Life Hacks for INFJs

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@lovewho
@lovewho 7 ай бұрын
Find more exclusive written content on the LoveWho Patreon page: www.patreon.com/lovewho The most recent post happens to be an INFJ one: "INFJs -- A Strangely Structured Mind" Feel free to check it out. Leave me a comment on the post and I'll be sure to respond!
@L17_8
@L17_8 7 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you ❤️ Please repent and turn to him and receive Salvation before it is too late. The end times written about in the Bible are already happening in the world. Jesus is the son of God and he died for our sins on the cross and God raised him from the dead on the third day. Jesus is waiting for you with open arms but time is running out. Please repent and turn to him before it is too late. Accept Jesus into your heart and invite him to be Lord and saviour of your life and confess and believe that Jesus is Lord, that he died for your sins on the cross and that God raised him from the dead. Confess that you are a sinner in need of God's Grace and ask God to forgive you for all your sins through Jesus. Jesus loves you. Nothing can compare to how he loves you. When he hung on that cross, he thought of you. As they tore open his back, he thought of your prayer time with him. As the thorns dug into his head, he thought of you spending time in the word of God. As the spears went into his side, he imagined embracing you in heaven. Jesus longs to be with you.
@PENGUINGIRL1210
@PENGUINGIRL1210 7 ай бұрын
“Listen to your gut, your intuition” Me: *has learned this lesson multiple times from hearing a voice in my head, ignoring it, then feeling stupid or upset but I still continue to ignore my intuition/gut because “I could be wrong”* Don’t be like me, kids. Overcome that self-doubt 😅
@pitulanek
@pitulanek 7 ай бұрын
Do it! I used to doubt it as a teen. Now (very much not a teen) I can vouch for the gut feeling, it IS right. On that note, you can just say "No" to things and people when your intuition tells you to but you can't justify it rationally. You don't have to explain yourself.
@Dani-jo9yr
@Dani-jo9yr 7 ай бұрын
I am ENFJ and feeling this 👀👀👊🙏
@atnoc8738
@atnoc8738 7 ай бұрын
Omg same... i'm always thinking "hmm maybe i'm being too quick to judge and i should give it a try..." Sometimes giving it a chance can deepen your perception of the world and open your vision to some new terrible or awesome patterns 😅
@sagemaster1357
@sagemaster1357 7 ай бұрын
this is me when I know the answer to the question but I don't say it and someone's else answers it.
@lisaoutinen8692
@lisaoutinen8692 7 ай бұрын
This is me though too. And agreed don’t be like this.
@NastassiaEvans
@NastassiaEvans 7 ай бұрын
I have a compassionate way of saying no without even saying it by communicating how I’m being negatively affected. But, I have found it doesn’t matter how you say it with some people, they’ll get angry no matter what because you’re not automatically giving in at that moment even if they themselves have actually said no to you without any compassion. So, don’t beat yourself up if it “backfires”. Some people just can’t take even a little bit of what they’ve been dishing out.
@metametodo
@metametodo 7 ай бұрын
Exactly! And when we face this kind of people, what I learned we need is the will to spare ourselves of this kind of relationship. I'll nourish relationships I have accordingly to my ability to feel respected and valued in it. I cannot afford to have relationships without being true and gentle to them, so if in one of them I'm certainly not getting the respect I (today) know I deserve, I better use my time and abilities differently.
@ryanquick1824
@ryanquick1824 7 ай бұрын
a note... much, if not ALL, of this ALSO applies to us INTJs. - INTJ
@haydarsarac3565
@haydarsarac3565 7 ай бұрын
Hello alone, I am time
@TonySinyaev
@TonySinyaev 7 ай бұрын
Exactly. Video caught me with first one and now I'm watching it whole.
