Let's Chat! About Life, Aging, Empty Nester Life, YouTube, & More

[@lolasalesmoore236]

This is one of the best videos I’ve seen in months. Amen!! Amen!! Blessings!!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you so much Lola. I’m so glad you enjoyed it and TFW!😊💕

[@lolasalesmoore236]

@@RollinwithAnita you’re welcome!! Each topic you touched on been there, but God! I’m going on my 66th birthday this year… I’m so proud to be able to be here to represent my age. I’m living my best LIFE.

[@simplyshellie]

Hey girl hey! Im late in responding to your video but of course I watched the day it dropped. This was sooooo on point! everything about the empty nesting , taking care of your parents, growing in marriage, friendships..changing, menopause 🙄"SpongeBob 🤣" I couldn't figure out if I was coming or going at one point but learning to advocate for myself is key because you're right, they don't tell you anything. THIS CHIT CHAT WAS GREAT!

[@nh1702]

Anita I miss your decor videos but this was good too , as a professional marriage and family counselor and a woman who’s been married over 40 years yes honey you have plenty of experience to share to those who seek marriage counseling because you have walked the walk and talk the talk and you stay the course!! There is no substitute for life experience especially when it comes to marriage ,thank you for sharing this was good! Blessings 😘😇

[@monarock9552]

My Grandmother used to say to me.. “Baby don’t ever hide your age. If you don’t have birthdays, you’re six feet under..” I gladly tell folks that I’m 53 and if God continues to bless me, I’ll be 54 this year. 😊 Yes, watching your parent’s struggle as they age is difficult. My brother and I were blessed to watch her care for her parents. I helped her with their care. Those lessons helped me until her passing.. 🙏🏾🙏🏾 And you’re so right about friendships. It’s so, so different..

[@RollinwithAnita]

I know that’s right Mona.😊💕

[@mimiaquariusharris6244]

I’m 70 years old and I get that all of the time. When I tell people my age they’ll say I thought maybe 50 or 55 they are very surprised. I agree and have no fear or vanity about telling my age, 70 years old and proud👏🏾

[@MsBlessedandfavored]

Anita…Anita…Anita!!!! You told no lies in this video. When my Dad was in a “physical rehabilitation” place after getting out of the hospital a couple of years ago. I went up there and found him sitting in a wheelchair after his physical therapist brought him back to his room. He had been sitting there for two or more hours. I was about to tear the entire roof off that building. I started making regular visits and found crazy stuff every time I went up there. Long story short. I ended up reporting them to the state health department. They investigated them and they failed the investigation. To this day, I don’t trust any facilities. Please, please everyone go and check up on your love ones in these facilities. Let them know you watching them. Those people used to cringe when they saw me coming in the door. I was like GOOD…YOU NEED TO BE CRINGING!!! lol. Love you Anita. Been watching you for a long time. Be blessed and keep rolling. 🚗✈️

[@storn0853]

Hi Anita, 1st would like to say my hubby and I truly enjoy ur channel. I turn 54 next month and my hubby just turned 55. We both enjoy traveling as well. Everything you said was So on point. Thank You for Sharing. My Mom Transitioned in 2023, and boy life is sooooo different 😢. Treasure Ur Mom, I can see you do. Life is so short. And Yes menopause is a Beast.

[@wesleycorlynda8371]

By the way, we are at the 29th year of our marriage. We are visiting parents now, love them, and value their wisdom

[@Nicole-hi2me]

Aging, getting older is a privilege. We just have to take care of ourselves while getting older and enjoying each year.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Yes in deed Nicole!😊💕

[@geecollins4134]

Hi Anita love this video. You spoke so many truths. Aging is a blessing and seeing our children grow into beautiful adults is priceless! Speaking of brain fog. Watched this last week and thought I commented 🙄 Amen to what you said about nursing/rehabilitation places. You definitely have to make your presence known even in some hospitals and advocate for your loved ones. 🥰

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you so much Gee and yes, you and I are on the same page with those facilities. Have a great week and TFW!😊💕

[@adriane1031]

Aging is a BLESSING not awarded to many. Yes, we need a SUPPORT GROUP for Menopause, real talk.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Exact Adriane! TFW!😊💕

[@tiffanyr2326]

Good talk Anita! You hit every point in this age bracket. I'm 50, my hubby is 52 and we've been together since 17 and 19. Guuuurrrrrlllllllll...this peri/meno stage is crazy. The inconsistencies and body pain...uuuggghhh. We win sis❤❤❤ Thanks

[@RollinwithAnita]

