Lindsay Hubbard | Not Skinny But Not Fat

Summer House's Lindsay Hubbard details everything that went down in the crazy split between her and her now ex-fiancé Carl Radke, from the conversation with his parents, the sting operation with the producers, her anxiety following the fallout, and her new man.
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[@linlee5162]

They weren't meant to be together. Lets just all agree to that.

[@kristenfreiburger1000]

Is anyone meant to be with that woman?

[@yhb4172]

Carl is full of it. He may be California sober but he’s still displaying the manipulative behaviors of an addict. If Captain Lee thinks you’re a jackass, you’re a jackass.

[@gabrielleolson4756]

I can’t help but really like Lindsey, she is who she is and she’s herself. This interview was great

[@Tunesandjams]

Agreed, she owns her past behaviour and honestly has changed for the better. The therapy shows. I do think her and Carl equally dodged bullets, the didnt belong together. Love her though

[@networkedjustice]

You dodged a bullet Lindsay. You really grew on me this season, you have matured and handled yourself beautifully. Also you are looking amazing. Your prince will come and if not, you don't need a man, you are crushing life!!

[@annemissett3893]

She was so blind to their relationship -- Lindsay just wanted to get married.

[@linlee5162]

All Linds relationships are hard to watch

[@kimberdc]

At first I thought it was all Lindsay but watching the shows it was so obvious that Carl got more and more manipulative. At the end of the day, it is good that it ended. Y’all can keep blaming Lindsay but Carl was an AH in EVERY relationship he was in. He should just come out of the closet and find happiness.

[@brittanycampbell4507]

Wow.

[@jcitysavage9413]

I have been thinking this for years!!!

[@fartdukenukem5844]

I honestly think Carl & Kyle are in a secret gay relationship together

[@sam11297]

Totally agree!!

[@lisahoerr9713]

Wow, I get it but she literally takes no accountability for even one little, itty bitty thing in every friendship and romantic relationship. Never! I guess she’s perfect.

[@chanellbotshekan]

I'm just so confused by Lindsay. She complains about Carl nonstop and how miserable she was being in a relationship with him, but is also mad that he called the wedding off? Carl said it in part one of the reunion, "it was the best decision for both of you and Lindsay is dating someone new and happy!" Why is she still so pressed??? Especially since she is not, and has never been, an easy person to be in a relationship with. Ask the many men who have been unable to maintain a healthy, loving relationship with her.

[@RJ-yu6cw]

When did she say she was miserable? Even if she was, she said she was committed to make it work. Also, press is a part of being on the show. She doesn’t HAVE to talk about it, but people have questions. It’s not like she has a podcast talking shit ahout Carl nonstop.

[@pchygrl17]

HOW he went about it is where she takes the biggest issue (blindsiding with cameras up/talking to others about it before her) the overall disrespect

[@user-mc9zv3yn1u]

She spun it..even w thecameras thete..imagine if there were No cameras..shed have carl..scandoval 2.o!!

[@user-rt5fd1js3w]

She just said she realized it was for the best only after one month?? She was committed to making it work and to him, you could see that in the every one of their convos this season.

[@chrisg993]

Sleeping in separate rooms and couples therapy before marrying eachother. Only been together 1 year. She had " no clue" "blindsided" ok Lindsay. Why is no one calling her out?!

[@iamheatheranne]

I think she means blind spighted that he quit and didn't want to try any longer. They had been slogging at it the entire time and she is used to fighting and breaking up. She didn't think he would actually leave....

[@kathyquinn3224]

I agree.. no one wantsy argent her!

[@ashley-ro7mg]

My goodness, how many times can these two ladies say the word “like”

[@theresaterry164]

Ridiculous! How would anyone take Lindsay seriously when she talks like a valley teenager?

[@yhb4172]

If you have to work as hard as Lindsay and Carl BEFORE you marry, don’t marry.

[@rickstevenson267]

35:54 Woww Lindsay did the same thing to Jason (Winter house chef) , went to the media behind his back about the miscarriage and didn’t tell him squat… Now she’s crying Wolf…

[@hoopgal3216]

Lindsey knows nothing of conflict resolution - it is/was hard to watch. Carl was not perfect but watching him trying to mend fences the day after their fights was painful. Lindsey is the type of girl to stonewall you after a fight and never say “I’m sorry for my part.” She will have these sh*t realtionships for the rest of her life until she self reflects. Wishing Carl nothing but the best in his healing and sobriety - and I’m wishing Lindsey improvement in her seriously toxic mental health.

