Liam has FINALLY been diagnosed with ADHD! | EP. 21 | The Blake Debate

[@threewisewomentheatreco3460]

Stay with it Alexis, In a month you will feel much better! Re: ADHD now you know, things will get better. You can have the attention deficit without the hyperactivity.

[@miniscenesgb]

I keep commenting on Blaire's account that she would enjoy collaborating with you. I did with Buck too, I was so glad when you were on his show. You came over so well Alexis. All the best with your meds Liam, good man :)

[@CharliStar]

13:12 Liam was right - someone who leaves a side (of an army for example) to join the opposition - they are called “Defectors”

[@Liam_blake00]

wooooooo!!!! x

[@CharliStar]

@@Liam_blake00 thought you would appreciate it 😝 I too have ADHD… and know how frustrating it is to not know the answer to something…. This is why I have a vast library of pointless / random facts stored in my brain… (of which I can remember all things given time)… yet remembering to empty bins… that is just *_impossible_* for me to remember 😂😅

[@LaizyDaisy]

Anyone who quits any addiction deserves respect. Doing so whilst coping with another condition deserves a medal!

[@deedee7733]

Even though you both talk about serious subjects that have impacted you each a lot, you hold them lightly and never fail to make me smile. An inspirational couple.

[@Miawallce80]

It's liberating! I was 41 when I was diagnosed. I understand myself so my better now! Well done Liam.

[@wannabebluestocking]

I'm about to see my doctor to start the process at 44, my son has it and the more I read about it, the more I think I may have it.

[@Miawallce80]

you probably do! True adhd is hereditary ( my dad, brother and son have it) but my brothers and dad's symptoms are totally different to mine and my son's. And with woman our hormones seem to be a major influence (Perimenopause seemed to make mine worse) Good luck and don't let the ur GP tell you otherwise . 😊

[@ulrikasunremarkablelife]

I was 49, and my entire life suddenly made sense.

[@Miawallce80]

@@ulrikasunremarkablelife Good on you! ❤️❤️

[@caracoates4834]

I live in a house full of Adhd peeps. It is definitely genetic. I always tell my son ADHD is a super power. It is interesting that so many are not diagnosed until adulthood, including my husband.

[@HanChap2]

Yes! I'm from a full family of adhders. Dad hyperactive, mum - inattentive and myself and my siblings + most of our children, diagnosed combined. And I love that you say it's a superpower because I say the same to my kids. They're all so different, I have 2 grown boys and 2 young girls. One of my boys and one of my girls are academically "gifted" although we're not supposed to use that word anymore. Where as my other son and daughter and incredibly creatively "gifted" and whatever they turn their hand to, be it poetry, playing an instrument, sculpting, drawing, sewing etc, turns out amazing! They might struggle more on the academic side of things, but their skills in other areas are something to be proud of. ADHD has its struggles, but there are advantages in areas that balance it out somewhat. Thank you for such a lovely response ❤️

[@ReganO.]

It totally is. And I think that's another reason why some people aren't diagnosed till later in life, for me, I was raised with my mom being such a classic case of adhd, as am I, but growing up with her and being with her every day, I thought that the way she acted and approached tasks was typical, and therefore so was I. Recently we both realized we both fit every single criteria for inattentive adhd and we had no idea before.

[@kaliadreher4454]

Omg yes that’s an ADHD thing!!! I get obsessed, start lots of projects but I can NEVER finish them! I can never do one thing for too long. I can barely put a load of laundry away, half way through I wanna go do something else.

[@lisagartner4247]

“it’s tough ..it’s so tough, because I’m always getting in trouble” 😂😂😂 omg I see myself so clearly in Liam 🫣😅 I feel you, female adult ADHD over here 🙋‍♀️

[@Liam_blake00]

she always telling me off hahah x

[@lizp7248]

Really good video you two! I'm still waiting for an adhd assessment. I'm only 60 though so plenty of time 😂 It caused a lot of problems. I'd start off jobs, learn everything about the company, memorise all the stock, everyone's phone extension numbers, invent new systems for doing things and then I'd get used to the place, literally fall asleep at the desk and be unable to motivate myself to file a piece of paper! People couldn't understand what had happened to the person from the week before! I do think diagnosis is important.