Yes Tiffany, this phase of life is a bit of a struggle but nothing we can’t handle sis. TFW!😊💕

[@cre8vlyme108]

Hey Anita!! You are spot on with all these topics- from aging parents, menopause 🥵, empty nesting, missing the kids- to enjoying the new empty nest, and not needing to have to talk or text daily or weekly with friends… you are my Middle Age Bestie in my head. 😂 My husband and I just celebrated 32 years together- I’ll be 50 this year and the road to better health and being fit is in full effect!!! ❤ 💪🏾 💍 Marriage is a beautiful thing- God blessed me with a wonderful husband and great children! We now have a beautiful grandchild- we enjoy her and she loves coming to visit Nana and Pop Pop🙏🏾 Loving your channel!!!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Middle Age Bestie...lol. Thank you and congratulations to you and your hubby on 32 years, that is truly amazing and you and I both know making it this long takes compromise, patience, work, trust, and most importantly love. I wish you both many more years of love and happiness together. And congrats on your grandbaby, I'm looking forward to the day. TFW!

[@tessmackey9201]

Im 53 about to be 54 in May 23,2024...let me tell you I miss my 29era I was 29 until I hit 35 I said to myself girl you cant continue to tell ppl you 29.When I turnt 50 I began to rest in my 50's but these 2ppl that came out my body still need me I told my grown kids I'm 53 and I dont want to be mothering grown kids.. OMG I'm 53 I just want them kids to stand on business 25/8days a week. I been married since July 3,1991and we very INDEPENDENT ova here but these 2 kids are Not where they need to be Im tired my hubby is tired ...But these kids of ours have all the answers.Life is moving

[@decoratingwithjazigreen]

Hi Anita, wow I really enjoyed this vlog. I was excited to see the title. Glad your mother is better. What you experienced is similar to things I experienced when she was going through her demise. I would feel angry and pissed off and hurt all of the same time. Well this was due to her condition. She was in and out the hospital and nursing facilities and then to the board and care home until she too her last breath on Feb 23, three days before my birthday 🥲Sometimes I would walk into her room and she would act as if I’ve been there for days, or her voice was rough and harsh. Experiencing things like that was hard and painful. Now I’m so sad and grieving hard for her. I miss her terribly and I’m soo angry that she’s not here. I still need her and her prayers when I need it, her words filled with wisdom. I always say these days, who’s going to be my mother now 😢Anyway so glad you and Lonnie are still en love and enjoying life happy together. Feel free to post when you like. Yes I love these chit chats, q and a video or anything. I’ll never get bored of you 😊Thanks for sharing ❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hi Liz, Again I am so sorry about the passing of your mother and my sincerest condolences to you and your family. I think they act like that towards us because they are upset about their situation and we are the closest ones to them. so their frustration is taken out on us. It does not make it right and yes, it is extremely hurtful and frustrating especially when you are just trying to help, provide comfort and be supportive. However, like you said, once they are not here the sadness and loss really kick in and that is and has to be very difficult to deal with. I am sending you lots of love and big hugs and hang in there sis and take some time to try to focus on you and your well beng and remember the many good times between you and you mother. TFW!

[@darlenelong6353]

I’ll take what ever you bring😊, glad mommy Helen is good and kicking. #happywifehappylife

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Darlene and TFW!😊💕

[@joannbanks3448]

Hi Anita, I agree with the nursing home situation. My mom was in one for rehab years ago. I was there with her everyday. All day it was very important that the staff were aware of a family present. Not a good place. Have a great week!!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Exactly Joann, family showing up and being present in those places is vital to the patients recovery. Because that determines the level of care they will receive while there unfortunately.

[@Sugga16]

Happy Sunday Anita, hope you have a wonderful week.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Kenya and same to you. TFW!😊💕

[@stephaniegeyen162]

Thanks for the video, Anita. I'm feeling the same way about decor, I turned 60 last November and my husband and I have one son who is not interested in any my decor, he's not married but lives with his girlfriend, so I have started donating all my decor. I don't want something to happen to me or my husband and my son have to sort thru all my decor stuff, I have made up my mind I need to part with all this stuff and focus on putting a plan in place to get my affairs in order with key documents for my son to have access to my important documents in the event something happens to me and my husband.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hi Stephanie, bingo, that is what my thought process has been these past couple of years as well. Getting things organized and in place to make it easy for our kids to handle if necessary. I know people don't like to think or talk about these things but unfortunately, it is the reality and a part of life that all of us will have to face one day. TSMFW!

