Let Them with Mel Robbins | Dear Chelsea

[@dawnkubicek3461]

I love that these 2 humans are in each others world right now!

[@kristyvasquez1227]

Same

[@natalial007]

Mel's confidence and humbleness is so very inspiring. She will help so many people. That 1on1 advice from Mel specific to your situation would be priceless.

[@cj5056]

Yes!!! Mel Robbin’s Rocks! Let Them, such a great statement! Waiting for my back ordered copy.

[@beckysmith6731]

I love Mel Robbins as well! I loved the book so much, I’m currently listening to the Audible version… totally a game-changer!!

[@amyblumenreder3242]

Highly recommend the audio book! So good! 👏👏👏👏

[@yogithashetty2587]

Brilliant conversation 👏🏻thanks Chelsea for bringing Mel Robbins 🙏

[@Mili.Aris.Bayamon]

Great way to start off the new year. Thank you Chelsea and Mel Robbins!

[@alanab5855]

Love seeing these two voices together

[@lauraarmstrong-gonzalez3731]

Mel is amazing. I love listening to her down to earth real shit kind of conversation!!!

[@kalifranks9311]

Mel Robbins is so cool! Her work has helped me in so many ways. Love that lady!

[@marryellenmonahan5585]

Never ever would I have thought I'd see you two doing a show together.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody

[@marryellenmonahan5585]

@TheCRYSTALzs Havin a bad day?????

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

@@marryellenmonahan5585 oh sorry

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

@@marryellenmonahan5585 let them be great, dude.

[@patgalliart4716]

This was amazing Mel. Your explanation with the last caller was so insightful and helpful. You challenged every response with explicit advise. People do well when they can are loving words to remember.

[@elisamolina9909]

I needed this at my age 48!! God sent! Saw you this AM on TV

[@debrajosephs]

Mel has done it again. First person writing in, Mel's response, thank you!

[@jennifermcnuttmusic6353]

Yay, Chelsea! Da best. And Mel’s 5 Second Rule book, (all of her books) helped me get over stage fright in 2018. I performed for the first time in years and I didn’t completely torture myself before, during and after the process. She’s a gem. Learning that my procrastination wasn’t about the thing, typically about a protection mechanism for your brain body to avoid stress. Pretty sure I learned this from Mel as well. Some of it is obvious stuff but she distills it down to be relatable and heartfelt. 🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@meghannsherman]

This was so incredibly helpful and honestly exactly what I need in my life right now.

[@CH-gs1wv]

Same. The timing couldn’t be more perfect.

[@Susan-zd1lt]

Same!!!❤❤

[@jenniferchoi8664]

Love Mel Robbin’s I discovered her on Ted talk and she blew up! Love her! Love you too Chelsea love your podcast! ❤

[@courtneyjacquln]

Incredible. My two favs together! 😭💛

[@annerezac4969]

Love having this on KZbin now, thanks!

[@catherinepitura8820]

This conversation was SO GOOD

[@SpikeSPS]

33:42 "You doing what you need to do to be the best version of you because when you do that you are better prepared to face the challenges" That's what stuck out to me. When you experience negativity and you let it get to you, you indulge in your worst self. You identify with your worst self. You put your worst self in the drivers seat and eventually your best self doesn't have a voice. It's the difference between self indulgence and self care. Snooz button.

[@van_3797]

Yess, i just saw the short in instagram, i cant wait to listen everything! Two icons🔥

[@ten3353]

This is so inspiring! Chelsea - always been a huge fan… Mel - I’ve learnt so much about you today, and thank you for being present, honest & open about your life’s journey so far. Truly inspiring. Love & light, 🙏🏼💐☮️✨!

[@reyffwife]

Two of my favorites!!! If y’all go on tour!!!!!! I’m in!!!!!

[@micahcurtis4537]

Two of my absolute favorite ladies! Have read both of their books! ❤️ LOVE this!!!

[@SquatsuneMiku-wm8dt]

My Dad just sent this over, and what an excellent find! Thank you for developing this channel and exploring impactful ideas like this.

[@melissacook1815]

Ok sidenote, I'm listening to this and my daughter home from college overheard and said, "Are you listening to Mel Robbins?" My daughter knowing who Mel is gives me great happiness and hope.

[@TheMeekomouse]

Loved this, great energy ladies 👏🏼🔥

[@esthelaparra1086]

I being avoiding to listen any news, from any source… just to keep my mental health intact, and I will keep doing it for the next 4 years

[@saintpalm]

Learned alot from this one!

