10 Things about Women I WISH I Learned SOONER

[@alpham]

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[@AzamatoTheGreat]

Well done promoting a scam who prey on people's mental health issues. Anything for money eh.

[@Karrthik-m5r]

Don’t focus on women ,focus on yourself and try to get better .Like improving your style,improving your character,letting go of bad habits

[@rounaksharmaaa]

Agreed 100 %

[@rommelb.8070]

that's why I went to the gym and regularly used perfume

[@raxks3663]

Then keep on beating you meat

[@HeathenDance]

@@rommelb.8070 LOL.

[@rounaksharmaaa]

@@rommelb.8070 😂💀

[@coffemanar]

1. Low self-esteem, can’t love you if they don’t love themself 2. Kind and Good rather than pretty, though attractiveness is important 3. Lazy people, cuz relationships are hard 4. A cheater 😢 5. Clingy / restrictive, each have their own life 6. Someone without friends 7. Someone with only/many guy friends 8. Disrespects you 9. Be alind, political, emotionally, spiritually, religious 10. Use sex as a weapon

[@RichHandsome]

Ma man

[@blackwater7183]

4. A cheater 😢

[@Mike_and_Life]

*Aligned*

[@worshipwhilewewait]

Knew She was "the One!' when somebody working near Her had a meltdown and She just put Her arm around that Person and gently talked to Her (have no idea what was said) and 5 minutes later that person was a whole different Person. She has THAT kind of affect on Me, too. SO much so I Married Her. Everything else about Her is gravy...just one more thing to Love.

[@domokami447]

Aaron, this was a great video and awesome input, i really prefer these videos where you show your real authentic self more. Great stuff, thank you!

[@YannyKo13]

Thank you AlphaM! I started watching your videos since 2020, and I've been different from who I was before, looking back now, I know I'm grateful I made the right choice to seek help from other people. Thank you for being my indirect online therapy when I needed someone in those times. God bless you!

[@jbougger]

Yes, never give a cheater another chance. My first post-marriage relationship ended with her cheating after 7 months. It caught me so off guard that I believed her when she denied it. At first. Then I saw who she really was and I’m really lucky she’s out of my life now.

[@louistyrrell4876]

Thank you thank you thank you. I left my disrespectful mentally abusive ball crushing wife one year ago. This has been my best most peaceful year of my life after 7 years of marriage. At times I feel sorry for her, but this video you made reminds me of the reasons why I made the tough decision I had to make. Thank you Aaron for making this video💯

[@HeathenDance]

GOOD FOR YOU, MAN.

[@johnroman7659]

Spot on brother. Especially about the cheater. Run and never look back period!!!

[@mikedouangchanh9969]

Holy crap this is spot on. Everything you mentioned is what I went through with now my ex. I noticed all these red flags, she cheated on me, always arguing about the small things and she gets easily triggered. She had low self-esteem, lack of confidence, insecurity and trust issues. There was no way I can fix her issues as she needed to work on it herself. Only reason why I stayed was she was my first love and I was hoping she could change as time went by but it didn’t work out. She left me 2 weeks ago even after everything I’ve done for her. Gave her 100% of me while I was getting 50% of her which is not fair. I learned a lot from this and I will be focusing on me now cause self love is important and I know one day the next girl will be even better. To all you gents out there stay strong good things will come when the time is right.

[@Flyingwithcarter]

Definitely needed to hear this, thank you

[@adamgoudreault]

Video just got added to my favourites list, as well as part of my weekly routine. Top 10 videos I’ve seen on KZbin, have to say.

[@Vladdicted]

Mate, very proper video. I wish I'd seen it sooner. I myself have stepped on these rakes many times. Now I'm recording a vids and sorting out my life. Better late than never, right?))

[@marlonbravo9466]

Thank you, Alpha! We viewers are even more lucky to have you as our friend. ♥️

[@NicholasIacovella]

Thanks Alpha for the advice and uplifting message. Recently, I got stood up on a date and was feeling down but your message motivates me to keep moving forward and find women with better character.

