Life Has Been Very Hard Lately

Ernest W. Stokes,Jr. (Mr. Bucky) 9-21-1938 7-7-2019

[@theresabollman8061]

We grieved with her then, and we grieve for her now...may they rest in peace with Jesus for eternity.

[@hannahsutherland8170]

In the Bible, God promises that his Son Christ Jesus will call all those to wake up to a life of resurrection here on earth. There righteous and unrighteous. Such good news.

[@Starlightskipper]

Amen

[@selenahadlow9700]

😭😭😭so very sorry

[@lilactreehouse]

Phyllis, you would be so proud of your son who has taken the reigns of your channel and doing a wonderful job. You are missed by many.

[@sharonmores8697]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ miss you

[@StinkyButton]

Miss Phyllis is with Mr. Bucky and her daughter now. Rest In Peace beautiful lady. We love you forever.

[@debbiedejohn1069]

StinkyButton Lord have Mercy..🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️

[@MxSelenite]

What happened to her daughter? :(

[@windhorse4straveler647]

@@MxSelenite Her daughter died of lupus. I can't remember which video they talked about it.

[@brens2crazy4pugs]

Her daughter passed away too?

[@StinkyButton]

Danielle Selenite I believe she died as the result of a car accident. Miss Phyllis mentioned her daughter in a few videos.

[@nanaobx]

Phyllis and Mr Bucky...two of the most precious people to grace earth and now heaven. Sorely missed by all of us.

[@jennyj5687]

I THINK FIGHTING HER SICKNESS, AND MISSING MR. BUCKY WAS TOO MUCH FOR HER...MAY GOD PREPARE A RESTING PLACE FOR THIS SWEET SOUL, AND MR. BUCKY.

[@Moore2Lifepantrylovinprepper]

I have to agree. She is at peace now

[@mamabear8879]

This is a real life love story. When one goes, the other follows shortly after.

[@jojo-ir9um]

Precious lady.

[@gratitude1181]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@gratitude1181]

@@janetbrowning9089 Awww you touched my & I send my love & prayers to you my friend You & you hubby will together again joyful in heaven one day ❤🙏🏿❤

[@SusieSynth]

This woman was incredibly sincere and beautiful. A true Christian and they are both together now. Love you always 🌹

[@purpleprincessang6812]

Yes!! Amen!!!! Beautiful person and Mr.Bucky!!!💘🙏😥

[@myinfocla9521]

I’m new hear. What happened to this nice lady? She passed away?

[@AnthropoidOne]

@@myinfocla9521 last month.

[@kellykeller9640]

I've read one of her books called, GOING UP...it's her experience of God taking her up in the spirit to heaven a few times...she saw her daughter there...it's a must read and can be read in one sitting...It gave me much happiness that she is finally there to stay...I think one of Mr.Bucky books he talked about going up in the spirit also...they can be found on Amazon and only cost $5.99...

[@tarras3292]

Susie Synth oh my goodness I have subscribed to her channel and when did she pass, prayers for her and her family 💞💞🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@NYCRhythm]

You are loved more than you’ll ever know, Mrs. Phyllis.

[@scotishcovenanters]

So loved is right! I don't think you have any idea how unique you are, Phyllis. I know you don't realize it because otherwise you wouldn't be such a beautifully humble, godly woman. I can hardly wait to ask Jesus, face to face, if I could meet you on the New Earth--prepared for all those who love God and place their faith only in Him--those who had faith before the cross, and all those with faith after the cross and who in Him alone, not their own goodness to get to heaven. ("Abraham was saved by faith.") You are just precious, smart, talented and the kindest lady ever.

[@lisareaume3857]

@@scotishcovenanters I could NOT have put it any better!

[@honeyloujohnsonson8570]

So sorry for your loss. RIP MR Bucky.

[@bonnieoliver427]

@ scotishcovernes WELL SAID PERFECTLY SAID... I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER.... YOU NAILED IT AND THANK YOU FOR IT... SHE'S THE MOST KINDHEARTED, HUMBLE PERSON WITH A HEART OF GOLD, AND HER LOVE FOR OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR SHINES THROUGH!! I JUST LOVE HER... I'M WORRIED ABOUT HER BEING ALONE Y'ALL... ESEP FACING CHEMO AND ALL ... ID TAKE CARE OF HER IF I LIVED CLOSER I SWEAR IT WOULD BE MY HONOR TO DO SO......GOD BLESS HER!!

