Let’s be honest…my house is a mess and Kurt & I had a fight VLOG

[@sydneyconsolloy2711]

I don't know if I'm the only one who feels this way but I so love your honesty. I feel like it's so easy to forget anyone on the internet is an actual person when they only show the perfect bits. I haven't finished the vlog but I'm always so excited to watch your vlogs that feel like real life!

[@vanamarkarian]

it’s so refreshing how honest & open they are with us which is greatly appreciated…💕💕💕

[@allithomson4377]

omg i couldnt stop laughing when sarah said "am i being overly emotional or is my husbane being a d*ckhead".

[@SarahsDay]

😂😂😂😂I honestly couldn’t think of a more polite way to phrase it

[@allithomson4377]

@@SarahsDay baha so true

[@abby.swartz7942]

Giiiiiirl, that’s not a “dumb” argument, because voicing how you feel is never dumb - But it’s definitely an argument I’ve had with my husband before. I feel frustrated when my partner prioritizes something differently than I would.. Which doesn’t mean they are wrong, just have a different view of the situation. Keep communicating! ❤️ Y’all got this! Ps. I loved this vlog!

[@transformxruby]

love this so much

[@josefinadarrigrande4273]

totally agree

[@Briesje91]

So recognizable I agree! Had that argument with my husband a few times as well.

[@andreaanau]

Yep! Not crazy at all

[@veronicaphiri7432]

Abby- fantastic comment! So much love from South Africa!

[@slappinbass8052]

If it makes you feel better, I once cried over my husband not wanting to come grocery shopping with me when I was pregnant. I was just like, “I see… I guess I should get used to doing things on my own then… like raising this baby.” Hahaha, it was so dramatic! I’m not proud of it, but at least it gives us a laugh now. Thanks for being authentic and sharing pieces of your life with us!

[@brib3967]

This is GOLD🤣💯👌

[@bellapaton7512]

HAHAHAHHAHA FUCK

[@melaniebanziger9049]

Love that 🤣🤣🤣❤️ i'm the same

[@aww641]

I relate to this argument so much it’s not even a joke. This is married life 100% normal

[@aylasteer5740]

I’m not married but same, I saw I’ve had the same fight 😂

[@jacolinehayes8432]

Sameeee!!

[@anaherrera3588]

Same!!! Married and relate 100% 🤣

[@Amy-oc2ui]

So so so normal. I've been married for almost 20 years. I'll let you know when we get it all figured out haha!

[@bellarichards8619]

Married for 2 years and relate to this more than anything 🤣

[@Mgaex]

You are definitely not alone in the argument but just goes to show the importance of communication. I’ve made a conscious effort to improve my communication style with my fiancé (and he’s done the same) and it’s made such a difference in our whole relationship!

[@tisa3843]

I love how you included the argument piece. I just got married at the end of May (we’ve been together for 3 years) and it’s definitely a learning curve. When me and my husband get upset with each other, it’s so easy to feel like everyone else has an amazing relationship/marriage. So seeing someone be open about their struggles in their marriage is so nice. I’m able to relate and see that other couples struggle with the same thing as us. Thank you for being open and honest. 💕

[@SheEquipsHerself]

Your fight…totally normal 😆

[@jesssambrooks2134]

😂 Kurt at the end, I haven’t really said much in this vlog. Mate you were in the doghouse 😂😂 Thank you, love these day in the life’s. Fox is such a little Ray of sunshine, so happy. So glad you’re feeling positive in your pregnancy, praying for all happy and healthy outcomes 🙏

[@SarahsDay]

HAHAHHAHA i just read this out to him!!! He laughed!

