Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy - Dry Creek Dewayne (4K)

[@ChrisWillx]

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[@nackab]

Thank you for this interview. Looking forward to this immensely 🎉

[@ourbodyislight2829]

😊a

[@ResoluteRonin]

Knowledge is not power! Knowledge is useless, unless put top use. Then it becomes wisdom. -Michael Dubé

[@drewlarson65]

Been waiting for this video after your shorts teaser, thank you both so much for honing your voices, best birthday present I've ever 'received' lol

[@mickmahal-ol5ff]

You did it @ChrisWilliamson

[@Garrett122]

This guy's far more important than any celebrity. Well done.

[@timpetrochilos1257]

He has a video that I watched last year that was so good called why you shouldn't follow andrew tate and that was some of the best advice out there for men

[@theundenaiblebobtheundenai1911]

I agree

[@orsitoth89]

Exactly👏👏

[@ka9202]

Agreed

[@aloeblack8853]

@@timpetrochilos1257his opinion on Andrew Tate was very measured and well thought out in a time when everyone was after Tate. I respect he had the guts to speak up

[@thesocialentrepreneur]

'they don't need therapy, they need gratitude' - so true and a brilliant piece of wisdom for others in society

[@realhalfdeafened]

Yessir, still working on this one for my self. Really been testing my mind limits and finding an outlet like a hobby is also difficult but balancing things well I think.

[@MM-jc7uv]

@@realhalfdeafenedstart writing or keep a journal. Make a few notes for each day and read them back at the end of the year. I’ve personally kept a loose dream journal which is helpful for me to remember stuff I dream about since I’m an aspiring writer, but just reading them back is pretty cool and you can share it someone else who’s curious

[@tstmanunltd963]

That really hit home.

[@keetyost]

idiotic quote

[@arizonajoefishing7324]

So good had to write this down

[@giuseppecrj]

Dewayne is the man! We don’t need more “life experts” we need people living life at an expert level.

[@jaredmello]

Good distinction.

[@inspaaces]

POWERFUL.

[@meluspotesta]

Wisdom

[@kristyreynolds8334]

Well said!

[@karlmeaden6868]

Does that not qualify him as an actual life expert and the others' false prophets?.

[@evancarlson1449]

It’s reassuring to hear he wasn’t born this laidback cool cowboy. That it’s been a process and journey, something that didn’t completely manifest until later in his years. Don’t give up.

[@Marking_The_Way]

Such an important lesson. It's never too late to change. Reminds me of the story of Bob Ross (the painter)

[@romeorego3023]

I didn't expect an episode with Dewayne but man, this is the best kind of surprise. Kudos to you Chris for inviting him.

[@Eagle82200]

No shit... I agree 👍 I should have taken notes🤔

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@romeorego3023 You think he'll be invited on more podcasts now?

[@AmmarB718]

I didn’t either

[@piyushkumar-hu6dj]

Do you watch all of his episode?

[@anthonyglickman6245]

Yeah - unlikely place to see Dewayne but THRILLED to see this interview! Thank you Chris!

[@theculturedev]

This is the first modern wisdom podcast I’ve listened to that I truly wish it was twice the duration. What an absolute gem of a human being.

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@theculturedev Same, but I listen at x2 speed 🙂

[@aafjeld]

Today I got up, had two cups of coffee. Milled some timber. Had a rib-eye steak for supper while watching this fantastic interview with a knowledgeable man I am glad to learn excist. Today was a good day.

[@ChristopherHarris-fe7nv]

Let’s go!!!

[@MrArtmundus]

It sounded like pure joy.

[@Last_Chance.]

You are living the dream. God bless you brother

[@aafjeld]

@ I am very grateful in life, indeed. God bless 🤝

[@trucktires3453]

Excelente

[@SickNastyyy]

I've been watching Dewayne for almost two years. Patiently waiting for him to be on a podcast like this or JRE. It's about time!

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@SickNastyyy Dudddeeee, that'd be cool!

[@Back_Day_Barbarian]

Highly doubt that would happen, Chris clearly went to dewayne’s ranch for this and I doubt he’d fly out to Joe

[@SickNastyyy]

@Back_Day_Barbarian Good observation and great point. However, if you follow Dewayne closely you will know that he went out to Vegas for a convention thing so it's certainly a possibility he would fly out to Joe. One can hope! Lol

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@Back_Day_Barbarian With the amount of growth/exposure he got from this interview, I think he'd definitely consider it.