[@bonnieoliver427]

@ scotishcovernes WELL SAID PERFECTLY SAID... I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER.... YOU NAILED IT AND THANK YOU FOR IT... SHE'S THE MOST KINDHEARTED, HUMBLE PERSON WITH A HEART OF GOLD, AND HER LOVE FOR OUR LORD AND SAVIOUR SHINES THROUGH!! I JUST LOVE HER... I'M WORRIED ABOUT HER BEING ALONE Y'ALL... ESEP FACING CHEMO AND ALL ... ID TAKE CARE OF HER IF I LIVED CLOSER I SWEAR IT WOULD BE MY HONOR TO DO SO......GOD BLESS HER!!

[@PassionFlower4599]

This breaks my heart as much as it did when I first watched it. But I am so glad we can still spend time with Phyllis and Mr Bucky here. I adored both lovely people and their loving outlook and I loved her cooking and her thoughts on general life and how to be a bit wiser. I really do miss her gentle company. Thank you for not allowing your beloved dad and mom to disappear. They will hopefully always be alive here as they will always be in our hearts

[@texastiger1210]

Rest In Peace Ms. Phyllis. Can’t believe you and Mr. Bucky died 6 months apart. I will miss you terribly.

[@belgiumgirl8970]

Jumpybacon 1 so terribly sad...they were so connected that their passing was only months apart🙁 their together with Renee....🙏

[@007Vixenful]

I just watched her sons video. So very sad....She wasn't the same without him, they needed to be together in heaven ❤

[@zeenatmustapha2240]

I 😢😢 looking at this video she was a sweet lady still got her recipes in my phone Mr Bucky was so loved

[@ingenunis5003]

Jumpybacon 1 ❤️😩

[@TFCFMINNISTRY12]

The same happened with my parents.They were married for more than 50 years. They were two great people.

[@deniseheitz9208]

Every time I see a box of Whitman's Sampler, I'll smile and think of Mr Bucky! My deepest sympathy.

[@ancientsgate]

RIP Mr Bucky. You were loved, you were blessed, and now you're with your God. Life is good. Eternal life is even better.

[@dayumdave2959]

Such a bittersweet moment as I watch this now...bitter because this sweet lady has left us but sweet because she is again with Mr. Bucky! Thank you Ms. Phyllis for sharing your heart with the world. May you rest in Peace and forever rise in Glory. 🙏

[@theajones6080]

Bless you, your words are lovely.

[@aujkalenic4203]

Oh my dear Phyllis, my heart is so grieving with you. I thank Jesus that He welcomed Mr Buckey to our forever home. One day we will meet in that beautiful place. Christ is our blessed hope. Heal Your precious daughter Father God, God's blessings sent and Love!

[@anne-marietruax6037]

I am very sorry for your lose.Please take care of yourself,You are loved by many

[@lorraine3048]

God bless you sweetie. I'm sooo sorry for your loss 😔I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers 🙏💖

[@beverlyeversole9524]

I am so sorry Miss Phyllis for your lose, so sorry to hear this right now for you, Jesus will be with you, am lose with words, Be praying for you sweetheart. Lord be with her amen

[@oracleofdelphi-4059]

When I saw the thumbnail my heart sank. Oh Ms Phyllis, I'm so so sorry.

[@mysticalheart8107]

Mr. Bucky has such a beautiful soul; He loved his Jesus, now they are together forever. Alleluia!

[@barbaratankersley7117]

I remember this Sad then and sad now And then she passed I do miss them both

[@robinfrady5257]

On to Higher Ground Mr. Bucky. May you find comfort in your memories Phyllis. May God wrap his arms around your sweet soul.

[@karenshepard4984]

Oh Mrs. Phyllis I know there's nothing I can say to ease your pain. Mr. Bucky was a good and faithful servant of the Lord. May the Lord bless you with peace, comfort and healing.

[@badams2927]

If you haven't seen Phyllis video titled "Our Story" please go and view it, it's a true love story and shows how wonderful Mr Bucky was and how much he loved his wife.

[@onebzbzbee]

I watched it today. It truly put my marriage woes into perspective. I want Ms. Phyllis and Mr. Buckie's kind of love♡

[@nadarawortham2901]

B Adams do you know her mailing address. I have a card I want to send her and I can not find the address.