[@robynrains7252]

Great podcast, I sent a link to my granddaughter who’s recently ended a relationship for the second time 🙁 She is a great person and mom to my 5 year old great grandson 😊 I would love to see her happy and healthy 😊

[@filmfury743]

I went to a Mel Robbin’s seminar YEARS before she was known to the public eye. I’m so happy the world now loves her too

[@TempeSoldier123]

What city were you in? What do you remember most about the seminar?

[@Anna-nj1wz]

Yes, favorite ladies indeed

[@jareeohs]

I love this KZbin channel way better ❤❤❤

[@emilyersek595]

Yes! I haven't even watched yet and I'm so excited to see two no-bs women together! Love you both 😊

[@2Catstitch]

so many powerful words!

[@halfmoonmaggie]

My favorite ladies!!!✨

[@breebakey]

gon' get this book!

[@HeidiMendoza-h6i]

She sounds like Mrs. incredible . And the advice combined makes it more powerful.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Let her be incredible.

[@rubytruly5912]

Oh my gawd my worlds have collided. These two are the best candidates to do a podcast together for so many reasons

[@deanej]

While I completely relate and have compassion for how people feel about the current political situation, it’s such a privilege to raise your hands up and say I’m out, I’m hopeless and therefore I’m detaching and walking away. So many people through time and even today don’t have the luxury to walk away from the oppressive culture they find themselves in. Think of all the people who have died for the hope of a better future.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody.

[@rickysencion4609]

When we truly listen to another's story that's different from ours, we not only gift them the opportunity to share their story, we also gift them the opportunity to listen to their own story.

[@christinatrainham1610]

So excited for this one 🎉

[@kjcoop03]

Woohoo smart women podcast rock!! ~Rolling Trouble~

[@lauraarmstrong-gonzalez3731]

I need the LET THEM to be my serious mantra

[@Soy_Lilith]

Mel Robbins didn’t reinvent the wheel; she just painted it a bright color and gave it a snappy name. People love quick fixes, and the “5-Second Rule” sounds doable and non-intimidating. But let’s be real: the core idea-“don’t overthink, just do”-has been around forever. It’s a tool to push you into action in the short term, but if your life is a dumpster fire of poor habits and self-sabotage, you’re going to need more than a countdown to clean it up. Use it, sure, but don’t worship at the altar of Robbins thinking this one-size-fits-all trick will save your lazy soul. So the next time you’re on the fence about trying something new, 5-4-3-2-1 make that move, honey! Or not. You do you-just do something.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody.

[@allblackoreo]

I agree - this is something I’ve been thinking for a while.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

@@allblackoreolet her be great, dude.

[@Linsey-Jayne]

Mel Robbins just took over...lol...so geat to see someone who won't let chelsie boss around

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Chelsea ❤

[@Linsey-Jayne]

Mel Robbins is fabulouse. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Linsey-Jayne]

​@@TheCRYSTALzs❤....BIG KISS.TOO YOU! I just think ...Let Them...😘

[@Linsey-Jayne]

​@TheCRYSTALzs ....BIG KISS.TOO YOU!❤ I just think ...Let them 😂😂😂...😘😘😘

[@lisaandrade2195]

For those of us who are not white, or considered wealthy also have alot more skin in the game. I understand the "let's put ourselves in their shoes" works for the women on this panel but it means 💩 for those of us who are far more vulnerable to anything terrible that could or might happen. Im not letting this consume me but you bet your ass im fighting back. The complacency of "let's see where this goes" and "let them" when it comes to hate that literally means life/death and safety for alot of people doesn't fly. Nothing has changed in history by "letting them", EVER.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody.

[@joanjettboy]

❤❤❤❤

[@VirgosGroove3]

I love the theory, and I want the book. My only issue is letting people be who have been terrible friends. Part of me feels like I should create boundaries with people who are shitxy friends 💩. But if I accept them for who they are, I may have more friends But be conscious of their behavior and choosing to let them be. 😵‍💫😮‍💨

[@sweeterpalms8434]

Boundaries ❤

[@ruthyaya]

23:24 do we need more attitudes of superiority? Is this what will give us peace? Whatever helps you move on and let go but this approach seems to forget the energy we put out comes back to us. This is over compensating for the underlying belief of not good enough for another belief “I’m superior” or better than you. Seems to bypass the actual harder inner work and letting go from the place of self love and acceptance.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody.

[@HH-gv8mx]

Robbins and Chelsea Handler are a lot alike. They are both highly intelligent and highly motivated. They are not lazy by any means. Neither of them seem like the type of people that would get stuck. And if they do, they can get their selves out of any situation. I wish I had that skill set, I feel like you were born. You either have it or you don’t. Brittany Schmit and Brittany Furlan have a podcast called This is The worst podcast. While they might think that they are a lot alike, I think they are so different. Flynn tends to talk about all of her auto immune issues and how tired she is and she’s lucky because she’s got to have her back so she doesn’t have to worry about jumping out of bed to face the anxiety. She can burrow and hide. While Brittany Schmitt seems to be quite the opposite. She doesn’t hit the snooze button. She’ll show up hungover with Covid if she’s made an appointment. I am more like Furlan when I want to be a Schmitt.

