LET'S GET PERSONAL.. 'GIRL TALK' Q+A - PERIODS, BODY HAIR, SEXUALITY, RELATIONSHIPS, THE LOT

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sophdoeslife

sophdoeslife

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@emisabellex9159
@emisabellex9159 5 жыл бұрын
The Red lips is everything 😍😍😍💜💜
@yas4163
@yas4163 5 жыл бұрын
MakeupByEmIsabelle yessss😍
@maii9412
@maii9412 5 жыл бұрын
Are*
@isabelthomson4900
@isabelthomson4900 5 жыл бұрын
Are** sorry it just gets to me too much 🤣
@evyuwu4509
@evyuwu4509 5 жыл бұрын
I agree and it looks so good with her nails
@elanalana4737
@elanalana4737 5 жыл бұрын
I know! 😍😍💕
@niamhrobinson444
@niamhrobinson444 5 жыл бұрын
Thank me later... TIME MARKERS ~ School periods - 1:07 Always Ad - 1:42 Bra sizes - 4:00 First period/cramps - 4:41 Work trips - 7:19 Acne - 8:10 Date or Friendship - 9:10 Relationships - 9:45 Shaving -10:35 Second thoughts -12:57 Contraceptives - 14:18 Sexuality - 15:50 Before marriage - 16:35 Virginity - 17:18 Change from a boy - 17:50 Tampons or pads - 18:39 Banta gone too far - 19:16 Parties - 19:50 Losing feelings - 20:38 More bras 21:20 Stretch marks - 22:38 Tattoo regrets - 23:37
@julietedesco1152
@julietedesco1152 5 жыл бұрын
damn that must have taken sooooo long thank you so much ur a legit life saver 🙏
@Lena_mdr
@Lena_mdr 5 жыл бұрын
Thans a lot!!!!
@nikkiwilliamson5595
@nikkiwilliamson5595 5 жыл бұрын
Niamh Robinson omg thankyouuu
@doraderecskei8239
@doraderecskei8239 5 жыл бұрын
we need more people like you🙏🙏
@anialajajian308
@anialajajian308 5 жыл бұрын
Niamh Robinson GOD NIAMH JUST SAVED OUR DAY😎👏🏻👍🏻
@shanice2431
@shanice2431 5 жыл бұрын
honestly soph is the big sister I never had so I’m not complaining :)
@user-bq9cw4fy8g
@user-bq9cw4fy8g 5 жыл бұрын
shanice bessant awwww that’s so cute
@EmelieStenberg
@EmelieStenberg 5 жыл бұрын
same, but i'm older than her haha
@sophdoeslife
@sophdoeslife 5 жыл бұрын
aww thanks ☺️
@lollol4150
@lollol4150 5 жыл бұрын
shanice bessant oh hi Shan 🤣
@shanice2431
@shanice2431 5 жыл бұрын
Laciexxx Jonesxxx hi :))
@just_depie
@just_depie 5 жыл бұрын
My period is an acrobat. The pad is empty and somehow got blood on my bedsheets 😒
@katiegeorge3824
@katiegeorge3824 5 жыл бұрын
pink unicorn wear a nappy, I know it sound weird but trust me it helps so much if you’re at home.
@charlottee7173
@charlottee7173 5 жыл бұрын
Katie George not trying to be rude but do you use normal nappies like the ones for babies?! Just wondering because I don’t think they would fit me😂
@lillunaeticx
@lillunaeticx 5 жыл бұрын
You could also probably use incontinence pants instead of a nappy xx
@biancaa_patrricia
@biancaa_patrricia 5 жыл бұрын
pink unicorn I know omg
@allanaparker5027
@allanaparker5027 5 жыл бұрын
that happens to me but i started sleeping on my side and that helped but if that doesn't work for you then i suggest wearing nappies
@mch3ira
@mch3ira 5 жыл бұрын
About the stretch marks: this may be a bit silly, but one thing that made me start feeling better about them was to start calling them my tiger stripes. I mean, tigers are hella cool. I kinda like my stripes now. ^_^
@rhonddalesley
@rhonddalesley 5 жыл бұрын
Maria Cheira Or battle scars lol! I call mine my natural tattoos, mementoes of bearing three wonderful children who now have children of their own, we should be proud of our tiger stripes, female tigers would fight to the death for their cubs as would I ❤️
@katemorrison1944
@katemorrison1944 5 жыл бұрын
Omg same! I actually love them 😂
@WildflowerReads
@WildflowerReads 5 жыл бұрын
My mummy calls them tiger stripes and it makes me feel so much better about my own
@lotte4612
@lotte4612 5 жыл бұрын
My mom was always "proud" of her stretch mark, she didn't try to hide them and when I as a kid asked about them she just told me they were "grow marks". Judt the fact that she never made an issue about them and wore them with confidence I never really felt bad about mine.
@emmalouise9536
@emmalouise9536 5 жыл бұрын
Maria Cheira that’s what I call my self harm scars tiger stripes
@faithlines9944
@faithlines9944 5 жыл бұрын
Who else reads the comments when watching the video??
