Aaina - A Short Film on Body Shaming | Why Not | Life Tak

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[@Deepalisingh1605]

Woow amazing content 😊😊😄based on reality 😍😍🥰🥰🥰

[@vaibhushah724]

Mostly har moti ladkiyo k saath aisa hota hi hai

[@MayuD]

I seriously feel bad about the poor knowledge the content creaters have. Excess weight leads to n number of life style decease. Especially for women.Okay, we don't need somebody with perfect body measurements. But staying fit, maintaining proper weight is the only way you live your life. Over weight is not body shaming but it is hazardous to oneself. You must understand that on your own. We aren't lucky enough to get un adulterated food like our previous generations, but staying healthy is the only option to live happily in this era. Health is wealth off course.

[@MayuD]

@@purabibhowmik8813 very glad to know that dear:)

[@hemakajal6014]

Its so good n amazing ...but it hurts when people realizes things what is right n what is wrong but in real life they behave the same way they want to...I am also an overweight ...nobody says k apne health k liye khud ko fit rakho...but what matter is that nobody likes a plumpy girl...ladka mota ho chalega but ladki cant be fat....its my request to you guys make a video on how when a boy fall in love everybody agrees at his home but when a girl fall in love they itta azaadi diya iska galat faida uthaya....n literally nobody supports.....ek behen hmesa apne bhaai ko support krti h par iska ulta possible ny hota in most of the cases...

[@rubeenatarranum2434]

This literally made me cry as I am overweight and goes through this situation every day😕... Sometimes I really feel there is no value for education and good moral values in this world

[@Sanatani0424]

I'm also overweight and I also had tears in my eyes watching this. I also have to face same situation 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😓😥😭😫. Haan na..mujhe bhi lagta hai ki moral values aur education ki koi value nahi aur Overweight logo ki bhi nahi 😭😭😭😭😭😫😟😕😥😥😭😫😟😕

[@aadilapatel5150]

We have to try not to b overweight but that doesn't mean society shud judge us all z time without knowing wat one is going thru

[@Sanatani0424]

@@aadilapatel5150 didi vo hamare hath me nahi hota .. Overweight hona chahiye ki nahi.

[@shizzahussain2630]

Your beautiful the way you are. I know exactly how you feel

[@Madhavimuchatlu]

True

[@chinjuchandran2028]

A wise man said- you are not ugly, you are just born in a judgemental society.💜

[@nikithamohan9520]

Kim namjoon for president! Edit: okay, to all the people who's telling he never said that, I'm sorry. I read the said in multiple places and thought he had a quote like this.

[@babymuff2000]

@@nikithamohan9520 ❤️

[@whatwillyoudoafterreadingm2405]

@@nikithamohan9520 he never said that

[@KdramaBlossom]

@@nikithamohan9520 he never said that spammy

[@whatwillyoudoafterreadingm2405]

@Arjun Kumar who has sell you fairness cream ?🤨

[@pariguptaaaa]

It hurts the most when your own parents start bodyshaming you at every moment

[@RahulSharma-ff6mt]

Aur khao pizza burger.

[@akshaymundkur]

I agree. It is one thing for strangers and outsiders to body shame their daughters, but it reaches a whole new level of toxicity when our own parents share that sentiment.

[@justlavendars]

lol

[@seemagarkal124]

Yes i totally agree. It feels very bad and hurts the most

[@PreetiSharma-wq9lk]

I never had weight issues in my life. Infact I was seen as a perfect girl and got lots of proposals in school, college. Got married early bcos lot of boys wanted to marry me. So I never thought about people who face such humiliation everyday. But when I became a mother and gained lot of weight, my people started looking at me as a different person. As if I am not a good human being. How I was taking care of my family, kids, my kindness for others,my good behaviour with everyone did not matter to them. All that mattered was that I was an overweight woman who was looked down upon everyday. I am not talking abt my husband. He was there for me always and never said a word for my appearance. That’s my parents, my own family who body shamed me. I wanted to go to my moms place and wanted to eat and enjoy. But I started hiding my feelings. I stopped eating at my moms place bcos I was scared that they might start discussing my extra weight.Then I moved to the US. A total different world. And I realised my self worth. I started wearing what I liked, I was confident and looked beautiful than never before. That’s why I can relate to this video where parents sometimes body Shame their kids so much, not realizing that it is breaking them from within and shaking their confidence.