@paulfairchild8942
@paulfairchild8942 7 ай бұрын
As an ETSJ living with an INFJ, these tips are invaluable to her and I. Its very tough for INFJs to find a purpose in this crazy sensory logic-filled (little emotion/deeper meaning) World we live in. For my type (ETSJ), its so much easier
@lovewho
@lovewho 7 ай бұрын
This is interesting. It’s cool to get another type’s take on these things and how they relate to the INFJ. As you might imagine, most of the people watching this video are probably INFJs. It’s nice to see that these things line up with your experience! ~ Nathan
@lovelywizard-i2c
@lovelywizard-i2c 7 ай бұрын
I actually don't have a purpose just a bunch of hobbies that I love to do. Idk just setting my eyes on one thing for the rest of my life sounds like torture.
@justhereforfun5725
@justhereforfun5725 6 ай бұрын
Autocorrect estj
@AlburyShaffer
@AlburyShaffer 7 ай бұрын
These are all lovely insights that every INFJ must internalize at some point in order to be truly happy. Great video as always Nathan
@L17_8
@L17_8 7 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you ❤️ Please repent and turn to him and receive Salvation before it is too late. The end times written about in the Bible are already happening in the world. Jesus is the son of God and he died for our sins on the cross and God raised him from the dead on the third day. Jesus is waiting for you with open arms but time is running out. Please repent and turn to him before it is too late. Accept Jesus into your heart and invite him to be Lord and saviour of your life and confess and believe that Jesus is Lord, that he died for your sins on the cross and that God raised him from the dead. Confess that you are a sinner in need of God's Grace and ask God to forgive you for all your sins through Jesus. Jesus loves you. Nothing can compare to how he loves you. When he hung on that cross, he thought of you. As they tore open his back, he thought of your prayer time with him. As the thorns dug into his head, he thought of you spending time in the word of God. As the spears went into his side, he imagined embracing you in heaven. Jesus longs to be with you.
@tinamitchell7496
@tinamitchell7496 7 ай бұрын
I'm having a go at setting boundaries at work. I've always despised the line 'Its not my job.' (makes my skin crawl), but I needed to achieve a similar effect, so came up with 'that's not my area of responsibility, perhaps someone in XYZ team can help you with that.' It's been a month and I'm pretty proud I've managed to use it successfully a number of times, with zero backlash. Yay Me!!!
@lovewho
@lovewho 7 ай бұрын
It’s amazing how much of a difference stock phrases make. You can craft them to be perfectly fitting for how you speak or how the people you’re speaking to will react to them ~ Nathan
@tinamitchell7496
@tinamitchell7496 7 ай бұрын
Oh, and now since discovering what it means to be INFJ, I understand why I have such a visceral loathing of 'it's not my job'. The 'visceral' effect itself comes from instinct, and the idea of that kind of blunt, shallow rejection of need from a work colleague is clearly at odds with INFJ selflessness.
@ShawnDavid91
@ShawnDavid91 5 ай бұрын
Noted 📝 and going in the stock "compassion NO!" bank. Thanks
@lunarspine
@lunarspine 3 ай бұрын
I always make a point of directing someone's attention anywhere else than me when I want to withdraw from a setting; not because I fear their reacts per se, but because it would be easier to manage relationships that way. Plus I would be technically blameless no matter what happens (though I doubt my consciousness would just let me go), unless that person wants things to get "personal."
@oddefy
@oddefy 7 ай бұрын
This man is a bloody genius
@e.l.2734
@e.l.2734 7 ай бұрын
Keep the two-ways limited, also in distance! Weight out the cost of each relationship and keep a distance where you feel safe.
@pitulanek
@pitulanek 7 ай бұрын
Even though I now understand that I'm an INFJ and it's sort of specific to us to spot the patterns, it still drives me mad that others don't. How? They are THERE! I know, I know, I'm biased by the way my brain functions, but a lot of the time it seems like pattern recognition (and then drawing conclusions from that, rearranging my life and work to function better, etc.) takes up 95% of my brain's capacity, meanwhile others seem to just completely skip this. Like, utterly. Unbelievable.
