How to become an elegant woman: 7 traits of elegance | Jamila Musayeva

[@JamilaMusayeva]

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[@arzo4626]

1. Organised day and time 2. Dressing in a way that suits you; your body shape and colour theory 3. Attentive to detail 4. Speaking eloquently 5. Using intentional gestures - hand movements / body movements 6. Taking care of hygiene + emotional and mental hygiene 7. Self love

[@rachfayee]

Thank you! 🙂

[@joyologe8587]

Thank you for this beautiful summary

[@isabellajane8212]

Thank you for this summary!😊

[@mailywong9612]

Thank you so much

[@b1gthecaT]

0:41 1. being organized/disciplined (Make your bed-book) 2:35 2. wear what suits you (wear clothes according to your body type, undertone, "who you are", how to incorporate trends) 6:11 3. being attentive to details (beauty hidden in details) 8:03 4. speaking eloquently (reading, reading,reading) 9:52 5. using intentional gestures (try filming yourself to see if you have any poor habits, work on more composed ones) 12:23 6. taking care of hygiene (physical as well as mental hygiene) 14:11 7. being in love with yourself❤️ These are just my quick notes. I reccommend watching the whole video as there are many good tips. I think i need to work on all of these but i'll start with discipline and self-love💞

[@diahkusumaningtyas2097]

Thank you ..

[@femfiore]

Thank you! I needed this! I hope to see you in every comment section of jamila’s videos 😂 🥹

[@b1gthecaT]

@@femfiore honestly, i'm usually already watching the video when the timestamps are there, but i was somehow early this time😎

[@femfiore]

@@b1gthecaT appreciate your effort 😩💕💕

[@monicabatesbusquets]

My mother's mother was very elegant. I especially remember her being organized, disciplined, and knowing how to dress herself in a way that suited her. She had a very distincitive, natural style. She was also kind and wise. I miss her.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

May she rest in peace 🙏🏻

[@monicabatesbusquets]

Thank you💛

[@QueenyUgumanim]

Pls are you a superetist

[@miisupesa]

My Grandma was just like that. She didn't make and plate food - she prepared and served. She didn't get dressed, she put on an outfit. Even when she took out garbage, she prepared herself to go out. Skirt, blouse and shoes matched, face clean and hair combed. She even cleaned her glasses. And all that for walking 100 meters to the garbage bin.

[@bhavyasehgal4851]

I especially loved the point about boundaries👍🏻 One more thing I would like to add to is that having elegance also means being able to compliment people and boost someone's morale when is needed and that would mean having empathy. So Empathy is also a trait of an elegant woman in my opinion.

[@pikamoon3118]

Dear Jamila, i don't usually comment, but i sincerely wanted to thank you for your videos, who are very inspiring and have helped me to be the woman i want to be. Lots of love from France 😊 ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much! ❤️ this means a lot!

[@olenkaha8690]

Dear Jamila, In accordance with your lovely appearence I would add: a kind, gentle and calm voice - but without any tinge of superiority or arrogance (which sadly is part of some other „elegant“ women on KZbin …). You embody elegance in and out ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you for your kind words ☺️

[@tantzaa]

I agree with you 100%. Jamila is special. ❤❤

[@Chahlie]

So, I live in a rural area, work a couple days a week in town. Today is a day off and I dressed quite casually- jeans, sweater and cardigan. I looked in the mirror and promptly changed into a more put together outfit and now feel much better. No one will see me but I feel a zillion times better! I will save the gardening clothes for actual time in the garden :) These things are important.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks for sharing! They truly are ☺️

[@amandazplace5663]

This was the most all-inclusive, yet, easily understood definition of elegance. Perfection! Thank you!♥️🇨🇦

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Wow, thank you! 🫠

[@barika7777]

Thank you for this great video :-) i think elegant women speak very positively as well. They dont trash talk other ladies or complain as much. They comment on positive things and generally praise others.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Absolutely!

[@anngerald7770]

Yes and Amen!!

