living alone after a breakup

[@gwynethrees1215]

I’m crying dude. “You can’t force healing” This video is so powerful. God I love Ava so much.

[@alesiadhivra1515]

Might be just me, but Ava is currently flurishing into the best version of herself. I look up to her so much while growing up!

[@caitlynsmith420]

My heart broke when I saw the title of this video☹️

[@cru1743]

why?

[@alicesanchezz]

Same 😭

[@anovi1031]

@@cru1743 there is literally no reason, they are being dramatic

[@leahgpearl]

the gasp i let out

[@niamhrice2698]

I used to watch all of your videos from like 2019 to 2020. For some reason, I stopped, I probably didnt have enough time. Randomly I just now thought about Ava Jules and I thought 'I wonder what she's doing?' and when I searched you up I saw that 15 minutes ago you had posted this video. Ava, you mean so much to me and you kept me company during the darkest part of my life. You are amazing, and I love to see you being so open and vulnerable. I'm so sorry to hear this and I hope you're okay

[@avajules]

HELLO welcome back!!

[@mercysangma2805]

Wow me too! I came back after like 2 yrs n saw this

[@katiemclaughlin8787]

Thanks for sharing Ava. For anyone dealing with this, I have one perspective that might help. it took me over 2 years of mourning a breakup to realize that I was mostly mourning a past version of MYSELF. Of course you change when someone important leaves your life. Once I accepted that the old me is gone (and we’re always changing no matter what anyways), I started to feel a lot better. Hope this helps someone! Of course Ava was spot on too.

[@islaedoran]

thankyou so much, i have felt more upset about the loss of the person i was, my ex was a part of me yk? when he left part of me did too and it has been a couple of months and im realising this exact thing. thankyou so much.

[@Exotixa]

Woah, this put a lot into perspective!!!

[@ninanegedu]

I love how you’re open to us and showing us ways to heal and show up for ourselves regardless of what we’ve gone or are currently going through. Thank you for teaching us to rise over our situations and be strong. Much love, Ava ❤️

[@rosebarrera4663]

I’m so sorry to hear about your break up. You are an amazing and independent woman. ❤️

[@karapullig7055]

Hey Ava, I am going through a breakup. My two year relationship just ended and I’m so glad I’m not alone. I’m so sorry that you are going through this. It’s so hard. But not being alone is such a blessing. Please keep these videos coming. They are helping me so so much. I love you and I appreciate you ❤️

[@Shquiggly]

letting yourself have emotions is so important, especially being angry!! after I got cheated on I was so quick to excuse the behaviour and understand their actions. I had the most wonderful therapy session where my therapist got me so riled up, it really motivated me to move on and focus on me. You look so healthy and well Ava, love this era for you!! 😆

[@julieonthego]

I’m glad that you’re sharing your experience with your breakup with us. I know it’s scary to open up in this vulnerable way but it definitely helps me and a lot of other people. Also matcha era!!! Love that

[@laurenmckay9139]

Ava is breath of fresh air, currently going through a break up and this brightens my night.

[@jeemaarts]

i went through a break up 9 months ago & what ava said so many things that i resonated with. please just grief for the loss of this person who is still alive. to go from talking to someone everyday to not talking at all, it’s going to hurt. take it second by second, minute by minute, day by day. heaven is cheering you on today tomorrow and forever. today will end and tomorrow will start again. keep going.

[@katiekerrigan5050]

Thank you for this video. I am in the same situation - just went through a hard breakup and living alone as a 22 year old. It is hard and is lonely but this video reminded me that I am not alone and this will all pass. Thank you, ava. Your videos are amazing.

