Let's Talk About ___ , Baby | Vlog + Juicy Q&A

[@ATLcentury334]

My boyfriend and I weren’t exclusive when we began dating. I was fine with that. I knew who else he was dating, but they didn’t know. As we approached 1 year, I told him he had to decide what he wanted. I was done being part of a group, and if he couldn’t, or wouldn’t settle down, it was time for me to move on. He decided he wasn’t ready, asked if we could remain friends (yeah right), and I said I was ready to say goodbye. I think he was in shock. 2 weeks went by, he called. Asked if he could take me to dinner, that he wanted to talk. I said sure. Then I REELED him in! LOL. No, we had a good talk, and we’ve been together 30 years. We married in Asheville in 2014. I don’t know what my life would have become if we hadn’t stayed together. I’ve never loved, or been loved by anyone like him before. I know I’m lucky. I’ve been ill the last few years, he’s been by my side, holding my hand the whole time. I wish it could be forever.

[@beachesboy7617]

I'm inspired. Thanks.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

This was absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing, friend ❤️🙏🏼

[@MikeyVcocreater]

I loved reading this comment. It gives me hope. I’m single at 35 and I’m ready to find someone amazing and settle down and have a family like P.J and Thomas.

[@dwaynebaker9793]

PJ skating and swinging his arms while having fun with the family was EVERYTHING!!! LOL

[@Gustavo-vs6qy]

The fun dad

[@yes2day100]

Singin' to himself. Off in another world.

[@Ontir]

I Googled the difference between a lake and a pond: Ponds and lakes are both inland bodies of freshwater that contain living creatures. Lakes are normally much deeper than ponds and have a larger surface area. ... All the water in a pond is in the photic zone, meaning ponds are shallow enough to allow sunlight to reach the bottom.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

omg thank you so much for sharing!! we had no idea. so maybe this will just be a pond! xx

[@jackfntwist]

@@ThePropertyLovers Nah. A couple of sticks of dynamite and boom, your pond is a lake. Lol.

[@270poundJane]

Honestly, I am proud of the fact both of you are responsible to obscure the faces of your kids. This world of ours has a long way to go before we get to the 50s and 60's I grew up in. Take care and enjoy the life you are creating; I could only be jealous.

[@marktitus8516]

Since your going to put a pond/lake on property its time to start hanging bat nesting boxes which will help control mosquitoes once all the water is there. Other animals which will help control mosquitoes will be mosquitoe fish, turtles, koi, salamanders. Than add water lillie s, and other water plants and fountains to circulates the water which will control the mosquitoes. Make sure you warn the kids about animals that may come to the pond. Skunks, badgers and raccoons

[@rakshandabaqi4773]

The diversity of cultures, migration from a different country (Lebanon) and the evolution of your relationship speaks volumes. Your effection for each other does not need words, your love for the kiddos is overwhelming and beautiful to see, your home is your sanctuary and your life at this time has done a full 360 degrees in the right direction. Stay blessed always ❤️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

this was so beautiful. thank you so much friend!!! needed this today ❤️❤️

[@mlo3784]

OF COURSE Thomas remembers 'the first time' - it was with his first love! :)

[@allenn.1039]

The painting that PJ did of little sis is fabulous! Spot on!!! 💖

[@jimbrown7377]

How is it that complete strangers can communicate with all of us and relate...and literally we fall in love with such a beautiful family?? You are both yet another sign that what draws us (all humanity) together is so much stronger than what pulls us apart...Keep up the good work...keep on keeping on...don't sweat the small stuff!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

maybe the most beautiful comment we've ever read??? thank you so much, Jim!!!! so glad you're here with us. xoxo

[@tallactordude]

I wish I could’ve watched the premiere, but I spent the time taking my mother to get the first of her two COVID vaccine shots. She gets her second one on Valentine’s Day! I do love how real the two of you are on these vlogs, since not everybody on KZbin is that way. You don’t pretend like there are no struggles, or that you’ve got it all figured out. That’s one of the things that’s special about the two of you.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you Lane!! love to you mom!! xoxoxo

[@Js2Jo]

PJ and Thomas, I love your video at your house in Tennessee during your quarantine until you're both went out to play with your foster kids while you're both spending a lot of him, so you're both talking about everything after that, so I'm proud of you and I know you're both foster dads to them, right now!!