[@veeraarora4760]

This so damn true Luv frm india ❤️

[@pollytheparrot8929]

So very true.. Yeah I relate to it too..❤🤗🙏

[@キャット-v1r]

@dimple girl bruh

[@shreyashambhawi930]

M really happy that u moved to US. Now seriously some people will come nd say that india is best yahan dudh ke dule log rehte h 😠😠😠😠

[@somiayoutube]

I'm a victim of body shaming for being skinny, I wonder that people have too much time to think about others

[@syedasara567]

It's an awesome incident, have personally experienced it for years, luckily not married, living in peace and not in pieces of mind, thank you for reminding, 😇☺

[@reshmasolanki5543]

Same here

[@srabanichakraborty9081]

Same here

[@narayansengupta2920]

Lucky indeed

[@dr.sandhyagupta8317]

Same here. Happily single. Some had problem with my studies and others did not want me to work. Knowledge is my companion and could not leave it for anyone. Wanted to visit the world. Lived in US for 3 years, had 13 international visits from my organization. I am 53 and I still study everyday.

[@monalimishra2041]

@@dr.sandhyagupta8317 superb 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@listenlearnleadaudiobooks2473]

I went through the same..my own family made me felt bitter...I lost 15 kgs in 3 months ...but it's not for what people said ...I changed to improve my fitness and health ...and to get into figure that I wish to see myself in ...but beauty comes in every shape and size you desire and you are comfortable and happy in your life

[@minnurani5849]

Kaise kam kiya apne plz mujhe v btao mujhe v kam Krna h

[@minakshi3775]

Wow... Great.. Kaise yr mje b bta do

[@amijoi08021502]

Verrryyyy gooddd

[@aaditirajivkumarsingh2896]

Please btao kaise Kam kiya aapne mujhe bohut jrurat h isko

[@fizakhan6448]

Ekdum jhut🤣

[@atiaabdullah5892]

My husband proposed to me 25 years ago because I was very good looking, belonged to a very well educated and good family, and my religious values were in place. After two children and a few pounds, the same husband called me a fat fuck. His words are forever engraved in my memory and heart. If you can't love someone for who they are, please don't bring them in your life.

[@indiangirl001]

Your husband is 🤑🤑🤑

[@indiangirl001]

May Allah paak never forgive him for his words

[@shizzahussain2630]

You should leave him if he can’t accept you the way you are. Sorry but he’s a horrible person

[@swagatikadakua7482]

Still now he is calling u?? But u love urself, let him say like that. One day he ll realize his mistake

[@parvinhossain1450]

He doesn’t deserves YOU

[@tanushreenair4233]

This is so relatable. Today , suddenly I started searching for contents similar to this . My whole life I have been fat shamed , I still am at times . After a certain point it didn't hurt enough for me to retaliate coz I got used to it (don't know if it's good or plain sad) wherever u go , u always have people staring at you , whispering about you even . Every single person giving u weight loss tips even if u never asked for their 2 cent opinion. Even if someone persuades you into joining a gym n u don't lose weight regardless of your efforts you're still blamed n looked down upon. Derogatory comments always manage to shatter our self confidence that when someone genuinely tries to compliment you all u can think about is that they are pitying you. As much as we say that our thinking had evolved I know it's complete bs coz people still invalidate our feelings if we're sad about someone judging our appearance. Even if I have people who care about me .....at times I have felt so alone all bcoz I'm fat

[@Realtalks1102]

In our society....this happens at almost every home.Actually we girls are not humans but the product to be rated in stars.Anyways nice video,all the characters did their best.As always hatts off to you aunty.please come with more such awakening videos.Thanks a lot.

[@Sanatani0424]

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 happens with me 😢😢😢

[@MayuD]

Feels pity that fitness is joke to such content creators.

[@parvinhossain1450]

Accurate 💯

[@tanyabisht8969]

True I agree even sad part when our own parents disturb us make us sad for that faltu idiots boys wale self respect n emotions ki death

[@MayuD]

@@tanyabisht8969 Off course. Over weight is that thing which one will understand by own and can control it. When you don't understand and keep on gaining weight, somebody has to make you understand the fact . And parents do that. If your health collapses they are the ultimate barer. Its very simple thing. Let's not make it sound like parents are villains like every single time. Especially being in this modern era one should be concerned even before parents point out.

