Horse Wisdom: Strategic Action in Difficult Relationships

[@steel12city17cowgirl]

What an Exceptional Young Lady!!! An old soul, teaching us a thing or two about the dynamics of parent and child! Great session Jini, and the your question lead her to her power!! As a parent, this was such an important dialogue..... 💖🐴💖

[@ListenToYourHorse]

Right?? SO much good stuff - and great learning for parents and teens!

[@steel12city17cowgirl]

ListenToYourHorse It Truly Is!! You, your Tribe and the Singing Herd are such Bright Lights to every living species, in this Universe! You are making a Difference and Changing our thought process, for the greater good, Bless you for that!! Please Stay Safe and Be Well! 💖🐴💖

[@bernadettebockis4120]

Women, horses, beauty, intelligence, dedication. Great inquiry.

[@ListenToYourHorse]

thank you!

[@jenniferloree3145]

I don't quite know how to express my gratitude for sharing all this wisdom with us. Your herd is amazing! Thank you for listening and sharing!

[@ListenToYourHorse]

Thanks for listening

[@mindycoleman1745]

Natalie, what an amazing young woman you are. You speak eloquently and well. Thank you both for giving me a better way to work with my son. Everything you said, especially about the level playing field made perfect sense!!! Love and light to you both, as well as the herd ❤️

[@ListenToYourHorse]

You're welcome and a big virtual hug back to you!

[@fionadecarli840]

I love this! It happens to me with my partner. Many times if we speak about our issues inside the house, we usually have disagreements and if there's a lot of tension we can get to become angry. And then we pick the car and go somewhere and we just start talking... And then there's understanding and respect! It's all about leaving the house and being in a neutral zone 👌

[@ListenToYourHorse]

That's a fantastic strategy

[@IonIsFalling7217]

Siyone really asserting herself there! Nice to see her so well healed.

[@ListenToYourHorse]

Yes and Kaliah has stepped aside and is letting Siyone move her around - supporting Siyone to build her power.

[@sidilicious11]

Good stuff. Walking with people is awesome in so many ways. I loved watching this beautiful teen and Ginny have this discussion with the horses in the backround.

[@ListenToYourHorse]

Glad you enjoyed it! xo

[@ShortOrderCook]

This was a very deep conversation. The inner condition reflecting and transforming itself to an outer manifestation. Such great observations from you both, and letting time pass for fruition and reflection - and then that deep discussion and sharing. I love your videos! Thank-you Jini and Natalie for the light.

[@ListenToYourHorse]

Thanks for watching

[@Talis1717]

This was a very educational video, it helps to reflect on my own situation. Living with parents can be chaotic at times, the household can be chaotic, family energy in general can be chaotic. Because of the chaos, I find that I often retreat and coexist within the domains of my bedroom whenever there is a conflict, whenever there is a stressful situation, or whenever I am overwhelmed by certain energies. Because I’ve transformed my room into my “sacred space” as I like to call it, it’s a space where I can isolate myself from the rest of the world, a place of healing energy where I can recharge and feel at peace. Even if other people enter my space the energy may shift but it resumes its normal energy. Comparing this energy to the rest of the house, it’s chaotic and there’s a huge power shift. But I do agree that by seeking comfort in my space would be to submit to whatever the circumstances are, and it is not always beneficial to stay within ones comfort zone. So yes maybe I should try changing which areas of the household I dedicate my time too, maybe the backyard or garden is a good place to start to balance the energies and energy exchange between myself and other family members. I also notice the energy can act tenfold in a conflict if there is more than one person involved, for example; two parents in an argument against one child, so in this case the best way to improve the situation is to bring the conversations into a more neutral area and communicate one-to-one about disputes. Maybe by stepping back and observing others, what energy they bring and exchange, what location the situation occurs, and the outcome might I learn more about how to respond in the same or several circumstances.

[@ListenToYourHorse]

Awesome insights! I'd love to hear what happens or shifts, or other insights that occur as you implement these things...

[@devenjones7231]

I'm a 22 year old college student, and this being my senior year and covid happening, I'm given no choice but to stay home for the year. So I really resonated with this video! It gives me so much motivation to start working on my life journey again. Reevaluating the past, so I can build a brighter future. I know I have to sacrifice some of my social life and independence, but I know those things will come again. And for now, I can chase my dream of horses. I'm graduating with a degree in psychology, but my uni offers a horse management program. So, I took the leap and bought 2 in-foal tennessee walkers. And I figured, I'm here, with nothing but time, so what's better than starting now. My parents are helping me, which makes me feel supported, unlike ever before. I spent so many years working towards their dreams, I can now finally voice *my* dreams without judgements or criticisms of 'higher' education...what I'm trying to get at is; we need to realize it's our life and our journey. We should never try to live it for another person(s). It's okay to feel unheard, make that the first step! Make sure you're always being heard! Life has a way of sorting itself out after that 💙 Really FANTASTIC video! Great dialogue and discussions!

[@ListenToYourHorse]

Awesome Deven! For what it's worth - both my husband I have university degrees and we have not encouraged any of our kids to go to university. My view is IF that's what you want, go for it. If not, do something else, or spend some time finding you way... to the NEXT thing. The days of doing ONE thing for 50 years are gone. Now it is about doing what you love, that contributes to the world you want to live in, and doing it so well/beautifully/cool/strikingly/etc that people are happy to pay you for it.

