Living With Bladder Exstrophy And Mental Health

In this Video i am going to be chatting about Bladder Exstrophy And Mental Health and how Mental Health can play apart in living with Bladder Exstrophy
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Song: Twin Musicom
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[@skpadalecki]

This is a great video. Always speak your truth! I admire you for doing this video!

[@MatthewPhillipGeorgeWrigley]

fnf x bastsabar think you for your kind words and i well keep on speaking the truth

[@c.w.4804]

Wonderful job! I'm very proud of you! I know it's not easy but you're doing it.

[@MatthewPhillipGeorgeWrigley]

Oh Think You C.W what kind words keep a eye out as i well be making more on BE staff soon

[@catherinehughes6822]

I'd never heard of this before... thank you for sharing your experience. You would make a great consumer representative if you ever wanted to go down that path, providing feedback and advice to improve the healthcare system in Australia.

[@MatthewPhillipGeorgeWrigley]

Think you for your kinds words Catherine that i good to her that from you

[@MatthewPhillipGeorgeWrigley]

All so i am going to making new Videos about this more so if you like what i am making you can and give us a sub if you like but you don't have to i do understand

[@brahimbouazza7734]

It is getting the best of me unfortunately Very hard to put a smile on your face when you wake up everyday with the same defect😞😞😞😞

[@MatthewPhillipGeorgeWrigley]

@brahimbouazza7734 Hi and think you for you comment I know life is hard and i do understand what you are saying but rember this is all way help out there I am all ways her if you need to chat From Matthew

[@phaseit-ko6dm]

Hi Matthew I really hope you'll read this comment, I just discover you and I think that I really think that I'm one of those who can deeply understand you because it's 25 years that I live with the same condition. I'll try to share my experience (sorry for my English, I'm Italian) i was born with bladder extrophy and epispadias, I'm one of those who is considered "lucky" because I've had only 5 surgery and now except for bladder infections, I'm almost fine fiscally but not mentally. For my experience I think that people born with bladder extrophy (including myself obviously) are pretty false whit themself and the others and I say that not only in a bad way. When I was a teen I surely started to be attracted to the other sex but I don't know if it is because I was not really mature but I didn't worry about what the girls that I met think about me and my condition. I even start a relationship with my first girlfriend and I was happy for 2 years. After some time when she cheated on me saying that I wasn't really a "man" and we break up (I was 17 at the time) I start to think deeply about my condition and how it effect my sentimental life and my relationship also with my group of friend. I start to blame myself for being born with this condition and i really began to think that at the end of the day I was not worthy of a relationship and to be happy with someone of the opposite sex. After a year I met another girl and I started another relationship that will end the same way of the other after 1 year and an half and for the same reason. At 20 I met another girl who I thought she was comprehensive and deep but after another year the relationship ended the same way of the others but after that I don't know if it was because I was more mature I start to feel mentally bad, I had panic attacks, nervous breakdown when I can't breathe or move. Now I'm 25 and I really can't think of how false we are with ourself: when we feel good is because we don't think deeply at how this pathology effect our lives for example for sure its happened to a lot of us that when you're going out with a group of friends to know some girls you end up in the situation where you don't know what to do because if you met someone that maybe wants to sleep with you, you don't know what will be her reaction (to me happened a lot of times that we ended up in bed but they say that they never experienced something like that and that they don't know if they were able to have sex with me, like I was a sorta of a coursed man). I think that we live In a double reality, we think that we are ok when our minds are oriented in some other ways for example like study or work but when we think about our condition we surely start to contemplate suicide because at the end we live in a society were man like us will always be a lot of step under the others. We fake our lives to think that someday something will change but we know that it's impossible. We see society moving towards gender equality and doing campaign to sensitize on women physical condition like endometriosis and we see them been depicted like heroes who can fight every problem but we are always considered, also after a lot of surgery (some of that very serious and invasive), pain and emotional damage less than a man. Sorry for my pessimist view of life but I think that to be healthy we need to look deeply at reality. Happy Christmas Matthew, hope you'll fight everyday.

[@MatthewPhillipGeorgeWrigley]

@phaseit-ko6dm @phaseit-ko6dm Think you for your comment on my Video I understand where you are coming from with life and life for us was not met to be easy but with our BE friends we can get through this is going to be hard but we can do it it tacks time but we can all ways try and get help when we need it if you need some one to chat wirh i am all ways her Have a rely nice day if you can From Matthew