Life Update: Divorce and Moving on

[@mamapajama5930]

I also married my 6 year partner on paper for legal purposes and planned a big wedding the following year, and three months before called the whole thing off and filed for divorce within the year. It’s a humbling life moment, to say the least. Almost a decade later we both have better partners for us and we are also proud we took the high road, the way we handled it. You will end up in a stronger relationship, but I walked that road and I feel for you. It wasn’t easy.

[@noseyandneutral]

Thank you for sharing this. Damn

[@stephaniesaslut12616]

Yup. Wasnt easy. But it does get better. As u know. Thank u for sharing.

[@paulafamularo5001]

💖💖💖💖💖

[@abbyz13]

your story is so inspiring thank you for posting this

[@Oonagh72]

I’m so happy for your journey.

[@thomasg2493]

Hannah - Talking about the most emotional experience she has ever had Also Hannah - “I don’t know why I’m getting so emotional about this” Thank you for sharing your story Hannah we love you

[@TimeBucks]

I am so sorry this has happened

[@shorifulislam7362]

Nice

[@grapesforallofus]

🤭

[@anowarislam1363]

Earning

[@KALBHAT]

Hi

[@maripiyadfernandes5499]

nice😊😊

[@bugaboo_daisy9000]

An amicable divorce is always better than a terrible marriage, though both are more than painful. We missed you!

[@meahdahlgren6537]

Right

[@PettyUniversity]

Sending you the biggest, warmest, most gentle hugs and support in the world. I think we can all agree, we’re just happy to see you existing. You’re such a blessing, whether you upload or not, share or not… just exist how you need to. All my love. 💙

[@getjuliet]

And ditto to you, Swoop :)

[@JIRH922]

I love how supportive both Swoop and Hannah are of each other. There are so many contact creators who are only in it for themselves, and these two women are inspiring in their camaraderie and kindness. You guys are the reason that KZbin is still a platform I love. It is so easy to be so shitty. It is hard to be vulnerable and genuinely kind and I thank you both.

[@shannonmiles4503]

Well said Swoop!!! You are amazing as well girl!!! 💙💙💙

[@oluwatoluburianu3597]

Try more of it it very amazing

[@xomegsxo]

Beautifully said🥺❤️

[@annepoler4710]

Since Hannah isn't seeing that I'll address it to anyone going through heartache right now: Its so, so hard. You *will* survive this. You're not alone.

[@Call_Upon_YAH]

Jesus Christ is the propitiation for the whole world's sins. They that believeth and are baptized (with the Holy Spirit) shall be saved; but they that believeth not shall be damned. Those led by the Holy Spirit do not abide in wickedness. *God is ONE manifesting himself as THREE;* the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit! Bless him! *For these three are one.* As I am led by the Holy Spirit, nothing I state is a lie, but the truth of God. Anyone who tells you differently is misinformed or a liar. They do not know God, nor led by him. Anyone who *claims* to be a Christian and is against what I am doing, and where I am doing it; the Holy Spirit does not dwell within them, they lack understanding. They know not God, read his word, and their religion is in vain. Do not hear them, they will mislead you, the lost cannot guide the lost.

[@Call_Upon_YAH]

When you trust in God and cast your cares (worries, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts) upon him, they will be NO MORE! Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals! The world is wicked, evil, and of the devil. I too, was a wicked sinner of the world before I opened my heart to God. I am living proof of God's work and fruitfulness! He is an active God who hears the prayers of his! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous. The devil is a liar that comes to steal, to kill, and to destroy; that includes your relationship with God. Open your heart to God, repent of your sins (he will forgive you), and let him direct your path. Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands and purify your heart, lest you walk with the devil and follow him to hell.

[@randomdude189]

Are you also obese though?

[@aacostasd]

@@Call_Upon_YAH please stop don’t shove your religion down people’s throat

[@beasttitanofficial3768]

Thank you ❤️

[@hippopajamas]

Alright everyone. Hannah isn't reading the comments, so let's all just agree: we are going to watch the SHIT out of glowmas. We're going to leave endless supportive comments and if she misses a day we aren't going to say a gd thing. We're going to make glowmas outperform all of her wildest dreams so that her imposter syndrome can't survive under the FACT that her subscribers believe in her.

[@esmeesmeralda701]

Amen

[@poopyrose8180]

Yess!!!

[@Wanderin_Stories]

THATS RIGHT!! GLOWMAS 2022 LETS GOOO

[@SuzieQ-lw2kp]

Agree 💯 💯

[@Therabidtrashpanda]

HERE for it 🤘

[@YanAsims]

I’m so sorry, divorces and breakups are pretty hard to go through especially when you go through a miscarriage the same year. This must be so hard for you, but just know that your fans are there for you and we love you❤️❤️

[@katherineg8126]

I think it’s telling that commenters that appear female are all showing support and empathy while profiles with male names are commenting on her looks…

[@katherineg8126]

@GengarBaffling comment

[@Hillcountry_Catholic]

@gengar2816oh you just know they are 😂

[@Hillcountry_Catholic]

I’m a woman and I find her to be not only trashy in her appearance but also her personality. I don’t feel bad for her. And if she can’t handle comments she could have turned them off. She didn’t, because she wants the clicks and attention.

[@katherineg8126]

@@Hillcountry_Catholic this was 3 months ago bae, she was going through a rough time and felt like she had to update her followers. She definitely could turn off her comments, but that wouldnt really change the point of my comment. But also ur anti-vax, you don’t really get to call other people trashy or attention seeking 😐

[@milacruz3970]

Those have never spent 24 hours with a woman lol

[@emeraldblue5291]

I'm so sorry, Hannah. This has been my year from hell too. Between Late Feb & Oct i lost my job, turned 50, got divorced after 29yrs, my best friend of 45yr died from cancer 6mo after I moved to be her caretaker, my only kid moved 5k miles away & I moved twice to 2 states. I'm finally seeing the sun again. How i didn't end up in the psych hospital, I still don't understand. No sage advice. Just keep waking up & showing up. ❤

[@maybemablemaples2144]

That's so rough. Here's hoping for better, if not as dookie times. Celebrate yourself and your accomplishments. Get right with yourself. I, a rando on the internet am wishing you the best if that means anything 🥰

[@bellezanegra0206]

Damn. I’m sorry. That’s a lot

[@nikifitness85]

I’m so sorry things have been so hard for you. I am praying for you.

[@katestewart6274]

I'm so sorry that you've had to face all of that 💜

[@gmc5618]

Rooting for you, when you hit rock bottom you can only go up

[@dariasdouble212]

People don't realize that there's a massive amount of growth and change that happens during your 20s. I'm sorry it didn't work out, and I hope you both are able to continue on and find happiness. Your 30s will be so much better!