@elliedonald8079
@elliedonald8079 5 жыл бұрын
Meeee
@emilymeller9666
@emilymeller9666 5 жыл бұрын
I do that to
@annagisbourne4297
@annagisbourne4297 5 жыл бұрын
doing that rn ahah x
@laineh4342
@laineh4342 5 жыл бұрын
Omg I always do that
@libraryofmar
@libraryofmar 5 жыл бұрын
alwaysss
@abbrennan5297
@abbrennan5297 5 жыл бұрын
Most people giving birth: Omg it hurts so much Soph giving birth: Wow this feels really familiar
@addieo7627
@addieo7627 5 жыл бұрын
Abbie Brennan 😂😂😂😂😂
@ellajean3576
@ellajean3576 5 жыл бұрын
omg 😂
@liarose.222
@liarose.222 5 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@raegancobb6837
@raegancobb6837 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@lilyf7356
@lilyf7356 5 жыл бұрын
yess 👏😂
@lucielow9192
@lucielow9192 5 жыл бұрын
Soph genuinely gives the best advice, like honestly, she would be the best big sister/friend. Also, gurl, that red lip looks stunning on you.
@sophdoeslife
@sophdoeslife 5 жыл бұрын
ahh thanks so much ☺️
@barbarabratanic
@barbarabratanic 5 жыл бұрын
WE NEED MORE OLDER SISTER GIRL TALK!! btw your makeup is ON POINT
@chloewarner8467
@chloewarner8467 5 жыл бұрын
“He brings out the best in me” Love how happy you are Soph, you definitely deserve it 🥰💕
@sophdoeslife
@sophdoeslife 5 жыл бұрын
aw thank you so much 🥰
@pizzapanda6405
@pizzapanda6405 5 жыл бұрын
Sophie: when ur on ur period you need rest. So get some rest Me: on my period watching videos until one am
@Lemon-go5pr
@Lemon-go5pr 5 жыл бұрын
Same gurl same lol
@Nikki-pu3se
@Nikki-pu3se 5 жыл бұрын
Pizza Panda lol same
@ellamarie5906
@ellamarie5906 4 жыл бұрын
lol same but it’s actually 5:45 am... i haven’t gone to sleep yet
@audreyfortmeyer8528
@audreyfortmeyer8528 4 жыл бұрын
Me right now
@aoifemcauleystamp9487
@aoifemcauleystamp9487 5 жыл бұрын
It's so refreshing to see someone post such an in depth period talk video! Kudos on cutting down the stigma ❤️ I've only recently started watching you and I'm honestly sad I didn't before :')
@poes_poems
@poes_poems 5 жыл бұрын
Watch Jessiivee’s video called “your period horror stories” I loved it
@sophdoeslife
@sophdoeslife 5 жыл бұрын
aah thanks so much ❤️
@kathyciran3366
@kathyciran3366 5 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one that thinks she looks like Sabrina Carpenter???? 😂 your super pretty💛
@mollyjackson7551
@mollyjackson7551 5 жыл бұрын
Ur not the only one
@isabellalittle7977
@isabellalittle7977 5 жыл бұрын
OMG SHE DOES
@lowri9102
@lowri9102 5 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@Nikki-pu3se
@Nikki-pu3se 5 жыл бұрын
Hockey4 LIFE same!!!!!
@laura7430
@laura7430 5 жыл бұрын
I literally just thought that when i read your comment! She really looks like her!😍❤️
@amyanderson3358
@amyanderson3358 5 жыл бұрын
Anyone else tired of being Single? Just me? Ok.....😢😂
@curleyshirley720
@curleyshirley720 5 жыл бұрын
Amy Anderson me
@smiltest460
@smiltest460 5 жыл бұрын
me
@maggiehosking1198
@maggiehosking1198 5 жыл бұрын
Amy Anderson me
@marinavivian9383
@marinavivian9383 5 жыл бұрын
Try going out more or use a dating app if you want a relationship
@caseygilby670
@caseygilby670 5 жыл бұрын
It's been 14 years and I'm over it now 😂
@emmalaird3715
@emmalaird3715 5 жыл бұрын
Got my period on Christmas Day fair to say I wish Santa had returns on unwanted gifts
@Ggjhffzaexvh
@Ggjhffzaexvh 5 жыл бұрын
Emma Laird omg I feel ya sis xx
@sophielaird8910
@sophielaird8910 5 жыл бұрын
Emma Laird hello fellow Laird! Feels weird to see someone else with the surname lol
@CrazyCrazy-es7xe
@CrazyCrazy-es7xe 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@makaylachambers996
@makaylachambers996 5 жыл бұрын
OMG 😂😂
@juliaann9474
@juliaann9474 5 жыл бұрын
😂
@clownmama6823
@clownmama6823 5 жыл бұрын
To the few boys watching this. get ready it's gonna happen to you when you either have kids or get a girlfriend
@Mariana-ov9mr
@Mariana-ov9mr 5 жыл бұрын
Unless you have boy kids.