@pitulanek
@pitulanek 7 ай бұрын
​@@Ekolite I can spot quality with no effort at all. I'll tell good wool or silk from a mile off. I can tell if a cotton knit has polyester in it even if it's just a few per cent. I'll easily tell if a piece of furniture is solid wood or veneer-covered. I can very easily tell crystal from regular glass. It might not sound like pattern recognition but I think it is. From more typically pattern related things I'm very good with words and grammar. I come up with etymology for words and then when I check, it turns out I was correct. Grammar is just maths, it makes sense. And when it doesn't, it doesn't, but it still follows a pattern. (Both in foreign languages and my native one.)
@metametodo
@metametodo 7 ай бұрын
Have you noticed how both feel like pattern recognition habilities that fit well in Ni, but not so much for the rationale that belongs to concrete logical understanding of functions like Te? Neither recognizing fake content nor low quality furniture is something that can be resolved with a single question, both need more abstraction, and more patterns involved in the equation. I like how this pattern recognition we excel can be very useful in scientific thinking, but mostly because it's aware of broad, complex patterns, the very kind that is needed to understand well all kinds of human and social complexities. Etymology itself is very logical, almost like math. However it has more of a chaotic human flavour on it 😉
@lovelywizard-i2c
@lovelywizard-i2c 7 ай бұрын
I am really disappointed by people I thought would be good at pattern recognition when they can't even recognise the basic ones which doesn't need intuition.
@shamrous7368
@shamrous7368 4 ай бұрын
@@pitulanek Well to be fair, spotting patterns about silk or wool seems more like Si spot patterns, not Ni. Ni more likely spot "something's off" when they hear someone speaking about theories or ideas, concepts. Si is not only about getting comfort and knowing history of your life in details but also about how you feel the reality itself. And also SiFe is more likely to spot a lie/weird twitches of the human bodies than for NiFe. Ni is more detached from reality, from presence, so it's not easy for Ni to spot something that happening with objects, with materials, but easy to spot some holes in theories and simulated situations, like in games! Actually for Ni it's super easy to accept some weird-abstracted realities and navigate through it while Si will stand in confusion. Ni is also may be very bias since it's perception in idealistic world that is a copy of the real world, while Si is more grounded to the real world and dependent from it. So maybe it's true that Ni can spot some patterns in real life but it goes from building that patterns inside Ni's head
@TheBirdOnTheTree
@TheBirdOnTheTree 7 ай бұрын
„I have to think about it for two days“ even for smaller things, is my new answer if someone asks me something that I‘m not sure if I‘m on board. That takes the pressure off, gives me time to think about it, weather it‘s a good idea or not…. I hope that this will help someone else too…
@trinaq
@trinaq 7 ай бұрын
Thanks so much for this list, Nathan. You definitely called me out on spending ten-fifteen minutes procrastinating on tasks, and then getting the work done in five minutes flat.
@serban2139
@serban2139 7 ай бұрын
So basically change nothing, gotcha..
@YouilAushana
@YouilAushana 7 ай бұрын
Well Fe, we gotta hurt people sometimes.
@lovelywizard-i2c
@lovelywizard-i2c 7 ай бұрын
It makes me feel so guilty and then selfish but the again.... I have accepted myself as selfish now!
@rahimbrown2265
@rahimbrown2265 6 ай бұрын
INFJ - Whiny over-thinkers that suck at making decisions. 👎
@jacquelineshukla919
@jacquelineshukla919 7 ай бұрын
Spot on, as always! I agree with all of these points. As an INFJ who is approaching 60, I have figured out most of these points over my lifetime, and they are valuable for INFJs of all ages.