[@kristibott2437]

ADHD medication can make a huge difference. My son has always been very bright, but did struggle with ADHD. I wasn’t excited about putting him on medication while growing. Once he was a senior in High School, my husband and I decided that we would let him try the medication and WOW! He really really just took off-everything became better. Now, he has straight A’s in school with a dual degree, works full time, and is so much calmer and less frustrated with himself.

[@sashh2263]

I love the way you two bicker. You can only do that with someone you genuinely love.

[@Ilovepointlessstorys]

Welcome to the club Liam. I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 40. It is so nice to have answers.

[@siennad587]

I wasn’t diagnosed until 25. 8 years ago. You ever wonder how different your life in school would have been if you got a diagnosis sooner? I wonder that sometimes.

[@erinmay938]

Congrats! I was diagnosed when I was 16, and my doctor called me the perfect example of how ADHD gets missed in girls. 😂 Going on medication and getting the proper help and support was life changing for me. I hope the same is true for you.

[@rayvenlee4677]

You can do this Alexis!! I quit smoking 6 ish years ago and didn't use vaping as a stopgap. If I can do it, you can! 💪 I am so happy for you, Liam, that you have your diagnosis. When you started talking about how coffee doesn't affect you, that now has me wondering if I have ADHD. 🤦‍♀I have always thought I may have it, but it is mild. However, like you, coffee doesn't affect me like it does others; I can fall asleep right after drinking it.🤷‍♀ Looking forward to the next podcast!

[@marie-michelleanderson2851]

My mom used to give a cup of coffee to my brother when he was quite young because he would calm right down and be able to focus on his home work.

[@arabellapirrone]

CONGRATS LIAM! I have been diagnosed since 4 or 5 and then again at 12. I’m glad you’ll finally be able to get the care and support you need :)

[@marieuzes]

Just love you two. Very affectionate, honest, informative presentation.

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thanks so much! X

[@Liam_blake00]

Thank you x

[@KayleighChristensen]

Happy Diagnosis day!! Im still waiting, will likely be waiting a good while yet. But im so pleased for you, a diagnosis just helps heal that part of you inside that worries we arent “normal” and helps us understand who we are! All my love Liam, and of course you Alexis! Xx

[@Diannarobi57]

Love you two

[@Sweetpotat0_99-m6f]

My partner has adhd, everyone I know says I should get tested but ironically my executive dysfunction stops me from sorting out my referral 😂I relate very heavily to Liam, having a supportive and understanding partner like Alexis is can make a world of difference

[@CatzAndCrowz]

Liam, I got diagnosed at 37 and was so scared of medication. If you tried to take it from me now, I’d fight to my last breath. The meds don’t ‘fix’ it, but it does help a LOT. I suffer the same thing with getting half way through something and then just losing interest. It’s very frustrating and embarrassing 🫣 but the meds do help with that. I’m more like the person I want to be, or the person I felt like in my head with meds. I remember to wash dishes, I remember to put my keys in the right place, I remember appointments and when I am supposed to leave. Biggest bonus? Since starting Ritalin, I go to bed at night and fall asleep immediately. Try the meds. Worst happens, you don’t like it and can stop. ❤

[@itsacarolbthing5221]

So pleased for you, Liam. Hope the meds make a positive difference. Xx

[@zorrokass3]

I was diagnosed with ADHD as a child, and now provide assessment for children and young people. I feel it's very important for those diagnosed with ADHD to thoroughly understand the neurological and neurodevelopmental aspects of it, particularly differences in the functions of neurotransmitters (especially dopamine). I always take the time to discuss it with those I'm assessing and their families. It also really helps to understand why stimulant medications like methylphenidate work so well for ADHD, and why it's generally considered a first line treatment by paediatricians and psychiatrists. I'm glad your assessor took the time to explain some of it, and I would definitely recommend continuing to learn about it (from reputable sources, there's a lot of misinformation), as this can very much assist with self-understanding, acceptance and developing effective management strategies that will work for you individually. A formal diagnosis is a great first step forward, all the best on your journey 💖

[@EmilySturman19]

