibility to make others feel comfortable with the real you. Other peoples opinions of you are none of your business. True friends and lovers embrace, accept and encourage the real you. Those who do not must be left behind. There is no other way. You’ll never be happy or reach the full potential by trying to live up to the opinions or unreasonable expectations of others.

[@dischargesummary8794]

Inferno Setfire well...exactly.....

[@unuminregnodei]

Inferno Setfire I wish to have known this earlier, before becoming worthless!

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Very true!

[@ddmmrr103]

Being able to respect others while also communicating to someone that is, maybe even unintentionally/unknowingly, stepping on you and making you feel bad is important for both sides: Because if this imbalance keeps going then the victim will get used to the abuse and, consciously or not, will feel like it does not deserve to be treated equally as other people, while the other side will get used to act like an ass and will sooner or later, find the right person or situation that will come with the realization that when it's about others, it needs to be applied a certain amount of respect to avoid conflicts and upsets, at that point the abuser will _hopefully_ start to consider being more careful with others, and loosing the perceived privilege of being more important all of a sudden may also cause a feeling of worthlessness.

[@eva-janemiddleton434]

co-dependency is a bitch. The letting go is a short term pain compared to staying.

[@DominicCruz]

It's been 2 months since I let go of my ex. I couldn't settle to be friends and the letting go part is the most painful experience. However, pain makes you a lot stronger and wiser.

[@jreyna1224]

PoppinDom7 so what is your update after 5 months? I'm on couple days and I've done it before with this person but for some reason this is really hard this time but I know I need to do this.

[@nothingdotdlmsc381]

aint that the truth. i have so many friends men and women who have spent their whole adult lives co-dependent. The thought of them being on their own seems more impossible than living without food and water. If they leave someone they have to cheat 1st to have another boy/girlfriend and place already setup to fall back on or if it happens suddenly they will just fall for the next guy/girl no matter who it is. I'm lucky i live downtown area of a nice city so finding a date or 2 or 3 isn't hard but HAVE to take time in between relationships to focus on myself. i take the ability for granted too far often

[@daniels3318]

So hard when kids are involved tho it's a bitch situation. Want the kids mom away but she's always there because the kids

[@TurbulantSynider]

Hows it going on now sir ​@@DominicCruz

[@smit4459]

One of the best pieces of relationship advice, I heard from a friend (regarding my second rebound ex) was, "She brings out the worst in you". My female friend later on said to me, "You deserve to be around people, who bring out the best in you".

[@newjerseydeals]

Did you dump the trash ex and start dating the female friend?

[@smit4459]

I dated another female friend.

[@JJones-nf9ce]

When your politeness is taken for granted and you are being disrespected recognize that it will become much worse if you happen to fall into a financial crisis

[@MarkMark-ji6ts]

If some girl ditched me for another guy. She would never be coming back.

[@drbigglebum]

If you let her, she might come back.

[@Gabriel-mr5gf]

@@drbigglebum you have no respect for yourself

[@joec1212]

I'm definitely to the point where if someone says I need space I will tell them right there "well that means you dont properly value me, and are not looking to work through stuff, so you know where the door is" and walk and as Cw says....never look back

[@jeremyarroyo360]

Yea stay in the fridge spoil milk.

[@ddmmrr103]

Gabriel 1 Giving a second chance to someone who hurt you doesn't mean to let them abuse of you again if you explain them with seriousness and confidence what you didn't like. But in this situation, I think that a serious amount of time needs to pass before considering to give a partner like that another chance, because if it doesn't take much to them to get with someone else, than they still don't understands love beside the physical one, because true love and affection takes time to build up, and it doesn't change like that in less than a day.

[@holographicc6974]

THIS is the single most important reason why any and all relationships fail: Blatant disrespect. I’d rather be alone than disrespected. I broke things off with many jerks bc I respect myself and they thought I was just another skanky playtoy they were used to. 💃💥

[@alhassanetoure3088]

keep quiet there

[@PinkWetKisses]

Good for you 👏🏽💪🏽👍🏽 love it!

[@flo_ridaa7074]

Well done 👍🏼

[@alanperez7657]

I dont even understand why women comment on this. We arent even in the same universe

[@TheButcherGorr]

Nobody cares, grandma

[@drbigglebum]

People who are sad love when a positive person shows them happiness.

[@J4YAH777]

@Claudia Vlahović unfortunately it is not always the case.

[@blakehorton8110]

Shit man I'm always happy when someone shows me positive attention unless it's fake then I kind of resent it lol

[@colevanblaricon3032]

it's true, they do. They just have no idea what to do with it or how to reciprocate it.

[@clevelandhillo889]

this guy has change my life

[@DrogoBaggins987]

There's no such thing as a small drug addiction issue. That's like being a little bit pregnant.

[@ausar3852]

Lmao... AMEN

[@edwardholmen5203]

Love it, Man U fan?

