let me try to convince you to go on a no buy // why you should try a no buy in 2023

[@exomake_mehorololo]

Does anyone ever feel a main problem is having a very unbalanced view or relationship to money and lacking examples?? Like in my family I feel I see 2 extremes... Either people are tending to overspend and be financially irresponsible or they are extremely stingy and almost unhealthily obsessed with not spending any money on anything 😢 so I feel in my life I've only ever gone from one to the other extreme without ever really thinking about the purpose of money, questioning materialism and being actually in charge of your finances and contentment but rather doing what everyone does

[@sherynemmanuel]

Ooo I know that feeling. I'm glad my parents are fairly balanced. My dad is frugal while my mom is more lenient when it comes to spending. I hope you'll find balance in your financial journey 😉

[@ampersignia]

I think that’s because binary thinking is easy - so simple to just avoid all spending by closing yourself off to experiences and media, and also easy to go ham with it by saying yes to everything without looking critically. Learning to decide what’s worth it and what’s not is hard. I think it’s worth learning.

[@noneya154]

Check out the book You Need A Budget. It changed my whole mindset on spending all or nothing and I really think you'd get a lot out of it too since that's something you say you haven't had good examples of!

[@nickiethesaint316]

Exactly this!

[@FightergalMisaChan]

I know exactly what that feels. My parents are very frugal so when I started earning my own money and got a credit card, I got into terrible debt. And when I got out of debt, I became extremely frugal and wouldnt even do the things I wanted to do. But I feel now I am more balanced. I think carefully about what I actually want like more travelling and trying different cuisines. So I just budget for those and stick to it. The best part is that all of these experiences only took about 14months so not too much time wasted learning those life lessons

[@viraprofazi]

I go on a second no-buy year. Last year I wasn’t buying clothes, shoes, begs and was buying skin care on a one-in-one-out basis. It taught me so much. I continue into 2023, but I now know what i actually need, and I will be buying it: white sneakers, trouser suit, trench coat and leather jacket

[@shawnaripari]

Congratulations on completing your no buy and best of luck on your journey next year 💕

[@mayadesai1172]

Hi there

[@quietowl1246]

Shawna you are literally the best. I didn’t think I’d want to do another no buy after doing one in 2022 but it was bloody brilliant. I’ve achieved so many goals. I feel like I’ve been plugged back in and I’m loving life. Your channel really helped me to succeed. One thing that always stuck with my was the insanity of ‘buying to try’. I’d think nothing of dropping £30-50 on something to try it, when that’d be enough for a weekly shop. Taking control of your life is such an empowering step. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@shawnaripari]

Your comment 😭 thank you! This is so sweel. I am ultimately glad to hear that you're thriving and taking the power back in your life.

[@tracynorman4883]

That's motivating!!! 😁

[@susiebilk9905]

This made me think, I am famous for buying to try!

[@flawedfabulous]

I totally loved this video... You should talk about Fomo, because that's my biggest set back with doing a no buy.

[@shawnaripari]

that's a great idea, thanks for the suggestion!

[@afunnything5246]

Excellent video. I needed this pep talk. I’m doing a no-buy for 2023 . I’ve technically already started this month. I got our Christmas shopping done in November, so no excuses. I have a very expensive hobby that I fell into a few years ago and I can no longer justify paying as low as $500-$2,000 for high end collectible dolls, not to mention all the clothes and accessories. Like seriously! What did I get myself into! I love this hobby but when I look back and do the math of the thousands of dollars I have spent on not only on this hobby but other mindless impulse buys at Target or TJMAXX or Barnes & Noble, it’s sickening. All this money I’ve spent, me alone, on non essential items that are cluttering or I end up giving away because I didn’t need it to begin with. I’m doing this no-buy because it’s necessary and I catch myself scrolling looking for stuff to buy and have to tell myself this isn’t what you want, you’re bored or you’re sad or whatever. I’ve come to realize I need to replace that dopamine hit from purchasing with saving. I need to switch my mindset to be excited to save. And to do that I’ve been withdrawing the money I would have blown and tucking it away. It’s already a small little stash and I’m liking it. It’s a struggle not to look for something to buy but it’s paying off when I withdraw the cash, tuck it away rather than hit purchase and the money is gone forever.

[@shawnaripari]

I'm glad you enjoyed the video and are starting your no buy off strong!

[@BuyLessJess]

You convinced me to go on a no buy months ago. The fact that I have more than I need and can reasonably use/wear and still want more doesn’t sit well with me. I love your channel so much and revisit your playlists when I want something so bad it hurts. I’m 78 days in.

[@shawnaripari]

I love it ! So proud of you for making it 78 days in!