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@SickNastyyy I agree, someone travelling to do a podcast isn't too much of an obstacle....

[@zc4905]

Honesty, integrity, diligence, willpower, hard work. Getting your hands dirty, and learning first hand. Nothing trumps experience, fill your life with experiences, not money.

[@elephantintheroom-francois494]

Why does this comment not have thousands of likes???

[@michaelbrady3721]

"They don't need therapy, they need gratitude." Thanks for recognizing and articulating that, sir.

[@mattiek7526]

I got rid of TV; now it’s time for KZbin!

[@peterngugi4081]

This struck my soul

[@Braddicusfinch]

Yeah, some people don't need to spend more time talking about their problems, they need to spend more time listening to others talk about theirs

[@BWater-yq3jx]

1:28:35 Was just about to quote that.

[@MikeRehfuss]

@@peterngugi4081You ain’t lying.

[@burtonlee22]

Two beautiful sensitive authentic men having a real conversation. What a rare treat. Thank you both for such an amazing exchange. Horses rock.

[@mohsinali-10]

Dewayne has unknowingly been an amazing mentor to thousands and thousands of people. Thank you for your wisdom and guidance!

[@jordanguyatt9404]

Growing up without a father/role model. This guy is awesome to listen to and gain knowledge from

[@AmmarB718]

I agree

[@lapearl521]

As a woman listening to this I finally realized some things about myself and men.

[@zimzob]

I’d be interested to know what those things are, if you don’t mind sharing?

[@ryanallison4000]

What?

[@_kmCarter]

I think many women (like myself) don’t know how much men crave respect and appreciation.

[@cbxxb4841]

@@_kmCarter True but I think we also need a partner we can respect and appreciate. Can you even have love without respect?

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@cbxxb4841 You probably can, but it wouldn't be healthy...

[@simonwalsh6804]

Wow. “They don’t need therapy, they need gratitude”. This is gold. It’s 100% true. Men will happily carry a burden or go through hell for their loved ones, if they know those loved ones recognize it, respect it and are grateful for it. No need to talk about it.

[@AlexRamos-zx5gz]

This Cowboy is a true Gem . He is Literally giving out modern wisdom.

[@Marking_The_Way]

Literally 💯

[@jacobpaschall7586]

I’d say it’s even more generational wisdom it’s crazy how we go back to the old trends after a long time.

[@s_don57683]

Am I the only person who didn't have a clue who Dewayne was before the podcast, and just listened to the podcast out of habit but was seriously blown away by his wisdom? Seriously this is one of the best episodes all year and as a father, husband and man, this gives me a lot of food for thought. There are some days I wouldn't buy myself a beer but a lot of days where I would, and that for me is a win.

[@dylanking1895]

I think I’ve seen his face pop up on KZbin at some point but never gave him a chance. This was the wake up call I needed, I’m self employed and have decided to listen to it while working again and again everyday until the message burns into my psyche… and to think I was so resistant to listen to it because I assumed there wouldn’t be any real information to gather from it. I often skip podcasts with these types of guest, just glad the message truly resonated, a change is ahead for me.

[@tylerhoffman2271]

I've literally never seen or heard anything about him before but loved listening to him on this show.

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@s_don57683 1st to MW and Dewayne. A lot of great points to take away from this

[@James-v1o5b]

Dwane is great

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@tylerhoffman2271 Same

[@sorlowski78]

Ladies, please go to (1:26:38) and listent it very carefully. This is what a man feels every day and It doesn’t need to be over-discussed or treated with drugs. This is how we are. Thanks Mr. Dewayne.

[@Marking_The_Way]

Perhaps it isn't 100% the solution, it is an extremely important part!

[@nosvibes9786]

This is the part that hit me the most

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@nosvibes9786 Gratitude goes a LONG way!

[@krikydix]

Gentlemen, learn how to communicate because if you don't have emotional intelligence what exactly are you offering? Women don't need your burdens.

