My locs make me feel very feminine and beautiful. It’s literally just society that’s conditioned us to think the most feminine thing is straight hair that blows in the wind lol. I also think the longer your hair gets the more feminine you’ll start to feel, well I hope lol. Your crown is very feminine queen.
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you for sharing with us! You're so right! I have to continually remind myself that there's a lot of unlearning to do! I'm so grateful for your perspective!🥺
@kim305chika3 жыл бұрын
I feel that locs are VERY feminine. It's actually one of the reasons I decided to loc my hair. I do get a few moments where I do feel a bit masculine but that's usually because I have to exude more masculine energy to get my life in order
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Oooo I feels ya! I hope you can participate in my live when we talk about it because I'd love to hear more of your perspective! Thank you for sharing!!
@whathillsaid6243 жыл бұрын
I think I feel you on the feminine thing… I’ve found myself wanting to wear my hair over to one side, or wear more makeup + jewelry. It’s definitely something to explore why don’t feel “feminine” w/o those things.
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Wooow thank you for phrasing it that way! That's exactly how I feel like what does this all mean? Not necessarily negative but just curious as to why...I think I'm going to do a live about it! So we can all share at the same time! Thank you for sharing 🥺
@daehawkins3 жыл бұрын
i feel like my locs have made me explore both my masc and fem energy. i do agree the sleek look is my go to when i’m feeling fem!!
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Ooo I feel this for sure! Thank you for sharing!! Saaaameee!
@IvyyLane3 жыл бұрын
it’s always refreshing and relaxing watching your videos 🥰 you are naturally beautiful. you remind me that i don’t have to feel bad for never wanting to beat my face 💄 less is more sometimes. i wear mascara, vaseline on the lips, and may fill in my brows from time to time & dasssit. you cute, we cute! thank you queen diamond ❤️❤️
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Aww I'm so grateful for you this comment literally brought me to tears!! WE CUTEEEEE!! My honor Queen IVY ❤️❤️
@charityadee41103 жыл бұрын
oh my goodness , please make a video on femininity while having locs ! i’ve been feeling the same way about myself - also i admire you & your content
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely will! I may do a live with this one because I definitely feel like we need to all talk about it together! Aww thank you so much for supporting me 🥺 I'm so grateful for you!!
@MiaPilarWatkins3 жыл бұрын
@@thequalityname yes I’m feeling the exact same way
@jeressajeremy99583 жыл бұрын
I love how you still have the little sound effects ahaha 💓
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
LOL I try 🤣
@jeressajeremy99583 жыл бұрын
And oh! I found out that the shirt reached me this morning 🤗 thank you babe!💓
@bralynndavis35643 жыл бұрын
I think two high buns with a swoop would also compliment the dress
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Ooo I could see it!
@lovelynette19983 жыл бұрын
That OMG YESS!! shirt is soooo you! Anywhoooo I believe natural hair in general will have you feeling that way from time to time..I had those dayssss even with my fro buuuut (in your voice) we just have to remind ourselves that we have the BEST beauty of ALL!!
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Lol it really is a favorite of mine! Ahhh I feels ya for sure! LOL you're so right! Thank you for sharing 🥺
@Taayooo3 жыл бұрын
Updos are always a go-to when wearing off the shoulder!
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
ooo yes for sure! I'll try that out next go round! Thank you 🥰
@Taylor162552 жыл бұрын
I’m not loced (I am *considering* locs) but I resonated a lot with what you said, I have those days with my loose hair and I think those days I choose a slick back style or a wig 😞 I think accessories help me! Like tying a cute scarf around my hair or adding clips, hats when I can. 💕
@thequalityname2 жыл бұрын
Ooof I feel you! I definitely add a little razzle dazzle when I’m not feeling it 🥲
@csimmzy2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate the stretching sounds whenever you're wrangling the locs into a ponytail lol. I understand what you mean about feeling less feminine. It's because we're conditioned to think that femininity looks sleek and glossy all over, which is the opposite of our locs lol. That's why the shaggier mine look the more I think "Umm...what happened to all my girliness?"
@thequalityname2 жыл бұрын
LOL I’m glad! Ooo you preaching in here! 👀
@ThrivingNotDying3 жыл бұрын
There is no one way to be feminine. Sometimes you feel it, sometimes you don't and that's okay. You need to appeal to only yourself.
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! I will definitely keep this in mind!
@NottyGurlStyle3 жыл бұрын
Back in the day I use to wear my mom’s suits to High School like a Zuit Suit with a chain wallet or since I was into grunge rock music I use to wear my bf baggy Jnco jeans and flannel shirts. (I’m trying to get a pair of Jnco jeans now..I miss that style) I don’t do high shoes much(too clumsy) , just flats or sneakers. I dress up in jeans N t shirt or skirt/dress when I feel like it. I don’t look at it as a masculine energy..I just go with how I’m feeling/close by and my husband loves me just the same. He met me with flame designs on my sneakers and rapping to G-Unit. So he knew what he was getting Lol just do what feels good with your vibes!!! Either way I love your style dress up or dress down!