[@Tanishamahendru]

I was 80 kg when I was in 12th standard....alot of people body shamed me including my parents....but I realised my parents always say that becoz of my health reasons...then I started loosing weight and now I am 60 kg ....still some people think I am lil bit chubby.....u can't change the society.....so be happy ....and if you want to loose weight for urself and for ur health ....then go for it ....but do it for yourself ...not for other.

[@walihasan7368]

I have been fascinated by this story, everyone used to call me Moti in school, in family functions. Everyone just used to say, lose a little weight, lose weight, and I had gone into depression due to all this, then I did not give up.And now when I am fit, everyone tells me did you have any disease in childhood? I am ashamed of my society that why these people keep taunting only girls for body shaming?

[@Sanatani0424]

I'm also overweight and everyone always keeps me telling Walking kar. Exercise kar. Running kar. Weight kam kar. Parents tak thik tha.. relatives bhi bolte hai ye sab 😭😭😭😭😡😡😡😡😡 I'm irritated and frustrated now. Each and every day my parents keep telling me. You have to do excercise, u have to loose weight 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😫😟😕😥😭😭😫😟😕.

[@walihasan7368]

@@Sanatani0424 this is very relatable but my relatives used to say this and my parents is very supportive.

[@Sanatani0424]

@@walihasan7368 ohh good 👍❤️.

[@drlavanyaskinandsti673]

@@Sanatani0424 js focus on ur health n hv proper balanced diet..junk bhi khao in limit.. exercise bhi js to stay healthy lik some brisk walk .no need of diets n all..take care of urself n love urself..dnt let anyone decide wt to do to ur body...not even ur parents..js stay healthy n happy .dt matters d most..

[@nishtha2788]

@@walihasan7368 I was overweight all my childhood because of the genetics from my father side, everyday when my mother used to take me out for exercising, all the so called aunties of our village used to comment on me, and laugh too. Every relative, friend or a person I knew , commented on me. I used to feel really bad, and at some point at that time, I lost my smile and got in depression. But after puberty, my mother's genetics kicked in and I got skinny, ( during lockdown, I am a teenager) and somehow the same people refuse to believe that I got skinny and made comments on me being skinny. I have again started gaining weight but who cares? I love myself the way I am ( ◜‿◝ )♡

[@madhurani7383]

Yes.. It's true... But zyada bura tab lagta hai when it comes from your own family. Har kisi ki apni identity and personality hoti hai.. Yeh cheez kabhi parents bhool jaate hai

[@monaudeshi1]

Lovely vedio. I am always overweight. Still i am. But i am lucky that i met a guy on internet back in 2007 who was only interested in me as a person inside not how i look outside. We dated without seeing each other for 6 years. We got married in year 2013 and spending my life happily with those extra kilos which i need to shed for my health but not to please anyone. My hubby daily says u are so beautiful and it gives me the confidence to face the brutal society. I wish every girl gets right partner to share her life 😀

[@DoorKaRaahi]

Yours is a really touching story.

[@Becraftywithme177]

You are so blessed dii ❤

[@kshirsagarpratyusha6726]

This was happening with me everyday but when I decided that it's my body and my wish nd no one have anything to do with it I just took it in a positive way that log toh kehte hi rehenge nd what u need to do is just ignore and self love is very much important ❤️ don't forget to love yourself first rather than hating yourself by listening to others words!

[@Studious728]

Me toi

[@mohitaahuja4956]

👍👍👍👍👍

[@sonamdeshpande7281]

this is ur. defense mechanism . log kehte rahenge kya matlab?? when parents advice something , this is not a way to think about it. finally,.,. ladko ko thin ladki ki pasand aati hai

[@kshirsagarpratyusha6726]

@@sonamdeshpande7281 excuse me? I didn't mention parents as log I m talking of society nd not parents how disgusting your thought can be that I can address my parents as log?

[@kshirsagarpratyusha6726]

@@sonamdeshpande7281 u should seriously have a mind change tbh nd u need it it's very bad to hear that i can disrespect my parents by calling them log....... Nd btw my parents when they advice me I understand y they r telling me so u have no right to tell me this get that

[@malarvizhinatarajan6268]

My so called my friend, commented and shamed me for body shape and skin color. I often used to take it to my heart. My other friends were ok and looked at my good qualities I possesed and asked me to work on it and things started falling in places.