[@trishacarlson4122]

"what do you have to lose except bad habits?" OMG I LOVE THIS. Thank you for putting this into perspective in such a loving & understanding way. I'm saving money because I want to be financially secure. I don't want to struggle paycheck to paycheck. That's not me. I want to have 10, 20, 30k + in the BANK. That's my GOALS! Will it take time? Absolutely. My patience is being tested. I am doing so much better w/ my money than I ever have. & it's because I have such great influencers to look to for advice. Thank you so much for all you do

[@helenhirsch5717]

Shawna, I'm not going on a no-buy, but it's not because you weren't convincing, because you completely were right on the mark with this. It's just that the pandemic already forced me to go on a no-buy for a year, and then a low-buy for the next two now, because I stopped going out to the drugstore or TJ Maxx every day. I had bad FOMO and stopping like that actually did not feel very good at first, but makeup shopping was really becoming a problem because I just wanted every I saw, and I wanted to be part of the world I saw on beauty KZbin. But the last almost three years have given me a chance to get to learn my collection and love what I have, learn my preferences and just recognize the beauty of each thing I already bought. I started to love makeup for how beautiful it was and not how it made me feel when I bought it or to stop those feelings of longing to have it. Now when new collections come out, I can see what looks like one or more things I already have. A new line of lipstick comes out and the colors are so beautiful and appealing, but knowing my collection now, I know I have at least one product already in that color and that formula, and the more I buy, the less I can use the things I really love and enjoy before they get too old. There will always be more new lipstick to buy, when I finish enjoying some of what I already have. If someone feels like they don't have a healthy relationship with buying, or their collection or the thought of buying more of their item causes anxiety, I completely recommend a no-buy to process those feelings and figure out the why behind it. Great video!

[@shawnaripari]

I love that you know what you want! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts here too. I'm not mad about this no ;)

[@pixiethistle]

I am convinced! I will plan to do a replacements only no buy for clothes, household items, and beauty products, with an allowance of six non-essential, non-replacement items for 2023. Will you film a video about your no buy rules for 2023 and another about the items you purchased with expenses for 2022, I hope? Your essay-style content is so informative and interesting that I listen to these videos twice!

[@shawnaripari]

Yesssss!!!! Love to hear it. I'm personally not going to go on a no buy next year, but will be continuing the year of contentment. I'll definitely talk about what next year's project will look like in the next couple of weeks. This year I flip-flopped a lot between no buy or not, and I feel like I found my groove. So much so, I'd like to tackle some other shopping-related struggles next year.

[@shyeri888]

No buy saved me $10,000 in 2022 🥰, I never buy clothes or bags just healthy foods to keep me going on this crazy thing called Life.I intend to do it again this year😅 I never realized how savings can be that fun !!!

[@shawnaripari]

amazing! I love that you've had fun doing it too

[@BinaBecker]

I was already contemplating a no-buy for my (usually nonexistent) new year's resolutions. Looks like this is a sign for me to buckle down and take it seriously. Everything you said here really resonated with me.

[@shawnaripari]

You got this Bina!

[@sarahwheeler4353]

Can you do a video about how to plan a no buy? Like what question to ask yourself to talk yourself out of buying things when that urge comes up?

[@shawnaripari]

this is a really interesting topic, thanks for the suggestion! In the mean time, I've made a video kind of like this but for clothes if you're interested

[@roshnipanda948]

Yes, please make this video. How to plan and tangible steps to take.

[@dr.w.makeup5499]

I started my no buy year Dec 1 and you have been a huge inspiration. Most no buy spaces I’ve been in has been all about minimalism and anti-consumerism. I’m not a minimalist and I don’t think I ever will be. I’ve seen your journey this year in contentment and realized that’s what I want: contentment with what I have but focusing more on the joy of things than the number of things. I hope that makes sense. Im going to read Marie Kondo’s books as well. I really enjoyed your video talking about her method. I’m looking forward to how my mindset will change this year!

[@exomake_mehorololo]

Exactly. That's how I feel too. I'm not a minimalist but looking for balance and to just be more content and reasonable in my spending

[@shawnaripari]

congratulations on starting your no buy! I'm so glad you've enjoyed my videos and have come o find your focus, I love that for you! I also hoe you enjoy reading Marie Kondo !

[@flawedfabulous]

Yes for sure, when I'm having a insomnia bout I tend to scroll thru makeup websites, then order and then stalk the tracking, and once I get it, it isn't as exciting.

[@exomake_mehorololo]

Yesss 👀

[@anyaconda3155]

I'll be on my second year of a no buy/low buy and I've adjusted my rules after evaluating what worked and what didn't last year. Next year's focus is going to be my health and contentment. Great video as always!

[@shawnaripari]

Congrats on completing your no buy year, and wishing you all the best on your focus for next year, Anya 💕

[@MaisZuuuuut]

Your sentence "what do you have to loose except for bad habits" hits me so hard ! I tried doing a no-buy year in 2022 and failed but I have learned a lot and I really want to put the work into trying again. This video helped me so much, I think I will need to rewatch it if I struggle next year but for now, you really motivated me !

[@shawnaripari]

yay! I love this and I'm glad you're trying again 💕 Wishing you all the best on your journey this year

[@ThisLittlePiggySays]

Sign me up! No Buy Class of 2023!👩‍🎓 The point that struck a chord with me most was when you challenged the default mindset of deprivation, instead encouraging me to see that this is an opportunity and that time will pass regardless. Knowing this, why wouldn't I want to break out of my comfort blanket of excuses and procrastination, and actually DO SOMETHING within the next 365 days, to develop into somebody whose habits are more aligned with their values?! Challenge accepted. No ifs, no buts. I'm in for 2023. All year. No "but holiday releases are my weakness". No "Birthday exemption". Growth and resilience are built in hard times, not easy ones. Thank you, and let the games begin!

