Life Lessons from my 46 Year Old Wife

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[@kristynnicole3078]

Candice made me feel so comforted when she was talking about how she felt at different points throughout her life. She’s always been so honest and genuine. Xoxo

[@Iamdead666]

no reply why ?

[@masterricks2622]

​@@Iamdead666 My guess is because there's no tiktok people in Casey Vlog only old legend people 😅

[@Iamdead666]

true@@masterricks2622

[@giftomoh7113]

“Sometimes the greatest impact to the world is controlling the mess in your bedroom, it makes you feel better” I felt that

[@LayneFable]

!!!

[@AnthonyFransella]

Clean your room! Possibly the most oft-repeated phrase 😂

[@Cyba_IT]

That was philosophy gold right there.

[@TheGameRockerTGR]

Ikr, literally made me pause the video for a sec and take a moment 😅

[@imicca]

thats litterally what Jordan Peterson has been saying for years but ended up being called transphobe and alt right bigot

[@Savyspice]

I just love Candice. She never plays it up for the camera and she never tries to be anything other than herself. It’s so refreshing. I could listen to her little nuggets of wisdom all day. She is also so beautiful! Aging in reverse.

[@kgummee]

Agreed!!

[@Thomas-z9t5k]

Really

[@Flutterbyby]

Yes her mind is interesting. Wisdom nuggets galore.

[@cbschrader]

I wouldn’t say aging in reverse. I would call it aging gracefully. As far as I can tell, she’s not trying to pretend that she hasn’t aged like many other people try to do via social media.

[@Bruni2690]

I’ve always loved Candice. Role model

[@Nooticus]

The juxtaposition between the old camera and new camera, but both being current footage, is so clever. Legend.

[@bugy_raid_plus]

a

[@darreneaton2145]

My wife and I have been together since we were 14, both 60 now. Life just gets better

[@davson15]

Got a genuine question, how do make it last that long? With society now a days people want to cheat, sleep around, or change which make long term relationships not a thing how where yall able to over come that thx in advance

[@randylin1871]

discipline and love for each other@@davson15

[@notuxnobux]

@@davson15 if you get married when both are virgins then the divorce rate is only 2%, it jumps to 45% if either one is not a virgin

[@nickname-ant]

My wife and I have been together since 15, both 30 now. Can't wait.

[@MalejKuba]

Chipping in here with having been together since 18, both 33 now with 2 kids. Truth be told, even when life is more difficult now (in terms of managing work, family stuff, money, etc.), our relationship is actually (much?) better now, than when we were young and childless, I think. I'm very grateful for what I have. Don't give up, guys, work the issues through. Or - know when it's beyond saving, and end it fast, don't stretch the painful situation for years.

[@KaitehhEquestrian]

I just adore Candice. I always have. From the beginning of these videos, she's been real and honest and unapologetic. Everything she said in this video struck a chord with me, and as a 28-year-old her words have given me comfort.

[@anetaaugustyniak9224]

Yes she’s so natural and beautiful ❤

[@tyw6225]

As a 26 year old, I’m living what she’s saying and sharing the same thoughts.

[@hjcdormouse7337]

I am 58 when Candice described at 27 worrying about what other people thought about her oh how that rang true. As I geo older I realised folk all to busy worrying about themselves to be bothered about what I was doing, how I looked or dressed. I wish I could give my younger self that knowledge it would have freed up so much brain space and I would have been less stressed. Please if that is a, area you worry about grab knowledge Candice, gave and what I am all my friends have learnt with age it is a magical feeling to think I will do me if someone dislikes what my dress style is that's ok I am not asking them to wear or llike it. You are so young and who knows the path ahead there will be bumps and smooth patches but be kind to others and yourself and have no regrets 💜

[@infernalflamezz7480]

@@hjcdormouse7337 Thanks for these words, I am 23 and feel a constant burden because of what people expect me to be and become, I hope I can let go of that feeling in next years. I have been doing so but it is a gradual process. The freedom you must feel when you 'simply don't give a fuck' must feel incredible

[@hjcdormouse7337]