@shakayla4056
@shakayla4056 5 жыл бұрын
Mxrs but you’d need a girlfriend to do that
@hellcat2756
@hellcat2756 5 жыл бұрын
KaylaCreates not if they adopt
@poppymayk
@poppymayk 5 жыл бұрын
@@hellcat2756 Now we are just making it complicated 😂
@YazJane
@YazJane 5 жыл бұрын
the video we've always wanted to see?? i think yes :)
@charlottetulley3521
@charlottetulley3521 5 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@sophdoeslife
@sophdoeslife 5 жыл бұрын
💕💕💕
@Ggjhffzaexvh
@Ggjhffzaexvh 5 жыл бұрын
I stared mine on Christmas
@sh0ebase
@sh0ebase 5 жыл бұрын
I love that younger girls have someone like you talking super openly about everything! You truly are an amazing woman Soph. The only pointer is that I honestly feel that it is normal to have crushes even if you are in a relationship especially if it’s a longer one - nothing to be afraid of, just obviously don’t act on it and be open about it. If the feelings are very real and not leaving you alone, then ofc end the current relationship and move on.
@annajanehesmondhalgh7261
@annajanehesmondhalgh7261 5 жыл бұрын
quick period tip !! if you're worried about leaking at night then as soph said, wear tightish feeling pyjamas but you can also wear double underwear, to keep it on properly and of it leaks then it wont get on your sheets xx
@MJ-ff7ie
@MJ-ff7ie 5 жыл бұрын
10:14 It depends if I’m honest. I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and I can’t lie and say I haven’t found another boy attractive or fantasise about another boy. Because that’s only natural but it doesn’t mean I’m cheating in anyway or planning to cheat. It’s natural and everyone gets it. I think you need to think carefully on whether you’re actually have developed feelings or is it a little crush that will fly over. But obviously if your more in love with the 2nd and want them and just feel disconnected to your boyfriend maybe it time to call quits.
@anna-luciathoelen4394
@anna-luciathoelen4394 5 жыл бұрын
"I used to have really heavy periods, so that's why I use the platinum pads during the days" Me meanwhile changing the always ultra thick pads every 4 hours 😢
@alannahbuckley8288
@alannahbuckley8288 5 жыл бұрын
#questionoftheday What’s your favourite clothing brand x p.s love you lots x
@lucyround2359
@lucyround2359 5 жыл бұрын
New look xxx lol answered ur question soph 😂
@darcxy
@darcxy 5 жыл бұрын
so glad you talked about your period pains, i’m experiencing something really similar to that right now (i’m 16) and i have prescription drugs like mefenamic acid but i’m hoping to go on the pill soon, this really helped knowing i’m not the only one ! :)
@bethanbarnwell7657
@bethanbarnwell7657 5 жыл бұрын
I have really bad acne and I've just started using coalface from lush and the cosmetic warrior..... They are really good. I defo recommend👍🏻x
@graceepton5909
@graceepton5909 5 жыл бұрын
Gurlllllllll😭Your lipstick looks bomb🤩❤️xx
@bethwalkerhughes9873
@bethwalkerhughes9873 5 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love the openness of this video!! The honesty is real and for some (including myself) people, may be what they need to hear!! Also, about finding a Bra Size, my mum works in M&S in Lingerie and all the M&S have a very friendly bra fitting service(and it’s free). It’s very nerve wracking thinking about going, but to those people who work there, it is normal- everyone is the same! Lots of love Soph 💛🍋
@sophdoeslife
@sophdoeslife 5 жыл бұрын
thank you so much! 💕
@torygardner1
@torygardner1 5 жыл бұрын
My periods used to make me throw up too! I'm glad you're talking about this, if I had someone like you around when I was going through puberty it wouldve helped so much! Keep it up I can guarantee its helping so many younger people and it's fun to reminisce on early school year problems that felt life altering 😂
@jaydenharris7383
@jaydenharris7383 5 жыл бұрын
In relation to the developing feelings for another person while in a relationship question...it’s worth trying to work out the difference for yourself between love and comfort. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and I’m 23. A couple of years ago I started questioning if being with him was what I really wanted. I stuck it out, and I didn’t develop feelings for anyone else, and I still couldn’t imagine my life without him, and I still questioned whether I was just comfortable or actually in love with him. After thinking about it, I definitely cannot imagine my life without him. I can’t wait until we have our own house and our own little family and there is absolutely no one else that I could ever imagine having this future with. My longest relationship before him was only 4 months, and I think we were just reaching a point where we were so comfortable with each other’s company we never done anything out and about, together or alone. I found a new hobby, and that helped so much. He then found a new hobby and I can’t express how much better everything feels now.
@SanShine2309
@SanShine2309 5 жыл бұрын
🙌🙌 Yes. All of this!
@mishi1557
@mishi1557 5 жыл бұрын
Always pads are the best pads! 😀 x
@ellie-pm9hp
@ellie-pm9hp 5 жыл бұрын
about stretch marks: i have always thought that stretch marks are incredibly beautiful, they genuinely look like iridescent tiger stripes. they’re such a work of art + they’re different for everybody. please love your tiger stripes :)
@maegancooper250
@maegancooper250 5 жыл бұрын
Ok is anyone else in middle school and just talk openly about ur periods😂
@addieo7627
@addieo7627 5 жыл бұрын
Maegan Cooper lol me
@ellajean3576
@ellajean3576 5 жыл бұрын
yes me!