[@verdettemorris9772]

Hi Anita I remember when I started following you it was the smile and the way you say snacks. You are right about menopause ill be 52 and the brain fog and mood swings are bad. Miss you and mom and live life to the fullest I love it and enjoy the empty nest me and hubby are not there the Grand babies are always here but we there. Tell mom hi miss seeing her tyfs

[@debbiecharles3721]

We have been married 51 years so we’ve been empty nesters. I miss my kids, but they have their own life . but I enjoy them so much more now as adults we have a great time when we do get together. So you got that to look forward to enjoying them as adults

[@RollinwithAnita]

51 years of marraige, that is so awesome and yes, we enjoy the kids even more now that they are adults. But, I do still miss when they were little...lol. TFW!

[@rochellelewistrl]

Absolutely 💯 I loved all you just said..every subject you was correct.thank you❤

[@toniamaiden9879]

Hey Anita, great chat today I can relate to all the topics.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Tonia!😊💕

[@tessmackey9201]

Yes I hear you Anita its so much that hits us through this journey of LIFE. Lord keep us physically and mentally intact CAUSE since Rona hit me and my family I noticed alot of changes That global pandemic did on us and in 2020 my body still hasn't recovered I blame everything on Rona My mind my health has definitely been my focus...I just have to keep pushing I pray everybody keep rising to the top

[@lisagibson5886]

Hi Anita! Like everyone else said… ur hitting the nail on the head for me too. I’m 54, an empty nester, married for 34 years. Buried both my parents and ran THE ENTIRE gamut of emotions dealing with their stays in nursing/rehab and hospital and I’m the only child left. Without the help of extended family I may not have survived. Now I’ve got this time on my hands and a lot of things are up for reevaluation…this job, this house, etc. One good thing about menapause is it makes you stop bs’ing around with people and things. Gotta get stuff done when u can because I’m going to forget what I was doing in two minutes😂

[@nicolew9100]

I think that you just gave the Best Advice for couples. Please make Marriage Videos. I would greatly appreciate it and learn from you. Have a wonderful day. 😊

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you so much, I can sprinkle marriage talk videos in every now and then. If there something specific in regards to marriage you want me to discuss or do you have questions about something pertaining to marriage? Let me know and TFW!😊💕

[@tessmackey9201]

Heyllo Anita and fam Your mom is so blessed to have fam and friends to look out for her...I pray she continue to live independently and keep getting stronger everyday

[@latoniayoung1057]

Hi Anita. This is an awesome conversation sis. 56 my oldest daughter will be 38 next month. Youngest daughter just turned 28. Say it. Parents can be something else. My dad be letting my sis and I have it. Love him but yes you are right its hard. Menopause stomach ooo chile😂. Love being an empty nester. I work and spoil the grandkids. Much love sis.

[@carinithafisher6353]

Hi Anita, it’s Anita. You are spot on with all of this and I’m glad you are staying real and true to you and not just follow the fad and get caught in the hype of social media. You’re real and authentic. We love you girl and keep living your best life. You only get one and so glad you know your worth and value yourself too. Your life and family are beautiful and blessed ❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you so much and TFW!

[@melahsmusings]

This was so good! I really enjoyed the chat. I went through the same experience with my dad. He literally cussed me out when I was there helping to care from him. It really hurt but I had to remember he’s my dad. I’m in my early 40s so I’m beginning to experience the symptoms of perimenopause. I started creating videos the year I turned 41 on my other channel. It was a huge accomplishment for me. My oldest 2 children are in college and I have a daughter in high school and and son in middle school. Life really came at us fast bc I promise they were babies yesterday! I love your travel vlogs, your vlogs, and chit chat. I’m here for it all! Yes, to the marriage Q and A. My husband and I have been married 21 years and I look forward to traveling and doing things we enjoy like you and your husband! Keep it up! This was really good!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you so much I'm so glad you enjoyed the video. I think they treat us like that becuse they are frustrated with their situation and they feel they have no or are losing control so they take it out on us. It doesn't make it right and it is hurtful and frustrating to us when like you said, all we are trying to do is help and be there for them. It's just a tough situation all the way around. Anyway, TFW!

[@melahsmusings]

@@RollinwithAnita🫶🏾🙏🏾

[@gertrudewoods9160]

I can definitely relate to everything you spoke about. The change of life is crazy. I too am in my fifties. The house looks amazing. Happy to hear Mom is well.❤ Peace and blessing to my favorite traveling couple.😊🎉.