[@ChrisBarnette-zk8iy]

😂

[@ConquerorOfMinds]

After i watched this i realized that i have no real friends and been lowered my standards connecting to other people.. Since im enlighten of this video. I will set boundaries from people, to respect myself. Thank u coach corey.

[@lovemagicandroad]

The “avoiding eye contact” was one of the first things I noticed when I arrived to the US from Israel at age 20. In Israel people look you in the eyes and tell you what they feel, wether good or bad.

[@shortingthetrend]

Really? Can you tell us more???

[@gibbs826]

"come on man" lol. I love when he says that. GOLD

[@TheLoneBandit42]

Same 😂

[@locomty]

what a coinkydink me too

[@renaudbouie1273]

Just

[@patrickorourke41]

Anyone else hear that in Keshawn Johnson’s voice?

[@flo_ridaa7074]

Just like his T-shirt:)

[@lovemecom3832]

You need to start embrace self-worth and stick to it no matter what because you deserved someone who give you more respect.

[@macioluko9484]

Absolutely. The sad thing about the current world is that most (over 95%) of the population doesn't take the time to even discover what it is that they truly want and go after it.

[@dannyp7546]

So true, my ex broke up with me this week and I could give a fuck because of the amount of abuse and disrespect, I don't need it in my life it was a mistake to take her back in the first place. I'm definitely a glass half full positive loving human being and she constantly tried to tear me down. Nope. I deserve more, much more

[@nadinegomez8858]

It’s always harder when you care about the person , and losing them would be painful

[@shanrock34]

Last night, my friend who was incredibly drunk and went off on me because she wants me to choose her over my other friend and was acting like a child. I was so incredibly disrespected, and it made me realize I'm sick of not standing up for myself in order to avoid conflict.

[@ryanthir7853]

His videos have helped me so much. Fell in love with a narcist. I met her and I was in a good spot in my life. By the time she was fi ished with me, my cofindence was in pieces. Its taken a while to rediscover myself. Thank you

[@blakehorton8110]

Same here , she didn't give a fck about me told me I was everything she ever wanted I'm a man , then basically used me to make her ex jelouse and when he came back to her she dumped me like a sack of potatoes , I knew something was wrong she was way out of my league as far as looks are concerned, I'm just glad she didn't get me like the first girl stole 10 years of my life and took another 6 to put myself back together , I'm gaining confidence through all these videos it's helping out immensely , man was she ever beautiful cool and just wow , Dec a narcasist though both of them and I found out I'm co dependant and I attract them so I've learned how to stop being so nice and needy as well

[@rod1861]

Blake Horton this happen to me,ex girl goes back and forth with me and ex bf,when she breaks up with she runs to me and as soon as they get back together she ditches me outta nowhere but I know her pattern now and know she’ll come back soon,I don’t waste money on her anymore I just invite her over for a drink and she comes because she’s vulnerable at the time,we fuck and she goes home..this kind of woman don’t deserve a good man treat them as fuck buddies at best and find a good woman,good luck ..

[@frankies1245]

Back then when I didn't know you coach I dated unhappy women. Women who are unsecure, not loyal and absolute no integrity. I thought i could change them. But that's not how it works. Now I only go out with those happy ones 👸👸👸 hang out,have fun HOOK UP!

[@Happy-Me.]

Yep life's too short. Tried to help my first love after meeting her many years later. Way too many issues. I lasted longer than I wanted to and she demonstrated many aspects of BPD. I had to let her go and not look back!.

[@juliochavez1682]

Mr Happy I hear you on that. I had a similar situation happen to me not long ago; I hooked up with an ex BPD girlfriend of mine from 2 years ago. The sex is magical, but then after that, things go back to being how they used to be. They can't be fixed (and don't take responsibility for their shitty and narcissistic behavior) and all you can do is keep on learning, walk away with your self-respect, enjoy what life has to offer (meet, date, and hook up witg other women, find a purpose in life), and meet other people that will value you and not take you for granted.

[@Happy-Me.]

Thank you Julio. They take advantage of your good nature which seems so wrong and put themselves at risk with someone who inevitably will treat them badly. In life you only get a few chances to meet up and be with outstanding people. Sadly Borderlines don't deserve to be with them. This girl was my first love when she was 16 and me 18. I met up with her again in our 50's. To see how she had allowed life and herself to become what she is now was heartbreaking and I did so much to improve her life and self esteem. Her friends pleaded for me to stay and look out for her. We loved each other so much and I tried to stay with her but I just couldn't take it anymore. I feel I let her down but I had to also look after myself as I felt I was slowly losing a grip on reality!! Yes we lasted just over two years too!