@CrazyCrazy-es7xe
@CrazyCrazy-es7xe 5 жыл бұрын
CimFam Edits haven’t got mine :(
@annabel3857
@annabel3857 5 жыл бұрын
Crazy101 Crazy101 you don’t need to be sad about that, you’re lucky 😂😂
@maegancooper250
@maegancooper250 5 жыл бұрын
Crazy101 Crazy101 i mean that not a bad thing
@_mchy
@_mchy 5 жыл бұрын
Oh my god thank youuuu I love videos like these because girl things aren’t usually talked about. For me the body acne helped because I’ve always been self conscious about my back acne and I felt extremely embarrassed about it. Now I know others do have the same problem. Love your videos 💛💛
@sobienz
@sobienz 5 жыл бұрын
I love how this video is 25 minutes long, was uploaded 2 minutes ago - and already has 26 likes xD #notificationsquad
@zaradennett9569
@zaradennett9569 5 жыл бұрын
LOVE this red lip on you Soph! 💋
@alexy.4149
@alexy.4149 5 жыл бұрын
Regarding bra sizes: it is SUPER easy to measure yourself at home and I encourage everyone to learn to do it rather than relying on commercial bra fitters. Though there are good ones, they can be hard to find and so many of them use the old-fashioned "add four inches" measuring technique which - along with many of them measuring you OVER your bra/clothes, rather than over your bare skin - results in so many people wearing the incorrectly sized bra, which can lead to a lack of proper support, discomfort, chafing, poor posture, and even back problems. Fun fact: most people wear a bra size that is too large in the band and too small in the cup! The reason the "add four inches" technique is inaccurate is because it was formulated back when bra brands did not stretch. The extra inches were added to give the wearer room to breathe. However, now that bra bands are elasticated, this technique should no longer be used (but sadly still is in a lot of places). Stay far away from anywhere that uses it. This elastic also means that when you try on a bra, you should try it on the loosest hook. The tighter hooks are meant to be saved for when the elastic becomes stretched out with use. In order to determine your bra size, all you need is a tape measure and a mirror. Making sure the tape measure is completely horizontal (the mirror is useful for this), measure just under your bust, where your bra band would sit. The result, in inches (rounded to the nearest even number) is your band size. Do the same measurement again, this time across the fullest part of your breasts. The difference, in inches, between this measurement and the previous, is your cup size. Each additional inch goes up a cup size. So: Half to 1 inch difference: A cup 2 inches: B cup 3 inches: C cup 4 inches: D cup 5 inches: E/DD cup And so on. It's that simple! Common signs your bra does not fit well: -A gap between the cup and your breast (this could be a sign the cup is too large, or it could be due to the style of the cup. Take the shape of your breasts into account. If they are not very full on top, for instance, some styles with deep cups may always form a gap) -The back of your bra band hitches up (this is a sign your band size is too large/not tight enough. It should sit horizontally) -"Quad boob", when your cup cuts into your breast so that your cleavage spills over the top (this is a sign the cup size is too small) -The front of the band - the part between the cups - does not sit flat against your chest (this is a sign the cup size is too small) -You can easily pull the band away from your body by more than an inch (this means the band is too large or the elastic is stretched out) When trying bras on, try on multiple styles from multiple brands to figure out what works best for you. Sizes vary hugely between brands, so don't be discouraged if something doesn't work. Your size can also fluctuate throughout the month due to hormone changes. If you have trouble finding places that carry your size, I have heard people have luck looking online at places like Bravissimo. Good luck to anyone reading this! And please spread the word! Boobs deserve to be treated better!
@poppie188
@poppie188 4 жыл бұрын
My grandma measured me...but it was better then going to a shop to get measured
@kaylamorgan9223
@kaylamorgan9223 5 жыл бұрын
I just happen to start my period the day I went to watch this lol. This video was super chill and it's nice that we can be open with each other on this channel. Everything you talked about is a normal thing and no one should be ashamed of any of it.
@alexmarie6862
@alexmarie6862 5 жыл бұрын
Love how honest you are soph👼🏻💕I love you so much👼🏻💕
@sophdoeslife
@sophdoeslife 5 жыл бұрын
thank you!! love u 💕
@irisdeniz3295
@irisdeniz3295 5 жыл бұрын
KZbin needs more videos like this!! Keep up the good work, these type of videos make me on my cloud 9!
@jetschoo5642
@jetschoo5642 5 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you are doing this video! It's so refreshing to hear someone talk so freely about this stuff, I think a lot of girls need to hear this
@MyaR
@MyaR 5 жыл бұрын
I've heard so many people complain about the pill but honestly it is the best thing I have ever done, my periods used to be bad aswell to the point where I was balling my eyes out like a baby and my doctor refused to put me on the pill at first until the pain got to the point where I threw up the painkillers I had taken to take away the pain. Now since that day I have been taking the pill and it hasn't cured the pain (unfortunately it isn't a miracle worker) but the pain is so much more barrable and it actually put it on track as before it would love to make an unannounced appearance so for me the pill has helped me so much and is the best decision I have ever made.