[@RossDoss69]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@theresaterry164]

Carl does not want the responsibility of a wife and children…

[@MyBeautifulHealth]

He just wants another Mommy..🤢

[@bebesotatx]

It's tacky as hell and very telling when someone is talking this badly about an ex, especially one they intended to marry. She kept asking Carl why he asked her to marry him if she was such a difficult person, but the same question should be redirected to herself: Why were you so committed to marrying a guy you clearly disliked and found so deeply flawed? Maybe it's time for a new therapist

[@Xxmilkshake202xX]

He was doing it first. And he hurt her so it’s fair.

[@ameliaschenk]

Carl needs a woman that is meek , he can handle a strong independent woman like Lindsay.

[@palavergirl7450]

True. But why does a “strong, independent “ woman like Lindsey wans to FORCE a “meek, weak” man to marry her. Carl finally realized she’s too “strong “ allegedly 😂, and wanted out of marriage. What do you people want from this Weak man? 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@laurel.o]

Meek issssss strong.

[@lisam8837]

I really like listening to you but I can’t watch/listen to this episode cause frankly I’ve had enough of Lindsay bad mouthing her ex, we’re over it. She clearly has nothing else to speak of and it’s enough.

[@LetsHavaChat]

Lindsey asking what she needs to change about herself shows has absolutely zero self awareness. And she thinks it's not big deal that they fought horribly 4 weekends and is shocked he broke it off?

[@dprecious6402]

Really good interview. This was her perspective and I thought she was very open.

[@jenniferhull8278]

Sorry but Lindsey was watching and being in a different show then I watched. If she thinks her and Carl were good those few weeks in between???? I think Lindsey has never seen a good relationship if she thinks that was good. Lindsey has all the right words. But I don't think she really felt the way she is saying she did. I think she really needs to just STOP defending herself and sit back for awhile. She goes from one bad relationship to the next.

[@user-rt5fd1js3w]

She wants a family. The biological clock is ticking for her!! Carl has the luxury to not jump back into dating, she does not

[@Lisa-qs6ll]

I don't think she was ever that into him, she just wanted a baby

[@harnage9119]

Lindsay you really need to focus on improving your self and personal growth. Carl does have his issues for sure, but you have a lot to work on yourself.

[@lisatucker51]

Good interview

[@dudtom7108]

I'm new to this channel. This is the first video I've seen here. I love Amanda. Girl I see you. We see each other 👀

[@dudtom7108]

Your also stunning might I add

[@laniprice6444]

Love you Lindsey. Stay strong and true!

[@cocogemini6623]

Carl is a covert narcissist, it seems. Everything you explained he has the traits.

[@melisaolivero3297]

Addicts have many narcissistic traits. His mother is a classic enabler and I don’t get how he claims he is sober when he smokes weed smh

[@user-rt5fd1js3w]

He claims Lindsay plays the victim when that it is his primary weapon to make her look “crazy” He is such a soft LOSER

[@RainbowwRach]

I don’t remember seeing Carl saying YOU NEED TO CHANGE. I remember Lindsey asking him what do you need from me? And he said nurturing.. telling her exactly what he needs and she follows it with WELL THATS NOT WHO I AM. Warranted, but then why even ask what he needs if you can’t give it to him?

[@AiPersona-rz8gt]

Lindsay is an awful narcissist. She maintains the narrative that Carl planned the breakup with cameras when Andy Cohen specifically told her that production told him that wasn’t the case. She’s delusional. Self obsessed. And this whole campaign she’s gone full sociopath to make Carl seem like the problem. When she is so obviously the problem. And then used the fact that she’s swindled her therapists to corroborate her delusions to justify her behavior as if she’s actually working on herself when she takes absolutely NO accountability for literally anything. The fact that she got into a relationship immediately with a man whose never seen the show is a pretty textbook next move for someone like her. Who very obviously has BPD.

[@Flygirl37]

It wasn’t for show, he just wanted proof of how you would act. You twist everything he says and does.

[@AP-wq9dv]

He’s anxious because he didn’t want to marry you and was struggling on how to break up with you. Over the Carl bashing. Lindsay is a bulldozer. Good for Carl’s parents for speaking uo.

[@Xxmilkshake202xX]

Have you not watched the show? He has been terrible in every relationship he has been in.