[@tajat866]

🤣🤣🤣

[@IAMBRITTENMILES]

@@SarahsDay sarah sis, your not psycho, my husband and I go through this kind of thing almost daily! I completely feel you 100%

[@kylie5869]

Yep I absolutely can relate with that argument... I just think that men just literally don’t think sometimes, I seriously literally don’t think that they think, like nothing, I mean nothing goes through their heads!!!! Thank you for explaining the whole locking your abs in for ur core strength, it’s so important for people understand how important it is with any exercise, otherwise people just do these workouts and wonder why they aren’t getting any results & that can easily unmotivate ppl.... So thank you, cos I got a lot out that !!! Arrrrggggghhhhhh don’t stress to much lovely, I’m a Victorian and I am finally getting to see my mum that I haven’t seen for nearly two years early next week and then I’ll Get to see my dad...... My sister and nieces and nephews (who r all in there 20’s and 30’s), I saw a few of them when we had all restrictions lifted and even no masks out doors, which was in Feb this year. But that’s all and I miss them all so much..... Soon u guys will be out and free to 💜💜💜 Sending positive happy vibes to U Kurt and Fox and for Jnr bubs too 😘😘😘😘 Love you guys heaps and thanks cos keeping it real..... Sending u lots of love and hugs and prayers from Melbourne ♥️♥️♥️

[@katrinawilhoite9915]

So someone who can definitely relate to that exact “crazy” source of rage, I want to say that you don’t have to be afraid to fight around your kid! It’s so important for them to see how compromise and forgiveness work - as well as standing your ground. Fox will learn conflict resolution from you - so let him see conflict :)

[@emipowered]

Foxy is so grown up now! He can express himself fully, a few vlogs ago he was still a little baba 😍 Sarah, you guys are goals!

[@Bananabread8]

You’re not being silly. I’m always thinking of my husband first but then feel like he forgets me at times. I don’t think they mean to do it it just comes more natural to us to put others before us

[@BrunetteGiant]

which is so messed up, right?! ugh the patriarchy hahahaha

[@florentiakasapi8759]

You are the only KZbinr that is this raw man, and I love it! Please don't change, this authenticity helps us with our lives and this wild social media platform.

[@SarahsDay]

Aww thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@jessstewart8403]

On a sale of 1 to 10 I relate 100 to asking my husband let’s do something in the morn and him disappearing and doing his own thing in the garage!

[@crazymumlife8735]

Same, I relate!!

[@kariannkirk]

My husband disappears to the barn. You better believe I followed him this weekend 🤣 that ruins all their plans haha he came right back into the house. 😜

[@hannawylie8916]

being reminded that everything we see on social media isnt perfect is so refreshing. we need this real raw side

[@theofficialkranti]

omg this actually did make me feel normal...like THANK YOU for showing us your house. I feel like I'm literally losing it.

[@mirandaellenreeves2379]

My parents always say they should have argued more in front of "the kids" cos now if they argue, me a 20 year old thinks the world is falling apart. 🤷‍♀️

[@kariannkirk]

This is so true! My parents never argued but then I feel like I didn't learn how to resolve issues. So now I'm relearning how to communicate in my marriage.

[@shelby6]

Nah nah never argue infront of kids. Have constructive conversations in front of them that have a positive outcome. Never argue, it will teach them unhealthy communication skills when trying to solve problems with a partner

[@kariannkirk]

@@shelby6 just because we use the word argue doesn't mean we are screaming and fighting...sorry for lack of a better word disagree in front of them and resolve it.

[@NutsaChubinidze]

Fox is literally the cutest child I've ever seen

[@carolsomerhalder7]

oh my god, i feel exactly the same way you do like sometimes you want them to come to you (given youve already told them so). And most of the time i feel like im crazy to feel that way! But one thing i'll say is whatever it is, never go to bed angry. JUST DONt do it, cuz you never know when the last time you'll see anyone really esp the ones you love, life lets just say is unpredictable. Im saying this from a good place, cuz my boyfriend of almost half a decade is dead, and i was angry at him and it just hurts thinking about, everything. So if you will and can, do take the advice how you will, this goes for anyone that might be reading this comment. Hope you are all well. Tell your loved ones that you love them, cherish all the time you have with them while you still can. Much love everyone ❤💔💛

[@laurenstoeffler-ahlfeld5257]

I’ve been married for a decade now and I got mad at him for not doing something I wanted him to do and instead made me yummy snack, but it still wasn’t what I asked him to do! Lol

[@makenziealchin3945]

Fox is one of the cutest kid I have ever seen🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@callyoakley6492]

I totally get where you’re coming from! I would totally have done the same thing. But my husband and I have listened to some marriage counselling talks and one thing we learnt wad that it’s good that you set your expectations in the morning, that you wanted to work out, but without giving a time you expected to do it it’s not fair to expect they will come to you about it. It’s called content communicating. When you had finished on your laptop, if you had gone up to asked to workout then he probably would have said yes because you then content communicated with him. But girl, I’ve been married or over 3 years and we’re still working on communication 😂

[@brc8149]

Yessss😄lol my spouse and I work on that too! I always have to remember “he’s not a mind reader “ lol! Sooooo wonderful to see your beautiful families light again! 🤍🤍God Bless!! I think our sons would get along so well lol!