[@shawnaripari]

Yes!! You got this!! I love your goals and mindset 🙌

[@nollplz]

Hi from 2024 ! I have started a no buy recently, where I mainly decided not to buy : clothes & accessories (I have more than enough), makeup & skincare (I want to use up what I have before buying anything new), books (I want to read all the ones I have), and doordash (I will occasionally go to the restaurant, but at home we shall cook every meal). I realised I was buying too much crap and it wasn't aligned with my values or financial goals. Your videos are really helpful ! 😊

[@basswoodbeauty]

I haven't even watched the video yet but need to say I love the idea for this type of video, please do the series! I just deleted most of my KZbin subscriptions because I just feel like I have to buy something after watching each one. You were one of the about three beauty KZbinrs that I'm still subscribed to, because you talk about beauty but I never feel pressured to buy something. Thank you ❤️

[@shawnaripari]

it's an honour to make it through the purge

[@Nicole-rx2fx]

Wonderful video! I look forward to more from you this month - particularly, a "how to be bored" video. I don't particularly feel that I have an issue with buying stuff, but I'd love to have less. In July 2023, I expect to be moving again, and I'd love to move with less. Having less physical stuff would make packing easier along with moving. I don't see myself finishing up a significant amount of makeup products, but in terms of skincare, I could have a lot less. So a No Buy would be perfect for me in 2023. Additionally, I feel that beauty products make wonderful gifts. This being said, I don't need to buy more when I can add new palettes, perfumes, medium-high end foundations, bath bombs, and even candles to my birthday and Christmas wishlists. This allows others to gift me beautiful things I want instead of me looking things to buy around holidays to add to a wishlist because I already bought everything I wanted.

[@shawnaripari]

I feel you on the having less when packing. A no buy sounds wonerful and I'm wishing you all th best with that next year! 💕

[@deborahkilpatrick8572]

I did a no buy in Jan and Feb this year and loved it, that was when I found your channel and the whole world of KZbin no buy, low buy and panning. It went downhill massively from there to be honest but I did stick to two no buy goals - no new jewellery or makeup except replacements. Failed in other ways and have not saved anything at all, but I am going to start again in Jan and do alternate months so I don't go crazy when I let myself buy anything. I am an all or nothing person usually and I think this way might work for me.

[@shawnaripari]

I love that you're willing to try again and you've come up with a creative solution try. You are resiliant Deborah!

[@klasszikusmacska]

Yes, but not with this video, but with your whole channel! I found your channel last year and been following and looking forward to every video. I am not planning on a full one year no-buy, more like monthly/seasonal no buys - I just have a financial goal to hit plus it will be a good challenge. With where my country's economy is headed, it would be nice to be super prepared for when the s... hits the fan. I'm also excited because it makes me want to create content again!

[@shawnaripari]

this sounds like a great plan! Also, thank you so much for your kind words about my channel 💕

[@FromFarOut]

I feel like so many of us live our lives carrying a "scarcity" mindset, and that is something I want to heal in my life this year and moving forward. Growing up low income it has been ingrained in me that there is "never enough" whether it's food for the family, clothes in the closet, etc. so I carry around this idea that I need to consume, I need to bring more into my life because what I have is not good enough. I'm trying to protect myself from something that's not happening anymore. My life now as an adult is safe and comfortable and I need to remember that when I feel not good enough for not having the newest makeup release. Thank you for your authentic words and inspiration to take control of our actions. Love & light

[@ElaniaG]

I was 75% in on having a no-buy for some hobby categories, but you've definitely persuaded me the last 25%! Especially the part about a no-buy making room to focus on and achieve other goals with that time, energy &/ money.

[@shawnaripari]

Yes Elania! I hope you thrive next year 💕

[@kayleemitchell8071]

Ok I’m doing it! No buy in June. I started my inventory…it’s not makeup. My addiction is writing, planners, notebooks, journals, pens, tapes, stickers. I recognize I do this when I’m feeling anxious. I’m gonna tighten up this year.

[@esthermarcen7587]

Is really true that learning to be bored is very important, and is necessary for example to cope with routine in a job, I work with youths as a social worker and they are not able to hold a job simply sometimes because they can cope with being bored.

[@OlyaVasileva]

I set this year as a no-buy/low-buy year mainly for clothing/accessories/home decor. I think I have enough to last me lifetime, yet I was still getting new things every other day.

[@samnieto6463]

No buy clothes/shoes! Here we gooooo 💪🏻 gotta beat this shopping addiction.

[@shawnaripari]

let's do it!

[@morggylynn]

I'm a little over a month into my no buy and I'm really enjoying it. I started it when I did so that it's close to Christmas and I knew I'd get new stuff to be excited about for a couple of months through the beginning of the year, then it will end right before black Friday sales next year so that I can get the replacements I need then on discount or new things I really wanted throughout the year! Your channel really helped me make this decision

[@shawnaripari]

I'm so proud of you Morgan, you got this!

[@EnchantedXennial]

I'm 90% convinced. I'd love to see follow up videos! FOMO is real, and I get influenced by videos, so I think I need to be more careful about what I watch. Thank you for this video!