[@mtlycru]

Needed this bc im going through a break up 2 weeks after moving out alone, no longer in contact w my family, and had to go through major surgery alone. I love you Ava❤️

[@katieakin9397]

Aww I hope you’re feeling okay. Sending you love and support ❤

[@nerea7372]

Hope you’re doing ok!❤

[@Aliciable]

Wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. I know everything will look up for you soon love

[@sanjanatatikonda9156]

I’m so sorry to hear that but I hope you’re doing a little better day by day. Sending you so much love hope it all gets better

[@jakehart6425]

Im so sorry

[@kaylaeldred8095]

I’ve never commented for some reason even though I watch every one of your videos and listen to every podcast. We moved into apartments at the same exact time, we’re about the same age, and I just relate to you so much. Especially your tips on how to deal with loneliness and boredom when moving out have been so helpful. Idk why I’ve never commented this before because I think it every time I watch one of your videos. I just hope you know I’m proud of you, you’ve helped me so much over the years, and i love you!! You’re like the big sister I never had! You’ll get through this❤️

[@yasmeenallouch5258]

Personally, I love how this isn’t like other break up videos, where the person sits in front of the camera and just explains the relationship and why the couple broke up and what’s to be expected in the future. Instead, you showed us and explained many ways of coping and getting through a very tough and vulnerable time. I love how you touched on essentially all parts of a break up, from the first few days, to the emotional roller coaster that’s to be expected, to tips on how to get through it. Thank you for being so open and transparent with us and thinking of ways to help your viewers, even though you yourself are going through a rough patch💕💕 we love and appreciate you mounds and are here for you like you are here for us.

[@nataliabankoski221]

Thank you for being vulnerable ❤ break ups really suck lmao, but keeping an Optimistic and positive mindset can take you so much farther than you think. In 2020 I went through the worst breakup of my life so far, and taking myself on mini trips to be in nature with only myself really did wonders for my kind and soul. So much healing can happen from just being outside and being present with the earth ❤️😊

[@kategilmore6936]

Eva is in her “calling everything an era” eta and I’m honestly here for it…as someone who’s going through a similar season of life I really appreciate your transparency & focusing on the growth of being independent. Cheering you on girl!

[@emilyhaustein1453]

Not an hour after the breakup I called my sister, and she said sonething that really struck me. My phone died in the midst of our conversation, just after she had voiced it. I used it as a mantra when I walked the streets back home, with every step a memory of him unfolded... "Every moment that passes, it gets better."

[@rachelraccuglia1962]

your channel is literally such a comfort to me

[@ariyuhnana]

I've also been going through a breakup. And I must say, you and Lindsay Rae has definitely been one the ones to really help me cope up, heal, and accept things the way it is. I feel like I'm going through this journey with the both of you, and that has definitely been really comforting for me. Thank you, for using your platform in the best way possible. We'll all get through this together, day by day. ♡

[@hollychapman7137]

ava has been through so much these last few months and I just want to say how proud I am that she has took time 4 herself throughout all of this and now can share the tips she used with people around her! we ♥️ u ava!

[@mihaelaclaudiap..2]

Seeing you uploading was the highlight of my day Eva, now let's see what you have for us today! happy to hear that your healing process is going well, unfortunately I cannot really say the same, but I remain positive! :)

[@carmenonline7374]

Ava*😉❤️

[@solus8685]

Girl it's Ava* 😩

[@danielacmoran]

I love how honest and real you keep it Ava! You are so relatable and I wish you the best, you are truly thriving and so inspiring to me!!! ❤

[@Mkeita]

You just described every single thing I did after my breakup and honestly I’m so proud to say that I’ve let go of that pain and I am doing so much better❤ « all that love you want to give to others, pour it into yourself » has been my mantra for the past 2 years

[@michaelperfect]

You'll get through this Ava. We're all here to support you 💚

[@jerseygirl6221]

It’s so good to see you doing well and finding things that make you feel better🥺 I haven’t been through a break up but I definitely had a really rough time during the pandemic with bouts of depression and anxiety and dealing with loss so I totally understand the space you’re in of just getting back to you and making new memories, love to see it girl! Also, those new balances are fire🤩

[@mckenziejohnson5946]

Ava, I JUST got out of a 5-year relationship as a 21 year old living alone in a bigger city. I’m in nearly the exact same position as you and I can’t tell you how much this video helped me. Thank you so much for being real! You’re not alone girl🤍

[@owamistanley]

Even though I have never gone through a break up I can't imagine it being easy so thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings with us :)

[@earthangel614]

Girl! THAT GLOW? THAT SMILE!! Sometimes the beauty comes from the darkness

[@jeannelle_]

Yes rearranging your space def can make it seem like you're in a new space again! You fall in love with your place again and it's much needed!