[@melodynicole7292]

​@@Xxmilkshake202xX and so has she

[@Xxmilkshake202xX]

@@melodynicole7292 I didn’t say she wasn’t …

[@melodynicole7292]

@@Xxmilkshake202xX so then why bring her up when this post wasn't even about her just saying they are over the Carl bashing. Both have been terrible. Actually, all of them have been terrible

[@Xxmilkshake202xX]

@@melodynicole7292 I didn’t “bring her up.” The original comment mentioned her. I was saying they are both culpable. There are seasons of both of them being verbally abusive to their partners.

[@user-rt5fd1js3w]

This felt like a bizarre interrogation and not a conversation? ILY Lindsay

[@aylecatalina7]

Lindsey seems manic in this interview

[@novascotiaskater1868]

She seems manic all the time! Lol

[@mcnamaramedia1]

She gave him the ring back in January, seven months before they broke up. It’s sad that she can’t see the totality of the situation. They weren’t right for one another.

[@sims4cowgirl]

Did we all watch the same season of summer house? Because Lindsay treated Carl like shit ... not the other way around.

[@katrinapetrey2603]

Everyone drink when they say “like” 🤦🏻‍♀️ We will all be drunk 🤪

[@riseandfall...]

Can we be honest, we have seen Lindsey in 3 relationships and she is the common factor of chaos. Carl made the adult decision; if it was up to Lindsey they would be married

[@che498]

If we’re honest, didn’t Everette supposedly cheat on Lindsay, something Kyle brought up on tv? If we’re being honest, didn’t Carl have a bad string of “relationships” on the show? Doesn’t he also have a history of not being able to maintain a job? You see how that works?

[@palavergirl7450]

@@che498well, no that’s Not how that works 😂. Carl realized they’re in a toxic F’ed up cycle of hell and he did what he could to END it before it’s too late. Lindsey was like, nope you are marrying me no matter what, Buddy old boy. We will be miserable together for eternity bc you PROPOSED. You will be with me even if kills you. So, no. She doesn’t like nor respects Carl, forget about her other victims. She’s Lindsey, she’s a Karen and you’ll accept her whether you like it or not. 😂 So, Carl is who he is too. If you don’t like it, don’t demand he marry you. What da heck is this?

[@che498]

@@palavergirl7450 Well, yes it is how it works when you point out Lindsay’s failed relationship, as though she has been the sole problem; without adding in any context. Carl has a string of failed relationships, failed jobs, and anger issues! His boss, Kyle aired him out last season for doing drugs on the job. He has a habit as well of not being direct in his feelings. What he did to Lindsay this year was the exact same thing that he did to Kyle last year with LoverBoy lol. He complained endlessly to his then girlfriend, Lindsay, about being dissatisfied with LoverBoy, but, never confronted Kyle until it was too late; and it caused a great deal of tension between the two. And instead of owning up to his feelings, he used Lindsay as a shield and allowed her to take the heat. Just as he did this year. IE. The flower boy situation, which lied about and blamed on Lindsay, when really it was his decision. The only reason Carl isn’t getting nearly as much heat from the cast, is because it involves Lindsay, she’s the perfect scapegoat. She is already blamed for everything, even situations she isn’t involved in. Like Paige accusing her of the Craig leak. Or how about when Kyle called her out of her name repeatedly because Danielle said Amanda was untrustworthy? Like we literally just watched people get upset with Lindsay for clearing her name lol, and “throwing Danielle under the bus”, for a situation they all vehemently attacked her for the previous year… Further, Carl and Lindsay were best friends for 8 years, she was there for him through some extremely dark times in his life. I think everyone (including Lindsay) will agree that them breaking up was for the best, how he went about it is a different conversation. To make it appear as though Carl was upfront and transparent and honest when he was gushing all across social media about his “bride to be” just two weeks before breaking things off, is bizarre lol. Carl reassured Lindsay multiple times that they would get married; all while badmouthing her behind her back to close friends and family all summer. Then, after filming wrapped, he orchestrated with production to film breakup scenes with his partner, on camera, causing her a great deal of embarrassment. I would genuinely hope you don’t find that sort of behavior acceptable right? Production called Kyle Tuesday to film a scene with Carl and then they phoned Lindsay, to film a separate scene. Kyle came back from that meeting afterwards and told Amanda “things aren’t looking good”. But, when Lindsay asked Carl why they were meeting with production, he gave her the run around lol. He cancelled their therapy session without informing her and then set up cameras to break up with his girlfriend, his best friend of 8 years, on camera…and in the aftermath, lied in multiple interviews about only postponing the wedding, saying it was Lindsay who gave him an ultimatum. Well how did his version of events work out? Why is it such a foreign concept for folks to hold men accountable for their bad deeds? Carl was manipulative and produced a storyline, which ironically is what Lindsay is always accused of, and it’s very clear in the final scene with production that his only concern was his public image and the optics. As he complained about getting “cancelled”.