[@MiaRBeauty]

Love your perspective of a low buy as an opportunity. For me framing things like this as having an opportunity / the privilege to do it and categorizing them as a form of self care and self love really helped change my approach regarding consumerism, dieting, fitness etc. It's not an imposed hardship, or deprivation, its self care and needed maintenace in a way

[@shawnaripari]

100%! Sometimes I can still fall back into a mindset of: this sucks or tfeeling like I just have struggle through it to be "better" or "healthier." The mindset makes it actually feel like a struggle...and then it's not fun and sucks and then I don't want to do it and then I'm more inclined to do all the things and participate in the habits I don't want to. Our minds are wild and incredible! They can be our friends or enemies. I like your framing of self-care and self-love in particilar.

[@ritas140]

Let me convince you to wear your most expensive make up / perfume for a whole week! Just on an average week 😊👍🏾 Let me convince you not to complain for 5 days! Let me convince you to read more

[@shawnaripari]

I love these Rita!!

[@exomake_mehorololo]

Yes. Fun

[@petra1995]

Ironically, this video more inspired me to work on my "grit" when it comes to my university studies.

[@shawnaripari]

I'm not mad about that 😂

[@adriannaesparza9919]

I planned on going on a no buy for 2023 in focused areas of my life. I want to learn to be content with what I have. You had so many a great point’s. This is a learning experience. Challenged accepted

[@shawnaripari]

Woohoo! You go Adrianna, I love your mindset!

[@Francelmo23]

I’ve done no buys before (up to a replacement only year) and getting back on the wagon in January but one thing I struggle with is the ‘stock up’ mindset. I don’t normally buy backups but before a no buy I feel like ‘If I have to replace my concealer in January, I won’t be able to stop there so I should just buy one now and then I can do a no buy for like 6 months!’

[@OlyaVasileva]

Oh that sounds like that last binge before the "starting to diet tomorrow".

[@ciannacoleman5125]

I bought a bunch of craft supplies at the end of 2022 so I decided to do a no-buy January for craft and books. Those are the two things I tend to spend my money on and I need to focus on using what I have. I do have a few projects that I need to get supplies for, but I am going to put that off until next month because it doesn’t need to be done right now. On the book side of things I have about 17 books on my shelf that need reading & can get any other books I want from the library.

[@shawnaripari]

Yay! I love these goals. Thanks for sharing Cianna!

[@PlannersByKat]

Yes, you convinced me to go on a no-buy for 3 months and then reevaluate. Not a year...yet. I don't have a lot of stuff. The only furniture I have is a desk and a bed. No living room furniture. I buy all my clothes from thrift stores. Since I work from home, I rarely buy clothes. So I feel like I don't need to do it for a year. I might want to decorate my place cheaply or buy a sofa for the living room. If I had a lot, I would do it for a year. Thanks for the inspiration.I will be watching this video again.

[@lkessler1]

I had already instituted a no buy/low buy on makeup and skincare in 2022. I could only replace items that I used up, and I did not have a backup or an alternate I could use. I am using up haircare products that I already had but was not using. But I am going on a no-buy for crafting/planner supplies. I have so much washi tape and planner stickers that it will take me years to use them. I want to pay off the remaining debt so I can use the extra money I'm not spending on crafting items and make a dent in 2023. You had great points about enjoying what we already have and finding ways to fill our time when we are bored (besides shopping)! Great video.

[@shawnaripari]

A no buy for your crafting supplies sounds like a great idea Lori!

[@helenhirsch5717]

I think a cool type of video would be convincing us that everyone can wear and look good in x color lipstick or y color eyeshadow - whatever you feel is the right answer to that question and people might need convincing to try it. And as someone who accumulated 45 red lipsticks man do I love them!) before going on a no-buy even though my husband thinks I look terrible in it, almost everyone out there will not need to purchase anything to have a lipstick in hot pink, dark brown, bright red, deep berry, green, concealer nude - whatever crazy color they bought and can't bring themselves to wear! Or blue/green/red eyeshadow, purple blush that came along with the palette they really wanted etc. etc. etc.

[@shawnaripari]

ouuu fun suggestion

[@Patricia7Tita]

Hi! Thanks for this video. I don’t have a shopping problem. I don’t buy that much. I’ll do it for 3 months because there are something’s that I want to buy later this year. 🙌🏼

[@Jennifer-1724]

I just moved and need to do home repairs. I'm definitely in except the money I would blow will directly go into needs of my home. Things like insulation, windows and so on.

[@augustineschaefer5522]

No buys are opportunities… Yep as a knitter I’ve gotten to practice color work. Also scrap quilts are still hand made quilts. No buys or making do have been around for a very long time.

[@exomake_mehorololo]

Yes please! Convince me 😶my bank account sends his best wishes

[@shawnaripari]

Let's hope I can 😅

[@tkikpar4882]

I’m in!! Thanks for the time and energy you put into helping others succeed. Truly grateful.

[@j0ann]

I've been on a no buy for everything besides food-related purchases this year. It's difficult, rewarding, and makes you see the world and your habits in a new light. I'm about to attempt a no spend January, this time excluding all food-related purchases other than groceries (i.e. eating out, fast food, buying lunch instead of bringing it to work) and sticking to a specific budget when grocery shopping. I've also just started cash budgeting with sinking funds and bills. I'm hopeful this will help me visually and logically understand where my money is going. My goal for 2023 is to become debt free. Let's get it 🙌✨

[@shawnaripari]

Yes Joann, let get it!!!