[@Anuandmaasi]

Lucky to have someone who accepted me for who I am and when I gained weight instead of blaming helped me to loose . And loves every inch of mine. 😇🥰

[@aasthajha7872]

Yeah fitness is important for health not only for figure , concentrate on your health rather than anything as health is wealth 😊😊

[@akshaymundkur]

I am glad these sisters are looking out for one another. Usually, what happens in cases such as the one shown here is, it would result in a lifelong animosity, because one of them is gifted with great looks, and is placed a top of a pedestal, while the other is made to feel as though she isn’t the happy accident of her parents. These grudges, if left unchecked, can result in serious adulthood tragedies.

[@akshatamalik3020]

A very nice concept. A true one. It is true for all - fat, thin, fair, dark n the list goes on. I myself am on the plump side and boys have rejected me because I am fat. Liked the concept very much. Keep up the good work Life Tak 👍🏼

[@zeus5968]

My mom was very fit before she gave birth to me and my brother and I hear my father always say to her that she is fat, I am slowly driving into depression because my parents relation is breaking each day 😭😭😭

[@Simple-Indian]

Love the way the #LifeTak team tries to highlight social taboos, like in this clip. Body-shaming is very common and needs to stop. Value people for what they are as individuals. If you are not a good human being, it doesn't matter whatever else you are good at.

[@samriddharoy11c41]

i am overweight too and i am now 18 years old and going through a treatment for depression beacaus i am fat....my family memebers felt me like that i can't do anything in life and my self confidence is very low and people of my age bully me a lot .....sometimes i feel sooo sad and lonely...now thanks to my therapists and my two best friends i am trying to loose weight not for any one but my health...(as obesity cause many problems)...people bully me and say i will never have a boy friend but actually in reality i love to stay single.....so if you consider yourself beautiful then no one can steal that from you.....this video is so muucchhh relatable to me . well i am fat but i am beautiful than all the students who makes fun of me because i am fat.....just accept youself the way you are.....loved the concept of this video

[@meghabhandary630]

This is actually based on my story. I am a chubby girl but every guy rejects me. All my relatives even my parents are saying to lose weight. Its not that I am not willing to reduce some but I am trying. Why everybody is only concerned about body and not heart? Does it mean If i am Fat I am not well behaved girl or I am lacking in something? Why doesn't society accept plus sized girls? No one has ever been in love at first sight with plus sized girls.

[@hindu_1188]

They are more concerned about your heart than anyone else that's why they are telling you to lose weight

[@DEEPtech-t3n]

evolution things ,,, aur tum chubby nhi charbi wali ladki kahte hai ...

[@priyachaudhary2560]

Social media par har koi iss concept ko nice, awesome bolte hai...But real mai bahut kam log aise life partner ko apni life ka hissa bana na chahte hai...Everyone struggling with their own problems help them not mock them...Always try to be reason for someone's smile not the reason of their tears😍🙏

[@deepikafan4u]

Lovely concept. The three of them have made it so better so relatable.

[@mahimagarg5439]

Isse zaida relatable kuch nahi hai,thank you life tak❤❤❤

[@HomebodyRJB]

The color of my skin The shape and size of my body is none of your concern What to wear and what not to What to do and what not to What’s perfect and what’s imperfect What’s beautiful and what’s ugly Sorry you can’t decide it for me So if you think you can put me down By comparing me to others Then you need to grow up Coz everyone is unique If you think you can hurt me By your nasty comments Then, let me tell you, I’ve blocked them from my mind And heart long time back If you think you can ridicule me By laughing at my flaws Then, go ahead and laugh, But first, look at yours If you think you can stop me from Being me by your unsolicited advice Then keep trying, but I won’t change So don’t give stress to your little brain And if you think you can break my Confidence into pieces By playing the game of body-shame Then you must know, for me Imperfection is the perfection’s new name And if you think you gonna stop me With all your bullshit Then sorry to disappoint, you won’t succeed Coz I don’t give a damn what you think about me I’m going with my flaws flawlessly (By Homebody RJB)

[@raheelx4700]

Great poem. Thank you for sharing!

[@aparajitasarkar5895]

Moral of the story : *NEVER JUDGE A BOOK BY IT'S COVER*

[@deepanjaliganguly1096]

What to say you guys always bring a topic which touches our heart and teach a lesson......keep going

[@shizzahussain2630]

I went through this my whole life ☹️ it exists in every country. Wish you guys would have extended the episode to show that the guy would be willing to marry her.