[@kayabottono8280]

Mr Happy and julio how sad you both bag on people who have bpd. This illness is caused by childhood trauma. These people were abused and neglected and this is why they don't have the emotional skills they need. You are completely uneducated on the topic and have a lack of empathy. You clearly never helped either women with self esteem or gave them support (you don't even understand the illness which would never of helped nor can you ever of offered any ACTUAL support when you don't know the needs of that person? ) they would have got better with your support if you actually had a clue. How dare you say these people don't deserve anyone because of the abuse they went through which was not their fault. I think your projecting on the narcissism, you are the one sounding like a true narcissist julio. I suggest you both Educate yourself on mental health or stfu with your judgements. As to be attracted to someone with bpd shows mental health in you as the partners they attract normally Co dependants/ narcissists/ emotionally disconnected people. There is so much proof of this. So you yourselves would of had one of these. Sorry to piss on your parade but Borderline never get in relationships with emotionally and mentally healthy people

[@Happy-Me.]

Kaya Bottono I’m afraid some of what you say is nonsense. I knew this girl a long time ago. Her issues were never a problem or issue to be dealt with. I treated her with respect because of the love I had for her. I put up with so much and tried so hard to understand her. The more I educated myself on the subject the worse it was for me. How can you help someone you think has BPD if they feel that there is nothing wrong with them? Regardless of what you say it became health and self. It was affecting my life in too many ways that eventually it would have been very detrimental to me and I couldn’t risk that. I’ll never stop loving her but sometimes love just isn’t enough!

[@noahpjones1]

That is so interesting. Ever since I've started watching videos like yours and i've become more confident, I notice people don't look at you when you talk to them. I never noticed that until I started improving and bettering myself!

[@thethrillz3204]

The quote at 57 to 1:17 says it all. Once again Coach you nailed it!!!

[@bigrich693]

The m you coach. For always making me see the light! Everytime I fall into a slump, I listen to you and it knocks some sense into me. Thanks for being the big bro I never had

[@Peter-mf6gh]

Self respect and Dignity, Facts..

[@single_daddin_it]

A lot of people tell me I’m a very intense person and it’s difficult to talk to me because I get straight to the point and expect that strong face to face communication. It’s caused a lot of relationships to go south.

[@loveQatar]

Same here

[@denillehorton1125]

Thank you Coach, you have really opened my eyes sometimes you have to let go even if is your own family. I use to believe that even though it was my family it was okay for them to disrespect me but learning and listening to this has helped me to move on it is okay

[@AnangryLibertarian]

I've noticed that I move away from people or close myself off. Gotta work on that!

[@gauravbhan]

That's true that men don't know how to make women happy. But one can't make a depressed person happy who doesn't take responsibility of anything. Just one scenario.

[@Lamars.Smallwood]

great advice, I listen to your show all the time . coach corey wayne is always spot on with his advice.

[@fattyjaybird7505]

Lol!! I cant believe you quote Gerald Celente... i used to listen to him all the time, the universe works in mysterious ways

[@lizzg18]

Wish I saw you before I married my cheating, abusive HS sweetheart & the father of our 2 Boys (which he is a good day). Well 15yrs later & during our engagement he not only pursued women online, dating sites, affair sites & then eventually tried messing with his friends, promiscuous girlfriends. I use to be so self sufficient and confident, now I feel so down & hopelss when he calls me names and explodes at me in front of kids. Ur videos are giving me the confidence and guidance I need to leave this toxic man.

[@poopbug6346]

I think ur the problem u just don’t like to be told anything ur the toxic one I bet u if u leave ur husband u will listening to the other man everything he wants u to do. I bet my life u would not think of him toxic you just say yes master ur wish is my commend.

[@CharlesFerraro]

Steve Chevy and Poop Bug You’re both projecting your insecurities. Fact is HE’S the one looking it cheat, not her. She has to say “hey get it together or I walk” like any self-respecting person would do.

[@alirezaostaditorghabeh548]

Hey dear, leave for the sake of your children

[@wb9506]

I'm gonna cement this concept in my head forever

[@jorjtebo]

You're the man Coach. am learning a tonnes of stuffs from your teachings

[@londonoalex]

If you're living in your car, get your class1, A, CDL, AZ (all the same drivers license) and become a trucker. Huge demand for drivers and the truck bunks are like small RV homes. + the money is respectable.

[@benjaminherbert5564]

West texas has a bunch of work for cdl drivers, everything from haulinf frac sand to hauling water tankers

[@tamarabitter4913]

I get disrespected by people sometimes when i didn't do nothing to them and it gets me mad when they get mad at me for no reason or just rude to me for no reason like i wish i can say what is your problem but i can be sensitive over being disrespected by someone but it depends what there disrespecting me about

[@emilemacdonald6277]

Yep....same

[@Anna-ml7rm]

"I love you i cant live without you!!!" so funny. It really does look like that doesnt it? I feel so pathetic! Never again.

[@blakehorton8110]

How are things now

[@MARIOCARRILLO13]

Love you Coach!!! I had a lot of the same outlooks as you teach. Fell off for a minute but finding you got me back on track!!!!! Great work!

