It's so refreshing to see an adult validate that being a teenager is hard instead of saying "these are the best years of your life"
@fruitypeebils6 ай бұрын
I mean he did kind of say that
@silva36584 ай бұрын
No he said they were the most important @@fruitypeebils
@wolfex83834 ай бұрын
He did say that but for a different reason
@tear7283 ай бұрын
hate to tell you but it only gets harder lmao
@CrocusSeal3 ай бұрын
@@tear728 I'm in my thirties. I don't miss being told what to do everyday. I don't miss being in school and being forced to interact with people I don't like. I don't miss being at the mercy of my abusive parents. Yeah capitalism sucks but there are good and bad things about all areas of your life.
@lifeunbridled5 жыл бұрын
These two were the heart of this film. I loved their interactions.
@GlamsUnknown3 жыл бұрын
Yes! The way Frank really becomes Dwayne's voice from the beginning, before he speaks again. They get each other differently.
@razkable Жыл бұрын
Hes like my uncle
@usualchaos Жыл бұрын
Mom also carried the movie
@TheSocratesofAthens Жыл бұрын
Every character played a great role in the film. Each had their place.
@pseudoposter24175 жыл бұрын
“To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering.” - Nietzsche
@jisusumartes14 жыл бұрын
He is so into Nietzsche in the movie, by the way.
@ashketchup73544 жыл бұрын
Dwayne must've not gotten to that part of the book yet.
@vitormarciliano22994 жыл бұрын
@@ashketchup7354 didnt read any of his books, what do you mean?
@leftnutrightnut20974 жыл бұрын
"Why are we still here... just to suffer?" - some internet meme
@dialecdicks32554 жыл бұрын
@@vitormarciliano2299 despite the common misconception that Nietzsche was a pessimistic nihilist, he actually pushed a life-affirming philosophy in the face of the existential nihilism that the Enlightenment had caused.
@floridjazzfan978 жыл бұрын
Paul Dano is great, but Steve Carrel is just as brilliant in this scene.
@contvechi62036 жыл бұрын
I really liked the relationship between those 2 in this movie.
@haroldhollemanii33093 жыл бұрын
Just to think this role could've been for Bill Murray or robin Williams either one wouldve knocked it out the park as well.
@chelronin78433 жыл бұрын
@@haroldhollemanii3309 I can definitely see Robin William for this role damn, Bill Murray too.
@haroldhollemanii33093 жыл бұрын
@@chelronin7843 Hy movie would’ve prolly been a little more commercially successful too if robin or bill would’ve been this role.
@fyr3st0rm652 жыл бұрын
Jeez, I forget that's Steve Carrel in this movie, he just slips in and is so believable as the character.
@witchwildboy90287 жыл бұрын
Now that I'm older this now has much more impact on me.
@chrisuresti38986 жыл бұрын
Witchwild boy this was a lesson any highschool loser knew when they were younger.
@Evan.Coulter5 жыл бұрын
As someone who watched this movie for the first time in high school and is now in my late twenties, watching this movie again made me realize that this movie changes as I grow up. It's really wonderful to watch this movie every few years and see how my appreciation for each character changes over time. Beautiful movie.
@teanna49154 жыл бұрын
I watched this movie when I was 8 years old, and I didn’t understand it that much. Now I’m 16 and this had such a huge impact on me
@apseudonym4 жыл бұрын
Yes. When I first saw this movie I was fifteen and couldn't make sense of all of the suffering and emotions I had to endure. I was thought it was unfair, I was angry at everything. Now that I am thirty things make sense, I have perspective. I can look at my suffering and say “I sure am glad I suffered back then and not now that the stakes are higher.” I learned so much about myself, my personality and what I am capable of but only because I suffered. If things were okay I wouldn't have learned, I wouldn't appreciate the good that exists in my life now.
@handsolo10763 жыл бұрын
That's what she said...
@peachscreams2 жыл бұрын
"if i wanna fly I'll find a way to fly" is such an understated but beautiful moment in this movie. probably my favorite line in the whole film. All of them are looking for that same relief, and their sorrow comes from feeling like they have to fall into some kind of structure that they just don't work with. And he's the first one to realize you don't need any of those structures to be who you are/happy.