@lovewho
@lovewho 7 ай бұрын
Hard/earned wisdom! ~ Nathan
@PriHL
@PriHL 7 ай бұрын
Ahhh the joys of ALONE shopping! But I will still talk extensively with random strangers during those shopping trips. My shopping, my rules :) Exactly, people should earn our trust and I'll observe over an extensive period of time to see if you deserve it, so count yourself lucky if you have my trust and don't do stupid shit to throw it all away because that's going to be irreparable. Good news is that with experience the in the moment reactions just happen and you can't prepare for everything anyway, those reactions should come from a place of confidence and good boundaries. Well, at least my reactions mostly don't backfire, they actually bring balance to what could turn into an unequal relation. Some people are irreformable though, so they're best avoided. We can be sociable and nice but also quite direct and blunt, so people need to know us well to know we're not always one or the other way. Same for ISFJs.
@Ganjaman53
@Ganjaman53 7 ай бұрын
2:13 true,during my exam time i memorize 50% in last 10% time but still need 100% of the time for that
@Bynbmq
@Bynbmq 6 ай бұрын
About the third point, very funny because my (entj) brother would study a day before a test in limited hours and get it done, while me (infj) when I tried his way I got so stressed, I really needed more time.
@sysf9772
@sysf9772 7 ай бұрын
Make a part 2 of this video because it is very helpful ❤
@mandydavis7150
@mandydavis7150 7 ай бұрын
I am intj but relate to this list very much
@tinamitchell7496
@tinamitchell7496 7 ай бұрын
We relate will to one another so that is not surprising to me at all. My INTJ male friend and I are almost mirrors of one another. Opposite, but identical at the same time.
@justaperson1123
@justaperson1123 7 ай бұрын
Not surprising. It's very general
@punkbunnee9558
@punkbunnee9558 7 ай бұрын
Excellent advice!! Many of these tips are things I've practiced for years now... but, oh, if only I had known these things sooner in life! 😅😊 BTW - stock phrases: 1. When you need to say "not today", try giving two options for other times. For example: "Would 3:30pm on Tuesday work for you? I will also be available at 2pm on Wednesday". 2. "I'd like to revisit this when a)my/our situation is better, b) I'm in a better headspace c) we there are fewer distractions. I want to be sure we give it the time/energy/focus level it deserves". 3. "Your consideration is appreciated! But, no, thank you". 4. "As soon as the mothership communicates eminent arrival, I'll let you know straightaway so we can do the thing you're suggesting before I go home".
@kymelatejasi
@kymelatejasi 7 ай бұрын
I knew something was off about a new manager the moment she walked behind the counter her first day. Didn't find out why for a couple of weeks!
@shro_okee
@shro_okee 7 ай бұрын
Your knowledge is impeccable, needed to be said
@lovewho
@lovewho 7 ай бұрын
I appreciate this a great deal ~ Nathan
@FarawayWanderer-sr5xf
@FarawayWanderer-sr5xf 7 ай бұрын
Recently typed as an INFJ while attending job interviews, 0:18 is very true. Whenever I listened to my gut feelings, things turned out better, but whenever I dint, it was not so good. My Gut feeling is one thing I have always trusted from my childhood.
@RosenRotInk
@RosenRotInk 3 ай бұрын
Spot on! I'm a lucky INFJ in home office. My boss always sais to me: I don't care when you do the work, more important is that it is done.
@endorphinacreative5783
@endorphinacreative5783 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video. You are a gem.
@lovewho
@lovewho 7 ай бұрын
Hope you enjoyed it! ~ Nathan
@endorphinacreative5783
@endorphinacreative5783 7 ай бұрын
@@lovewho Would you ever consider offering a Training Course on the 16 Personalities?
@Jornanfuentes
@Jornanfuentes 7 ай бұрын
I'm male INFJ teenager who it's very competitive and afraid of being called: "gay" (yet that's what has being making me more succesful)
@knightofyourlife
@knightofyourlife 7 ай бұрын
I very much appreciated this hack list. Thank you.