[@HOORAY4BOOTAY5]

Yeah man, look for your type specifically. Understand your niche, I didn't know my niche until I found out more and more and did my research. It consists of going to places and meeting like minded people. Also respect. 💯👍🏾

[@phantomstreams1311]

I wish i could go back in time and tell myself all this, that and the lottery numbers

[@tonyelderd5688]

Thank you Alpha, this is exactly what I need right now. Started focusing on myself the past few months now and turned two girls away because they were playing games and I was just done. Thank you for my 7th wake-up call Alpha.😁

[@larrytron1992]

I discovered your channel a few months after I broke up with my first girlfriend because of her cheating Thanks to your videos I went from feeling very low and burnt out from working so hard to clear the financial debt I got myself into during my time with them; to being a better man and now I’m in a healthy relationship with my current girlfriend of 3 years Sometimes it’s the actions we took during hard times that makes us the person we are today I never got to say this to you Aaron, but thank you for teaching me how to become a better man. In this YT men’s fashion and improvement space, you’ve always been my personal favourite out of the lot

[@cur244]

You have a lot of great videos, but this might be your best. Couldn't be more spot on!

[@ikechukwuazunwo5462]

I’m just been reminded of this.. I almost forgot. Thank you Alpha

[@Ch1TownBusta]

Theres that fatherlike mentoring 😊 way to go brother.. lead the flock it makes god happy and shows your true strength inside 😊😊😊😊

[@justarai]

thank you so much Alpha for posting this video, you are a real hero and role model. keep it up man.

[@marksewe114]

Alpha, my dude. You're the GOAT 🐐

[@SPCBRAWLERZ]

Thank you with your words of motivation. Seriously, more people need to hear you.

[@LiamBlakePodcaster]

Thanks for dropping the warning about religious compatibility!

[@richsj1106]

Thanks for sharing Alpha. I had a similar experience with a toxic ex-girlfriend who cheated on me and I took her back. She probably cheated more than once. Now I’m single and doing the work on myself for self efficacy and self love. I’m in better shape and I’m on the cusp of a career change. Life gets better when the pursuit for pussy is the last priority.

[@Bijo69]

Deleted the dating apps today wahey

[@NoahDeCesare]

This video is incredible I wish I saw this before my precious relationship. Thank you Aaron

[@krishna335]

Chasing, longing for, simping after, pedestalizing, and investing heavily in women will only put you down in the dumps. Period.

[@CrixyTnT]

Stay single live longer that's all you need to know esp in these times

[@geno5169]

Yep I’ll be married 33 years! I sometimes I was still single! My wife s lazy with her working! Or quitting a another job

[@geno5169]

My wife can’t decide on jobs! Or staying with a job! It’s very frustrating and makes me emotional

[@geno5169]

I already get bad migraines!

[@yoinkpops11]

I’m Going thru some rough time, and watching this vid helped a bit. But I still feel this hole in my chest. Regardless thank you for this video

[@thestealth293]

Hope you're dealing with things calmly.... everything's gonna fall in place with time ..more power to you bruv

[@yoinkpops11]

@@thestealth293 I’ve just been keeping myself busy. But I appreciate your concern 🙏🏼

[@defining_moments]

Alpha just came to watch and tell you, you are the man my brother it’s 6am here where I am and I’m about to catch an awesome workout watching my brother Alpha getting better one day at a time!! No low self-esteem here 💪🏾👊🏾👍🏾no time for that b.s!!

[@alphaa_san]

While following your white label business I have started a coffee business with the name Brewnopia. Here in India. Moreover I have in a month got 5 cafes who use my coffee. And I got my ex girl problem. I needed to hear this! God only knows how right on time you uploaded this! Mentor!💙

[@davidyoung8230]

Absolutely truth. Great info

[@osamoray]

I think this is your best video ever and every word is true.

[@ridgeware5304]

I'm for therapy. I recently had someone try to force me into it. While insulting me, not wanting to listen to why I was ok with myself etc. Needless to say, we didn't conversate for long. Her, demands & that was it. I'm not trainable. I do things for you because I like you & care about you. I've had all types of situations towards why I'm choosing to be single even though I do see alot of couples my humanity craves to have that other. I'm always left asking myself after I talk with these women. At what costs? My peaceful states, integrity, loyalty, mutual values. If she's a risk on any of these. I force her away. I've attempted atleast 3 or 4 times so again. Guess what, still single.