[@26THANDOHH]

I can listen to you talk all day. Thanks for sharing your perspectives Anita! I agreed with you 100%.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you because I felt like I was all over the place…lol. TFW!

[@roharrison3268]

You always have good advice and you are truly genuine ❤

[@walthoover5776]

Hey Anita love the chat and you are right about nursing home situation. My mom was in one I was there every day, and they are hot mess they hated to see me coming. they said one time oh here he comes, and I said yeah here he is if we don't have any problems then your good. on another note, I'm happy for whatever content you post whenever you feel like. I'm looking forward to the new patio. I'm sure it's beautiful thanks for share have a great week and a blessed Easter weekend coming up. Love y'all.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Walt, yep, that's exactly what they say when they know you not playing about your parent. Those places can definitely be stressful and I feel that is one of the reasons my mother was taking here anger out on me because she was afraid to speak up for herself to the staff, but I sure as hell was not...lol. When she was in the hospital the staff was amazing, but she had been in three different rehab/nursing homes and these were considered the "good/best" ones and I was smh at all of them, just terrible, even if they looked super nice. You really have to go and see your people everyday while they are in these facilities. I just really felt/feel bad for the ones who had no one come, it broke my heart. Have a great week and TFW!

[@thymewithvenecia]

As a "soon to be" 50 year old, I can relate so much to this video. Have you considered Biote pellets? I'm not quite there yet but it has worked wonders for a few friends and relatives who are going to menopause. That may be something to consider. Nevertheless, keep being your authentic self. Looking forward more sit down chats and travel vlogs.

[@Capricornborne112]

I can agree with you when your parents get older & are ailing their attitude towards their children do change I don’t think they mean any harm but it maybe something in their latter years they deal with. I would like to see more content of marriage conversations or go “live” for that segment. Looking forward to more travel vlogs…😊

[@rnmom65]

Love your videos. As a fellow empty-nester, I would appreciate a food prep video. I tend to spend ALL DAY in the kitchen trying to get it done. There has to be an easier way. :-)

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you and I can definitely add some food prep videos in the mix.😊💕

[@palladiumblue2539]

I really enjoyed watching this video Anita. You are so honest and down to earth. I'm 57 and this menopause thing is never ending. Your children were blessed to have you and Loni as parents. All the best!!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you so much and yes, they say that it can last up to 10 years and i'm like omgoodness. I hope you have a great week and TFW!

[@mellissa6789]

Hey Anita!! I love your channel!! I have not been watching for awhile and I really dnt comment but I really love watching your videos! They are so inspiring and fun to watch! Me and my son would watch your channel like a TV show, catching up on all the videos I didn't see lol. I love your advice! You probably don't remember but I messaged you years ago about my marriage and you were so sweet and thoughtful on your feedback. I really valued what you had to say! I'm actually a therapist my self and I still found solace in consoling with a complete stranger lol but your spirit is so wonderful it felt good to commune with you. You have been married for 32 years and your relationship is healthy I think your qualified to give advice. I would love to see more chit chat videos regarding life in general, marriage, kids. I enjoy them a lot. I think your really genuine and have a message to give! Love this video!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Melissa, aw, thank you so much and yes, I do remember you very well and I’m glad that you decided to stop back by. I truly appreciate your feedback and you watching when and if you can tell your son I said hello and TFW!😊💕

[@latoniayoung1057]

This was so good. We definitely have to do this again sis. Just girl talk. You are so real. Thanks for chatting with us.

[@margiecurran1182]

I really enjoyed this video! It was like sitting chatting with a girlfriend. I'm happy for whatever content you post whenever you feel like. I'm looking forward to the new patio. I'm sure it's beautiful. So good to see you.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you so much Margie and TFW!😊💕

[@mlwashington4118]

Beautiful Update!! Thank you!!❤❤❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

TFW Martha.

[@jjpge5764]

Thanks for the great shat Anita!

[@rebaallen5832]

Hello Anita, you are so right! It didn't seem as a younger me either that life, was moving fast. We now have one more week in this month! Time is flying. This is you and Lonnie's time. You both have raised to amazing, responsible, successful adults 👊🏽👊🏽. Again it was soooo good to see Mrs. Helen, and that she is doing well. One of the things I like about you Anita, you shop intentionally. You've said from the beginning of time. I only buy what I need. That's the way I am, and I like to enjoy my home styling for a while before changing it out. Anita, you haven't done this in a while but. I enjoyed when you did some cooking on your channel. Peace and Blessings for an amazing week ahead. ❣

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Reba and I can definitely add some cooking videos back I the mix. Thanks for the suggestion and watching!😊💕

