Lets chat - how I feel about Selfharmerproblems

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- About Selfharmerproblems -
Hey everyone ! My name is Malika, I am 23 years old. I have a funny accent because I come from Switzerland (french speaking part). I am studying to become a social worker and I hope to be a voice for people struggling with self harm.
I started Selfharmerproblems in 2016 in Switzerland after I experienced for myself the isolation and the lack of support and knowledge around self harm. To change that, my goal is to help provide accurate information as well as peer support to people affected by self harm - as well as their loved ones and the professionals around them - in Switzerland and around the world.
My Instagram account : / selfharmerproblems_
My website : www.selfharmer...
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[@Trippy000]

It's been a year, hope you're doing ok 🙏

[@Trippy000]

Miss her so fucking much man :(

[@TheLynxsRealm]

❤same ​@@Trippy000

[@m0rpidvamp]

@@Trippy000same

[@A2p3n._]

Its been over a year i hope your doing ok 🫶

[@RandiCuteAngel]

You are beautiful inside and out. I have been struggling with selfharm sins i whas 14, and stil do it if i feel like i wanna give up. And sometimes when i feel like harming myself i listen to music and the only music that get’s me true a struggel is metal, rock, metalcore, being with my mom, cuddling with my 2 furry babies, see a movie i like or a tv show. Lots of love and hugs❤️

[@fillerschreiberfamily5213]

I'm 14 right now I'm in the same predicament. I'm slowly getting better though!! I'm only barely past a month tho lol

[@natascha_mephisto]

Your feelings are valid, and I understand that you are struggling. I wanna tell you a bit about what I think about those topics. Please beware that I don’t try to minimise your emotions and thoughts in anyway I just wanna tell you my opinion as a viewer. You are being very hard on yourself and that is understandable but let me tell you that you are a great content producer. You are a role model for me, and I don’t have the feeling that you don’t belong in the community anymore. I believe because you are so far in recovery you can help and share even better. The people who do speeches about being an alcoholic are in recovery too. People who recover are inspiring for people who are still suffering badly. The strength that it takes to get out of an addiction is remarkable and every time I watch a video of yours, I feel like someone understands me and I can make it through. There were times that I was able to resist the urges by watching your videos and I want to thank you from all my heart. Take your time, do what you love and most importantly, be happy💕 I send lots of hugs your way (if you dont want them feel free to not take them! Consent!)😘

[@heathercaro7335]

You 100 percent still apart of our community you always will 😊💞💗

[@destroy2enjoy]

Sounds like a threat 😂

[@Bear_the_shepherd]

I miss you, I hope you're well and I hope you've found your peace. lots of love and God bless x

[@jinxedwrath3586]

...I lasted 6 months then just lost the addiction and longed around, slowly crawling out of the rabbit hole.

[@jinxedwrath3586]

And i’m Only 14

[@loversspit]

hope you are doing alright :)

[@porl8158]

💕keep going, you have helped me loads... 💕 I'm male and 42 years old...had a relapse last year.

[@Hibubbles0315]

I know it has been 2 years, I found your channel a bit ago And THANK YOU THANK YOU I honestly can’t put into words how much this has helped me I love you and really really thank you I hope you’re doing awesome and if you’re not, that it gets better soon, really thank you you’ve changed my life for better I really hope you see this comment but for anyone else who reads it, I’m proud of you, we’re all in this together and I love you

[@alexandertimms0.166]

I find your content extremely useful amd valuable. Everytime i struggle i come back to your content. Because your honest and speak genuinely about SH issues. It can be so hard to find information and relatable things on SH that is useful and not triggering. Even if you dont do as much now. Know that the content u have made is amazing and so very valuable to me and others. Be well ❤️

[@beetle708]

Hope you're doing well

[@Izabela-kh5lz]

I hope you will continue making videos. I actually believe that your content is very valid and relevant because it shows people how things can improve in long term recovery. All the best to you!!!