[@MADMikey04]

I'm sorry about the bad stuff you've been through, even if it was necessary to shape someone

[@malcolmthoward]

4:59 The bag popping up Lol! - Love this guy

[@danielmarquis5258]

I appreciate you Alpha. This video was from the heart. I took a lot of your advice, especially dressing cooler 😎.

[@JonFox1945]

Yup, learned the hard way. Hopefully it sticks this next time around.

[@JayB-JayB]

Thank you for sharing this. Great channel.

[@jasonking6892]

Good video Alpha👍🇬🇧

[@ryanplummer5583]

Love all of your videos man! This might be your most solid one yet.

[@pedroalexandre7097]

do you first and she does here thing , it works out when both have each others back and are partners to sucessed.

[@isosoriharrison9556]

💯 Agree with everything you say. 👍🏻 This girl I like thinks it is bad when she spends time with people but I told her that I wanted her to hang out with her friends. 😅 She was just concerned if she was not hanging out with me a lot and I told her that I do not always need to be with her. Interesting how that is an opposite but it is working out great! If they matter and you matter, they are going to want you to hang out with people that matter to you and them the same. I would say another good piece of advice is assess your relationship with this person. This means really take a deep dive with the person and figure out if you should continue or what the relationship is. If it is going in a good direction for you.

[@alshareefahmed327]

Alpha the video is insane and I love your honesty and humbleness ❤❤😊

[@GLITTERGOBBLER]

Hey alpha appreciate u!!

[@victorvarnak1645]

Great insight!! Thanks!

[@robertkomninos4220]

Thank you for this, it’s great advice!

[@jdgamboa5201]

Could you expand on the idea of not dating someone with low self-steem? It happened to me a couple times and it was a nightmare, but I would like to know someone else's opinion.

[@richardramfire3971]

My wife is a good woman overall. But lately I developed a condition likely due to stress which gives me migraines and causes shaking and other symptoms. Sad to say she hasn’t been as supportive

[@jaguaresed]

Yessssss, i like hanging around with my friends ans she used to get angry, i was like whatttt, plus i had a rock band and she didnt like that, i broke up with her, i bought a house for the both of us and she still wasnt happy, that is a no no

[@jonathanvermillion7263]

Loved every word thank you

[@rhyswaterman37]

Therapy is 100% worth it I've got to say.

[@EleuterioAquino-d1n]

Great video alpha 💯

[@Tarantulisimo]

FACTS ON TOP OF FACTS in this video....

[@fernandoaguilera4418]

Alpha you are one of the greatest!!!

[@secondsolid2965]

I might be settling to be single at 37. It’s been almost 10 years since my last relationship and 17 years since I last had sex. I get rejected all the time and am just tired of trying. It seems like there are more reasons to be single than there are to be in a relationship.

[@franciscoavila2356]

Fuck…think I needed to hear this today 😢 14 years down the drain…thank you

[@enrique2958]

Alpha Is our big brother.

[@thorsrensen3162]

Last summer I was going motorboating and to be nice I invited 2 girls on a days trip with me. One of the chicks I had been dating before. The one I wasn't dating got upset that I wouldn't stop at a store for her on the way to buy some cigaretes. My truck and boat trailer is not the easiest to maneuver and I cannot revers wit this without it flexes and damage the fenders so I couldn't park it easily. I told her this and got yelled at in return. I simply told her to get out of my truck, then my date also started to be nasty at me and she was kicked out next. We left them on the side of the highway. They never got kidnapped but had to hitch hike all the way back home to town while me and my buddies ripped it up at the lake all day. We had a good day even it would have been fun with a couple of broads to share. My friends however supported that I had kicked them out, no man with self respect shall tolerate this kind of behavior from a woman. Sometimes I think women should learn to be respectful to men.

[@Kenjisan66]

I took back a mulitple cheater too. So many other red flags too. Wish I learned a lot of this sooner too. Just working on myself for now.