[@juhideb5281]

I face it every single time... And I am done pretending! 😔 Can't compromise anymore now, not with my self respect at least!

[@theafghangirl..3905]

You should only lose weight if u feel u want to bring a change in ur self and u wana be healthy not to impress ppl! And ppl too shouldn’t worry about ppls weight, I mean it’s not like heavy weight ppl walk on their shoulders!

[@DoorKaRaahi]

well done.

[@aakankshakoul7542]

When I had to meet the guy for the first time everyone was reminding be how to behave so that he likes me….it was the evening before I had to go and meet him and I spoke to my best friend about how nervous I was and she was the first person to tell me forget what he thinks of u…focus on the fact that will u like him or not…and I was so damn surprised that y didn’t I think of that ..it is supposed to be my choice…m a doctor for gods sake …y am I so nervous just because m fat!!!🤦🏻‍♀️… fyi..that guy is my husband now…

[@Sanatani0424]

Ohh good ❤️👍 You are so lucky. But not all r same 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@aadilapatel5150]

I'm very happy for u

[@indiangirl001]

@@Sanatani0424 haan not all are same.. Kuch aap jaese Sanghi cheap mindest ke b hote h

[@shizzahussain2630]

Wow so happy for you ❤️

[@Sanatani0424]

@@indiangirl001to kya sare boys/ male same hote hai kya?? Apna mindset dekhi pehle. Mujhe cheap bolti hai .......

[@wolfmangoland7972]

The physical appearance of both men and women matters all over the world and in all walks of life. It matters at work, for marriage, social relationships, home, school, etc.

[@Heyitsme1M]

Yes I also agree that spiritual beauty is more valuable than physical beauty 🙂🙂🙂

[@soniasrivastava923]

A difficult concept handled beautifully.

[@sushantkumar1906]

Hum toh har roj ye sab sunte hai. Lekin Ignore karte hue aage badha hoon. Humko toh Bhainsha sab sunne ko mila. Lekin Aaj kaamyaab hoon toh sabki bolti band hai. Enjoy the Life & Ignore what people said about u. Aap khud khoobsurat ho. very nice video 🙏🙏. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@priyankapathak228]

Yes this type of humiliation I felt Everyday from my parents from my friends they suggest me to loose some weight they were like u will loose weight u look more pretty than this I feel so insulted and my self confident break within a second , even my ex-boyfriend also broked up with me because I am fat he thinks that her partner looks beautiful infront of society whom he can Introduce with a proudly so I can relate this insulation , each and every person have right to live with acception no one has right to make them feel that you are not perfect for so called "physical appearance* defination

[@anklebells04]

Hang on and stay strong sweetheart. Firstly thank ur stars that u are no longer with a man who is so shallow. And remember it is very important to love yourself and ur body as it is. People will say stuff all the time…for everything. Today its ur weight, tomorrow it will be ur fashion and hairstyle choices, that ur are too independent or too dependent, ur career choices or choosing not work, u choosing to have children or choosing not to have children. Everything a woman does, every step we take, every decision we make is judged by bystanders because it is very easy to judge and pass remarks. So since we are going to be judged no matter what, its best we stop caring about those judgements and live + love ourselves. Love urself, take care of ur mind and body, make sure ur body is healthy. If u want to shed off weight, do it for urself and not because people are judging u. Do things that make u happy. All the best. ❤️❤️ Fyi I have been in ur boat except my parents were not so harsh on me. Im still ‘fat’ but my husband loves me and we don’t care what the world says

[@indiangirl001]

Thank God he is your ex... What a cheap thinking of showing you to the society and world like you are a trophy he won... Next he will say that you don't look like before when you get slim... It's all about shittyy mindset... Live your life fully

[@priyankapathak228]

@@anklebells04 thanks this means alot to me❤️

[@priyankapathak228]

@@indiangirl001 thank you🤗❤️

[@MayuD]

So health and fitness is joke to you guys. How are you all appreciating this concept? May be you all aren't aware of life style diseases.

