let's get comfortable with embarrassment

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inayah

Күн бұрын

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@mxralheart401 3 ай бұрын

To be cringe is to be free

@personal.hannie 3 ай бұрын

Inayah means "care", "protection", "help" and "concern" in Arabic/Islam and it really suits you.

@berredama5495 3 ай бұрын

wake up queen has posted

@kanunsibrays5569 3 ай бұрын

She's really queen 👑

@kanunsibrays5569 3 ай бұрын

Just kidding

@sophiagomez2167 3 ай бұрын

Can i just say this came at the exact right time? I just confessed my romantic feelings to a friend who i thought felt the same about me but totally doesn’t. I’m embarrassed but learning to laugh about it will help me get past it lol

@karleyj9706 3 ай бұрын

I'm proud of you for that!!

@sophiagomez2167 3 ай бұрын

thank you!!!

@LorraineVirginie 3 ай бұрын

You are so brave and I just wanna applaud that!

@Infinitenumberofzachs 3 ай бұрын

Dude inayah just has that power, she knows exactly what you need to hear when you need to

@sophiagomez2167 3 ай бұрын

you’re so sweet!! thank u 🥺

@thisisnotrobi 3 ай бұрын

I appreciate that your take is not overly simple or overly complex. It's a nuisance take with practical and inspirational reframes.

@gardensunshine 3 ай бұрын

i don't want to be that guy but im going to be....did you mean to say nuanced?

@thisisnotrobi 3 ай бұрын

@@gardensunshine lol yes. Being that guy, is being a hero.

@LorraineVirginie 3 ай бұрын

Here for the pointing out a mistake in a kind way and the not getting defensive about the mistake! 🙌

@prachihirave4703 3 ай бұрын

literally my comfort person

@iCeleste7 3 ай бұрын

I agree. This reminds me of what I learned from another KZbin, Hitomi. When we do something cringey in front of other people and someone else makes fun of it or doesn’t connect with the cringey thing, we shouldn’t be embarrassed because in that moment we were being our authentic selves and that person didn’t connect with it and that’s okay. We shouldn’t be embarrassed at our own authenticity. That’s on that other person. They didn’t get it and whatever.

@unaliveshek 3 ай бұрын

it really helps having reassurance that other people do in fact feel the same way about topics such as this

@eveo8266 3 ай бұрын

I almost couldn't believe my luck when I saw that you posted this video discussing embrassment, since today has been a particularly hard, yet mostly shameful day for me. I've done some mistakes that (thankfully) only disadvantage myself, so no harm done, but I'm terrified, because I soon have to admit those issues to others. This topic was amazingly timed for me and I loved how you approached it, I'll be taking notes!! I'll try to get through this with more acceptance and maybe even laughter

@sunnysunflowers328 3 ай бұрын

I used to worry a lot abbout fitting when I was younger because I was afraid of sticking out and being teased mercilessly by my peers. I also came from a family that made (light) fun of failures so it only made me more conscious of my mistakes and being watched. Now that I'm a young adult with basically no friends, I can try new stuff and fail and laugh at myself. There is no one watching or judging me. I've also accepted that my happiness comes first. Embarrassment is no longer a problem when you love or accept all parts of yourself. It will not kill you.

@ayefuh 3 ай бұрын

i love that you bring to attention emotions that are often stigmatized or shunned by society, including embarrassment! also, the captions are such a good move for accessibility. another day another inayah slay!

@TheSafariman101 2 ай бұрын

Asked a girl out at work and she said she had a bf which I kind of knew but wasn't sure of. The thing is, I needed to ask her to get over my own need for validation from everyone. Rosy cheeks came out in the moment, sure but I was proud of myself and now I can talk to her like a normal person instead of a pedestal.

@TheSafariman101 2 ай бұрын

Seeing this pop up felt like kismet, I've been dwelling a lot lately on how I'm perceived but doing much better now.

@TheSafariman101 2 ай бұрын

Grace is one of the best things you can give yourself after doing something embarrassing.

@Lavigneavr 3 ай бұрын

self acceptance really helps a a lot

@gcmastrl8349 3 ай бұрын

How were you able to read my mind?? The timing of your videos amaze me! 😂 I recently helped my colleagues to talk to a few foreign tourists at a place i worked at, and afterwards felt really embarrassed because i kept slipping up (and also I'm still not proficient with professional English yet) and I'm still trying to recover myself from it. I felt pressured because i knew i was carrying the name of my company when working and had to be mindful of what i say, leading me to stutter a few times when talking. It isn't easy, but I'm still trying to cut myself some slack and to admit i did a pretty good job for my first time!