@Dani-jo9yr
@Dani-jo9yr 7 ай бұрын
Enfj and feeling this 👀👊🙏
@wiserthanyou9014
@wiserthanyou9014 Ай бұрын
Cute
@jaredberensen4329
@jaredberensen4329 7 ай бұрын
Video idea - please put a like if you also think this is a good idea for his content. Can you make a video like "how to handle (mbti profile) as a (mbti profile)? e.g. "how to handle an ENTJ as an INFJ?"
@Name.-vw8sd
@Name.-vw8sd 7 ай бұрын
- Are intjs just a relative small number of people with apophenia - can you explain the outer perception of the intj - what is the general aesthetic of the intj - what are some hobbies that an intj would do - explain the intj child,teen,to adult - why would someone relate to a character despite their personality type I can relate a lot to Batman (2022) - mbti part 2 what is it and is it good
@solarisan_
@solarisan_ 7 ай бұрын
Most people relate to characters because they focus on surface level information - the ‘what’ aspect. What you do, say, wear. There is a smaller portion who focus on ‘how’- that gets you somewhat closer to the truth (but not quite there). A super small circle pay attention to ‘why’. Which allows for full information integration and understanding cognitive process that translates into personality type. Technically, you can relate to any fictional character regardless of type if you find that character to have other things in common with you like: approach, motivation, communication style. Explaining aesthetics and hobby triggers mind association and conditions the mind to believe in that link and that link only without checking for context. Also, people use words interchangeably. So, unless you can find the true meaning of the words and/or actions, you may “attach” personal meaning and context to things and get further from the truth. There are certain things that you can/should consider = words that are connected to the ‘why’ of cognition. Ni - abstract reasoning, depth of ideas. Te - metrics, hierarchy, systems. Fi - internal sensitivity. Se - width of sensory experience. Internal functions are about depth when it comes to processing information. External ones are concerned with width. Hope this helps.
@lovelywizard-i2c
@lovelywizard-i2c 7 ай бұрын
"Your Gut Is Actually Your Head - So Listen To It." I was really getting stressed because my intuition was working on a regular mental level everyday. I literally use it even when I need my Se. Hence the tripping on air- I was worried about my physical signs because they haven't come in like 3 years or so. Then again nothing tragic or physically dangerous has happened after that. I thought I lost my intuition because of depression. But it wasn't the case... How can that even be when NI-TI are overacting bruuh 😂
@justinwhite2725
@justinwhite2725 7 ай бұрын
Thanks for your video about a year ago that explains how INFJs often mostype as INTP. Went most of my life thinkong i was INTP but i knew INTPs and i was a bit different than them. Eg: im an eneageamic 9, most intps are 5s. 9 definitely more aligns with INFJ and the more i learn about INFJ the more accurate that seems of me.
@ayesha_shah9
@ayesha_shah9 7 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much for making all this content. Its really helpful ❣
@grumpyschnauzer
@grumpyschnauzer 7 ай бұрын
Perfect timing... thanks for the pep talk!!
@kristinevaciete
@kristinevaciete 7 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@sagemaster1357
@sagemaster1357 7 ай бұрын
I agree with the 3rd option because as someone who's in university and has other hobbies, It's hard to keep track of what's important or priorities. I even made daily sedulous but sometimes I don't follow through it.
@lovelywizard-i2c
@lovelywizard-i2c 7 ай бұрын
I have been having difficulties with time management as well because when I schedule something I never feel like doing that. Even after observation there is never an exact time for me to do a certain thing. Guess I just have to list what needs to be done and do whatever feel good at any time. It still feels sad tho-
@sagemaster1357
@sagemaster1357 7 ай бұрын
@@lovelywizard-i2c yeah and most of the time, I just go with the flow on what I feel like doing.
@Esme_Grey
@Esme_Grey 7 ай бұрын
Beautiful. Thank you very much!
@raycaster4398
@raycaster4398 7 ай бұрын
As an INFJ, I need the girlfriend, and a guy friend (as confidant). That's it.
