Let's Get Personal! || 7k Q&A! Do I want more kids? How to "do it all"? My best mom advice and more!

It's a Q&A! A very chatty one, I might add. I want to say a HUGE thank you for helping me reach 7k subscribers; it feels like such a big accomplishment. Next stop 10k? One can hope! Thank you for all the fun questions, and I hope that I answered everything you wanted to know!
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[@christiana_mandalynn]

🥹💖 I cannot tell you enough how much hearing this meant to me. I’m catching up on older videos of your while you are on maternity break and hearing your wisdom on parenting & making time for yourself & mental health amidst a household of young children was the *thing* I needed to hear today. 🥹 You are my favorite KZbinr, you really are. ❤️🍓🍓🍓 I have 4 children and I find so much inspiration from you.

[@larkfly9273]

Just found you, you are the cutest! I love your styling choices, they are unique - like with makeup and a dress and a hat, a brooch. Love it, your honesty about being plus size and having a house hold (I moved the mess out of the way lol) and btw you have the sweetest voice. Hugs from Denmark :)

[@susanguppy2231]

Thank you for your comment about children. I have one and it's more exhausting than 5 😆. I have to "borrow" kids to get a break.

[@desertrat5543]

This video was surprisingly motivating for me. I naturally prioritize my own passions, but it’s nice to see other mothers doing it, too.

[@WithLoveKristina]

I'm so glad to know other moms do it too! It always feels a bit weird talking about it, but I have yet to come across anyone who doesn't think that pursuing your passions even as a mom is a bad thing. So that's good!

[@elizabethlauricella7176]

Soooo sorry to hear about your yard and emergency repair. This is my first binge video. I’ve got lots of tests to watch. Thinking of you.

[@helenahandbasket3016]

My Grandmother says that back in the 1950's the one time you were encouraged to get fat as you wanted was when you were pregnant. She also says there was an unspoken 2 year rule where you were allowed 2 years to lose the baby weight gain before the other women would "talk about you." LOL. I cant imagine caring what the other women in my neighborhood had to say about me or my weight but evidently it was a thing, a concern back then.

[@sofiabravo1994]

That’s terrible! 😔

[@marionlacey1986]

Kristina I loved this Q & A, you are such a natural in front of the camera and full to the brim with wise commonsense. Your kids are so fortunate to have such a beautiful caring mum. Am so enjoying catching up with your videos as time allows. You are breath of creative fresh air and vintage flair. Hugs from South Australia 🐾

[@kristinaNC]

Another great video, Kristina! 🍓

[@lifeinthegrey2520]

So glad I found you!!! You're so lovely!

[@roseystroup]

I am so glad I found you, you truly inspired me

[@watsonmelon6575]

Congrats on 7k! You deserve each and every one for the dedication and time you put in to your content. 🌹

[@WithLoveKristina]

Thank you! It is a lot of fun, too!

[@DJ-mu3ev]

My entire city is zoned to allow urban farming and I want a couple chickens so badly. I have a tiny yard, so finding a space has been the challenge. It's a project down the to-do list for now. Living in a 100 year old house brings forward a few more infrastructure projects first.

[@WithLoveKristina]

Oh, the joy of old houses, lol!

[@AM-bm2xw]

This is my favorite kinda video, I like getting to know more about you! You seem like the sweetest person and mama! ... Currently, I only have half as many children as you, but bedtime and an appropriate amount of sleep is absolutely the cornerstone of our day. I feel ya!

[@WithLoveKristina]

I'm so glad! I've had a few people say they like the long chatty videos, which makes me happy because I am a storyteller even when I'm just answering questions, apparently. HA! I had to cut a lot out just to make it under 30 minutes!

[@quycksylver4822]

Congratulations on hitting 7K! I always love seeing when you've posted a new video.

[@WithLoveKristina]

Thank you love! I think it feels monumental to hit 7k because it's a tipping point towards 10k, which will be a little mind blowing when I get there!