@Koiies 3 ай бұрын

I love how this video popped up after feeling so embarrassed about something I did that I didn't go to school today😶 helped me realize how I constantly criticize myself over the tiniest things when not many people actually care/or have even thought about the things I think about myself, thank you

@RAxxx20 3 ай бұрын

I really found myself as a very sensitive and shy person , but actually I agree with every sentence you have said , people’s opinions are not important as you own perspective of yourself, very peaceful and comfortable video, love you so much 💗

@scrambledeggs9631 3 ай бұрын

you are so beautiful, you remind me of Anne Hathaway. Also, you have so much wisdom at such a young age and have helped me with showing who I really am and not a watered down version. From a young age, for whatever reason, I have felt an unexplainable sense of embarrassment for just being myself and liking the things I like. But I’ve started to accept who I am and the fact that by just being my authentic self it makes the world a more beautiful place.

@st4rmoni 2 ай бұрын

inayah, im so grateful that you can share your experiences and your advice to everyone scrolling through youtube and coming across your channel!! your videos are so well packed with information that we can apply to our daily lives, mine especially i play your video in the back of a workout video i do daily and while being productive, i can also listen to what you have to say about embarrassment, building confidence, self-acceptance, and sooo much more!! it gives a new fresh perspective and its so relieving to use your videos as guidelines to help me figure out how i can apply this advice into my life i hope you know that you shed new perspectives, fresh advice, and simply bringing YOU to youtube. watching your videos always feels so refreshing and satisfying and fun!!

@inayah0 2 ай бұрын

your words mean the world to me! thank you for being here ❤️❤️❤️

@icarus3401 3 ай бұрын

the way i've been thinking all day about how nervous i am to go to this local salsa and bachata dance class i found, but im so scared to go due to potential embarassment. and i've been trying to get myself to just suck it up and get over it, so if the fact that this video popped up in my subs today isn't a sign, im not sure what is

@NielsPotatoes 3 ай бұрын

i literally put myself in the most embarrassing situation yesterday and this popped up. i love your content so much

@redlycoris7829 3 ай бұрын

I love how much you love yourself! I’ve watched a few of your videos and you’ve perfectly articulated what I’ve been going through the past few years on my own journey of growth. Everyone, remember to take care of your physical wellbeing because the impacts it has on your emotional wellbeing is significant. I found out recently I have asthma and have been having chronic respiratory infections. I would always push through the pain and treated it like it was normal. Once I finally identified it as a problem and began treating it, my entire outlook on life changed and it became so much easier to become the person I wanted to be. I could finally look in the mirror and recognize myself. Thank you Inayah for sharing your own journey with the world.

@baharspring8228 3 ай бұрын

I have so much embarrassment in me that i don't even know where they came from...and im trying so hard to let go and take it easier. This is gold! Thanks ❤

@brakar0427 3 ай бұрын

Got my pen, my notebook and my drink. I think I’m ready

@Iliekmelonz 3 ай бұрын

I love your videos so much, I feel like Im talking to a long lost friend I never had, maybe in a past life time I had a friend like this, but I feel as though a very comforting and genuine warm vibe to you!! Your videos help me to keep going despite everything in my life

@reyesalbert3458 20 күн бұрын

I think this topic is closely related to staying in a "comfort zone" like being afraid to be a judge for the sake of not feeling embarrassed or cringing is choosing comfort over growth (in some cases of). As someone who cares a lot about what people think, I experienced it when I pursued photography. I'm still working on my confidence but it takes a lot of courage to take photos especially in the streets and for a topic that you're the only one who understands. It's always like that being creative, which means having distinct and odd ideas from the rest which sometimes you wish you can explain it to every people for the sake of saving yourself from comments and judgments. But over time I realize that people don't care and that all of us are busy minding our own business.

@MotiveValiance 3 ай бұрын

inayah Thank you so much for your beautiful words on embracing embarrassment. Your perspective really hit home and made me realize that growth often comes from stepping out of our comfort zones. You've given me the courage to face my fears and turn awkward moments into opportunities for learning. I'm truly inspired by your motivation!

@luizammachadoo 18 күн бұрын

I just love hearing you talking, your voice is so gorgeous

@zarinaxhazedd 3 ай бұрын

i needed to hear this today, i seem to always find the embarrassing moments and punish myself by overthinking it, it really doesn’t help to dwell on those moments because it’s already happened

@zarinaxhazedd 3 ай бұрын

when you look back at those ‘embarrassing moments or memories’ they are usually the best moments because you can laugh about it

@emilypotwin8021 3 ай бұрын

I just found your channel and I’m incredibly grateful I have. Your videos make me feel like I’m getting the loving big sister talks I never got to have growing up~ thank you!

@lilyakopova1949 2 ай бұрын

You have no idea how much you’re helping me.

