Life Advice ALL Men MUST Hear (Might Hurt Your Feelings)

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Kindness is better than pretty. I learned this lesson the hard way. I also learned other lessons the hard way because I had to experience them rather than follow what I heard. Don't let life happen to you. Learn from my experiences so you can live your best life and take life by the balls. Here are some critical lessons I learned:
Kindness is better than pretty. I learned this lesson the hard way. I dated a girl one time because she was hot. Unfortunately, she was horrible, and I realized this month after dating her. I also learned that it doesn't matter how beautiful or spicy a woman is; if they are not a good person, you should not be with them.
If you act like a pu$$y, you're going to get fu@#ked. You won't accomplish anything if you don't stand up for yourself and grab life by the balls. Life will bend you over and give you the business. Life is not fair, and you'll get out of it what you put into it.
The world does not revolve around you. Fear of other people and what they think of us holds most of us back. But once you understand that everybody else is not thinking about you or concerned about your actions, you will be free to take life by the balls and squeeze. You'll be allowed to make decisions based on what you want.
How you react to adversity is more important than the act itself. A lot of times we are collateral damage in other people's lives. Bad things and challenges in our lives add context and meaning. How you handle issues and react to them sets people apart. Put down your baggage so life gets beautiful. Use Better Help to get your life on track and to be happy. Get 10% off your first month of therapy and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help.
Money does not buy happiness, but it makes life easier. If you constantly worry about money, taking money off the table improves life. You need to figure out a way not to be broke. Join me at the White Label Mpire for a supportive community, course info for starting your side hustle, coaching sessions, and more. Keep in mind that having money doesn't mean you'll always be happy, however. Don't chase external validation. Practice gratitude.
Your health is your most valuable asset. Without it, nothing else matters. Protect it. Don't smoke weed, don't drink excessively, and stop doing self-destructive things. Eat healthy foods, exercise, and invest in yourself.
Invest your time wisely. If you do, you'll get further ahead than your friends. Stop surfing social media and watching p***.
Not all friends are good for you. Outgrowing friends is essential. Surround yourself with people who are uplifting and moving in the right direction. These people need to cheer you on when you're successful as well. Make sure people are not holding you back from your dream. Don't kiss other people's asses, either.
Respect yourself. You need to respect your time, body, and mind. Exercise daily, get 8 hours of sleep, and drink 120 oz of water. How you live will dictate where you end up, and it's nobody else's responsibility.
Do better. If you're unhappy or think you're not where you need to be, put in the time and effort required to get there. Do the work. Remember that failure is a good thing. Embrace it as part of the process and understand that until you're truly pushing yourself and sometimes failing, you'll never know the next thing you should do. Failure is an opportunity to learn and pick yourself up. It'll make you stronger.

[@alpham]

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[@Adam-y3w5o]

Damn man, this is one of your best videos ever 🔥🔥🔥🔥 You are such a true true motivator in this world full of false "influencers" !

[@andreasvandersal9837]

Good advice

[@enelgee]

When you die, only the people immediately around you will miss you, and only for a time. Your co-workers, or acquaintances will forget about you a few weeks after you're buried. So yes, we're not special at all.

[@terryb0241]

Ain't that the truth

[@henri6595]

100% facts. Seen coworkers that retired pass away. No one ever mentions them.

[@eyewelderboat7872]

Not true at all the people who you have affected their lives will never forget you (some) people you meet make lasting impression on you forever

[@asta1011]

“In the end when you die you’ll be alone be greedier” - Satoru gojo

[@henri6595]

@asta1011 I wouldn't say be greedy, but one should treat their family and close friends the best. Coworkers, people you meet in school, people you meet anywhere in general will all come and go like the wind. Social media is a scam and everyone in general doesn't truly have hundreds of friends. Many people do not deserve your attention, resources, and or kindness.

[@terryosowski8143]

You just nailed it when you said health is your most valuable asset!!! Health is wealth!!! And TIME is not re-newable !!!

[@DC-jz7pu]

It's your surroundings get surrounded with positive good people. that's what gives it meaning. wealth, material goods come and go but money does buy freedom

[@scorpionking8661]

No one can change your lift except you. My parents told me you become an adult when you stop blaming others for your issues. Own them and stay positive.