[@mariellegrant6248]

Thank you so much Jamila for such wise advice! I am 70 years old, and and learn from you in all your videos! I really love them!🙏💖

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you! This makes me so happy 🥹

[@Tarafairytaleflowers]

Funny, I absolutely agree. I had dream about Jamila last night, I was an unprepared ballerina in a group performance ready to freak out except somehow I ended up beside her when I wasn't supposed to she was prima ballerina and whispered me through the moves to get through the performance. Her work is so valuable.

[@mariellegrant6248]

@@Tarafairytaleflowers yes! She is an inspiration, and also, your dream was so nice and beautiful! 😀🌹

[@Tarafairytaleflowers]

I don't yet consider myself elegant, one thing that hit home was the self discipline. Something I consider elegant is deep listening and honoring someone else's authenticity with compassion and kindness

[@NoirLune8]

I love how you always emphasize that the most important is actually self-love and self-care in different aspects of it - because through it, we can truly become who we want to. And that everything is learnable. Thank you so much for this breakdown and inspiration!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Absolutely!!

[@a.williams9]

Wonderful definition of elegance, Jamila. Every single aspect was covered accurate and flawlessly. You're absolutely right and I agree with you that self respect is quintessential to build a strong foundation as human beings on a daily basis since an elegant lady will never humiliate or denigrate anyone around her under any circumstance. The way people express themselves and treat others is far more revealing than the garments they wear. Let proper education, good manners and etiquette do the talking. I'm so grateful you are here helping us become the best version of ourselves. Thank you so much 🙏🏻💖

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you for your kind words 🙏🏻

[@obstantiadiscindo]

Elegance and Etiquette can be summed up as dressing and behaving with dignity, consideration and respect for the situation and people within it, whilst still being your authentic self.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

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[@teresitabarrattjones5136]

Thank you for sharing these 7 traits of an elegant woman.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks for listening ☺️

[@notmenani]

there’s a small thing about your videos but makes a large difference that makes me really listening and getting each word is that your way of speaking! it’s really soft and calm ! much love for you jamila ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Wow, thank you!☺️

[@jodyjackson5475]

True but she sounds congested or like she was crying. Blow your nose maybe?

[@victoriya33]

This was well-needed today Jamila. I've been feeling a little down, and with that overwhelmed and also underwhelmed at times. Thank you for taking the time to make this video for us

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome 🤗

[@matterofperspective101]

Dear Jamila, your channel is so refreshing amoung all the content on KZbin. So timelessly elegant and beautiful. Everything about your attitude is inspiring. As ethnic Azerbaijani myself I’m so proud of you even everything you’re talking about is so universal ❤️and consider myself super lucky to discover your channel. Need to purchase your books during my next trip to Baku and dreaming of getting your personal courses if you offer them ofc. Take care of yourself and THANK YOU for brightening my day. Lots of love ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much for saying it! Means a lot to me 🫠

[@user-ls2yr1kt3z]

Keeping in mind about mental/emotional hygiene is something not a lot of people talk about so thank you for mentioning it and teaching us

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Absolutely!!

[@ShivangiNaithani]

The fact that Jamila mam wasn’t probably keeping well and still chose to make this beautiful video for us ❤Thankyou so much mam such beautiful content as well ❤

[@angeliquenavarro263]

The speaking bit is so true, your voice is very pleasant to listen to

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you

[@gelie15]

Your videos are the only ones I downloaded offline and never deleted because I keep coming back whenever I forget something since your content has a lot of lessons and you are my favorite. ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Happy to hear that! ❤️

[@OkJameeratoti]

I am inspire your personality And also your way of talking and you guide me about a real ELEGANT woMAN to be , TANKS alot

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome

[@jessicajoyce5035]

The élégance is not only the way we are dressed it s a attidude ! Soft féminine way , to be carefull about the way we express ourself to people , to be lady like in a naturel way like you are the perfect exemple of élégance

[@Kalizzy21]

You are elegance personified.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@pikachuladly7796]

You are about to reach 1 Million 🎉

[@Thandeka_Desiree]

Thank you so much for the great tips on elegance. Since I have followed you, I have grown so much in my femininity and confidence. I have taken your insightful advice and thoughts and I am loving the person I have become and excited to learn and keep growing as a young elegant lady. Thank you so much once again Jamila 🌼 I really appreciate it ☺️.