This is exactly me and my husband before he started his ADHD medication. He is so much more focused on a single task that he can now finish! Generally speaking they give amphetamines for ADHD and for a GP to tell you you won't get side effects if you don't take they are chatting waffle! They are a controlled drug for a reason as they are addictive and can have some severe side effects! Also right now in my area they are nigh on impossible to get at the pharmacy due to the higher rate of diagnosis of ADHD. My hubby can go maybe one or two days with a break from his meds before he is just completely flat after that he's useless at life. Not trying to put you off but just inform that if it is an amphetamine they will be prescribing you to be more careful to take them regularly and order early but also keep in close contact with pharmacy so as not to run out for too long. Hope this makes sense!

[@mogsydog]

Congrats Liam! I started meds today and am feeling good tbh. Best wishes for your journey. Love to you both 💕

[@kimmac0306]

I’m glad Liam has a diagnosis. There’s nothing worse than being left not knowing ❤ take care

[@KoalaOwlPaws]

My little brother has ADHD, he was never put of medication (forgot the reason) my parents still love him, he is extremely energetic, he did have trouble sleeping, and focusing on important things throughout the years, nowadays he is just calm, sometimes high in energy to do something. I still care about my little brother, he is not afraid to speak his mind.

[@tonyatuohenmaa9773]

@Alexis the laundry, cooking, and cleaning fairies live in our house too.

[@shannonstevens2476]

Hello Beautifuls! Congrats on your diagnosis, Liam. I'm in the very early stage of finding a therapist that can diagnose me too. Alexis, my suggestion to help with the non-vaping, I've been told using a cinnamon stick can help (suck/chew?), but I used to use little cocktail straws to chew on. To help with the hand to mouth habit. You got this!! ✊💪❤️ Liam, maybe you don't realize, you're already helping people with this channel!! Well done 👍👍👍

[@the.redtent]

I've been recently diagnosed (35f) and it's changed my life... previously all the (many) ideas that I had would kind of get lost in the winds of time... now however I manage to keep the train of thought and motivation... this year has been my most productive ever and I'm holding down 3 seperate ventures, all of which are completely love and I'm smashing them all! Nice one Liam, the future is bright mate xx

[@redcoma100]

I'm happy that Liam has been officially diagnosed. Not to worry about the meds my brother has been diagnosed with ADD when he was younger. It took a while to find the correct medicine and straighten. But now he is much better & can focus on things easier. Also congrats Alexis on quitting vaping. Hang in there try not to let life get to you.

[@lisa-marie4938]

I have it too Liam and wasn't diagnosed until 34!!! Maybe Alexis knew as my partner is the one who said I had it prior to being tested! I am fun and have super focus when interested - we do have superpowers :P I adore both of you :)

[@TanyaRando]

My adult daughter has recently had the same diagnosis, and I definitely see the traits in others in the family, I sympathise with both of you, Liam for dealing with it, and Alexis for when it gets difficult 💞

[@LiA-ji6mr]

Love you two! My big dream would be to open an animal shelter ❤

[@briannahudson6329]

Liam what I do to get the dopamine hit when i need to do house hold chores is make a very detailed in order list. Then i get a little hit of dopamine with everything I cross off. And some tasks you do naturally together so you grt to cross off 2-3 things at once for alittle bit bigger dopamine hit. Example: Seperate laundry Start laundry in washer Start washer timer on phone Put away clean dishes Wash dishes Rinse dishes Put dishes in rack to dry Take out trash 15 minute break with timer(im physically disabled so require this but think everone should do it so they can get a drink of water and check their list) New trash bag in Check if dishes are dry Get 2 dryer sheets Put 1st dryer sheet in dryer Put clothes from washer in dryer Put 2nd sryer sheet in dryer Start dryer Set dryer timer on phone Hang clothes that dont go in the dryer. Vacuum bedroom Vacuum living room Vacuum kitchen But you get the point. Honestly if i hadnt came up with this system i would never get anything done.