[@priya-mp1nm]

True! No matter even if you’re the DM of the city, you will still be judged on looks especially body shaming. On the contrary, no one cares whether the guy is fat, bald, etc etc. they escape the degree of humiliation if they’re successful. 😒

[@kusumagarwal8940]

Yes just keep working on improving yourself and develop good moralities and virtues of life.How you look is not something that's matter but how you are is the big ❓ which everybody highlights ❤️

[@MONUKSINGH]

I can relate with dis as I gone through it my whole life,i am a Man and as a man we also face bodyshaming very much by opposite gender but only woman side comes out, that's very disappointing

[@ksn07_]

This reminds me of this one time when I was back in India at my mom's house, I was just lying down trying to get a nap, when my nani suddenly comes in and comments about how fat and unflattering I looked in that position and that nobody would marry me in the future if I don't lose weight, I WAS 14 when she told me this.

[@progamingcastlecrush160]

This literally made me cry .I remember this one time I was going to my tution classes and one aunty called me fat and told me to loose weight and I was depressed coz of that for almost a week . Guys pls stop fat shaming 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@mohitaahuja4956]

"Breakfast karne do na usko aram se." Yes, breakfast should be like a king 👍👍

[@RanjsWorld]

Mind-blowing concept & You three potrait this amazingly....We can't stop society to jugde us.. but we can make ourselves so strong that nobody can point on us....We need to be healthy , but not let anybody body shame you...& if they does just ignore them...bhaad mein jaye who judge us...God made us beautiful in our own way... ...

[@purposefullsoul4556]

It really hurts 💔 when your own mother say to you, you're fat, lazy you don't try to loose weight and etc.. Sometimes I just want to end this all 🙁

[@ushaupadhyay2728]

एक दम सही अनुभव बिटिया का, अपने बच्चों का मनोबल बढ़ाये

[@RupeshKumar-rn7zy]

I can really relate with this as I am also going through this every day

[@aparajitasarkar5895]

Those who judge u like this u will also say that " You look like a Danda! * 😂

[@theafghangirl..3905]

You should only lose weight if u feel u want to bring a change in ur self and u wana be healthy not to impress ppl! And ppl too shouldn’t mind worry about ppls weight, I mean it’s not like heavy weight ppl walk on their shoulders!

[@aparajitasarkar5895]

See ,they can't understand that how much they are trying and also someone who have been plus size because of some kind of disease but people don't want to understand about that ... I'm not saying that don't do exersise I'm just saying that don't give too pressure while doing exercise on the beginning do gradually and if you have any problem while doing this u may take rest because if you give too much pressure ur condition will get worse and u don't have to skip food.. just try to do a balance diet for eg u eat less rice that but more vegetables and dal then and u can eat snacks sometimes if u like but don't skip food . And yes love yorself and don't care about what people are saying because u born beautiful .

[@RupeshKumar-rn7zy]

@@aparajitasarkar5895 thank you that you understand ☺️

[@RupeshKumar-rn7zy]

@@theafghangirl..3905 correct thank you for understanding me ☺️

[@ushakiranjagtap7938]

True... very true.... overweight people face this humiliation daily .... good one

[@anushreesingh6985]

Ikr I just don't understand the standards that society has set Like it's wrong to define beauty as a skinny body and fair skin Beauty is skin deep!

[@Unknown_girl2510]

Today i was bullied by my classmate because of my height (5'6) and weight. So i searched for motivational videos😔 and i found this video,and now i am feeling confident in myself❤ thanks a lot 😊

[@manjusharma2742]

Great,much needed topic,depicted so beautifully👍❤

[@prachiraizada8429]

Bahut achi lagi. Really other things matter more than body and you should never choose a person who chose you for your body

[@agam2798]

As always Nice Concept.... Mind blowing acting..

[@therinkyeffect]

I faced body shaming but i never mind it. I don't even care about others and what they have to say. I am me and i love being myself. Yeah I do take care. My mother used to feel bad for me but I told her kuchh toh log j=kahenge logon ka kaam hai kehna, zamane ki fikar chhodo. I love it that you guys made a video on this topic, keep up!!!!!

[@garimasharma1177]

I have experienced this all. But luckily my parents don't force me as shown in this video. But other relatives interfere. My only wish was to be with someone who accepts me as I am without any change. I will only lose weight to have good health not to be in good looks for someone. Finally got my man ☺️

[@alifiaali5017]

I just love every single video of Life Tak 👌👍👏. Tremendous work

[@satpreetchadha4564]

Really nice concept, well performed by all ladies 👌👌

[@freefalcon8433]

This is so real for me. I'm obese and there's not even a single day, when I've not been told how many calories I'm in taking. Feeling so bad. But, this is an actual struggle on daily basis.

