LIFE IN BERLIN 🇩🇪 | Why we moved 👩🏾👱🏼‍♂️, apartment hunting + finding friends

[@abiolavlogs0001]

Adult friendships are so hard these days. God help us

[@ZoieMarie]

Very very hard 🥲😩

[@MuhammadFaizan-AI]

Would you like to be friend with me?

[@Kbydfrsghusy]

Recently visited Germany and Berlin was one of the cities. I saw a lot of things you have said in the past and in this video. Friendships as adults are just super hard, people have less time and desire to connect and have more friends. You seem thriving in Berlin and it’s so nice to see !

[@ZoieMarie]

Thank you for your comment! Friendships are very hard but as I mentioned in my vid and it’s so difficult finding people on the same wave length as you 😭 let’s see how Berlin treats me

[@traceycheking]

I moved to Berlin a month ago, and I love it here. Bumble BFF has been amazing with finding new friends. 😊

[@ZoieMarie]

I’ve used bumble friends before and met some cool girls on there! But they ended up going back to their country after some time 😭 then I never used the app again lol

[@dharmoslap]

Swapping homes makes sense if you need to move between districts. This usually happens when someone has found a job further away from home, and it's easier to swap with someone else. It also allows you to keep the price of the rent that you wouldn't be able to find with new contracts. But you need to have something to offeer in the first place, to even consider this option.

[@ZoieMarie]

Thank you for watching! *just a side note for friend requests and meet-ups* hit me up via IG (@_zoiemariee) so I can as well see who you are and pls no old men, I’m very sorry 🙃

[@DupreeDotCom]

Someways you could make friends as an adult is joining a gym, I’ve met good friends from gyms. Or find group activities like cooking or art classes where there might be people u can connect with. Last thing become a regular at a local bar go once a week…

[@kthrnmarks]

There is another Berlin content creator Dianna Verry who makes great videos, I can see you both being friends and making videos . Good luck on this new chapter ❤

[@ZoieMarie]

Thanks for the recommendation! ☺️

[@CharmianKF]

I think Berlin is definitely better for making friendship. I have been here 7 months and I have a few solid individuals I can get my social needs fulfilled by and there is always meet up which allows you to attend social events and talk to people like you and those that are different and you can actually build something with those people too.

[@ZoieMarie]

I totally agree!

[@lifewithshaneil7048]

First to be here love from Jamaica 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

[@ZoieMarie]

🤎🤎🤎

[@swapticsounds]

I come from the west of Germany, close to Dortmund, and I prefer to stay here in Berlin. Good place for artists and people who appreciate diversity.

[@esta3492]

Good for you Zoe! Sounds like you made the right choice!!❤

[@sharonthomas3749]

So happy for you Zoie with your new move. Glad you are much happier since moving to Berlin. Wishing you all the best with your masters and hope you will find the right people to be in your life.

[@shednalarue]

Hubby and I will be moving to Frankfurt in December! Your videos have been very insightful so if we’re ever in Berlin, we would love to say hello! We’re from North Carolina with Brooklyn in our veins, so we are countryside-city hybrids. That need for humility and small friend circle is REAL! God bless y’all

[@ZoieMarie]

Please please do!! ☺️

[@ange_109]

Adult friendships are so hard 😭 although I think I'm experiencing the opposite to you. My issue is that I want more outdoorsy friends but can't seem to find the right group within my age group plus I live in the middle of a city 🙃. But honestly, moving to a new city is exciting and I hope you enjoy your time and find a (or even multiple) friendship groups. I'd love to see Berlin around Christmas time with the Christmas markets so if I'm in the city it'll be cool to hang out 😊 (disclaimer: not a serial killer).

[@infactuality2454]

Hey Zoe-Marie that was very transparent. Cities may be more expensive but diversity is a beautiful thing. I enjoy trying different ethnic dishes which is abundant in bigger cities compared to some small villages. I also enjoy hearing other languages such as Spanish, French, Italian, etc. which is normal in bigger cities. How is Sven adjusting to the city? I´m glad you made the move. You can only go up from here; wishing you the best! Sorry,this is too long, yikes!

[@NickMillerismyspiritanimal]

Thanks, Zoie, for the video. I am glad you like Berlin so far. Making friends here in Germany is still my biggest challenge. I live in a smaller town now and looking for a job in a bigger city, so I hope to be able to make friends then. I am glad the move worked out for you both. You look so beautiful as always. Thanks again.

[@ZoieMarie]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@aspencierraphoto]

I'm considering moving to Berlin from the US. I'm also nervous about finding friends with my limited German language skills, so I'm glad they speak English there.

[@ZoieMarie]

Yes, in Berlin I think language won’t be too much of an issue 😊. Wishing you luck on your move!

[@latasha716]

Stuttgart is very nice. I like southern Germany or as they say, Bavarian country. However, I haven't been to Berlin, which I know has a large Caribbean community, but if I were to move to Germany, I'd choose Southern Germany to make me feel like I've gone somewhere. I've noticed the more diverse parts of Europe are pretty similar... especially since I'm a New Yorker from Brooklyn.

