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[@BulldogMindsetArchive]

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[@joelcabrera9607]

It's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog.” Mark Twain

[@AsheetBull]

Wow, that thumbnail is an incredible transformation side by side

[@chriscruz429]

Patience with results, impatience with actions.

[@martinkrutzfeld]

I totally agree. Basically this is where stoicism meets pragmatism: You cant control anything (results) except your efforts, your trying, or in other words: the work.

[@HellenicWolf]

Probably the most well-rounded red pill guy out there. Knows how to code, well versed with real estate, tall and jacked as f*ck, taking on crazy challenges, good with girls, and brutally honest with himself in public. I have to fast for a few days to heal the gut, and binging on your videos lately to pull the damn trigger and just do it.

[@mannygonzales1985]

Definitely has some size, but wouldn't say he's ripped. He is pretty well rounded as you stated though.

[@4Mikes4Mindset4]

Yes I agree. Well rounded is the way to be moving towards. Congrats on your focus point now Dean.

[@HellenicWolf]

@@4Mikes4Mindset4 thanks!

[@TheMrKlassy]

yeah he's a good looking tall guy, with charisma on top of it... no wonder why women come easy to him

[@ak47ava]

@Isak Ahmed you are right. But it goes to show the man is very well rounded.

[@lenhalz8086]

This is exactly what I needed to hear. Somehow it's common knowledge but always forgotten common knowledge. I have failed to take this with me during my 43 year journey on a consistent basis. I will not make the same mistake the rest of the way. Thank you

[@juliannesheppit6285]

100% facts. Brilliant video...

[@RomiEzzo]

For those who haven't read victor frankl's book yet, he says this: "For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side-effect of one's personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one's surrender to a person other than oneself."

[@RomiEzzo]

Read "Man's search for meaning"

[@someonesomeone25]

I agree with this quote. However, quite a few people, myself included, have no cause or other person to pursue. And it seems impossible to just make one up, because you always know it to be false and trivial and your heart is never in it so that it motivates. I think that is the real root problem - there are no compelling causes for most people, because traditional causes like religion,or family, or country, or career etc simply don't exist for many.

[@snap_Fizz]

@@someonesomeone25 perspective matters. purpose and pursuit is everywhere. its just a matter of choosing which one

[@someonesomeone25]

@@snap_Fizz I can't see it. It seems to me that meaning requires the belief that one is playing an important irreplaceable role in a grand metanarrative. Those are two things very hard to get together. If the project is too grand, you're unlikely.to be important to it. If youhave importance, the project is likely too trivial. Only a few have both.

[@snap_Fizz]

@@someonesomeone25 i see. are you an atheist?

[@alphabravo3020]

Trust the process, and enjoy it. Put in the work.

[@k91pl]

I think this might be one of the best videos you’ve ever recorded! Thanks.

[@georgefilhour8122]

I appreciate you putting in the WORK, thank you.

[@AgeOfEmpiresZone]

True advice, John. Focusing on the work > Focusing on the success. Same with many of my goals. I remember you used to articulate this as 'Trust the process'.

[@dennisschaefer6279]

A great coach always kick ass.

[@alenspikic4523]

that view what exactly what i needed

[@JumpingFrog82]

I was just pondering this too yesterday, in relation to solving puzzles. I've always loved jigsaw puzzles, sudoku puzzles, etc, and my goal the whole time I'm doing one, is of course finishing the puzzle... but I've always noticed that as soon as I finish one, I immediately want to start another one. Finishing something isn't the truly rewarding part, it's the process.

[@rodjones6014544205]

Old school wrestling fans will appreciate this reference...He went from andre the giant ..to "ravishing" rick rude.

[@BreakDanc3r]

Love this video man. Nothing but the truth.

[@thegritsch]

This is actually backed by Neuroscience! Watched a podcast by Andrew Huberman where he talks about rewarding going in the right direction, not just the result, to have sustaining motivation. On the flipside, I figured this out when I was 7, so I never wanted to do anything, except what I felt like in the moment. I feel like I don't have an inner compass that's guiding me anywhere, so I'm stuck...

[@SteveWoods79]

People need to realise that the result just doesn't magically appear one day. It's more of a transition - that's why people like JS say you need to change your lifestyle. The best part of that transition is that your life continually improves - so if you're expecting a result 5 years later, 1 year and 2 years in you're already feeling better, life has improved massively to the point where you CAN achieve your goals because you're no longer in the mindset of being "at the start". TRUST THE PROCESS.....

