“Why 99% of Relationships FAIL” (Do THIS Today to Find Lasting Love!) | Michael Todd

[@lewishowes]

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[@rockfelloweades]

Many things resonate with me; His authenticity soo REAL!!! Thoughts on discipline. The importance of relationships. Thoughts on pain being used to elevate us - addressing our trauma. Belonging in church before believing. Belonging in church before behaving. I must get his books. 12 years I have buried my trauma; This interview along, with the prayers of my brothers and sisters in Jesus Christ- has me running to counseling to address my trauma. I will know longer be paralyzed by it!!! Thank you❤

[@Ela21Ms]

Yes!

[@edomdade292]

yes

[@patricefeanny497]

🎉🎉🎉🎉yessssssssss

[@patricefeanny497]

Don't hide your trama bring it to light and let God heal it.

[@vickibazter3446]

"A decision. A discipline. Turns into a desire that changes your destiny."

[@lewishowes]

💯

[@LoveGodsWord11]

We had a similar one. Decision Desire Detail Deliverance

[@JonathanGamaWatsNextinTech]

Those words hit so hard. I just wished I would have heard them a long time ago but forgiving yourself and admitting when you are wrong is a great way to heal. Thank you Lewis & Michael for uploading this podcast.

[@PhoenixGoddess]

That hit me too. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@melaniebisher3623]

👏🏻

[@devijahn]

"A season of discipline can produce a lifetime of freedom"... No words 🙏🏻🪷

[@tsebosei1285]

Discipline weighs ounces, regret weighs pounds

[@mkhungwa]

"You can never really love if hurt is not an option. " that's deep

I am not "Christian". I don't do Religion. But this interview made cry. I wanna read this book. Congrats Mike Todd. Thxs for having him on.

[@BlazingImpact247]

So you essentially want to bake a banana loaf but use apples instead of bananas. Good luck

[@speakintothemicb]

​@@BlazingImpact247wonderful analogy. I am stealing it and will give you credit.

[@hey2930]

@@BlazingImpact247 This is absolutely hilarious

[@simonespencer2244]

Christianity is not a religion beloved, it's a spirit & truth relationship with the Most High God Yahweh.🤗💜🙏🏾

[@KellieAlston]

​@simonespencer2244 Thanks for typing what I was about to type.😊

[@vaMpiressCindy11]

I'm so excited you both got together! Thank you Lewis for bringing Pastor Mike Todd on.

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome! Appreciate you for watching. 🧡

[@jestrada42710]

Yes! Thank you, thank you 🙏🏽 love Pastor Mike! ❤️

[@arosa2815]

"Most people live on opinions. I live on principle." ~ Michael Todd

[@lorelie2508]

Lewis and Mike, thank you so much for making this. My 13yr old has started asking about dating and relationships. I needed to watch this 20 years ago. I feel hopeful that my daughter won't repeat my mistakes.

[@JGallis]

Don’t 🐝 2 hard on yourself, you are making the changes now and that’s what matters

[@adrianagomezesq]

What’s not transformed is transferred! The people you love the most will turn out the most affected if you don’t deal with you stuff. -Yes. Powerful 🙏

[@redefiningthemodernman]

Don’t mind me but I will be walking around bent over for a long time trying to pickup all these nuggets that were dropped 😊 By far my favorite podcast episode. This man is the embodiment of what it means to do the work and love authentically. Thank you 🙏

[@Darima2]

"You can never really love, if hurt is not an option". Yes I realized this, I want a deep, enduring, soulmate love but I'm so afraid of getting hurt, being vulnerable, opening myself up to someone that it's kept that possibility of reciprocal love away. I have subconsciously sabotaged potential connections in order to protect myself . I know I give love, deeply but I block myself from receiving it which has been a painful thing😢. I'm working on taking a chance, giving dating a chance again, in order to give love a chance.

[@SaystheTruth3]

Having that kind of love is only a fairytale... It's not real unfortunately.

[@mauia88]

You're already one step ahead of me and I wish you all the luck!

[@donellecole6827]

Relationships are mirrors that highlight aspects of our well being that we are often unconscious of. Without relationships we limit the capacity of our development. Without shadow work we stifle our growth.