[@ZoieMarie]

Thanks for sharing!

[@georgeschilli1269]

Are you living in Stuttgart?

[@lbb101]

The housing crisis in Berlin is severe. What happened is that for almost twenty years after the fall of the wall Berlin had a surplus, the city was selling housing and building little, and didn't recognize that it was actually starting by tenthousands a year since 1998 . When I came, in 2005, I had 5 options of flats, for cheap, and good, in one weekend. More than 400k people growth since the mid-ninties. And in 2007 all the empty flats were gone. And growth accelerated. The Tauschwohnung is mainly people going to other cities for a couple months, down-/-upsizing, etc. Housing policy is not doing good, construction is slow.... Berlin is very social, serious friendship is a bit harder. Sometimes, ya gotta push it a bit. :)

[@iamstacyswift]

I love to meet up with girls like you seem drama free and very cool and relax and your vibes nice ❤❤❤I am start my full time travel so when I come to Berlin I am definitely hitting you up….. plus I am happy you move for your mental health it’s important… same with me in America 🇺🇸 Chicago it’s to hard for me to make friends people always busy :( or have to make appointments and it’s taken too much on me so I got me a one way ticket to take my travel KZbin seriously in 3 week I am start.

[@LauraLaurent86]

I used to live in Stuttgart and moved to Berlin too, that was 5 years ago. If you would like someone to show you the city, I‘d be glad (not a serial killer 😅)

[@KAMILLE731]

I wish I had gotten the job in Berlin, I would’ve been happy to be your friend, especially since I would’ve been there alone. I always think it’s cool (amazing, really) when someone can relocate to another country and create a life for themselves. You’re pretty awesome, and I enjoy your vlogs! 🙂

[@ZoieMarie]

Well thank you for this comment! I wish we could have met too haha 🤎🥰

[@dharmoslap]

Housing in Berlin has become even much more expensive and difficult to find since this video was published. Unbelievable these days! Anyone who has a reasonable place to live with a long-term contract can be grateful AF.

[@ZoieMarie]

Agreed! I’m scared to start looking for homes here - I think it may be impossible in this market

[@TheEmpressgoth]

Yes finding friends is hard. And looking for a place is hard. I understand.

[@chelsaebriana]

Just moved to Stuttgart. I’ve been loving your content.

[@ZoieMarie]

Hope you are enjoying Stuggi so far! And thanks for watching!

[@MarkisCouch_1WhatJustHappened]

Your making it! Please remember it's hard to live in a foreign country. Keep up the good work! Take care.❤

[@infactuality2454]

Oh, I forgot to mention, the "please don´t be a serial killer had me laughing"! The times we live in.😀

[@j.n.8153]

I had the same experience with moving from Sevilla to Madrid as far as safety. I loved Sevilla and still do but I wanted to see what was up in Madrid. As soon as I stepped off of the bus in Madrid my bag was stolen. Damn! bye-bye passport, laptop, and 300 something Euros. and other stuff. I'm AA from Philly. I usually write about Dubai where I've lived.

[@ZoieMarie]

Oh no! That’s terrible 😭

[@osasumenfaye1992]

Love this kind of videos from you dear it’s so chill 🥰 love and light

[@ZoieMarie]

🤎

[@justvan08]

As always…love …love your content❤ take your time Zoie! I don’t know you but I know you kinda thing and know you’ll soon be with the friends you’re meant to have! Praying you’ll not meet any “serial killers” either, so be safe and be cautious! Enjoy your life and as always much success and happiness you and Sven❤

[@ZoieMarie]

Yes, I will be very cautious of course but hoping to find some really great people ☺️

[@justvan08]

@@ZoieMarie 💝

[@BeastMaster228]

Thanks for the vid, i hope you are enjoying Berlin it's a city that I've always wanted to visit. If you are able to answer this, how if Berlin now due to the war? Is it being exaggerated or is it really that bad and how to the energy oil crisis over in berlin? Thanks in advance if you are able to respond to any of my questions.

[@ZoieMarie]

Well, energy prices are kind of crazy these days and we have been seeing rent raises and etc. So we are feeling the aftermath of the war in this way

[@ka-ta-ya9565]

I was in Berlin 2 weeks ago and I absolutely loved it. Very diverse city and I want to migrate there from the UK. I don’t speak German though but I really love it there! I hope you make lots of new friends and enjoy the experience.

[@bloomy27]

Is it very crowded and messy ? I heard mixed reviews of Berlin some say it’s amazing and other say is dirty full of graffiti and furniture on the streets

[@ZoieMarie]

I think when it comes to language you can survive in Berlin without German :) I would still try to learn it though. And thank you for commenting and watching 🤎

[@marvahare6586]

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[@Sjgb3086]

Yes the diversity helps in Berlin. Honestly I expected it to be worse in many ways but I get pleasantly surprised daily as a black woman in Berlin. And yes housing is ridiculous. Apartment hunting is the hunger games and very expensive 😂 . I have only been here for 4 months and still fitting so I seriously relate to everything you say very very deeply

[@ZoieMarie]

So far I’m also loving it, and for although it’s a city it’s not as hustle bustle and let’s say NYC. Thank you for commenting and watching 🤎

[@jaywwest]

Wow... Props... Me and my "Fam" live in Bayern with our women. We are both X military, with a Big age difference between us, but what holds our friendship is keeping our personal opinons that make us who we are ture (good or bad). It would be cool, If would Post content once every week though Wishing U and your man all the Best... Jay W. West...