@@infernalflamezz7480 @infernalflamezz7480 Be kind to yourself if at 23 you are learning to as you wonderfully put not give a fuck you are on the right road. I would say as long as you are kind to people and treat others, as you want to be treated if folks don't like something that is their problem. It took me way to long to learn but truly the freedom is wonderful. Is my life perfect nope I went from a fantastic career as a Nurse to being a patient and often bed confined for months and when up in a wheelchair. I do regret time I wasted needlessly worrying and also not making me time to do things I loved like walking in rain and jumping in puddles lordi if I knew I could not walk in future you bet I would have jumped in many puddles. So as I say we do not know path our lives will take so embrace life and if in doubt say Dormouse would say as long as I am kind and not hurting anyone don't give a flying fuck. Go grab life and the idea you are a burden put out with the rubbish/trash... You go have a wonderful life so many adventures to have 💜

[@albertoaguilar9773]

I'm 23, I just finished college and pretty much feel the same way. I don't know where I want to be or what I want to specialize in. Luckily I don't have to worry about much things, so I can explore a variety of career paths.

[@rosjasss]

@@hjcdormouse7337 Thanks for your words

[@leemuzzy2239]

"sometimes the greatest impact is controlling the mess in your bedroom" such wisdom in that!

[@AndreiB92]

Jordan Peterson did a number on all of us, hasn't he?

[@peninsulaindustrial]

Most sincere and kindest I have ever seen Candice. So nice to see you two growing closer and closer. She looks great

[@caseybryant7409]

One of the most blissful things about getting older is not caring what anyone thinks! Candice is so on point. We are all going to age and get older, but doing it as gracfully as possible is all we have control over.

[@AlEbnereza]

Casey pulling out the Nostalgia-cam. This is all sorts of meta.

[@WorldAccordingToBriggs]

My wife said "it is the length of our boobs."

[@paulreiche2746]

38 extra long?😅

[@charlesafk2281]

Our? 🤨

[@Rimedur]

@@charlesafk2281 his wife was speaking for all women

[@rsplatpc]

You can fight a lot of things, gravity ain't one of them

[@AndreiB92]

the wiser, the saggier

[@TLFaun]

This lady aged like fine wine. You are lucky dude. She gave you her youth, the kids. Cherish every moment. Life passes by in a fluke.

[@doglovervibez]

I’m almost 20 and still look like a young kid

[@glenjamindle]

I don't think fluke is the right word...

[@Rapha187]

@@doglovervibezyea that’s normal when you’re only 20

[@rosjasss]

@@doglovervibez be happy about it, looking young is best thing that can happen to you

[@mk17173n]

Im sure Casey becoming a millionaire through his hard work and sacrifice helps her too with keeping the youth and raising kids.

[@Dstinct]

Im in my early 40s, and so far it's turning out to be my best decade yet.

[@Official-D.W.]

Crazy how Franny will have all this footage to look back on, and see just how in love Casey was with her mum

[@TheAlskdfj]

They are literally almost always on the verge of divorce. Don't buy this video.

[@MYoutube8]

You have the most fascinating wife. Intriguing. She is like life itself: depressing, funny, weird and fun all at the same time.

[@WHATSINSIDEFAMILY]

Casey = Greatest Filmmaker on YT

[@georgekraus9357]

Numero Uno

[@mentallyhyp2012]

Honestly the moment he posts and I notice i'm earnestly thrilled as to what I will get to see from his mind camera and craft!

[@yarisTSk]

yes, yes.

[@PackPractical]

could not agree more

[@traceymarshall5886]

He is trying to copy Emma Chamberlain and her style of video. The camera quality is awful in this and its nothing like his 2015 videos. Hence he is trying to copy Gen Z style

[@davidmay465]

I’m 46. I wish I had seen this when I was 26. Thank you Candice, I’m right there with you.

[@Charlie_R]

Fastest human response to that notification

[@alexsurmer]

😂

[@petergreco]

Same I was so quick 😂

[@mblaughlin]

Same

[@philthydirtydog9203]

I immediately clicked when it popped up 😂😂

[@chandraseptian3334]

We're athletes in this

[@debralux2594]

I'm 72 and have always been pulled in Casey's videos by what feels genuine and thoughtful. And Candace...can't imagine either of them with any other partner. ❤

[@GiantGreenGecko]

This is so beautiful to hear her say to look back and see what we did.