[@jerryglass6513]

Not planning a no buy year...no issues with over buying on items and not in debt. I will be doing a low buy the next 6 months. Why?? When asked what I wanted for my birthday and Christmas.....I realized I didn't need anything nor did I even want anything. I have a few hobbies and I have enough supplies and yarn for projects for at least a year. Lucky I'm not a 'shopper' to cope or when stressed. I have a good amount of supplies because I traveled to vendor 'show' once a year to buy what I would need for my projects. I will use what I have to create what I want to make. I brought it to make...what ever....now is the time to make and use the what evers.

[@lolaphearse3688]

What a fun concept for a series! I am doing a 3 month No-buy, and I am already tempted by by the upcoming Pat McGrath release!! Convince me to not break the NB! Ok,have watched the video-WOW GIRL! That was an excellent one! I will do an Internet No Buy,as I do like to get things on vacation etc,but now pretty much exclusively shopping on line. The “funny” thing with my makeup overbuying is that it was started by HLPoston NO Buy year! Did not even know about Beauty KZbin until late 2018,had 3 drugstore eyeshadow palettes,one blush etc. I now have 360 high end palettes-what the everloving heck is up with that??? Keep up the great content!

[@shawnaripari]

Thank you so much Lola! I'm rooting for you next year 💕

[@trishacarlson4122]

ALSO YES! i did a, less spend & cash envelope approach this year. Which I love a lot, I will continue to do cash envelopes system. But, I think I'll do this too. I'm on the mend of fixing my credit, which I didnt mention below. But that's also a goal I'm keeping up on the past 3 months & so far, doing well! Growth feels awesome! Where is the community tab so I can vote? =/

[@emilyanne1426]

I think you convinced me Shawna! You called me out repeatedly here lol. I definitely cope with things by spending. For as much no-buy content I consume, both times I've attempted a no-buy in the past it felt bad and like a punishment and therefore it was definitely impossible to do for a year. I've become a much more thoughtful consumer over the years, but I still make some impulsive choices and I really want to save more money. This was such a fantastic video and I will absolutely be coming back to watch it over again for all of these reminders. Also looking forward to the rest of this series because dang you make compelling arguments!

[@shawnaripari]

I'm so glad the video resonated! Also, sometimes our habits take time to change. You can totally do this Emily 💕

[@emilyanne1426]

@@shawnaripari You are totally right, thank you for the encouragement! And congratulations on 5k!! 🎉

[@shawnaripari]

Thank you!!

[@rachelletagala]

I started my no-buy in June 2022 so currently still in the thick of it, but you convinced me to start it! Everything you said hit the nail on the head as I'm going through this process. It's been an awesome opportunity to get to know myself and change my habits for (what I deem) the better. My motivation for the no-buy wasn't because I went into debt or was struggling with money, but because I was spending way too much on makeup and was feeling overwhelmed with how much I've accumulated. This video has given me an extra boost to keep going till June 2023! Thank you for your hard work and words of wisdom 🙏 I always look forward to these commentary style videos!

[@shawnaripari]

This is so exciting Rachelle, you're halfway there !!

[@erynnm3045]

I'm doing a replacement only no buy next year. Here are my reasons why... 1) I have too much makeup, and it so rarely gets used. I'm keen to downsize and get to know it better. Same with my nail polishes.... so many. I literally don't need any more, and i'd like to get some out before the end of 2023. Plus everything is getting OLD. Things will start to go bad soon if they don't get used. 2) I have very little control over my finances. I save, and I don't usually spend more than I have available to spend, but I feel like i'm constantly eating out or spending money, and overindulging in things, which is definitely showing in my waistline 😬 I want to get some bigger items, like a new watch and new reading chair, and I can't do that until I have enough money in my personal savings instead of our joint savings. 3) I want to minimise everything in my life - the number of clothes i have, the number of books i've got, the amount of makeup I have. I want to go more minimal with everything I own. I'm feeling a bit overwhelmed and have more than enough to get me through the whole year. 4) I also want to minimise my subscriptions. I have a lot of money being sent to various companies to get pretty books that I can admire, but don't overly enjoy when I do read them. Kindle can do the same for a fraction of the cost. 5) There's a lot of free stuff out there that's fun. I need to find more of those rather than spending money on things. 6) I want to read more books, and I have many that have been bought and not read.

[@shawnaripari]

Thanks for sharing your rationale! I can definitely relate to a lot of these

[@tamara5082]

I kind of try it the other way around and think about what I am going to buy next year. I have trouble with feeling restless and anxious, a lot of that has to do with socila media and always feeling like I am on. I think shopping makes us feel normal and to compensate a lot of people shop a lot. This past year I spend a little bit more money to start figuring out what I actually like in my free time. For next year I want maybe some bigger things added into my life like a proper desk, a fantasy book series(when the one I have is finished), have fun with my hobby(miniature painting) and I am considering getting myself a nintendo switch with animal crossing new horizon, maybe some horse theraphy and a day to an amusment park with my boyfriend. I need something in my life. Hopefully I can start enjoying long form content more like a podcast about miniatueres and minimalism so I can get myself to stay off social media. New habits and Low-buy are great starting points, for me it was minimalism. I never had a problem with overspending, but I have had a problem with focus and letting people walk all over me, I felt I had lost myself. I slowely now realize how much gets marketed to you, especially when you are vonarble and looking to improve your situation. We have our default selfes, so in my experience, any changes that you want to make has to be easy, so you will not change back. I feel like I have emproved and feel like a more critical, open and happier human. I am oke with that, now I want to feel like myself and not let daily pressures get to me.