[@di3486]

Oh the 30s are even more brutal but the growth there is actually much better

[@Call_Upon_YAH]

Jesus Christ is the propitiation for the whole world's sins. They that believeth and are baptized (with the Holy Spirit) shall be saved; but they that believeth not shall be damned. Those led by the Holy Spirit do not abide in wickedness. 👍🏾 *God is ONE manifesting himself as THREE;* the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit! Bless him! *For these three are one.* As I am led by the Holy Spirit, nothing I state is a lie, but the truth of God. Anyone who tells you differently is misinformed or a liar. They do not know God, nor led by him. Anyone who *claims* to be a Christian and is against what I am doing, and where I am doing it; the Holy Spirit does not dwell within them, they lack understanding. They know not God, read his word, and their religion is in vain. Do not hear them, they will mislead you, the lost cannot guide the lost.

[@Call_Upon_YAH]

When you trust in God and cast your cares (worries, anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts) upon him, they will be NO MORE! Know that there is power in the name Jesus Christ! His name casts out demons and heals! The world is wicked, evil, and of the devil. I too, was a wicked sinner of the world before I opened my heart to God. I am living proof of God's work and fruitfulness! He is an active God who hears the prayers of his! God's children are set apart (holy) and righteous. The devil is a liar that comes to steal, to kill, and to destroy; that includes your relationship with God. Open your heart to God, repent of your sins (he will forgive you), and let him direct your path. Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands and purify your heart, lest you walk with the devil and follow him to hell.

[@penskepc2374]

@@di3486 nah, for most people your 30s are the best. Young enough to enjoy life, but wise enough to get over the imperfections.

[@anadurando9036]

i agree, 30s are so much better!

[@galady8632]

This video randomly appeared on my KZbin feed and here I am. I never heard of this channel before so my thoughts have no basis beyond this video and personal experiences. Hannah, you do you. It's not always 'one day at a time' - sometimes it's one step at a time or one minute at a time. I never married and never will - I am far too strong willed and opinionated. Marriage isn't bad - it's just not for me. I'm 72 so single is my normal. I believe your unexpected emotional reaction during the video may be due to this channel being YOUR creation. Obviously Charles helped you but this channel is a direct reflection of you. You poured so much of yourself into each video. It probably feels like an extension of yourself and that would be normal. Maybe someday you will read comments on this video. If not that is definitely understandable. You are stronger than you realize. You are a fierce warrior. Heavy duty life lessons often suck. You have endured a major, horrific 'Hoover' experience

[@katherinegarr3226]

I’m just responding to boost this comment, in the hopes that she may eventually read it. Thank you for this comment, lovely lady🥰

[@marielysleon]

❤️

[@mollysullivan6414]

this is one of my favorite comments of all time. i too never watch this channel, not because she isn't a good content creator but because i only watch documentaries about history and science now lol. but the fact that you're normalizing never getting married even by the age of 72 is SO REFRESHING. thank you for putting that into perspective and reminding us all that happiness comes in all shapes and sizes.

[@melanieschnurr571]

i’m only 23 and i’m afraid i’ll never find love or get married. i know i’m young so i still have time and i know never getting married is ok too. i’m glad i found this comment because it’s rare finding people that have never been married. i think it’s super cool that you’ve been a single lady all this time and i hope if i never end up getting married that i turn out to be as kind as you seem to be for commenting such validating advice!

[@buhbuhbrittney]

bless you GA Lady

[@KaraNolting]

My divorce was so amicable that when my now ex and I walked into city hall to fill out paperwork, the registrar assumed we were picking it up for friends of ours and not us because we were laughing and joking. When we decided to end our marriage/relationship, the relief we both felt allowed us to relax and be ourselves again. We didn't remain friends because well neither of us wanted to be around the other full stop but the respect and kindness was and is still there. We will always wish each other well.

[@mirisparkleslikewhoa]

I'm glad you had a positive experience!

[@therobotdevil2284]

I think it's beautiful that this comment section is so filled with such loving support and kind words, Hannah has truly built a wonderful KZbin community. I know she won't read all these comments, but I hope that the encouraging words everybody's writing here impacts all the viewers who read them, and that maybe somehow the positive vibes reach her.

[@noodlepoodlegirl]

I think she'll come back and read them someday. I have a feeling. 💛

[@OregonCrow]

Most of them are bots, lol. I mean look at the one named: "Come fast to get into my body". ahhhhhhhhhhhhh hahahahahahahahaahahahahahahaha

[@SweetNothing937]

The death analogy is 100% accurate. It’s so devastating, it really is a point of just grieving and feeling that lost. It’s hard especially when they’re gone, but it’s not a final loss. They just aren’t in your life anymore, but they’re still out there.

[@amandamooreVA]

So true.

[@jennajune2101]

I’ve always said a divorce is worse than a death, because they’re still out there living their life, without you.

[@ettaz]

Not only that, they are living their life without you and with someone else. I got divorced in august 2021 (similar to Hannah's story, together for 9 years, married for 2, spent our 20s together, stayed friends) and now he lives with a wonderful girl who is making him very happy. I am very happy for him, for them both, but is still a tough thing to watch from outside.

[@clairepettie]

If anyone who is in touch with SG is checking her comments section, I'm positive the bulk of us would never prioritize a daily Glowmas video over her health and happiness. She can burn the calendar post-its and most of us fans would hand her the match and tell her to remember that we'll be around whenever she's ready.

[@NiteMareBliss]

⬆️⬆️⬆️ all of this!!! Mental health always comes first

[@jenflamingo2496]

I've been looking forward to Glowmas but I absolutely agree 🔥

[@7ven7venty7venArtworks]

Love this. Torch those post-it’s/calendar 😂 I wish I could send her a comment if she doesn’t post… like ‘proud of you, Hannah! You didn’t post and that’s ok bc you woke up today and somedays that is the absolute most- much love and see you whenever!❤🎉’

[@MissKit091]

What I will say…as someone who was involved in a very tragic accident with my family (while on vacation!) where one of us lost a limb and is still currently fighting for their life even though it’s been MONTHS since the initial accident, I cannot say how much healing happened for me personally just going back to work. It allows me to focus on my job instead of the very obvious elephant in the room that is my family member quite literally fighting for their life and myself having, frankly, a little bit of survivors guilt. Sometimes…it’s better this way to pour energy into something that is not just sitting, and being with this event that fucking hurts. Either way she goes is the way to support!

[@Mari-il4bw]

Yes! It’s a little crazy when people go through things like this and they ask for grace during this time and I’m like yes of course that goes without saying! You would have to be trash to be like “I don’t care upload everyday or I’ll unsubscribe” all of us with compassion and understanding will be here regardless of the consistency of her upload schedule right now. I definitely feel for her I’ve been going through a tough time this holiday season idk maybe it’s something in the air lol.

[@kayceeloftis7173]

As a single mother going through med school, I can confidently say that you are significantly more capable than you realize. There will be moments that you surprise yourself, but change will happen and it's scary. You've got this though, and your best days have yet to happen!

[@tashibalampkin8555]

Single mom going through med school. Wow. Shout out to you and your motivation and drive.