[@andycakesends]

@@che498yessss

[@andycakesends]

@@che498you took the time 👏👏👏

[@candacegabrielle9679]

Lindsey shared she didn’t have an appetite until recently- she’s slaying but it’s sad we’ve praising the hardship

[@MayraRodriguez-gp9kh]

I’ve listened to a lot of interviews with Lindsay and not a single time has she admitted to any wrongdoing, any responsibility. Everything was done TO her, like ok 😒

[@sxocardona]

You guys are acting like Lindsay hasnt been horrible all these years lol. She is trying so hard to have her “Ariana” moment. People are seeing right thru it

[@yhb4172]

Don’t blame Carl’s mom. He created this situation by bad-mouthing Lindsay, and then pretending like it’s a profound moment when she tells him not to marry. What was she supposed to think? He manipulated her just like he manipulates everyone.

[@samanthagarwood551]

I’m on board with agreeing they shouldn’t have ended up together either way but some of Carls moves and comments were just mean.

[@kimandersenjohnson2324]

Am I on another planet?!?! “You don’t break up because you fought for 2 weeks and then fought for 2 weeks again!” She can’t figure out how someone cancels a wedding over poor communication about a career??? She sounds like someone who is still pining for someone. Obsessed at the least. This is a whole lot of passion for someone who is in a happy relationship. She was so unhappy with Carl- he did nothing right, ever. And he was a 2.5 in bed (which she told the entire world). Why does she GAF about any of this? Let’s hear about how she’s slaying life!!!

[@amandamartinello4315]

The way Lindsay recounts their conversations that we all watched on television, is not how it actually happened. She creates a a narrative that makes sense to her because she has no ability to be introspective or take accountably for her behavioural issues. We watched Carl communicate his needs very well this season, and she continued to misunderstand him. He could not win. Lindsay is Lindsay, and we've watched her have issues every season with multiple people in the house. She has a pattern of bad behaviour & she should seriously consider being psychologically evaluated by a psychiatrist.

[@staceekivisto8726]

He did Lindsay a favor !

[@Flygirl37]

You weren’t the loud one? You were AWFUL to him Lindsay! You said on national TV he was a 2.5 in bed, you said he was on drugs. Ugh, she takes no responsibility for anything she does!!!

[@rmw2461]

Why do I feel like im being gaslit while listening to this. But actually. I was starting to be like oh! Shes making sense. Till I realize shes never taken one ounce of countability ever in any relationship. Also she was doing more than just "asking questions."

[@novascotiaskater1868]

I honestly feel like Lindsay wanted the wedding but not the marriage...

[@ameliaschenk]

I’m team Lindsay

[@AbsolutAlim]

All last season she wasn’t activated? Girl what!!??

[@palavergirl7450]

😂😂😂

[@joshknutson16]

So much poor talking of Carl in every interview…such a great look to bad talk your best friend of 8 years and previous partner 24/7…🙃

[@Tquin55]

I am so tired of Lindsey’s year long PR campaign to bash Carl. Move on with your life!!!!! She is mean and vindictive and seem completely unable to take ANY accountability for the relationships issues. At least Carl admits his part of the problem publicly and wishes her well. She just comes across as a bitter man hater now. All her relationships have had a similar demise and her short fuse and anger issues play a large factor every time. Perhaps it’s time for a bit of self reflection.

[@Sassyheather78130]

Don’t pick a drug addict and expect great things from them. That’s reality that’s the truth. They are use to hiding in plain sight. She was in complete denial.

[@rawfeederlife]

This is the interview I needed. I understand a little more. I wanted to take Carl's side in thus, but watching the show, what quickly became clear, is Lindsey has been Lindsey from day one. Carl acted like he didn't know her. It's clear that they weren't meant to be. The season was kind of yuck when it comes to their relationship.

[@TanjaBengts]

No, can't listen.... I wish her well.