[@alexandrialembke6229]

I loved this video. I don't have a shopping issue and no debt. But I often buy things that I don't really love. It's not super often but often enough I notice it. I want to be more thoughtful in all of my purchases. I also want to get rid of things but on the fence of minimalism. I think if nothing comes it I can focus on what I have and see if I really love those items or if they can go without being distracted by something I just got.

[@shawnaripari]

I totalyl feel you on the buying things you end up not loving. Hopefully we can change this habit next year, i'll be rooting for you Alexandria 💖

[@619to253]

You convinced me. I use shopping as a coping mechanism. I am starting today. I have never taken a vacation. That is where the money will go. Rachelle in Seattle

[@shawnaripari]

Yes, Rachelle! I'm wishing you the best on your journey

[@lisastjohn3056]

I had been thinking about a no buy for 2023, yes your encouraging words have convinced me ❤️

[@shawnaripari]

Yay! Happy to have you aboard Lisa

[@dkayok]

It's December 31 & I just found your video. I tried to start a no buy year in the fall, but totally failed with all the holiday sales. I wanted to start for the new year and your video popped up. You gave some really compelling reasons that I had not considered. It looks like you have a lot of good videos to support a no buy. So ok, scared but going for it. Thanks!

[@shawnaripari]

It sounds like impeccable timing!

[@HayleyMarie111]

You've convinced me. I'm going to do a no buy for 2023, my first one ever. I really have everything, and more than what I could possible need and use. So I'm excited to get started and use what makeup I have, and its a lot and it gets overwhelming. I can't wait to start and see progress be made.i have SO many foundations,and they're my weakness. I'm also going to do a project pan with my products. I placed 2 orders in the last 2 days on elf. But now I'm done. So thank you for inspiring me to do this. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@shawnaripari]

Yay, Hayley ! You got this 💕

[@marthaosborne9625]

This is fun! I am going to go on a no buy for January, I’m going to not buy take out or eating out. My reason is to save money for new tires and to eat healthier. It will help with both of these goals.

[@shawnaripari]

Thanks for sharing your goals Martha!

[@Amyjwashere]

I don't have to go on a no buy, but as someone with a fixed budget, I'm sure it will be helpful. It will be way better for the environment if we stop buying things we don't need. I also need to stop trying to find the "best" of a certain item, like the next one will be that much better. when in reality, makeup and clothes don't really matter in the long run. I think I will learn what I can live without, and develop better habits I should be doing anyway. good luck guys

[@shawnaripari]

This sounds great Amy 💕

[@charlenebrissette3348]

I have the outlook that you should never be bored, there is always Something to do.

[@Whisky-1203]

Thanks for the reminder not sure if I want to do no buy the whole year. But went overboard with makeup towards end of year just became easy with paying all these extra expenses for birthday holiday and car repairs. Lucky I was able to pay off my debt mid 2022 and have consistent savings. One thing I wasn’t prepared for is when I started no buy and was following successfully I wasn’t any happier so the reason was still there. Or I focused too much in one area. Hoping to have more balance in 2023! Just was thinking would like to increase savings to help move to another state. Thanks again for extra motivation.

[@shawnaripari]

congratulations on paying off your debt, that's amazing ! Wishing you the best on your no buy journey this year 💕

[@pameehanson3866]

New to your channel and just found you in time. Thru another person I had decided to do a no buy year and you really sealed the deal with myself. I hope you do more encouragement videos in 2023 about no buys. Thanks much and Happy Holidays

[@annaw7983]

I basically went on a no buy with makeup this last year because I just got overwhelmed with how much makeup I had that I could never use up and half of which I didn’t even really like. I have a lot of anxiety about throwing things away for environmental reasons so now I also feel guilty and obligated to use products I don’t like. I’ve slowly been using up stuff and giving away things to friends because I feel better knowing they will at least be used. It’s really crazy to look back at my mindset that owning more was better when now looking at it just stressed me out. I also don’t like watching KZbinrs decluttering videos because it’s so incredibly wasteful

[@shawnaripari]

I hear you Anna, and I feel similarly to you. Having so much stuff stressed me out. I also don't have many people in my life to exchange or give beauty products I don't like or use to. So I've been stuck with stuff I don't like and sometimes scratching my head on what to do with them

[@ampersignia]

If you swap out the words no buy with other difficult mindset/habit change projects, I think a good half of this video is relevant to a lot more situations. Thanks, Shawna.

[@shawnaripari]

definitely agree 💕

[@janaeattarah]

I’m doing a no buy on books this year. I went to so many bag sales and everything that I have too many. I love books but I have so many in my collection I haven’t touched. I’m also going to do a low buy with clothes and makeup. I haven’t bought a lot of makeup this year but if i run out of things or there’s something i really want i’ll get it. there hasn’t been a lot of things i can’t talk myself out of though. I have way too many clothes though and i have no where to put them. Yet I keep buying more at least once a week. I think this will help, especially because I’m paying for community college and am struggling a little bit.

[@shawnaripari]

Thanks for sharing Janae!