[@kitkat2263]

Damn babe! You are inspiring the hell out of me! Fellow single mom here and so often I feel overwhelmed and frazzled. How do you stay focused?

[@hconf]

What a freaking badass!!!! Rock on woman !

[@lawlaw4109]

Holy shit, good for you. I always wondered how the single moms in nursing school did it, nevermind med school.

[@lauravlife]

Well done, Kaycee, that's amazing. My best friend had two children under the age of 2 when her fiancé cheated on her. She kicked him out on the spot, learned to drive, went to college, went on to study nursing at uni, graduated, took her kids to Disney world and in 2019 she bought her first house. Every week while she was studying, we had tearful phonecalls because she was struggling to get childcare, or her funding never showed up on time, or her car broke down, and every week she thought she was going to have to drop out. But she fought her way through, kicking and screaming, and she's now built a beautiful life for herself and her kids. You're all superwomen.

[@jesse.espagueti]

I ran into Hannah in July at a restaurant and she was with a group of friends. She was so lovely! I was in shock of course because I love her channel and she was the most wonderful person ever. I would have not guessed in a million years she was right in the middle of all of this :( Breakups are so fucking hard - I wish everyone in the comments that are sharing their struggles the best! My 3 year relationship ended Christmas of 2021 and it was horrible, but for the best, and I am now realizing that and seeing the fruit of dedicating time to myself and my growth. I can't wait for Glowmas!!! 💕✨

[@randomdude189]

At a restaurant... obviously

[@westerncivilization]

"large group of friends" indeed

[@jesse.espagueti]

@@randomdude189 wtf is that supposed to mean

[@laurenr5095]

@@jesse.espagueti it means "I'm a bored insecure asshole in my mother's basement with nothing better to do than troll and be jealous of successful women". Because if they were that disgusted and repulsed by her they wouldn't have bothered clicking on the video and replying to comments.

[@gloomette.e]

I day late. If things arent ok im sorry and i hope they get better. ❤

[@melissam6388]

Saw the title and immediately clicked. Whatever happened we are here to support you! Love you ❤️

[@saramcdonalds427]

SPEAK FOR YOURSELF

[@kaylon7996]

@@saramcdonalds427 ?

[@justkidding2001]

@@saramcdonalds427 tf???

[@CatNagTaylorsVersion]

@@saramcdonalds427 What did she do to y’all

[@jesscorner6381]

@@saramcdonalds427 ew this is not the place for this energy

[@MollyBurkeOfficial]

The best thing I did for myself during my breakup a year ago was keep it private and only tell close family and 1 or 2 friends during the first few months and I can't recommend it enough, so I'm sorry you weren't able to have that. I too, like many, have had a really rough year and I'm praying for all of us there are brighter days ahead in 2023.

[@maggiemcloughlin1707]

Love you Molly❤️

[@carinam4258]

Molly!❤❤❤

[@nogirlIonlyusevenmo]

Molly!! 💕

[@mandypdx]

❤❤❤

[@ElsaLoui]

Love you molly 💗

[@YandereDay]

I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years on Friday. We weren't married, but we lived together for 4 years, have pets together, the same social circles, etc. Videos like this are incredibly helpful, since it feels like no one in their twenties has been in a breakup leaving them single for the first time in their adult life 💔

[@giangkim8789]

ok

[@duongchuc1834]

ok

[@maryscarlettsmallwood2176]

It is a really unique experience. I dated my ex from 17 to 24. We lived together for about 4 years as well. Shit still hurts sometimes but you heal and you gain a strength and a feeling of empowerment. I'm very proud of what I've been able to accomplish alone despite the hurt. It will be the same for you even if it feels like no one understands what you're going through. But you're not just some lost child because you broke up with someone you care about. You are independent and strong and you have it in you to handle whatever comes your way.

[@Momofukudoodoowindu]

This is why I tell my single friends not to move in with their man before they've established the timeline of an engagement or marriage because then you end up giving him that king wife treatment of cooking for him, cleaning for him, etc etc, before he's earned it.

[@beer1403]

What do u expect when u play house?

[@Tiredbutmighty]

I'm glad you and Charles are being amicable. My divorce pushed me into a severe depressive psychosis. It didnt help that my ex husband had been unfaithful, left me penniless, flaunted his new partner around my place of work and then told everyone I was crazy and abusive because he didnt want to look bad for all he did. Safe to say I dont speak with him anymore.

[@cheryle3256]

I'm so sorry you went through this.

[@Alexcutspie]

i hope the universe gives you financial compensation

[@farahwork2552]

im sorry 😞 ❤️❤️❤️. hope things get worlds better

[@patr70]

Oh Honey.. I have a feeling there is going more, who are just like him, knocking at your door. These men are drawn to you like moths to a flame.

[@londa4793]

im so sorry you had to deal with that, i wish you the best 💗

[@ellyn97]

the parasocial relationship took over for me on this one. sending you all of my positive energy and healing. thank you so so so much for giving us this sort of access to your life. you absolutely dont owe us anything so thank you 💖💖

[@maybemablemaples2144]

Sometimes just a little parasocialness is good. We all gotta be here for Hannah 🦹🏾‍♀️

[@sewgeekdesigns9113]

Exactly 😢and she’s the one who taught me the word parasocial 😅

[@Giraffatitannn_]

A relationship does not have to last forever to be successful. You guys spent so much of your formative years together and I’m glad you two are remaining friends.

[@Momofukudoodoowindu]

Yes it does. Your criteria is tragically misdirected. A marriage is only successful if it survives.

[@recklessserenade7869]

@@Momofukudoodoowindu if you are married for 10 years and have amazing 9 years and 1 bad year, it's still a success

[@rachel3620]

So spot on.

[@arugulaempire8779]

A failure cannot be a success. You must be woke.😆😆😆

[@DasGoodASMR]

@@arugulaempire8779if you die, does that mean you were never alive?

[@IvyroseGullwhacker]

GIRL you cannot catch a BREAK! 💔 I am sending you the biggest hugs all the way from Southern California. You are such an inspiration to me.

[@jellymoonbun]

I'm currently going through divorce too and am suddenly a single mom, after 7 years. Life can change so fast and it's scary. I wish everyone nothing but the best!

[@Jessica-jl7dx]

❤❤❤❤

[@kiakat]

I wish you and your kids nothing but the best best, Kimi ❤❤❤ you’ve got this!

[@eurekamreum5458]

You've got this Kimi, I wish you nothing but the best

[@randomdude189]

Are you also obese?

[@yopiyopa4310]

Single mom of two here, hang in there, you can do it! It's hard, scary, sometimes angering but I promise you, you can do it!! Lots of love for you!

[@nowyounoelle]

Just to say, I have a friend who sometimes needs to "flee" as she calls it. Sometimes it's in a busy crowd, sometimes it's off the phone for a few months. But the people she loves knows that she always comes back, in her own time, and it's like she never left. You had to "flee" for a little while. And we're here for whenever you come back. :)

[@allisonreilly1952]

I just wanted to say that your comment resonated so much with me… I’m like your friend and it’s hard for people in my life to understand and it meant so much to read it so thank you for saying that.