@Milkytears222 Жыл бұрын
PARAPPA PFP
@peachscreams Жыл бұрын
@@Milkytears222 PARAPPA!!!!!
@TheSocratesofAthens6 ай бұрын
That's what growth is about: becoming independent.
@jongilbertson21064 жыл бұрын
"Life is one f-ing beauty contest after another." That line just sums up the whole movie.
@morningowl432 жыл бұрын
Suns up life
@netowgtz Жыл бұрын
@@morningowl43 sums
@Snarkythecat Жыл бұрын
@@morningowl43sums
@nerddd701 Жыл бұрын
@@morningowl43sums
@Lucid_Lasagna6 ай бұрын
@@morningowl43sums
@JeremiahFernandez3 жыл бұрын
"If I wanna fly, I'll find a way to fly" damn
@skyofthelivingdead4 ай бұрын
I like to think he did, too. This movie takes place in 2006, we’ve come pretty far with stuff like drones since then. That’s my headcanon. Dwayne got into flying drones.
@Zombiesnyder138 жыл бұрын
"You do what you love and fuck the rest" I live with that
@feridzeynalov70332 жыл бұрын
How do you what you love?
@rorironan48402 жыл бұрын
Me too
@abigailhe77298 жыл бұрын
Every time when I feel myself a loser, what he said about Proust always encourage me to keep moving on. It's true, it's the suffering makes you become who you are.
@KaiMax_235 жыл бұрын
Yea, for better or worse.
@KaiMax_235 жыл бұрын
@Fred J3 who are you talking to, and who said anything about getting a job?
@francescoc.65912 жыл бұрын
To me a “loser” is someone who settles for a condition they are unhappy with, without doing anything about it. The fact that you choose to keep moving on makes you a winner no matter the outcome. Our greatest victories are internal. Who cares what anyone else thinks? Best luck in your journey Abigail. May you be the heroine of your own tale.
@TheSocratesofAthens Жыл бұрын
@@francescoc.6591 "A loser is someone who's so afraid of winning that they don't even try."
@scotttatertot699 ай бұрын
Suffering defines you, assuming you can overcome it. I almost didn't.
@Tim85-y2q2 жыл бұрын
Love how this heartfelt scene ends with "glad you're talking again Dwayne." It's the perfect comedic button.
@usualchaos Жыл бұрын
So underrated
@TV4Fun2 Жыл бұрын
So much said in so fre words.
@dashman84997 жыл бұрын
one of the most real movies ever.
@sheepy15682 жыл бұрын
More 'family' movies should be like this. Actually real.
@queenmother1238 жыл бұрын
This movie made me fall in love with Paul Dano. This scene is golden!
@Queeniexx-hz1ex8 жыл бұрын
I'd already fallen in love with him
@nymphicide8 жыл бұрын
lmao fell in love in swiss army man
@ana-px7zy7 жыл бұрын
you should see him in ruby sparks
@alltimefalloutatthechemica21065 жыл бұрын
Amina Harris omg same
@Malgoose515 жыл бұрын
@@ana-px7zy oooo more Dano 😍
@katr.99028 жыл бұрын
I watched this movie almost 10 years ago, when I was 16, i think, and this scene had so much impact on me. I think it really helped to form my character and personality because in every bad situation I try to find something to learn from it and make my peace with it.
@apseudonym4 жыл бұрын
I was about the same age. I was fifteen years old and suffering with so much angst and desire for self-destruction and this scene and film as a whole made me feel less alone.
@KimAhrina112 жыл бұрын
Wow such a wise 👍
@sassytabasco2 жыл бұрын
That's a very healthy way to look at it. Breaking down the nuances of a bad situation often reminds me of its relative scale.
@steveborden12 Жыл бұрын
same... but i recently watched this movie again and i think they cut this scene outa the movie. maybe im wrong, maybe its mendela effect.