[@DrippingInStyle]

I saw this clip on instagram and the first comment was from a woman that said and i quote: "Women can only understand it if the man express it. This falls back on the man. if you don't know how to express it, there are therapist who help with that. There's no excuse for this" smh

[@chadfox4097]

We need a world full of men like Dewane. The part where he says men carries battles and burdens no one knows about it 100% spot on.

[@makelifematter1896]

Amen

[@krikydix]

I think he married a woman with a lot of patience. The right partner makes a difference.

[@Fernando_chavira__]

I love how from one perspective of this guy its the “tough man no weak man stuff” and then he sits down and breaks down how he became so wise and aware.. It’s exactly what we’re doing. Listening to the feelings. Listening to emotions and learning to master them into a better man. Not just a physical sense but mental. You master your emotions and are physically capable, you’re unstoppable.

[@barryconawaybass]

I think the confusion lies in the understanding of what constitutes a weak or tough man. Both weak and tough men have emotions. The difference is how they handle those emotions. Like in this interview, Dewayne mentions he recognized his emotions and the cause of them, and then made adjustments to correct. Weak men wouldn’t make any adjustments. It’s one thing to feel any particular emotion, good, bad, or otherwise. The toughness comes from having to tell yourself, “you need to change” and you follow through. This is my personal take and undergoing at lot of the same thoughts and processes to make changes in my life the last 5 years. You don’t need to agree or relate, but maybe someone will relate and in no way is this a rebuttal to your comment Fernando. Cheers

[@Fernando_chavira__]

@ I love the way you put it. I think I was trying to simplify it down. Same same but different? lol happy to see you on track though man. Congrats on getting your life together

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@barryconawaybass Well said! We're all weak in some areas. Wisdom is knowing it exists, improving what we can, and calmly communicating our flaws 🙌

[@markbutcher4541]

I've never re-watched a podcast. I'll return to this to time and time again. 'I like me, I'd buy me a beer' is such a simple, yet incredibly powerful statement.

[@Marking_The_Way]

Ahhh, that was such a powerful one!

[@jackmcnaughton3096]

Nobody deserves recognition and to be listened to more than the Dry Creek Wrangler. I wouldn’t do everything the way he does or had done, but his insight into why he does what he does is invaluable

[@Marking_The_Way]

Precisely! Take the parts of wisdom that resonate with you and apply it to your life!

[@svetlanathehammer1984]

This video made me realize that I have valued the wrong things so far in life and judged myself based on those values. Thanks Dewayne

[@mohamdabdallah7390]

I love how he takes his time and not rushing to say the first thing pops in his mind.

[@mohamdabdallah7390]

I am listening not watching sometimes I think my internet is down turns out the man just is thinking

[@sparky_murph]

Dewayne is just a great, knowledgeable, empathetic person. There needs to be more mentors like him.

[@loriphillips1026]

What a pleasant surprise this interview was....I had no idea what to expect, as a matter of fact I had no idea who Dewayne was, BUT NOW... All I can say is WOW! EVERYONE needs to hear THIS man speak! A true CLASS ACT! Thank you Chris for this incredible life lesson filled interview!

[@eli_da_man_]

Its crazy that this whole conversation feels like everything I needed to hear at this point in time. The both of you are speaking directly to the hearts of more young men than you may realize. Thank you for all you do!

[@foreignflights9007]

Mr Williamson, Just wanted to thank you for this interview with Mr Noel. There is a void in media these days where everyone has to be an epic CEO or worth billions. This was refreshing, honest, genuine, unpolished insight and in many ways what I think the Western male needs.

[@S1mpleThings]

heard him mention that he did your podcast in one of his videos a little while ago and I was so excited. This man's values are so important so thank you for giving his voice another platform to spread his wisdom

[@Marking_The_Way]

Gotta give him the respect.

[@elissa2205]

The conversation you had about men and about women was so beautiful tears came to my eyes. And it was really impressive and attractive seeing two men being real men. And liking yourself is so important. A few years ago I was really hurting, so I avoided everyone, but then I realized that all of my feelings of self worth came from everyone telling me how pretty, smart, popular, kind, and funny I am. But when I was alone I realized how much I disliked myself and how small I felt. The person I saw in the mirror wasn't someone I saw as pretty, and being smart felt like a curse sometimes because it caused me to feel so lonely, and I didn't feel popular, and I felt that too often I was punished for trying to help people by being taken advantage of and then treated badly, and too often I felt small by the cutting things miserable people said. It took a lot of effort to work through all of that and to learn to like myself, and I still don't always like myself, but the more I do the more balanced and joyful my life feels.