[@gabriellagulyas3778]

Omg hi, i am the friend, it’s me! (notice the Taylor anti-hero reference!!) !!ahhh the way i feel so validated after this comment ❤️Thank you🙏

[@Claire_by_the_Seashore]

First of all, I love that term- “flee”. It feels non-critical and SOOOO accurate. Second of all, I can relate and appreciate you for giving the information. For me, it’s the same. I hurt and don’t feel good plus I can get overwhelmed by some others very easily at times. I have to withdraw, rest, and recover for a bit. I love my people the same and I’ll be back with lots of love, but I just need some time. Thank you!!!

[@patricialynn6280]

Lord knows we all need a break, but I think this was just a break, not a reoccurring flee..And I hope someday your friend will be comfortable and confident enough to no longer flee💕

[@LKTori]

ny friends also have this ! we just take breaks and come back when we can.

[@Shalamalabingbong]

There are people who shouldn't be married who stay married for years. It's really courageous of you both to bring it to an end now, without letting it go on for a long time. I'm really glad that your family and friends are supportive. You'll both be okay, Hannah. It'll pass ❤️

[@ok-lynn]

Living with an ex after the breakup is so difficult. It’s like the relationship isn’t over in a way. You still see them in the house, and you talk to them everyday. Totally connect to the feeling of like crushing grief once they’re gone. I lived with my ex for 4 months after our breakup and I thought I’d processed our breakup but it’s like it started over again once I moved out. Sending you so much love. These last few years have been hell for us all.

[@iamcool8868]

You got this yo!

[@Homepieslice77]

My long term relationship got so nasty at the end. I envy you for being able to firmly say “I will never speak ill of him and he will never speak ill of me.” This guy texted our moms mid-drunken breakdown saying awful things about me, after I had done everything for him that night. I wish I had the peace of mind knowing it won’t happen again.

[@laura9299]

I felt this…been there 😢. I 100% feel you. It truly sux.

[@MISSMADISONMEDIA]

It won’t happen again because now you know how to read people and when to walk away❤

[@namehere4954]

How people behave is a reflection of them not you. How you behave or what you say is a reflection of you. Stay high and don't stoop to others' drama inducing garbage behavior - don't give your time or energy to others' drama.

[@chloee3529]

We love you hannnah ❤

[@gabriellew.2070]

Ugh something similar happened to me

[@jesscorner6381]

I just lost my best friend unexpectedly and that post funeral feeling is so… real. It’s this emptiness and loneliness that leaves you helpless and looking for a way to fill the void left by this person’s absence

[@perlante123]

I’m so sorry to hear that. I can’t imagine what you’re going through and I wish you all the best. Sending good vibes and positive thoughts your way♥️

[@sheelfjohnson]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I also lost my best friend unexpectedly 12 years ago and it's so hard to navigate life without them. 💜

[@emergencyasmr]

I am so sorry for your loss. When I started reading your comment I hadn’t even gotten to the word “emptiness” yet but it was the first word that came to mind reflecting back on the sudden loss of my own best friend 16 years ago. I hope that you have a good support system and don’t ever hesitate to reach out to the people you trust through this time. You’re allowed to feel everything you’re feeling and the best thing you can do for yourself is keep yourself open to communication. I shut out the entire world for years and it had a profound negative impact on me so just know that you deserve to heal in a healthy way on your own time. Stay strong. Better days are ahead 🕊🌅

[@fonnireed]

I was thinking the same thing. My dad passed, and it was only after I flew back from his funeral and was in the shower that I fell on the floor sobbing and like, wailing for who I lost. She described it perfectly.

[@emileewilkins3217]

i’m so sorry for your loss. my grandpa just passed away about 2 weeks ago and when she started talking about the grief process, it hit quite hard.

[@chanelchic6489]

Just mutually broke up with by my girlfriend of 10 years who I knew for 14 years around my birthday. We were together when we were young teenagers, going through high school and college and moving in together as well. I’ve never been in another romantic relationship besides her and when we broke up I was very confused because I’ve spent my whole childhood with her and didn’t know what life looked like without her. God breakups are horrible, especially telling your family, people that were on the verge of buying outfits for a wedding that they thought was 100% coming up. Not only did I loose her, I lost her family and her friends who I’ve known for so long and have so many memories with dating back to 8th grade. It’s like loosing a chunk of yourself you didn’t know you could loose. It’s been 3 months since then and it still hurts but each day I feel a little more like me. I’m praying for you and your situation, this is a hard time for sure but there is nothing you can’t do

[@AccordingtoJexi]

I am so sorry this has happened. This year is absolutely the year we can't catch a break. I found out in April I had breast cancer, started cancer treatment in June, got Covid in July, finished chemo in October and am having major surgery in Dec. We can all use a new year! Sending all my love and support your way!! 💜💜💜

[@billieseyelashes]

i'm so sorry. i wish you all the healing in the world. ❤❤‍🩹 you are strong and you can get through this. ❤‍🩹 i really agree that this year has been a dumpster fire to say the least, gonna be good with a new one.

[@breakinfreee]

I’m sending you so much love and good vibes! ❤

[@AccordingtoJexi]

@@billieseyelashes Thank you so much! I appreciate that. Yea this year has truly been rough for just about everyone I know. Let's home 2023 is the year we all need!

[@AccordingtoJexi]

@@breakinfreee Thank you so much! 💜

[@kiakat]

You’re so strong, Jexi, and I’m sending you my love and support ❤❤ you’ve got this!

[@mentally-ill-mary]

Hannah I just wanna say as a long time watcher of yours first and foremost I love you and I commend you for continuing to push and get through the rough moments in your life. I’ll always be here to support you 🤍

[@katarinameyer4231]

I broke up with my boyfriend of 5+ years this year. I didn’t tell people things unless they asked, or if it got brought up myself casually in conversation. You don’t owe anyone an explanation no matter how much people beg for it. It’s was your relationship, and it’s your divorce. It helped me so much to be able to work through things and not make it such a huge deal. We are all going through seasons of life that change all of the time. It’s now a new season. The love you have Charles was never wasted, nor was his love to you. You now get the chance to love yourself and and friends and literally everything else in life.

[@ravenmagpiie]

I needed this comment, I just broke up my bf of 5 years and he’s adored by my much prying family. I haven’t told them yet and I don’t think I will unless they ask straight up

[@aruglaempire2518]

@@ravenmagpiie Why?? Are you ashamed? And why do you call your family "prying". You got things to work out.

[@LukeAlexander]

So sorry you've had such a difficult year Hannah I hope next year is an amazing one for you. Lots of love

[@leahwaughtal4000]

As an educator myself & someone who has worked in social work adjacent settings - I loved watching you and Charles and deeply appreciated your perspectives and life experiences. Grief from lost and broken relationships is so very real. We are grateful for the years you showed us, your vulnerability, your knowledge & your light. Sending so much love for healing & peace in the next chapter for you both.