[@katiedepietro5982]

you have so many words of wisdom*all of us that r lost you r helping us find way home again😢🙏You really hold the 🔑 s to kingdom of gerting our own life back again along with hope*life* self respect back n all our loved ones along the way*🙏🙏😢Thank u eternally from alll of us*ylure awesome🌟🌟🌟🌟Keep on shinning our bright 🌟

[@Bemabond]

Man I love you lol. I started watching your videos a few weeks ago coz I'm in a weird ass spot with a girl I'm dating or something, and now your book is about to be on my phone. I appreciate your work man. Thanks so much.

[@zetar87]

you can have who ever u want to have if you so wish to , ANYONE . As hard as it is for you to believe .You are a god walking on earth begging for love ...? Is that how low you think of your self ? Bring your worth to the surface and shine from within . You have for long lieing to your self about who you are. Hiding the truth in the shadows . Go and find out who you are . Dive deep in your emotions and listen to what they are telling you From this day on forward I chose to believe that I can have any woman I want and I let go all those who can't share their love with me . I AM WORTH A DIAMONDS AND BEYOND ! I no longer believe would I be liked ? No ! I say ... Are THEY worth having me ?

[@michealblizz5072]

zetar87 I love this mindset Ima have to tell myself this

[@AmylAims]

The "look" into the camera and hilarious understatements that follow are hilarious 😂

[@zeroesx7217]

Love your face when you read : “A small drug addiction issue” 😂 “that’s what we call a red flag dude” 😂😂😂

[@richardrichard9953]

When I was 24 I had a moment of Clarity. All of a sudden I saw my world how it really was. I didn't like it. I stopped all of my bad Habits. I moved and changed my phone number. I came to the fork in the road and luckily for me I chose the right path. I

[@joearies8391]

NEVER apologize that much.

[@amygrant9407]

I just want to say that I just came across your videos, and the one I just watched right now, I can kind of relate to. The guy I'm staying with is totally different than the one who I met! Who had made me all these great promises, and like the quote you stated in the beginning that 'what you observe you participate in' and now he drinks everynight and just to 'tolerate' being with him I end up having a few beers with him, and feel terrible. I was in Nursing but due to the severity of my Rheumatoid arthritis I had to quit and am now on disability and feel financially stuck and want out of here. And living in a small town of 9thousand people in North Dakota. I just feel so stuck and confused.

[@drummerboy737]

You should look into the work of a doctor named Ray Peat. He has some answers on arthritis that are low cost.

[@shortingthetrend]

31:00 gotta know if this worked out.... Did they get back together?? Cliffhanger of an ending Coach!!!

[@Jackson37737]

Here is what you MUST know about the “S” test: 1. If you agree to it then you have already flunked it. The only “S” test you should agree to is the one you give HER. 2. All answers given MUST be no answer at all. For example, “Really?” or, “Ha, that’s funny” or even, “Well, that's ridiculous” or simply no answer at all. 3. Always SMILE at what ever they say to you no matter how ridiculous or rude they become. This tells them that WHAT they say to you has no bering - they have absolutely no AFFECT on you OR your mood. 4. If at any time they become unentertaining OR too rude, simply walk away. 5. If they flunk YOUR “S” test - do NOT give them another chance. Simply walk away. 6. NEVER lose control of the situation. Never allow them to believe that THEY are in control of you. Everything should be done at your behest with your expressed permission. Anything less and they will lose respect for you AND the relationship will be over. This does NOT mean that you have to be rude or a control freak. Always be nice - even when they are not nice to you. REMEMBER THIS FIRST AND FOREMOST: Never EVER put up with a woman's “S” - Not even her “S” tests. As soon as she finds out that you are willing to put up with her crap, that is all you can ever expect from her. She has to be aware that you are NEVER willing to be complacent about how she treats you. If she treats you poorly - the exit is close by. Use it. Absolutely nothing is worth the price of a female’s “S”. PERIOD. FINALLY: Women do not set the social “standards of etiquette” for our society - but they should abide by them. Moreover, it is inappropriate in today's environment for anyone to cull their own group as MORE SPECIAL or exceptional than any other. In short, they should abide by all of the SAME social rules of engagement as any other group. Never allow the females in any situation to collectively hold males to standards they themselves are unable to act in accordance to. Keep this at the forefront in all dealings with ANY group - especially females in specific and women's groups in general.

[@MrMrONeill]

Just wanted to say, I really enjoy your video's Corey......enlightening, I wish I had these videos when I was in my 20's. Take Care®😁✌🏻️

[@SoldierJ613]

I have watched a lot of your videos among other coach's videos ,I just want to say I respect your teachings.I find them to be true,but very depressing. Women basically love men that aren't emotionally attached to them. Therefore for me it's hard to ever truly find that one that I can connect with and care for. Seems like a lot of hard work,and my games,and fake BS to be happy. No wonder our society is jacked up. Everyone is sleeping around with multiple partners and they have no emotional connection. Its like our society encourages narcissistic behaviors .Really,its sad that I have to play games, and not be the loving man that God gave me the heart to be just to keep a woman that I love. I guess this is why my relationships fail,and I have never married at 40 because everyone is only in love with their self.

