Stop the Negative Self-Talk

Do you ever wonder why you make certain choices? Maybe you wanted to make a change in your life but just couldn’t stick to it. In this message, we’re getting to the bottom of why we do the things we do and learning how to overcome negative thoughts.
ABOUT THIS MESSAGE
Few things in life are more frustrating than knowing you need to change, trying to change, but not actually changing. It’s possible to find The Power to Change so you can start living the life you want.
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Have you made a decision to follow Jesus? You may be wondering what’s next on your journey. We want to help! Let us guide you to your next steps in your walk with Christ: www.life.church/next
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Why Do You Do What You Do? - 00:00
The Secondary Reasons - 2:45
Three Questions You Subconsciously Ask Yourself - 5:23
Scenarios You Find Yourself In - 6:45
What Kind of Situation Is This? - 10:18
When You Think About Who You Are - 12:14
Breaking the Destructive Cycle - 18:23
"Who" Before "Do" - 24:08
Who Do You Want to Become? - 25:01
A New Identity - 28:03
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[@life.church]

Are you happy with the direction your thoughts are taking you?

[@KatTremblay1]

No, my thoughts about me have been totally sabotaging me!!! This was exactly what I needed to hear!! I LOVE how this message just OPENED my eyes when Pastor Craig said "stop believing what the enemy says about you and believe what GOD says about you" I shook my head and thought "Oh my gosh, HELLO!" Epiphany!!! Something I have known my whole walk with Christ but just didnt live it out ! Thank you so much! I have been set FREE 🙌 Glory to JESUS!!!

[@reginaross9392]

No! I have been listening to the enemy for too long. I needed this message...especially the verses from John 8:44-45! I've got Craig's new book. Pray that I can stop listening to the lies about me. I've been overeating and not exercising. I want to God's temple (my body) better.

[@KimmyAcevedo]

I just gave my life to Christ

[@Solar-Busters]

Absolutely Not ! 😢😢😢

[@joycefiore2721]

Not right now!

[@adrianlovato4400]

I am giving my life to Jesus

[@Warrior1_]

Amen

[@josephineahimidiwe3012]

God bless you,,, welcome to the loving family of God.

[@susanh1447]

Amen, that makes me so happy! God bless you.😊❤

[@lisagarcia8349]

Praise God! 🙌🏻

[@paulbunsee1941]

Praise the Lord! Congratulations to you. May the blood of Jesus continue to keep you. You are blessed.

[@azorbobmukosha9437]

I give you my Life Jesus and I’m surrendering everything to him 🙏🏾

[@red-winged_blackbird]

❤️

[@NikkiKiser]

Amen, brother! ❤🎉 Welcome to the family!!!

[@debbieblue5856]

I want to be just like you. Right now, I have no idea who I am now, just the things I learned from you, Lord. I guess that I am not who I used to be. I guess to my kids and their friends. But I remember how I did not let them do what they wanted to do. I always punished them when they needed it. I gave them chores to do. My 2 sons are adults, and Trevor doesn't live with me. Schuyler still does and is still learning. He learned the chores, he really wanted to clean. He liked it. But both have ADHD also. Trevor thinks because he is over 18, he doesn't have to listen to me. I just have to let him learn by mistakes. So that is what I do. Then he comes calling, and with him they are like very big mistakes.

[@deniselee6506]

Me too. I am too. I can’t run or try and do this on my own anymore.

[@lisagarcia8349]

Glory be to God!

[@jilldaniel3150]

Thank you for my sobriety. Thank you for sanctification Lord.

[@makrina_x]

Thank God for this message. I’ve always struggled with body image issues and constantly call myself fat, ugly, useless etc but this week was particularly bad. Thank you for reminding me that these are lies by the devil. I am not any of those things. I am the daughter of Christ. Please pray for me 🙏🏼

[@luciac9123]

I struggle with the same exact thing!

[@reginaross9392]

Same!

[@red-winged_blackbird]

Praying

[@rebekahf3285]

Praying my beautiful sister 🥰🙏🏾

[@impactbar7305]

I'm happy with giving my life to Jesus Christ Amen

[@larrylevine8918]

I love this message series Pastor Craig. "If you want to change what you do, change the way you think of you." This message reinforces why the inner journey to my heart has been transformational. You always deliver the right message at the right time for me. I am grateful to you.