[@Skyizthelimit]

Oh man, 🤣😂 I pissed my pants, tea out of my nose, coughing, tears, snot, ......., oy, this was the best outro EVER! 😂 What a great conversation this, so recognizable and comforting also. I was diagnosed as hyperactive as a toddler, in those days there weren't all these labels yet. It is hard to just be the way you are and nobody understands you and you don't understand why you are "different". My brain just works differently but now I'm in my 50's and I just let it be. No medication, just coping mechanisms learned through the years. I have physical troubles now and it makes me extremely tired a lot of the time, so the physical hyper is much less, but the brain still goes crazy. It is still hard but yeah, that's just the way it is. As I say it comforts me to see someone like you explain and talking about it. You are the best Liam. ❣Thanks. (and thanks Alexis for your million dollar reactions to things, soooo funny and honest).

[@Liam_blake00]

aww haha glad you enjoyed that outro - we literally dont script anything we just have a topic start the camera rolling and just go with it lol x

[@jonathanzuckerman520]

My late wife used to say the same thing about the cupboard doors.

[@siennad587]

Welcome to the gang Liam! It’s good to get a diagnosis and finally understand. I didn’t get my diagnosis until 25 had to go to a 6 hr specialist. Finally Went on Adderall in the last year. It has changed my life! I love Alexis saying I love your ADHD! You’re a gem Alexis!

[@bn9611]

As a misdiagnosed ADHDer, now actually diagnosed autistic lady in my late 20s, I also have massive issues with sleep because my brain is overactive. My body can be completely physically exhausted and my brain will still not let me sleep. It takes the PERFECT circumstances to help me sleep and that "perfect" can vary from night to night. Eg, a podcast might work one night, but another night it would be either too overstimulating or understimulating for me to relax and sleep. It's a damn pain in the ass. But yeah. ADHD and ASD (autism) have quite a few symptoms in common and it's not uncommon for people with either diagnoses to have symptoms from the other. Also, I figure that I also get along a LOT better and easier with others who are on the spectrum or those with ADHD :)

[@EdyPutnam-bi8iv]

I have ADHD also. I want to let you know it sounds like you have a fantastic doctor! I am glad you have a good advocate.

[@20NewJourney23]

You sound like you are describing me and my brain and habits. I was only just diagnosed by a therapist early this year, and I'm 40 yo. It's been a huge life-changing realization for me. After researching ADHD types and presentations, and watching a lot of other people's videos describing their life and experience with it, I am finally seeing a large part of why I am so messed up (mentally, and physically). I am working toward changing my bad habits, trying to find non-medicated ways of coping and fixing the dopamine issue (that are healthy or at least not harmful). I am very sensitive to stimulants, oddly enough. So I self-medicate with drinking tea. It works rather well for me. It's not a fix, but nothing in this life is. Thank you for sharing your stories, Alexis and Liam! You are amazing people.

[@20NewJourney23]

Also, I quit smoking nearly two years ago. That's why I ended up seeking the help of a therapist. Apparently my ADHD went berzerk and I was spiraling... I was finally diagnosed with ADHD in "middle-age". smh All of this time... Had I known and could treat it, perhaps my life would have ended up much better, and less sickly. ugh. I try not to focus on the past but this bugs the heck out of me. Being misdiagnosed all those years.

[@patriiciiax]

Hiya, Ive been diagnosed for 2 years and im also a gamer, I have thrown remotes, controllers, anything i can get my hands, just because of simple things that dont work in games, or I get frustrated cos I dont understand a puzzle in the game, we feel things more intensely than others 100% - also to answer Alexis, most women tend to be diagnosed with inattentive adhd (internal/mental hyperactivity)

[@Liam_blake00]

oh i dont have more than 5 mins to spend on a puzzle if i cant work it out i literally watch a youtube on it because i aint got time to that - gaming is a way for me to switch off haha x

[@the1ladytammy]

I am. 11 years smoking and vaping free. I smoked 21 years.

[@NeloBladeOfRanni]

Congrats liam i was diagmossd with adhd at like 11 😂 but i can relate to you on it taking a long time to get a diagnosis as it took me years to get a diagnosis for Emotionally unstable personality disorder/borderline personality disorder as for years the doctors were convinced i iust had depression and anxiety

[@NeloBladeOfRanni]

Also I was on meds and they worked for me but I was taken off of them at 14 lol

[@cheekyminx8220]

Hi my darlings it takes a long time ❤❤ my daughter just been diagnosed with autism shes 38 took about 2 yrs ❤🎉😊

[@CountMeIn-CMI]

I'm an Australian I had no idea what playing Boggeys was! Hilarous

[@sharontrotter367]

I love your bantering back and forth. You guys are awesome! ❤

[@Alexis_blake00]

Thanks so much! glad you enjoy it !