[@MGAC1701]

Not one single person on their death-bed has ever thought, "Gosh. I wish I would have spent more time at work."

[@sammencia7945]

People who enjoy work convey this through action. That's the 2%. The rest of you say what you wrote.

[@TheCrain]

#2 really hits home for me. Being overweight and bullied in high school really left an imprint on me. My weight has kept me from enjoying life. Going out and doing things. Being a recluse and really that want to stay home and play my video games where I could be in a different world really hurt me in the real one. I lost a lot of years and opportunities because of this.

[@con2mms2000]

I agree totally. Looks last like for about 3 to 6 months. After that, who she is is the most importante thing to keep her in your life.

[@Javier.Williams]

Go Alpha!! Great video today thank you so much

[@allentempleton2429]

I destroyed my life because I lived in fear of what other people thought of me and what I thought they could take away from me. I made every mistake but at the bottom of every mistake was fear. Im old now and have finally figured it out but there are so many doors that are closed to me because of my age. My family wasn't able to accept me with boundaries and rejected me. That was the price of peace. Starting over at retirement age is not easy and there are limits one must accept. I will not have another family. The likelihood of having a soul mate is low but the tast of freedom is still sweet. My suggestion is to do what's right for you as soon as possible.

[@gkauto1959]

Your story is all of our stories, but you at least choose to recognize where you dropped the ball and from now on, accepting that you. might never have another family or another partner is commendable! Please, Im 64, and also found that fear was holding me back as well; go ahead and do everything for your health! make it to 100!

[@kenshiro7072]

5:57 " Health is your most valuable asset... without it literally nothing else matters..." Got it.

[@Politebanana1]

That message was exactly what i needed to hear to get my ass moving in the right direction! Thanks Alpha!

[@Gaurav-yl4dk]

Alpha is so relatable. Even I'm a type of person who can't learn from other people's mistake or Advice, I have to live it my self

[@theoracle5265]

There is very powerful truths in this video, Thanks sometimes these are the things that need to be said and heard.

[@kevinmorris9712]

As a 54 yr old man who has lived a life not lacking in leisure and pleasure, my advice is to seek God 1st. Everything else is empty and unsatisfying without a connection with your creator. He will guide and direct your path better than you ever can. The sooner the better. Trust me.

[@adamgonzales5649]

That’s 100 💯 percent correct life works on Gods principle. Good luck 👍

[@MerleL.Cathey]

A delightful video. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@MerleL.Cathey]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do I reach her?

[@MerleL.Cathey]

valuable information, I just looked her up online. impressive Thank you for this

[@AccionInspiracional]

The best Alpha video so far, it almost made me cry....I'm tuff but not insensible

[@nellosnook4454]

1. Thanks, Alpha! 👍 2. Nail-down the practical. 3. Then pursue the personal. 4. Become independent. 5. Then, engage limited vulnerability.

[@Calvin_Flidais]

5:56 "Health is your most valuable asset" I see what you did there

[@je_suis_le_vent]

This is a message that multiple generations need to hear right now.

[@DrMSid]

Excellent revision of life lessons. ❤

[@alberti119]

My new favorite video to keep my head in the game! Passing it on to my sons!

[@Mike-e6c4w]

I gave up on friends a very long time ago because I outgrew most of them and some of them were just a waste of my time.I never wasted my time or energy chasing girls because most of them had nothing to offer me outside of sex.I quit social media 13 years ago and I also don't waste time or money consuming shit I don't need and not only do I have more money but i have more freedom and more spare time to do the things I actually want to do.

[@onthepin830]

One of your better vids. 10000 % truth in this vid. Thank you.

[@ryanap]

story of my life. always have to learn things to hard way. at this point i just embrace it. wouldnt have it any other way

[@PaulHarley-t5g]

Freedom is independent.do it all by yourself bills grocery feed clean heal laundry dishes trash drive free. Real freedom is health independence

[@lyanmung2709]

Need more of these types of videos alpha m...Truly inspiring

[@karenlubeck3294]

Love your family, your wife or husband (if you have one), and your children. Your closest friends. Those are the people that will miss you the most. When you start losing the people that you love and there is only a couple of you left----it is a new normal and takes time to recover --- but you don't forget those who have gone before. You still think of them and hold them in your heart and in the back of your mind. Guard your soul.