[@HOORAY4BOOTAY5]

Hmm, codependency is a red flag. Attraction is nothing about personality nor intelligence or emotional intelligence. Crushes are not logically based nor on the right person. Consistently level up in your level in regards to the relationship. And be honest and genuine with yourself. Be honest with each other if you can accept each other for themselves. Don't make it first impressions. Trust your instincts. Don't take guru advice. Liers are everywhere they could be lying in a Relationship too. Look at past partners, sexual history too. Wanting a relationship before a friendship nor has even been invited. Not respecting each other's boundaries. Not knowing this person in particular, (that one hurts). Emotional cheating, been in it, (I feel sorry for the man who isn't aware of it.) Laziness and getting comfortable. Priorities and ambitions don't coexist with each other. Have nothing in common nor personal values for together, (like religion). Masculine in terms of ego and insecurities, and belittles others. Narcissistic behaviour. Contradicts herself. Friends with benefits, is a waste of time and doesn't work in real life. I've experienced all of these from personal experience and have done my research. (Even as a kid I knew all of these from males and females were silly.) His/her emotions are not your responsibility.

[@anttikuusmetso]

I subscribe under this all. Respect! 👍

[@millionairemccoy218]

I've been with the mother of my children for 18 years, love her to death, she stuck around through all my bs, but over the last several yrs I've gotten myself together but I'm not sexually attracted to her anymore, love who she is inside but also feel like I'm outgrowing her. Don't want to leave a good thing but also want to give her an opportunity to be loved properly & also have someone I'm sexually attracted to as well but I know the grass isn't always greener. Any advice

[@geno5169]

I look forward to to all your videos alpha! I do have low self esteem! I do workout! But it really doesn’t help much on that ! I’ll be married 33 years next month! I try to make my wife feel the most beautiful and sexiest women! She has these sexiest curves! But I don’t think she feels very beautiful or sexy! I worry more about her feelings like feeling sexy! Instead of working on myself! My self esteem! This topic was right on once again! You’re a hero ! A man we guys look like me look up to

[@naffox4259]

How’s everyone’s 6 figure white label doing?!?!

[@enrique2958]

To be honest got freak out with The sudden Backpack.

[@MJSStyle-wg2ei]

Please don't feel embarrassed by your story. You're vulnerability and authenticity are inspiring to everyone.

[@Soldier979]

His stories are always changing that leads to his sponsor lol

[@larscederberg8564]

A good wife never complains and work hard is a team player

[@localsofindia1457]

Learned this lesson hard way. used me and trashed me

[@gerardsloan1593]

One of the few things I miss about being a teenager, I miss how naive I was. I was naive about money, success and women. I used to think all females were sweet innocent angels. As I got older I learned that wasn't the case. There are wicked women, I learned a bad female has the potential to ruin you. I then avoided them and worked on improving myself (chase excellence and not women). I have had a charmed life, ever since I decided to focus on myself and not women. A wise decision. Have a good day reader

[@shoaibkhan-hd4we]

You are my hero since 2017.❤

[@hunterxsimple3821]

Should I buy a 35 dollars/month thing which is advertised as boosting my confidence, social skills, women etc...? Bond masculinity

[@amendes2836]

Gentlemen, even Alpha shows us that what feels like a heart crushing defeat - you will still win by assessing who deserves your time and commitment. Count your wins and ensure you win your own campaign. Even if it’s story mode in modern warfare.

[@TytheGallant]

I will as an atheist who was raised baptize, the whole religious thing can be 50/50 I’ve met girls who who I didn’t believe and we stil had a bomb ass time together, I’ve met girls who one they found out I didn’t believe they’d act accordingly. However my fiancé believes but I still necessary don’t. We have a kid & I’m not the type to push my views so I let her do her, she’s raising my daughter in the church however once my child becomes of age to ask why dad don’t go to church I’ll tell her & let her decide.

[@thatdudewithachannel]

Where was this video last year 😢

[@Jupiterxice]

I wish I had people like Kevin Samuels before he past away to give me life lessons at 18 I would have had edge on wisdom on women and life.