[@Camille-accessories]

Welcome to the club Liam x 😊

[@samanthapenman4857]

I've never heard of the word bogeees game hahaha

[@bobbiejojackson9448]

WOW! I'm so happy for you Liam, now that you're going to be able to move forward with treatment and hopefully get the relief that you've needed for so long. I promise that I am NOT attempting to get political about this, but I have to say how grateful I am that we don't have to wait for more than a couple of weeks (at most) to get an appointment/assessment with our health-care process. I fully understand that there are good and bad things about the different systems and I'm not trashing one or the other. It's just mind-blowing to me that a person would have to struggle for such a long time, with something like severe ADHD or OCD, etc. before they can get the help they deserve. Wishing you both the very best, because I'm very aware of how these diagnosis' affect both of the people in a committed, full-time relationship. Much love and abundant blessings to you both! 💜🙏🕊

[@MizziProductions]

One thing I would say depending on Liam’s medication, is that he MUST eat before taking it. Ideally some sort of protein or a hearty breakfast. He might not want to eat later but he needs to or his medication won’t work at its optimum, and he’ll want to binge later. Also, I lose my temper when things don’t work. I also get really annoyed if I hurt myself as well.

[@janemcnaughten7275]

Hello Alexis and Liam. Congratulations Liam, I am so pleased that you have finally received a definite diagnosis. My eldest daughter, Rebecca who is 40years old today. Received her diagnosis at the beginning if this year. Poor thing, she is so much better now she is on her medication. Since. She was about 7 years old, when she started having a rough time & in the 1980's ADHD was considered a boy thing. And when she was having a high day she was miserable. It is such a shame that it took 33 years to find a diagnosis. She was so relieved to finally get an answer. Jane in New Zealand 🇬🇧 🇳🇿

[@ValeriaZaurov-xl1vg]

I relate alot to what Liam said .. for example when theres something not working in the pc or something i literally wrap my whole world around why its not working..i once spent hours trying to solve a problem on why a certain game wasnt getting installed and the second i managed to fix it , a total satisfaction.

[@Liam_blake00]

The satisfaction of fixing an issue is unreal like i cant explain how amazing it feels lol. Its worth the hassle of finding it out! x

[@Mandy-l9s]

I have an expression, when I do something then get distracted and don't finish what I started we blurt out SQUIRREL

[@dianareh9929]

ive been meaning to get tested for the past 3 years or so but keep putting it off... thanks for the reminder 😅

[@catherina1952]

Keep your eye on your blood pressure Liam ...... important. x

[@TherealMrsCothrine]

My middle son has ADHD super bad. He had a speech impairment as a child but the school didn't want to give him an extra support for learning his Rs and Ls. So I had to take him to a specialist who did speech testing and IQ Etc. He diagnosed him with ADHD in part because he was upside-down before they finished the IQ testing.. literally a 5 year old upside-down in the chair during the testing.

[@bronnyargentum5108]

I love Liam's personality and attitude, it would be sad to dull it. His passion for what he does, who he meets, and how he engages with enthusiasm is, probably, in no small part due to his ADHD. If you like who you are, consider carefully what steps you take to change in the future. Sometimes the biggest thing in the process of getting a diagnosis is knowing what is going on. Then you can look at a variety of potential solutions. ADHD can include medication, or you can also work on Cognitive Behavioral Training (CBT) if medication is not a feasible route. Take the time and knowledge you know have to make the most informed decision.

[@Solitude11-11]

CBT did not work for me at all.

[@Liam_blake00]

@@Solitude11-11 CBT worked for me when i was deppressed and suffering from anxiety - but it didnt work for my sister so its not for everyone x

[@bronnyargentum5108]

@@Solitude11-11 I totally understand. Of the numerous psychiatric treatments that do not include medication it has high efficacy. BUT, as @Liam_blake00 said it works for some people but not everyone for every condition. No treatment is a cure all.