[@sinisterblue01camaro]

Thats the damn truth! Very well said Alpha

[@phillipsmith7759]

Ii so agree. Its what you do that counts. Thoughts are just thoughtful.

[@paullussier9349]

Some good advice here BUT, dont make self care selfish. People take it too far. Balance is needed. You can be selfless & still take care of yourself. Also this modern thinking of feeling that failure is needed before success?! How about thinking & planning to not fail? Instead of pretty much failing on purpose just to say you learned from it & be all dramatic about it & create a failure to have a success story to tell. I would take success any day. My wife is obsessed with falling down before she succeeds even if its preventible. You can spend your whole life subconciously causing failures to dig yourself out of. Its madness in search of self gratification & "success" after failure, such bs.

[@henrytorresvlogs]

Thanks for this video just been breaking up with and I need the therapy turns out I was with a covert narcissist. It’s not easy I didint know this could hit that hard it’s as if I was in a comma god forbid watching someone disrespect me, every disrespect, every lie, all the abuse is coming back to me I’ve been in no contact for over 45 days after 4 years she broke up with me as I am in a financial situation with my business she told me I had nothing to offer, told me I was ugly, that I was fat and she was disgusted. And more hurtful things a man can hear and I’m not sure if it can be said here.

[@Toma_Warszawa]

Awesome video. Thanks for sharing your thoughts about life.

[@chrismackay8314]

Thanks for sharing your advice.

[@maxbadilla6516]

I really needed to hear this. I am 32 and I have no idea what I want from life... If everything depends on me then... What am I going after?

[@alexbob5209]

You answer that. You ain't special

[@SeyaDiakite7]

You are amazing. Thank you for existing like I once said here. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

[@tonylamartina6729]

Great video and so true. Off topic. What brand and type jacket is that? I've been looking for one like it. Thanks for all videos.

[@LastEarBender]

strong video today, amigo - nicely done

[@jasonreyna7615]

Girl in the thumbnail, send her my way

[@DASHINGDALTON94]

Better help doesn't help because they are going through the same things that you are. The best person to go to in time of Trouble struggle or need is the Lord Jesus Christ. The Lord is the only one that can supply anything that you have need of Because a person can do so much. The Lord Jesus Christ can do everything. And anything much love the Lord loves you and God bless ❤

[@janscott602]

Most men are working on themselves but they have zero support and zero encouragement. It’s hard.

[@N.Mcneely]

Alpha if you're hiring for anything I'd like to speak with you. I live about an hour outside of the Atlanta area. Thank you for the fantastic content once again.

[@ericbuikema5781]

Better help sucks big time! Couldn't ever find a therapist/counselor today could ACTUALLY help me with my mental state. It was all about doing work sheets and they almost never asked questions but would spend the whole hour going over the stupid assignment. Better help is a waste of money. Go spend the extra $$$ for an ACTUAL therapist not a joke like Better Help.

[@bobbylincoln7869]

spot on

[@joseluisyanez7679]

Gracias desde México amigo !!! 🫡

[@tylersingleton5158]

I thought you just made beard videos 😆 subscribed!

[@mr.e7541]

The idea that doesn't matter what people think of you is said quite often. And it isn't entirely true. I'm sure people don't think of you that often. And the minutiae of your life doesn't matter like people think you're a nerd or neet. But character does matter. And how other people perceive your character can you make a big difference in your life. Having a good relationship and respect from your higher-ups can help you get ahead. Well not having these things can prevent you from doing so. In gossiping going around can affect the way other people think of you including the higher ups if they take it seriously. Other than that he was spot on.

[@RobZomBOfficial]

I like how in one vid, everyone calls this guy cringe & shits all over him but in other vids it’s all praise. So weird. Love the dude for all his content & what’s he’s going to leave behind. Dope shit

[@SuperdutyExplorer]

People give a shit when you're moving up at work faster than others... everyone needs to work harder, and give a shit about what they're doing!!...