[@devenjones7231]

@@ListenToYourHorse I wish I would have heard this advise when I was younger. But there must be a reason I'm hearing it now, and that's all that matters 💕Thank you for everything you do!

[@tripitaka5444]

Nat for President ! Makes far more sense than Drumpf. Good job! Thanks Ginny.

[@sive-777]

THANK YOU! This was so helpful. Natalie you're amazing

[@ListenToYourHorse]

You're so welcome!

[@Justine_-fy5ul]

Really wise and powerful message! Thank you!

[@ListenToYourHorse]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@kathleenreyes4345]

So profound!

[@llso-lovelightsoundoneness1606]

OMG I never knew this video was uploaded! And around the 4 minute 23 second Mark I think oh my aching head when this beautiful young lady says how good how I want to quote her but not the best when she says it's actually quite good and that smile on her whole face oh it was just so there was a connection even for her I saw a light bulb go off I saw her facing you and the words were actually like truly planting themselves in her heart or their meaning or the feeling I don't know what I'm trying to say but this was also profound for me too I just can't quit learning from you and your heart I just love you so much okay I got to finish watching lol...

[@llso-lovelightsoundoneness1606]

You have a way with people Jini! I knew this and so we know how you have a way with people and animals but the way you can bring these young ladies out and how they feel so I love how comfortable they are and their beauty around you so that they are embracing themselves 100% because I tell you it seems like it's almost easier for us to get them to start thinking with their heart and even changing the programming of their mind but the last battle seems to be getting them to put their looks aside and trust that they will be beautiful that they are beautiful and that with that beautiful heart they just the beauty really shines right? I have noticed this every time you've been around females and I'm just a real lover of humans and human behavior and psychology and I'm not going to school or anything like that it's just a hobby I guess kind of realizing it as I say this but I do find comfort in women who I see make other women comfortable and especially women who are beautiful and not necessarily aware of the fact yet that it's okay to know that and to feel that. In my opinion when you feel beautiful you actually look beautiful especially if it's a more streamlined thought not necessarily like I'm beautiful so I can get this or I'm beautiful so I'm going to do that just a I am beautiful simply put okay sorry these are always so long so sorry truly I got to go back and finish the video again LOL LMAO

[@ListenToYourHorse]

We love your enthusiasm Liane! And yes, the horses made all my adult barn help leave, and they pulled in a bunch of youth instead. It's a journey for all of us indeed! But they are each very special people and so generous to share what they're learning with others. All part of the matrix! Each of the gals that helps out can get dressed up and put on their makeup and look like models - you should see them before a party! But just like models, teens rarely FEEL they're beautiful. And each of these gals has their struggles with self-esteem. Yet they're willing to share and be open so others can learn/benefit from the horses' teachings. I have MUCH RESPECT for each one of them.

[@llso-lovelightsoundoneness1606]

@@ListenToYourHorse the herd knows don't they?! So much comfort knowing that! XO ❤️🥰

[@bonniebonkers4779]

Parents need to figure out how to pivot from Mom or Dad mode to that of friend. With a friend you are on equal ground and listen without trying to tell someone how they should or shouldn't be. As a friend you can support, share experiences and if asked give advice. It's a whole different dynamic. You have to trust that the young person will do what they need to do for their own growth. They will make mistakes, we all have made mistakes, so what. That's how we learn, that's how we grow. Great video, thank you. ❤👍

[@ListenToYourHorse]

Hope you enjoyed it!

[@jollyshankar7872]

Love you 🌹

[@sunnahberkuda8574]

Kereng kudanya bagus Goodluck, salam kenal dari Indonesia

[@MLOCharmer]

I've done that, as a young child I would spend the entire day and sometimes into the night with my horse. When i said i was running away i left to the barn and laid down in the night on her hay bales next to her stall. I was probably there for 15 minutes and i went back on my bike to the house and krept into my room thinking my mom would be searching for me. I was soooooo dramatic. My mom and dad divorced when I was 6 so this was when I was at least 9.

[@ListenToYourHorse]

That must have been challenging at a young age

[@MLOCharmer]

@@ListenToYourHorse yep I don't remember much before age 7 or 8 but what I have found lately is some past drama surfacing and thoughts of working issues has been coming to me lately for some healing.

[@DeeDee-yz9ku]

When she has her own family she will understand. It a big, sometime bad world. Parent have been there!

[@wordreet]

Not yet an adult? That's clearly based on a number, rather than attitude and intelligence. 👍

[@ListenToYourHorse]

Not yet, she will be 18 in a few months and says thank you for your kind comment.

[@wordreet]

@@ListenToYourHorse 😊👍 In that case, the US needs to lower its Presidential candidacy age somewhat.

[@whatif3500]

Do they have their own stalls? Why don’t you feed them in their stalls?

[@ListenToYourHorse]

There are no stalls. Our barn is completely open letting them come and go to the field whenever they please.

[@whatif3500]

ListenToYourHorse ah - got it.