@ginamoriginal
@ginamoriginal 5 жыл бұрын
Soph hun, all the symptoms you just mentioned is what I've been dealing with for the past 23 years. I have Endometriosis.... Just have the Laparoscopy about a year before you want to have a baby Xx
@user-sr2pd1of8x
@user-sr2pd1of8x 5 жыл бұрын
GinaM OfPeekaboo that doesn’t always work, if it goes undiagnosed it can progress to the point where your pelvis “freezes” from the adhesions, I’m stage 2 and had my most recent lap 3 months ago so I can hopefully still have my fertility in a few years when I’m ready. Unfortunately my endo keeps coming back and I have to repeat my laps every time my flare ups get closer together (4 in a month)
@jessjohnston5906
@jessjohnston5906 5 жыл бұрын
Hi I just have a question if you don’t mind answering, I get nervous that I might have endometriosis as I always get like a pulling painful pain in my left side near my lower abdomen quite often and it’s not just when I’m on my period or near my period and when having sexual intercourse it is really painful for me, do these sound like symptoms of endometriosis or not just because I’m quite worried
@fernandamorales220
@fernandamorales220 5 жыл бұрын
Jess Johnston i have the exact same problem :(
@ginamoriginal
@ginamoriginal 5 жыл бұрын
Sadly Endometriosis pretty much always grows back :( After a laparoscopy, where they remove what they can visibly see, your Dr tries to manage it with contraceptives/hormones as they slow the progression of growth. So even though Soph isn't yet diagnosed, she is already on management (the pill). But nothing at this point in time stops it returning, diagnosis or not. Soph said she is scared to receive the diagnosis, so isn't pursuing it at the moment. It's really important to try and have a laparoscopy before trying to conceive if you have the condition, to try and prevent miscarriage. So that's why I said have a laparoscopy before trying for a baby xx
@ginamoriginal
@ginamoriginal 5 жыл бұрын
@@jessjohnston5906 It's possible huni, as the symptoms you mentioned happen with Endo. But I'm not a Dr, so my best advice to you, is to visit your GP lovely and express your concerns. As other conditions manifest like this too. Xx
@seta885
@seta885 5 жыл бұрын
Red lips suit you so well💖
@alishaholly
@alishaholly 5 жыл бұрын
I've never had period cramps and I have a light flow, the most I get is slight discomfort. I feel so lucky now😐❤️
@abigaillogan3843
@abigaillogan3843 5 жыл бұрын
Autumn_ Fox208 you’re very lucky 😂 I’m a bit jealous
@emsh3400
@emsh3400 5 жыл бұрын
Same!
@elizabethc1402
@elizabethc1402 5 жыл бұрын
That’s how I am
@charlotte7757
@charlotte7757 5 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one ngl like my friends are always like ugh I have cramps and I'm like 😕 I don't lol
@charlottes.
@charlottes. 5 жыл бұрын
Charlotte Alice my period is really heavy but I don’t have cramps so yeah 😂
@elliewoodcock3427
@elliewoodcock3427 5 жыл бұрын
Menstrual cup TIPS!!! I find the 7 fold the easiest fold to use! It's the easiest one for me to make sure the cup fully opens. And when you want to remove it, make sure to grab the base (not just the nub) and use your pelvic muscles to help reach it.
@Ggjhffzaexvh
@Ggjhffzaexvh 5 жыл бұрын
Omg yes that’s the same with me. My body thought I was going to labour and I was literally throwing up and all that stuff, I couldn’t get out of bed I just laying on the floor screaming in pain and when I was rushed to hospital many times ever since I was eightish that’s what the doctors thought but the thing is I only stared my period when I was 14 so I definitely understand you there Soph
@beatricemarini4
@beatricemarini4 5 жыл бұрын
6:52, omg I was prescribed that as well, about 6/7 months ago, it worked but for some reason I couldn’t have it for long, and now I’m on progesterone and it’s been a lifesaver
@laurendevlin06
@laurendevlin06 5 жыл бұрын
Hair removal cream is amazing for facial hair!!
@naomiedge5178
@naomiedge5178 5 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much for talking about this Soph, honestly so pleased to hear someone talk so openly and honestly about periods and the struggle, the struggle is real and can relate so much! It feels really taboo still and I've only recently been able to chat about it with my friends and it's great to open up that conversation and know that your not the only one who struggles even though it feels like you are.
@harry_styles_wifeyx3304
@harry_styles_wifeyx3304 5 жыл бұрын
You talking about your boyfriend brought tears to my eyes omg!!!!! So sweet!❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
@BlahBlah-un1tg
@BlahBlah-un1tg 5 жыл бұрын
19:13 I've tried so much with a menstrual cup and since idk 2-3 moths ago i finally got it (well, i still use pads for extra safety during the night because i have a heavy period). I use the punch down method and i cut the stem of mine, i heard a lot of people doing it and i think that's the best because you can remove it easily without the stem, you just have to push the side wall of the cup to break the suction then it comes out easily. When you insert it you should squat (i find that the best and easiest way), then push the cup with like the punched down side towards your pubic bone (so up), hold it with the thumb and another finger, and when it got in but you can still hold it (so not too too far in, just completely past the widest part of the cup) you have to kinda contract your muscles like squish and push it about 2 times then it pops open and it's done. There'll be a little sound like air escaping and you shouldn't be able to feel it inside. Then try pulling it a little and if it feels secure it's all done, just push it up so it feels comfortable/ not sticking outside. Another thing, idk if that does help or not but i punch down a side with a hole. I hope this helps, however i think a menstrual cup will always be messy and a bit tricky to use. To me it's already getting easier but still messy and i can't imagine changing it in a public toilet yet.