[@mimmiihanamaki749]

this new chapter of your life is so difficult but the way you’re handling these changes is so inspiring ❤ thank you for sharing these things with us, i definitely needed this video AND the whole living alone series ❤

[@mikayladelacypeek]

Went through a breakup yesterday. Things really do find you at the right time

[@ainsleykeating1593]

journaling the progression of my feelings and the ups & downs really helped me. Also self-care and spending time with family and friends who love you

[@justeezzyy]

Thank you Ava for sharing how you’re getting through this tough time, I needed to hear this. I am getting through a very recent break up now, after 5 years of being with my best friend. The hardest part for me is trying to focus on the very real & still true reasons of why we decided to break up. I find myself getting caught in hundreds of great memories we shared over the years. This advice might not help everyone‘s specific situation, but whether it ended on good or bad terms, I feel there is a way to reflect positively. When I find myself struggling because of good memories, I try to flip the narrative & think “I am so grateful to have shared an amazing relationship with such an incredible person. I am truly lucky for this experience we shared.” or “I’m happy for all that this relationship has taught me about myself & I get to walk away & create the best version of myself.” To anyone going through this: Whatever your personal situation may be, I hope that you find the strength to realize there is more out there for you & you deserve that happiness!

[@dreaplascencia]

Did not go through a breakup but my sister whose 2 years older than me moved away and transferred to Pepperdine University. Definitely realizing I have to learn to do life alone, cause we did everything together! Anyways yess girl time to find independency 👏🏼💖

[@peachblend]

Thank you so much for sharing this ❤ I’m currently dealing with the aftermath of being dumped after over 3 years, and this video has given me some hope that I won’t feel as helpless soon. Thank you for being so open about your healing 💕💕💕

[@myamichele]

i’m so proud of you ava!

[@rays8081]

Your vlogs literally represents life when you move out on your own and go through things

[@annabelampuja6710]

This vlog was much needed Ava ❤ I’m going through a difficult situation with my partner of 4 years, we love eachother SO much and want to have a future together but we both need space to grow alone rn and learn to love ourselves and not be dependent solely on eachother for happiness - so we are not in communication rn and haven’t talked in over a week. The past week has been so hard to not be able to but I’ve been focusing on my health and going to the gym. I’ve been doing cleanses to fix my gut health. I redecorated my room and deep cleaned my closet and bathroom- getting rid of anything that didn’t make me happy. I’ve been reading more (finished a book finally) even though before this I was in a reading rut for a few months. I’ve also been spending more time with my fam even though I haven’t been able to talk about the situation yet I still feel better knowing I have loving family and friends who are always there for me. Not sure what the outcome will be and if we will reconcile or not but knowing that things will be okay if we don’t make me feel so much less scared for the future. Thanks for the tips Ava 💞 it’s so amazing to listen to you because you’re so real and truly feel a friend to all of your subscribers 😊

[@marianapena4620]

Going through the exact same thing right now with my partner of 5 years. It truly is horrible and gut wrenching. We are also not talking and it’s been a week. I don’t know what the future will hold, but we got this ❤.

[@stella6671]

ava! i love your content so so much, and it always helps me gain a different outlook on things! i struggle with depression, anxiety and an eating disorder and your videos help me through those things so so much!! i love your content and hope you keep doing what makes YOU happy. take care, i hope youre okay xx

[@Janelleh10]

I was so sad to see the title but then I clicked on it but you still glowed so I very happy to see you heal and be happy

[@helenatube]

I'm 30 yo saying this - Ava, you are so wise. You get it. There's things you understand that people much older than you still don't. No wonder you have such a strong following! Keep shining

[@tatumwildcat123]

Can't wait to see how you grow through this journey Ava! Wishing you well!

[@Itzamyzeng]

I personally love whenever you say ___ eras! Would be so cute to have even a tote bag that says “I’m in my _____ era”

[@raya2684]

I feel like having ended a 4-month long-distance relationship is nothing compared to the the longer and more memory-filled comments here. But it burns all the time, and it feels like an empty hole where we could have been something and I felt like he was the one for me. I’m sorry to hear about everyone else and to see Ava having to go through this, but she reflects such a positive outlook on this and it’s really uplifting

[@rachelcade6421]

Can we just take a minute to appreciate how much effort and time Ava puts into her videos and yet she still manages to run a business, like you got girl!! If she truely loves her job xx

[@sophia-elyse]

it’s crazy how this is so in sinc with my life. i also just had a horrible breakup and this has helped a lot.