[@maggieyarbrough9637]

i lost relationships with almost all of my support system-my entire friend group and one of my parents-in one month in 2020. i am so feeling for the kind of loss and grief hannah is experiencing. i can’t say i’ve bounced back yet, but i can say that life will go on and you will (at least in some ways) change for the better, and i hope anyone watching this video/reading this comment section will find some comfort in that. wishing hannah all the strength in the world 🖤

[@freezo244]

I just prayed for you, Maggie.

[@Viewer777Cole]

Wishing you love and light in these times Maggie ❤️

[@sandrae2398]

I experienced something similar in 2019 and it hurt a lot. It's not easy. Wishing you the best Maggie ❤️❤️❤️

[@maggieyarbrough9637]

@@sandrae2398 you too!!!

[@georgiam228]

I'm 21 and going through the worst breakup of my life right now. Not to equate to divorce it's just the most difficult thing I've dealt with in my life so far. This video is so full of strength to get through what you have it's making me feel hopeful again. Thank you Hannah, I'm sorry for everything that's been going on Edit: All the responses made me actually tear up in the best way, thank you so much everybody for your support. It's everything in a situation like this to know you're not alone 🤗

[@cailinanne]

I had my worst breakup at 21. I would reckon it’s possibly your first love. I’m 36 now and I’ve been through a couple of terrible ones. It’s incredibly hard, yeah you’re not getting divorced but you might as well be, because it’s really just as hard. It’s just a different set of obstacles. Sending you love. ❤ I know it doesn’t feel like it right now but I PROMISE, it gets better. Focus on YOU, get to know what you want and don’t want in the next. I am currently engaged to the FOR REAL love of my life. It really does feel different after all those other (yes terrible and some good) experiences ❤

[@baileydubs]

Sending you love ❤️ I’ve been through this and it’s the worst

[@serrgggeo]

Georgia! Oof, I remember the days where I couldn't stop the tears and it felt like life wouldn't feel the same without that person. And that is true, because the journey you go on to rediscover what brings YOU joy and truly helps you even expand all that you may be inspired to be! It may seem dark right now but I promise that you will get through this! Sending you so much love! ❤️

[@audrawells1383]

I had my worst breakup when I was 22, so i understand what you're feeling. I'm 31 and currently getting divorced from my partner of almost 8 years, who is the father of my 4 kids, and it's not nearly as painful as my breakup when I was 22.

[@bellezanegra0206]

Break ups can be hard even if you aren’t married. It was a significant relationship to you. You’ll get through this.

[@justclassicglam]

She truly had a tower card moment, happened to me too in 2021. When it rains, it pours. Stay strong, bad times don't last always! ❤

[@kat8559]

Omg its her saturn return

[@RedSpade37]

@@kat8559 If it's that, she's younger than she looks. You see, as far as I know, Saturn Returns usually occur in a person's 30s, like late 30s, I thought. But you might be right! (Unless you were making a joke, haha)

[@ThoughtsOnTomes]

@@RedSpade37 Saturn returns happen around 29/30 years old

[@CherrrrBear]

Me too in 2021 as well.

[@duongchuc1834]

ok

[@lisa.hennessey19]

I left my ex, my 2 kids father, 19 months ago. We were together 15 years. We met at 14. Started dating at 21, and I left him at 36. My situation is horrible bc it was DV. He went from being my best friend foe half of my life and then became a monster to me. 19 months Katerina a lot of the fog has cleared and I understand so clearly all the forms of abuse I lived through. And I went from leaving with a backpack on each kid in the middle of the night to now working full time, living with another single mom and her kids along with mine, and while struggling paycheck to paycheck, I'm doing it. Even though he's now a convicted felon, ita hard to not remember the times he was there for big things like you were explaining. I get it. I do not miss him at all and the world was lifted off my shoulders when I escaped. But navigating life alone with my 2 kids has been beyond challenging. Going from a stay at home to now needing to pay for daycare so I can work 50-60 hours a week to just live has been hard. With that said. YOU. CAN. DO. THIS. It can be really hard. Certain emotions will slam into you out of nowhere. There will be hard days. There will be amazing days. Lean om those in your life you trust and I promise you will navigate it. I'm not ok yet. But I'm still here and I tuck in 2 happy, safe kids every night. Hugs to you. Take ALL the time you need. For YOU. Do what makes you happy and what your soul needs. You are beautiful.

[@rennyren8879]

Your entire life shifting in a short period of time is scary. Its like the unknown of the future. Your personality and beliefs. How do you deal with something that was normal everyday, a constant in your routine, just suddenly be gone? I resonate with this entirely. ❤ Much love to you girly! You have accomplished so much already. You are successful. Missed your voice and opinions alot ❤️

[@LilliumWitticur]

My partner gave up on me 6 months after my Dad died. And trying to grieve them both has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Both of them were my support and the unconditional love I felt safe in, and there’s a part of me that feels like I’ll never be known like that again. I feel less valuable. It’s so lonely? But it’s so normal to feel awful where I am right now ❤

[@Sona77.]

Sending you strength 🙏🏻

[@krissydmckenzie]

I’m so sorry. You deserved better. ❤

[@Chefgrlangel]

❤️‍🩹

[@Ghost-lt4sf]

"Part of me feels like I'll never be known like that again" hits so hard. I feel that way about some connections I've lost thesw past 2 yesrs. Wishing you all the strength and energy for self love

[@kathygriffith1885]

Give it Time, everything does get better with TIME.

[@jenm9099]

Eight minutes in and I'm already in tears. The way you described how much you still care for him, and the respect you showed even through your pain really got me.

[@MnM_ASMR]

I used to think being young and going through divorce was uncommon, but after being out of school and in the workplace with people of all ages and backgrounds, it’s more common than I thought. All this to say, you’re not alone ❤

[@samanthasullivan9306]

Dated a guy for nearly 6 years, another person after that for 2 years, then met my now husband who I’ve been with for 10 years. Relationships are weird and difficult things, and break ups and divorce are just like mourning another person passing away, but it’s also a death of an era. I wish nothing but the best for you and Charles, no matter together or not. 💕💕💕

[@sonamarie]

The feeling you’re describing of losing faith in yourself in Charles’ absence is so relatable. I went through a breakup this year and it’s so hard to remember how to be “alone” again and do all of the things for yourself that he once helped you do. It feels like re-wiring your brain. It makes me feel a bit less crazy to know you’re experiencing similar emotions ❤ love you so much. Can’t fucking beleive you’re still going to do Glowmas though hahahah Smokey you’re unstoppable. Even just 1 video in December would make my year :) Glowmas is serotonin hahahahah

[@ubreaduuu]

as a child with seperated parents that had a messy divorce and also bad communication after wards i really love to see a divorce where everyone can still keep a cool mind. my mom is still friends with her first husband and his wife so please take this as a example that you can always go from partners to friends. i hope youre doing ok and strong while still allowing youself to feel emotions

[@randomdude189]

Was your mom this obese?