[@LifesTrueCalling]

I totally agree

[@geri4367]

Trust the process and enjoy the journey

[@4Mikes4Mindset4]

The journey you have gone much farther and earlier on than myself, I say luckily to have a role model, no words can express the daily inspiration you bring myself and others. Much love brother.

[@khalidbornaparte6250]

I really couldn't understand how you make so many videos when you should have much more subscribers but you have been consistent for so many years and now i understand the mindset that you have. Well done Mr Sonmez

[@SirJoelsuf1]

Everyone wants everything 5 years ago. It's unsettling to see this kind of thing being the standard way of thinking now.

[@oceeta]

I totally agree with what you've said here, John! From what I've seen and experienced, when your mind gets fixated on the results, and you eventually achieve those results, the goalpost just moves farther and farther. You made $1M today, tomorrow you want to make $2M. You get 1,000 subs on YT today. Tomorrow you want 10,000. It quickly becomes apparent that you're never quite where you want to be and that just causes a lack of fulfillment and satisfaction in life. Thanks again for this helpful video!

[@janibizjak9966]

I too don't want to accept it, but I must if I want to improve and build best myself.

[@Vladimyrful]

I think a better way to look at it is outcome independence. It's not that you don't CARE about the outcome, otherwise you wouldn't do anything, it's more like you do your best and let the dice fall as it may. The best analogy I ever heard was gardening and agriculture: You sow crops, manure them, water them, do EVERYTHING you can to provide them the optimal conditions, and then you let it go. It may grow, it may not, it's not up to you, what IS up to you is everything in the process up to that point, but afterwards you can't influence the outcome further, you must let it go.

[@ThePhysics1234]

For the exact reason that results matter you have to be focused on the process!

[@jolly7728]

True, the work itself has to be enough. It helps a lot if you enjoy what you do!

[@eonbeats]

Fantastic video and message.

[@michaeljones9970]

why youtube hide your video,your video is awesome

[@arashshukran8788]

For some reason your vids dont get recommended to me and im subscribed but this video of all of them did and man im glad i clicked it. Im glad you addresses this question it speaks to me totally.

[@joe86569]

nice advice :)

[@ivaylotopalov1393]

Put in the work and trust the process!

[@yogranddaddysdad2613]

Yooo it hit me... I appreciate this video man

[@ajw_3153]

Yup you have to have trust in yourself and your abilities...be confident

[@tristanfeinauer]

No ways that's you in the thumbnail John, haha, gives us all major hope!

[@dtingleff]

Thinking about who I'm becoming--who I AM--feels more powerful and self-respectful than worshipping outcomes. But I didn't understand this when I was younger. It wasn't until I finally got fed up with feeling bad. If you want to improve your social status, for example, it's easy to be in the mindset of trying to win people over. But if you're doing that, you're falling into a subservient, chasing, desperate mindset. Instead, decide on a persona you want to be (find role models on TV and real life), and decide to be THAT. Suddenly, you are in the driver seat.

[@lifephilic]

Thank you John for reminding me this. Once I am following this in my life, but due to lots of competition in India to get fellowship for the research, I started focusing more on the results and forgot the joy of learning physics and started to feel anxiety and lack of confidence.Now, I got the answer why my behaviour is changed. You opened my eyes. Thabk you so much.

[@alphabravo3020]

True words, I concur.

[@kdietz65]

Another idea that fits right in with this is don't make material possessions the goal. When I was younger I chased after those things - fancy houses, fancy cars, etc. Now I like nice things, don't get me wrong. It's nice when I can afford to by them, but I don't need them to be happy. I don't pursue materiality as a direct goal. It can be the reward for a job well done, but it's not a goal. What's vastly more important is career and financial freedom. Trading off less material possessions to have less wordly burdens and more freedom is a good trade I think.

[@mauricioalarcon9622]

Trust the process

[@bjfitness4862]

This is some solid advice man thank you

[@chuchaqui1000]

Great message! Thanks John!

[@diegoebustamante]

Just like the Matthew principle, "For whoever has will be given more, and they will have an abundance. Whoever does not have, even what they have will be taken from them"

[@mackaready1]

I thought about this a few weeks ago, too. It applies to all of these areas of life that are vital..relationships, money, women, skills.