[@oliviadavis3614]

10000% not alone haha! Had this in my own relationship. My parents who are married almost 30 years are also the same - my dads favourite saying to my Mum is “I am not a mind reader haha”

[@kaylasavanna]

100% on the argument thing. Been in the exact situation where I didn’t know we were getting a new tv and yes I relate to everything else too!!! Men are interesting

[@emilybrown6172]

Your and Kurt’s fight is so relatable!! My fiancé and I only ever have dumb fights and I refuse to ever admit I’m wrong 😂

[@finnley5219]

The exact same argument situation has been happening to me with my partner in lockdown and I have been wishing I had someone to tell me 'its fine, it happens to me too' 😂 thanks for sharing! Makes me feel soo much better (was laughing while you explained this haha)

[@xaowdey684]

2:03 oh my god he is so cute lil foxy I want to give him a hug 😩😩😭♥️♥️♥️

[@allisong1551]

You're 100% not alone with the relationship stuff 😂

[@madeleineklaic1253]

I'm laughing so much because my boyfriend and I had the exact same fight this morning... over nothing, just because I felt he wasn't being attentive enough. We all do it gal.

[@skatequeen66]

i’ve been watching your videos for years now from when you and kurt were still dating. I absolutely love each and every one of your videos. you are so inspirational and such a beautiful light in this world. you are doing amazing❤️

[@reverethepatriot1776]

We just had our second 6 months ago and the best thing we did was move our daughter into her new room like 6 weeks before the baby went into her old room and that way she didn’t feel pushed out. Plus the less new things going on at once for them the better. We also included her on getting room ready for her brother, we had no issues with her being jealous or anything. So excited for Fox! What a fun room it’ll be! And we have been married for 8 years…yes it’s normal. I find most of those arguments come from a culmination of things and assuming from both parties. As humans we forget we cant read each other’s minds 😂😂

[@jadenpetersburg1431]

Your argument with Kurt was so funny! Relatable.

[@authoralaskawalters]

Omg where is that green flannel from?! 😍😍😍

[@sierrasmith5054]

You’re the sweetest person. I love keeping up with your vlogs. You inspire me so much to be more optimistic and God centered in my life. I’ve been praying for you and your family for weeks and hope your pregnancy continues to bring you joy!

[@SarahsDay]

Aww thank you Sierra❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@gabriellemattox1061]

LOL girl! I totally get the silly fights and arguments! 😆 you’re not alone in getting worked up about little things like that. I love that you shared it with us! I don’t feel so alone when my fiancé and I get into little arguments just like that. 😆

[@Katie_mcc]

Your family is so cute & your unborn child is in my prayers. 💗

[@kobiwilson428]

I have PCOS as well & would love to know how you fell a second time, how you tracked your cycle & the research you did that you’ve vaguely mentioned on previous vlog(s) that assisted in you falling this time round x

[@tatim8118]

😂😂 oh my goodness I love your energy in this vlog! Such a fun vlog to watch!

[@danadomenick3847]

Ah yes yes yes, relationships. From my therapist to you, the mantra is: OVER COMMUNICATE. 16 years together 8 years married and there's never been a better a practice more important to me and my husband. There is no other person who shares this kind of relationship with you in your life so if you have to preface each joke - which totally kills it - or over explain how you imagined the day to go - which at times feels like you shouldn't have to- JUST DO IT. At times we think our partner should read our minds but IT'S NOT POSSIBLE. I like to think of it as if over communicating as a privilege you give to your partner that others don't have the benefit of receiving. Each fight is an opportunity to get to a greater understanding of who your partner is. An opportunity to get closer. AND if you have a really mature argument and recover beautifully, let your kid see how you do it. Restage it if you have to so they can learn how to properly resolve a fight. Just like working out the work is never done, you just get stronger. 👍🏼👍🏼

[@abb_normall]

You are never alone... and not crazy! Glad I have you to relate. The dumb arguments are usually an underlying issue. Stress. You're doing amazing.