[@seamaiden1169]

Felt that……🙏🏻

[@krikydix]

Love this

[@NSApple]

So happy to see Dwayne on your podcast. This guy has the wisdom and grit we all need in today’s society.

[@Marking_The_Way]

An American Treasure!

[@nicknelly1]

You can tell, just by the way Chris looks at Dewayne and smiles, that he admires and respects him so much. Dewayne's story at the end about his "perfect day," was the most insightful and beautiful thing. Coffee, cigars, steak, and good conversation. Phones and social media have destroyed simple living and has made more people depressed and anxious that anything in human history is argue. Dewayne gives me hope and allows me to relax and breathe again.

[@novascheller5957]

Listening as an older woman… this was a very insightful exchange between masculine generations. Both of you are very grounded, and it was validating., I am sure Chris, to hear your guest mirror your core insights. Very thoughtful! ❤

[@nicknelly1]

The fact that YOU sat down with DeWayne is absolutely insane. I’ve watched his channel for years now. He’s the type of person that this world NEEDS right now as a role model tbh. His advice and wisdom calm me and his message and life are like a “beautiful storm.” Dewayne is the father figure this backwards world needs.

[@Marking_The_Way]

Agreed! So many men can benefit from his message. Rather than escaping through phones, substances, video-games, sometimes you just gotta chill outside and relax.

[@MorganWoolsey]

Dwayne is the embodiment of Modern Wisdom. "Smoke a cigar or a pipe, and just sit back for awhile and let the world go by." 💪🙏❤️

[@Marking_The_Way]

In a world of phones and other distractions, that might be the cure 🔥

[@jjasmin1000]

“Zeus is always watching from Olympia ready to throw a thunderbolt” is the hardest line of 2024. Really great interview Chris. Well done

[@Marking_The_Way]

Exactly 😆

[@ChrisAguilera-q3l]

I feel thankful that we still have men like this still living in the United States.

[@joshfloyd7755]

I'd like to be more like this guy.

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@joshfloyd7755 Me too sir! Doing it one step at a time. Also trying to help those around me and online as well.

[@Marking_The_Way]

A rare breed, but extremely refreshing and a great guiding light.

[@Heathen.Heather]

I think the world would be better if we had more men like him

[@Po3try27]

Dewayne is the gone missing archetype of man. Much love and appreciation for all of that honesty you're bringing to us

[@sophieacapella]

I stumbled upon Dewayne's youtube channel last week and have been binge watching him since. I can't get enough of his wisdom and humility. Also, the way he talks about "Momma" (his wife) makes my heart melt. Wish I had the means to attend his school...

[@cybrarian9]

Thank you for this extremely long format interview. A lot was covered, some of it repeated, but all put into excellent detail. Dewayne Noel is about as "real" a human being as most folks will ever meet. And you can tell that when you meet a "Dewayne Noel" in your life that you've met a "real" person, a person to exemplify and learn from.

[@charlottewayman2884]

What a beautiful man! Honest and hardworking shaped and refined over and over by old father time and experience. Young people including myself need this wisdom now more than ever! Thank you for having him on was one of the best episodes I've ever listened to and will listen to it more than once. ❤

[@tradertom4843]

Dewayne is Godly man with lots of wisdom, his videos have gotten me through some tough times. Glad you had him on. God bless you all

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@tradertom4843 Hope you continue to level up even more sir, regardless of your journey 🙂🙌

[@jessecain1646]

This was one of the best podcasts I have seen in a while. I don't smoke but I do enjoy a good cup of coffee sitting on my porch looking out across the desert and just think .

[@Marking_The_Way]

Agreed! Taking the time to just relax and process without phones/technology is so beneficial! ☺

[@johnmacri7440]

Solid advice from a real Man. Common sense isn’t so common anymore. He is so right on so many levels.