[@paulaespiritu5009]

I enjoyed getting to know you and loved your mommy advice

[@sinnis3303]

Thanks for this! Congrats on 7K! Love your style and your family is so cute :)

[@WithLoveKristina]

Thank you so much!!

[@bjohnson9221]

Loved this video! I enjoyed the chatty info, and the wisdom shared. It is SO important to remember that we, as women, need to choose to take care of ourselves , too! Beautiful, as always! Blessings and congratulations on over 7K followers! Well done, and deserved!

[@WithLoveKristina]

Thank you love! I'm still blown away by my channel growth!

[@perpetuallydancing]

So happy that I found your channel. I have 4 daughters ages 7,5,3,1, and you are spot on with your parenting advice!

[@WithLoveKristina]

I'm so glad to have you here! Daughters are so fun! Mine are almost exactly the same ages as yours but my oldest is a boy!

[@preciouspaws2]

This was a lovely video. It was nice to get to know you a bit.

[@AnaCarolNasc]

Congratulations!! Your channel is so sweet and welcoming!!

[@WithLoveKristina]

Thank you so much!!

[@florac7321]

Love your super woman earrings! BRAVO for your candor you inspire me! Thank you for taking care of the kittens.

[@WithLoveKristina]

Oh, cats are my favorite so it's delightful even though we didn't intend to have all those kittens!

[@hannahinjapan7087]

As a mom of one with number two on the way I feel encouraged by this video lol

[@WithLoveKristina]

THANK YOU FOR 7K!!! I have a PO box now! There's no obligation to send anything ever, but I've gotten asked enough to finally get one! Mail can be sent to: Kristina Suko P.O. Box 1036 Tenino, WA 98589 I don't know why 7k in particular feels so monumental, but it does to me and I'm so thankful for each and every one of you. Got some channel video suggestions? Feel free to reply to this comment and I'll add them to my list! Thank you for being here, always. xoxo

[@sylviamaike6866]

Thank you for the tips - sounds like I need to make better friends with my curling iron and maybe up my scarf game as well! Thanks also for the thoughts on mothering and creativity; a lot of that resonated with me as wel. Finally - what a great natural eye shadow look, I would never have guessed it had that many layers - I for one would welcome a makeup tutorial. 😊

[@WithLoveKristina]

Scarves are the BEST for busy mom days! And if you don't want to utilize a curling iron, a really great vintage way to wear a headscarf is simply parting your hair in the middle and smoothing it back, then tying a headscarf on. SUPER easy. I need to do an updated makeup routine, it's on my list!

[@Yesterdaysmemories]

I have finally refocudmsed on what in love and thats vintage..I have collected sold and re collected vintage for years. I have raised 10 children, my own 4 and 6 grandchildren ..I currently live in a bus with 4 of them.plus hubby all my vintage peices are all in storage ...I cannot wait till play with it all again Good on you for sticking with what you love ..i wish I hadn't let it slide . Picture you see was me about 9 yrs ago in 2012 .I'm.older and greyer but ready to play dress ups again :)

[@WithLoveKristina]

Oh your life sounds fascinating! I'm doing my best not to let what I love slide, because I know it encourages people around me -- including my husband and kids!

[@guinnagregory1818]

I love your videos!

[@shannonprouse9976]

Loved all you vintage favourites! Especially that 40s dress ❤️ And you said my name right too which is not super common 😉

[@WithLoveKristina]

Oh I'm so glad! I read it a few times to make sure I was saying it correctly!

[@amber7253]

Your. Honesty I love it . Your house is adorable your room also adorable.so excited that you hit 7 k that's so excited. Also love the get ready with me videos ! I think you answered that second question beautifully I love it I love this video this is an awesome video

[@WithLoveKristina]

Thank you lovely!

[@paulahardin8141]

Loved watching the video. I added sheer white curtains to my own closet. It creates a neat backdrop for photos and videos. My husband and I bought a nice curtain rod and placed long sheer curtains to create a huge window effect. I love it because it kind of hides my clothes but is easily pushed to the side for easy access to everything, I actually did this to my kids closets as well. We got rid of all the closet doors and replaced them with pretty sheer curtains. The boys decor is red, white and black so I bought them black sheer curtains.