[@geo3802]

I haven't watched a Neistat video in almost 8 years. Don't really know why I stopped. I thought about Casey and remembered I enjoyed his vids so went looking. Glad he is still around 🙂 I share that because this video of Candice is so interesting. "Don't care how I look or what people think as much any more". You are still beautiful Candice. It is so interesting to see people mature and become comfortable with themselves and life. It is so sad when a person gets older and they never really become adults. Great vid!

[@jarrodlewis123]

The joy of reflection. Powerful. Thanks, Candice!

[@m31uk3]

I’m so grateful to be close in age to Casey and Candice. Even after watching them for years, it still hits in the feels just how perfectly they capture the Zeitgeist of our generation exactly as we’re experiencing it. Life is so rich!

[@plica06]

OK, you think this pair of millionaires represent a generation of millions still living at home with their parents, who cannot afford their own homes, who are in student loan debt they may never repay that gave them worthless degrees, living off credit cards and dying en masse in an opioid epidemic. You must be one of the lucky ones.

[@youtubeojunk]

Much of what you said sounds like you're referring to Millennials. Candace is Gen X @@plica06

[@kylefeemster4680]

What's crazy is how every time you post a video it always seems to be in the right time in my life. Thank you for always staying positive.

[@rikki7953]

This eased my anxiety so much. I’m 26 and worry about if I’ll ever have a family. Good to know someone as cool as Candace had the same thoughts and worries at my age 💜 thanks for sharing

[@Lochsmusic]

Man, this is really good. Thank you Casey and Candice. I'm 37 with four kids and definitely processing these same feelings and realities.

[@ninakoch1799]

This made me cry. At 26 I worry so much about what I will become and hearing Candice felt the same way is so reassuring to me.

[@ceni777]

Watching this at 26 before I turn 27 lost as ever- will I make it? It is a bit comforting to hear Candice’s words of reflection. I’ve always cherished her boss mentality and the way she carries herself. She will always be beautiful. I hope everything will work out for everybody struggling.❤

[@azrrrrrrrr]

Same age as you and fighting with my own demons! Hopefully we both go thru it :)

[@Dayxh8]

26 .. 27 in May and I think about my future everyday.

[@Danny-wv8ec]

"Sometime the greatest impact is controlling the mess in your bedroom and it makes you feel better." This was gold.

[@heyyitssj]

So many things I loved about this video. The interview style with Candace, how real and raw her answers felt, the genuine discussion about therapy. Thank you for uploading Casey

[@johnalex4006]

I wish I can have a privilege of chatting with you

[@metalfingersfilm]

this made me cry.

[@pierrevalentino5250]

The life lesson: Press record.

[@zeydtc]

this tbh

[@hogg1220]

Man keep your damn phones down and live.

[@joeygarcia4277]

THIS. 99.999% OF US ARE NOT LIKE CASEY! PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN AND LIVE !@@hogg1220

[@josemendoza-gs1rn]

He has lived. Yall must not know him. Well

[@oneday3857]

@@hogg1220you’re literally on your phone if you wasn’t you wouldn’t be able to comment 😂

[@InnerResearcher]

Watching this as a 26 year old and everything Candice reflected on about being in her 20s was spot on. Thank you for this video. Love Candice and also from all the old footage... you guy's haven't aged a day :)

[@esdl.a6612]

Always good to see Candice in your videos; hearing her talk about her 20s and not knowing what to do, made me think about the stage I’m in right now: 22, and not knowing what to do either Casey, your creativity always amazes me Love ya.

[@LindsayBianco]

the joy of reveling in the life you created! Same here, now at 41. Candice has always been so effortlessly herself. what a testament to her upbringing. I've always admired her confidence.

[@makasii]

totally agree with the family part, 51 here, never been married, no kids, traveling the world almost freely, but having no "purpose" like a family or kids, makes it surprisingly challenging to find motivation sometimes. And yes, getting older gives way more IDGAS about what others think, rather prefer to be surrounded by a tiny circle of valuable people :-) and when did that studio thing happened???? how did I miss that!!! the "back to the root" extension looks great!!!!