[@melaniemartin730]

What were the scriptures 😾😾❤️❤️

[@life.church]

📖“For as he thinks in his heart, so is he…” Proverbs 23:7 NKJV📖 📖“...[The devil] has always hated the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, it is consistent with his character; for he is a liar and the father of lies. (Jesus says) ‘So when I tell the truth, you just naturally don’t believe me!’ ” John 8:44-45 NLT📖 📖”Each day Jesus was teaching at the temple, and each evening he went out to spend the night on the hill called the Mount of Olives.” Luke 21:37 NIV📖 📖“And He[Jesus] came out and went, as was His habit, to the Mount of Olives;....” Luke 22:39 NASB2020📖 📖"Since you have heard about Jesus and have learned the truth that comes from him, throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. Put on your new nature, created to be like God-truly righteous and holy." Ephesians 4:21-24 NLT📖 - Laura

[@bonnieharper6543]

Ditto ❤

[@debbiesmith9398]

Before the alarm goes off and always healthy

[@debbiesmith9398]

Why do I choose the way? I choose I think it’s more habit Rather than me being healthy

[@golgibella]

He's good at breaking things down into pragmatic terms.

[@susanmaloney1166]

There is something I want to change. Heavenly Father, show me who you want me to be.

[@lightningog6784]

The first thing God wants us to do is to accept His offer of salvation. We are hopeless in our sin and cannot be good enough to overcome our sin and enter His presence. That’s why Jesus came into the world to take the punishment we deserve

[@benjamingordon1711]

I am the righteousness of God through Christ Jesus .

[@designingliefde]

I am so amazed at how honest you are. This really helped me so much to realise how the devil says things to us and not just us but pastors, too. I can now easily identify it as a lie and not feel I am the only one who goes through these thoughts. Thank you

[@life.church]

🙏❤️

[@tamaroffbanks8776]

This message was right on time! I was just asking myself this question. Why do I keep repeating the same bad habits? Thank you Pastor Craig for this eye opening sermon! Amen!

[@nicholeperry7989]

Amen, Pastor Craig!! Every day, we read God's Word and pray and let the Holy Spirit renew our thoughts and attitudes, we will start to believe all that matters is who I am in Christ. I am a daughter/son of the Most High God! You start to show Christ centering habits. Who we are in Christ will set us free from the world. Submit yourselves to God, resist the devil, and he will flee. James 4:7 🙏

[@Solar-Busters]

I am the Righteousness of God in Christ Jesus !!! 😊😊😊

[@larryeugenejarman8549]

I give you my life to Jesus 🙇🏽‍♂️🙏🏾

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, @larryeugenejarman8549! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Keli ”Whoever finds God, finds life!”

[@larryeugenejarman8549]

Oh! Wow what perfect timing to hear this message.🙏🏾🙇🏽‍♂️

[@isadoramendes3382]

I always put God first in my finances! ❤ Something that He's working in my heart! But I don't feel obligated, I just feel good. Peace.

[@normaandaverdi2873]

Amen Amen Amen Glory to God Almighty thank you Lord for my New Life after my surgery of liver transplant surgery.

[@jacalynelodwig1826]

i’m so glad I stumbled upon this church

[@life.church]

Praise God!! 🙌 So glad, too, jacalyne, that you are here!! We’d love to invite you to Life.Church Online. 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Keli "Whoever finds God, finds life!"

[@AustinAlpiche]

Something I wana change, in Jesus name, Amen 🙏🏽

[@lima87276]

I’ve watched this message five times already. I really need to change the way I think of myself. With God’s help I can !!

[@life.church]

💛

[@impactbar7305]

I have given you my life and sorrendering my life to you

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Impact Bar! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kathleen

[@mayaquick5798]

I am giving my life to Jesus!

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, @mayaquick5798! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@mday3821]

This message is right on time. I always feel unworthy and not enough. I don't deserve God's love or Grace. I needed this.

[@msmarinea]

Pastor Craig - I am so grateful for you and your messages that continue to help me stay true to my purpose from God. This message is so critical. Thank you so much.

[@infinitybeyond8417]

Amen its by the Grace of Holy God in Christ alone that we are able to change by the Holy Spirits help❤

[@Ayersjr15]

This message came right on time.

[@DavidM0097]

Who before do! Amen! 🙏🏾

[@valerieescabi6104]

Shalom 🙏🏻💖

[@teresamartin174]

I am celebrating the victory that I am now NO SNOOZE 🎉 and the Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast played an important part in that! Thank you!❤

[@life.church]

Amen, blessed to hear that!