@wiserthanyou9014
@wiserthanyou9014 Ай бұрын
As an infj i need a gun
@mokari9268
@mokari9268 7 ай бұрын
Sir, I have had the pleasure of meeting an irl INTP, very rad person. I would have to say you are another :D
@ChantelStays
@ChantelStays 7 ай бұрын
This was SO relatable. Good job! 🔥 I definitely agree with everything. - I love note 3... This explains my thinking and work process.
@atnoc8738
@atnoc8738 7 ай бұрын
Thank you, i needed this.
@greenash_mohin
@greenash_mohin 5 ай бұрын
Incredibly insightful and useful. It's reassuring to hear them out loud in such plain, direct words so the negative, judging voice in my head is actually paying attention. Thank you ! ❤
@MVVV3.3T1V
@MVVV3.3T1V 7 ай бұрын
That is such a useful video, thank you so much🫶🏻
@PaulaDwyer-HTCT2
@PaulaDwyer-HTCT2 2 ай бұрын
Tip number 3 is very helpful!
@LizMedina-f8r
@LizMedina-f8r 7 ай бұрын
Thank you!! - I'll go with my gut and exercise remembering these practical suggestions more often. P.s. About seven more videos like these would be very much appreciated!
@jaredberensen4329
@jaredberensen4329 7 ай бұрын
Fantastic video and thumbnail art! #3 was especially good for me. All my life I have always been goal oriented and really good at it. However, I have accomplished 15% of it. It is hard being in fitness and marketing where you live by SMART goal principle, where the T is Time-bound! But the best visions and goals I have fulfilled looking back is whenI didn't force a timetable on myself. My wife knows that for her honey-do projects she says when she would like it by and I pick a day I will do it. I'll think about it half the day then do it in one hour lol.
@christineherrmann205
@christineherrmann205 7 ай бұрын
I actually found my results from my most recent test that suggested, after 30 years testing as an ENFJ, I was now an INFJ. So I was curious about the hacks; they definitely apply as things I've tried to add to life. I'm not sure if they're only good for INFJ, though. 😂
@catherinedavidson7145
@catherinedavidson7145 7 ай бұрын
My husband, "I hate leaving you alone while I do X." Me, "Please, leave me alone!"
@SPR-ITE
@SPR-ITE 7 ай бұрын
You’re awesome❤
@aekorfker
@aekorfker 7 ай бұрын
Gold!
@Mr-Raptor
@Mr-Raptor 7 ай бұрын
nahhh the merch is all "mug mug" lmao
@Jordan4053
@Jordan4053 7 ай бұрын
Love your videos dude, what MBTI books would you personally recommend? I've been learning MBTI by typing my whole family, and by going back into old fictional series, films and books, after looking at the characters personality types before hand.. I definitely need some solid MBTI theory, prefferabley in book form. ☯️ peace
@Missdovanova
@Missdovanova 3 ай бұрын
Thanks nathan 💜 🙌
@Yuri-nc9vl
@Yuri-nc9vl 7 ай бұрын
Just wonder INFJs are more predisposed to ADHD? I'm INFJ and have ADHD that's why I'm asking...btw You are 100% right about spotting patterns.
@katdat
@katdat 7 ай бұрын
I’m inclined to agree. Also an INFJ with ADHD, and while the type seems to align more with ASD from what I’ve looked into, there’s a handful of us with ADHD as well. Some will say it’s counterintuitive, and that ADHD is more in align with high Ne types, which does seem to ring true, but that’s kind of how I feel. Like a walking contradiction, fighting the good fight to achieve my goals 😂 Nice to meet a like minded person
@Lu-ot8hs
@Lu-ot8hs 7 ай бұрын
Unconscious focused INFJ's
@kyerinn
@kyerinn 7 ай бұрын
I’m an INFJ who doesn’t have ADHD. I do have Anxiety though and it does seem like a lot of us do.