[@melissaacosta7075]

It’s been two years and two months hope ur ok 🙏🫶

[@DuringDark]

shout out to yt also making it impossible to find resources on sh by only showing you a hotline if you look up anything that implies sh

[@owenbull9866]

you have helped me so mych the last few years thank you xx also you made me dye my hair blue aha x

[@catherinerichter8317]

I just wanna say I LOVE YOUR CONTENT I LOVE YOUR VIDS. Even if you think it's not good enough me as a viewer I feel like it definitely is but yeah I relate to your feeling of "posting garbage" coz I sometimes feel like that with Tik Tok and instagram and everything too I guess everyone is very critical of their own vids. And even though you've been clean and don't struggle with it as much I think it benefits us active sh-ers a lot to hear it from a recovering one coz one day we want to also be clean for years. So ofcourse you have every right to post I think your videos are great!

[@introvertedbandnerd3289]

I appreciate everything you do and have done for us. You're so strong and inspiring. You still have knowledge, and unfortunately, experience, with selfharm. You are still a part of the community, and we're proud of how much progress and recovery you have made! Thank you for providing information and help to those in need! :) + your background looks so nice, its relaxed and comfortable.

[@MisterLewa]

Missed you. Been through a real damn hard period again.

[@smoupnhoize]

1) Work struggles are real. I hope you are enjoying your new job. 2) I get the perfectionist tendencies. We don't care about that on our end though. Honest. 3) Your content isn't less relevant because you are far removed from it. You still have the experience and combined with the knowledge from your education, you offer something a lot of people can't. 4) I don't get platform changes. FB, IG, YT. None of it. I just post how I feel comfortable. Maybe that makes me old LOL

[@mysoundofficial1047]

your content has meaning! we love you, don't worry. easier than said but your videos helped

[@Ayesha______]

It’s been two years. I hope your doing well dearie❤❤❤❤ love your channel! It is really helpful.

[@otrinolaringolog]

Thank you very much for this video. You're just immaculate!!!!!

[@nobudy_left]

I really appreciate your videos and the instagram channel. They’ve helped me out a lot personally and still do to this day. Also the more recent ones. Quality wise I think your videos are very high quality and I never felt like something is distracting or so. But I get your point. Just know that I would love if you kept up the great and important work. Thanks a lot!

[@ThomasWillett1]

Whatever you end up doing just know that I find your content very helpful. Whatever you have to say is greatly appreciated and has helped me on tougher days. Thank you.

[@pearl-785]

There are a lot of ppl who feel the same way as you so maybe center your content around your journey being in long term recovery:>

[@holly1986]

you help so so many people! I know that your my personal comfort KZbinr! You’ve helped me whenever I was upset even though I found your channel just a few weeks ago. You truly have had such a huge impact on my life. Your still part of the community, no matter what. sending love and hugs have a good day:)

[@remytherat5550]

you're still a part of the community because of the things you have experienced, and on staying relevant for the most part I think the ideas you share always will be, partly cause I look at the recent comments seeing how it still does help people, another thing is trying to look on tiktok at the community there but I try my best not to, just because it can be triggering. But I will say as someone who struggles with relapsing it's very inspiring seeing that people can get out of it and stay clean for so long.

[@VampirinAliceCullen]

Hay, I miss your videos but I just hope you are fine out there. Just enjoy your life ❤

[@XMTDCMA]

Hey, I haven't heard from you in a while, is everything alright?

[@ltthomschke1917]

Im verry worryed Do you or anyone else know something?

[@XMTDCMA]

​@@ltthomschke1917No, I don't know anything sadly :/ I hope she's doing well and just moved on.

[@FARAHMOUSTERAOUI]

It's been two years hope ur okay

[@libertasinveritate9603]

🥺 we miss you 👉👈

[@liamodonovan6610]

You are a beautiful person inside and out you are a goddedd love you so much

[@StrayCatlmao]

Can i ask a question? Why do i feel like my sh isn't sh? Like it isn't sh like how other sh its just i dont think mine is as important as other people who sh.

[@deerdear4686]

did you harm yourself ? if yes then its a sh. it doesent matter how bad it is, a sh is a sh.

[@user-sx4up2wc2z]

You are still apart of the community

[@garysimone4977]

Your vids are very good

[@aj_1500]

I missed uuuuu

[@user-sx4up2wc2z]

It’s been 2 years are you ok

[@user-el7uo4zx9x]

Where did you go ?

[@jamesmarsh9370]

as of me writing this comment ( 3rd January 2024) is shp no longer an active channel, i hope not

[@garysimone4977]

Did you ever get off saraquel ?????

[@fakeaccount8342]

I love your accent!