[@j_jones_]

SoldierJ613 it’s not that they want someone who isn’t emotionally attached to them, they don’t want a man who is weak and has low self-esteem. That is an indicator that the man is truly not strong enough to defend her. That’s why a woman will shit test the fuck out of you. She subconsciously wants you to stand up for your own dignity for her sake.

[@joec1212]

Amen brother. If you're in shape and financially secure, not controlling and have a good head on your shoulders you're either fishing in the wrong pond, self deprecating, or arent being assertive enough with them. That being said you'll get what you need when you need it. Keep the faith.

[@joec1212]

Also, you definitely have to keep yourself as your focal point. Women will try to suck up all of your time, and if you dont do what you need to do for yourself, and put it off she will resent you. Also you unfortunately have to keep them guessing by making sure you make time to go hang with your boys and do stuff without her, otherwise she will get too comfortable and you will be too predictable. Hey it's just female nature and you can either learn it and deal with it our be loveless. It all goes how its supposed to you'll get there brother.

[@henrytaff8067]

@@j_jones_ how is being emotionally involved with someone you love is a sign of weakness. That doesn't add up

[@CharlesFerraro]

SoldierJ613 did you ever find someone? Also even if you never found a life partner, did you have kids?

[@williamchiusano3185]

Timeless Advise .. Stop Trying to Drag along People Who Want to Be Left Behind.... Be RELENTLESS

[@ski8799]

Current girlfriend of 2+ years flirts with other guys all of the time in front of me, I just look the other way but then it gets to me and bring it up later. She then calls me "oversensitive", "jealous" and "insecure". After talking with people, I see that she is straight dis-respecting our relationship. I love her but fed up with this, looking inward has helped, I don't care so much anymore, wanted to share this approach...

[@andrewreeves9158]

Dump her. She doesn’t respect you.

[@Hmbldzy99]

Here's the thing Gary -- if you loved yourself the way you love her you would never allow yourself to be with a woman like her. I just dumped a gorgeous woman -- a solid 9 -- because after 4 months I collected all the red flags and looked at them and realized they all came from her having really low self esteem. Just being friends with her involved a lot of drama so I had to end it. Better to cut these people out earlier rather than later because the drama only gets worse. Walk away and mean it. Guys, you've gotta understand that the key to ALL of this isn't just Corey's work, it's about loving yourself. Google "self love mirror exercise." This worked for me, after 2 months of doing this my life began to change. I began to notice when I would criticize myself and cut it off at the pass. Each day led to more self-respect and less self-abuse. It's because of this that I was able to easily walk away from a gorgeous woman. Because I love myself and I know she's not healthy for me. Do it.

[@VelourSweatsuit]

You gotta leave her. That's Rule 1 in their playbook. Fuck with you and call you insecure if you speak up. It's slimy. You gotta go.

[@InTheKnow2011]

19:06 - The double 'uh oh' look - too funny

[@rosiecheeks.k]

Phil Hayes yes 😂 had to watch it twice

[@FreedomPhilosophyTV]

Excellent judgement as usual. This makes clear the disrespectful nature of the "open relationship" I got dumped out of last year.

[@pnoiathlete]

I love the facial expressions and sarcastic humor. Awesome vid :)

[@firdousa8888]

thank you so much for this very helpful segment..please keep on making them...do write an ebook...I will buy it..!

[@nebakanezaforevermore2452]

People can't look me in my eyes lol preach Corey it's so true

[@lolisierra8754]

My sister always finds faults in me. She complains endlessles and wants to fix my life. I sent her to hell....dont talk to her anymore, but I have a sense of loss.

[@travv88]

lmfao you sent her to HELL?

[@SPECTRA890]

@@bernieoconnell5515 that's what they never get, very sad

[@tannasayz]

Corey, I've been taking your advice dude... And here's the resullts... True story!!! My video! I RAN INTO MY OLD EX GIRL FRIEND WHILE I WAS ON A DATE

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Good job Dude. I know that felt good.

[@tannasayz]

THANKS MY DUDE! Yes it did!

[@RogueAizenYubel]

TANNA SAYZ My Mane lol

[@ROCKSTAR123620]

Many have and i moved on like nothing in their minds they try looking for me im good and busy and got my circle

[@awood9214]

Is it okay to leave parents behind if they continuously disrespect you and/or don't support your educational/career aspirations?

[@denisllamas4042]

Hey Coach - great advice and great tools. Just got led on by a friend who started texting and then just stopped on my birthday (nice friend). Thought about texting back but I'm following your advice. She knows how to reach me and she will contact me if she wants. I'm moving on. Thanks.