@Yuri-nc9vl
@Yuri-nc9vl 7 ай бұрын
@@kyerinn You are right about anxiety...all of INFJ I know have anxiety
@Lu-ot8hs
@Lu-ot8hs 7 ай бұрын
I send support and love especially to Libra INFJ's 😭 I hope you guys are doing well 🙏❣
@midnightsky3782
@midnightsky3782 7 ай бұрын
I feel like I have lost touch with my intuition. I start thinking of multiple perspectives and possibilities and my intuition gets lost somewhere in between. Yep, constantly overanalyzing and I feel indifferent about all of it after a while. How do I get more in touch with my intuition?
@metametodo
@metametodo 7 ай бұрын
On one hand, I'm a terrible person to help you with this, as this was the kind of issue that I had the most hardship to face and do better, so I still fail at the same steps sometimes. On the other hand, the fact that I've faced this struggle constantly for more than a decade makes me very aware of this, and understanding of many details of this struggle. So, I recognise your issues as similar as the kind I've faced some years ago. Not only hardship in getting in touch with intuitions, this seems like hardship in getting in touch with your actual feelings. Being able to see multiple perspectives is great, powerful and enriching. But the only perspective that will make you see meaning in things, is your perspective. Your values go beyond just harmonizing these perspectives, in there there's what makes you feel better, happy, meaningful. For me, the things that truly have meaning, are able to get me off from being worried about every single person and value on the room and the city. True meaning makes me truly forget these things, and I get sick when so much worrying get in my head about doing the (socially) right thing, literally sick, depressive. When I'm happy and healthy, I'm able to see the values I have towards things in front of me, while also being very sensitive to these multiple perspectives. But, importantly: they NEVER take the front seat. They're important to me, but they must not override me. Because when they do take over, what I feel is what you describe. I feel indifferent, I don't have a why to do stuff. I have understanding of a lot, but *no reason to be*. It's not enough for me to do what is right, and correct to others. This doesn't sustain as fuel for my existence. Real fuel needs to be my own feelings. Connection with my own soul. And intuition is the next step. I believe a way to describe it is: it's your feelings and experience whispering on your ears stuff. Whispering whatever may be. But getting in touch with intuition is something that came later to me, I think in order to hear the voice of intuition, you need to acknowledge the power and to respect the rightful position our feelings have in our lives. As you give reason and logic a side role, you give space to hear what you're feeling, what is your perspective, among that many others. Your perspective is just one more. But it's just as special, no one can desire, defend, value things in your life as you may do.
@midnightsky3782
@midnightsky3782 7 ай бұрын
@@metametodo Thanks for sharing your perspective (the irony lol). What you’ve mentioned is true, especially getting in touch with your feelings. There is a disconnect from my emotions and feelings, and being around people and too long further exhausts my brain. So, that’s something to work on. In case of intuition, it could be a byproduct of being attuned to your feelings and values. Hopefully, I’ll reach a stage wherein my intuition does not get convoluted due to my internal debates.
@jupeter24
@jupeter24 7 ай бұрын
How do you say "No" fellow INFJ's ? Any stock phrases. "I don't think I can do that at this time..."
@tinamitchell7496
@tinamitchell7496 7 ай бұрын
I'm having a go at setting boundaries at work. I've always despised the line 'Its not my job.' (makes my skin crawl), but I needed to achieve a similar effect, so came up with 'that's not my area of responsibility, perhaps someone in XYZ team can help you with that.' It's been a month and I'm pretty proud I've managed to use it successfully a number of times, with zero backlash. Yay Me!!!
@jupeter24
@jupeter24 7 ай бұрын
@@tinamitchell7496 thank you for your idea!!
@tinamitchell7496
@tinamitchell7496 7 ай бұрын
@@jupeter24 Best of luck!!! Not an easy thing for us to do esp if it is something we have a lot of knowledge and experience in. I'm also resolved to reducing the number of fu.c.ks I have available to give away over things I don't have control over (reducing unnecessary frustration) and lastly, one from my management mentor (an INTJ), allowing people to make bad decisions so they can learn from them, rather than my usual desire to not want to see others fail.