[@madisonauer1365]

this is probably one of my favorite videos you have ever made. i loved everything about it - your tips, the realness, and your positivity are all so inspiring 🤍 thank you for sharing your light and with the world!

[@emilyellen5004]

you're honestly such a big sister, I love watching your videos, and some of the things said in this one help so much since going through my first heart break, thank you ✨️

[@megumifushiguro4632]

Proud of you and your maturity in this situation

[@giuliacaloni5156]

This video gave me so much hopes… not in a break up, just weird situations with friends that don’t make me feel good

[@saresdumptruck]

i’m healing from a 4 year relationship that was so toxic and i didn’t realize it until i left. i love seeing your self-care journey. it really is a hot girl era

[@VeraEnting]

you feel like a big sister. I love u so much Ava

[@jahzell.m]

such great & beautiful advice, as always 🫶🏼 i love you so much ava and i’m so happy that you’re doing much better and flourishing 💌

[@joselynmarie]

i never needed a video more. woke up to a "hey girly ik you dont know me" text and my heart is shattered. i want to heal like you. ily

[@JamiesCameras]

what??? omg I’m so sorry… no one deserves that.. hugs from the Midwest. this feeling will not last forever.

[@emmatacc_]

however I LOVE that you’re in so many different eras! it really shows your true personality and it’s so cute!

[@malavika.anoop1]

Im going through a break too(mutual and just what's best for both of us) and you told so many things that helped me . Im literally having waves of emotions where i feel okay and like I'm dying. Thankyou so much for this.

[@michellefrate]

Thank you for sharing some of your experience with us and the encouraging words 🥺 I recently went through a breakup too, even posted a video about it on my channel too, but lately things have been more low than high. Your video reminded me that this will also pass and better things are coming 🧡

[@musicclarenson8953]

“It’s just a piece of your world” that really stuck out to me💙 wow

[@imunderyourbed1645]

got this notification and was SHOCKED at the title

[@mmnom1587]

I'm so grateful that I'm able to access content like this. Thank you for sharing! :)

[@emmawac2403]

I was about to go to bed, saw that you posted a new video and it just made my day right before it was over

[@survivalsilk2101]

ava you are an angel!! thank you for letting us all grow with yoU!!

[@noagracious]

ava, this week my first and only relationship ended after 3 and a half years. these videos could not have come at a better time. thank you for your example. here's to all of our healing.

[@alexandra-zk2tl]

my boyfriend just broke up with me, like 4 days ago. it’s horrible but i know i’ll get trough it! he’s already moving on and that’s killing me. but this video is great to remember our self worth ❤

[@naliseroman3117]

Ava , thank you honestly for being so raw and true with us. I honestly appreciate it as I have been dealing with a breakup as well and you sharing all of this is truly helping me ❤ I love you loads❤❤ Keep being and doing you because your amazing !

[@zaidabrock1167]

Its almost like you saw me in my room last night and lnew exactly what i needed to feel better

[@madisonsylura825]

We're here for ya ava!! Stay positive ✨️🌊🌺☀️

[@fatiniizack7887]

I can’t believe it has been 9 months since you moved in to your own new house and it looks soooo cool too!!! I remembered I watched your videos long ago and waiting till your house fully furnished but life hits me hard and I’ve been so busy and didn’t realise that it has been 9 months and your house is done. I MISSED YOU GURLLLLL❤❤❤

[@jessmacdd]

my current bedroom reminds me so much of the person i used to be. so many people have been in my current room that i have no connection with and never want to speak to again, and my room looks the same as it did when they were in it. when my friends moved houses as kids, they would usually get to give their new room a makeover. i never did; we would keep all the old stuff and just to rearrange it in the new space. i leave for uni in the fall and i am itching to create a space that is mine and mine alone, fresh and new. my current room is definitely having a negative effect on my headspace and has for many years.