[@fljg7330]

I do wonder how Kurt feels about having your "argument" aired to all and sundry, without a right of reply or input. Yes, it's totally normal for couples to have differences of opinions, and there's no harm in saying "Kurt and I just had a little argument, but we're fine, we'll get over it quickly enough!" But if you're trying to be "level-headed, grown-up, mature" I don't necessarily think that this was the best way to go about things. Just my opinion 🤷.

[@bellabruce4988]

This all makes me so happy!! I am about to start end of year exams and this makes it all so much easier! xx

[@sophiaandlauren1]

I LOVED this vlog, not only was it incredibly satisfying watching the house being cleaned BUT hearing that you and Kurt have similar tiff's like my boyfriend (of 6 years) and I do was kinda reassuring lol. I love your and Kurt's relationship and look up to you two, so to see that you have moments like me and argue with your partner over some sort of mis-communication made me feel so much more normal haha. So thank you for being honest! I don't think you sound dramatic or crazy, everyone goes through little tiffs like this, what matters is that you don't let it go unresolved and you and Kurt obviously don't since you seem to always be the best of friends (I like to think my boyfriend and I are quite similar to you two). Sending lots of love from Maine, USA.

[@PetiteElise]

LOVE THE HONESTY! Keeping it real is the best & love that I can relate 🤍

[@hannah_built]

How has your SPD been this pregnancy? Is it hard to do certain moves like it was with your last pregnancy?

[@alexandrasmithvlogs]

I love how raw and open you always are with everything and I totally get it you aren't crazy. Amazing vlog as usual - always brightens up my day to see you and your beautiful family! xxx

[@FrankeeJ20]

How is Fox like a small little person already? It feels like 5 minutes ago, he was a little baby! 💙 The little singing segment honestly gave me the biggest smile! 🙂 You are also NOT ALONE! I would be the same absolutely!! 👏🏻👏🏻🤣 x

[@codybear4you]

Foxy’ excitement for getting coffee is a real vibe. What a sweetie !

[@elytseerf5486]

Omg Sarah at 5:00 , so excited for the little man's new room. 🥺 cutest mom ever

[@ashb5484]

Not alone Sarah! Been with my husband since 2013.. I guess when you’ve been together so long you think you can read each others minds hahaha.. thanks for always keeping it so real and open.

[@gracebyers4802]

Thank youuuuu for sharing the REAL side of relationships! we all have moments like that with our partners and it's so much easier to work through them when small arguments & occasional disagreements are normalised! it doesn't mean that something in the relationship has changed, or even that one person is wrong and the other right, merely just lack of communication and a different point of view (something I've really learnt this year). big love sezzy 🤍🤍🤍

[@orlaighfrancessca3040]

I am only half way through and had to pause at 12:52 because honestly, I am so glad I’m not alone. Been with my boyfriend for 4 years, I’m totally still in love with him - but this happens with us all the time hahaha. He’s so chill and I’m just a little bit of a control freak and it works most of the time but other times I need him to be more in control so I don’t feel like I’m the only one who cares hahahaha. Feeling validated in this vlog big time

[@sophiareed1021]

Kurts “ sorry” at the end, so endearing 😂😇

[@CRG_]

Is there anything you can/are doing to prevent SPD this pregnancy ?

[@kerrihiggins2106]

Oh my gosh, I laughed when you showed how messy your house was cause if that is extremely messy to you, you don't want to see my house right now 🤣🤣🤣😬🥴 2 weeks I wasn't able to do ANYTHING around the house. It's terrible trying to catch up hahaha. But oh my gosh, the before and after is absolutely satisfying! I too enjoy cleaning things, it's so therapeutic!!