[@Lizbeth120]

I watch a ton of no-buy content that is beauty-focused even though I barely have any makeup and rarely wear it. You convinced me in reason 1 ;) My kryptonite is crafting supplies (and random impulse stuff that I really don't need!), I'm doing no-buy January to test it out and we'll see if I decide to carry it through 3-months, 6-months or even for the year. I've been practicing contentment the last few months and trying to use what I have. Good Luck all!

[@shawnaripari]

Yay! I'm happy to hea this, welcome aboard to the no buy january crew Elizabeth!

[@aeolanyiramoon6260]

Almost half a year update. My rules are: - I can't buy anything for myself, the only exception is train tickets to visit my friends :) - gifts for my family are okay (I am trying not to get the most expensive ones but still something they will like, though) - look at my bank account every month and keep track of the money - write down every spent money with day and month Last year I made a new Amazon account after a long time not having one, it got really out of control so I deleted it again. I think about making a new one, especially when I am super stressed out. So far everything worked but there are moments where it's really hard. I got something for my brother & me and I am not sure if that broke the rules because it's not just for me? Also limited edition things and plushies are my weakness, it's so hard for me to miss out on these, because they will never come back. Also over the years my brain has been programmed to needing rewards for basically everything (going to appointments, writing job applications, in general making it through another month etc...). It's still so hard for me to just do these without my reward, it feels kind of wrong to me. Also sometimes I feel like trying too much at once. This year it is: +no buy +losing weight +sports +eating less/healthier +no coffee etc. +decluttering, only keeping things I like/need +finding a new job +finding my own place to live +finding a therapist +being happier +saving money I try and distract myself with watching TV shows and KZbin (especially your videos), that works pretty well. I believe in you all, you can do it :)

[@shawnaripari]

Thank you for sharing your update 💕

[@aeolanyiramoon6260]

@@shawnaripari Of course, thank you for inspiring me to get started 💖

[@dubsbeautydiary]

Yes you did convince me. I need to learn how to be bored. I find myself shopping at night when I’m winding down for bed. And I either just need to go to bed or find something else to do. There’s plenty of other times too. But that’s my biggest downfall.

[@shawnaripari]

I'm definitely rooting for you! You got this !

[@tcookie]

You make a good case - I've been thinking about going on a no-buy/low buy to recover from a lot of renovation debt and I needed to hear a lot of this.

[@nbro94]

Watched this back to prep for the August no buy!! But the whole time while watching I was thinking I want a lipstick in this shade you're wearing and would love go thrifting a cable knit right now(it's winter in Australia haha) 🤣🫣🫣🫣

[@omgitsclaire91]

I think I’ll be overwhelmed doing it for a year, but I’m going to try to do the entire month of January and reevaluate after then !!

[@shawnaripari]

Sounds like a great plan Claire!

[@sydneyrrobertson]

I’ve been thinking about a no buy for a while. I definitely want to do one. I need to decide on my goal and the categories that will help me best achieve them (nail polish and makeup are top contenders).

[@shelleyk7462]

New subscriber here. I tried doing a no buy year in 2021 and 2022. In 2021 it lasted until March and this year in May. This coming year in 2023 I will try again 🤞 I will succeed this time.

[@shawnaripari]

Yes Shelly! I appreciate the confidence and commitment. I'll be rooting for you 💕

[@joannedarnielle1192]

Please do something on helping to stay home and out of the stores i need motivation. I really need to do a no buy life

[@shannonadams2909]

I've only done them for a month at a time. I've done no spenduarys in January sometimes in May. They are great. I have extended them to the following month, but I think a whole year is a little much for me.

[@shawnaripari]

you gotta do what's best for you!

[@TeresaW1475]

I am going on a no buy for skincare, bodycare, eyeshadow and lipstick. I intend to be on a low buy for the remainder of makeup, clothes and shoes as I have different things that I need to spend money on next year. I would love to move my motivation from my budget to contentment with what I have so I want any purchases to be well thought out.

[@shawnaripari]

This sounds fantastic!

[@ros8986]

One of my questions is "what am I really trying to buy?" and the overall answer is "what I am trying to buy can't be bought"

[@rachelbishop1617]

I was planning a low buy. I don’t have much willpower and as a single mum to 3 children I’m not sure a no buy is practical. I don’t buy a lot of anything but feel we have a little too much stuff. I’ve decluttered a huge amount over the years . My money just disappears tho so I’m obviously buying too much . I’m hoping just to simplify the house and save some money. X

[@shawnaripari]

Do whatever is best for you Rachel 💕

[@twilderrr]

I am late to the party by a few weeks but I have started an official No Buy for 2023 :) As I watched the video I wrote down my thoughts on each topic you presented and by the end I was convinced. I am getting married in October and while I have paid for a lot of stuff in full already that is another driving factor for my No Buy. I want to make sure I am not scraping by the time the wedding comes and being stressed. I know I can do this :D

[@shawnaripari]

this is a beautiful goal, thank you for sharing 💖

[@exomake_mehorololo]

I have some goals as well that will only work properly w a no buy! 1. I want to save money for a trip to Disney World which is hella expensive from the UK. 2. I want to give a certain amount to charity monthly. 3. I want to have a monthly budget to invest in my fandom (buying albums and merch, fundraising f specific events and votes,etc etc there's a lot going on) 4. I generally want to downsize my possessions in areas that don't actually matter to me or don't add to my comfort or contentment 5. I want to do more fun experiences like maybe going to a musical, play, museum once a month or just going to a new place to eat in London (I live near London but train tickets etc ain't cheap at all nor is eating out) 6. I want to save money every month. Its actually doable for me to do all of that if I would stop buying crap!!! 😭😭 It's so frustrating. I can be inventive and do the work to save money or get good deals but then when it comes to shopping make up and stuff it's a mess

[@shawnaripari]

You have some great goals that are also really clear! You got this!!