[@lizo2986]

@@nadarawortham2901 I was also wondering how to send her a card and if she has a Box Number to send it to? This has turned out to be such a terrible and tragic year for her.

[@SageTheRage]

@@lizo2986 PLS HELP ME TO PASS ALONG TO OTHERS WHO ASK. I ALSO POSTED IT IN MY COMMENT BOX BUT AM TRYING TO ANS. THOSE WHO ASK WHO MISS MY POST. THX, SAGE Phyllis R. Stokes 3007 Bridge St. Saint Matthews, SC. 29135-1468 *USA (if you are mailing outside of the United States)

[@roxyfur]

I was thinking the same thing, it really shows how much love they had for each other and their family and friends. Another favorite is "A Little Disagreement" Sweet hilarity ensues.

[@daveanddeb5629]

You two are a wonderful example of Christian love. God bless you Phyllis. Mr. Bucky was loved by many people!

[@deleneyzelle4879]

Hi Phyllis. So sad about Mr Buckly. You have been in my thoughts so much. Wondering how you were getting on after your diagnosis and operations. Now you still have chemo to go through. I do hope you have friends and family to help you through that. You will continue being in my thoughts and looking forward to having you back and watching your videos. Best wishes Delene from South Africa

[@robinnehls8057]

Oh Phyllis was not prepared to hear this sad, sad, news. Just watched the video A Shave and A Haircut. We will miss him. You couldnt have married a nicer man. God bless you and your family.

[@SusanRandt]

RIP Mr. Bucky, peace be with you Phyliss, I pray for you every night.

[@jimthornberry6774]

She passed away about 6 months later. God bless them, the lord has 2 more sitting right beside him at his table. I'm sure of it, 2 genuine, honest, good people . What a loss for humanity, not to many good people like this anymore. Rest in peace Mr.Bucky and lovely Phyllis. My heart is heavy with sorrow.

[@2lipz4eyez]

I couldn't have said it better. I just started watching her videos a few days ago and I sensed the beauty, grace and kindness in her. She was down to earth and felt like I'd known her all my life. What a beautiful soul.

[@kathyblount7477]

I'm Was So Deeply Sorrowed To Hear About Mr. Bucky And Miss Phyllis Passing I Loved Mostly All Her Recipes And Have Cooked A Few Them My Sincere Deepest Condolences To Y'all Family Members May You Both Rest In Heavenly Peace !

[@vickijohnson6125]

Rest in peace Ms Phyllis and Mr Bucky 🙏. I found them recently and have enjoyed every post. Thank you for continuing their legacy. Sincerely, Vicki J.

[@TwentyThree-23]

This is VERY painful to watch. I send you love and healing and I'm very sorry.

[@SUPERNOVA-sunrise]

😔💔

[@loriholman6125]

💜

[@nicoliarmstead9487]

Hello, Ms.Phyllis. I actually discovered Mr. Bucky's channel this morning July 20, 2019. The first vid was on Angels and the other on how he got his nicknames. I also took the time to view some of the comments as others told of how much they had learned from him. I had truly decided today that I would take time to watch all his vids. Because one subscriber had been taught from his words of wisdom to write down their prayers in a book and leave it open. For the Angels would carry the messsge to the throne of God. Well that sparked my interest in wanting to know more secret nuggets for my christian growth. Well here I am agian tonight looking at christian videos and your vid on almond/ garlic string bean recipe pops up. By the way thanks for the recipe I will try it , I love string beans. .... .. I am writing as someone who has just been introduced to an amazing family by the Holy Spirit. God does remarkable things all the time. And it is not by coincidence that the father gave me such a gift / blessing. I do not take this moment in time for granted. So I will pray, Lord give my sister peace. Remind her that you are there with her. And that she can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens her. Holy Spirit strengthen her where she is weak and allow her to press on supernaturally. Allow this time of moaning to be understood and respected by others. Keep her in your arms dear Father and love on her as never before. Lord bring her joy in the memories and what lies ahead. I thank you for being her first love. Therefore we are confident she shall not want for no good thing. Shine your face upon her and grant her peace. You are loved Ms. Phyllis. Victory

[@elainecox8398]

Praying for you.