[@latrellndickens]

Hey, Anita!!! Loved this video. I have not been on KZbin in a while, and it is great to see a video that touched on so many great topics. Very good advice!!!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Trell and thank you. Girl, I completely understand and I appreciate you stopping by if and when you can. TFW!😊💕

[@origblackbarbie1567]

💜Luv u n Lonnie Energy…can’t wait for the patio video… honestly whatever content u put out I thoroughly enjoy…. Just happy to see u all living life💜

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you so much and TFW!😊💕

[@kellising3753]

Great video Anita. Yes, watching your parents age is hard. To see these once vibrant people decline in health is sad and depressing. 💕

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you and yes, it's very depressing watching them decline. I'm just so thankful she is back to her spunky self, God is so good. TFW!

[@renitalynette]

Hey Anita! 2:28 in and all I hear is myself talking! Already loving this conversation!❤️❤️

[@RollinwithAnita]

lol…aw, thank you Renita and TFW!😊💕

[@blesswith2]

What an amazing video i loved every word you said. My husband and i are almost empty Nestors my oldest daughter is in college and my baby is on her way to the airforce. Its been a wonderful journey my husband and i have been on. Life is beautiful when you work together. Continues prayers to you. Abundant blessings. ❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you Margie, I’m so glad you enjoyed the video and congratulations on your baby girl going into the Airforce. I hope you and your hubby enjoy being empty nesters as much as we do and TYSMFW.😊💕

[@bgirl1220]

OMG if you are not speaking truth! I agree with you 100%!

[@denisea1136]

I enjoyed this chit chat so much. You touched on so many things I also have faced as a woman in her 50s. I love your honesty regarding the decor because I’m really trying to be intentional with what I buy and bring into my home. I’ve realized that things take time and energy to manage and having less stuff to manage gives me more time to focus on other things. I’m really enjoying the travel vlogs but please share whatever you’d like ❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you Denise and I’m so glad you enjoyed this video and TFW!😊💕

[@ProfessorCynthiaStrickland]

Hi Anita. Thanks for the heart to heart talk. Well done. Valuable information.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thanks for watching!

[@yeamaneal5652]

I love your channel! Hubby and have been married for 33 years and it seem we have some things in common as far as getting married, young, and currently being empty-nesters. I totally agree with you as far as spending money on the house. Right now, I am in the travel mode mood.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you and so glad you are enjoying my channel. Yes, travel is all I have on my mind right now...lol. TFW!

[@Cjordan2025]

Hello Anita! Loved all your perspective on life . I could definitely relate to everything you said especially on watching your parents age. I would love to continue to see your travel vlogs. Also, I would like to see more on your health and wellness journey (example- exercise routine and meal prep). I enjoy the chit chat / update videos .

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Tisha and thanks for the suggestion on what you would like to see, I could definitely incorporate those things into my video rotation. TFW!😊💕

[@ninaprior49]

I loved this video! Yes someone that’s an empty nester and my age 😂❤ Girl menopause is crazy!!!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you so much. I’m so glad you enjoyed it and yes, menopause is crazy and I’m over it…lol.😊💕

[@athomewithshushana]

This was good sis! I agree with everything, I'm not an empty nester yet lol, but I am not really looking forward to it lol. My husband and I haven't had the chance to date much because we have a child with special needs and the challenges are crazy but this was goid. Tfs

[@gertrudewoods9160]

I am so happy you spoke about marriage. My oldest is 28 and my youngest is 23. 2 son and 3 daughters and their views about marriage is not good.

[@Lulusvideos1]

That’s so funny what you said about home decor. I have a nice collection, but some stuff I’ve had for over 20 years. I’ve declutterred over the years, and occasionally add a few new items. This past year brown was the color to decorate with at Christmas, I stayed with my traditional red and green, no one in my house wanted a brown Christmas. I think originality is key in content these days, too many channels are too much alike.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Exactly, we should all just decorate with the things we like and love. TFW!😊💕

[@Angierochelle]

I agree 💯 with everything you said. Love your content! Keep Rollin Anita 💙

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you Angie and TFW!😊💕

[@brandyjones3476]

Love, love , love this video!! I’m starting the same stage of life as you and really enjoy hearing your perspective🙏🏾

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you Brandy and TFW!😊💕

[@deelachelle6152]

I absolutely love this video!! Thanks Auntie😊

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw you're welcome neice and TFW!

[@deborahr.7696]

My doctor suggested eliminating dairy from my diet for inflammation. It has actually been helping. My ankles aren't kankling. 😅 She also suggested the Dash/Mediterranean diet for inflammation.