[@lukedavies5095]

“That’s what we call a RED FLAG DUDE” 😂😂😂 kills me

[@ShelleyG1014]

19:12 that look is hilarious. You're funny

[@supersasquatch]

I've been doing that for years and my standards must be very high because no one gets close

[@NEGAO699]

My ex has anxiety and depression from previous relationships, and family abuse like really bad abuse. Her family is a mess and trust me when i say it’s a mess. She ditch me last week just before Christmas when she was the one asking me to spend it with her. I got her help when we were together a couple of months ago she is seen psychologist and taking some meds.she is always breaking up with me and texting me after so we get back together. Enough. I love her more than anything but just realize that she is not for me, it’s always a drama, nothing is good for her. I’m a good looking guy (says my mum) and used to be a model when I used to live in Brasil I’m just walking away and will never look back. sometimes the best it’s to let it go and believe me I’m in the worse pain I ever felt in my life. But I’m the most important person in my life also I own some respect to myself. Thanks to Corey for all the videos. I’m listening to your book on the daily basis.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Bagfullofcrabs1]

You did good, and your ex most likely has borderline personality disorder. That crazy cycle of "go to hell - please don't leave me, I love you" is a distinct BPD trait.

I found you at the perfect time in my life. awesome

[@block36079]

19:59 Women really think we're dumb lmao, "we're just friends," yeah and Santa Claus is real.

[@8d3g5af8]

When he pulls out the neon with the sports jacket you know it’s going down

[@nebulae10]

Your qouts are always flawless

[@JRWhite]

You have really helped me with this video! I really want to Thank you!

[@iggjanna7018]

u understand this world correctly.

[@LulaRoberts]

You answered my questions about all the 1980s and 2017 I had in my head for an answer. Thank You very much, Sir 👍👌🫵.

[@heidis.t.8769]

You are being so compassionate here...this is when i subscribed

[@bigd3721]

I’ve noticed that when two girls like you. One of them for some reason doesn’t like the other chick 😂

[@NethervvoidBuilds]

17:06 That is dead on. Yes we have to look at what our fault was in the situation, but never forget that the other person also must take some fault. It's almost never just 1 person's fault.

[@NethervvoidBuilds]

@@JonKonik11 Yeah I saw that too in a different video. lol I always look at 'alternative' medicine with a critical eye. There are a lot of alternate medicine scams out there, like Christian Science. L. Ron Hubbard is a scamming genius. lol You know he wrote Sci Fi books before switching to something more lucrative? Battlefield Earth was a pretty damn good book IMO.

[@artleka1524]

hi Fedge.i read Coreys book more then 10times.every answer you need is in there.anyway as you said u need something urgently.to start with let her know (pretend)that you have a buzy social life that means do not set dates next day but if you see her tomorrow ,day after or thursday set a date for next week ,monday.you have to skip weekend fir the first 6-8weeks or more ,till she wants a exclusive relatioship with you.wherever you see her in your work place dont ignore her but teas her be playfull dont wait till the date.if she really is all over you and you are alone just go for the kiss.

[@AmethystDreaming]

LOVE your facial expressions

[@bobxx6396]

Corey you have changed the lives of so many people i could not have gone thrue my break up as well if you were not here for people once i am over her i will get your book work on my self and wait for the right girl

[@juliesparks4193]

when i was 16 my parents had me labeled incompotent and i have not changed since. i tried to go back to school but did not have the money to finish i got married in my early twentys got divorced soon after because he was crazier than me now i am 38 with nothing what do i do with the rest of my life i have no hobbies nothing i am good at

[@jloren5662]

Eye contact avoidance, yes. Tilted body posture? Depends. I only square up with someone i either hold in high regard or someone I'm about to confront. Similar stance in both square ups or side posture but VERY different reasons for each of the 2 types. Both are accompanied by other movements depending on the type of (side) or (straight).

[@fairymairah]

I've Always been Lost! ever since I was Born! I have Work Disabilities! I'm un-able to get my own Place! everytime i live with anyone ( that I have a feeling of ) they would or have a higher chance of bullying me! I have the kind of Family Members who i can't Reason with! I can't Say anything i want to them Without them accusing me of of Purposely being mean to them! Being a Smart Mouth! If Literally! than it's only me trying to Defend myself and Stand Up for Myself! But they also Treat Me like a Trouble Maker! even if I'm not trying to cause any trouble at all or did anything to them at all! it's like they're trying to cause trouble or Something! and I can't explain everything but I'm Very Lost! I have No One to Talk to! and it feels like I'm Oppressed Against my Will! Sometimes I Feel Very Very Troubled and Still Don't Know what to do ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !

[@robertsilva2870]

I was with the girl she was addicted to pain medication. Her mood swings were always up and down, and I always thought it was me, but then I sat down and I talk to her grandmother and her grandmother. Also the girl I was with has stated that she’s been in various relationships, even though she had two different kids from two different men I try to be there for her and so many ways but she was just so disrespectful. I had a part ways I should’ve knew when they told me none of her relationships lasted more than 3 to 4 years.