[@marktitus8516]

Love how you guys bounce off of each other when it comes to how you respond to each other while dealing disagreements

[@CassDunham]

PJ is a great painter! Talented in so many ways. You both are! Love that painting of little sis on the land. ❤❤❤

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you love!!! xoxoxo

[@oakpkdude]

Every couple fights. I've been with my partner over 27 years and we still fight sometimes over stupid shit. I remember one time in the middle of an argument that was getting heated I thought about how stupid it was so I said to him, "So you wanna break up?". We both laughed.

[@peggyesquibel8353]

Big brothers reading is excellent! You guys are doing an amazing job with the kids! Your property is so beautiful! I think I would just have to set up some camping equipment and live there! A pond will be a fun addition! Look forward to a house tour!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thanks Peggy!!! isn't he doing so well? beyond proud of him ❤️❤️

[@shanepalmer5990]

PJ and Thomas is a lovely couple, thank you for sharing your family with us every Sunday, I think you both have a huge heart and I know the kids are so grateful for all the love. Wishing you all the best and see you'll next Sunday!!! Peace, Love and Blessings!

[@pump066]

Happy about the new chance for big bro to look outside from his bed, and for Alyster to be able to look out sitting on the back of the couch! That pond project sounds really big, hope you're doing research and taking advice! Can't wait seeing you all on bikes!

[@tommyandpeter]

The way you talk about fighting with each other... you could just replace names and it would probably fit most of us 😄

[@ThePropertyLovers]

hahahaha the harsh reality!! xx

[@calvindavis3641]

The kids are going to have so many great memories when they grow up. I hope that when they become teenagers that they realize how lucky they are. I say that because you know how teenagers can be - best of luck that they are the calmer type, haha. But as they grow further into adults, they will feel so close to their dads. Wow, getting so ahead of myself. But take lots of pics as they grow so they always have them. My family didn’t take pics that way and I hate that to this day. But I do have yearbook pics.

[@lawrencehaguewood5857]

Construction of this pond I suspect will require plenty of permits, design inspections, engineering plans... all things PJ excelled at

[@amirahkukan782]

Would it? It's their land tho. There is nothing else as far as I can see. I understand permits in populated areas but they have nothing but space.

[@troymaiden7274]

Glad you guys are back. Can't wait for the house tour. I love what I see re your style / decorations/ colour scheme. Wishing you all the success and happiness for 2021.

[@trinidreamer85]

Enjoyed the Q&A. Excited to hear more about what goes into creating a pond/ lake and see the completed project!

[@marshallsuber3346]

Fighting for us was a hard thing for us. I'm from a large,loud Catholic family and he is from a " quiet" one where voices are never raised. I mistook him going quiet very very differently from what it was. I'm slower than he and it took me a year or so to figure it out, but I did. After thirty plus years and four kids we still have to be mindful. Blessings from New Orleans.

[@Jeff_Reed]

I only recently discovered y’all via Instagram and have been binge-watching your videos over the past week. This is my new favorite channel! I love your story and y’all make such a beautiful family. Your videos have made me both smile and shed a few tears. And Thomas, I love your quarantine hair!

[@noelle2see]

I love PJ's energy, goofiness, he sees things in a bright lights, smth tells me he's more affectionate, etc. Personally I'm more like Thomas and, SORRY, I, sort of hate myself for it. I'm working hard not to be current me,to improve every day. Luckily I have my very own PJ (they're the same) I do think I'm blessed having him in my life. Keeps me grounded, teaching me not to care much abt stuff... which leads to more happy me. We're 8 years husbands, yours age and.....love him to death like the first day. Love from Lyon, France.

[@tracycrowe-elville4718]

I love PJ’s energy and goofiness as well! Tell me if I’m wrong, because I may be misinterpreting your reply, but you “sort of hate yourself” for being like Thomas? I think Thomas is freaking awesome! Sure, they are different, but look at all the beautiful and irreplaceable things he brings to his family. I’m sure you bring the same things as well. ❤️😊🌈

[@noelle2see]

@@tracycrowe-elville4718 No, Thomas is awesome, it's just I want to be witty and funny like PJ.

[@tracycrowe-elville4718]

Thanks for clarifying for me 😊. I wish I was as witty too! He’s hilarious!

[@noelle2see]

@@tracycrowe-elville4718 Yep 👌

[@brentfisher6484]

Terrific paintings (and for a first effort. Wow!) You guys and family are the best--always perks up the day to see a new posting.