[@SlowRiderDucati]

Good advice, but always remember no matter how bad life gets, It can always get worse. That's why you have to get up every day and kick ass, never kiss ass.

[@fortunemaker2970]

If you saved someone's life or life changing situation for someone positively he Will be thankful even after meeting in heavens#Amen!

[@nailpounder1430]

I could comment explicitly on every point with experience as my source. Great speech. Listen closely to this people.

[@gcr6420]

Love your work brother. You are pashionate to what you say, and take a holistic approach to bettering the brotherhood.

[@davidhernandez9985]

From your psychological state, one makes one day rule or the day, makes your day you letting life simply pass you by.

[@bhavyakanani7857]

one question: is it ok to have no friends then having bad friends?

[@7tleg67]

Yes

[@henri6595]

You'll find new friends once the bad ones are gone. It's not that hard

[@sachinmistry1]

Finding good friends gets harder with age. You need to put yourself out there. @@henri6595

[@mrnice7570]

No friends is Always preferable to bad ones. Today's friend is typically tomorrows enemy

[@heygirl2]

So true Life is what you make it.. Bad decisions have bad consequences... Sometimes it lasts a lifetime! Set some goals, take care of you, enjoy everyday! To be happy with yourself reflects in your relationships!

[@rounaksharmaaa]

God i transformed a lot by watching Alpha M. He is like family now.

[@marcosmartinez2646]

Thank you. The advice you provide helps us become more aware. It's what we need need to hear.

[@2587june1]

This is exactly what I need too hear from what I’m currently going through thank you for the video

[@RatIceCream]

Thank god for you man. I never had someone to give me this advice

[@oofooh]

Aaron: Life advice that you should consider... USE LESS HAIR PRODUCT!!

[@SwaggRivera]

Thumbnail girl @?

[@DanDan-hq6bl]

I'm going to get an escort now. Thanks Alpha!! 😂

[@darkpharaoh542]

Appreciate this. Another great video. Thanks for the content.

[@darrenhill3514]

Even if you're rich, you worry about things...let's face it...guys spend their lives grinding to make as much money as possible for others to benefit...it stinks..

[@mariogutierrez1279]

Awesome video Aaron thank you for the advice just got laid off and I guess it’s time to start living life.. thank you 🙏🏼

[@karenlubeck3294]

Whenever I have been laid off it seemed like I ended up with a better job. Blessings.

[@rodan2852]

Proverbs 29:3 (KJV) Whoso loveth wisdom rejoiceth his father: but he that keepeth company with harlots spendeth his substance.

[@joojoojeejee6058]

Sometimes serious, chronic illnesses can be at the driver's seat and there are limits to what you can do about it.. So please stop saying that your destiny is ALWAYS in your own hands. No it's not. I definitely know what I'm talking about. But irrespective of this (and my poor finances) and other obstacles, I have had decent success with women.

[@timsimmons9995]

I've come to realize NOBODY cares about me and the few that care just a little, only care as far as I can do something for them. As soon as I'm dead, my assets will be split up and nobody will care or know I was here beyond, at most, a funny story over drinks by the few folks I impacted. And, that's okay. I'm okay with that. Thinking otherwise can create a lot of anxiety about "after." It doesn't matter.

[@scouttrucker]

My biggest mistake and only real regret as a man was getting into two relationships with women who I supported 100% and never got anything back. Took a break to work on my mental and physical health, stopped drinking and opened up a small business. Something I should have done a decade ago.

[@joegilli]

You're videos are great bro and agree with everything you're saying, without health, you're fucked.

[@wek33]

i wish i could get 8hrs sleep and take care of my body, but i'm forced to work a job for the sake of the economy which i don't give a fuck about one bit. life would be perfect if i could actually own myself and not be railroaded into capitalist slavery. my boss is enjoying their life, paid for with mine.

[@harryyacubian6533]

Most uplifting and positive video. Thank you.

[@jamesf931]

Guys, listen to this. This is solid advice I wish I heard decades ago. I wasted 40 years of my life before I finally pulled my head out of my ass.