@octotruman2541 Жыл бұрын
I’m 16 and just watched this movie now, I hope it has as profound of an impact on me as it did on you. For as much as I agree with this part of the movie, I equally go against the message it’s trying to give me. I hope I can put the amount of love I have for this film into how I can change for the better like the characters within it.
@MarkSmith-js2pu5 жыл бұрын
Olive struggles down the hill, consoles him like now one else in the family can, she doesn’t a word, and then when he’s ok they walk back and he helps her up the hill. Then they all come together to support her. What a great story
@Mq6vL9Bu5 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Olive shows in that scene that she has true beauty.
@cgreene4 жыл бұрын
Also a great callback to when he writes 'Go Hug Mom' to Olive in the hospital as their mom is breaking down. When he's breaking down, she knows the best way to comfort him because he taught it to her.
@hopsix13372 жыл бұрын
@@cgreene this made me cry
@Cinemabuff975 жыл бұрын
I love this scene so much. This philosophy that both are discussing is truly eye opening, and has always stuck with me.
@razkable5 жыл бұрын
this scene in particular between a uncle with his suicidal tendencies due to the love of his life rejecting him and life spiraling out of control counselling his nephew in a such a down to earth real way spoke to me as someone with a similar relationship with my mom's brother whose been denied access to his son born in wedlock without most of my family knowing heck they don't know I know and rejected by the girl he married later to hide it and has spent his whole life sad angry and taking care of my grandparents and my own depression..we have had talks like this on family meetings we just sneak off to talk and get away from it all...nothing better then two guys from different ages being able to just let it all out and exchange words of wisdom and share experiences with no bs or others around..
@Duckpunkdisease9 жыл бұрын
Truer words have never been said in any other movie
@jakehedlund55832 жыл бұрын
"if i wanna fly, i'll find a way to fly" that quote changed my life
@manofcorn59302 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite style of advice. Not some sugar coated unrealistic advice about one day achieving your dreams. But making jokes about how we all suck and suffer and it's just something we gotta do. And the little playful insults scattered throughout, "you're not as stupid as look." Thats the kind of therapy that really helps me at least, just knowing we're aren't alone through the pain.
@brokenspielt7 жыл бұрын
1:36 I thought he said "glad you're talking again, DWIGHT" lol
@arkay2384 жыл бұрын
Dwigt
@cgreene4 жыл бұрын
His name is actually Dwight, Jim Halpert just paid everyone in the movie five bucks each to call him Dwayne
@baylee86592 жыл бұрын
oh my god this made me gag
@springfieldstone543 жыл бұрын
This whole ending and very scene was shot in my hometown of Ventura County, California. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve rode my bicycle out to the end of that pier and contemplated my life like Dwayne here, with my dad being the Steve Carrel character in my version I just watched this movie for the first time in the last month, and I absolutely adored it. I was completely caught off guard when it showed them getting to Ventura County. It’s perhaps more sentimental that I no longer live there anymore, and when I watched the movie, it made me miss the place.. 😞😞
@cweymer4402 Жыл бұрын
Same here. This movie holds a really special place in my heart ❤
@JReed19858 жыл бұрын
Just because you had years of suffering doesn't mean you wont find light at the end of the tunnel.
@thesabature31218 жыл бұрын
Only suffering that make feel the light , feel the light not just see it.
@JReed19858 жыл бұрын
The Sabature exactly, only when in emotional pain does your mind focus on other perspectives.
@rosswood61816 жыл бұрын
JReed1985 correct, as Elton John once sang "some move through life without problems, some have to live with the scars " (circle of life)
@lilinectar294 жыл бұрын
That's beautiful 😊
@jeanmichellelaurent4 жыл бұрын
We don’t get our peace until we’re dead
@CullenCochran4 жыл бұрын
I really love how kind Frank is to Dwayne in this moment
@anekant31835 жыл бұрын
This scene ....I mean this scene....just brought me back to life.... Thank you
@picklesthewise4 жыл бұрын
These two are amazing actors. Their scenes together were my favorite parts of the movie.