[@katiegriffiths3143]

I would love to do a podcast with you guys on ADHD. I was diagnosed this year too at 28 and they mentioned it years ago when I was under CAMHS. The hyperfixation/hyperfous is REAL!! I am currently on a medication titration and its REALLY helped! I did try one lot and it made me very depressed and by day 3 of trialing it, I was took off it. The one I'm on now is ace! Caffeine you NEED TO STOP! The palpitations and jitters are unreal. It feels amazing to feel your brain go quiet and you can actually focus and get things done without procrastinating. Honestly we would have a field day! Think about it, I'd be 100% down to chat if you guys were! Btw two ADHDers together, it's absolutely wild as you bounce off eachother! Such a passion of mine advocating for neurodivergents x

[@lesliefischer6680]

So, we’re dealing with trying to work though ADHD Avoidant Personality Disorder and a few of the other lovely behaviours that come along with adhd. We love one of the KZbinrs from Germany who vlogs about living with adult diagnosed ADHD. I think my favourite thing he did was the brown, white and pink noise. Listening to it allows your brain to relax and focus. And the pink noise has also helped my tinnitus.

[@dessieurness4253]

Going through adhd testing at 46. I can relate to literally everything you said Liam. Good luck!

[@the1ladytammy]

I was diagnosed in my 40's. The earlier the better.

[@KoalaOwlPaws]

Biggie being emotional support is adorable.

[@Liam_blake00]

he is so helpful haha x

[@lesliefischer6680]

The frustration when something doesn’t work, you just have to switch off. Or people overload! I just have to shut down. And yes, when something works, the Dopamine surge is crazy.

[@Elizalustof]

Girl I only just found your channel - I’m from Yorkshire too. Good ol’ Huddersfield 😂 How is your laser/electrolysis going? ❤❤❤

[@HaraldSon94]

I'm getting diagnosed now. It's a process. Thanks for being so honest, it's cool I can point to you and say. See, I'm not the only one 😂😂😂 stay strong and real, you fox ❤

[@marie-michelleanderson2851]

Not surprised 😂.Runs in family. We are all able to have several ideas discussed at the same time.

[@susanmarie7777]

I’ve had it all my life. You’re not alone

[@lesliefischer6680]

Hey, Alexis, when you stop smoking, and probably the same thing with vaping, there are some really interesting things that can help. A weird one is that nicotine is released into the pores in your upper lip, as you perspire, so that when you lick your lips you get that craving for a cigarette/vape. So, if you can forgo the makeup for a few days, and keep a few wipes or a flannel handy, just swipe your upper lip frequently. Another is that your B vitamins are probably fluctuating. The water soluble vitamins are most affected. A B50 a few times a day helps. But the one that helps with Jekyll & Hyde, rage switching, or just massive personality shift is B2 massive deficiency. My partner went through it and was told a protocol of 900mg for 3-5 days (300mg x 3 times per day or 200 every few hours. (I know it sounds like a lot, but it’s really not! I take 10k of some things for my Shingles.) it’s only for 3-5 days, then 500/day then 300/day, then 100/day. If you feel like you still are having huge mood swings, go back up a few. It is really based on the individual, and I’m not sure what it would be if you’ve been gaping vs smoking. My partner had been smoking for 40 years- teens thought it was fun to get the 8 yr old to smoke. It was amazing the difference when he did these things. Hope it helps. Best wishes.

[@KateH77]

Hi Liam. I would suggest you try to find an ADHD Coach so you can find ways of to focus on the simple things like chores and follow through on completing projects. I see an ADHD Coach regularly now as I was diagnosed earlier this year and feel like I now understand myself more than I ever did.

[@melanieford1269]

I was diagnosed at 59. Medication has changed my life, Still as bouncy as ever

[@braddo7270]

Congrats and welcome Liam. PLEASE tell us how you did it because it jas destroyed my life not having a diagnosis for ADHD and Autism. I know I have both and have been told point blank, but they won't diagnose me officially... I literally don't leave the house anymore because people can't understand me and I can't understand them and I need help. it gives me daily anxiety. If you could tell us how you got referred finally, it would be so helpful to a lot of us ❤

[@mogsydog]

Are you in the uk? If you are your GP could refer you for adhd diagnosis through "right to choose". Mine took 5 months from referral to medication. I'm afraid the waiting list for ASD is very long. Hope you get some help.