@reganstaats8822
@reganstaats8822 5 жыл бұрын
i was legit just watching your older version of this video !!!
@linloo145
@linloo145 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. This made me realize that a lot of my insecurities were things that are normal. This video made me feel confident. PLEASE do more of them!!
@esmebrown5996
@esmebrown5996 5 жыл бұрын
#notificationsquad you look lush today like every day!!! I have a #questionoftheday did you have and how did you deal with your dad and boys 🤷🏼‍♀️ my dad is very weird with my boyfriend and my previous boyfriend too and I don’t know what to do about it as he says he is just trying to “protect” me Love you so much ❤️❤️❤️
@evadijkstra5391
@evadijkstra5391 5 жыл бұрын
I use a menstrual cup for almost a year now and I definetly recommend it! The first tries are really hard and you have to learn it. It will get easier every month and its so worth it!!! It’s so much more cheaper than to buy new pads or tampons every week and it feels much cleaner. Its also not bad for your “area down there” (tampons are) I really recommend it!!!
@goblin2748
@goblin2748 5 жыл бұрын
Me watching this while on my period 😕😕
@SumoAndLevi
@SumoAndLevi 5 жыл бұрын
iiмαнαм same lmao
@abbiebowlesx3453
@abbiebowlesx3453 5 жыл бұрын
iiмαнαм same aha
@kayladalton8454
@kayladalton8454 5 жыл бұрын
lol same 😂
@sineadeve8046
@sineadeve8046 5 жыл бұрын
iiмαнαм same
@Sweetpeakc627
@Sweetpeakc627 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@Zofia2
@Zofia2 5 жыл бұрын
About the menstrual cup - try to stick with it! I couldn't get the hang of it at first either, but now it's my favorite thing. Try different folding techniques, maybe see if you have an appropriate size for your body and some designs feel better than others as well. I used to have horrible periods and now I almost forget when I have it. Really, highly highly recommend! ❤️
@marywalker6051
@marywalker6051 5 жыл бұрын
I had periods like this too! From 12-18 life sucked every time, I tried mefenamic acid too and the pill, and eventually had my operation to diagnose endometriosis at 18! Honestly its not that bad and recovery is quite quick :)
@emiliasophia2131
@emiliasophia2131 5 жыл бұрын
I’m 19 and I have endometriosis, I was diagnosed last year (I was 18) don’t be scared, it’s better knowing than not knowing, more awareness needs to be made about the disease because it effects 1 in 10 women and it’s never spoken about, you’d help so many girls my age go get them self’s help ❤️ love your channel by the way ❤️
@ameliejarvis3662
@ameliejarvis3662 5 жыл бұрын
Started my period yesterday on my bday🤣this is helpful xx
@libbyf51
@libbyf51 5 жыл бұрын
it’samelie xx happy birthday for yesterday ❤️
@stellav3164
@stellav3164 5 жыл бұрын
I started mine on my birthday too
@platinumflares
@platinumflares 5 жыл бұрын
This is funny because my friends and i refer to our periods at our birthdays 🤣 also I’m on mine rn 😭
@emmalouise9536
@emmalouise9536 5 жыл бұрын
it’samelie xx happy birthday for yesterday x
@ieshaclarke2520
@ieshaclarke2520 5 жыл бұрын
Happy belated birthday
@isame0085
@isame0085 5 жыл бұрын
I had such a nice time hearing you talk and answer all these questions! A tip for extra protection against leakage is using night pads (one or two) and putting a folded TOWEL on the bed :)
@yas4163
@yas4163 5 жыл бұрын
Can’t wait to watch this😊. Love these type of vids🙌🏻, anyway love u Soph xxxxx❤️
@Rachel-qn3xv
@Rachel-qn3xv 5 жыл бұрын
Aww, the way you talk about your boyfriend is adorable! And I think I can see that your confidence has grown since being with him
@lgwilkinson20
@lgwilkinson20 5 жыл бұрын
Can you do a full face from "Shop miss A"? Everything is literally 81 pence I am so fkn curious to see if it works
@mysticmama_3692
@mysticmama_3692 3 жыл бұрын
I also had the same issue the first few years of my period. So did my sister. Funnily enough, after I had my first baby, I never had those horrendous cramps with my period ever again. And yes, labor does compare to period cramps....contractions feel like the worst period cramps you can ever have...so bad that you can't even imagine it, just take the worst period cramps you've ever experienced and multiply it by 20...
@oliviaatthesea
@oliviaatthesea 5 жыл бұрын
Make this a series on your channel (maybe call them SophChats)! Love these videos of yours ❤🤗
@annaleander
@annaleander 5 жыл бұрын
Definitely not too much information! So many girls look up to you and it’s inevitable that some will have similar experiences. Hearing someone that they admire talking about these very normal, human things can make a big difference. You seem very wise beyond your years. Thank you for being brave and sharing so much of yourself. I know you’re helping people 💕
@georgiamccolgan4136
@georgiamccolgan4136 5 жыл бұрын
ooo the red lip looks incredible on you!!💗💖💘💓💝
@Colonelhaydeemew
@Colonelhaydeemew 5 жыл бұрын
Yes! I always use Always products. I feel you with the vomiting & cramps, I found out at 21 that I had endometriosis! Birth control has been a life saver and drastically reduced my cramps before & during my period.