@thegoddessofedge5 жыл бұрын
Dwayne's smile is so precious
@JDXC6662 жыл бұрын
An absolute classic of a film. Steve Carrell and Paul Dano killed it throughout this movie but this scene in particular is a highlight.
@cowl68672 жыл бұрын
I have a cousin who was in love with music at a young age but his parents forced him on becoming a lawyer and guilted to get a good career since he can't even hear through one of his ears which hinders his abilities to listen and play music. So he went to law school for 4 years got his degree and shoved it infront of his parents and went back to school to study music composition. He is now an award winning film composer with many beautiful compositions under his belt. I look up to him a lot. Even with all the obstacles, he still set his mind on doing what he loves and now he's teaching me the same. Love you David ❤
@emorydaniel90844 жыл бұрын
This movie is a good lesson in social and societal norms. Every person in this movie is driven to what’s important to them, but yet because their drive doesn’t fit within cultural norms, they are shunned and ostracized. But Dwayne realizes the truth that everyone learns in the ending dance scene: you have to try. People may not like it or accept it, but pursuing the things you love makes all the difference, despite the suffering
@southbeachtalent Жыл бұрын
Just came for this scene, been awhile since I've watched this movie. I would argue Greg Kinear's character is exactly what society expects. Positive thinking, success on the mind 24/7, all while supposedly being a consummate family man. He's the portrayal of what America expects of a man his age. The reality doesn't match the expectation. His wife and family hates him, because he's never true to himself. Literally all he is is the embodiment of expectations and norms from a society that truly treats him as a joke. The dancing scene is the breaking point for all of the characters imo. They drift away from expectations and just do what feels the most natural. To be outcasts and just support your oddball family
@MrCholoPants34156 жыл бұрын
Incredible acting.
@razkable4 жыл бұрын
it feels like a real nephew and uncle speaking
@dannyloverboy67754 жыл бұрын
“Prime suffering years.”
@motionsuggests2 жыл бұрын
I remember this scene as being one of my favourite and somehow pivotal for the movie to me. Love seeing the Nietzsche teenager and Proust uncle find their common ground as the movie progresses. I'm like Dwayne, the younger man (albeit older now) who has explored nihilism, existentialism, absurdism, etc. But I gotta say I'm jealous of him for having an older role model who can talk to him at his level of depth (philosophy, literature..) None of the "role models" in my life provide this to me, unfortunately.
@Tyler129052 жыл бұрын
That’s what movies like this are made for
@이경원-g4j6 жыл бұрын
the quote that makes me keep going and overcome hard times
@_a.tay_2 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine if Frank had successfully killed himself because he didn't win a stupid grant? He would have been completely unable to be there for and inspire his nephew after the latter inevitably figured out the color blindness, and there might have been two suicides.
@alexanderthegreat12702 жыл бұрын
Man you are so right. Only just realised that knock on effect as well through the movie, like when Dwayne tells Olive to hug his mum as comfort, and then she hugs him in his meltdown
@LeoSilva-ff6nt4 жыл бұрын
I can't put my finger on my favorite scene of this movie, but this right here is pure gold and I've never forget about it, even when I watched the movie once 10 years ago or so
@rhitaylor60844 жыл бұрын
paul dano = the cutest , finest lil man out here
@TokyoJoe7036 жыл бұрын
Excellent Uncle/Nephew chat
@justinthompson28174 жыл бұрын
I ditch school when I was 14 to watch this movie in theaters. It was so worth it. The grandpa made me laugh as well as the attitude everyone had towards each other. Really one of my favorites movies. FYI I use to ditch school to watch movies during the day and the theater didn’t care I was underage lol literally became friends with the 50 year old women who took my ticket and we would rate movies together and spend like 5 minutes critiquing new films. It was a lot of fun. Not sure where she went but she was amazing.
@forestrot6664 жыл бұрын
Two of my favorite actors in my long list. Paul Dano is in my top 10 though,especially after this. Of course,There Will Be Blood was a epic for him and I truly enjoyed his acting and came to love it through that.