[@danicamancelita]

I'm excited to read this book. It is true that healing is such a lonely road, but it gets easier once you accept it that you need to be alone for a long time to cultivate a lasting relationship relationship. So you can bring your best self to the relationship. I want to reach the point where a relationship is like a dessert, I want to have it because I'm full. Not that I'm lacking.

[@ichheizenishtha]

Authenticity is your superpower , be real and admit it when you re wrong. If you enjoy the journey, people will enjoy it with you. History will be on your side!

[@sheilaphifer6677]

I also find people to be less willing to really get to know someone. I have worked with people who I know don’t know the real me, even though I’m fully willing to reveal myself to them. People are so ‘surface’

[@vza123]

Two of my absolute favorites in the same room!!! I absolutely love Pastor Todd and Lewis!! ❤ what a gift this was. Thank you!!!

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@iamandyrosas]

You can only give love at the level of love you have for yourself. 💣 ❤

[@sandrawillis-curry6701]

Lewis and Todd I am speechless.Lewis & Todd so proud of your personal growth. This is the best podcast ever. Thank you for helping us. Will get that book!!!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@jb1876]

Thanks for introducing Michael to us , I loved listening to him speak, I really need to change the way I think about myself, if I can follow Michael's footsteps, things might change

[@jklp6714]

This one is powerful! Y’all are hitting so many important subjects, especially as men. I love to see this.

[@lewishowes]

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[@ShellySellsSTL]

I really like this HOT! Humble, open and transparent. That speaks to me! Thank you for consistently having quality interviews with interesting people sharing their journey to ultimately help us all!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much! Your comment made my day 😊

[@ceniabelinebahnsen7862]

Shoot, Lewis! Your ability to ask potent questions is intensifying 🎉 And such beautiful editing of the beginning of this episode ❤

[@lewishowes]

Thank you!

[@SUZSMITH]

This is awesome stuff. Talk about to enlightened human beings! Thank you so much for this life changing chat. I wish every person on the Earth could watch it.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to check out the interview! So glad you enjoyed it🧡

[@atit820]

I primarily listen to it for learning english. The secondary effect is the personal development

[@bundlewade]

"Trying turns into training, and training turns into destiny. Progression, not perfection." - Mike Todd "Deision turns into a displine, which turns into a desire which then changes your destiny."

[@jf5801]

The dynamic between the 2 of you and what you both bring to the table is BEAUTIFUL

[@lewishowes]

Thank you! 🧡

[@heatherandrade1045]

How u love yourself is how u will love someone else period

[@omfgwtfbscrooks]

This interview is so relevant to the season I'm in. Thanks Pastor Todd

[@lauraloux000]

As someone who has been “missing the essence of life” … THANK YOU!! The great/good piece brought me to tears, so powerful 🙏🏼

[@ruthiminza15]

This session has helped me to unlock areas in my life because of the specificity in the knowledge that was shared through the conversation you both had. Thank Lewis and Pastor Michael Todd. You have helped to change my life.

[@lewishowes]

Appreciate you for watching. So happy to hear it was helpful for you!🧡

[@marklivos]

I have never been enlightened in my life the way I have just by listening to this.

[@rewritehealth416]

Quality of healing, wow! So much wrapped in that.

[@shakenbakebabies7683]

I swear this is probably a bar setting interview. Your best one yet, and you have some amazing interviews!!!

[@MarionFiedlerMusic]

Mike, the sacrifice you made is honest and value oriented - you passed a big test in life with flying colors. Even if your second book had not been that successful you invested into your love and family. Good for you! Really cool.

[@daniellaplutchok1441]

Louis, I love your interviewing style. You have such in-depth curious questions. Mike. I love your transformation and attitude towards life. I'm learning so much from this podcast

[@jessical.williams7280]

My pastor and my favorite interviewer in one space! Nothing but a Blessing to experience for real 🙌🙏.