@Everythingwithonehand
@Everythingwithonehand 5 жыл бұрын
I once had a period that was so painful and with such monstrous clots that I went to A&E thinking I was having a miscarriage. Finally getting the hysterectomy I so desperately needed aged 34 was a real life-saver. Soph, please get the check for endometriosis: you can go home the same day and there is no recovery time (I was back at university the next day).
@dannithepanda
@dannithepanda 5 жыл бұрын
B i would try switching doctors because the same happened to me too!
@purplepuppy101202
@purplepuppy101202 5 жыл бұрын
Menstrual cups take a couple of periods to get used to, looking up ways to fold it and trying those can help a lot, and then after a couple of cycles it should feel more comfortable and you’ll get the hang of it, also it helps with my cramps, i have super painful periods and lots of cramps so it helps relieve some of that pain.
@alexandrablazevska-coe6477
@alexandrablazevska-coe6477 5 жыл бұрын
I know I’m really late, but I needed a vid from soph to brighten my day! love you ❤️❤️
@liliax2741
@liliax2741 5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for not saying our names, your pretty much the only KZbinr who does that, it's well appreciated 💕
@hannahreneebanana
@hannahreneebanana 5 жыл бұрын
I love your authenticity and honesty❤️
@bryonyw4739
@bryonyw4739 5 жыл бұрын
Definitely try the menstrual cup again, they're a complete game changer when it comes to periods! The first time I used it I got it stuck and it scared me too. I did a load of research of folds and taking it out etc and now I'm a pro. I have a completely plastic free period and I'm so proud! It's a steep learning curve but great when you've mastered it.
@alison187
@alison187 5 жыл бұрын
Wheeeeey just sat down to do my makeup to go out and you pop up to keep me company ❤️
@cherrytree188
@cherrytree188 5 жыл бұрын
okay, your brows look SO GOOD in this video I can't deal!!
@mittenspaw5956
@mittenspaw5956 5 жыл бұрын
I got an advert for your colour theory pallet with you in it explaining everything What-a-probably-not-coincidence
@sharpayyevanss
@sharpayyevanss 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 24 and still sometimes have crazy period pain. Couple of months ago I got insane cramps, nausea, I felt like I would faint and the scariest part my legs and arms tingled. I thought I was going to die, it was so scary and also ended up throwing up right when the ambulance came. My doctor later told me that it was probably my body's reaction to the immense pain I was feeling. Period pain is truly a serious thing.
@jamie2352
@jamie2352 5 жыл бұрын
Are Always and Tampax sister companies? I love to support the brands that sponsor you but I don't like pads ❤️
@jaydenharris7383
@jaydenharris7383 5 жыл бұрын
Hegot xposed this question intrigued me, so I googled it. They appear to be sister companies, they are both owned by Protector & Gambles (P&G) however I’m unsure if any of Tampax’s revenue will go towards Always... and vice versa. But I’m with you, I much prefer tampons to pads!
@jamie2352
@jamie2352 5 жыл бұрын
@@jaydenharris7383 thanks x I hope Soph replies so we can see ❤️
@freyaanais5879
@freyaanais5879 5 жыл бұрын
Hegot xposed always and tampax both do tampons
@xro18x
@xro18x 5 жыл бұрын
I just don't like the pads they always leak and don't really stick properly so I have to change them way too often so I don't use them anymore
@jaydenharris7383
@jaydenharris7383 5 жыл бұрын
Do always do Tampons?! I’ve never seen them! But then I guess I’ve only ever looked for Tampax
@charlottemiiller
@charlottemiiller 5 жыл бұрын
Wee hack I heard about is using apple cider vinegar on your acne, one of my friends did this and it looked better that day!
@angelam3784
@angelam3784 5 жыл бұрын
Haven't seen better video in a while! Thank you Soph ❤️ Keep up the good work 😀❤️❤️❤️
@maddyyberr
@maddyyberr 5 жыл бұрын
Menstual cups are the best! I’ve used mine for almost a year and it’s all about finding the right fold to get it comfortably inside of you and after that it’s smooth sailing!
@353eggos4
@353eggos4 5 жыл бұрын
it was so cute seeing her smile while talking ab her bf 😭
@durutopal1175
@durutopal1175 5 жыл бұрын
I LOVE LOVE LOOVVEEE HOW YOU ARE SO COMFORTABLE TALKING ABOUT THESE KIND OF TOPICS I THINK ITS SO DUMB THAT SOME PEOPLE HIDE THESE
@nb4939
@nb4939 5 жыл бұрын
Your makeup looks bomb! Especially the red lip.
@stacieprigg9502
@stacieprigg9502 5 жыл бұрын
I have a menstrual cup and I will never be going back to pads or tampons hated the feel of tampon and I could never get them out, and I hated the feeling of sitting in my own blood so I looked into the intimidate Lilly cup 1, I love it and its so eco friendly, once you get the hang of it, its super easy to use and I would highly recommend them to anyone who doesn't want to use pads or tampons.