[@roberthall7721]

Watched this while having thanksgiving dinner. A great conversation with an interesting man. His temperament and way of looking at things puts me in the mind of my grandfather, who was by far the most influential man in my life. Positively loved this, Chris. Well done.

[@officialforwardmovement]

This man has been a secret father figure for so long. I’m glad he’s getting the acknowledge he deserves. He’s a role model the world needs more of.

[@Marking_The_Way]

You know he's legit since he isn't trying to chase fame/fortune (from what I can tell).

[@Last_Chance.]

Dwayne I wish I had a father figure like you in my life. I have lived a very rough life and I am in the process of changing me but I need some help. God bless you Dwayne. I wish you and your family all the love and happiness and success that life can bring.

[@Marking_The_Way]

We're all wishing you the best sir! What kind of stuff are you focusing on improving?

[@Last_Chance.]

Everything from top to bottom needs to be fixed. ​@@Marking_The_Way

[@Elohimand3AcersofGrace]

Chris thank you so much for this interview, This man is amazing, As a Lady up in age, this is truly how men are made to be, Bless you @Dry Creek Dewayne

[@KingParzival]

This was a captivating message. I absolutely love Dewayne, and find a lot of my ancestors in him. I grew up with a horse wrangler for a father and a grandpa, and have been blessed with a lot of these messages at an early age, and still the reminder of them is what brings me peace as a man. Thanks for this Chris, a great choice of an interview to be sure.

[@Marking_The_Way]

Such a rare breed nowadays. What was your favorite message?

[@KingParzival]

@Marking_The_Way Finding balance. His message on balance was absolutely paramount for today's young men, it's so true and so valuable for a long and happy life.

[@OssohoneyAV]

I've been LISTENING to Dwayne for some time now. I can say. My temper has drastically changed. I'm more aware of my thoughts and reactions. I owe this change to you Dwayne...

[@Marking_The_Way]

His story helped you out, that is awesome dude. Happy to hear that 😃

[@LucyDupuis-uf5kn]

this is the kind of man the world and everyone needs and who we should aspire to be

[@vigilantofstendarr6276]

Dewayne is the real deal. He’s more honest and interesting than any celebrity. Great interview🇺🇸

[@argiehercules1374]

I haven't watched all the video yet, but I must admit that he is probably the best version of old school man I have ever seen. It is a pleasure talking with him, even disagreeing with him

[@j.a.r.family2576]

What a great man to speak of weakness and pride. I love his outlook.

[@ozonelayercake]

So glad to see Dewayne here. Just discovered his channel a couple months ago. The dude is a breath of fresh air amidst the swirling maelstrom of "influencers" just trying to sound deep or smart, or just trying to get clicks/ sell you something. This is real wisdom.

[@jeopardy_music]

Just want to chime in and say, while I love Dwayne and his messages of strength... therapy has been a totally life changing experience for me AS A MAN. Vulnerability does not equate to weakness, in fact, I believe it is a strength. It takes true strength to sit in front of another human (whether that's a therapist, a partner, or a friend) and say, "here is what I am struggling with..." Like he said, we fear we will be shot down and seen as weak, but when we have the right people in our lives, they will recognize the strength it takes to share those things, and they will validate and support us. It's not an exercise in whining, or searching for someone else to solve your problems for you. It is an exercise in baring your soul to someone you trust so that both of you can understand your internal world better. Sometimes you need an outside perspective to help work things out, and sometimes you just need to vocalize what's in your head with someone willing to listen in order to learn how to manage and move forward. Internal wounds will fester if we don't learn to communicate and work through them, and no one needs to do it alone. Deep communication on that level requires deep strength, vulnerability, and trust. That's just my two cents. Regardless I am grateful for these two men for being positive role models and expanding on this important topic.

[@Marking_The_Way]

I 💯 agree with this. When my thoughts/emotions were swirling, I knew that I needed to just have someone double-check them. What I tell my clients is that EVERY pro athlete you see (Jordan, Kobe, etc) had a coach/expert. They are THE TOP of their game and they had help. Why shouldn't you? 😃

[@elephantintheroom-francois494]

Hi, as a therapist working mostly with men, I’m deeply appreciative of you laying it out like this. Thank you! … Why the hell haven’t you got hundreds of likes for this?! 🤔🥴

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@elephantintheroom-francois494 Most people read the top comments and dip. When people see a longer one, they are less likely to read it?