[@senadabektic8446]

Your videos don’t even start and I hit the thumbs up. I already know it’s gonna be good 😂

[@ZoieMarie]

Ahh you ARE THE BEST 🤎 thank you

[@vladimator1842]

Hello!! I just bumped into your channel literally 15 minutes ago through the "recommended videos algorithm" KZbin has, due to the fact that i was watching another channel called "Jetlag Warriors" which is also a travel channel as well, involving this interracial married couple of a Canadian dude and an Indonesian chick traveling all through Romania a.k.a (my home country) lol, and they are just as mesmerized as you are there in Germany!! Speaking of traveling, i strongly suggest that you visit Romania at some point, BUT BE WARNED..... It's Melancholia inducing lol due to its natural beauty all throughout, which it's your weak spot so I've heard 😉. I'm imploring you to start watching some of their traveling vlogs in Romania, because I now know what you like about Germany involving its natural beauty!! The Carpathian Mountains literally cut through Romania, offering its inhabitants and/or tourists a variety of topographical features to choose from, and with that said, i know with extreme certainty that you'll love the multitude of "all natural undisturbed topography" the country has to offer, as well as "the multitude of green pastures and all the picturesque landscapes along with a dozen or two original Castles you'd only hear about in fairytales." Do yourself a favor and plan an excursion there with your husband/partner whatever, or all alone if you prefer.......I promise you that you'll get so attached to that place, to the point where you'll develop extreme nostalgia and melancholy once you've experienced every ounce of pure natural undisturbed beauty which not many countries can brag about having..!! Cheers 👌

[@dariafehrenbacher1588]

So sad you didn’t move to Munich, would love to meet you! :)

[@lydiajohnson7614]

Omg, do an updated apartment tour video, pleeeeeaaaase.

[@cosplayfx]

Woot, moving from the alps to Berliiiinnn!!??????? xD Should move to Munich! Lots of diversity here.

[@tfa4782]

Office tour yeeesssssss

[@quicktours6428]

Congrats 🎉!!!!!❤

[@ZoieMarie]

:)

[@abeot]

Hey Zoie...you are quite inspiring. I am thinking of going back to school. Is your program offered through a german university? What are good options for online schools in Germany?

[@ZoieMarie]

Yes, it through a German university and I would recommend doing some online research for what schools would work for you and your experience in Germany :)

[@abeot]

Thanks, zoie. Much appreciated

[@mw7851]

Good decision 👍

[@moniho6907]

Its german a must also to find a job?

[@leetcsl]

Heyy! May I ask you how much you pay for your appartment ? thankss :)

[@Fulaniqueen444]

Recently moved to Paris and im trying to make friends too 😢its hard out here lol

[@ZoieMarie]

Tell me about it!

[@kemiLuv]

I hope you find some Real friends and not just ppl who want stuff from you. I wanted to meet with you but you were too far away😊 Am living here for 7 years now and I don't have that ride or die best friend 😅 because I dont think ppl are as real as I am and dedicated. I still do have two girls I called friends but that's it.

[@ZoieMarie]

I feel you! I’m very dedicated as a friend and if we both can’t bounce off each other or at-least show up for each other equally, I’d rather be friendless lol. Too bad we can’t meet up 😭

[@Bambotb]

How did you meet your partner and what is your job

[@lindamaok899]

Congrats on your move to Berlin - when you get the time, could you please make a video of where you get groomed in Berlin and places you have found work for you (hair, nails etc) - I wish you a good start in Berlin. I am living in Kiel, Germany but looking for places in Berlin to get grooming done because it is close and more diverse (I do not have to worry about going to a salon and being nervous about what will hapen when I enter/get there!)

[@magdak.]

Hey :) What if one doesn't have Instagram Is there another option?

[@ZoieMarie]

Hey there! only IG for now ☺️ I want to be able to see people’s profiles and kind of who they are before I meet up

[@magdak.]

@@ZoieMarie that's unfortunate but also understandable 😊 Would have definitely loved to link up

[@nellyyyss]

❤😊

[@ZoieMarie]

🤎

[@lifehacks4the230]

Great vlog. However you dnt sound American. I feel like you're Jamaican, I usually know my own lolol But cld be wrong. Def doesn't sound American though.

[@glencoco4444]

I hope you’ll have a new girlfriend group soon! I would love to be your friend but sadly I’m not from Germany. But if you’re ever in Zurich (Switzerland) post on Instagram and I can show you around the city😁💗