[@absfinal]

Any ideas about your future in maybe 20 years?

[@samarth09able]

She is true to herself in every vlog/video, she is a part of. At times she is crazy wanting to be adventurous whereas the other times you can feel the calm and humbleness in her. Amazing!

[@FLEXjs]

Quite possibly your best video yet and wow Candice has changed over the years, in a good way. You're still both very young. I will be 57 in a few months and my wife just turned 59. We will celebrate 19 years together in September. It just keeps getting better. Congratulations to you two. It's not easy but it's worth it.

[@jeremydelacruzz]

As I'm 24 years old, this was awesome insight. Thank you Candice and Casey!

[@urban-UK]

Casey! Thank you for uploading this made my day

[@WilsonRidge]

I'm 26 watching this. Probably drinking too much and consistently worried about where tf my life/career/dreams are headed. Wow. Thx Candice.

[@snowcrow__]

I'm so happy you do videos like that! I'm with my wife since we were 15, now 36 with 2 kids. We love them with all our hearts, but oooh boy, our life is so different with them. We have to work really hard to keep our personalities in one piece because marriege, kids, having your own company are extremely demanding. We do our best to spend as much time together with my wife because the feelings are there and we enjoy the time together, just WE (characters) are fading unintentionally. That's what I feel. Does it make sense to anyone else?

[@alejandroflavia9817]

So sad you never saw our blue sky!!! Nice video, as always and thx for visiting DR, you are welcome! ❤

[@donnapeterson1945]

Sooo true Candice! Different wants and desires at different stages of life, well said ❤️

[@buildingpickleball]

“Before it was about the anticipation and now it’s about the reflection.” Wow.

[@mamalovesthebeach437]

46 was fabulous!! DO NOT THINK OR FOCUS on that life is downhill from 40’s or you will live within that narrow lens. Living in the present is way underrated. Funding a good therapist is way underrated. Love the interview style of this video.

[@Kdubb815]

I love Candice’s insights and her introspective mind. Her answers always feel authentic to who she is and what her journey is reflecting. I’m also happy to see she seems at peace. I guess seeing a video like this it’s cool to see the fruition of a marriage that’s been and being fought for as we all live in a society where it’s so easy for many people to just give up. What Casey and Candice have created and are nurturing is a great example, flawed as every marriage is, this is still good for society as a whole to see and I personally believe that the concept of family is worth the hardships that come along with what it means to love and sacrifice to keep that holy union alive and well. Thank you for this video and I pray that God blesses you more and more. I’m rooting for your success in life and the lives of your family.

[@naterocks96]

What a cool gal. I can understand why she's the one you chose to spend your life with. I love that you bring us along on your growth and journey. I think you and Candice have a lot of wisdom to share, and great perspectives on life.

[@warriorsmustang1784]

I was just in the Domincan Republic a few weeks ago. I instantly knew where he was when he showed the airport. Kinda crazy he might have been there at the same time, but probably not because it didn't rain at all when I was there

[@HiroDaHero]

Such a beautiful content. Thank you Casey and Candice for sharing the perspectives!

[@TheMariothedude]

"Reflection" I like her mindset what a woman!🙂

[@Steamenginesunited3456]

I've learned more about video production from Casey's videos than I would have from film school

[@HabashyGaming]

I think as someone whose watched casey for a decade or so now. This kinda made me reflect 10 years ago I was only 14 and she was 36. That is mighty tough to think about. Time does fly! I hope you do another one when she is 56. I really loved this!

[@omCi]

I love Casey. He can make a video with potato camera and it would be a great compelling story and so good to watch. Or take a pro camera and make it like a home movie from 90’s all in order to serve the story and style. It’s really freaking god given talent. And this video was special for me as I’m exact same age and reflecting on the same stuff. It was really nice hearing it from someone else. Great job guy. We love you guys and thanks for all the years of great content.

[@DavZZee]

Casey, those transitions between shots with the video lagging behind were so good. Keep adding to you and your wife’s life book. There’s so much more to live!