[@bettylane6982]

Q

[@babcic900]

Rev 21:4 ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” God bless you, dear Phyllis. May the knowledge of our Lord’s unfailing and inestimable love for you be ever-present in your mind and heart. Big hugs, darling Sister in Christ. Praying for you every day. Xoxo

[@craftyme5348]

So sorry Miss Phyllis. My heart breaks for you. We will miss Mr. Buckey's sweet smile and gentle nature.

[@JOS4015]

Take care of yourself sweet lady.

[@marilynwright6204]

heartbreaking news, we all feel your pain. Mr Bucky was such a gentle sweet soul as are you. I love you and pray for your strength.

[@Mrs.TJTaylor]

He went ahead to make a place for her.

[@mcc9040]

I was thinking the same thing ~

[@nancyletteer3170]

Oh Miss Phyllis I never expected to hear this. My heart goes out to you. He was a wonderful, wonderful man. I always loved his stories, especially the Whitman's Sample my favorite story. God Bless you my prayers are with you.

[@laurenstone6420]

Phyllis you are the sweetest most authentic person. Your a beautiful soul and Mr. Buckey is at peace. Please rest and take care of yourself. You are very loved. I didn’t know you had another surgery. We are all with you. You are not alone!

[@elizabethwilcox6490]

Please take care of yourself..saying prayers for you sweet lady..

[@thegreenmarblelover5281]

Oh dear Lord. I surely did not expect this! I wish I could hug you, dear lady, who means so much to so many. You two had a marriage, truly, made in heaven and lived out on Earth. What a shining testimony you both were/are. Mr. Bucky was surely the perfect husband -- kind, funny, smart, capable, patient, and very handsome I might add. No wonder you are suffering so badly... you were so close and loving. You have hard and long days ahead but Jesus will keep you, as always, in His strong and powerful hand. It is amazing that you are still sleeping! Even through this. That is a miracle right there. I love your spirit..."I'm coming back" you said at the end, referring to your videos ( which are indeed a ministry). I have no doubt you will and look forward to it. One final thought ...never think that your videos are simply instructional about cooking. They show a way of life that is to be desired and sought after...lives of true Christians and what a marriage can and should be through Him. God bless you, sister.

[@dianetucker2711]

Marcella Osteen Exactly what I wanted to say......it was always more than cooking. Although I have to say, the cooking was a plus😜😉❣️🥰

[@patriciaredick9849]

Absolutely, beautifully stated.

[@Southern_Scenery]

So beautiful. I know this will bring her some comfort.

[@1943ofour]

This is a lovely statement. My heart goes out to Ms. Phyllis.

[@LindsayKipka]

This is exactly what I wanted to say without even knowing it yet. Thank you. And Mrs. Phyllis I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you!

[@suzanneribas3746]

Still miss both of them in 2022....rest in peace.

[@kimberlylholt]

Dear Phyllis I am so sorry about Mr. Bucky. I lost my husband 3 years ago. I know your pain. My husband also passed in his chair with a look of peace on his face. Take your time. Lean on the LORD. We love you Mrs. Phyllis.

[@rkng1]

May Jesus hold you in the palm of His hand. Losing a loved one is always hard.

[@floridakathy5169]

I'm so sorry Ms.Phyllis. You and Mr. Bucky have become like family. I too will miss him. God Bless you.

[@careenlonghurst5607]

Oh, Phyllis.. Cry... just cry because it does help. I speak from experience. Do not try to stop it when it comes.. just let it flow. God Bless and Prayers for your full recovery. We never get over the loss of loved ones. We only learn to manage.

[@loriholman6125]

She knows,she lost her daughter. Just too much right now. I feel so sorry for her.

[@ohjalapeno]

Lori Holman when did she lose her daughter? You should never have to bury your child.

[@shirleyshipman-johnson4592]

Careen Longhurst oh my Lord. I’m so sorry to hear she lost her precious daughter. My prayers are with her.

[@rt3156]

Charlotte Rhubottom If God can lose his only begotten Son, we too are subject to the same losses. Christ conquered death and took the sting out of it for us.

[@patriotamazon189]

And eat lots of comfort food. It really helps. Crying and eating and talking to him. That's what I do. Tapioca. Banana pudding. Hot chocolate pudding and cream. Baked Greek Macaroni. Spoil yourself rotten.🌷🐏

[@tannerwallis1447]

RIP Mr. Bucky and Ms. Phyllis. Together again. ❤️❤️❤️

[@peridoteyes3728]

Oh Mrs. Phyllis. I'm so very very sorry.. Mr. Bucky will be sadly missed and warmly remembered. Wishing you love and support from Canada.