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Aww I love this so much! Thank you so much for sharing with us 🥺 The more I get to know myself, I recognize that as my energy fluctuates so does my attire so, I'm going to keep going with the flow! Thank you for encouraging me 🥺
@NottyGurlStyle3 жыл бұрын
@@thequalityname ❤️You have a very good spirit.. Just continue you learn, grow and be blessed!
@tiffanycardiss64792 жыл бұрын
I can relate to your feminity thoughts...As a woman 16 years loc'd, there are phases of your physical appearance with locs that don't align. The health of my hair is primary and including breaks with no retwist and wearing headwraps, some days u just don't feel pretty. We associate femininity with being put together and let's face it when we don't look good, we don't feel good..at times. Just some thoughts...
@thequalityname2 жыл бұрын
Wow I can definitely relate to everything you said! Thank you so much for sharing!!
@mabeaute8963Ай бұрын
Super cute dress & hairstyle.❤
@thequalitynameАй бұрын
Aww thank you!!
@GoddessGbaby3 жыл бұрын
We don’t care it’s late we just glad you posted!! 💕💕
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you best friend 🥺🥺
@SageNicole3 жыл бұрын
can you do a video showing how you parted your hair when you started your locs? 🤍
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
I'm not sure how I would do it buuuut I'll get to brainstorming!! Thank you for the suggestion!!
@ridge80903 жыл бұрын
I subscribed because my girlfriend just started doing locks, And y'all look alike in terms of face structure, Nice dread and very positive energy, GOD bless you, Keep em coming 🇭🇹
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@letibee36712 жыл бұрын
oooomg extremely beautiful!! i cant wait to start my loc journey
@thequalityname2 жыл бұрын
Thank you gorgeous!!! Aww I can’t wait either 🥰
@mopedmosleyiii3 жыл бұрын
most satisfying content 👍🏽
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@nadereed37863 жыл бұрын
Aye Dress 2😊😊
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Lol yuuuuurp!
@erickayoungcoles17363 жыл бұрын
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@thequalityname2 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@akisearu933 жыл бұрын
That podcast sounds crazy and right up my podcast alley! I’ll have to check it out. That’s a great video idea. I’m interested to hear your thoughts. I’m almost two years into my loc journey and I’ve never felt more feminine than I do now 🥰
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Lol it's so good!! I can't wait to hear your thoughts on it! Ooo thank you for sharing! I'm going to a live where we can all talk about it! Aww that's beautiful!! 🥰
@CocoRinaa3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way! I have been feeling less feminine as well
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
You are not alone my dear! We are going to chat all about it!
@michellefriar263 жыл бұрын
You are absolutely gorgeous I love your energy 🥰🥰
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much love 🥰🥰
@brialeea90783 жыл бұрын
You are gorgeous sis! Love the content KEEP IT UP 💕
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you sis!! THANK YOU for supporting me 🥺
@itstaylourmade3 жыл бұрын
Personally I feel less feminine when my hair is wild and I’m in between retwists but I just try to add accessories in my hair for whatever style I do, like little butterfly clips or just random cute stuff from the beauty supply store… maybe throw some hair wax in for a couple days if I get really bored.
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
I completely understand!! Thank you for sharing! I hope I can come up with more looks to help!
@luvlocs063 жыл бұрын
Lovely sis!
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Thank you sis!!
@maurissaa.cummings85022 жыл бұрын
I believe femininity is in the female …..like I use to feel like people probably looked at me like I was boyish or unattractive so I pierced my ears a lot 😂 but then I got the amber rose cut and you couldn’t tell me anything funny I felt super female with no hair ! You look amazing always though
@thequalityname2 жыл бұрын
Ahh I feels you! That’s so beautiful! Thank you 🥺
@keyunnagibbs3 жыл бұрын
I had the same feeling when I started my locs but 8months in with the length I started to feel better..it could be that or the fact my kids dad was buying me boy like clothes and I had to tell him I have locs and you come in here with baggy clothes just kill me now 😂😂😂🤣
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Ahh I feels ya! LOL dads be playing games 🤣🤣🤣 Thank you for sharing with us!!
@trinitygraceb3 жыл бұрын
you look beautiful. hope you had twice the good time for us single ladies😂
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you love! LOL I actually haven't gone yet. I'm just planning 😂
@jonquezsaucedo43373 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍 hey
@thequalityname3 жыл бұрын
Hi!
@oprahsideniggaforlife85403 жыл бұрын
Naw naw naw boo now I gotta shoot ma shot when we going to the zoo and getting giraffe stuffed animals