[@MISSMADISONMEDIA]

Strongly agree. Sometimes a chapter just closes and that’s normal!

[@Yobydobie]

When she started talking about glowmas I teared up. I was 100% expecting her to say she’s not doing it this year. And I was totally fine with that too because damn we all need a break sometimes. I want us to normalize quitting lol. But when she just hit us with the news that glowmas is still on, I was just so touched at how strong and resilient she is in the face of all of this bs.

[@tay8535]

How strange, I’m a casual watcher and realized the other day “Smokey glow hasn’t posted in a while” and I’ve been binging your older yass or passes. Im sorry to hear you’re going through a rough time, you are a beautiful person and things will get better. Divorce is hard but staying in a marriage that wasn’t meant to be is way harder. I’m glad you’re taking care of yourself

[@zuzannaskonieczna2714]

same here !!

[@MJHutchinson4]

Divorce is so hard. I just want to give her a hug and tell her she will get through this. I was married for 9 years to a man who I had been with for a total of 15. We had literally learned how to do ALL of the adult things together. It was so hard to learn that I was completely capable of doing all of those things without him, too. It was awful and exhausting and scary, but now I have learned how strong and smart and resilient I am as my own person. In the end it was empowering and I really value that journey but it isn’t an easy one.

[@alinajodko9459]

As someone who's a little older than you - every break up felt like hell and I thought "I can't do this anymore", but everytime I managed to move forward. So although it feels worse than dying now... You will be happy again. You will be loved again. You will be loving again. You will be inspired again. You will be having the best and the happiest days of your life. And although support system is great, it's still you who did all those things... and at the end it's you who is the most import person in your life and you should be proud of yourself. You are stronger than you think, you are the badass bitch :)

[@lakitajoseph2832]

Precisely 🙏🏿🙏🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@kaylakayla8713]

This is the most accurate explanation ❤

[@heatherhaynes4241]

I love this so much 🥺

[@lifewithklc]

All of this!!

[@talulahsafir]

Hi Hannah, I've been a subscriber since you had under 10k, but don't comment often. Just wanted to reach out and say that I'll always be a loyal subscriber no matter what you post. I hope you're doing okay and can feel safe to heal in private. I think you've cultivated a very caring and conscious community that understands and just wants you to succeed.

[@riannbakes]

I hope this doesn't come off as a super fucked up thing to say- but I needed this video so badly this morning. You made me feel so much less alone, Hannah. There's no reason to explain my own situation here, and I won't ramble on- but thank you for being honest here and saying you had a fucking SHITTY year. You made it possible for me to just... say that, too, and be okay with it. I love you dearly, and we all believe in you. You're brilliant on your own, and the real secret is you always HAVE been. You deserve all of the grace.

[@keim1234]

Not fucked up at all. Feeling relief for having someone else tp understand you or express what you going thru is absolutely normal and it doesn’t mean u are glad they have it bad too. Idk what you going thru specifically but I hope you have good people around and if you don’t, just know you got to keep pushing coz there’s light at the end of the tunel. You are loved and you are important and valid 💙

[@khoward7913]

I am sorry that you have had a shitty year. Keep going forward, one day at a time. Best wishes for a better year.

[@farahwork2552]

Thank you sm for this comment! its soo sweet and im sure she felt happy to hear your kindneA

[@idrinkandiknowthings9738]

You and Charles sounded like you once shared something so beautiful and you’ll find it again in your independence. You are one of my favorite creators and will continue to be but just take the time you need you owe nobody anything in your healing process ❤ Side note: these comments are so freaking positive right now I love this fan base Hannah built y’all are really positive people

[@katiegraf3881]

My husband passed away this year unexpectedly so I'm literally having the worst year of my life as well. Keep your chin up! Things will slowly get better as time goes on. My love and support vibes go out to you!!! 💖💜❤️💜❤️💜💖

[@emilyhannon9546]

I am so sorry for your loss!

[@Udontsay948]

I’m sorry this happened to you. Life can just crash into us sometimes

[@mifnp8887]

Oh no! I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you're on your way to healing. ❤

[@mr.incognitoyt2235]

Sorry for your loss. I hope you're okay

[@maxzytaruk8558]

Wow Hannah you're TRENDING on youtube, I remember when you had like 11 comments on a video and maybe 400 views.. you're inspiring hundreds of thousands of people to be more vulnerable

[@ReeseGreyAnalyzes]

Beautifully said. She's such an amazing KZbinr, an absolute inspiration

[@taylor-flynnspencer2438]

I had to stop talking to my mom this year, because her comments and her opinions about me and how she treated me was truly unacceptable. Moving on and being independent from that relationship, feeling like that person was always going to be there, to being strangers. I understand the emptiness of that loss. I hope that you find peace and love on your healing journey

[@meelamiela]

Exact same situation❤ hope ur doing well in spite of it all.

[@sourgreendolly7685]

I had to do this 13 years ago. I know how hard it is and how much it can break your heart, but honestly it's been the best decision that I have ever made for myself. You are such a badass for recognizing that, not only is this toxic for you but that you have a CHOICE in the matter. You'll encounter people that don't seem to understand that, please know it's a blessing to be able to. You are so strong and I know I'm just some rando on the internet but I am so very proud of you.

[@spOOkytimes]

Same. Its really hard losing a person even if they haven't passed away. We have to look out for ourselves which means leaving people who refuse to change for the better and truly take responsibility for their actions and attitudes. It takes courage to walk away despite what people who do not understand the situation say. It is not the "easy route".

[@indecisivemind5337]

I am so proud of you!! I did the same 3 years ago, and this year was the first time I cried putting up my Christmas tree. It’s a bumpy road, but it’s all part of moving on.

[@heysfb]

I lost my parents this year, and they did not pass away.

[@emilytitch9162]

WE LOVE AND SUPPORT YOU! Thank you for this video that you didn't have to make, welcome back ❤️

[@unforblue]

I am currently separated from my husband of 23 years. It’s been 8 months now. I can’t explain in words how difficult it’s been. We will most likely divorce next year. We are still best friends. I still care for him very much. It’s a rough road to getting your independence and healing from the pain of it all.

[@ohkaye514]

I thank you so much for posting this. I’ve been a long time viewer. I went through an absolutely terrible breakup with my partner of 7 years, and I sincerely was so broken and depressed, I remember sincerely thinking my heart was going to stop, felt like I was going to have a heart attack and genuinely believed I was going to die without him. But seeing you going through what I felt, normalizing these hard times does make you feel so much less alone. I wish you all the happiness in the world.

[@justjill2896]

Hannah. I hope you know seeing your face brings a smile to my face! It’s okay to talk about your real feelings. Your true followers want to hear. Sometimes we all need a shoulder to cry on. Notification gang! I hope even this comment makes you smile even for a second.

[@rentedthriftedreal]

Also Notification Gang and that was my exact thought. Upon seeing the title I thought, "We're here for you, Hannah."