[@pattywatson6826]

Absent from the body he's present with the Lord ... What a beautiful passing ... Prayer's for you

[@mattiec7137]

Oh Miss Phyllis, I'm so sorry for your loss..my heart breaks for you Hon.. Wrapping you in prayer at this time....

[@jimmyshelton3876]

I AM SORRY PHYLLIS, BUT COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS FOR THE TIME YOU HAD TOGETHER. JIMMY

[@the_anchor_holds]

I am so so sorry. Praying for God to bestow upon you His Peace that passes all understanding. Praying for your loneliness to subside and your chemo to be easy. My 43 year old daughter was diagnoised with 2, stage 4 breast cancers Jan. 2018. She had a port for her chemo and still does. This is a lady that from birth has been terrified of needles but LOVES her port. Doesn't bother her in the least for them to use it for chemo, blood work and test. She says everyone should have one. LOL. 😀 Looking forward for more recipes. This 67 year old gal can always learn new things about cooking.

[@gordonharris7020]

That lady went through so much before her own passing. May she rest in peace.

[@BB.halo_heir]

Miss Phyllis, i have no words, only a heart full of feelings and prayer. 👑❤

[@JadeStrawberry]

I'm so sorry, Phyllis. Mr. Bucky was a Godly man so he's with the Lord.

[@FourStrongWinds4]

I'm so sorry for your loss Mrs. Bucky. I'm crying right along with you. May Mr. Bucky rest in peace. You gave him a good life.

[@bearball49]

So sad to hear of her passing but those hard times are behind her now. RIP Phyllis.

[@lauraacosta5515]

Ms. Phyllis, is ok to cry. I love you and I will be praying for you. I wish I can hug you. Send you love and big hug.

[@christierella]

Mrs. Phyllis, my condolences. My heart weeps. May Jesus Christ comfort your heart, body & soul. Love and gentle hugs.

[@iamblessed513]

Take it slow Phyllis. Mr. Bucky is resting now so you just regain your strength and continue to live and love. God will help you endure. Big hug!

[@gracielasantana]

I believe it was about 5 years ago I saw Phyllis’s Jello recipe I was drawn to her accent & her warmth. I was born in the 50’s so I ♥️ watching her videos. It was nice to see her & Mr. Bucky. They’re both in heaven together for all eternity.♥️🙏🏼♥️ I hope her precious fur babies did ok.🙏🏼🐾

[@PhyllisStokes]

They were put with a very nice couple who continue to love them. Thank you!

[@kurtsteffen6387]

Thank you for sharing your grief. Your brothers & sisters in Christ are praying for you.

[@yvonnedebruyn6135]

goodbye Mr Buckey I will miss you sorry for the loss of your loving husband, my heart is breaking for you

[@cjcj1599]

Phyllis...so many of us are praying for your emotional and physical healing...Mr. Buckey was as blessed to have you in his life, as you were to have him in yours💕 And WE are blessed to have you in ours. So when you're ready, we are anxiously awaiting your return to keep us schooled in the art of cooking and baking! We love you Phyllis...take good care🙏💞

[@lindauribe6872]

I lost my husband a year ago and I was married 38 years. It was hard not to cry. I am so sad she is gone now. So hard.

[@simplyjen8150]

Phyllis, you and Mr. Bucky had such a great love story, and I'm so sorry for your grief. I lost my husband in 1995, when we were only in our 40s. I understand the tears and the grief. Please let yourself cry when you need to. Tears are healing. My prayers are with you for comfort and sweet memories.

[@marnicewade5150]

Phyllis....just know that you have a huge youtube family that love you and prays for you.

[@gipperkaydevane1872]

2024…. And I still think of you and the great food recipes I got from you. ❤

[@StringShredder05]

I know and rejoice that Mr. Bucky stood before our LORD and heard the words, "Well done my good and faithful servant".

[@mannnan100]

Wow....so true!

[@roseboudreaux9922]

Amen❤️

[@lisaendress724]

The world has lost a couple of good, genuine, honest loving people! There not enough like them in todays world! Breaks my heart! 💔😭

[@chanel2018-k3z]

My heart aches for you. May we all pass the way Mr. Bucky passed. ❤️

[@gsabo1000]

Amen to that!