@tristangalloway72096 жыл бұрын
This movie means so much to me I remember watching it when I was young on demand oh god how life’s changed and high school truly is your suffering years
@rebeccarodriguez13782 жыл бұрын
First movie I saw Steve Carell in a dramatic role, and his performances hasn’t let me down since
@Kerorofan19902 жыл бұрын
The guy is great, ain't he? Can play a sitcom doofus like Michael Scott or Brick Tamland, then turn around and turn in roles that get him nominated for freaking Oscars.
@kris242 Жыл бұрын
These two in a scene alone together is just pure magic. Both were fish out of water at this point. Steve Carell was always type-cast as “that goofy dude” and Paul Dano was just straight up a “nobody.” Weird to look back at this and see how perfect these roles really were and how incredibly well they melded with each other. Not to mention pretty much every other main actor in this film. Easily one of the most brilliant combinations of talent in such a subtly wonderful film ❤️
@jacaanthony Жыл бұрын
This scene is very special to me, and how in life even the more unappealing or even depressing parts are needed, sadness is the price we pay for happiness. So, experience it all.
@coldhands66483 жыл бұрын
I really really needed to hear this
@joyjin8 жыл бұрын
Paul Dano was great there!
@disgrief2 жыл бұрын
i loved this duo so much
@kennybegeske88242 жыл бұрын
I'm Glad You're Talkin Again Dwayne
@HiIThinkImReal3 жыл бұрын
I was going into high school when I first watched this movie. This scene had a massive impact on me.
@AnnieBornAgain6 жыл бұрын
Love Steve Carell my favourite actor and handsome too.
@Sakura-zu4rz4 жыл бұрын
I really love this movie. This is My favorite movie, because this is the first movie I had ever watched. “You know what a loser is? A real loser is somebody that is so afraid of not wining they do not even try. Now, you’re trying, right?”
@alextorres76554 жыл бұрын
Steve carell has always been such a good actor
@rafammuhaimin294 жыл бұрын
Paul Dano really has a pretty smile
@jessewilliams76614 жыл бұрын
This film is genuinely perfect. On all levels. It’s flawless.
@tammy15982 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@gabigirl41611 ай бұрын
I love their interaction here. Steve Carell’s character would totally be such a influence on Paul Dano’s character in the movie was such an awesome movie.
@calowenby16542 жыл бұрын
1:42 was the only line I really remembered being that funny in this scene, but there’s a lot of nice humor here. Great movie.
@ceaelum Жыл бұрын
"if I wanna fly I'll find a way to fly." I watched this movie for the first time almost ten years ago and this quote gave me so much hope and encouragement. I was actually going through the most difficult period of my life. however I feel so much more helpless now. I tried many ways to fly and got no results. I am sorry that I am no longer sure of my desire to fly.
@carollutz8253 Жыл бұрын
I love that scene so much. LOVE that movie!!
@randomuploadsism4 жыл бұрын
I wish there were more more moves like this, it was my favourite when I was about 19 and I had it on DVD 📀
@patrickblack4992 Жыл бұрын
This. Right here. Is the heart of the movie.
@sahharhafiz15963 жыл бұрын
Steve Carell should have won an Oscar for this performance
@Maximus-ke5wm5 жыл бұрын
Such wonderful acting.
@nympspanaguiton21053 жыл бұрын
Fun fact: Paul Dano was 21 years old in this movie.
@RedMoonSolitary4 жыл бұрын
Tons of familial chemistry in this scene, it's awesome
@dvach6352 Жыл бұрын
very powerful scene. we learn through suffering. I've forgotten the truth in this
@links59574 жыл бұрын
THis was my all time favorite movies back in high school. remember my older brother let me borrow the DVD I seen it so many times.
@bryanclark90743 жыл бұрын
Amazing scene, brilliant actors and great film👏
@ashleyspratlin18117 жыл бұрын
Mm, Paul Dano.
@isathesmall44417 жыл бұрын
me too holy heckers
@DikzIndo003 жыл бұрын
this scene always have a special place in my heart
@MarkSmith-js2pu5 жыл бұрын
When you are sorry to see the movie end, it a great movie
@marinadrai66973 жыл бұрын
This is my favourite movie ever
@Mandrake5914 жыл бұрын
One of the best scenes in one of the best movies ever!