[@yeahright3901]

I’ll pass lots of therapy just doesn’t work for men. There are many avenues for growth that doesn’t involve therapy

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@yeahright3901 Everyone has to find what works for them! For me, Journaling/Visual Mind Mapping did wonders

[@nkojok29]

As someone who watches Dewayne for enough time to see him as our father-figure, I felt so happy and excited as if it was my dad on that podcast.

[@Marking_The_Way]

He made you proud 😃

[@throwback336]

I've listened to Dwayne for awhile now and 1:27.51 is the most spot on words I've ever heard him say. I'm a dairy farmer with a few side hustles trying to build a legacy for my wife and kids and I didn't think they even care.

[@ChristyStoerm]

Dewayne is such a good guy that you feel like you want him to be your friend. Very glad you had him on.

[@Marking_The_Way]

He now turned into such a chill, good hearted dude. Inspiration to us all. I take it you would buy him a drink too :)

[@markusknight7394]

I'm so grateful that Dewayne is getting the recognition he deserves. This man is very wise, his words, mentality and perspective, are all great🙌

[@Marking_The_Way]

Exactly!

[@bross0218]

Wow... i didn't want that to end. I could listen to you two guys talk all day long. The best podcast I've ever listened to. So much to absorb I'll need to watch a few more times...

[@Marking_The_Way]

Haha, agreed! I made a video summarizing the Top 11 Lessons from this. It was a challenge. What was your biggest takeaway?

[@WillSmithSlappedMe]

Am I the only one that can't understand a word this man says.. he speakn' English? I hit my head this morning. Hello?

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@WillSmithSlappedMe He has a Southern Accent. I live in the US, so it doesn't phase me 😅

[@skylark...]

Love Dwayne! I truly wish there were more men like him and there's so much a woman can learn from a man like him. May God be with with you Dwayne! I pray that all will open their ears when you speak. Your wisdom is needed in these times.

[@davidfredriksson2113]

Definitely, one of your best interviews! And Dewayne has become a new favorite of mine. You need to have him on the podcast again!

[@AngelicHarmony444]

I just want to cry listening to Dwayne. A strong man with an open and loving heart… who shares how he got there. I love people who can be real. I love how we can all expand, change and grow❤

[@colt45acp1000]

Working with horses is a lot like teaching high school, which I did for 47 years. I always started class in a friendly, informal manner. I would ask how they are and what’s going on with them. Sometimes, often on a Friday, I could see that they were just up for learning German that day, and we would just talk about all kinds of things. Some of those classes were the best classes I ever taught. I became acutely aware of how little adults actually listened to kids. When you shut up and just listen, you learn a lot! Just like “listening “ to the horse.

[@RedFowl9492]

Men dont need therapy they need gratitude. That is the one most important thing a woman needs to understand.

[@rustyshackleford3868]

Damn never looked at it that way

[@Abe-u9j]

The part about Dwayne not liking himself and no one liking him and wish it would end really hits home for me

[@christianankrom184]

"most men live lives of quiet desperation"

[@robothorse]

I believe in you.

[@Clarksmarineincindiana]

We have all thought it but we have to choose to not live in it.

[@xmaxbabilo]

You' ll be ite. Love will come, till then get this bread and hug your parents.❤

[@soundsbitter]

You ain’t alone 💪🫡😌😎💯❤️

[@griffindaughtry]

Glad you got Dewayne on. I've been following his channel for a while now. He's a solid down to earth dude. I wish there were more people like him on the internet.

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@griffindaughtry Indeed, he seems authentic and rooted.

[@cariedormaier9389]

I’m so glad people get a chance to listen to Dewayne. His two channels are great. Thanks for having him on your channel.

[@kylesmith8327]

Seeing you be so vulnerable about your life by being open and honest has been truly inspiring. Thanks guys well done!

[@willybolt6397]

As a father of four and married I 1000% agree about the therapy. We don’t need therapy. We just need the people we’re carrying the world of stress for to respect us and love us for it. I don’t and won’t talk about it but I do need it respected

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@willybolt6397 Agreed!