[@WithLoveKristina]

I need to do this! Our closets used to have doors but someone took them off, and I HATE the way closet doors look. I just haven't gotten my butt in gear to add anything yet, lol.

[@sofiabravo1994]

As a mom of an only child my daughter is a kindergartner and I homeschool her and we are together so much but she has learned to entertain herself and does it wonderfully, because there are times where I need time for myself too, she seems to really enjoy the times that she has to herself as well we also have two dogs she enjoys playing with, it’s not exactly the same but it’s better than nothing and I think pets bring great joy to families as well. She has church friends and we get together, I noticed that older kids get along with her and vice versa. Some kids do great with or without siblings.

[@jasminemcaleavey9593]

Such great advice

[@WithLoveKristina]

Thanks for watching!

[@Lcalvert66]

I think you are beautiful the way you are! You have a good fashion sense for you and your body. Your family are so cute and I love watching!

[@WithLoveKristina]

Thank you! that is so sweet of you to say!

[@shirleysorrentino7353]

Congrats!!!! Thank you for this video!!!! ❤️ So many questions that I had! I’m currently pregnant with my first baby ❤️🙏🏼super excited but sometimes I get anxious and get nervous! Love your honesty! Totally random, but did you wear vintage maternity? Thanks!!!!

[@WithLoveKristina]

Thank you! I wore mostly non-maternity because it was easier to find and thrift, but I paid attention to things like higher waistlines and stretchier fabrics! Congratulations on your first baby!

[@shirleysorrentino7353]

@@WithLoveKristina Thank you so much!!! ❤️

[@zeusathena26]

You could probably size up that floral dress you love so much. I agree with you about not getting rid of it.

[@WithLoveKristina]

I probably will! There is so much fabric in the skirt that adding a panel of some sort in the sides is likely doable.

[@lauraraines767]

I'm also a mom of four, but they are all grown now. I miss the baby busy days though.

[@wynniethepooh6834]

Can you do a cleaning video/tour of your home?

[@zeusathena26]

I was just amazed that you covered up your gorgeous rosie cheeked complexion, only to add color back! What's the point in that? Your beautiful, let it shine through. I was a teen in the nineties when Kate Moss was the thing, & it ticked me off! Everything is geared towards that, & I am the exact opposite. I am glad you, & others are showing beauty comes in all sizes. I graduated in 96, so I understand. I was letting everyone down because of my weight, even though my doctor said it was several medical problems. It took me many years to learn to love yourself, _ take care of yourself. If you don't, you can't take care of anyone else. Thanks for these videos!

[@WithLoveKristina]

LOL it's because I have hormonal acne; I only put foundation on where there are breakouts. Plus, putting foundation on and then adding back blush gives you more control on where you want it. For instance, I like having blush on my nose which is not something that occurs naturally. ;) I am sorry that you felt like you were letting people down because of weight! I'm glad that it's being discovered and proven more and more that bodies can be healthy at many sizes and not just the traditional "thin is better" view.

[@RobinGoesCamping]

I also have roscha and I want to know what products you use on your face

[@amandacowgill]

What foundation do you use? Looks like yours covered really well but didn’t look cakey! I need that kind of foundation in my life lol

[@WithLoveKristina]

It's Kokie Beauty foundation -- nothing special! I do only put it over blemishes, and I don't add any extra powder because I don't like overly done skin. It works, but it does start flaking off at the end of the day (although that could be my skin, which is very dry)

[@shelbynovak7442]

Omgggg my comment made it!

[@WithLoveKristina]

Yes! I get asked that so much I figured it was time to chat about it; I love that question!

[@akashanumberfive199]

How do I learn vintage sizing? I have enough trouble with modern sizes. But now I'm so confused

[@WithLoveKristina]

Always rely on your measurements! I should make a video on this, but basically I never buy without the item having bust/waist/hip measurements, and knowing my own!