[@elisabethcomabella4171]

Very good content. I specially liked the sentence that being elegant starts by showing respect for yourself. I would also add that showing off obvious logos and expensive brands is not elegant. Real elegance is much more subtle and not related to consumption capacity, up to a certain point.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I try to avoid stereotyping people including labeling them non elegant because of the way they dress. There is more to elegance than what one wears ☺️

[@paulaelizabethg]

TY so much for putting this so succulently and beautifully. 13min mark on mental hygiene and the energy aura/boundaries that maintains calm. Also, the self-love that creates this elegant state of being is so well put here. It is,to me, a loving self-respect that creates a peaceful openness.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome ✨

[@evagyurkovics4506]

Dear Jamila! You are a genius! I was searching for the key to elegance, but never could really verbalise it. You gave me the answer to what I was looking for- beeing organised. So from the buttom of my heart thank you. Hugs from Budapest ❤❤❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome! ✨

[@sosabbamusic]

i love the way you explain things❤❤this helped me a lot!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I'm so glad!

[@ilonacheema6088]

This was a good upload; you are definitely very composed in every way. I would love to enrol in a school where they teach me the whole package. Not only the etiquettes but also what you talked about. How to dress, how to speak and how to carry yourself.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you! I do private consultations. Email me at [e-mail]

[@scholareducationist8074]

I like your style, they way you speak in every composed way. The whole content is amazing

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@lucillegraves3798]

Elegance is something valuable and rare these days. Elegance does not go along with conceitedness, snobbishness, and entitlement. It’s something that I need more of. I think of gracefulness of movement, quiet deiberance, self confidence, and training when I think of elegance. I think you meant to say that you exude elegance instead of exuberate. Thanks so much for the training and inspiration.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and insights! ❤️

[@petrapalusova]

Dear Jamila, I never write comments, but I want to say that I very much cherish your energy and wisdom. We are what we look at, and I don't consume any other than uplifting content, and this is my favourite of all. So lovely, thank you!

[@YZR123-c5l]

My mother was has that elegant Je-ne-sais-quoi vibe about her . I’ve always loved it and I try to live my life that way and emulate it as well.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Love this ☺️

[@Iexistinthisworld555]

Thank you so much for sharing this. I turned 20 last December and I think it's the right time to practice all of this.❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Happy birthday!

[@huskysc7415]

Hi, Jamila, This is possibly one of the best videos you have presented. I must thank you because this video has brought to my attention details I have let go since I retired from work. I should now apply myself in order to return to who I really am. I like a timeless and classic style, and that is what I have in my closet because I dressed professionally for work. I should now find items to fit my current status of a retired lady, still with the same timeless and classic style. I love your presentations. Thank you!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome and thank you for your kind words ☺️

[@AnnalisaAtkinson]

You are so graceful ! Thanks For bring who You are and helping other women around the would ❤️

[@Elanor-g5z]

5. Using Intentional Gestures. This used to seem "unnatural" to me, but now I see it differently. Being aware and in control of body language (to an effective degree, but of course not self-obsessively) is one of the most powerful ways to change emotional state and feel self-assured, not to mention look confident and even charismatic. On the other hand, if body language and gestures is left entirely "natural", then if one suddenly feels anxious, then anxious body language will "naturally" follow, which causes one to become even more anxious. That's why it's important to be both "natural" and "unnatural" when it comes to body language and gestures to gain control of feelings and retain confidence. With practice, body language self-control becomes natural anyway and one of the best tools of dealing with life and social situations.

[@bhavyasehgal4851]

Thankyou Jamila It is so authentic to learn about elegance from someone who herself is an embodiment of elegance. Very useful tips. Thankyou again

[@JamilaMusayeva]

My pleasure 😊

[@stevensweet5793]

Jamila, What a beautiful name, and when I view your videos. You ALWAYS speak and portray yourself in such an elegant fahion. In other words, you are the EPITOME of an elegant person. So, when it comes to elegance You Know WhatYour Talking About plus, every other topic,that you cover. By the way, today just happens to be ❤ DAY..... So let me say " Be my Valentine, even for a moment." HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!! ❤

[@shamsuddin1615]

JazakAllah 💐💐 Lots of love from Pakistan 🇵🇰

[@khushinath9217]

Worth my time✨

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🤍

[@antoinette4729]

Your voice is so soothing. Others have asked about you making separate meditation videos. You are needed by many of us due to stress by world events Thank you

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Wow, thank you! What exactly do you suggest I film?