[@cr34tvenuff91]

I like the concept of a no buy year! I have been pretty frugal most of my life but I do have fomo sometimes... I just end up being too cheap to follow through most of the time. BUT I am prone to having explosive shopping sprees where I end up buying things that I don't really use. Luckily they only happen maybe one to three times a year but it's still a problem. I'm about to watch your video on being content with what you have and I'll probably lean more into that rather than a full on no buy year. Thank you for the great content :)

[@shawnaripari]

i feel you on those shopping sprees that happen a few times a year.

[@Stephanie-ki5oz]

keeping this as motivation throughout the year. thank you

[@julias8763]

I do not have a shopping problem😊 so no need for no buy for me, but this video is great! I really hope it will help someone with shopping issues

[@shawnaripari]

I'm glad to hear it Julia!

[@hollybrady6306]

I've been convinced. I have goals I want to start and restart and stuff has gotten in my way too often. You've given some amazing inspiration, insight and advice. I'll definitely be passing this along to family and friends in my life also struggling with this. God Bless.

[@shawnaripari]

I'm happy to hear this! Good luck Holly

[@franceshernandez1331]

Hi Shawna, I am convinced. I will try a no spend year. I feel its going to be fun !!!!

[@shawnaripari]

Yes! I love the positive atttidue

[@5p674]

I love buying stuff.I don't see buying stuff as destructive. It is fulfilling. I could never do this except for one reason...the good of the planet (resources).

[@shawnaripari]

Sounds like a no buy isn't for you then

[@5p674]

@@shawnaripari No, but I like your videos. I live in one tiny room so I can't buy things for myself so I shop and give it all away. Very wasteful but my family and friends like it.

[@elizabethdobos6259]

Thank you for your insights regarding trying a no buy in 2023. On a different note -- I like your sweater, which brand is it?

[@shawnaripari]

I think it's originally from J.Crew but i bought it on poshmark!

[@meleealways]

Young lady you knocked it out of the park. Well said. Yes, you definitely convinced me.

[@shawnaripari]

Thank you! I'm also glad to hear that 💕

[@TexasGal.]

I was planning to do one in 2023 and you have reiterated why I should most definitely do it. Thank you.

[@shawnaripari]

Yay! Happy to hear it!

[@jenbravo2790]

I was already planning on doing one, but your video was excellent reinforcement! Thank you!

[@shawnaripari]

Yay, Jen! I'm so excited for you

[@TheHxXx]

I’m gonna go on a car no-buy. I mean, I can’t drive, can’t afford one, and don’t like them, but still.

[@martinirving153]

Thank you I needed to here what you had to say today. Thank you ❤

[@krupskaya3088]

Yay - you’ve convinced me 🎉! What really convinced me was seeing it as an opportunity rather than a punishment and the joy of really getting to know what you have. I’m a first time viewer and a new subscriber- thank you!

[@shawnaripari]

I'm so happy to have you here 💕 I do hope you'll have some fun on your no buy next year

[@clairefurness7809]

Thank you! This is definitely what I’ve needed!

[@ShelleyG1014]

I’m convinced to start! Thank you! Cheers!

[@shawnaripari]

Amazing congratulations 🤩

[@randomstuffwithvicky]

Yes you convinced me! I had a trial run this year and didn’t manage it, so felt like I failed. I did make huge improvements though and feel I am now ready to go for it properly, starting right now.

[@shawnaripari]

Yay to improvement! I'm going to be rooting for you 💗

[@randomstuffwithvicky]

@@shawnaripari aw thank you!! 💖

[@KirstensMakeupVanity]

I keep coming back to this video to see your nail color. It’s so pretty!! Can you tell me what it is?? Also, you’ve convinced me to be on a low buy outside of makeup. I try to keep my makeup spending minimal, but I really want to stop buy much outside of makeup, like home decor or clothing

[@shawnaripari]

They are press on nails by static nails in the colour toasted sugar I believe!

[@KirstensMakeupVanity]

@@shawnaripari thank you! They’re so beautiful!

[@SrirachiKat]

First video I’m watching of yours, going to subscribe:) I love all the points you said in the video. I’m going to try a low/no buy next year because I’m trying to buy a camper at the end of next year. I’ll try to set aside some “fun” money for myself when I want to go out with friends. My problem is I don’t know how to stick to a budget😓 I’ll need to make one that’s realistic though and based on monthly expenses. I also want to increase my credit score too.

[@shawnaripari]

these are great goals! I'll be rooting for you Saren 💕

[@j0ann]

This is a beautifully thought out video. Thank you so much for the insight and reflection!

[@shawnaripari]

Thank you 💕

[@cindyann5841]

I soooo needed this video! You are so funny, but at the same time, you get your point across. I love it!

[@shawnaripari]

Thank you Cindy 💕