[@nupurverma2906]

Guys your is upgrading day after day... And it's becoming amazing. Please also come up with a video on premature ovarian failure and how the girls suffer in the society.

[@deevikasrivastava3160]

I wish I could show this video to my own family, neighbors, and all those ladke wale who only want slim girl instead of an earning independent sensible engineer girl. I pray to god that they get a slim girl with zero mind.

[@nandinisrivastava7016]

The only point is ki we should work out and eat healthy for us and not for how the society will treat us or noone will find us beautiful ❤️ We want to be fit so to stay away from diseases and lead a healthy life I dont want to lose weight because I wanna fit in a pair of jeans or I want boys to get attracted to me Her mother was right when she was asking her to eat healthy but... As soon she attached the "ladke moti ladki pasand nhi karte " statement ,the whole topic changed !!

[@ankitapatel698]

I am Doc but having gud education , but still fighting for same issue I cried evwry day but not loose hope And waiting for gud time when i rock my life .....🥰

[@bikassahu]

You always bring us such heart touching and heart changing contents. That's why I fall in love with your channel. Because #WhyNot

[@devikashaji8863]

If we are fat they say overweight or if we slim they say don't you eat anything. Society will see everything in a negative view so just ignore it. It's relatable Who agrees

[@MansiSharma-yq7mc]

Real pain comes from what is now programmed in our minds.. By family, relatives and society... It is taught that beautiful girls should be slim.. Fair.. Soft and fragile.. And boys should be tough.. Which makes ONESELF to feel they are not enough.. They are upto that so called " Perfect"look.. And sadly.. No matter how many such inspirational videos pop up.. Somewhere we will end up with that typical mentality!

[@parvatin9578]

All videos of life tak is best i always watch every videos..love it

[@shravyamadhyastha8790]

Such a nice concept I always tell and belive that we should never judge anyone by their looks...and still I do believe in it

[@ಕೀರ್ತಿಪಾಟೀಲ್]

my so called rishtedar said ''u look like her not by face by body'' I said her ''u look like society🙂''

[@meghanawagh7991]

A boy had said "pakode jaisi naak" for my nose. I think the image formed in an average head for life partner is only physical, not mental, emotional, intellectual or behavioural. We should learn to search happiness within ourselves and good people around us, they also exist.

[@DoorKaRaahi]

well said. As we grow and mature we realize the physical looks is only a fraction of personality. And that comment on nose must have really hurt at that time.

[@vanitabhati5503]

आप लोग जो भी msg देते हो वो वास्तव मे परिवर्तन लाने वाला होता है 👍👍👍👍

[@MrManjax]

Another great video from the Life Tak team. Kudos to you!!

[@keerthisreerosh8898]

Outer beauty can change anytime but inner beauty remains forever...

[@ramyar5162]

Could like to see a part 2 of this video. What happened when she meets the boy and his family for match making that evening?

[@nidhicreatevlog3479]

Good bahut achhi bat samjhai h kuch logo ko gyan aa jana cahiye . Is vedio se

[@arpitadas3243]

I am definitely one of those who will fall under fat category But I never got any such things from my family and luckily neither did my partner who fell in love with me and my personality Happily married

[@misbahfathim]

I am also fat and when my parents were looking for my life partner,pnr of our relative said that if my father gives lot of dowry then only one will marry me..But Allah answered my prayers and I got my partner who is very loving and caring and he didn't even get a single penny as dowry..All thanks to Allah

[@shaiksulemaan2707]

Maashaa Allah Allah har ladki ko loving caring partner aata farmaye ameen

[@shalinijoshi92]

Totally relatable in every house. It happens now as well in our society. 🙄

[@sunetrasabnis150]

"You could be tall or short, or fat or thin, or ugly - or handsome, like your father - or you can be black or yellow or white, it doesn't matter. But what does matter is the size of your heart and the strength of your character.” Herman Munster...

[@manaswineepadhi5846]

Really helpful content 👍🏻 for today's generation.