[@joschaleeuw402]

gosh, candice is sooo pretty

[@isabellescates552]

I am twenty years old and everything she said about being young is so true to what I think. You do think about your future every night like she said almost like it's something to check off.

[@matthewgray9896]

Candice has some beautiful insight. I appreciate Casey sharing this part of his wonderful wife.

[@CaesarDelgado]

I’m sure she’s going to enjoy seeing her age in the title Casey 😆

[@WandererNamedGuy]

Probably going to be one of the better “home videos” of the 20’s. Thanks for sharing Casey.

[@colesatterwhite4506]

Thank you Candice as a 22yr old dude this is the most I’ve ever felt relatable to you through Casey’s channel!

[@nekoyokoshima4199]

The simple things in life. Having a life companion, raising a family, the little things we do together. These are the things that count. Thanks for reminding me of that!

[@kaicameron6401]

Casey you and Candace are a power couple... These questions really are questions we should ask of and "listen" to from our spouses. Thanks for demonstrating real commitment.

[@SalComuna]

Few millions in the bank can help.

[@10alyx17]

facts

[@KeithO29]

I just turned 66. Hard to imagine. You know what though, its just a number, thankfully i feel great inside and out. take care.

[@tashintomorrowland]

I’m 31, thank you so much Candice for shedding light on what’s to come ❤

[@SteveODonnell]

Life is a journey. I'm 42 and my wife is 46. Together for 15 years and married for 10 this year. We've been through a lot together. Love, loss, medical journey. Thoughts and feelings to deal with. You just learn as you go, making time for each other and talking and listening and you'll get through almost anything.

[@shannan89]

Thanks Candace I felt the same way. Now my kids are out of the house, enjoy every moment with your kids goes by so fast.

[@natshares]

It’s just amazing how creators sweat on composition, colour grading, drone shots and that whilst you just pull out a camcorder and get this shit done so well. Pure ❤

[@betobsbf]

They really need each other. They are opposites that complement each other beautifully.

[@RyanRabinowitz-e8l]

Just recently turned 26. Within the last year or so, I was blindsided by a ton of stress, anxiety, and depression stemming from not really knowing who I am or what I want. It’s hard to stay in the present moment when I’m constantly consumed with the fear of the future and things like a career not working out, not being financially stable, not being successful, never meeting someone to start a family with, etc. It’s especially hard seeing people my age to be seemingly much further ahead in their careers, getting engaged, and having their lives put together. It was really comforting to hear Candice speak about how she felt similarly at this age, and to see that it really did all end up working out for her. It’s nice to know I’m not alone. I suppose everything will be okay… Thank you, Candice.

[@JuanitoCristalinas]

Everything has changed… also, everything prevails intact. Thank you, Casey. Always a great reference for filmmaking.

[@FreeTheOne1996]

Ever since I followed Casey many many many many years ago when I found his vlog and his business and his moving and seeing his wife on the vlogs, I have respected her greatly. Thank you Candace for your credibility and your honor and for your life lessons that you taught us today I’m 65 I can really relate. I’ve already been a mother, a successful business woman and I travel a lot now I’m also writing a book my best times are with my family and my children, who are now 32 and 39. Enjoy every minute that’s my go to. Thanks Casey. Love you guys. ❤

[@spyder6100]

what you mean you try to get away once a year? you are multi millionaires with nothing but time, Get real.

[@DeclanRyanRising]

If you have a family and live in New York millions are more like 10's of thousands. The cost of living there is just stupid. Families are demanding and getting away alone as a couple is challenging.

[@lyingeyes5579]

Yeah I was about to say. Also, Candice comes from a rich South African family. Her precious advice is as irrelevant as can be.

[@ericdjie6834]

That was very good and I am very interested to see how your work will further evolve. Oh, and please take a longer vacations...

[@matthiashavrez]

what the fuck ? why do you need sponsor money ?

[@goldbrick2563]

I dont think youtube pays very much. A lot of big channels have sponsors and memberships and patreons. I just joined MBKHD's membership for $5/month for example. You would think he doesnt need membership revenue...but maybe they really do.