[@HG51_]

Great message! Process and progress

[@bernardogarcia8607]

Learn to love the grind .

[@joachimisaac2927]

Been spinning my wheels result chasing for some time and I've been miserable, I did get most of what I wanted, but God....it was horrible. Thank you John for this. This was what I really needed. Gunna, listen to this a few more times. The greatest and funniest part at least to me is the Existential angst we suffer after doing all that work, expecting some grandiose feeling. I think it's an easy trap to get seduced into; when I get this I will be happy...

[@TristanMark1]

I think that this type of concept can only be learned through experience that’s why you can’t get through to people 😂 and that’s okay some things can only be learned through doing

[@ecospider5]

This reminds me of baseball teams that focus on profit compared to teams that focus on playing well. The teams that focus on playing well are the ones that usually are more profitable.

[@GeekMODE_]

John, for whatever reasons KZbin has been recommending a lot of your old videos from your Simple Programmer days.

[@imoretull]

Thanks!

[@mikemix77]

Banged the bell 🛎

[@DiscoverIgnite]

Great video John! Appreciate you brother 👊

[@TericT]

Interesting advice

[@markonovakovic3838]

am in it for the work, results are not that fun. results are fine but it gets boring when you reach them. you have to always go on and on, that's what keeps you alive. we tend to think that it all ends when you reach a result but what a day after? and a day after? and a day after?

[@ahmadelshandaweely8992]

You gotta fix your like button now, cause i just smashed it.

[@Martin-do9qf]

Amazing

[@AsadAhmadCPA]

This is a mic drop type of video period. This video should just end all self development, self improvement, red pill channels due to the message it delivers. Do the work and forget about the results!!

[@mrknarf4438]

Have a goal, but focus on the process. The goal should be something unreachable and grandiose, something to wake up for in the morning, but the process defines what your daily life is going to be like.

[@ahmadhashimi926]

there is a Book TNT by Claude m Bristol. read that book and you will know what it means what he says. be prolific not perfect.

[@Tom.A.]

*John, I have an important question for you.* Do you regret not joining the military? I am 28 and am getting closer to the age where it's too late to join up, and I think I might regret it if I go through life never joining.

[@madleed4727]

I feel fulfilled by just working out. If I wasn’t fulfilled by just working out then no amount of results would make me get up and do that workout.

[@ЕмилДимитров-л1п]

Why there isn't a notification bell to turn on for this channel?

[@orangemancometh]

Right on. This is some Biblical shit.

[@pasiduPriyashan1]

Nice vid. Thanks

[@paulhk2727]

3:16

[@bladelazoe]

Whatever your goals are, focus on growth, the journey of becoming the person who can obtain x goal. You might have a goal of dating/having sex with gorgeous women, but if you focus on the fact that you have sex with gorgeous women, you will be disappointed. Instead, to prevent this, focus on the growth, learning from your mistakes and becoming better. Listen to anyone that's become successful and how they almost ended up nearly suicidal because at that point it's "What now?". Focus on growth.

[@driversseat1707]

Dude needs to get to the point quicker

[@normalguy2511]

Small down feminism and big up John sonmez

[@mauricioalarcon9622]

Correct Feminism helps everyone

[@madleed4727]

Mauricio Alarcon lol what a dumb soy boy

[@mauricioalarcon9622]

@@madleed4727 because youre a troll man

[@madleed4727]

Mauricio Alarcon what feminism when women have more rights than men?

[@mauricioalarcon9622]

@@madleed4727 i am not interested in a convention with you. Google: David Goggins & read White Feminism: From the Suffragettes to Influencers and Who They Leave Behind

[@itpromd1260]

Love your stuff, but slow down lol.

[@patrick2530]

For the algo

[@haritha9433]

With all due respect, since you already have money, why does the course cost so much after the trial period? No offence....

[@BulldogMindsetArchive]

It’s pretty cheap at $30 right now. But the price is going up to $50 a month pretty soon. It’s also not a course.

[@gregsmith5599]

at least it wasn't eat more salad

[@ryderlarry7831]

2:32 I like that😍💋 💝💖❤️

[@livingbeings]

just do the work all excuses are bullshit

[@god5535]

So we have to butter you up for "higher response rate"? How is that a Chad move? If anything, women (and people) like men who get straight to the point instead of unnecessary axx kissing. British people used to be good at it - being blunt and unapologetic before the whole PC culture. Instantly unsubscribed... All the best to your channel!