[@RollinwithAnita]

I will definitely look into that, thank you and TFW!😊💕

[@deborahandwinstonreynolds9881]

Love this video.I can relate -when the kids went off to college we adopted a little 5 week old puppy.We always enjoy your videos.We love you.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you to you both and TFW!😊💕

[@simplycelest9397]

Anita so good seeing you again. I have not watched your channel in a while. Life has been busy and threw in a lot of curve balls since I’ve watched you. You hit all the topics on the head. I sincerely can relate to each topic you talked about. It was as if you were talking about my life lol. I enjoyed your chit chat. I will go back and catch up on what has been going on channel. Have a blessed day!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, hello Celest, sis I completely understand because life be lifing...lol and I appreciate you watching my videos when and if you can. I actually was away from KZbin for about 5 months because of my mother being sick, so I just recently came back about a month ago and that's one of there reasons I wanted to do this sit down video because I felt that there were probably more people that were dealing with the same things as me in this phase of life so I was like, let's talk about it. I hope you are doing well and it's great to hear from you and TFW!

[@ramonajacobs9402]

Ditto!

[@dtowndeidre5177]

I’m part of the thick skin team! Same mom issues with my mom’s care needs.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, hang in there sis because trust me I know what you’re going through isn’t easy. Sending hugs and positivity your way. 😊💕

[@lasandrajackson1474]

very interesting your comment that "there's alot of stuff they dont tell you about menopause". I had almost the same thought the other day and said, there should be a mandatory gyn visit as women approach menopause to discuss possible symptoms a woman might experience. I went through menopause at 54 and never knew that joint pain was a symptom and it can be crippling (I went from working out 5 days a week including lifting weights to having difficulty walking or standing up because it was so painful). quite frightening until I learned it was secondary to menopause. I swore I would never take HRT (hormone replacement therapy) but it truly helped me to function (basically to be able to move). I now make sure to tell the women in my circle about the various menopausal symptoms they might experience so they can be aware

[@RollinwithAnita]

Exactly Lasandra, I was having a very difficult time walking because I kept having severe cramping in my hips and I was like, what is wrong with me. Some days I would be fine and other days in constant pain. I did some research and found out that it was one of the symptoms of menopause. I’ve been using a foam roller now that really helps to get the kinks out. Unfortunately, with my heart issues I’m not able to take HRT so o have to find natural remedies that don’t always work.😩😩

[@kimberlycoleman5416]

Hey Anita! I enjoyed the chat video. I am kind of tired of looking at decor videos. Although I still watch a few people decor videos mostly for inspiration. I still like to change up my decor around the house using mostly now what I already have. I do enjoy the traveling you and Lonnie do. Another thing that gives me motivation to do more traveling. My husband and I have always traveled, but now we are traveling more often with little short trips here and there. But as far as content to see on your channel, I am with whatever you put out there….lol! I missed the last video which I am about to watch now. But life was happening, you know right? Thanks for sharing!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Kimberly, thank you and I'm glad you enjoyed it. I am shocked to hear you say that you are tired of looking at deocr videos but, I totally understand. I don't really watch them anymore either because my interest has changed over the past couple of years so I get it. That's also one of the reasons why I always try to incorporate different things into my content so if people get tired of one thng they have other things to choose from...lol. Anyway, it's always good to hear from you and TFW!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Kimberly, thank you and I'm glad you enjoyed it. I am shocked to hear you say that you are tired of looking at deocr videos but, I totally understand. I don't really watch them anymore either because my interest has changed over the past couple of years so I get it. That's also one of the reasons why I always try to incorporate different things into my content so if people get tired of one thng they have other things to choose from...lol. Anyway, it's always good to hear from you and TFW!

[@nb4332]

This was a great video and so relatable. It's crazy how similar our stories are. She is me!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you. So glad you enjoyed it and TFW!😊💕

[@dpostchap]

Content meal prep for the week. And travel experiences. All great stuff you guys do.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Noted and thank you!😊💕

[@deidreturner6680]

Hey! I can relate to so much of what you said. Great video. I love chit chat videos because I can get things done while I’m listening. Thanks for sharing.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Deidre, glad you enjoyed and glad you were able to get things done…lol. TFW, I mean listening.😊💕

[@dorismcnealy]

Hey girl tell the truth and shame the devil 👿 Girl you telling the truth about it all Girl thanks so much for the blessings you’re talking about.Thanks ❤❤❤❤❤

[@ginomo80]

This video was great! My husband even watched it with me 😂 And you are so right, aging is a blessing! I’d love to see some of your routines to stay healthy as you age.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you to both you and your hubby for watching. So good you enjoyed it.😊💕

[@jwwin2]

Hi Anita I enjoyed this video. I look forward to your weekly videos!! I can relate to everything!!❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you so much!