[@Carmen0777]

Jamila is the embodiment of Elegant! Thank you for being an inspiration Jamila. ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@sadiaali9856]

It was a helpful reminder ❤. Thank you Jamila

[@JamilaMusayeva]

So glad! ☺️

[@chicanica64]

Usually we sleep and sweat in the bed all night. It needs time to air out in the morning. I do understand the discipline and thought behind making the bed each morning. I guess one could make the best last. Before going out the door. 🚪

[@carlabravi8623]

Very elegant lecture! Thank you🎉

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You're very welcome!

[@ana_marins]

This video is a real gem. Thank you for your work, dear Jamilla. God bless you Ana

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you 🤍

[@stevensweet5793]

Hell'o Jamila, I watched your presentation on becoming an elegant woman. As always,your chats are right on the money. I guess thats because you are so well organized. Keep it up I and I"ll be tunning in inorder to gain more knowledge......

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🤗

[@mutisiab]

Excellent subject for this video, Jamila! I agree at all. Thank you for your time 🌷

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thanks for watching!

[@asmith8929]

Your videos are so interesting because everything you teach is what I learned through my Nana who grew up in New York in the 1920s and 30s. Pure class and elegance. I miss her greatly and I'm glad I learned all this from someone who lived in during the most elegant period in New York City.

[@FeminineElegancebyRoz]

Smooches Jamila 💋 Thank you so much for your videos. I enjoyed them very much and I learn a lot. One thing I want to add about being an elegant woman is that we do not use profanity. When I hear a woman using profanity, it does not look good on her and it certainly doesn't sound good. And it takes away from her beauty. 💋

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Absolutely! That is about having the right « hygiene. » What comes out of your mouth also matters.

[@Avoid_Low_Frequency]

I am an elegant woman!! I like your interpretation!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you kindly!

[@Lia_Amari]

Oh, thank you for theseeee! 🩷✨

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You're so welcome!

[@las_aventuras_de_glenda]

Thank you Jamila for sharing your knowledge.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome ☺️

[@lakewoodmontessori4353]

Wonderful video! Elegant and graceful. Thank you for sharing. ❤😊🥰

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much!

[@Cynthia-cs2gi]

and CALM thank you for your needed and beautiful videos ❤

[@Светлана-ъ2ч1й]

I love your lectures and your soothing voice ❤ amazing video❤❤❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much!

[@lorymontresor1551]

Dear Jamila, intelligent and generous advice 💜

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@prenillamaharaj5792]

Hi Jamila love your content please share your hair care routine soon. Thank you. Lots of love from South Africa❤ 🇿🇦

[@SaraCarterandAssociates]

Thank you for this fresh perspective on elegance. If you don't mind sharing about your outfit in this video and the shoes and accessories you chose and how you came to select it to line up with you and how it speaks to your personal elegance so we can think through some ideas on how to choose what fits for us personally to build our own elegant style. Hope this makes sense.Thank you for sharing so much with us to help us grow and shine personally.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Great idea!

[@michellerobinson4032]

Great advice. Thanks for sharing with us!!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@jamiedavis4605]

Such sound advice and succinct language. Thank you! Subscribed.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Welcome aboard!

[@jessicajoyce5035]

thank you so much for all your precious advaces & vidéos !!!!!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@michellecefalu7728]

Thank you Jamila! When we love ourselves, we can love others better.

[@zabavnaya-xt8tb]

The best ASMR videos in this hectitc world ❤❤❤🎉🎉

[@JamilaMusayeva]

😂🫠

[@raquelfrancofernandesalmei7803]

I love your videos! Excellent what you say! Thanks❤ excellent explanation about elegance ...starting inside!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are so welcome!

[@idcmdiv]

This video is a gem. Thank you Jamila!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you

[@pragatideshmukh2286]

Loved your video jamila.. absolutely loved it. Can you please also make a video on how to be organized ?