[@ccMomOfJays]

*Amen* *Best comment I've read in a long time* !

[@susanf8136]

My heart is broken at this news. He is at peace with the Lord.

[@hunnybunny6801]

Mrs. Phyllis you have my wholehearted condolences and I'm so sorry that you lost Mr. Bucky we all loved him.

[@geripangelinan5788]

Rest in peace Mr and Mrs Stokes.

[@kittycat3800]

I'm sorry for your loss. You will see him again in Heaven.Amen

[@debo9905]

I am so sorry for your loss. Peace and prayers to you. I have enjoyed your videos for the last few years. Your videos helped me through a difficult time caring for my mother with alzheimers. She passed last year on July 7th. Thank you for being there. My heart is with you💖

[@sandraaune6681]

Oh my, what a shock . I'm crying with you .I'm so, so sorry, miss Phyllis. You're not alone .I will be praying for you.

[@frenchbulldawg]

Give your fur kids lots of extra love they do mourn as much as we do i think

[@ShawnPlusOne]

Miss Phyllis I will miss you and I’m glad we have your KZbin videos to see you and mr Bucky in life. R. I.P miss Phyllis 1-25-20 and R. I.P mr Bucky 7-7-19 Back together in eternity. Love you my sister and brother in Christ. 💔😢😞🙏🏾

[@mariamkinen8036]

I've been trying to figure this out. R.I.P.....💕

[@susancochran9987]

R.I.P. Rest In Peace😢

[@VanessaRRSUN]

What do you mean she passed away?

[@alabamajenny8751]

It sounds as if Mr Buckey passed away as all of us would want. A Peaceful transition. Im so sorry, you lost your best friend. I prayed for you this morning after hearing the news. Know you are loved and lifted up in prayer by many. God bless you sweetheart. I hope you feel the love. ❤️ From Alabama

[@pattycarney8219]

Juju T d

[@loriholman6125]

💜

[@pauld.7636]

♥️

[@rufinaperez8500]

Isaiah 4:10 fear not (PhyllisP), for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Fear not Phyllis, stay strong God is always with you.

[@iVenge]

Rufina Perez Amen.

[@jodieprosser5002]

God Bless you and Mr Buckey, FOREVER. You both taught everyone what REAL LOVE IS ❤

[@loriholman6125]

@wendy pearson agree

[@lindashur8986]

I discovered Miss Phyllis and Mr. Bucky way too late! That is a huge regret as they are such precious people! I didn't know them but I can't seem to stop crying for this sweet couple. May you both rest in the arms of Jesus and may your children find peace in your love and memories as a family. I pray I am as lucky to be remembered so kindly. Linda

[@crystalbqueen4341]

Now they are together again. And God shall wipe away all of our tears.

[@midwestgirl7028]

Oh, Miss Phyllis, how sorry I am. Praying for peace & comfort in the difficult days ahead. ~ “Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints.” Psalm 116:15

[@heathertackett7956]

My heart breaks for you. Praying for your healing both emotional and physical.

[@walkerbait610]

I'm so sorry. I'm crying with you. My heart aches for you. Prayers to you sweet lady.

[@carolynjohnson5322]

You and Mr. Bucky are the sweetest couple!The Lord has you both now!Your both have been a blessing to us! Rest in the arms of God!

[@ginnydonis7494]

My dearest Mrs. Stokes, I am truly very sorry for your unimaginable loss. There are no words to express it. May God, in His Infinite Wisdom, give you the strength you are going to need. I pray for your health and I will also pray for your newest ANGEL IN HEAVEN. God bless you and keep you!

[@KarenPScott]

Amen. We loved Mr. Bucky and we love you very, very much. Do you have people there to help you? I hope you aren't by yourself?

[@DavidHernandez-oc1oz]

Dear Miss Phyllis, you are in my prayers. Mr Bucky left to be your guardian angel. He is still with you.

[@rozchristopherson648]

David Hernandez Absolutely, that’s what I believe.

[@justlearned6882]

Oh dear beautiful woman take heart for despite your loneliness you are never truly alone. The Lord is with you and we love you so much.

[@ebonystrother6020]

Now you two can be together for ever, Rip to you both🌷🌷🌷

[@rachelcarson221]

This shocked me to my core. I've been worried about you, and then came this news. I am so very sorry. We loved Mr. Bucky. Will miss him. You have had more than your share of troubles and will be in our prayers. Please know that there are so many people that love you and have you in their thoughts every day. You are a very special lady. Love to you and your family.