[@ShopFoxburrow]

OK BUT TELL ME WHAT YOU ARE USING TO MAKE YOUR FRECKLES IT LOOKS SO EASY. (all caps, obv).

[@ShopFoxburrow]

Also you forgot your bread recipe video card at 19:49 :)

[@WithLoveKristina]

@@ShopFoxburrow DANG IT I keep remembering that I need to add the bred recipe card!! Lucky for you I just filmed a makeup routine update!!! (It's the colourpop freckle pen)

[@lauraraines767]

Just a suggestion but that dress that you wouldn't part with, you could make it into a lovely apron. I've done that myself.

[@zeusathena26]

Being an only child is the worst thing a parent can do to a kid.!

[@WithLoveKristina]

I know some only children who loved their childhood; I think it's important to recognize the health and well being of the WHOLE family, not just the child. If the parents are compromising their own mental or physical health just to have a kid because they think they have to, that could result in abuse and other bad things down the road for everyone. But, I do love having multiple kids and they love it too!

[@zeusathena26]

@@WithLoveKristina we'll my husband, & I are only kids. We did enjoy our childhoods, it's adulthood that's the problem. My parents died before I was 30, & his soon after. We are both on disability, he has been disabled since he was a child. Neither of our parents had many siblings, & with bad luck most have passed on, or are horrible people. So there isn't any family on holidays, or if there is an emergency. I worry for my husband, he isn't able to handle serious issues, & I know one day he will. If we had 1 dependable relative not 4 $$, but could be there for a sudden hospitalization, etc. I know other single kids like me always hoped for siblings too. It's easier when dealing with all of life's issues. Sorry to write all this, & I know many single kids have wonderful lives, but counting on your sibling is easier. I'm glad you have multiples, because they are all as beautiful as you! You have helped me have more body confidence, & even with my disabilities. Continue with the beautiful photos! It'll be a forever cherished family keepsake! }It a digital copy on the cloud, or some kind of off-site storage area, like a friend. Sometimes people have it all destroyed in a moment. I'm a former professional photographer, & a number of people came looking to retrieve the data, or negatives. So just a tip. People always say they'll get around to it. 👍

[@jerseyrokasky9216]

You don't have depression or anxiety,the devil is in you and he is trying to think you have those things so he can try time win over you so he can win against God, Jesus let's the devil go threw peoples mind to see if the His people will go to Him. Pray,and pray God is always listening and will help you have a strong and beat the devil out when you think your anxiety or depression is kicking in.I know what your going threw I'm fighting it too.

[@WithLoveKristina]

Oh, friend, this is a very dangerous thing to preach. I am a Christian, and I have depression and anxiety. Prayer, meditating on God's word, and otherwise practicing faith certainly help, but depression and anxiety are actual chemical imbalances in the body that should be dealt with medically, as they are medical disorders. Ignoring the very real fact that depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues exist is an extremely terrible thing to do. I pray that you understand the things you struggle with can be helped by science, and that science and faith can go hand-in-hand.

[@jerseyrokasky9216]

@@WithLoveKristina I understand, reading the word of God helps a lot.No,I do not know what you have been through.But let me give you a heads up be careful what you put in your mind,the devil is a destroyer.Love your videos you make me feel so inspired.I am freankly trying to decorate my room Victorian.

[@jerseyrokasky9216]

@@WithLoveKristina lol just trying help a another Christian out.I hope that you get peace.God bless.

[@WithLoveKristina]

@@jerseyrokasky9216 I pray you also find the help that you need, if ever you want to reach out. I am the daughter-in-law of a pastor, and the granddaughter of a pastor as well and I am very thankful for their advice on seeking professional advice on how to deal with mental health issues. I am thankful that I know what triggers my anxiety, and what diet and exercise changes help with depression, but I am also thankful for godly people who can support me in seeking more help when and if I need it. I will be praying for you! If ever you feel weighed down and need someone to talk to, my email is always open.

[@WithLoveKristina]

@@jerseyrokasky9216 also, a Victorian bedroom sounds wonderful!