[@jennlecher5604]

*For anyone going through a breakup of a long term relationship: There’s an excellent book by John Grey called Mars and Venus Starting Over. It essentially treats the end of the relationship as a death, which it kind of is. I’ve read it after 2 breakups and a death and it helps sooo much, every time.*

[@MoonWitch77]

About 17yrs ago, a friend suggested that book to me when I broke up with my fiancé of 6yrs. Then I got the whole series ! It helped so much !!! I’m so glad you posted this comment !!!

[@luxxestone7462]

Oh my god I had to click immediately! I’ve been a little worried with your absence, I’m just hoping your next year is looking up compared to 22. Best wishes Hannah, and thank you for providing a little update. You didn’t have to but it’s appreciated 💜💜

[@domo_mother_of_plants]

You didn't have to share anything but I really appreciate that you did. I've gone through similar years where it's just hit after hit and I couldn't catch a break. Being on the other side of that in a joyful space truly makes me appreciate how far I've come. You've gone through so much this year and it's huge that you were even able to share this video. That alone speaks volumes about your strength and perseverance. Whatever you post I'll be here to watch and support. Much much love! 💚💚💚

[@AmethystQtz]

Love you, just got out of a 6 yr relationship hugs Hannah!! We are stronger than we think we are!

[@skylarkennedy6378]

It’s almost therapeutic to see that I am not alone in feeling that this has been a really hard year. I’ll be spending Thanksgiving alone for the first time in my life this year, because my family and I are not in a good spot, and during the entire year so many bad things have happened I also feel like I can’t catch a break.. Reading all the encouraging comments really helps and I’m wishing all the best for everyone as well. 💛

[@Ghost-lt4sf]

I hope you get to do something you like for yourself today! 🫂

[@thevioletoracle]

I just cut my parents off and am also alone this year. We'll get through it. To new and healthier Thanksgivings in the future. 😊

[@kayleigharmstrong7988]

@@thevioletoracle me too, I hope you are well ✨

[@andarwarje8127]

I was in the ER this weekend having a PTSD psychotic break, so I'm here with you girl, thank you for sharing when I need a friendly face

[@JosyBun]

When I saw your announcement tweet I felt so much heartache for you Hannah. I’m so sorry. This must be so tough to go through, after the pandemic, after the hardships you’ve endured. I hope you have the biggest support around you going forward. I’ve been having such a medically awful year and your videos have helped me so much, even if I just put them on to listen to while I push myself to do laundry or other chores. My heart breaks for you. I know you won’t read this comment but if anyone else is going through something that feels impossible, like me, I just want you to know you’re not alone. We’ll all pull through with enough support from each other. 💕

[@tayo392]

So guys lets all agree that were going to comment, like, share, and watch the absolute shit out of glowmas right? Let's make this the best glowmas yet for our girl!! 💗

[@xwinoxrhinox]

i really appreciate what you said about normalizing bad stretches in life and the emotions that go with it. going through those experiences is bad enough but feeling alone in it is even worse, so what you are doing here is important. i’m so sorry you’ve been going through such a shit time and i hope everything balances back into your favor very soon. ❤

[@ammiller3911]

I'm sorry your year has been such a nightmare. I had a year like that 10 years ago. It's a testament to how strong you are that you survived it, intact, and are talking about whats next. I love glowmas, I've been watching for a few years now (since 2020) and I think, as a viewer, I would never unsub or demand you post and write nasty comments. I'll be here watching when you post, and if you don't, that's ok. I'll still be here waiting for the notification and just watching other stuff (usually I'm listening at work).

[@rainstorm.]

I’m a quiet subscriber of yours but i want you to know that your content brings me so much joy. i’m so sorry you’ve had a horrible year and i hope next year brings you the same joy your content brings me. Much love

[@misscameroun237]

I broke up with the person I though would be the father of my (future) babies earlier this year. I was with them for 6 years. I really didn’t think I would be here with at 30 but well… life ! I am so grateful to be here. I am also very grateful for joy and laughter because boyyyyyy this year was something. To everyone who is going through this… you got it I swear.

[@silmaraa]

I went through a divorce in 2019/2020 and had to stop posting on my channel for 2 years bc I was not mentally there for my audience neither for me. I'm sorry you are going through all this, I just wanna say you will eventually feel like yourself again and the pain in your chest will go away... feel better and give yourself time to heal and process all the feeling and emotions. Love ya

[@anissajohnson2263]

I found your channel in 2020, when I was going through a horrible breakup and my life was in a downward spiral, and your videos were one of the few things that brought me joy and helped me get through all the dark. I hope you can find some peace and joy in all of this and just know you’re a wonderful, kind, and caring person who has a community of supporters that will always be here to help lift you up 💕

[@Slap_Pappy]

This video must’ve been pushed by the algorithm to a bunch of random weirdos cus there’s a gross amount of hate… but that’s what I get for sorting the comments by most recent…. Hannah is a lovely person it’s very clear these people calling her foul names have no sympathy or compassion.

[@Slap_Pappy]

@Blicky Blackface that’s a horrible excuse. Just cus people are asses doesn’t mean it’s right? You can hate hate hate all day long that doesn’t mean I can’t try to stick up for someone who did nothing wrong.

[@Slap_Pappy]

@Blicky Blackface I never said it was unexpected. I said it was gross. Cuz it is.

[@Tayl0rLea]

i’m sending you massive amounts of love right now. i also just broke up with my partner of 12.5 years in august after a rough few years and, like you, i realized things were not working anymore. i still have massive amounts of love for him in my heart, but i needed to distance myself to heal (and am still doing so). we were never married, nor lived together, so i can’t even imagine that aspect of your breakup. i admire your strength to post this and share however much details and information as you’re comfortable. thank you for normalizing these emotions, situations, and overall difficult times, it’s so immensely appreciated 💓

[@voidfly]

the respect you show to your ex-friends or lovers shows who you are as a person and you responded exactly like I imagined you would. I learned a lot from your videos and I just wanna say thank you for that. Love you and hope you have better years from now on

[@lepetitemorte1635]

My husband and I are agreeing to a divorce literally right now. I am devastated. It’s torn my world apart. What a timely video. 💔

[@kairos-049]

I... don't have nearly the experience with love or relationships that you have, so I cannot honestly say that I understand how you feel and what you're going through. Still, I'm so thankful that you've given us your trust and are willing to be vulnerable with us. Your feelings are completely valid, about this situation, about Charles, about KZbin, and whatever else. It sucks to let yourself feel terrible but it's much better than bottling it up or becoming numb to it, and it's such a relief to hear that you have a strong support network.