[@urinemonster]

I couldn't say it any better than you have Lea.

[@christinehugle3182]

Dear Phyllis, I am so so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers. Cry as much as you need to and know God is with you. Love, hugs and kisses to you. God Bless you♡XOXO

[@terrijob7818]

Miss Phyllis, my heart is breaking for you. What a shock this video was to me. Having watched your videos for so long I feel like you and Mr.Bucky are family. I am so sorry for the pain you are going through.

[@janwhite5642]

I completely agree with your sentiments.

[@louisenurse1234]

I visit these videos because I miss Miss Phyllis. A lovely lady. Thankful for Steve keeping us connected to her lovely videos of life teaching and great recipes.

[@joycehampton9748]

My heart is just breaking for you Phyllis. I’m just so sorry. May God comfort your broken heart. I’m praying for your health also.

[@kiwi-bp6uo]

You have such a beautiful soul...you are so precious. 😘😓

[@leejohnstone]

Dear Ms Phyllis, I am so sorry to hear that Mr. Bucky has passed. It sounds like God told him to get ready that he was coming home. A love letter and a note of how to take care of things shows how much he loves you, and wanted to give you comfort. I pray that God continues to heal you and give you strength. When you're lonely, post a message on youtube, and wait to hear from all of us that love you and wish you well. Hugs....

[@marymesquita2564]

May God bless her and family and everyone reading this.

[@melindahaldeman982]

Please, please don’t give up, Ms Phyllis. I’m sure you have every right to, and I know you are facing such daunting health issues of your own. I can’t help but feel that you have things left to accomplish on this earth. Much love and many prayers ❤️

[@BonnieLeah]

Oh My... Phyllis, I am so very sorry... I know there are no words that will help you at this moment in your life, but just know that you are LOVED and we are praying for God to hold and comfort you dear, sweet lady.. God bless you.. 😪

[@bernadetterawles8150]

U have my utmost sympathy .Be strong and of a good courage for God has said I will never leave you or forsake your father and your mother may leave you but I have your name written in the palms of my hands.Be comforted by these words of God and other like minded believers. I look forward to seeing u return doing more cooking videos.Peace be with you.🙏🏽.My husband of 42 years has been with the Lord now seven years July 31,2012.

[@kathyallen2420]

Oh Mrs Phyllis I am so so sorry! I can't even imagine the loneliness you must feel. You are in my prayers! Praise the Lord he's in heaven and you will see him again. Thank you Lord for that assurance.

[@executivecoup1825]

Sweetheart I know your pain well. I lost my wife of 40 years to cancer at 62. I thought it would kill me. But know this darling. We still need you and we all just love you. You still have so much to offer us. I know it's hard honey. In honor of your love for him I will pray for you. I whispered these words to my passing mother from a favorite song of mine. By the Moody Blues. When you stop and think about it, you won't believe it's true. That all the love that you've been giving has all been meant for you. Love and a huge hug. Bob😚❤❤❤❤❤❤💚💙💛💜

[@catherinerintamaki8617]

Beautiful.....

[@nurturetheearth]

Oh noooooo 😭 you are a strong woman Phyllis, a true inspiration of fortitude, love and compassion.

[@fancysfolly554]

She’s a steel magnolia

[@judygagnon3553]

So very sorry for your loss Phyllis. It appears Mr Buckey had some kind of premonition and in those hours before he transitioned, his thoughts were for you. My love and prayers sent to you.

[@---om5vg]

My thought too that he was leaving instructions and thanking Phyllis on paper but why didn't he go to the emergency room if he had a premonition or was feeling ill. It's so sad for everyone his dogs and wife and other family members. What happened poor Mr Bucky. Phyllis:( get well.

[@bellabrooks5289]

My heart goes out to you ! God bless Mr Bucky , he’s now your Heavenly Angel watching over you !

[@rena6895]

😢 I’m afraid you are no longer with us I am sad for your family and friends; but are now home face to face with Jesus and beside your best friend. The pain is all over now Phyllis, thank you for your service to us. ❤️

[@jackiehoward7300]

Mrs. Phyllis, I'm so very sorry. You and Mr. Bucky have such a beautiful story. I'll pray for you.