[@dianes529]

This was so good.tùned in late bc of work.but really enjoyed.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you so much Diane. So glad you enjoyed it.😊💕

[@wesleycorlynda8371]

We have a 26 year old son, who was raised either 2 parents, he is also looking for a wife also. He wants a kind, loving, and trust worthy lady, also. It’s hard to find this, as most girls were not raised to be a wife…. Mother, yes, … wife, no!

[@fitjock1]

I enjoyed this video, thanks Anita. While I’ve always enjoyed your decor videos, I also liked when Lonnie did the landscaping videos. Your Travel vlogs are the best. Hi to ms. Helen too

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you so much and thank you for the feedback. TFW!

[@fitjock1]

I forgot to mention how fantastic and happy you look!!Good for you

[@deem9532]

Hey Anita Hey! I loved this real talk. I could relate to everything you said from parents aging , menopause symptoms ( not SpongeBob shape 😭), empty nester stage, being close to our kids & having friends/making friends at an older age. Even though in my head you’re already my friend lol. Really enjoyed the chitchat!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Dee, awesome thank you. So glad you enjoyed this video and TFW!😊💕

[@janaesalome4181]

I've been going through similar situations with my mom, I believe its their age and the medications.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Yeah, it can definitely be tough. Hang in there there sis, I’m sending love and support your way. TFW!😊💕

[@kirstenforrest8467]

Hey Anita, I really enjoyed watching your video and all the tips you given. Have A Blessed Day! 💕💕

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Kirsten and you have a great day too. TFW!😊💕

[@kirstenforrest8467]

@@RollinwithAnita You’re Welcome 💕💕

[@horrisajones8933]

Great chit chat I definitely can relate to you with Aging and menopause and the friends situation people are definitely strange nowadays😂 tfs

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Horrisa and yes, you definitely have to be careful who you let into you space nowadays. TFW!

[@lesliebarney7091]

Good to have you back! 😊💕

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you Leslie!

[@phemrey9148]

Well said Anita 💯 ❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you and TFW!

[@elizabethbutler8583]

Is truth and everything you said I still enjoy the content you have

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Elizabeth and TFW!😊💕

[@chrystal723]

Hello Anita! ❤ this video! Your home is Beautiful...as is. 💯 You are more than qualified to share relationship advice! Keep the vids coming. Continued Happiness and Success! Tfs😊

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, Thank you Chrystal and TFW!😊💕

[@kaylajaden]

relatable queen

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, thank you bookie and TFW because you never do...lol. See you soon, love you!

[@jephanieharris5756]

Hi Anita I love the chic chat, do more you always have nice content

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you and TFW!😊💕

[@marymendez4178]

Anita sweetie I just wanted to give you my input. Patients at those nursing homes their adult children will forget about their parents. The senior's don't have anything to wear and if they do their clothing are rags. It's sad and I gave up working, I brought home the sadness and emotionally I couldn't take it. Year's after I also had my deceased husband in a nursing home as well and someone took his shoes, even if we write down their names on the collar with a permanent marker the clothes will still go missing. Is sad and senior's shouldn't be treated so unfair.

[@venicegordon3658]

I love this video❤❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Aw, so glad you enjoyed it. TFW!😊💕

[@kimmack4403]

Im your age Anita i can relate my friend ❤❤

[@travelwithsouthernchick5112]

❤❤❤ new here so glad I found this channel ❤❤❤

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you so much and welcome!😊💕

[@latunjalafray7069]

❤❤❤❤

[@GracefullyMissJC]

🤗❣️❣️❣️, good chat!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you and TFW!😊💕

[@vernelllevingston1800]

Do what's comfortable for you and? If you want to show behind the scenes of work, how do you prep for work And how you navigating empty Nestors without the kids. And do chit-chat every now and then with you And hubby. How life is changed for you as you get older? Those kind of videos. And how you book your trips. Because I really would be interested in that because I love to travel and my family love to travel.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Vernell and thanks for your suggestions and watching!😊💕

[@rebaallen5832]

Hello Sis! First in!

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hey Reba, thanks for being first.😊💕

[@candyman.g.q.1636]

"Good, job.😀.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Thank you Candyman.😊💕

[@candyman.g.q.1636]

@@RollinwithAnita "You, are so very, welcome.😀.