[@brendahughes28]

I hear what God wants to tell me through your obedience as a pastor. Thank you

[@valerieescabi6104]

Hallelujah thank you Jesus thank you thank you thank you❤❤❤

[@letsobosekeng7283]

Hallelujah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@flywithev]

AMEN, Pastor Craig!!💛

[@kimberlymontoya8250]

I'm giving my life to Jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Kimberly Montoya! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Jone

[@mcm5264]

Please pray for me and my family.

[@life.church]

Thanks so much for reaching out. KZbin isn’t the easiest place to have a conversation, so head to Life.Church Online at live.life.church. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one.- Team LC Ronnie

[@kimberlyclairebalmores3417]

I give my life to Jesus! I surrender my life to Jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Kimberlyclaire Balmores! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church Isaac K-Team LC

[@The_Young_Preacher]

Thank you so much for your sermons! They have been so encouraging to me!

[@davebarker9608]

I am surrendering my life to Jesus!

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, @davebarker9608! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@debbieblue5856]

I am on SSDI right now. I so want to give more to God!

[@todayslist37737]

Jesus please speak to us louder than the lies from the devil

[@heinzketchup7742]

Healthy , I’m Servant Of The Lord Jesus Christ

[@life.church]

Amen!

[@debbieblue5856]

Do what I truly believe God wants me do.

[@kevchua67]

many of us, including me, have this negative mindset. "I can't do it coz I'm not good enough and it will fail." or "Mom always says I'm useless, so I guess I am." The truth is, the Bible has answers to every problem that we have. And I thank Pastor Craig for helping me see that.

[@life.church]

Hello, Kevin C! Struggling with negative thoughts can be really difficult. Do you see us, dear Lord? Do you see our struggle? You are mighty. You are strong, and you love us. Set us free, Lord! Cast the enemy out of our minds and our lives. Let no attack, deceit, or contamination affect us anymore. All victory is yours alone. Here is a resource to help with battling negativity. open.life.church/resources/5053-winning-the-war-in-your-mind -Kat

[@impactbar7305]

Father show us who you want us to be

[@brockdenham3429]

I am giving my life to jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, @brockdenham3429! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@alandubs2745]

God, you're so so good, you patient and you never force yourself on us, your grace saved me and its sustained me. AND YOU HAVE AKWAYS GIVEN ME WHAT YOU KNEW WHAT I NEEDED! I GIVE YOU PRAISE! MY LIFE IS YOURS and WITHOUT YOU THERE IS NO LIFE! HALLELUJAH! 😀👏✝️👊

[@emmjohn714]

I'm surrendering to Jesus today.

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Marlene Johnson! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church - Kris

[@tillaviljoen8440]

Thanks all the way from South Africa

[@life.church]

So glad you're here! 🙌❤️😊

[@gracebion2461]

I give my life to JESUS

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Grace Bion! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Josephine

[@barbarapierce5245]

Giving my life to jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, @barbarapierce5245! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@olajumokemorinsola7872]

I give my life to Jesus

[@life.church]

Amen

[@SamariaDriscoll]

I'm surrendering to Jesus.

[@gravitys7776]

Thank you for your message Pastor Craig. For years, I've believed the lies of the devil. Now my eyes have been opened by the word you preached. God bless you.

[@KING00FEAST]

Everyday the devil attacks me with severe headaches and I just want to fold and lay down but that would letting my God and heavenly father down and I just can't let that happen!!! I needed this today. I'm not feeling great physically but my will is stronger than it was. Thank you and God bless you all. Love you all! #stayprayerful

[@debbieblue5856]

I am discipline thru God.

[@TFSVEN]

Such a wonderful message

[@gracegifty6845]

God bless you pastor for this powerful message🥰

[@jamierusche6419]

I love this so much

[@edwardotoong2079]

Amen Lord God I'm watching from Manila Philippines Im freda

[@debbieblue5856]

Believe who he says you are a new transformation!

[@debbieblue5856]

I want to be like Jesus!

[@kennyshinoda6133]

I am surrendering my life to JESUS

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, kenny shinoda! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church God bless you. Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good

[@beckywagner5353]

Who before DO!❤

[@stacymadden1035]

There is something I want to change!

[@tatendajakarasi4564]

Amen amen amen thank you for this

[@rachelrogers4275]

Thank you for this message today Pastor Craig, I needed it today. Glory be to god, Amen

[@debbieblue5856]

Something I want to change. So my children will love me. I want my children to change.

[@aidahkaranja5459]

Amen Amen and amen 🙏

[@life.church]

🙏

[@debbieblue5856]

I have that too! I get up before alarm goes off, I always forgive. Because that's who God made me to be!