@paulblart5358
@paulblart5358 7 ай бұрын
How are these life hacks? I already do them. xD
@whitneygerbode3362
@whitneygerbode3362 5 ай бұрын
I was going over some details about the French crown in England and I was thinking maybe it was the beginning of communism.
@JesterOfDestiny
@JesterOfDestiny 7 ай бұрын
As someone who has worked with INFJs, I can confirm that they're horrendous with deadlines.
@pitulanek
@pitulanek 7 ай бұрын
Curious, what do you mean? Did they completely miss them? Bcs I might procrastinate and then have to rush like hell or pull an all-nighter or do something unhealthy and ridiculous but I'm NOT missing that deadline. So if you are presented with the fruit of my work you would have no idea how much anxiety I've kust potentially put myself through. If you are my husband and you had to watch me scramble, you might struggle ;) (I don't do it daily, but occasionally it does happen.)
@ninal309
@ninal309 7 ай бұрын
@@pitulanekThis is the reason why I'm trying to improve my worst functions, it can be so stressful.. and they can be improved, when you get used to it
@JesterOfDestiny
@JesterOfDestiny 7 ай бұрын
@@pitulanek It's just an endless cycle of "I'll do it this weekend! - sent last weekend." It seems like they're more interested in convincing me that they care about the project than actually getting results. Edit: Oh, and I have seen people leave things for the last moment and it's often very obvious they rushed it.
@lovelywizard-i2c
@lovelywizard-i2c 7 ай бұрын
When there is deadline there is no purpose.... I am not just saying it anyway I won't be able to do something with a deadline it's so hard.
@pitulanek
@pitulanek 7 ай бұрын
@@JesterOfDestiny Hmm, I'm not really sure that's an INFJ quality as much as just poor work ethics ;)
@average_student0
@average_student0 7 ай бұрын
Can you do a video about which MBTI is most likely to be an apathetic and give an examples or portrays of characters in each MBTI that can be considered or a best example of an apathetic
@miffyn1737
@miffyn1737 7 ай бұрын
Hi im not sure if im infj, but id like to know how can we know it's overthinking or intuition?
@whitneygerbode3362
@whitneygerbode3362 6 ай бұрын
Found myself
@rahimbrown2265
@rahimbrown2265 6 ай бұрын
We need more videos on the other 15 types. INFJs are getting way too much attention! They are boring AF!
@Lu-ot8hs
@Lu-ot8hs 7 ай бұрын
People are finally seeing how much overrated Ni actually is ....
@fraserdab
@fraserdab 7 ай бұрын
first
@L17_8
@L17_8 7 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you ❤️ Please repent and turn to him and receive Salvation before it is too late. The end times written about in the Bible are already happening in the world. Jesus is the son of God and he died for our sins on the cross and God raised him from the dead on the third day. Jesus is waiting for you with open arms but time is running out. Please repent and turn to him before it is too late. Accept Jesus into your heart and invite him to be Lord and saviour of your life and confess and believe that Jesus is Lord, that he died for your sins on the cross and that God raised him from the dead. Confess that you are a sinner in need of God's Grace and ask God to forgive you for all your sins through Jesus. Jesus loves you. Nothing can compare to how he loves you. When he hung on that cross, he thought of you. As they tore open his back, he thought of your prayer time with him. As the thorns dug into his head, he thought of you spending time in the word of God. As the spears went into his side, he imagined embracing you in heaven. Jesus longs to be with you.
@zzc8505
@zzc8505 7 ай бұрын
Don’t profane Christianity by posting these I’d!0tic impersonal stock phrases on sites/comment sections not only completely unsuitable for proselytizing, but also potentially conducive to profaning God/Christ.
@itsuochiro8426
@itsuochiro8426 7 ай бұрын
Finally someone talking about the third tip! 🥲😄 So true.
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