[@coquigirl0789]

Oh honey. I know you won’t read this. But I’m crying as I’m watching this because I can relate to this so much. Even though I’m remarried and over my ex husband, the feelings of defeat and thinking I couldn’t do anything in my life without my person still creep up. It’s the worst pain. Thank you for sharing. We support you and love you ❤

[@brilyga3064]

I’m so proud of you and Charles for handling this like adults. I’ve been thinking about you lately and was worried. You have such a good support system so don’t be afraid to lean on them! We love you ❤

[@AmandaPanda83]

You are navigating how to share these life updates on the internet in such such a classy and respectful manner, and you deserve so much credit for achieving that while also having to go through some really really rough stuff! We love you. We support you. I’m so happy to hear you have friends living with you and you like it. ❤ you

[@AnneAgain2022]

I got married and divorced this year. It’s been a ride. Sending you all the good vibes!

[@migoreng7789]

that sounds rough :( sending you hugs!

[@vanessarayfox]

I relate to this so much. I had a miscarriage and breakup (of an engagement) a few years back and I thought my life was over. I was embarrassed and felt like an absolute failure. But after a few months, I started feeling better (and now I'm living happily in NYC - something that never would have happened if I had stayed). It does get better.

[@StephRosebud]

You’re such a lovely person. I’m sorry you’re going through this (sending giant hugs!) As for your devoted following, it’s a testament to how wonderful you are; articulate, compassionate, intelligent, and witty. You are remarkable and I look forward to Glowmas ❤🎄

[@Unlikely_Pirate]

I know Hannah isn’t seeing this but I wanted to say it anyway. This is literally EXACTLY what I needed. I just ended my relationship of almost 6 years with my fiancé. From 19-25 we were together. Now I’m in a Tiny house 3 hours away for Thanksgiving so I don’t have to face the looks they’ll give me because we were planning a wedding and they had all gotten involved and invested in us. I needed to see this and know someone else gets it. Thanks ❤

[@sammerhead_]

Hope you have a nice thanksgiving!

[@livjunkie]

I relate deeply with the imposter’s syndromes you had during the breakup. It made stay in the relationship longer than I needed to. Emotional supports are important, I’m glad he was there for you. You can keep going! Little cheers matter and your supporters are here for you ♥️

[@HollyCat504]

I’m a “geriatric” fan, I turned 45 (today actually 🙃) I just want to say, from experience, it does get better over time. I’m on my 2nd marriage, my 1st one happened when I was 27 and it lasted 8 months. We also had to tell people before we were ready bc we worked for the same company, both in management roles but different locations. We tried to keep it quiet but I became noticeable. It was embarrassing, knowing that we couldn’t hold it together, so telling everyone was brutal. But it all worked out in the end and we both ended up in situations that were better for us both. It’s hard going from “we” back to “me” but it sounds like you have a fantastic support system and I’m positive that you’ll not only get through this, but come out happier on the other side. I’m sorry for your loss and for your being sick. Hang in there 💜💜💜

[@PineappleKuri]

u didn't have to come in here and age shame yourself like you're old. you're just giving young ppl fuel to make fun of people for aging for no reason.

[@gothicxromantic]

Happy Birthday!!!! 🎉❤

[@TuesdaysArt]

Happy birthday! 🎂 🎁

[@baileyb123bb]

I'm sure you won't read this, but I want to thank you for sharing this with us. You aren't alone. I lost my brother in July and I related so much to the fact that after it's "over" it isn't really over in terms of normality. It's never really over, but you will find things that bring you joy again, and don't feel guilty for smiling and doing things you love. I'm glad you're still here and I'm thankful for any chance to see you, regardless of how often or what you have to say. You're beautiful and lovely!

[@bilinasmini3480]

I know Hannah isn’t seeing this but I wanted to say it anyway. This is literally EXACTLY what I needed. I just ended my relationship of almost 6 years with my fiancé. From 19-2

[@emilymakescoffee1741]

Sending so much non-para social love and concern for both you and Charles. Wishing you both find your own paths forward through these times. It’s been a pretty terrible stretch for me as well and your video really does make it feel ok to feel. Ok to feel sad, ok to feel discouraged. Ok to feel weak. Thank you for validating this side of the human experience.

[@TheOpy83]

Dear Hannah, dear all, if you are going through a break-up, a divorce or a similarly heartbreaking event, please know you are worthy, important and deserve to be happy, and you will feel happiness again, even if it seems like you cannot catch a break. Many hugs and positive thoughts to all of you!

[@jessicaguerra4912]

Needed this

[@megalin5150]

So much love girl. I got divorced in 2016 after 5 years and felt so embarrassed that people were having babies and doing all these milestone things and here I was going backwards. Then on Thanksgiving my current fiance and I had such a blowout fight I seriously considered ending things and we have also been together 5 years and again just felt so embarrassed. I feel like I just keep wasting my time in these relationships and nothing I do moves my life forward. So I totally understand all the mixed emotions when you've been with someone for so long. I wish you all the best as you navigate this

[@Momofukudoodoowindu]

Having one foot out the door for an entire relationship is self-destructive

[@beer1403]

Unless you get a hold of your behavior you will be single forever.

[@megalin5150]

@@beer1403 who tf said it was my behavior that was the problem. Why would you come for a stranger based on a vague comment trying to make someone ELSE feel better. Rude.

[@Kelseygraceaurelia]

I deeply, deeply respect both of you for making the decision not to go through with the wedding just to go through with it. I'm sure that was extremely hard and devastating, but in the long run it was an incredibly smart and mature decision. I'm proud of you and I'm sending you so much love ❤

[@sarahissom260]

I’ve been with my partner for 12 years, since the beginning of college, and I sobbed when you talked about all the things you achieved with your ex by your side. Of course - of course! You could have and CAN achieve so much on your own, but to have the support of a loving partner… I am sending you so many hugs and so much love. I can’t wait for Glowmas - you’re going to crush it. ❤❤❤

[@kerinichols1985]

I was with my highschool sweetheart for over 17 years when he told me he wanted to separate. A week later he left the house. I found out he was cheating and it was the 2nd most horrible thing to ever happen to me. I filed for a divorce. I was left with the house, all the bills, and figuring everything out myself and taking it all on financially. This is the person I also considered my bestfriend. The betrayal and grief were overwhelming. However, I did big things and saved myself. I without him took my whole life back and have a list of accomplishments a mile long. I never thought I could be without this person. I just want you to know you will accomplish such great things now and in your future. Those accomplishments and the badassness of overcoming and thriving will belong to you. I’m sure many people can relate to your sorry and my story. I’m thankful everyday when someone shares their story. I’m not alone and neither are you. I’m so proud of you, and you can do such hard things.

[@maddieotterson455]

hannah, everything you said in this video resonates with me. in 2021 i went through a rough breakup after losing my dad unexpectedly. its been almost 2 years now and its still hard, but please know it’ll all work out. one day you’ll look back and realize how far you’ve come even when you’ve had to take each day one step at a time. sending so much love and support. you are so strong!!

[@ayannabranchcomb7535]

I know you’re not reading this right now Hannah, maybe you will someday maybe you won’t, but girlie just know we are here for you. Whatever shift your content makes, whatever the amount of videos you can produce, we are here for you!! Lots of loves mamas ❤