[@lewishowes]

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[@tylerknight217]

My first time hearing these two. I am now a fan. This was a good conversation

[@mouctardiallo9062]

2 of my favorite people Thank Lewis for always brighten our days

[@titanimagalasi5139]

I needed this..I prayed for 10 years to go back to law school..I finally did and now I'm on a semester pause cause since j got what wanted, I n longer worked hard or even bothered praying.. wow.. bless both of you for this

[@lewishowes]

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[@vngelsvnddemons5292]

I felt this interview like how Lewis was feeling it the entire time! I love it!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you! Appreciate you for watching. 🧡

[@alexandreale9101]

@lewishowes exelent interview! Translate to Portuguese because the Brazilian people neeeeed listening to this podcast!!! Pleaseeeeeee!!!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your feedback 🙂

[@paulinenjeri5254]

Very powerful and life transforming.... Thanks Mr. Lewis and Pst. Mike.❤🇰🇪

[@lorraine8428]

Lewis, I love the way you question people. You dive deep into difficult areas no matter who the person is. You keep it so real and honest. ❤❤

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

[@Just.b302]

This is so Awesome! Damaged but not Destroyed! People pleasing! This is So Good! Enlightened ! powerful! Empowered! Solid within! The Power of Love! Yes! Authenticity! Genuinely Grateful!

[@dejajust6286]

Authenticity is your superpower ✨🙌🏼

[@roro-vf5iy]

Thanks! ❤❤❤

[@d.o.4399]

I wish I could have had a dad, mom, or family member like Mike Todd to learn life from. I learn so much every week from this wonderful human.

[@membering]

I really like this guy! Thank you Lewis, for having Michael on your show today. 😊

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome! Appreciate you and your support. 🧡

[@maribel4210]

Yes!!!❤❤❤ so timely, it's so true, so many nuggets. Healing ourselves and going thru those seasons is so fundamental & necessary for us to have healthy relationships with our selves and eventually others💯.

[@poojasidhpura6758]

An incredible interview, so much deep and so open to relate to our own past experience. I am grateful to Mr.Todd for openly sharing his past experience and the learnings. So many of us are able to relate to him and make it easy for us to look at what we've been suffering and carrying on for our entire life. Thank you Lewis for The School of Greatness. ❤

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@dolorosehuanjo4288]

Lewis dear,Im exactly in the same boat as you😢,Im now watching from Papua 🇵🇬 New Guinea, a widow, so so broken, Thankyou for sharing

[@theluxweddingco]

A season of discipline can produce a lifetime of freedom…. Whooooweeee that hit me where it hurt. Needed to hear it

[@Actor0430]

A season of discipline can yield a lifetime of freedom! YASSSS!

[@dejajust6286]

Great conversation and SOOO GOOD for the Soul🙌🏼✨ Thank you Gentlemen ♥️🫶🏽🧡

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@thepriestess5969]

Thank you Lewis and Michael, session has been nothing but a blessing to me.

[@lewishowes]

Glad it was helpful! Appreciate you for watching.

[@tati70709]

Beautiful sharing, thank you so much❤

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@saurabhsinha734]

Really love his words .... whats not transformed is transferred

[@lewishowes]

Thank you!

[@marklivos]

This has really made me reflect on myself

[@gummay818]

Wow that picture concept is speechless! Such a powerful message in a picture❤

[@lewishowes]

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[@gia4957]

This was an amazing experience. Thank you for sharing. Two amazing men! Congratulations on your engagement!

[@shereecain-jones]

This was an INCREDIBLE ❤interview and I’m so thankful Lewis brought him on the show!! This ☝🏾

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@LaraCameron05]

If you don't deal with your damage, you will hurt the people you love. ❤

[@Dait1402]

Favourite pastor

[@Sbeauty365]

Thank you Lewis and all of your guests!!! Your content changes my life with every episode!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@oduboteoluwaseyi4756]

came here after seeing the short post on Facebook... I must watch the full package

[@jankishivalkar3515]

A single step. A steady pace. Unfolds into a dream that redirects your future.

[@catherinedao1592]

Lewis.. You're awesome... Always have many great questions. Very deep, thoughtful very intelligence. You both wonderful 😍😍😍

[@lewishowes]

Thank you! Appreciate you!

[@moniqueabundance]

Just way too many GEMS 💎. My favourite interview yet

[@lewishowes]

Thank you! Appreciate you for watching. 🧡

[@dutcheslove975]

Love this interview. I listen to Pastor Todd every week. I was, however, very irritated by the therapy adds that we're placed why the conversation was very inside full. This happened twice back to back, and it made me want to disconnect!