[@KFromCali]

I'm watching this video and my heart just breaks for this beautiful woman who lost the love of her life. I know you have your own physical challenges right now. But I pray all of us can come together and support you. Use youtube, we can never fill the void of Mr. Bucky... But we can love you and show you your not alone. I Pray for Peace, Comfort, and Strength. Every married woman knows this fear. Please stay in touch with us. I'm here for you Phyllis.~ Karen

[@Marionana2]

Beautifully said Karen❤

[@godzdaughterh1180]

@@Marionana2 AMEN😍🤗🙇‍♀️

[@KFromCali]

@@Marionana2 Thanks love!

[@KFromCali]

@@godzdaughterh1180 Amen!!! I hope you have a peaceful weekend love!

[@billiefurlow1585]

K FromCali Your post to Phyllis was so thoughtful and kind. May God bless you and yours also. Gaye Furlow

[@ShesInLosAngeles]

"Come to me, all you who labor and are overburdened, and I will give you rest. Shoulder my yoke and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble of heart, and you will find rest for your souls. Yes, my yoke is easy and my burden light." 🙏🌹

[@mjrussell414]

I can’t believe it’s been a year since Mr. Bucky has passed... They were both blessings to the world. Lovely, gentle, kind, generous people. The kind we can only try to aspire to become.

[@ImSavedByGraceAlone]

This is so shocking to me, I am crying as if I know you 2, I feel that I do, after watching your channel for a number of years I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Husband.and companion It sounds as if he knew that he was leaving. I am sending my Love and Prayers to you, and the family! XOX

[@rosemarypalmer9729]

Mrs Phyllis Our prayers are with you and may our Lord wrap his loving arms around you and lift you up in this time of need !!Our condolences on your loss of Mr. Bucky and we love you !!🌹❤🌹😔

[@jordanw6918]

I’m a 20 year old kid and I’ve been a subscriber of yours for quite some time now. I’ve always loved your videos, and you’ve always reminded me of my grandmother. Both of y’all are the sweetest ladies on the planet. So when I saw this video it honestly just broke my heart to see you in such pain. You shouldn’t be lonely like that. I know it’s inevitable that you will feel that because nobody can replace Mr. Bucky. But I just want to say y’all have made such an impact on me (not to mention so many others) and I love you for that Miss Phyllis. You are such an inspiration ma’am and to think that you are going to try to continue the videos is that much more inspirational. My heart goes out to you and your family and I am deeply sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the pain right now. You are in my prayers Ms Phyllis!!!

[@marcnshawny]

Bless you for those kind words I'm sure Miss Phyllis needed to hear right now. They're wonderful and I'm sure heartfelt. I'm one of her and Mr. Bucky's older viewers who remembers and appreciates the way things were done when I was growing up, the way I learned to cook and memories of the great meals that so few today enjoy. I also enjoyed watching the love, respect and Godliness in their home and toward each other. There are many things we've learned together and much more she has to teach us. Strength and perserverence are hard to come by when you're greiving but she is strong and called and blessed. She's lonely but not alone. Thank you again for taking the time to let her know.

[@marthacarrigan8349]

Very well said. Thank you for you speak for us all ❤️😪❤️

[@robynd.7503]

So sorry Phyliss you are in our thoughts and Thank you Jordan for posting how we all feel. 💔

[@christybrian223]

God bless you 🙏 these are words from the heart she will cherish🌹

[@happynanny6375]

Amen. Very beautifully stated.

[@Connie_From_AZ]

Ohhhh my heart is broken reading the comments. I'm saddened to hear Ms Phyllis also passed away 6 mo after her beloved husband. I BARELY came across this channel late last night trying to control my upper and lower spinal stenosis pains. I binged several videos before I found her channel, then subscribed and started going through her ways in her kitchen. The last one before I put my phone down was the one was of how they met at the singles dance. I was looking forward to seeing MORE of them here today. I pop on KZbin to find this video on top and right in the center of my recommended's. I feel it was a sign to me saying "we're no longer here sweetie" see because I had left comments to her on a few episodes as if she were still here. Guess I'll be finding time to binge every single video of theirs really soon. I feel blessed to have come across this page while looking at vintage cake recipes and found her forgotten "cream cheese and lime jello treat" 💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚 *Rest in Paradise Ms Phyllis and Mr Buckey.* 🙏 I hope and pray that one day I'll meet THE true love story of my own to talk about, like y'all's 🙏