[@raspberry_dreams]

Emotional and mental hygiene was a great point. The things we consume do change us! It’s important to consume only positive uplifting high quality content! Thank you for this lovely and informative video. 🙏

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@joanarayapen5369]

Thank you for this video, Jamila.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome

[@mashalshaikh8871]

Your channel is indeed a blessing.❤ Thankyou for all the positivity you share.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

So nice of you

[@glassgoddess8646]

Thank you for your videos. Will you please do a restroom etiquette & travel (plane, bus, trains, etc) etiquette video?

[@TSDS111]

I really want to know how to drink elegantly whether it's coffee,tea or any other beverages specially at professional places or business meetings.

[@genteelcowgirl0119]

Love you Jamila!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@KimBaker100]

What a beautiful reminder to be mindful of gestures and details. This was a lovely video and thoughtfully executed. Thank you!

[@Meowlvys]

Thank you Jamila for this video ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You are welcome!

[@ThegreatMaryam]

I'm a third-year college student who recently noticed that I'm unhappy with Stylie, my general appearance and my daily routine. So I try to learn how to become an elegant woman to feel good about myself and to present myself in a way that suits me and looks like me. This video by you , Jameela is helpful.thank you🌹-by the way I like your name (جميلة ،إسم على مسمّى)-

[@ayasarsour2860]

Thank you very much for these valuable tips 😊

[@JamilaMusayeva]

My pleasure 😊

[@julissadavalostovar4090]

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder". ♥️ Elegance is within us. Love you, Jamila. Your content is always so good to me. Greetings from Mexico.

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much!!

[@Dap740]

this was so motivational and full of love and information. thank you so much, Jamila

[@Rutuja_pawar]

Love your content!❤ I look up to you! I aspire to have your amazing qualities in me. Much more power to you ✨❤️ I can see improvement in myself after following your content. Thank you for putting such nice content out there❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much! 🙏🏻

[@sf1824]

The most important lesson of the day 🎉

[@JamilaMusayeva]

🙏🏻☺️

[@stevensweet5793]

I would like to add,that when I watch your shows on my tv I can't give you a thumbs up like I want to,but you tube won't allow me too. Because I'm not signed in. So I need to make my comments on my phone. Like now!!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you for the efforts ❤️

[@maiaesthetics]

I really enjoy listening to you and your topics dear Jamila .Thank you for these valuable videos ❤️

[@JamilaMusayeva]

I'm so glad!🤗

[@Mokhinurbonu877]

Thank you for great advice 😊

[@happygoluckystar8069]

👍👍👍 Agree on everyting with one exception: many people while trying to use hand gestures in a conscius way, they look really far from natural. It seems to be extreemly visible like too big artificial lashes 😂 when one uses hands gestures learned. it is a thin line between showing elegance and being fake / performer. It can be really tricky 😎

[@iharpreeet]

Thank-you!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Welcome!

[@chantellewilson9497]

Absolutely lovely video I know I personally need to work on being more organized❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you!

[@ErikaWeirdsurname]

All of the videos I have ever watched on this subject would ramble about how to talk, walk and sit.. I would feel like im a dog that is being trained. Thank you so much for taking such an in-depth, unique approach that really sparked my desire to become more elegant!

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Wow, thank you! 🙏🏻

[@existentialcrisis1]

Omg 😍😍😍 you look stunning!!!❤❤❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Thank you so much! 🤍

[@komalgupta8528]

👍👍🙌🙌 Your contents are always super helpful 🥰

[@JamilaMusayeva]

Glad you think so!

[@isabellajane8212]

Kudos to you, Ms. Jamilla! I highky agree with all that you said! Elegance is something inside which exudes from your pores that other people will recognize even if one doesn't wear branded clothes (more so, i believe). Thank you giving us a giid summary of what I have observed from different people through the years.

[@omniarefaat5107]

Please more videos on how to look elegant at home maybe how to build loungewear wardrobe

[@Dima.Dima333]

Dear jamila I dont know if you already did but can you make a video about organisation? Thank you so much💝

[@Lovely_Alice_32]

That's so useful and inspiring! Thank you so much for the video ❤

[@JamilaMusayeva]

You're so welcome!

[@harvardfacebook7372]

Very enjoyable, I love your voice. I've always said, that a womans beauty lies within her voice. Xx