[@Dovahkiin0117]

Still need character worthy of that admiration regardless of the weight you’re carrying. If that stress breaks ya down to where ya ain’t worth being around maybe ya need to talk about something to someone.🤷‍♂️ Crack sum cold ones with your boys if anything many things can be “therapeutic”.

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@Dovahkiin0117 Indeed. Talk about things to emotionally process it. Take action if you're not ok with the situation.

[@vto7711]

If I’m being honest I’m really resentful for being called essential and touted as a hero on TV during the height of the pandemic. Then only months later, I saw people like myself being called extremists or stupid by our fellow citizens because I had questions about putting something new to mankind in my veins. Not sure how to heal from that unless we have some justice and answers. You want me to believe it’s no one’s fault? Can’t do that. Sorry.

[@joniramirez8684]

​@@Dovahkiin0117Amen

[@michellekarlene1131]

Great interview. Honest and real . I especially liked the conversation Dwayne made about the book of proverbs. He said, “Proverbs is read for wisdom , rather than, on what not to do”. Chris backed that up by stating, “With positive decisions you make multiplied by zero = 0”. My family and I came to this country in the late 80’s from Jamaica. My dad purchased a 1976 light yellow Chevy nova. It had rust on the outside. He would patch and fix that car up until the car was no more. He went on to purchase cash three more used cars throughout the years. He rented a three bedroom townhouse in not a good neighborhood, the food for the household was purchased wholesale. Light bulbs in the home were fluorescent , to save on electricity. I could go on and on. Finally he saved up enough money purchased a house in a middle class neighborhood and paid off a thirty year mortgage in fifteen years by himself raising five children.

[@krikydix]

Thank you for sharing about your dad :). There's tremendous strength in what he accomplished. I would love it if you wrote a book!

[@HmJay11]

Dwayne- 'Men aren't born to make money'. Chris- 'Let me interrupt this message with ANOTHER sponsor'.

[@mrc.p8423]

😂

[@allkinds1069]

Nah that's the money coming to him, he doesn't actively have to do work for that just say "hey buy this" and get paid. But I understand the irony of it, especially after he just says that 😅

[@jw70467]

I get a ton of value from this channel and I am happy for Chris to get paid for it

[@diesel_tech_three4332]

So much greed in the world. I like Chris, but I think he is still partially in the trap of greed and vanity like many of us.

[@gifi4]

@@diesel_tech_three4332 Not exactly greed. More like, ensure he not only makes enough money to survive but to thrive, and then more money for security (A house, money incase his income is no longer available etc.).

[@adulfdabo898]

I discovered Dewayne about a year ago by accident and was a subscriber right away. Even tough we live totally different lifes on different continents, I can relate to so much he's talking about. Dewayne is putting complex things in simple words, that's what I like the most. He's about my age and as he said, - sitting on the porch with a coffee and a cigar, thinking things through, is something I also just learned to appreciate a few years ago. Maybe it's just getting older and loving peace and quiet is getting us to get rid of that temper we had to fight for decades. He needed the horses to show him, I had humans. Horses would've been better! 🙂

[@Flomdcho]

Guy spoke more truths in 2 hours than Hollywood has in 200

[@666rebel_81]

Dewayne is a perfect example of a real cowboy and father I hope people saw how he talks about society’s problems without any fear of getting cancelled because he did everything to be a good man not to make money. Respect to Dry Creek family I hope to see this guy and smoke a cigar with him

[@TwinsNicknMax]

Ive been poor a long time and money is hard to come by. At the end of the day the best feeling in knowing that you've done good in your soul that day.

[@benharlow65]

Chris, 2 hours of wonderful conversation from 2 people I have been following for awhile. Individually you both have expressed what I want to hear and say, together you've formed sort of a panel of what every man should not only watch but even if in portion, engrain in their thoughts to build themselves around. Probably the best thing I've watched/listened too in my whole life of 46 years. Thank you both for this.

[@brittanystein6491]

His "importance of father's " is so true and well put! ❤

[@ronaldo71921]

Dewayne is one of the wisest man I’ve ever heard and the world needs him so bad, blessings from Costa Rica!

[@j.l.salayao8055]

Mr. Dewayne Noel is my distant mentor and a father i never had, although, I appreciate my father who brought me unto this world. Thank you to both of you gentleman! This was a blessing and treat to many young and older men in this time and age. God bless you and yours.