[@ES-ku3oe]

I’m a 37 year old women, was diagnosed with adhd a couple of months ago, also scored quite *ahem* high on the adhd score😅😊

[@the1ladytammy]

I recently quit caffeine

[@BrendanTripp]

Alexis ... your reaction to quitting smoking sounds like me when I quit drinking! I went from being quite the lush to being a non-drinker overnight, and I hated the whole f'n universe for it for thirty years. I finally stumbled into "the rooms" (AA) a bit after my 30th anniversary and did 3+ years of dally meetings ... before COVID messed that up. Doing the meetings got rid of the 24/7/365 rage ... I wish somebody had been able to convince me to go that route back in 1985!

[@lillymcewen6309]

I have always called them dolphins, too 😂

[@njlauren]

I am not an MD, so please take this as it is, a suggestion. If you have ADHD , be careful, they generally prescribe stimulants like Adderall and Ritalin. I just finished reading a book written by an author that is a Md and a PhD in psychology. He cited medical studies that showed that those drugs can cause damage to a center in the brain that can cause issues with motivation. He said he encourages parents who bring in kids w ADHD diagnosis to look into using something like Wellbutrin instead. Again I am not an MD, nor a researcher, I pass that on that only as something you may want to talk to tye doctor about. Interesting part about Adderall et al, someone was able to run a control study w ADHD and non ADHD ppl in a double blind study,and the non adhd ppl showed improved performance too .given these are stimulants, not surprising

[@BADSEED13]

Welcome to the club❤

[@leafybear13]

OMG magic washing machine lol. My husband thinks the same thing.

[@leannepryde8876]

Liam, I have magic washing fairy, too. We are blessed 😅

[@Liam_blake00]

They are amazing!!

[@debbiecox8963]

You 3 are so cute. Didn't know you and Liam were cat parents. BTW Alexis your hair looks great and Liam I totally agree with you about laundry.

[@charlieconnolly3869]

I have adhd and autisim, so Liam my secret at 35 is Headspace and Calm the apps (not paid they just helps me when my bloody brain goes crazy when I try too sleep, and since using headspace, I actually sneak off to take a nap every now and then when that day is a heavy day for me, and caln when I want to listen to levar burton read a wee story about space lol)

[@Carecorn1997]

5:34 D!ck And Dom, This Brought Back Memories 😂😂😂😂😂

[@k9drwho1970]

i this year at the age of cough 50 odd with autism. So i know that when u finally get the answers u need and want.

[@ReganO.]

Well I've only watched the intro and i already relate

[@Jgotmilk555]

Y'all are a cute couple!

[@hannahsarthub]

I’m 38 and still waiting to reschedule my assessment (forgot/procrastinated the paperwork). I am a woman, and from what I gather, I’ve got the more inattentive form of adhd vs. the hyperactive. That being said, this conversation sounds so similar to the way my husband and I talk about the symptoms that I have that can be annoying to someone with a more typical brain. The comment about the drawers being open is one that is constantly mentioned in our house. However, that is not as annoying to my husband as when I (or my daughter who also most likely has adhd) leaves our actual door open. Thankfully we’ve never had anyone break in (or rather come in since the door is wide open).

[@charlieconnolly3869]

If there is a problem with my computer and I have done everything with all the knolledge I have, I have to consult the computer and tech forums I scour through like a blood hound to find a fix or solution, and if not youtube it, its actually how I fixed my phone I had dropped in the sink while doing the dishes and I put it in rice for 3 days, then tried to turn it on......nothing, so I tried everything and a silly wee trick from youtube solved it, after 40 hours looking for fixes and parts and phoning and asking repair shops, a silly 38 second short fixed it for me, was drained and cried as I hadnt slept for days properly without my apps to sleep, and slept for half a day while my phone charged again, was sooooo nervous it would blow up or something while charging, but when I woke up it was fine thankfully!