[@mianaylor3309]

coming to this video the day after I broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years😕 i really needed to hear this advice and makes me feel more hopeful because everything right now feels so confusing and dark

[@kianataylor8289]

Me 7 months after a break up and still healing😭. Wishing you all the best in ur healing journey

[@jillyanvanmeter7802]

Sunday mornings are better with a new video from you!

[@laurenfox4233]

AVA!!!! I love this content you’ve been making, I am also going through a break up it’s been about 5 months but it’s still rough. Thank you for opening up about this on your platform! And BITCH EMBRACE THE ERA PHASE I LOVE!!! After my break up I declared I was in the slay era! Love you queen

[@kileymack3703]

love this era for you babe, never stop saying era!!!!!

[@jenice7592]

Not tired of hearing “era” will continue to say it

[@sophiekudla7590]

i’m going through a break up rn too, and this video means the world to me. i love you sm and all the advice is 10/10

[@livvsaufferer]

i needed this so much rn. its not rlly a breakup but its close enough, so thank you i reeeeeally needed to hear this

[@ninafiona754]

tha QUEEN is popping off with those dance moves

[@poprostu8643]

i am also going through a breakup right now. i think i have already passed the time of the biggest grief but i am still hurt and still healing. thanks for sharing:) some things you mentioned i have already done and i feel like they worked super well. but hearing you talk about it made me so sure about my healing and about the steps i'm taking right now. hope we both will get out of this moment stronger. loths of love from Poland. xoxo

[@MassielMancebo]

The Pit Bull song quote 🤌🏽💀💀💀😂

[@sarahgolden9900]

Hi Ava! I have been a huge fan for so long, and I was so sad when I heard the news. Around a week after I heard about your breakup, my boyfriend of almost 2 years ended things because of long distance. Your advice has been so helpful and I always hear your voice in my head when I’m wallowing telling me to explore all the new possibilities and to put all that energy and love back into me. Sending you lots of love and comfort as you continue to go through this wild journey❤

[@senay7881]

you're doing amazing. your videos are also getting me through my stressful school times and college apps

[@isets7192]

I LIVE by this quote and it’s knowing that everything happens for a reason, if you are too going through a breakup know that this is was meant to happen to you to teach you something and that better things are coming your way 🧡 another one is that in life sometimes we need to remove people in our lives to make space for the right people to come in 💗 everything happens for a reason xx

[@Nesrinebt289]

I was going throw life and I just got the news of you breaking up. No matter what people say you gonna prioritise your self first 🥰 LOVE YOU and thank you for sharing this with us ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@barbarapereira2457]

Soooo freakinggg gooddd!! I'm not going througt a breakup but there are some thoughts that I been having that need to go out and this video with ava saing "just a day at a time" help. Thanks and I can't wait from the next video

[@PeachyQueen.1000]

ava in all her eras is the cutest things ever! go off queen xx

[@mariamonique300]

As a person coming from a long relationship too.. girl, distraction is key. And what helped me too is to remind yourself why you broke up with him. Remember the bad things than the good. Helped me cuz he was toxic af

[@shekiray2328]

Quoting Pitbull at the end was chef kiss 🤌🏽

[@briahwelch7256]

aw ava i’ve followed you for so long. i’ve fell out of watching your content but i’m glad ur growing

[@danidolbow]

You are easily in my top 3 favorite influencers. i feel like i can always relate to you in all seasons of life. currently going through a breakup as well (lol turn up) and i feeeeeeelll you girl

[@julietswimmer7085]

I literally love ava in her going out era

[@thepityscene]

watching ava’s vlogs feel like a big day of sunshine shining on you 🫶🏻

[@estella9525]

YOUR SO BRAVE! todays vlog was a vibe

[@ThoroughbredCrAzY15]

you have no idea how much the breakup content helps cause its the hardest part of life I've experienced

[@ThoroughbredCrAzY15]

even had to rewatch cause inspiration to be myself was too strong :)

[@alliebrown3056]

Breakups are rough ❤ sending love! Stay strong girlie :)

[@Mazugraduate]

I love how you are handling it all too well. , I know how it feels everyday , time will heals everything ❤️

[@shreya2283]

Oh no, I'm so sorry about you and Connor and I hope you're doing great ❤

[@senta.louisa]

I love this Ava! So open and honest 💗