[@gayatriharishyadav8341]

Really touching video. I have been facing this since my childhood from my own mother. May be she is right she wants her daughter to be beautiful n not let others comment on her body but the parents way of dealing it is not right. They have to do things smoothly especially with children and teens. It’s a delicate age where they don’t understand and buildup all these pressure and loose their self confidence.

[@biashopodder2664]

Here's my story- Am fat from very beginning. Am always a fat child. Now days i trying to loose weight, because I have irregular period. Two days earlier me & my friends went to one of my friend's house. We eat food. Then suddenly my friend's mom said "Loose some weight, eat less ( I literally eat less). nowadays boys don't like fat girls. They only like slim or skinny girls." I was shattered. I was just "eating" my food, which was prepared by her. She was the one who invited us. From that day again I started feel fat. I can't explain my feelings to anyone, how I was feel that time.. I can't even imagine the situation. (English is not my first language)

[@ayshabinthnoor]

Dear biasho, it is not fair that you had to hear that from her. it was not just insensitive but wrong at all levels to talk to you like that. Just remember with her personality being wrong here we can conclude that her beliefs are also wrong or can't hold any value. There is nothing wrong with you but only her thinking. Only if she knew "have some sense, nowadays people don't like insensitive people with stupid ideas. They only respect people who are good to other". And remember as long as we don't end up with her thoughts we are worthful human beings :) salam and duas to you.

[@aishwaryasingh6960]

Don't allow other insult to you..aapko auntie ko reply karna chaye tha .aapne acha food banaye hai thanks for this mera fatty hona meri identity nhi hai aur wahan se alag chale jana chaye tha..saamne wale ko apni galti khud realise hogi..don't feel inferior believe in yourself

[@shrutipandya2959]

Next time somebody calls you fat, tell them you're eating your own father's food and not theirs..so your weight is none of their business .. and on a serious note, being healthy is more important than being underweight.. I am a Physiotherapist, I always tell my patients to be fit rather than lose weight in unhealthy manner. Forget asthetics and unrealistic beauty standards. Focus on being fit, healthy and presentable ❤️

[@japinderkaur5562]

Yes, bahut se . bahut se nahi mostly aadami yehi sochta hai ki bibi slim aur har kaam mai perfect ho Maine apni society mai yehi dekha hai

[@manjukumar5750]

Awesome concept.always love ourselves that is very important and wear confidence.👌👌👌👌

[@pricillar6437]

Be yourself dont change for anyone else let everyone accept how u r

[@shazia62]

Very important message conveyed 😊 good work team, way to go

[@VivekSingh-hz4xx]

👍

[@hetalmodi2686]

Pyar , understanding, respect ye sub relationship ka bada part hota hai Naki khub surti. Ye vlog puri meri life ko sut karta hai

[@swatideshpande7169]

The message of the story is really good.👌But one must maintain weight (not for others) but to prevent oneself from lifestyle disorders.There is no harm in Medical consultation if you are really concerned about ur own fitness.🙏

[@preeetisarswat6463]

Nice story.... Yeah correct h padhai wagera koi nhi dekhta sirf mota patla hi dekhte h society m

[@swagatasaha9406]

Really an awesome theme has been acted out. It's a common issue we face every now or then

[@sawonighosal1335]

Wow aak dham sahi . Mast Ending tha. Iskhe ur sare Parts chayie

[@MagneticOdisha]

Kuch to log kahenge logo ka kam hai kehena 😀why we care about others if they don't care for our ❤️

[@kavitapandya1480]

Very appealing, I personally believe in worthing ourselves, not worthless.

[@Selflove997]

Mind blowing story...❤️ I wish people wish understand this. Yea I have so many experiences related to my body bcz I am skinny... But one experience was wrost & heartbreaking where my bf cheated on me then leave me bcz of this & his mother also said a lot bad & mean things about me & my family...😞😭

[@serendipity0775]

Our scty is sick and mothers are often more patriarchal. We need more such stories shared .

[@memerbunny25]

OK fatty

[@deepshikhakumari7910]

You all are best in every concept 👍👍👍👍

[@VivekSingh-hz4xx]

👌👌

[@B-W.]

This aunty ji, who plays mom's character is so nice, it's tough for her to be the bad cop for long. So very nice. Just like my mom.

[@sangitakanta258]

I wish I had a sister like her...😭😍

[@joysrathinam699]

Yes, people always judge by looks not by their education and quality.

[@radhikanoola5821]

Loved every bit of this episode ❤️