[@toddfield2185]

Great advice.

[@godiskungen27]

God you really nailed it I hate when persons are so disconnected they like turn sideways when standing straight at them talking trying making having regular conversation eye to eye happened to me yesterday I thought it was me that did something wrong but I have good confidence have no problem facing someone talking Thanks for posting This it really hitted the nail on the spot!

[@khaledlab]

There's a quote for you I'm looking for everywhere It's talking about someone who came from damaged family background or bad father

[@pjottr1]

i did this with a girl she gave another guy more attention i just walked away and never looked back! she married the other guy

[@soniareigns1088]

I continuously asked the ex to fix our problems or his issues. They were ignored over and over. I became tired of finding things out. I’m to blame for allowing him to keep doing me wrong as he would beg me to stay after he’d be caught. The second time I broke up with him. He said it was over. He got with whom I believe he was cheating on. After two weeks he told me he was “seeing” someone. Who now is his girlfriend. This guy exhibited narcissistic traits. Which I realized after we were done. I felt so discarded. I believe it was for the better. I sadly have a child with him. I have become a much better person. I have remained single. I had to work on myself and not drag my issues into a future relationship. I feel I am a great person but I sadly I became a bad person when I was with him. I would get so upset when I’d find out something he wasn’t supposed to do. So I cursed him out. He said I verbally abused him. I admit that cussing him out wasn’t the right thing to do. However, I feel he was projecting his multiple problems onto me. What do you think ?

[@ViralVeediuh]

How do you feel about it now? Three years later? It sounds like you were a bit controlling. “Found out things he did and wasn’t supposed to.” So you yelled at him? If it was cheating things, then you should have broken up with him. Other than that what things did he do that he wasn’t. Not good to live on eggshells.

[@AbleMike5]

The diet thing is so true. I was in the Army for six years and was deployed twice to Iraq. Two instances happened when one, we were short on food and water living in a foxhole in the desert for about 30 days. We had some clean water and mostly purified water that was horrible and only MREs to eat. So after 40 days we are in a big base and can have normal or real food. Keep in mind it was after barely eating anything. So I pile my plate up with stuff mostly breakfast items with salsa eggs and orange juice and so on. Almost immediately it didn't feel right. Then we start walking out and like a bomb hit me, everything came back out and got a huge headache etc. In the 40 days I had lost 25 lbs too. Colin Powell talks about it in his book when eating with the locals then heading to Saigon for debrief-same thing happened. When I got home after my first tour I went to Starbucks and the caffeine and sugar literally made me feel like I was having a seizure-I had to go to the hospital because I thought I was having a panic attack stroke and heart attack all at once. Keep in mind I was a fit Infantryman six feet tall that weighed 177 lbs. lol

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Thanks for your service! Go Army!

[@AbleMike5]

Could be. I think the sugar rush and caffeine rush was the culprit. After not having it for a year a sudden mocha frap almost killed me. haha!

[@sararushiti3416]

Coach Corey Wayne Please make a video as a reply to my email haha :))

[@CryptoKernels]

Sara Rushiti You Want this man to create an entire video for you? A typical selfish ass woman is what you are.

[@fantaclaus7053]

AbleMike5 You are a true Soldier! Thank you for your courageous service.

[@goldenslumber5163]

Yes, I always do that...

[@acesb24]

Lol. Great advice like always but damn if this ain't the 20th time I heard grab a bottle of wine and make some dinner 🤣

[@paulcooper3463]

Yeah ive noticed that when i smile at people they look at me like ive done something wrong its a strange society out there.

[@C3yl0]

Thanks for spreading your wisdom.

[@matthewmanion1074]

Corey my name is Matthew Manion I suffer from these following conditions/concerns 1. Living with toxic abusive parents that make me feel small 2. Having to pay off a federal disability insurance debt through my toxic parents that say I am to irresponsible and cant take care of myself. 3. Sex life sucks 4. Losing friends 5. My brothers and sister pay no attention to me at all 6. My mother acts nice in front of others but behind the scenes she's a shark. 7. I have no freedom I have a part time job and fixing to get another I don't have any sort of trade either but I like technology. Trying new things like getting out more often to get my space 8. My GF is in New York but I can't get to her making me feel bad as well with all my problems and all my racing thoughts. 9. I have recently decided to stay off dating sites to get better and it works 10. I have to much to say!! What do I do?

[@croatiancroissant28776]

I turn sideways when I’m over a conversation and trying to escape.

[@Jonathan_Bryant]

The part about having someone turning away from you when you look at them straight on is so true. There was one guy at my entrepreneur Club who I was talking to at the bar and started out with my back to the bar talking to him cuz I had turned around and faced him to talk. By the end of our conversation he had his back to the bar cuz he just kept turning every time I stepped in front of him😂

[@pjottr1]

the same thing everyday everywhere you will only get corey when you try what he says. dont use emotion but your mind

[@gmx1100]

23:40 LMFAO. Ive been guilty of that- walking 5 steps and then turning around and blubbering "ILOVEYOUICANTLIVEWITHOUTYOU!!!!" Bad place to be. T

[@solodad001]

What if she owes you money?