[@HOORAY4BOOTAY5]

We didn't talk about the mistakes of hookup culture, people have a idea about hookup culture. Then when they turn 30, all of a sudden rightful and good decisions are being made. Let's look at the downsides, black mail, cheating, stds, possibly pregnancy, lust and nothing about the person. False hope in regards of a relationship. Not any good character and morals and values in hookups. Hooking up with the wrong person. Pros, having a good time or a bad time, depnding on eachother, (also a con.) Lust and desires are met. First impressions leed to good times. Not worrying about tomorrow. Ignorance is a blissful thing. As you can see I've marked each things, the cons outweigh the pros, there's also undesirable partners, or associates, unlikable character, possibly anxiety and performance inregards tot he wrong person, attraction is only physical 🧲. Most likely zero romance. And stds are a thing yet again. Same as recating to impulse. Not taking proper measures.

[@mikestacks4155]

For a second there , "I thought you were turning into a transformer !"

[@JoeFerber]

WELL-said!!!

[@plantbasedhealthy9149]

AMEN Brother Alpha M

[@109mladen]

Good said everything

[@ThePolishRifle]

The freah&For podcast has a better take on many of these points, if ya ask me

[@MarcRamirez-rf2jl]

Well Done.

[@TrevorBrazil]

Perfect 👌

[@bloochoo2870]

Great advice! This sort of videos is soooo important for young men today! A lot of guys grew up in single parent homes with no father…no advice and no male role model! You are filling so many roles! Thank you for these advice videos!

[@SlawcioD]

@1:32 depreciating assets became liabilities.

[@jeremycrowley8628]

17 years with my wife. we are polar opposites!! on everything. Religion, political views, life goals...everything. But relationships are NOT hard!!! they aren't. The only thing a relationship takes is proper communication. Telling each other what you feel, telling them about your sick dreams, asking how they feel about you...bla bla bla. If you cannot communicate or be completely open about your feelings, you will not succeed. Period. All this other non-sense is common sense. Alcoholic, come on. Mean person? are we really talking about this? Find yourself a woman who can listen to your man crap, no matter what it is and not judge you for it. My wife hears all my BS and simply says, well, you are a dude...what can i say. Keep your wife first in your life and watch your relationship boom. Have your friends, have your goals but keep her first, in everything. The second either you or her make something else a priority over each other, done. You will not recover, its done. I cannot believe that we still need all this relationship advice, its seems silly to me.

[@jeremycrowley8628]

btw, if your woman or wife cheats on you.....look in the mirror. You have not done your job asking her what her feelings are or how you can best take care of her. I do not excuse cheating, but a woman cheats almost always because of some lack of emotional or physical support from her man. If you cannot understand your woman 100%, she will cheat. If she likes a bad boy and your are a SIMP....she will cheat...wrong woman for you. It is not a failure on your part, but it sure as heck is a failure to understand who you are with. this stuff aint hard folks....stop making relationships such hard work. its not!!!!

[@truegaming137]

God has a plan for everything just let life happen you’ll love it

[@jetsdude8]

The only reason to get married is to have children. The woman is your first practice child.

[@kally93bjj66]

I rarely comment on videos...however, sadly every flag raised here I ignored, twice over...spitting truths for the homies on this video for sure.

[@heavensknightyt5528]

It's sad how difficult it is to date.Every woman nowadays think they all dimes and are stuck up

[@111Jeffrey]

I agree with most of what alpha m. says but there should be no such thing as a girls or guys night out! Why? Because allowing them to go to a club or bar without you, is a recipe for them to cheat! 👎😢

[@-Ufo_Abduction-]

You ruin your life with bad girls just for those 5 seconds of pleasure. Learn to be happy alone.

[@-Kalec-]

So true ❤

[@aounbassem2636]

when you wear glasses you look like maroon 5 (Adam Levine)

[@benz500r]

Dude, nothing is embarrassing nowadays, considering what's going on around the country.

[@caineruruk-ot7tx]

Hay sir I'm in school how do I get respect from my classmates because I'm the classcaptain...please I need help to learn to control them.they make allot of noice.

[@TheRedDevil_NC]

pretty always outweighs good. Its why the west is done.

[@HOORAY4BOOTAY5]

It's like that here in the UK. I didn't realise tribal tattoos were my thing on a woman, but they are. (Talking about an actual lady.)

[@UserRobot215]

This and any dating advice only works if you're good looking in the first place. If you're ugly and short like me, then don't worry about women.