[@mcmc725]

My wife and I are a year or two younger but I share the exact same sentiments. We have two little ones later in life because we had trouble early on with conceiving. Married life is the hardest but most fulfilling thing you can do. I've known my wife since we were young teens and I still am learning things about her and she with me. Having kids just amplified everything. Its much harder than marriage but the reward is that much greater. I constantly think about who my kids will be and hopefully witnessing it alongside her. I look forward to getting older. Not that I want time to speed up but that I'm excited for what it could hold. I also love that you're back in NYC. I was living vicariously through you by your daily vlogs years ago. Never leave.

[@BorisTheDev]

This is the best Better Help ads I’ve ever seen!

[@barryhuizing2804]

This was fantastic so honest, open, reflective and thoughtful. Definitely one of your best works! Thank you for being so open for us.

[@spiritedguy2]

Looking back at looking ahead, Candace, you'll be happy to know life begins at 50, altho it might seem like it's ending while in your 40's. The only thing I need to overcome each day is WTF am I going to eat for dinner tonight. Thanks to the both of you, Happy New Year too.

[@bruno_mcd]

It's always a pleasure when you upload Casey. Thank you for everything you show and showed us.

[@m.isabelcastanon2323]

Thank you for saying Marriage is Hard because it really is. It’s a lot of things but it’s also work. I’ve been married for 18 years and a half, have been with my husband for 20 and a half years altogether. I’m also a therapist who works with a lot of couples. I just love how real you and Candice keep things. Thank you.

[@ExpeditionAustralia]

I love that despite all of your success you guys are just so very normal and relatable.

[@insanecrazgurlie325]

The way she said she felt at 26 is how I’m feeling now at almost 32. I always just think about my future and what my family is going to look like and if I’ll have kids and all that. Makes me feel less alone

[@HankTschida]

I’ve always loved Casey’s KZbin style. It’s simple not so complex. Just a dude with a camera filming what he thinks is interesting and makes a story of it. I think all of us wish we had a creative mindset like Casey

[@QuintonHamp]

Man, I feel so much of this. I'm still in the "check it off" stage of traveling.

[@ZOOTV-1976]

“The more you see, the less you know The less you find out as you go I knew much more then Than I do now” U2 - City of Blinding Lights Words never spoken so truthfully. I didn’t understand those words 20yrs ago. I do now. Candice understands, clearly.

[@mat1409]

love reading the comments and seeing the different phases of life, im 19 feeling like i gotta take over the world but this kind of helped put me in my place

[@johnalex4006]

Thank Candice, this is my video, I always love to watch your videos, I'm 43 year, having so much worried about having a good relationship, this video gives me hopes that one a true love can be fund. I learnt from my last year's experience

[@criaan]

Got to love Candice - she is always so brutally honest and upfront about everything.

[@fernandoosorio6403]

What a meaningful video; simple and deep at the same time. Candice's authenticity gives infinite value to the content.

[@elementgypsy]

Good answers. Reflection. Love you Candice

[@KeanuReevesIsMyJesus]

Thanks for putting this together. Candice doesn’t give herself enough credit.

[@ViewTube_Emperor_of_Mankind]

I am 38 and I am starting to gain my health back for the first time In almost 25 years.. I feel like I missed so so so much.. but also like I still have a lot in front of me.. still I’m afraid to get sick again.. no sense in worrying.. let’s make the best of the time we have.

[@operationhotshotinc.6887]

I like when she said just cleaning your room, that’s something you can control.. Real deal

[@kamalpreet2.0]

Dude that first camera shot from handicam is just sooooo good That's why you're the goat

[@CristianMarineDR]

I am so happy that you finally visited my country 🇩🇴 It is a bit sad that it rained a lot but hopefully you have the chance to come back 🙏

[@Nesboy85]

10+ years ago, I accidentally clicked on a video of a guy who uploaded a video about a car he was selling. I found it really smart & entertaining and even though he only had a couple of videos, I immediately subscribed to his small channel. Now he has 12,6 million subs, which is more than the population of my own country.... It is insane what Casey has accomplished...

[@ittwsasvi]

this is the best video he ever made that I've watched, the context, the subject, the music, the type of the cameras and the editing style...even the sponsor. Thank you, greetings from brazil.