[@tovalieber5666]

you deserve better

[@Retirement10]

Carl is a recovering addict. Should had Never been in this relationship

[@Lisa-qs6ll]

They both as bad as each other in different ways, but she talks about it too much. She does want to be the victim and get Ariana treatment. She moved on very swiftly for someone who was so hurt by the situation.

[@salmamohamed4319]

Lindsay I'm sorry but now I understand ❤❤❤

[@joandes3056]

Ok so what's the reason that this whole interview is about bashing Carl!? She's is just 🗑

[@thcwhat00]

She knows now they weren’t meant to be but I too would never forgive someone for doing what Carl did. He had no respect for their relationship. She was with him with or without the cameras and he proved to just be in a relationship bc of the cameras! He enjoyed the attention the relationship and engagement gave. He never had any intentions to marry and was trying to get her to end it and was unsuccessful cause she knows how to be in a grow up relationship and he clearly doesn’t! I never cared for him and now his version of sober makes him even more unlikable cause his character is just as pathetic as it was from season 1! F#ck boi for life!

[@JenniferMarieUSA]

I believe that Carl dragged his parents into the conversation. So he would have an “excuse” and someone else to be the heavy. Expecting Lindsey 2 blow up and call off the whole wedding. Yet it didn’t go as planned. Carl is a weak shady little boy. He is actually worst than the Toms on VPR. Just my thoughts and beliefs Thank you ☺️

[@palavergirl7450]

Another thing. Omg 😤. Lindsey, Carl did not “commit” to Life in Misery. Engagements are a Probation/Trial period BEFORE you commit in actual Marriage for “life”. Also, do research in divorce stats. Not for life kiddo 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@novascotiaskater1868]

8:28 um really Lindsay?! She thinks she was " ok cool".. every conversation? I can't with this woman!!!

[@litrealred6840]

Sounds like he can’t handle pressure! Getting married he would have to many problems! He is Peter Pan ! Cant adult pressure !

[@kristenfreiburger1000]

Made it 1 minute before I couldn't take listening to Lindsay anymore :(

[@casadelsolboutiquebedbreakfast]

New boyfriend must feel special lol lol NOT !

[@tammyanderson2372]

Lindsey absolutely tried to build an adult relationship. I think Carl felt the self work was suppose to happen naturally. the desire should be natural but the actual changing takes work and dedication

[@melissacoffey2029]

They both have major issues.

[@1011jacks]

she is delusional , i am sorry is no one else watching the same show ?!?!?!

[@marlynnek6449]

Dear Lindsay - IT'S YOU.

[@anafletes6893]

same thing happened to me, douches. he is still single and not married

[@VictoriaRoberts-tn1vj]

they def don't belong together, but now i'm thinking how he wasn't sad about breaking up at all. He was full of rage

[@lisawatkins8801]

The Carl bashing parade needs to be over. This is ALL she has talked about for an entire year. It's so unhealthy to stay in such a negative space. She needs to move on.

[@RJ-yu6cw]

She was best friends with the guy and then they got engaged. How can you tell someone to move on? Haha. Also they JUST had their first Summer House reunion a few days ago… Press is a part of being on the show.

[@AbsolutAlim]

@@RJ-yu6cwTHIS. She’s had to relive this all again with everyone else. And she has a new boyfriend. I’m sure speaking on it sparks up emotions.

[@lisawatkins8801]

@@RJ-yu6cw It's been almost a year. She's holding onto the emotional trauma like it happened yesterday. It's unhealthy for her.

[@rickstevenson267]

35:54 Woww Lindsay did the same thing to Jason (Winter house chef) , went to the media behind his back about the miscarriage and didn’t tell him squat… Now she’s crying Wolf…. Jason was crushed and thought he was about to become a dad with Lindsay, then hears all throughout the media without any heads up that Lindsay miscarried. She never told him that she was going to break the news to the media, and he was crushed as seen in WHS2. Now she’s saying things about telling cameras without notification…

[@Xxmilkshake202xX]

Have you never been in a relationship?

[@carrieessner7134]

Is the host pregnant?? I’m so confused

[@shannontrucks1708]

Obviously

[@slove444]

She is!

[@skittles4669]

But ... I think Carl is gay. It seems very obvious

[@arlenes.4392]

Umm I wouldn’t say it’s a bad thing to call a parent your best friend. Carl gives that a bad name bc he’s so indecisive