[@csabafabian2839]

You helping me in every day ,when I am on the floor! Thank you! Greetings from Hungary!

[@Freethink_Rebel]

"Take care of your health" while a video of cheeks being spread at the camera flashes. 😂😂😂😂😂

[@pedroalexandre7097]

always prioritize your health, without it there is nothing else.... thanks alpha im not hurt im Enlightened.

[@m3tr0id86]

I have sigma tendencies myself (more of a loner, self sufficient, non-conforming, ect.) and I do envy alphas sometimes. Not with what they show, but their ability to show they can ask for help. Take it from me, what alpha is saying is very true and life will eat you alive if you don't heed any of these warnings.

[@miguster9942]

Well said.. I used to put gorgeous girls on a pedestal.. at this point I just ignore them.. and it messes with their head .. cause they are used to guys salivating over them

[@crocodilestantv734]

✝️💯”YES‼️” Alpha In Jesus Name Amen‼️Aaron I’ve become THE HIGH VALUED MAN that God made me to be BECAUSE OF YOU ‼️Love you Brother Aaron❤️✝️

[@gabriel08607]

WHATS UP ALPHA?

[@aaronaustrie]

Real talk!!

[@lee-jt5zm]

Yeah, retire soon.

[@nick111655]

Very true! We all have to get out of our comfort zone at some point , and do not let fear stop you. Risk is necessary, without it the result is stagnation.

[@andreasvandersal9837]

Good advice

[@joepeeps7511]

Tip #2.......... No one is coming!!!

[@tahakapasi6159]

You r the big brother I always wanted alpha

[@anthony99900]

Thank you for this inspiring video. Love your content

[@tutnod2449]

You were created to glorify God. That should be your goal.

[@ryantownsend1181]

My brother is having an epiphany over basic understandings

[@BeardyBakr]

How those ladies can lose some good guys like you. Bruh?

[@CocoKoi321]

better help was known ever since 2017 to be a SCAAAAAAAAAAAAAM

[@ExploringWithMike69]

How many risks do i have to take? I take risk after risk idgaff

[@blu.mw103]

Some ppl are just not worth the effort or interest in them. They will never reciprocate and just leave you confused about what they want from you. Wish someone would have told me that when i was 18. And pretty much like this video they may have a beautiful appearance but are deceitful lying bad ppl just like she was. But you live and learn. Sometimes the best thing is moving on.

[@javierrangel3020]

My first ved watched here, of many. :)

[@Unknown-wu7]

In my community there was a brother he says taking dowry is bad and he haven't take dowry but when he get divorce his wife takes half of his property 😢.

[@Bready_Krueger]

Set boundaries and be straight up take risks when you are in your 20s, you dont wanna be a shy push over scared Man over 30 brav, not good for relationships or kids or yourself

[@karenlubeck3294]

I would be careful not to take some stranger's advice. Live your own life, sure take calculated risks but not be careless. Sure, stand up for yourself but don't go to the extreme, you need not be overly bold, certainly do what needs to be done but be careful to look after yourself. It you want to surround yourself with good people be a good person. If you want to meet a kind Man or Woman to date or marry be a kind Woman or Man. Talk therapy is helpful if you have something bothering you that you feel is blocking your progress. Sometimes, Talk therapy can help you process experiences and periods of your life. Remember focusing on your inner being is more important that overdoing on your appearance. Certainly, it is good to look your best but don't make that the most important but get on with living your life. Eventually, you will figure out what works for you.

[@johnny.d.1930]

I don't disagree with anything said here. Except maybe the 5 minute ad for a therapist. Social media is a cancer on our society. Yes, we all want our opinions validated, but the number of likes and retweets is not a measure of how right you are. This need means something else is missing in your life. Strangers justifing your feelings is not going to make you feel better. Five good friends are waaaay better than 1000,000 social media followers. Keep your good friends close and discard the ones holding you back. We don't all have the best family lives. But they are your family. Do everything you can to maintain a relationship with them. They are the only family you will ever have. Therapy is sometimes necessary. Talking with friends or a professional is good. But accepting the things you can't change and taking control of the things you can is by far the best therapy. Be bigger than your problems. This is how you solve them.