[@dpostchap]

Like what SpongeBob. I had the age conversation an hour ago

[@BellaKayeLLard]

Those facilities aren't meant to be horrible, but just think about it. You know and said it yourself that your own mother (that you had all of life) was really mean to you. Do you believe that most patients are nice to health care professionals? Not likely. It's really a combination of things as to why people think that those places are horrible. Politics, Money, and Staffing. What looks decent on paper is not reality. Oftentimes, those places make promises that they should not make because they know that it's not possible with their budget and staff. It's better when family members are involved in the actual physical care of a patient and not just present to see what the staff is doing. It takes a village to raise a child, but boy, oh boy, it takes that and more than a team of healthcare professionals to rehabilitate an elderly patient.

[@RollinwithAnita]

Those facilities may not be meant to be horrible, but unfortunately many of them are and that’s not me thinking it, that’s me knowing. Most of those places are understaffed and the workers are indeed underpaid. Hence one of the reasons for the lack of care because a lot of the staff besides the doctors, head nurses, and physical therapists, are minimally trained, overworked, and like I said underpaid. Yes, it takes a village and that is one thing my mother has. You can best believe that my brother (who is nurse) myself, and one of our cousins (who is also a nurse) were very involved in my mother’s care and advocacy when she was in the hospital, in rehab, and once she came home. No one was going there to see what the staff was doing, we just realized when we were there on our many visits that they weren’t doing much of anything. We were doing most of the work with her there and once she got home. She in fact did not start walking again until she actually left rehab and we took turns staying with her in her home and worked with her day and night to get better. Yes, I said that she was mean to me and she was at times but, I can tell you she was not that way to the staff in those facilities so, your assumption is in fact incorrect. All I can say is that thankfully she is better and back to being her spunky self and living independently again. But those three rehab facilities that she was in (and these were supposed to be the nice ones) had little to do with her getting better and that’s just facts and like I said, I really feel for those patients who have no one visiting them or checking in on them on in those places. Now the staff when she was in the hospital, was amazing!

[@BellaKayeLLard]

@RollinwithAnita I didn't assume anything at all. I don't think or even believe that your mom was mean to staff. My take is that if some patients are mean to their own families, it is likely that some are mean to staff also. Refusing some care that patients have the right to refuse. It takes a toll on anyone and is not always about the pay. It's more of the patient load and acuity to nurse/CNA ratio. It is much easier to raise many children than for many children (or anyone helping) to get adult parents (people) to cooperate with some care, especially when they have been independent for some time. There are many factors in people's experiences and opinions. One of them just may be a lack of properly trained staff that will do things decently and orderly. Many nurses know that it is tough. That's why so many are leaving the bedside.

[@amdyson756]

Noooo SpongeBob😂!

[@Nicole-hi2me]

Hi Anita. I'm so glad you made this vlog. My mother stayed with me after glaucoma and having low vision. Then she had knee surgery. She was so mean to me and would call my sister and brother and lie and talk about me. She was vicious! Then she would apologize after I recorded her and showed my sister how she really mis treated me because my mother played the victim. 😢 Then my mother apologized only to do it again. We got her own apartment because I couldn't take it anymore. I worked from home and lost my job from being so stressed and overwhelmed!! But I know God while open another door for me. It is difficult but I had to take care of myself. My brother and sister have 4 bedroom homes and wouldn't allow her to stay with them. I am in a two bedroom apartment! That speaks volumes. At least you had help in the beginning, and I never did. Also, my mom was difficult to get along with before her health issues. But I tried to assist for years and finally I had to take a step back for me. I'm in my 50's and I still want to do things in my life and what good is my life if I'm broken ? I'm glad your mom is well and it's important to have help when you are helping someone else. ❤🙏😊💐💐💐

[@RollinwithAnita]

Hi Nicole, wow, I know how stressful things had to be for you during that time. Just know that you did the best that you could under the circumstances. I wish you the best and please make taking care of yourself first a priority. TFW!😊💕

[@Nicole-hi2me]

@@RollinwithAnita Thank you. God gives us strength and I use it and appreciate it. 🙏 Take care!

[@adriane1031]

They be talking all types of CRAZY.

[@paulaperson275]

Yeah it definitely takes patience when your parents get older, just know one day it will be you or it won’t be them anymore, so hold on to the moments because even the rough times will bring a smile later 🙏 give mama a 🫂

[@RollinwithAnita]

Yes, I agree.