[@debbieblue5856]

Do what I do. The devil is a liar. I want to be changed like Jesus .

[@shuyuar]

"Who before Do." Yes.

[@jayoshi29]

Thank you Pastor Craige for this powerful message. This was something I definitely needed to listen. I want to start on a new prespective of how I see myself and take action. "Who before do." Is a good way to start. God Bless.

[@marthaceciliamendozaramirez]

Ive been reading about it , this last week can not believe how God is talking to my life , just amazing , all the Glory is for our savior , can not be more grateful with him , actually im nothing without him , i need him everyday of my life , and i wish be like a perfume in his feet !

[@Officialscottmartin]

I am thankful for you jesus! Love this church thank you pastor craig for a great message. AMEN I give my life to you jesus!

[@CoraValentine1999]

I’m giving my life to Jesus. I need the love of Christ in my heart.

[@anandpopat2549]

This sermon is SO GOOD! #WhoBeforeDo!

[@mariaedgar5066]

I need to, I must transform the way I think of myself or I will not survive. This message was sent to me by a dear friend who knows my struggles. Thank you 🙏

[@lilyoconnor2233]

A primary would be the generational curse of the spirit of poverty. We can continue to allow this spirit to creep in if we open ourselves up to it and are ether unaware that it's there, or have not received deliverance for it.

[@life.church]

👍 Laura

[@sonyaphillips4634]

Something I want to change ❤

[@susiemccoy7]

Thank you for this sermon! I am the daughter of the King! I am blessed to be a blessing. I'm deeply loved by my Father God! This is who I KNOW I am!

[@melaniemartin730]

Indeed! 🖤🖤🖤🖤

[@life.church]

🙏

[@soloangel625]

Amen 🙏

[@life.church]

❤️ Laura

[@Solar-Busters]

There's a whole Lot I want to change !!!

[@reesebuck703]

I’m giving my life to Jesus, I surrender my whole life to him. Thank you Jesus.

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Reese Buck! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@daisyrowaro44]

So blessed!

[@life.church]

💛

[@cnfttradingdaily8158]

This is life changing

[@life.church]

❤️

[@ginaahamnos6483]

Listening to this again today while walking un the park. Needed it again 🥲🙏

[@beckywagner5353]

There’s something I want to change! “Who before Do!”

[@life.church]

Hi Becky! So glad you're here! Here are a couple of links to some great info. Change your thinking. Change your life. Thoughts are powerful. They change our perspective, impact our decisions, and influence our habits. What do we do when we become trapped by our thoughts? Learn how to take your thoughts captive and win the war in your mind. www.life.church/media/winning-the-war-in-your-mind/ Also, here's an article on how to transform your negative thoughts: finds.life.church/reframing-your-perspective-on-life-changes-everything/ finds.life.church/good-morning-quotes-master-your-mind-and-day-with-these-20-sayings/ Keli "Whoever finds God, finds life!"

[@soloangel625]

Put God First Amen 🙏

[@jennykisa22]

Powerful message am really transformed. Am changing the way i have been thinking about myself.

[@skhend6310]

Thank you!

[@debbieblue5856]

I pray for my kids. Every day to go back to the way, i raised them.

[@uzznee]

Great message… thank you

[@Kitty2323100]

I needed to hear this again

[@maribethcondrillon1079]

Amazing motavation❤😊

[@alanmoon7110]

I needed to hear this message

[@RR_RailfanAdventure43]

Amen, Pastor Graig!! There is always a 'who' before the 'do'.

[@life.church]

Amen!!

[@brandyellenwrites]

There's something that I want to change. I've been working on it each day, asking these questions you said. So interesting I Happened upon this video after practicing "who do I want to become" regularly for the last few months so I can be better, do better, and feel right.

[@life.church]

Brandy, So glad you were blessed by this message and that it has helped keep you on the right path. Pray and keep going God is always there for you. Laura

[@jq8792]

There's something I want to change. This message hit home 🙏 ❤️.

[@life.church]

We are so glad this message touched you! Rachelle

[@user-np2ng9eb7c]

I'm surrendering to Jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, @user-np2ng9eb7c! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@debbieblue5856]

Am reading your book now. I love it

[@bernardineshola9830]

There is something I want to change so help me God🙏

[@joyconnell1318]

Saying it out loud is a great start … writing it out is another reinforcement! And then repeat it to yourself several times each day …. Keeps you going until you can leave it behind. God bless you 🙏