[@CodyKleemann]

Incredible interview! Love it! Downloaded the audio book now.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you! Appreciate you and your support. 🧡

[@kumudinicabandugama7038]

The podcast now needs to be named as "The School of Goodness." Love from Sri Lanka. 🇱🇰

[@martaska9843]

such depth and richness. most valuable episode.

[@lewishowes]

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[@mermaidlove1798]

Wow just wow and transforming!!!! Thank you! So much!

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@comlanraoultossou3591]

Very inspiring interview. Thank you a lot. Can we get the transcript of the video?

[@iamtaliba.divine.love1322]

This is a Brother whose truly connected to The Holy Spirit!💙😇

[@zeromiagaveniadacal7860]

Yes, so wow! a lot of words ingest into my system this time, thanks for life wisdom you share sir Michael and Lewis

[@lewishowes]

Thanks for being here!

[@iamceceanderson]

Soooo many gems, great quotes and insight. Love it. ✌🏾❤️🇬🇧

[@lewishowes]

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[@marianapopescu753]

Lewis,You are a Pisces..no wonder you are interested in relationships who aren't work....pisces here too, we are the most beautiful loving creature on earth, that's why others took us for granted and It Is so hard to find someone who value us as we deserve❤ Manny blessings to You and to everyone who come across this channel🙏

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Pisces are great, sensitive creatures ❤❤

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

[@thepriestess5969]

​@@lewishowesmy gentle pisces. I'm the same

[@carolspencer6915]

Good afternoon Lewis and Michael Yip Yip and YIP. I think maybe. But not an expert. Not in the fast passing fifteen or so years anyway. 😊 Used to call this 'Happy single', but really was at times just too busy and almost fast asleep. However about eighteen months ago I woke the feck up, decided to look after ME (better) in preparation for such a journey to be happier 'not single.' Kinda now know what I can bring and equally wish/want and indeed need. Relationship, connection is the infrastructure to life really. Thankyou kindly again for your shared conversation. 💜

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome! Appreciate you and your support. 🧡

[@yo_andersen608]

I ❤ this interview..so much learning here..thank you Sir Lewis..More power

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@carolinediaco825]

Michael Todd is a superhero.

[@MonaMarMag]

The problem is that some of people pretend to be someone they really are not . You can not be pretender for 24hr's for a long time and that is the reason why so many relationships fall apart .

[@KK-ee7lq]

Ran to watch this complete video from a Snapchat clip. This is so good and very insightful 👍🏽

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@kashmiralove5720]

SO good. Thank you.

[@erikgraham-j3e]

Training brings Triumph

[@junitoescalera2425]

Absolutely amazing info

[@elizabethwhite8684]

So happy to see pastor Todd here 😊

[@fiorella6571]

Pastor Michael is top! 🎉❤

[@cynvaldovinos]

SUCH A GOOD WORD I FEEL SEEN

[@lewishowes]

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[@aphelelesibali6355]

Come on pastor mike. Well said!!!

[@sonyaphillips4634]

Need this in my life so I order 2 books for my daughter and I ❤❤❤❤

[@lewishowes]

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[@MegaCorinnel]

Two beautiful souls. Thank you both 🙏💎💚

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@kissmygrassgarden5973]

So what if the person you are with has no vision and becomes defensive and or avoidant of the dialogue? I do not want to give up but feel perhaps he already has on thriving!

[@mandoman7626]

This interview was life changing for me. So good!

[@lewishowes]

So happy to hear it was helpful for you!

[@Youshares]

Omg! This is so powerful ❤❤❤Find your purpose and do good for your greatness❤

[@lewishowes]

Thank you! Appreciate you for watching. 🧡

[@stephaniemounts317]

This was a very inspiring conversation! Thank you

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@yolandafrederick9760]

Amazing podcast with you both. Thank you!

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome! Appreciate you for watching. 🧡

[@Greenandgold888]

omg! one of my favorite pastors! From transformation church!!!

[@lewishowes]

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[@OHPreTTyCraZyBaBy]

This is so good!!💗💗💗

[@julietoneill1268]

Beautiful conversation! Thank you 🙏

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome. Appreciate you for watching. 🧡