@sarahperera1506 3 ай бұрын

i just wanted to say a massive thank you for making these videos, it's like getting a pep talk from an older sister ive never had lmao. i've lowkey been on a downward spiral recently in terms of mental health so binging these are helping me move past hyperfixating on silly moments from the past and moving forward. so thank you so so much :)

@shilahriddell813 3 ай бұрын

Would love love love a video on your hair! maybe similar to your makeup and chat video. Your hair is so pretty! I have a similar texture but cant get it to sit as naturally as yours. Share the secret! x

@jowaovieira 3 ай бұрын

Im in the same journey. 2:56 "How confortable you are with yourself is how confortable you are with embarrassment" my take away!! You have a beautiful soul! And you are very much loved. We'll see eachother through it I believe it and it makes a great story for our lives. Its our own journey 🎉

@deodorant6909 3 ай бұрын

you changed my entire mindset even though I already knew these things I didn't understand them.

@icayl 3 ай бұрын

u dont know how impactful and inspirational u are to me. me rn and me months ago are completely different

@MajaMatuszczak 3 ай бұрын

I love your videos, i sometimes watch them to get someone's else's view on things and they inspire me. It makes me want to do these kind of videos myself. Keep doing your work, I wish you the best with that!❤

@Bri2001V 3 ай бұрын

so happy this showed up in my recommendationssss

@LorraineVirginie 3 ай бұрын

I love ranunculus so much it’s such an underrated flower! Great video! ❤❤❤

@jawshie245 3 ай бұрын

this is such perfect timing as me and a lot of other ppl are entering another school year 😭

@abcdefghijklmnopqrstuvwxyz2222 3 ай бұрын

I laugh about it then I cry about it 😂

@Stephanie-is7bu 2 ай бұрын

The first thing you need to do to achieve that kind of mindset is you need to avoid the people who are always making you feel bad or shaming you for making a mistake.

@amaliaaguilar5671 3 ай бұрын

I was just thinking about embarrassment this morning then I woke up to you posting this video!❤️😭

@bihye8247 3 ай бұрын

I haven't watched the video yet (I will after I study for a bit) but I just wanted to say your lip gloss/stain/lipstick looks amazing!! It suits you so well

@leporiaantic 3 ай бұрын

I wasn't able to watch the whole video, but I will say as a neurodivergent person (someone not only with adhd, but I struggle with social cues), we didn't get the memo. Because of this I've had to rely on humiliation and self-flagellation to condition myself to mask. It taught me social cues so that I wouldn't ruin my reputation with jobs and stuff. This is unfortunately where a lot of trauma comes for folks like me.

@broncoxy 3 ай бұрын

a simple thought that helps a lot: _people do not care._

@user-ve8jl6yx4m 3 ай бұрын

Hello, I'm not fluent in English, but I can understand your videos because of the subtitles. I really appreciate your voice, the content you share, and your kindness in providing subtitles. Please keep uploading great videos. I will always support you.

@Cathwenda 3 ай бұрын

I was in the elevator with my boyfriend with 2 other people in it. It was so quite and then I suddenly fart, I act as if I was unaware and unbothered but these 2 other guys I can tell from their faces that they almost burst out to laugh. Well, I thought they should laugh it out or else they'll gonna fart it out.

@Moonglowsubliminals 3 ай бұрын

needed this !

@vultirR 3 ай бұрын

aaa! i love snap dragons! 🖤💕

@Lavigneavr 3 ай бұрын

thank you so much

@ActiveResearchYouTube 3 ай бұрын

You should feel exceptionally... "comfortable"

@Zirulnikoff 3 ай бұрын

I wonder how you know so much about so many psychological themes??. I started watching some videos, skeptical about your knowledge (by this bad prejudice to doubt young people 'spitting facts'), and I was very impressed :o

@milliondollarwomanxo 3 ай бұрын

I definitely needed this vid because last Friday I tried to make a move on my work crush and it went not so great 😂 my mind wanted to dwell on it and make it keep me up at night but I just laughed about it and kept it moving 🙈🤗

@may7351 3 ай бұрын

you're amazing

@ahsanshaheera4825 3 ай бұрын

Hi i really love your videos so much but i also wanted to ask what camera do you use it is so unique and cool

@bigs7876 3 ай бұрын

Brooooooo you don’t miss

@markymark775 3 ай бұрын

love thiss❤❤

@tracnard5181 3 ай бұрын

I love you and your video, you make me feel better. Merci

@Chie4mochie 3 ай бұрын

I love you!!! ❤

@charmedprince 2 ай бұрын

Let me go get coffee for this ☕

@gilbertoruiz3194 3 ай бұрын

who can even judge you if you are so pretty ...... victimization

@Ludovicus_Dance 3 ай бұрын

GAH, school is starting soon and everyone should watch this video 😂

@Aubrey-z8q 3 ай бұрын

The same exact thing has happen to me before i farter against a wooden floor in gym class once. It echod and made a loud ass noise. The whole gym was laughing. Even worse, I almost farted at my college graduation.