[@Lkauh8]

So weird! Same with me about the gluten intolerance but mine lasted while I was breastfeeding! I thought my gluten sensitivity went away while I was pregnant but it’s back now that I’m done nursing 😞

[@tamdonato]

Seriously such a cute family❤️ fox is going to be such a great big brother!

[@zoedailey8815]

Girl you are NOT crazy. I’ve had these SAME feelings and I’ve never been pregnant. Don’t let your pregnancy invalidate your feelings💛 PS you are by far my FAVORITE KZbinr💕

[@Addictiveg]

Hello, Sarah. I completely understand what you're saying and can relate to the argument; I used to do this a lot with my bf and it was causing a lot of problems; my counsellor explained it to me in a way that made a lot of sense. It's not about being right or wrong; it's just that men think differently than women. Us as women think about all the things we want to do that day, where they only think about one thing at a time. So, while it may appear to us that they don't care enough to ask, they do care, they just don't think about it. I understood once I realised that was the case, and it didn't make me feel so unwelcome or unthought of.

[@sjwells04]

This sounds a bit oddly gendered to me. I’m sure men are capable of thinking of more than one thing and planning their day too

[@becky657]

❤️❤️❤️❤️ can you do a video about things you wish you knew about pregnancy! Or maybe things someone who has no idea about pregnancy or children should know ❤️

[@kerry-leighabrahams1326]

Haha omg girl you are def not alone on this one, I can so relate to the argument you guys had 😂 and thanks for the motivation to get up and work out this morning 🏃‍♀️ I really needed this!!!

[@nvmcdv]

Omg girl this type of communication argument is soooo relatable!😭😂

[@BSincerely]

I had to show my husband you talking about the argument and he turns to me and say “oh my gosh she is just like you and I’m Kurt” bahaha 😂👏🏼

[@deboranoemi727]

Omg i can SO relate to that fight! My husband and i have fights just like that. We probably fight about time management the most. So no, you‘re not crazy! Love from Switzerland❤️

[@laurenstoeffler-ahlfeld5257]

Ugh! I needed this today. Your videos are the perfect way to pour some positivity in my life. Our whole family loves yours ❤️🦊

[@aohamer]

You are sooo not alone 🙏🏾 Been with my husband for 14 years, since high school, and I still expect him to read my mind 🤣 Thanks for the core engagement tip 💕

[@karla6998]

Lol I’m pregnant too and married lol and I can totally relate. I’ve leaned that I need to communicate with my husband instead of assuming he’s a mind reader like me 😝

[@tessaw995]

I love that you told us about the fight Sarah. Although you're always real with us, it's nice that you opened up about your arguments too ☺️ Love you!

[@hayleyychan]

WHEN Mr Clicketty Cane plays his silly game all the kids in the street tTHEY LIKE TO DO THE SAME WASH YOUR FACE IN ORANGE JUICE CLEAN YOUR TEETH WITH BUBBLE GUM FIX THE FENCE WITH STCIKY TAPE BRUSH YOUR HAIR WITH A TOOTHBRUSH FRY AN EGG ON A SLIPPERY DIP BELLY FLOP IN A PIZZA SARAH YOU unlocked a part of my primary school years memories HAHAHAH

[@kezcourtney]

I am OBSESSED with your green plaid shirt! Where is it from? 😍😍

[@lyssabird]

Thank you for being honest ❤️ thank YIU for sharing your disagreements cause personally reminds me that others have disagreements too and that it is normal ❤️ so it’s really appreciated ❤️❤️

[@HannahCohen]

I LOVE the honesty, the realness, and how unfiltered this is! Makes me feel more normal!

[@Jenayameier]

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!! my husband and and I have totally had that type of fight before and it’s always the communication thing 😂 and it always feel so ridiculous after you’re out of the heat of the argument lol

[@memorydocumentation5942]

12:05 Sarah, you’re totally fine❤️

[@lisarene1786]

Lol! You are definitely not alone in those feelings. And your feelings are valid. Communication is definitely important and it sounds like the Communication wasn't completely clear even though you did tell him you wanted to vlog today. 😊

[@grahamlaura10]

Need to know where the green flannel is from !!! Love !