@iqrahjabeen73
@iqrahjabeen73 5 жыл бұрын
Literally your story of period pains is the exact same as mine including medication and all and all the doctor appointments
@lauragibellini4472
@lauragibellini4472 5 жыл бұрын
When I was younger I had really bad cramps during period, I remember I used to stay at home rather than go to school cause I was feeling really bad, than I started to use pill and everything changed, I still have cramps but I feel a lot better now, and also my acne reduced a lot. Anyways I love you soph you're so spontaneous and friendly, you're like a sister from another country haha I hug you from Italy 🇮🇹❤️
@georginacarter5423
@georginacarter5423 5 жыл бұрын
Lowkey always had this underlining feeling that I've got endometriosis too (had pains just like yours until I started the pill) but too scared to ask the doctor 😂 it's so strange
@lovd888
@lovd888 5 жыл бұрын
Georgina Carter omg me too i’ve been picking up on small things that could be endometriosis. i’m scared lol
@dandelionmel
@dandelionmel 5 жыл бұрын
Georgina Carter oh I’d highly suggest anyone who thinks they may have it go and get tested . It will be so much better in the long run. (I’m 42, started my periods when I was 9 and it took me until two years ago to get someone to believe me and have tests done which all confirmed it)
@lovd888
@lovd888 5 жыл бұрын
melanie banks i want to but don’t have health insurance and i’m only 20 so i can’t afford my own medical bills.
@georginacarter5423
@georginacarter5423 5 жыл бұрын
melanie banks thanks, I have 2 other illnesses so I always worry I'm just being a hypochondriac! I've just come off the pill this year to see how my body is without it, so that's my first step :)
@dandelionmel
@dandelionmel 5 жыл бұрын
loyd oh that has to be such a tough situation to be in. Are there any charities or organisations near you that help with looking after women’s health
@Karolina-kt9vy
@Karolina-kt9vy 5 жыл бұрын
don't give up on the cup girl, i was so uncomfortable the first 3 times i tried but you just have to do it over and over again, you'll get it right eventually. and it is absolutely worth it once you do, it's like you're not even on your period at all.
@theabryant9264
@theabryant9264 5 жыл бұрын
#questionoftheday hey soph! which is a country you’ve always wanted to go to and is on your bucket list?❤️❤️love you
@tammimonaghan683
@tammimonaghan683 5 жыл бұрын
Tip for the menstrual cup Soph! I use one every time I'm on a period and as a long term tampon user, I am now 100% converted to the cup!! If you can, change it in the shower. Fold it in half, then fold it again. Try and relax when you're putting it in! Once it's in, give it a few minutes, and you'll feel a kind of bubble? When it feels like the bubble has disappeared - you're good to go! Honestly, sounds complicated, but after a few wears, you'll get more comfortable and before you know it you'll be converted! So many reasons they are better! I know you're into recycling and saving the planet - save it one tampon/pad at a time and give your cup another try! Theres no risk of forgetting it's there or getting toxic shock syndrome etc 😁 and it's a one time purchase, money saver 😁 Try it again and do a review video on it! You're a babe soph ❤
@abbrennan5297
@abbrennan5297 5 жыл бұрын
I literally started my period yesterday Thank you Soph❤️🙏🏻
@KitSlain
@KitSlain 5 жыл бұрын
I have endometriosis and it definitely sounds like you do also. When I found out, I was at school and started getting excruciating pains. So bad I was squatting in the halls, crying. My friends found me in the restroom on the floor, holding my stomach, balling my eyes out. They had to walk me to the nurses and I was later diagnosed with endometriosis. Birth control also helped my period sooo much. I never bleed but I do get “normal” cramps. Some days more than others.
@kennedysimpson2000
@kennedysimpson2000 5 жыл бұрын
Amelia Barton Sounds like my school years 😫
@blessingajiloseda1683
@blessingajiloseda1683 5 жыл бұрын
I love it when you make these kind of videos, I really helps me thank you so much❤️❤️
@sophdoeslife
@sophdoeslife 5 жыл бұрын
glad it could help!!❤️
@anniebrown2120
@anniebrown2120 5 жыл бұрын
I have endo. I was terrified to get the surgery. it took me 2 years for my OB/GYN to convinced me I was in so much pain that I was hospitalized 31 times over two years. it really isn't as bad as you may think. the most painful bit after the surgery is probably going to be in your shoulders, neck and upper back from when they pump the CO2 into your abdomen so they can use the scope to look around. since my first surgery, I've had 8 surgeries to get it all taken off ( definitely has helped my pain! only need to take a paracetamol for the pain! best of luck! love your videos xx
@bookstosky
@bookstosky 5 жыл бұрын
This was such a wholesome video ! Thank you Soph for always bringing so much positivity !
@nicolemarrs5138
@nicolemarrs5138 5 жыл бұрын
Hi how do you pull of your gorgeousness and yay I'm so glad you posted this video I've requesting these sorts of videos for ages xx
@househouse2351
@househouse2351 5 жыл бұрын
Menstrual cups FTW!! No leaking, you don't feel it, you'll have ONE for 30 years so waaay less waste, no chemicals near your lady parts, doesn't feel like you're sitting on a wet diper, you'll be way more in touch with your body, don't actually have to empy it as many times as changing pads, much greater feeling of freedom, I could go on and on. There's just so many benefits compared to pads. Still a great video Soph
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@mhayorisango6962 4 жыл бұрын
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