@fluteloopsyd2 жыл бұрын
What a brilliant movie
@usualchaos Жыл бұрын
I watched this movie way too young and it meant so much to me but now again watching it at 27 this movie means so much more
@lakechocolate97856 жыл бұрын
Moral to take: do what you love, and f*** the rest.
@ladies_man217.3 жыл бұрын
He looks like the Mayors son off Horton Hears A Who🤣
@Slice20992 жыл бұрын
Michael Scott and the Riddler
@user79664 ай бұрын
fav scene in any movie
@Rin-jy9gg Жыл бұрын
When Dwayne says he wants to sleep till he's 18 that spoke to my soul. I say stuff like that all the time
@itsjemmabond3 жыл бұрын
"Do what you love, and f*** the rest." Exactly.
@SSJRadioBluth7 ай бұрын
This & Dan in Real Life. Show how truly amazing of an actor Steve Carell is. Spectacular showing by Agent Michael Scarn. Dude retired and became a world class comedian and actor. Thank you for your service!
@Sun_and_Sea_3 жыл бұрын
Beat clip ever. Thank you op. 😊
@whatintheworld79343 жыл бұрын
This scene has impacted me in more ways than anyone could know
@jonathanssg3 жыл бұрын
This is depresing, im having a terrible existencial crisis and i cant see any way to justify it. Cant say is great to suffer.
@jessehenderson29672 жыл бұрын
Getting out of Highschool was the best thing that ever happened. I know so many people who wish to go back, yeah sure the innocence is fun I guess, but having 0 freedom isnt. No money, no time, nothing for ME.
@BathysphereMechanic2 жыл бұрын
I totally vibe with this but I could've done some things differently that would've helped me presently. I'm doing fine now though lol
@rfm26733 ай бұрын
my favorite scene in the whole movie
@drjithinlal3 жыл бұрын
This scene has a separate fan base
@annchovy98423 жыл бұрын
Wdym?
@drjithinlal3 жыл бұрын
The philosophy they are discussing here is invaluable.. & many people find this scene as the GYST of the movie.. for these reasons the scene have a separate fan base
@byronic-heroine6 ай бұрын
@@drjithinlalIs gyst an acronym for something?
@DrakeBrunette7 ай бұрын
I think it depends on the type of suffering. But overall, I agree wholeheartedly. Suffering is a great teacher if you decide to learn from it.
@catrocastre82154 жыл бұрын
I love that movie for that scene.
@romankotas4482 жыл бұрын
It’s the middle of finals in my last semester of college, I am struggling not to fail to classes and I desperately needed this scene
@baylee86592 жыл бұрын
1 month later, how did your finals end up going?
@romankotas4482 жыл бұрын
@@baylee8659 I graduated
@shamus248 Жыл бұрын
Probably the most powerful scene in the film
@jihangamal58233 жыл бұрын
Remembering laughs and good times with my dear uncle when I watch this scene.
@brendsbirdseyeview69824 жыл бұрын
Always here for this
@karami88444 жыл бұрын
I think about this scene every time I pass by this pier. It’s just across from my work place.
@borderlilly3 ай бұрын
"you're not nearly as stupid as you look" I love this
@clarah63183 жыл бұрын
Love this scene
@mikrosvoudas216 жыл бұрын
Steve Carrel talking to Elliot Smith :)
@rainbowslushy22311 ай бұрын
thank you mid western emo bands for sampling this movie
@orlablack24129 ай бұрын
Which song?
@estebanquinones59183 жыл бұрын
"I mean high school? Those are your suffering years. You don't get better suffering then that" the biggest truth spoken.
@firmannugraha82367 жыл бұрын
do everyone always love the closing song after some inspiring or memorable old movie scene in moviecut?
@theiceman69416 жыл бұрын
I love what Dwayne says; but before? I wish I had never suffered. For SOME of us, even with learning, it did NO GOOD. Inability to function is not worth the knowledge of why one can't.