[@YoursNadine18]

Oh girl arguing with your partner is super normal. Couples that don't "fight" from time to time have really big issues deep inside. And I do get your point with "I wanted you to come to me and ask me what we should do together" ... I'm the same! :D

[@ellawuttke1285]

where did u get the flannel from!? 😍

[@rubymcternan1574]

You are the best person ever Sarah. You inspire me so much as a person, to reach my goals and to cherrish every moment of my life. Keep doing what you're doing, bringing joy to peoples daily lives. I'm so glad that your pregnancy is going well, keep being the bubbly, kind hearted person you are.

[@123appple1]

What kind of dog do you have? Seems like the sweetest pooch!❤️

[@abbysmith7337]

You are not alone lovely!!!! That is how all of my disagreements go 😂 you had me laughing so hard because I related on such a deep level 😂

[@PanitaHummel]

Girl! Your not alone! And it’s totally ok to fight about these things and the fact you can get over it so quick means your relationship is so solid! I swear when I was pregnant I got mad at my husband for breathing too loud 😅 so you’r more then reasonable 😉

[@clarepattinson2852]

Hey Sarah! Loved hearing about how you engage your abs while pregnant. Would love to hear more about the ab rehab postpartum (I still have a gap 17 months after! 🥺) and, if you felt comfortable sharing about your prolapse healing journey / how it is in your second pregnancy. Always love your vlogs. Sending much love xx

[@razielsfire3204]

I actually find your 'argument' with Kurt inspiring because of how you're barely taking yourself seriously in it and are open to see & speak about your own fault...and the fact that you crumble back into being dear with him so quickly (the longest an hour!) IS amazing. So lovely to see 😍

[@authoralaskawalters]

Same, about tummy sensitivity in pregnancy! I usually have IBS but in pregnancy if just goes away! I always forget I have it until the have the baby and then after a few months it comes back again :’(

[@miikayla]

I would love to see just long whole video of you talking everything about your pregnancy and answers questions :) 💖

[@thebrooke.amaris]

I feel like it woulda been cool if you clogged Kurt setting up with new sound system and us watching you two banter!

[@ashlimorris2198]

“Do you want me to be honest? Because I’m being honest!” “Do you know what I’m saying? Do you know what I’m saying? Am I crazy?” 😂😂😂 no, you’re not alone! You bump is SO cute! 😍

[@holrobinson]

im 18 and it makes me so emotional to see u guys sing the songs that i used to sing at foxys age with him 🤧 the wiggles rlly are a godsend

[@RebeccaWife1Mom4]

100% relate... I said it to my husband last night during our argument, "We don't communicate well." 🤦‍♀️ BTW... our 20th wedding anniversary will be May 2022.

[@Suvidol1]

Hey Sarah, did you get COVID vaccine this year?

[@MilaDanceSport]

Can you please share where you got your green shirt. Looks so cozy and soft. Really fun vlog :)

[@shelbybrissey5651]

Babe, your fight was perfectly normal! i love that you are so open and transparent with not only your house but also your relationship.

[@rebeccamiller7608]

oh the joys of marriage 🤣🤣 happens all the time. It’s just a breakdown in communication on top of us wanting them to read our minds 🙈. I’ve learned that instead of letting myself rage and wait hours for them to come to me, I go to him and express what I want.

[@ashleighallen2665]

Such a normal argument 😂 love that I’m not alone though. Lack of communication is the worst 😩

[@eleyanar.8086]

As soon as you said he was upstairs for three hours I was like “Oh, no he didn’t!” 😂 My husband and I have been happily married for four years, and yes!! I can relate!! We have definitely had several of these arguments before 🤣🤣 And it almost always happens when I am a hormonal mama too, haha! Usually I am big enough to go and talk to him before it becomes something big, but when I’m hormonal I get the same exact way you did! 😅

[@reneemk]

Where did you get that flannel from?!

[@lynnhepple5995]

Married 8 years, I also stew like a complete twit 🤣 It’s so much easier just to communicate how we are feeling. We have a deal, if I’m feeling lonely or sad or unloved then I just say ‘I need attention’ and then we just spend time together and communicate ❤️ Might work for your two wonderful people 🥰