[@joeberta368]

Good analysis of an argument - my partner and I - might have one but - we always end it no matter if resolved or not - we always share a smooch

[@carolynpalmer1297]

Food for thought... I was a single mom and worked two jobs..I scheduled Sunday afternoons to make meals that can be frozen and re heated.

[@georgemendez3962]

Once again I confess, Sunday’s are becoming my favorite days so I can watch your latest vlog. There is such a chemistry between you, and the personal discussions, about sex, anger, business and so on are just magnifico. The children are like my Godchildren already, I love them so much. Thank you for sharing your lives with us!💜⭐️💜⭐️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

awww George!! thank you for watching!!! xoxoxo

[@dawnegan3984]

All the shots of the land were fabulous love seeing the kids and you two again pj acting crazy once again love all of you 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈

[@lelandpeck4585]

loved the bike riding and skating bit in the shed. I guess the old truth is good, Don't ever go to bed angry with each other.

[@jib170]

The biggest thing that has helped me get my life together this year is the app Notion - between Google Calendar, Google Drive, and Notion you should be all set!

[@Bjb993]

Love love love you two. It's so inspiring and nourishing to see two husband's loving each other, raising a family, and just being humans together.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Thank you so much 😭😭❤️

[@torhildbeateborg8053]

PJ and THOMAS have you two ever tried using a HAPPY PLANNER binder ? That will keep track of what you have for plans.

[@chriscoleman5242]

Yes every relationship is not perfect you have to work on it but making up is fun to. Them painting is beautiful you did a good job PJ .

[@fredricweber8583]

Your vlogs have gone to another level in the time I started watching, the perfect choices of background music, etc. Relationships, truth be known, are rewarding AND difficult. Carl & I have been together, exclusively, for almost 20 years. There are days that it’s good murder isn’t legal (kidding), Our personalities are on the opposite of the spectrum. If the passion wasn’t there it would be a struggle...just say’n. But respect keeps us going, & there’s a lot of “I’m sorry”. The age difference is 13 years, I was used to running my own business making all the decisions, so had to give up some control, it was hard.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

"If the passion wasn’t there it would be a struggle" ugh Fred amen!!! thank you for sharing! xoxo

[@TheGor800]

Another great post, guys! Love your openness during the Q and A session. You guys bring so much joy to so many. ❤️ Love your art, PJ.

[@chadnichols5215]

Hi. I always enjoy your videos. I I’ll be so happy when the adoption is final so you’ll be a permanent family

[@toner37]

I laughed when big brother pipes in and says to talk about it now

[@ThePropertyLovers]

😂😂😂💕

[@dianahodges6034]

The topic of “fighting” is so much my hubs/me. We all have different ways of saying I’m sorry. I use the words - my husband uses actions. I just love your videos ❤️

[@torrerobb2238]

Will look great when you get the pond done. are you going to have an island ? only ask as it can be a great sanctuary for wildlife . I think the difference between a pond and a lake is that a lake has a stream flowing through it whereas a pond is an isolated body of water, I maybe wrong on this. anyway guys have a good week look forward to see what you have been up to next week x

[@fredricweber8583]

Lakes don’t have to be spring fed, just deep enough to prevent plants to grow.

[@simplyanja]

it was a nice video again, I am very curious how the pond will be. Are you going to turn it into a swimming pond? and Pj, your paintings are inspiring! I will also go back to my brushes! Until next week! big hug!

[@bobseeger342]

Hi PJ and Thomas 💙 glad to see you guys and the kiddos 😀 PJ love the idea of putting a pond out there in the valley that would look beautiful 👍 the kiddos are so cute and adorable in this video and glad you are eating healthier 👍 I like when you guys do a Q&A 💙 it's so interesting in sharing comments and feelings about each other 💙 thanks for sharing and till next time be safe and healthy ♥️ love you guys and those adorable kiddos ❤️🤠

[@jeffreyharris2495]

Arguments can sometimes be healthy in relationships!!!! And necessary for release!!!!!

[@stevehofmaster4292]

Love your art work by the way great job,keep healthy and happy.😄💕

[@allanpaul90210]

Thomas, you are so handsome and it's great the way you are always playing with your long hair. So cute!