[@Smartbeautifulawesome]

Dam I just feel things are in gods hands the older I get 🤷‍♀️ I don’t really pay attention to certain stuff

[@sandramedina9482]

Mel came up with her own theory

[@Smartbeautifulawesome]

Don’t know…sounds crazy all these relationships in life

[@Smartbeautifulawesome]

@ yeah I don’t know anything

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

@ ?

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

@ ok

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

@ me too

[@upgrade4347]

Millions of people are harmed every day by individuals who have not come to terms with their own traumatic experiences. The people on the world stage know that Cauc femme will take tremendous amount of blowback for all people's failure to deal with their own trauma. But when it's a Cauc femme not dealing with trauma

[@akastardust]

Chelsea, you said you did a deep dive on Mel, but I can tell you didn’t finish the book because whenever she mentioned something from it, you were like, "What?" lol

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody.

[@akastardust]

@@TheCRYSTALzs Are you okay?

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

@@akastardust are you okay?

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

@@akastardust let her be extraordinary.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

My 𝓇ℴ𝒸𝓀𝓈𝓉𝒶𝓇🎤

[@Smartbeautifulawesome]

Ray/Horace liked wrestling everyone had a breakdown over nothing about trump 😂 I don’t even think either of us voted for him. This is probably why I wasn’t invited to Cristina’s wedding 💒

[@polidano552288]

get tana mongeau onnn

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Nope.

[@upgrade4347]

Why is it not easy to understand whether Mel is trustworthy? Is it really something as simple as snapping because of DV and SA in the family that she didn't come to terms with? Or is it because Mel is entitled to think she can be on world stage undoing the hard work of experts who have put in the effort to truly understanding trauma? What is it? I mean I can't insist team work but, I can say that popularity is only useful when it points to the truly beneficial work. And it's unclear if Mel has the energy that some truly want to help the world find.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody.

[@comptonzfinest]

2:44 18:11

[@SailorGreenTea]

😲

[@817abraham]

Hard to be calm when you’re right are being taken away. Coming from a place of privilege?

[@kyladorsey7438]

“When you pressure, you create resistance to change; when you blame, you fail to see your power and responsibility to create the things you want in your life” Damn.

[@upgrade4347]

Haha Mel has to compete about what is the most important of 3 words j"ust do it," mel needs to pretend that her word is most important, it and do It, do, just, Haha Mel When Chelsea says do, how is do less important? And it, haha, that is simply as important as just, Mel cmon do something dignified

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody.

[@iyyakamusicvideo4369]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@mojozeppy]

🤍🤍🤍

[@upgrade4347]

Terri Cole has some fire behind her, yet it is as dignified as she humanly can. Mel goes out of way to behave with extremely low dignity. And let them, is peculiar for female gender. She has to lay down something that seems controversial? And then explain everything, and say she's screwing things up, but this is supposed to be a role model for at least her own children, for behavior that can be understood?! Wouldnt a better study be of how on a wide scale, people intentionally made bad decisions, to secure a shelter? And how to truly leave something for posterity and not "let them" leave a disaster for the younger gens?

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Huh?

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

ℳ𝓎 𝓆𝓊ℯℯ𝓃 👸🏼

[@jenkornblum3795]

chelsea and her super progressive side kick...purple hair, ++ oh my

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

?

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

?

[@jeanmon9267]

Not trying to be mean but those lips are not working for you Chelsea, you don't look like yourself anymore.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Let her be extraordinary.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

I like her lips.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Let her be phenomenal.

[@christiansmith-of7dt]

Its really bad

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Who cares what you think? Nobody

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

Let them be amazing, dude.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

My 𝓅ℴℴ𝓀𝒾ℯ 𝒷ℯ𝒶𝓇 🌹

[@kellypeterson2690]

thank you @bbcerise for giving credit to the REAL author of Let Them Cassie Philips

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

You a 𝑔ℴℴ𝒹 𝑔𝒾𝓇𝓁🥰

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

ℳ𝓎 𝒿ℴ𝓎 𝑔𝒾𝓋ℯ𝓇🤩

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

𝒯𝒽ℯ best 𝓅ℴ𝒹𝒸𝒶𝓈𝓉 in the world.

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

My 𝒷ℯ𝒷ℯ❤

[@TheCRYSTALzs]

My 𝓅ℴℴ𝓀𝒾ℯ 𝒷ℯ𝒶𝓇 🌹