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@j.l.salayao8055 💯💯🙌

[@mamabubu6505]

More of that peacefull wisdom of real men, please 💐 we could listen to you both whole day, incredible talk, would love to hear more 💐 Thank You fir inviting this guest 💕

[@crsgiannis4573]

The podcast of the decade! What a moment…. What a lesson.. Thanx Chris … Kisses from Greece

[@ChristopherHarris-fe7nv]

This is so so good. I love how he takes his time before he answers. Pure wisdom. This entire episode has touched me deeply.

[@Marking_The_Way]

Agreed!

[@42x10x1]

An hour in and I'm blown away. And it's almost entirely been on points where I already thought something along those lines, but found Chris and Dewayne to articulate these points so beautifully. Bravo gentlemen.

[@Marking_The_Way]

Precisely. He isn't saying anything brand new, just something we all know, but in a simple way.

[@krikydix]

I hear you. Anyone can talk about this stuff and it makes intellectual sense but the cowboy speaks from his experience, from his heart. We get a deeper vibe from it, if you will.This makes his message more impactful imo. I'm with you. I totally enjoyed this conversation.

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@krikydix 💯🙌

[@gerrypelserwriter]

Chris, I've been following you for years. This is the best one yet. Respect

[@thebladedbroad9654]

This really moved me. Especially the part where he answered Chris’s question about what does he wish women understood more, about men. His answer made me tear up. Very moving, very accurate. Great interview. It’s saved to my favorites. ❤

[@scottwilliamson8362]

One of the best interviews of all time!

[@mrc.p8423]

I'll be honest, this is the best one yet in my opinion. LIKE HE SAID,... ITS ALL ABOUT BALANCE💯 LOVED IT!! Will give it a second listen tomorrow while i'm driving to work. Well done, who would of thought a English gent and a american cowboy would be able to chop it up and nail it down.

[@ryanallison4000]

Well said!

[@Marking_The_Way]

@@mrc.p8423 Balance is so underrated 🙌

[@Marking_The_Way]

That balance part was great! I made a video about the Top 11 Lessons, and that was one. It was mentioned multiple times during the interview too. Why did the lesson of balance resonate with you? 👀

[@clickybick3134]

This was a refreshing conversation to tap into. Thank you both very much!

[@corianderseed]

Howdy from Australia! Been watching Dewayne for over 4 years. He's been a lone voice of sanity on KZbin that both me and my missus listen to when we need a proper life check-in. Cheers mate!

[@skatterbrainz]

I *love* this episode! One of the best interviews I've ever heard. And one of maybe three podcast episodes from anyone that I've saved to listen to again.

[@josephhuntley1533]

One of the best episodes to date I think, top class from both of you 👏🏼

[@Marking_The_Way]

💯💯

[@Bolling0]

I love the way the podcasts/interviews are filmed in different environments. This feels like watching a time traveler go back in time to interview a cowboy. So much wisdom in this podcast

[@NorthernFoxingUK]

Chris. I have to say man I'm extremely proud of how far you've come over the past few years. This isn't me measuring you on who you interview...more to how I listen to how you talk and recollect and recall phrases and conversations. It's a pleasure to see and to see you talking to many grounded individuals. Keep up the good work buddy. This is why you're being so successful. Congrats and appreciate your efforts. Stay safe. James from back home. 👊🏻

[@whatsyourwaffle]

One of your best episodes! It would be a treat to have a podcast that interviewed great ‘regular’ people vs celebrities of any kind.

[@kristyreynolds8334]

One of the best guests you have had. It takes a lot of life experience and willingness to examine one’s self to gain this level of wisdom. Very informative and enjoyable!

[@RedPillLife1966]

Hand's down this guy is an absolute Role Model for young Men. He reminds me of the Father's we had growing up in the 70's 80's. Quiet, but a Boss.

[@coledennett]

Is it not crazy that in this day and age all it takes to be wanted by the masses is to be an honest man? That is the perception that I got out of this video. Everyone even the ones on “top” need to see this. This is and was my upbringing and I found a lot of confirmation from this. Thank you both for giving a true perspective of what a man should be.