[@robertschwartz4810]

I liked the Q and A very much, especially the part about arguing. I don't argue with people whom I don't care about. It's the technique of arguing with no name calling (as PJ said) that's important.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

exactly! thank you Robert! xx

[@nancyborden5860]

PJ is quite the artist. I'm so jealous of your property. I saw a place i could build a little cabin on but I guess your gonna put a pond there, lol nice video.

[@roryowengeorge1600]

Y’all should build a playground at the land for the kids! Like some swings and a slide, I would’ve loved that when I was a kid!!

[@robertfaison3977]

The painting of "little sis" from the photograph is beautiful.

[@douglaswild3852]

Wow! Your paintings are SO good!! I can’t believe your new to this! Great job!!

[@scottsaunders5087]

It snowed in the UK today a lot! Happy Sunday guys

[@booniekjohnson9182]

Great Art talent! Are your paintings for sale or in a Gallery? Really awesome video today..working out is great exercise for kids if they get in a routine early. You make my Sundays awesome.. I miss my family now they are all grown and have families..good memories..considered fostering but at age 67, not sure I can keep up the pace here at the ranch in Arizona..Thanks for sharing your Life each week.-BOONIE LEBLANC.

[@terryj.monero9337]

Thanks for sharing and more importantly thanks for being honest!

[@gr8god4u]

My understanding is a pond does not have any water inlets or outlets where as a lake does. Depending on your water table you may have to put a liner in your pond for it to continue retaining water.

[@treholleman9401]

Omg I appreciate all your advice because me and my husband has gone through a lot and I made a pro and con list and the great outweighs the con.. Amen 🙏 Guys..Many Blessings

[@darriontunstall3708]

Great video guys! I enjoyed it! ❤️

[@stanleyhedges3239]

A fellow artist!! I just adore you guys. Thank you for sharing. I did get a bit nervous when you said you had some canvases that had been gifted..I was like "uh oh..hope its not mine" lol 😃 Much love to you and the fam!! ❤❤💖💖💖

[@carloslcorrea5818]

Great vlog/QA its a good way to reflect and see how we are similar an no different love you guys.

[@danmakely7712]

As always, I enjoy your weekly updates!

[@mimicolapietro5165]

That was fun! Love you guys❤️

[@JimH13164]

I like that you did something about older brother’s face when I mentioned it on the live premiere. I always go back and review the vlogs because the live part is just as interesting as the vlog and I like the uninterrupted version. ❤️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thank you so much Jim!!! xo

[@TheSallyhawkins]

Thomas, I love your hair at that length! It's beautiful the way it curls around your ears!

[@jeffmiller2189]

Great video, love the Q and A!

[@tytn9978]

like the art-work ... girl in red on a path between two yellow wheat-like fields! Creative.

[@calvindavis3641]

Yeah, I’ve been waiting for the cottage reveal.

[@Blackk802]

That workout clip made my day 😂!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

hahahah so embarrassing !!

[@maxshadow...]

Hey...I learned something about PJ that I didn't expect. PJ is to some degree an introvert (me too). I need time alone to process. I'm not my best in crowds. And I would have never guess that PJ wanted to wait a while before getting sexual with Thomas. I LOVE that! Thomas, you do so much with the vlog and are a huge support system for PJ and the kiddos. Another great video.

[@collingibbs8454]

Can you share the recipe for the potatoes? They look delicious!

[@roberthanlen6036]

"A Little Life"!!! My favouritist book!!!

[@tumblestarsofly]

THOSE PAINTINGS ARE SO GOOD WHAT THE HECK

[@ThePropertyLovers]

right?! -T

[@1tsbecca]

So much talent, so much beauty, so much love 💙

[@melissa-Sabatino-Threet]

I absolutely LOVE Y’ALL so much! I recently found your channel and you are my favorite KZbin channel! 💖♥️💕💕♥️

[@samuelrodriguez9570]

Y'all.. this was the cutest video I've ever seen y'all do!

[@ThePropertyLovers]

aww thank you!! xo

[@dannymcglone5926]

Those potatoes looked great! Can you share the "recipe" or a link to it? Thanks!

[@jasonwashburn3377]

I am so much like PJ during a fight with my husband, and he’s so much like Thomas.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

#guilty 😂❤️

[@allenn.1039]

I am so much like Thomas on this one! I have to make sure my point is understood and I could carry on for days.....until it is!

[@jcfretts]

Lovely chat. How do like the kitchen faucet? I've been looking at those, and it seems a bit unnecessary...but also very appealing.