[@bertiesark]

you should look into the FUM product it is not smoking or vaping but does help with the habit give it a look

[@sailingayoyo]

Liam you are so cute when you are wizzy, like a big kid, I bet it is tiring for you both though. Hopefully you can start finding your perfect equilibrium now. I have to put my headphones in and listen to a story, I have heard before, so that I can quieten my mind to sleep. My man can put his head down on his pillow and he’s off, it’s so infuriating that I can’t. The only time that it was easier to sleep was when I was getting 4 hours, non consecutive, sleep a night for 3 years when my boy was little. 😂

[@Theworstaltinthesystem]

*chants* ONE OF US! ONE OF US!

[@Theworstaltinthesystem]

Also I'm not sure if this is relevant as I haven't watched yet but there are so many helpful ADHD strategies on here. I got diagnosed at 42 and went straight on meds as literally nothing worked for my depression bit I've had extended periods off meds too and the strategies and neurosciencey stuff was so helpful

[@theresabashford1726]

My daughter switched to vaping ( she tried patches & gum in the past ), she is doing well, she has been round other smokers and not even tempted. She is currently reducing the nicotine in her vape. When I gave up smoking, I missed having something to do with my hands, I still sometimes miss cigarettes but remind myself of how it makes your mouth feel horrible and stained fingers and that stops me going back. Good luck with kicking the dreaded cigarettes, it will get easier, and think of all the money you will save, I paid for new kitchen cabinets with the money I saved.

[@Liam_blake00]

Yea i was vaping for 6 years and was time to stop because i was constantly clearing my throat and coughing all the time, vaping i defo better than the nastyness thats in cigs but its better to quit completly when you can. I feel much better health wise since i quit x

[@Liam_blake00]

Yea i dont miss the smelly hands from cigs or the hangover cigs which tasted like S**t hah

[@20NewJourney23]

For me, the notifications system doesn't work. It only generally works on my phone WHEN I have the YT app installed. I don't tend to watch videos on my phone. I watch YT and browse the web mostly on my computer. Notifications don't work. The bell in the upper right corner rarely shows a notification even when I have notifications enabled for new videos from my subscribed channels. I gave up on that feature since it's not working. YT needs to do better.

[@bridgetveldhuis4473]

Thanks, Liam, for explaining how ADHD works. The Dopamine side. I have it but no diagnosis so no meds. Been wondering whether to or not. Really really bad at the moment though. 😕

[@bridgetveldhuis4473]

Alexis, yep, that's ADHD you're dealing with there. You should see my house. 🫣

[@briannahudson6329]

Why was I given an ADHD adult Qelbree ad right as Liam was saying he doesnt like ADHD meds @7:44?

[@briannahudson6329]

Lol what a coincidence.

[@simongoodwin5253]

I gave up smoking ten years ago and then went though a breakup (We'd been together 25 years and owned a business together). Smoked a few packets after the breakup, and then got control. I went to vaping. Still vaping but down to 3mg. Next is 0 mg and then Zero vaping,

[@the1ladytammy]

Never heard of Boogies.

[@taeminislove]

Hi Alexis! Can you talk about the mess on twitter right now about a native american trans woman who used a Japanese name as her new name? A lot are supportive cause "you should be able to choose the name you want", and that name gatekeeping shouldn't be a thing while others are upset about it cause it's appropriation and the woman tweeted, in a somewhat bragging way, about getting turned on about Japanese people properly pronouncing her name in moans. The drama startes with her tweeting about her therapist deadnaming her when she asked the therapist to call her Saeko. The therapist asked her "Psycho?" and she responded "No, Saeko." and the therapist proceeded to use her deadname instead.

[@helenfitch6590]

I was diagnosed a couple of years at 50+. My niece and my brother have both subsequently had ND diagnoses. Pretty sure my partner is also ADHD. There are a lot of us about, a lot of people who have been failed by the system.

[@eleanorwilliams7771]

In February I was finally diagnosed with ADHD at the age of 30. This was amazing validation for me however 8 months later I'm still waiting for an appointment with the titration service for medication. I was told it would be a maximum of 7 months. Somehow this is worse.