[@FedgeGondola]

Just what I needed right now. This girl I work with was totally into me. Touching me, flirting with me etc. I got her number etc and set a date. She flaked the first time and I just ignored it. The next day at work she apologized and suggested we go out tomorrow. I agreed and the next day I text her with a time and all of a sudden she drops off the earth. I can't tell if it's a silly game or I'm being played, but I give her no respect or attention anymore. In the past I would've freaked out and chased her. I guess I'll see how it pans out. But if she does shit like that, she doesn't get my attention. If she contacts me again should I set a date or just walk away?

[@drewvu6854]

You keep physical contact to a minimum and only use the phone to set dates. Don't over txt and talk indefinitely over the phone, that's what the dates are for. If she txt you, you set a date. Right now you should only contact her only when she reaches out to you, more than that and you'll come off as needy.

[@luidsasdfghj]

Same thing is going on with me, well at least the first part. There's this chick where I work at and she seemed into me when we first met. She asked me personal questions like where do i live, am I still in school, and if I like working there ( I work at a restaurant-buzzing, she works there as a hostess). I know I screwed up in a few ways. I was the one who was supposed to be asking the questions and letting her do most of the talking but instead she attacked me with all these questions, that I found myself just responding. I asked her a few questions I could think of at the moment, including asking her where she grew up and she said alot in response lol. So there was about a minute of us just staying quiet and then as i was about to ask her out like corey says, when the phone freaking rings (which she had to answer) and I was called to go do my job /.- so to finish my story the night passed by and she was later somewhat flirting with one of the waiter, including some touching.. mostly from the guy. So im just wondering should i ask her out next time i see her or should i just forget about her?

[@drewvu6854]

My best advice is to keep it natural. Dont focus so much on the girl and just keep the flow natural. When you see her at work say hey what's up. Ease the tension by making her feel comfortable and laugh. Crack a joke, flirt. Tease her when you see her and when she responds to you in a positive manner, man up and ask for her number. Don't txt back and forth and talk endlessly on the phone. Set a definite date and go from there. HANG OUT, HAVE FUN, HOOK UP. Keep it simple.

[@luidsasdfghj]

awesome man, thanks!

[@dbogmbinj]

FedgeGondola you shouldn't be worrying for that. Maybe she looks you as backup option as maybe her relationship with her boyfriend isn't that great. Just keep it casual and things will work out. You should remain centered while doing that, keeping conversations lite and funny. You're a catch, if she doesn't realize that it's her lost. If she reaches out to you, make a date on spot. :) luidsasdfghj You're not her boyfriend. She can flirt with anyone that she like so you shouldn't be paying attention to that. You didn't screw things up, you just aren't mysterious as much but maybe she finds you as a great guy being around. :) The other guy will fuck up eventually as he is as 97% of the men. Drew Vu gave you excellent advice.

[@bernadettenorris6167]

This is very interesting but talks about being confident l love it

[@noobish5574]

After 5 years from our breakup my ex invited me to hers to stay and spend a holiday with her for 5 days. She was so excited, took time off work she did, I flew 1300 km spent hundreds of euro to see her. The first night I was there she made me a third wheel. Kissed another guy that she was clearly seeing. We fought I spilled my guts. She thought we were just friemds. I confessed my love for her, I gave out saying I flew all this way all this money I'm right here right infront of you. What you did to me was lousey. She said if I had been honest with my intentions she wouldn't have invited me. I spent the next 4 days awkward but trying to be happy. Watching her take selfies and send them to who knows. Getting jealous thinking when I go she'll be in his bed. It was the most degrading hardest 5 days of my life. Its been 1 week, I went from my ex inviting me wanting to hang out. Her being sooo excited at airport and most of first day, to guy arriving going out watching them kiss on dance floor big fight, her telling me nothings changed. Its been 5 years of constant contact. To her kind of despising me and kind of getting along. And to her being like she can't wait to see me leave. All because I was weak mentally, didn't level up, had the same behaviours. Had oneitis, was a beta, tried too hard to please, cried I think drunk infront of her. She friendzoned me hard but there was something she knew how I felt I told her many times before I flew over but she forgot this. It was obvious from our conversations she was into me. The week I was there I started watching Corey's vids to get as much as I could out of them. I will read the book soon. 10 to 15 times. I told her I think she's an amazing woman I find her so attractive but I just can't have a friendship anymore with someone I love. I told her take care of herself and blocked her on all social media. This is rough. I've been through it twice with her now.

[@artemisapollo9018]

How has it been?

[@himanijha888]

Its like i try to get over such ppl ..but again m on rebound ..i am just unable to forget him ....what should i do ....