[@eirishemd]

Great vlog. PJ looked so relaxed so your “words” must be working already. Hugs❤️❤️

[@ThePropertyLovers]

awww thank you!!! xx

[@helenchee6979]

I'll be there, waiting

[@coryjfulton]

Hey PJ and Thomas!! 👋🏽 I just wanted to message you two and let you know that I am praying for you guys and that you two are wonderfully and fearfully made! God loves you two like crazy!! I just came out to one of my friends a few months ago and to my mom and the rest of the world acouple weeks ago and you’re guy’s videos have helped me so much to know that it’s beautiful to be with someone you love! Love you guys! 🫂

[@ThePropertyLovers]

aww Cory! congratulations friend!! that is amazing!! sending you so much love xoxo

[@ElliotNMatt]

Great vlog guys. Loved the premiere x

[@darriontunstall3708]

I’ll be there, I can’t wait

[@Hazera_Chowdhury]

Still waiting for that house tour boys 🤣💙

[@CAMPFIRESKY]

QUESTION: Noticed you have a double oven range. Can you really fit a full size turkey in there? Planning a renovation and this was an option I have been pondering. Thanks for the help !

[@ivandouglas-happyhealthyli3405]

Very cool! You guys are great.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

thanks Ivan ❤️❤️❤️

[@johni0666]

Do you have any idea how much joy your family gives us? 💕💕💕💕❤️❤️❤️❤️❌⭕️❌

[@samisjustexisting7585]

God I can't wait😭😭

[@LiftUpNotDown]

Love PJs art! So sensual! ❤️

[@zeballos5757]

Lol to the fighting bit. I can relate. I used to need to finish it now and my partner was more like take some time and space. It doesn’t work for every scenario though. Some things have to be sped up. LOL. The compromise is that the person that needs the space can’t take forever while the other one is waiting, and the one that needs to deal with it right away, needs to learn how to wait, but not forever though, you have to meet in the middle. I’m sure you know all this. I’m in 10 year relationship now. After awhile things just sort themselves out and you don’t give as much of a _____ lol. Btw, the painting of little Sis is pretty damn good for a beginner, and a great idea too. Thanks for another great video.

[@ThePropertyLovers]

yes Tanner!! thanks for sharing!! xx

[@zeballos5757]

@@ThePropertyLovers lol you are welcome and thank for the reply 🙂

[@Lilc-hm2uv]

How are you going to fill the pond/lake with water?! So very excited for you.

[@Rgp1958]

Hello from Rhode Island!

[@tonyalfonso5552]

I love you guys 👍👍👍 it's like Pinks song , I need a video from you guys to make my week. I can't wait to see the cottage. Is there a Patreon site that I can join and support the wonderful and inspiring work you do for all of us who follow you. Tony from beautiful Miami Beach ⛱️🏖️ Florida.

[@Dd32631]

I’m exactly like PJ when it comes to arguments. I need time apart to process. I know you guys recognize the differences but how well are you at handling them?

[@thomassears1432]

Will the pond be feed by a natural spring, or will it be just run off rain water from the surrounding area?

[@ThePropertyLovers]

It will just be run off unfortunately

[@thomassears1432]

@@ThePropertyLovers we have one that’s just run off as well, but it’s not near as big as you’re planning. A 5 acre pond will take a good while to fill up with no spring to feed it. Good luck with it and post pictures of your progress.

[@BigDaddyMarkus]

I have seen two of PJ’s painting. He is an amazing artist. If you ever sell your paintings let me know.

[@JavenMartin]

Y'all used my question 😱😭😭😭💗. I love it. Even when PJ butchered my name. I love you guys so much

[@ThePropertyLovers]

Ahhh so sorry, friend!! 😣😫 What is the correct pronunciation? 🙏🏼

[@JavenMartin]

@@ThePropertyLovers it's totally fine! But, it's like raven with a J

[@whattodo904]

Hi guys.... Loved ur video n QnA.... Always love you guys... God bless you n have Simplified Life 😊 .... N yes.... Love the music u added in background while u talk adds a interesting part to watch ur video..... Keep doing it..... Love n Respect from India....

[@eduardoramirezjr4403]

PJ is channeling his inner “Adam Rippon”. 🥇

[@andrzejstyrczula7510]

Best regards, nice channel, I like you very much, I watch all your movies, best regards from Poland

[@memo4970]

PJ's painting skills aren't bad at all for a "first time ever" lol